Matot Masei: The Absolute Truth Behind Sins - STUMP THE RABBI (211)

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bid the book of numbers are very often read together this year being one of them double parasa week and really uh most of our focus is going to be on uh you know mat uh but also we're going to go into other parts of the tanak uh and other parts of the teaching of the sages uh in order to really understand uh the the question at hand now after winning the war against the evil Midian the Midian people that uh sent all of their women to cause am Isel to uh to sin to cause am Isel to commit immorality to you know waste seed to a uh worship idols literally they uh nearly caused is Toom become annihilated uh similar to what's happening with the Israeli government right now where literally they're putting the sit they're putting the country the people in a position where we are on a brink of a civil war not only are they fighting against the tah but they're also fighting against the people themselves where just today just today things got even worse where we uh news came out that not only are they now uh arresting the soldiers that sacrificed their life to fight for the country to protect the people they're arresting them for potential potential uh uh possibilities that they abuse the terror ists the very same terrorists that did all the horrible things that they did that on October 7th but uh and obviously during this whole War the terrorists that are trying to kill more of us but they're arresting the soldiers the Israeli soldiers but if that wasn't bad enough which we discussed yesterday news came out that where are they getting their uh their Witnesses their testimony they're calling other terrorists that have already been freed other Terror terrorists that are still there and asking them asking them were you treated properly did you get your food on time did they uh speak to you not a nice way so our boys our boys are in the Army are fighting for the country are sacrificing their life some of them are coming home without legs without arms without eyes without the ability to bring kids to the world our boys that are sacrificing their life you're putting them in jail and based on what the words of the same of the enemy this is going to bring a civil war this is going to bring a civil war if it's not stopped by literally by the hand of a this is going to bring a civil war so in the same way that they're creating Havoc according to all opinions literally this is the Israeli judicial Force this is itself same concept happened with the midan they nearly got all of us annihilated because they caused to go against just like the beginning of the starts where we are uh we are in a position we're in a position where we have to realize that if there are instructions then mosenu always says this is the word of hem this is what Hashem said to me meaning that this is not subject to your human logic in order to determine whether you agree or disagree with it and what happens is is that after the war with the midan mosu rebukes the leaders rebukes the leaders of the Jewish people leaders of the tribes for not completing the job by not killing everybody else all of the uh all of the women and children and we'll get into that why why should you kill them why not kill them and interestingly enough as the entire Torah is always connected as I learned from my dear rabi the prote of mosu yua Bon has a similar situation during one of his Wars which actually ended up with a death penalty for the Violator now what can we actually learn from these two situations and that applies to our lives I mean most of us you know if you're watching uh me on YouTube Tik Tock Facebook you know on the on the app or any other type of media that bash were out there you're most likely not going to war anytime soon so what can you really learn from this even more so what does it all have to do with the request that was made by the tribes of ruven and God at the end of par mat where they asked to remain in the Exile because it was more comfortable for them they had had more land they uh you know they they could settle it's less risky for their family and so on and so forth this and many more questions we will address today so in the beginning of the par we learn a very valuable lesson which we've discussed many times over the years that the signature of a is emit is truth and therefore each and every single time that mosenu teaches am is Allah he tells the people this is from Hashem meaning this is the truth not what you think is the truth not what your girlfriend thinks is the truth not what your boyfriend thinks is the truth not what your parents thinks is the truth this is the truth why Hashem said it there is no other truth and if you want to be on the good side of a according to whatever comes out of your mouth you shall do meaning whatever you say also has to be true why Hashem hates lies he hates liars and the par starts off with the vow the mitvah of making a you know whether a vow is uh subject to to uh to be nullified or not and of course everyone that reads that that part of the Paras you know it doesn't necessarily apply to most people to those people that it does apply to you've made a mistake by making a vow why are you making vows I remember nimen would always say people that make vows are stupid why you don't know what's on the line if you break that vow thear says that a person that makes a vow a Jew specifically uh but uh I think this there's an issue also with go but needless to say with Jews Jews that make a vow and break it he could lose his his wife can die now of course I know that some of you that are in miserable marriage are saying okay so Rabbi what's exactly the instructions of making a vow right now I understand and then some of the women are telling me well Rabbi does this also apply to the women can we do that on our husbands no this is not a way to kill people but again when you understand what's on the line you don't mess with vows but when a person learns the first part of the Paras they realize that these rules do not make human sense they make Divine sense these are the laws of God and no one has a problem with it no one has a problem with it and right after we see how am is goes to war to exact retribution for the children of isra from the midan and say in the in the name of the um nees and the that the retribution of justice of hashem's people is really not Seeking Justice for uh the uh the name of hem only but also Seeking Justice for who ended up dying as a result of the MIM causing us to sin Asim teaches us someone that causes another Jew to sin is worse than a murderer because one that murders kills the body whereas one that causes others to sin kills the soul and the soul is supposed to live forever but sins could literally cause that soul to be in a unfortunate situation forever so after this war mosenu also teaches us the laws of how to go to war where it says for every thousand soldiers that go to battle there has to be 1,000 Torah Scholars learning tah for their benefit every Jew that understands the value of Torah should have a Torah scholar learning for them uh every single day every person that understands the value of Torah knows that there's no way that you can study enough in fact the even say that uh that a person shouldn't even rely on his own Torah even if he is himself a is a Torah scholar he still should help another Torah scholar with whatever he can financially to fill up all those gaps where you're you're not learning why because says you're supposed to learn day and night so a person that understands the value of Torah will literally invest whatever they can to make sure that a Torah scholar is learning for them every single day if they can't afford to to do a every day then at the very least do part of the month do something either way the uh Army of mosenu goes to battle with 12,000 soldiers why we don't need the entire Army of 600,000 to go to war we have the blessing of Hashem so to show the is the minimal human effort we'll send a thousand of each tribe and then the real weapon of mass destruction that will protect us that will defeat the enemy is the Torah schols another thousand for each tribe are going to learn toah that's how we win the war that's how we win the war and that's exactly what happens they go to destroy the the the enemy now for anybody who thought that maybe they went with 12,000 but the median name only had you know 5,000 people that's why they won the war wrong that's why later on in the specifically gives us details of the spoils details of the enormous massive amount of donkeys and sheep and gold and and and slaves that they ended up getting just the uh the remaining uh servants that came out were in the tens of thousands and this is after destroying all everybody so after this war we see that am Isel won against a massive Army a 100 times bigger than the amount of people that went to war but with the blessings of Hashem who could defeat you but unfortunately the instructions were not followed completely is as the Tor says in chapter 31:7 the ared for battle against midan asem has commanded Moshe and they killed every male including all of the Kings bam benol and the children of is took captive the women of midan and their small children and and for this the Torah says in verse number 14 Moshe became angry at the ones appointed over the Army the leaders of the thousands and the leaders of the hundreds who came back from the Legion of battle and Moshe said to them did you let every female live what's the problem is it not what we typically do the males is who we kill women leave him alone what can they do mhu is angry and say this anger was literally from his he was in pain for the mistake that was made he was in pain for the mistake that am is made and he tells them behold it was they meaning the women who caused the children of Israel by the Council of bam to commit falsehood before hasem regarding the matter of PE and as a result a plague occurred in the Assembly of Israel so now kill every male among the small children and every woman who has known a man by lying with a male you shall kill M raenu issues a decree of decree massive death penalty for all of these enemies you're not allowed to have mercy in war if you have mercy on the wicked you'll ultimately be evil against the righteous this is what the sages teach us but the question is why didn't they kill them why didn't they kill them they obviously know that the whole plan the whole conspiracy of balakin bam to send the women get them to be very nice to the Jewish people that came to the market caused them to drink forbidden wine caused them to commit immorality caused them to worship idols this is what we've learned in the last couple the par they obviously they knew this is what happened so why didn't you kill the enemy furthermore we see that Yeshua benun has a similar issue happened Yeshua the sadik who was the gabai of mosenu following him wherever he went even to the point of waiting at the bottom of mount saai for 40 days and 40 nights not going anywhere hasem found him so beloved that he literally sent him the man to where he was Yeshua takes over after mosenu and in chapter 7 of The Book of Joshua it says that am is has to go to war against the nation of I AI not AI the artificial intelligence a i the country the nation Canaanites and again since yes knows that we may need to make some type of is he sends soldiers but since he knows that the weapon of mass destruction that am is possesses to defend itself to defeat the enemy is Always Forever going to be the Torah we don't need to send the entire Army we don't need to send 600,000 people just because they have several million he sends a few thousand and for each thousand just like his teacher mosenu for each thousand soldiers a thousand learned T but after the first battle Yeshua Bon is brought to tears why 36 Jews die they're not supposed to die they're supposed to go to battle no matter how against how big of an army it doesn't matter if it's Iraq Iran it doesn't make a difference who it is doesn't matter how big they are we sent a few thousand soldiers that's more than enough to defeat any army in the world Yeshua B says the fact that 36 of us died is a problem and answers his prayer and says yes there is a problem what's the problem the problem is in verse one in chapter 7 it says the children of Israel trespassed against the consecrated property somebody stole from the possessions that were taken as a result of winning as a result as a um from the battles something that was supposed to be used to uh as a sacrifice to hasem as honoring AEM something that was donated somebody touched the staka Box somebody touched the staka box and that's a sin called m and for that Hashem says that's why I allow those people to die who is it says what do you think I'm a tattletail going to tell you who's did bad you have a system go use the this of course is the same thing it's hasem saying one way hasem telling you another way but hasem is teaching us good midot don't be a tattletail unless it's for the sake of helping somebody or protecting somebody but after they do the goral they realize that the sinner is a man named aan in verse number 15 after aan is found to be the guilty one Yeshua says to aan my son please give honor to Hashem God of Israel and confess to him tell me please what have you done do not withhold from me answers Yeshua and says indeed I have sinned against theem God of Israel thus and thus I have done I saw among the spoils a lovely Babylonian garment and 200 shekels of silver and one bar of gold 50 shekels its weight I desired them and took them and behold they are hidden in the ground within my tent with the silver beneath it so here aan says yeah you're right I'm the thief I'm the one that took it I'm the one that sinned against theem but he not afraid why he's not afraid why wouldn't somebody be afraid to sin against Jin the malim says that's because aan had a clever mind and therefore even though he was initially accused of one crime he confessed to a lot more crimes he confessed to stealing a lot more taking a lot more and even violating Shabbat but he was not afraid at this moment why wasn't he afraid the malim says because aan was clever a learned man he learned a few things so he said listen first of all I'm uh I'm used to sinning you know I'm like a you know I grew up with secular family we violated Shabbat here and there we ate non koser you know it wasn't I'm not like some big sadik I'm not like you yosua so I'm already used to sinning so okay so was another sin so can't be judged the same way as someone that's uh born from right secondly the Babylonian garment that I took that was was uh that belonged to the Babylonian King it didn't belong to the the nation of I meaning it belonged to them but they stole it from him so I figured that what's the problem of me taking it and even if you say technically I'm still not supposed to take it that's because you didn't see that's because you didn't see how beautiful this garment was it's so beautiful I literally couldn't I couldn't help myself I had to take it so of course this is like interfering with my free choice because listen it's too hard for me not to take it like some rash tells people where if you're a young guy that's single you could go and be a p breed waste seed why because it's too hard for you to protect your breed it's okay hem doesn't care let's see if Hashem doesn't care he says them I took the Babylonian garment number one it wasn't originally owned by I and isn't there like some type of you know secular people saying where somebody that steals from a thief is absolved no well they should be and anyway the only reason you're saying I shouldn't have taken it that's because you didn't see it it's so beautiful anybody would have taken it especially somebody that's been a sinner his whole life like me and last but not least I read somewhere that uh the sin is not officially a sin until you actually use the stuff I didn't get a chance to use it yet I was still hiding it these are the excuses and those a few others that aan tells Yeshua with complete confidence what was the end of a Yeshua says who have you caused us TR why have you caused us trouble Hashem will cause you trouble this day then all of Israel pelted him with stones and burned them with fire and stoned and stoned them with stones in so many words his excuses that were rational that were logical that were based on sources at least that he believed were valid yeshu didn't buy it and instituted a stoning death penalty in the case of mosenu the CLE says whenu rebuked the leaders first and foremost the Torah is teaching us that if there is a problem with the people it's because of weak leaders that are not rebuking if you're if you're betet if you're yes Shiva if your Seminary if your house your family is going against theem the first one to blame is the leader the leader is to blame why if you would have taught um the laws of God with complete truth complete commitment they would know these are the laws of God does it make sense you like don't like agree disagree this is we're dealing here with the laws of God this is not subject to interpretation so mosenu rebukes the leaders and says how is it that you allowed our people to make such a mistake and not kill the Ultimate Enemy those women that led all of the Jews to sin how could it possibly be what kind of people are you and they replied says the cleak well listen Moshe our logic was this that technically everyone knows that the midianite women caused us to sin that was not up for interpretation everybody agreed but we started delving into it further and said well really why did we even get this point well it's really because when we went and we wanted to pass through midan the men were the ones that did not allow us to pass through because they're the ones that are in charge women are not in charge of the whole country it's men that are in charge they're the ones that stopped us they're the ones that sent the women so therefore why should we kill the women but yet MOS who is still angry he does not accept their excuse even though you can say it makes logical sense rational sense and all types of other cents and even dollars why the in chapter 10 in the virtue of cleanliness says as follows the virtue of cleanliness is associated with a person who has completely cleansed himself of all bad traits and all sin this means not only the sins that are acknowledged as such and are clearly recognizable but also those that the heart has been seduced into rationalizing as permissible meaning it's not somebody that's cleansed from sins that's acquired this it's not just oh he's not making the sins that everybody knows he's not driving on Shabbat he's not wasting seed he's not cheating on his wife she's not cheating on her husband so therefore he's considered clean wrong no that's obvious that just simply means you're a kosher Jew to have the virtue of cleanliness it's not just those but also those that the heart literally is seduced to rationalizing that they're permissible once that your heart says listen there has to be a way to make this permitted well technically the Torah doesn't say outright that it's not allowed so maybe if we make it AA and all types of other Pim that people will do in order to rationalize the Forbidden in order to make it permitted in actuality says the 300 years ago when we look into the matter we will discover that the only reason he considers these things permissible is because his heart is still slightly afflicted by lustful desire he's not entirely cleansed of it and therefore it is able to entice him towards a leniency so mosenu here he's telling the leaders you can say the argument that you said all you want about how it's the fault of the men it's the fault of the this and it's not really the women but that it's not 100% admit it's not 100% admit why because even if the men said this and said that the women still could have stopped themselves from going as far as they did the women were still 100% Partners to the crime and therefore there's something smelly about the way that you concluded perhaps you wanted to marry one of these women to make her one of your maid servants to make her your pish to make her your uh something else perhaps you are rationalizing because of there's some desire that hasn't been cleansed yet now why didn't the people get the same death penalty as a did well first and foremost mhu instituted a death penalty for all of the enemies to make sure that any one of these women that has been part of the sin was eliminated from the world how did they know the mid says that the go was given the ability where through theen each woman would pass near and he would tell which one is part of the crime which one is it they don't need to look at the face they don't need to look at the body they don't need to look at anything immediately as they're passing through guilty guilty guilty guilty guilty innocent guilty guilty guilty guilty 100 of thousands of them remains some of the about I believe it was somewhere around 30,000 left though hundreds of thousands of them all guilty why the why the children as we said in our sh in Israel that even theas terrorists watched and put on the AL jazer terrorist Network when little Muhammad grows up in a house where he's taught that the Jews are the enemy and the goal of life is to kill the Jews and be a martyr to be a Jihad that means that even if you assassinate his father like we did today with the second in command of the enemy the little muhammads that are in his house are one day going to grow up to be big muhammads today he can't do anything give him a few years he'll do a whole lot mosenu is protecting the future of am is and for those that question it whether it be jew or Gentile again the Torah specifically says after all of this chapter 31: 21 this is the decree of the tah which hasem commanded Moshe just like we said at the beginning about the laws of vows that no one questions the same thing for this whether you're Jew or Gentile even if you believe in the Quran or you believe in the New Testament you also have to believe in this that there are times Where Mercy is forbidden why ask God this is the laws of God this is the laws of God you have a problem with it go ask God to take your have a discussion with you and we'll figure out from there let us know what he told you now interestingly enough after all of this was said and done we see that the children of Ren and G are said to have an abundant livestock and the say they didn't really have more than everybody else they had a lot but everybody had a lot all of am rich but they had a much deeper connection much bigger infatuation with money with materialism so when it says that they had an abundant livestock it's frowning upon it it's not sing it as a blessing it sing it as it it's a rebuke and this is the reason why they said they asked Moshe if they could be left in the Exile rather than go with all of their family and their livestock to the land of Israel and Moshe initially rebukes them are you looking to repeat the sins of the past are you saying bad things about the land and after everything is cleared up mosenu says he will allow him to do it so long as a few conditions are met number one the men have to help the rest of the nation with all of the wars that have to be fought to conquer the land of Israel and you're not allowed to abandon them until all the Wars wars are finished no matter how long it takes two you have to include Half of the tribe of mas now the first one we understand you can't just be selfish and not uh not go fight the wars of the rest of your people this is the reason why the rambam says that someone that is a removes themselves from the community and does not fast when they fast does not cry when they cry does not contribute to the community say consider the rash in the highest level of the highest degree all of is are responsible for each other so God and ren you want to live in the Exile because you want to protect your Investments you like the land whatever your reasons are fine you still have to fight the wars in second condition you have to add the tribe of man why the tribe of man not one some of the say yeah there was plenty of land so perhaps there enough room for another tribe and that's true but I also saw from one of the writings of sternbach published this week one of the that we still have the Merit to live at the same time as we still publicizing tah as if he's 20 years old with all of the difficulties and health issues he's publicizing tah with complete zealousness and and his fighting the wars of hem and he writes as follows in the name of the reab misat who said that it's not possible to survive in the Exile in the Galu without guarding The breit KES properly if you are wasting seed if you are not protecting your eyes if you're watching all types of Filth on television like movies like Netflix like the news like all types of programmingsoftware you're going to be a sinner you can say mashiah now from here until next Century it will not help you survive the war that's coming why because prophesies to the gave a prophecy to the prophet Zariah in Chapter 13 and 14 about how 2/3 of the world will be destroyed in the last third third will be refined like the refinement of gold where all of the people that deal with gold know that if you want pure gold you have to remove all of the ex extra metals and the process is beautiful to see but it's very very dangerous and if the gold had feelings it would be literally like it's in G says that the surviving thirst will have to be refined say this is also going to be a time where all of the converts that are fake are going to show their true colors the people that converted to Judaism they fooled the community they fooled the rabbis they may fooled even their spouse they fooled whoever they're now going to show their true colors that they really are they really are against theem against tah against the Jewish people how because during this refinement they're going to join the enemy they say no no no no I want to go back to Yos I want to go back to Muhammad I want to go back to worshiping adore I want to go no no I don't need to be part of this the last third refinement is going to be a very difficult process those that are not protecting the breit have zero chance zero chance of surviving what's coming says the rebbi misat we all know that to survive the the Gallos is not possible without guarding the Brit KES and of course mosenu knew this and therefore mosenu decided that the tribes of God and ruen that decided that they want to live in the galus they want to live in the Exile they must live in the vicinity of the descendants of yadik because he excelled in the attribute of preserving morality protecting his breit even in the most depra surroundings that way they would have the positive influence on the tribe of Ren and God and ensure that their lives will be conducted with modesty sanctity and Purity and therefore mosenu took half of the tribe of men says you guys are sikim sons of sikim you guys excel in protecting the breit you guys wrote the script for the tunait film so you you have to be the ones that stay next to Ren and God in order to make sure they stay because there's no way they can survive protecting their Brit without learning about without having somebody reminding them about the importance of modesty the importance of morality and r sternbach says that he remembers when AR Schneider delivered a speech in 1943 yum Kip before the crying hysterically saying that he heard from one of the people that were of luren lurbon Bal the of how he spoke about people wasting seed immorality during his n lectures once a year he would speak about it warn people not to waste seed warn people not to touch their breed warn people not to be IM modest with such passion with such awe that the entire audience on yum Kip it's almost done we're literally an hour away from the holiday being finished from everything being done and is giving everyone the entire Community is there men women and children are listening to the give about breit breit KES and the entire audience in including the children all start crying get to the point of sobbing tears to the point where they could be heard from a distance literally not just people from outside people from the community next over could hear the Kaa crying because of the fire and brimstone the kadha that's coming out of the B and therefore Schneider said that if the already found it necessary to address this issue of immorality wasting seed the the the the known sin that no one wants to talk about how much more so is it imperative to do so right now when hundreds of thousands of our brothers were being mercil mercilessly slaughtered in Europe who knows he said if this sin of wasting seed was not the cause of the Holocaust as the specifically says that wasting seed is the equivalent of shedding the blood of infants perhaps then we are being punished for this act of Cruelty on our part and he exhorted to all those that were present to make sure to protect their breit breit KES and Hashem in turn will preserve his Covenant with his Nation to protect us now if the would teach this to that point where the entire Community is crying hysterical on yum at the end of yum Kip and Schneider 80 years ago is doing the same thing in Generations before Television Internet iPhones and iPads they're teaching it how much more so are we and every leader in every Jewish Community out there in every Jewish household obligated to teach the same thing in a generation where unfortunately morality has become standard in practically every house unless it's a house of T and we see that the issue at hand that mosenu exposes here is that no one is above the sin of immorality everyone has the desire to sin with this particular sin but only some have the tools to overcome the sin and the tools require Torah Kus good parenting good teachings which include which include an understanding that you're not here to debate you're not here to win debates you're here to know what the Torah says how the sages are clarifying things and you're here to do it don't try to rationalize things that sages before you have already forsaken have already said forbidden so much so that the that even if you are to the point where you have found a way to allow something that everyone before you has said is forbidden but you have actually found a way to allow it in a permissible manner you're still not allowed to allow it why it's it's ugly to go against the tradition in such a fashion people are not going to realize that it's because you really found a real way to allow the Forbidden a person must know that the anger that came from mosenu was not an anger like when you get angry because somebody uh didn't pay you on time or somebody you know cut you off in the highway or somebody ran into you without saying apologizing no this was anger that came from his heart he's in sorrow of how could am how could am after everything we went to after everything we went through you still don't do enough to know that it's very possible that you're rationalized ing of allowing these people to live is only because of your desire don't you realize that's the reason why didn't you come to me why didn't you come to the and ask before you decided to do all of this how could you allow such a thing to happen this could only mean that although you may have found a way to rationalize it the truth is it's because of a desire that still hasn't been cleansed and it's surprising it hasn't been cleansed after all the tragedies that fell upon am Isel in the case of Yeshua Yeshua hears the arguments of aan he says listen I'm a sinner I've sinned a lot you know I grew up in a secular house I did this so obvious viously hasm is not going to judge me that way and on top of it the uh I didn't use it yet and on top of it this was something that belonged originally to the Babylonian King and on top of it it was really beautiful Yeshua benun says this is all rational falsehood that's what it is it's not truth the real truth is you had a desire for money that's the reason why you stole it it's not because you grew up as a sinner it's not because it was so beautiful it's not because you didn't all of those are excuses as smart and as they are it's all an excuse you have an addiction to materialism and a person that has an addiction to money a person that loves money will never have a l money as the says he'll never have enough money and he'll even and he want he has a 100 he'll want 200 he has 200 or W 400 and he'll he won't die with even half of what he wants it's because you did not cleanse yourself out from the sin you rationalized your lust you rationalize the evil because of the desire that you still have and that we're not buying death penalty here we see that a his laws are not going to buy the excuses that people have I grew up in a secular house my Rabbi this my wife this all of those things are simply not going to fly because we see how he gave us instructions he gave us a history he gave us a map he gave us a map for Success instruction set for success or failure if we we ignore it and a person that rationalizes things that are against the Torah is simply putting themselves in a position where they are destroying themselves on the other hand a wise person would learn from this and realize if Hashem said it it's true it must be if Hashem said it it's the best it's the ultimate good if Hashem said it whatever I think could never be true now if hasem said it that also means whatever the sages say because one of the laws of the Torah is to listen to the Sages and not try to rationalize and allow the things that are forbidden so with that being said there's much more to talk about but I'm sure you guys have a lot of questions but now we're going to answer the question that we had last week and then at the end we'll ask another one again as a reminder anyone that becomes a paid subscriber on the YouTube channel will get one of these free cups and uh doesn't matter what the level is of course we'd appreciate the more support you could do so the question was as follows ruen and Shimon were friends very good friends and there were such good friends that this whole thing was really a surprise that it even happened wovin wanted a lottery card he likes to play the lotto of course person uh has to uh has to know that uh playing the lotto there's a some that talk about it where you're not allowed to uh be one of these people that buys the 10 20 $30 Lotto CS it's too much money it's considered gambling but if you're putting $1 $2 some say then it's uh it's fine but if you're putting $1 $2 every every day every month and it becomes an addiction obviously get yourself out of this issue but anyway ruen wanted a lot ticket the book he want a lot of ticket and uh he didn't have time to go buy it and he gave it he G has gave uh Shimon $100 and he said to Shimon buy me a ticket but make sure you buy it with the you tell him to choose the numbers with the machine Shimon forgot that he said with the machine he got to the store he bought the the card and the guy told him fill out the card with the numbers and he fill out the numbers himself and uh he paid for the card he came to ruven's house and ruven saw right away that the ticket was numbers that uh Shimon picked and he got really upset and very very nasty and yelled at Shimon in a very disrespectful way why you wasting my time this ticket at that moment Shimon was so offended he took a 100 100 shekles out of his pocket the money that ruen gave him to buy the ticket and just threw the sheckels his way left the next day Shimon moves on with his life only to find out from ruen that's knocking on on his door that the ticket that he chose the number is on one how does he know because he saw it and then he went to the store to collect the money he went to the place to collect the money he told him listen the ID that bought this ticket is not you it's a guy named Shimon oh no he bought it for me well listen you have to bring him here and if he says he bought it for you we'll give you the money but until now the the money belongs to him so now he comes to uh shimo he says listen I need you to come with me so we collect my money and Shima says no no I think it's the opposite you need to come with me and bring the ticket so I collect my money and the question is who's right is the winnings belong to Shimon or ruven now some of you said perhaps when Ruben got upset he lost the rights to it when Shimon got upset he lost the rights to it but these are not I think I'm looking the right book yeah think I'm look the wrong book these are not uh alic and answers he got angry he got angry these are not answers we have to have anic answer and the answer is as follows if a messenger does not fulfill the instructions that he was given by the sender he's no longer considered the messenger as 182 number two says and also 1885 ruven which was the sender clearly told Shimon the messenger that the numbers on the ticket should be filled out by a computer when Shimon filled out the numbers by hand Shimon was not acting as an agent for ruven but rather on his own accord and indeed when Shimon delivered the card to ruven ruen was upset at shimon's failure to heat his instructions with his rebuke of the messenger he basically announced that he was no longer interested in his services and did not want the lottery ticket if the ticket did not belong to ruven it must be that it belonged to an errant messenger Shimon in fact Shimon returned the money that ruen had given him for the ticket and a ticket is now rightfully his it's not logical to say that by leaving the ticket in ruven's hand and walking out in a huff Shimon meant to relinquish the ownership of the ticket making it once again ruven's property it's more reasonable to assume that Shimon did want the ticket for himself and he wasn't just throwing away 100 shekels for no reason especially since the lottery company had his identification number listed for the ticket he left the card in shimon's hand simply because he was angry and insulted and walked out and therefore the entire Lottery prize rightfully belongs to Shimon that is the answer it belongs to Shimon so with that being said let's see what kind of questions you guys have will give us the answers what kind of advice can you give a woman who wears a wig but once to wear to wear a hand wrap head wrap but the husband doesn't want not budging you already saw your lectures About Wigs thank you for your time okay first and foremost a woman needs to know that Hashem comes before your husband as even though your husband uh comes before your parents according to Al you're obligated to honor your parents but the moment that you get married you're obligated to honor your husband over your parents now of course if there's no no contradiction and so on you honor your parents uh and your and your husband uh but uh if you have to choose a side you always have to choose your husband's side in a respectful way uh and not ways that cause animosity and and things of that nature but when it comes to Hashem Hashem comes before everybody before your parents before your husband before your kids before yourself and therefore the law from for a woman to cover her hair is an obligation for every Jewish woman that is married in fact every Jewish woman even if she's not married must cover her hair when she's praying when she's making blessings uh but needless to say a woman that's married has to cover her hair all the time except when she's alone or just with her husband in the house now as far as that that's you know that's a law from God furthermore aadh also said that we are forbidden forbidden from benefiting from idolatry not only are we forbidden from worshiping Idols we are forbidden from benefiting from idolatry and therefore the uh the truth is that when you look at the real hair wigs that are out there it is statistically impossible for anyone to say with a kosher heart that the real hair wig that they're wearing is is not coming from idolatry when over 90% of the real hair wigs in the world are being supplied from the idolatrous temples of India this is something we've made films about this is something we have witnesses and I even just spoke to A Wig Company today uh so that says the same thing everyone knows that real hair wigs are coming from India and this is a company in China in China I'm asking them where's the hair coming that you're getting they're saying this coming from from India everybody knows it's coming from India it's not a it's not some big secret the only people that fall for this for this uh illusion that the real hair wigs are coming from Europe are coming from Brazil are coming from Russia are coming from I don't know Gom is only the Jewish people nobody else in the world actually believes this nonsense nobody else believes it's only the Jewish World believes that they're coming from somewhere else a day before a day before theak by AR yashiv that the wigs of India are forbidden wigs from Brazil did not exist not even a single one not even a hair extension was being sold in Brazil nothing it the market did not exist so how does the market go from not existing for even a hair extension to being one of the top suppliers of wigs in the world over overnight you know hi how it's fake how do I know it's part of one of the films we interviewed the guy that started it the first guy in Brazil the first guy that started business in Brazil wigs in Brazil first one he admits the whole thing is fake he brought it from India so when a kadosh says you are my daughter you're not allowed to not cover your hair you're not allowed to benefit from idolatry it doesn't matter what your husband says doesn't matter what your husband says now of course in order to eliminate the fighting and the animosity and so on of course try to make it up to him make sure that when he's home with you alone you have your hair out and uh you know you know tie your uh your uh in beautiful ways uh you know be uh you know make sure you take care of yourself and you're pretty for him and cook him the nice food and I promise you as long as you as he watches our he learns T he learns M he's going to also see the beauty in the K much more than the wig but you are the one that has the ultimate test here you are the one that has to jump into the fire if you will and do it why because Hashem said so and guess what if you listen to your husband you're not listening to your husband you're listening to his yet and he's not going to be able to help you in sh you can't go up to sh and say listen but my husband told me so there is no such excuse that's what aan tried to do a try to say listen I came from a secular modern house so maybe hasem will just not punish me even though I stole no there's a law God said it someone that forsakes it gets punished there is no there excuses don't work in sh they only work here to buy us more time meaning we can make a sin hasm doesn't punish us right away why he gives us time to do Chu but you have to understand that the test is upon you and there's no doubt in my mind I've helped bashem countless women abandoned that forsaken a disgusting wig of idolatry and put on and not even a single woman not even a single woman to this day has ever told me she regrets it every single woman that has taken that wig has burned it has thrown it out has eliminated it from her life every single woman was grateful for it everyone and I'm not talking about right away I'm talking about women that started covering their hair with the went through the initial difficulty months later she's not only enjoying it she starts seeing the beauty in it and then she starts seeing the blessing in it a year later two years later three years later they get to a point where they like I cannot believe I ever wore a wig and they become the biggest Advocates they become the best students that start becoming a marketing team in their Community for all of these shim that we talk against the wigs why because this is a a a trap from the Satan it's a trap from the Satan you have to pass the test and there's no doubt on my mind that once you pass the test your husband will pass the test but if you don't pass the test then you and your husband are both going to use each other as an excuse and unfortunately it's not going to help either one of you but if you pass the test you'll see a lot more blessing in your house and in fact the uh Z kados says that a man does not allow his wife to cover her hair properly is cursed from heaven with the worst possible curses starting with hisa I don't know who you are and what your financial situation is but without even knowing who you are and what your financial situation are I can assure you you have financial problems even if you have a lot of money you have a lot of lawsuits even or a lot of medical issues a lot of problems why because the source of comes from the wife and specifically something that ruins the is the modesty so Z curses the husband who does not allow his wife to cover her hair properly so by you covering your hair with a you are doing your husband a favor more than anything else pass the test hasem bless you and him and both of you succeed hello from Morocco I'm living near Rabbi David and I respect all the Jewish people in the world Jewish are exceptional uh please address the lies from buying head wraps some come from India and our mixed cloth there's no problem of having a uh handkerchief that comes or a t-shirt that comes or a long shirt that comes clothing that comes from India there's even C uh ingredients that you use in your cooking that come from India there's no problem with uh all of these different things so long as they were not part of the idolatry there are plenty of materials that uh we all benefit from that are uh you know exported from India uh and there's no problem with that the only problem is if whatever they are exporting was part of idolatry which is specifically the hair they're not taking fabrics and and sacrificing it to their guts they're not taking shoes and sacrificing it to their guts they're not taking the uh any of those things to sacrifice to their gods they're not taking rice and sacrificing it to their gods so there's no problem with using these products from India but hair is specifically something that the people in India more than 50 million of them sacrific their hair every single year and this is the hair that the temples use to supply the entire wig Market the entire extension market and no one can challenge it no one can compete with it no other Market could Supply such quality and such quantity and so even if you found some you know miserable person that wants to shave their hair and found two friends to shave their hair also in uh Indonesia that only suffices for a single woman that's it where you going to supply the market so the reality is if you're buying it you're benefiting from idolatry and you have to uh uh get it out of your house as far as the real ha wigs as far as the fabrics and things of that nature there's no problem with them uh of course you know there are certain things you have to check for specific types of clothing like suits and you know things like that you have to check for shot NZ but uh uh that's not a uh uh difficult to do do there's uh every Jewish Community has uh somebody that uh you can give him a few dollars and to put it in the lab and check if your uh uh clothes have a Shotz but uh as far as the uh which means the wool and linen uh together but as far as the uh the issue with idolatry it's much worse and uh people have to understand that it's time it's time right now with the war with a bigger War ahead with all the things that are happening it's time everybody cleanses themselves from all of these things that are clearly forbidden and not rationalize it not because of your husband not because of your parents not because of your children not because of your job not because of anything go with Hashem and you're always going to win does a non-jew have the authority to correct a Jew when they're saying something against the tah or even tell them that they shouldn't desecrate Shabbat do they have the authority yes certainly they have the authority it's unlikely that the Jew will listen to them uh uh for the obvious reason that they're not going to think that the non-jew knows more than them or they're simply not going to care what the non-jew uh is uh is saying uh even if the non-jew is correct uh but uh certainly they can do it what I recommend for people is instead of becoming speakers and public rebers uh they should simply take one of the USBs or take the link for one of our lectures and give it to the people uh uh to watch uh as a as a form of rebuke rather than uh uh you speaking to them because you're much more likely to succeed that way instead of being a rebuker you should be a supporter of uh the ones that rebuke that are more likely to succeed like what we're doing B uh Rabbi when is it proper or what is the proper way for nons scholar to hint observance of a Mitzvah to a not to a not so observant brother what is a proper for a nons scholar to H observance I mean it's a uh depends what kind of Mitzvah if you're seeing a nonu uh making uh something that's uh doing something wrong you don't have the obligation to rebuke him but with a fellow Jew if you're seeing a a fellow Jew driving on Shabbat committing immorality uh stealing you know anything that's clearly wrong you don't need to be a scholar to rebuke the fact that you're a Jew obligates you to rebuke now of course how you rebuke there are different ways if you have the ability to speak if you have the knowhow uh if you have the knowledge uh there's different different ways to rebuke but as far as rebuking you're obligated to rebuke regardless of what your own scholarship is uh because even if it doesn't work you're simply reminding the person that what they're doing is wrong and if May perhaps they may not want to believe you or listen to you but they should check double check their actions uh but you have an obligation to rebuke uh do something about it uh in some way or another like I said in the last few lectures and I've said several times over the years for the vast majority of people uh rebuking directly meaning speaking to the person and telling them they're doing something wrong does not work for most people uh either because they do not know enough or they don't know how to uh speak what they need to speak meaning they cannot they they know the truth but they can't really put it into words in a way that the other person will receive it uh and uh even if they do they're not necess usually in a position where other people are accepting of whatever they're saying as the truth because you know if unless you yourself are a scholar unless you yourself are a rabbi the person's going to tell you who are you to tell me what are you a rabbi like that's that's coming obviously from arrogance but they're going to dismiss you because of where you stand not because of where they stand now of course of course they're wrong for it and the Torah tells us in parat Bak that the donkey of bam rebuked him and what he said was the truth meaning that even if the truth comes from a donkey you should listen to it doesn't matter if it's a scholar or not a scholar Jew or non-jew or even if it's a donkey if it's the truth it's the truth meaning the truth of God but uh arrogance does not allow people to uh to listen to things that refute their existing truth even though their existing truth is falsehood even when they know it's falsehood so the best way to rebuke is by giving people information giving them the links to lectures sharing stuff uh that's sharing different types of tah uh that that's usually the most effective and usually it requires an ongoing effort meaning not just a onetime thing you need something that's going to continue continuing education so when you give them a book or you give them a USB or you you know that's very good because that's has a lot of information that's going to take them time to consume but when you just tell them don't do this it's not enough because even if they listen to you today what's going to get them back to the right path in a week from now in two weeks from now so you need something that's continuing education that's why I tell them that you know getting them to watch our lectures is uh the best thing to do even if they tell you no I hate this guy no I hate this guy after you've sent it three four times keep sending it every week send a few times uh you know just like the marketing company that's uh selling uh you know pepperoni pizza in the uh you know to and marketing it in the Jewish community that does not even eat pizza needless to say pepperoni pizza but they don't care they continue marketing because maybe one day they'll get a customer and it's cheap marketing same thing here you keep sending it to the people that say no once a week twice a week three times a week one day they'll buy one day they'll buy one day they'll press okay they'll press a uh a uh you know the uh the the link they'll watch the lecture and before you know it they'll uh they'll change but you have to be uh you have to care enough to make it a priority that every day you're sharing lectures and of course supporting what we're doing you know with all of the uh material that we give for free all the lectures we give for free all these different things the organization is doing supporting it is also uh going to not only help us help other people but supporting what we're doing when you support kiru you show hasem that you actually care about him and his nation which in essence is going to make your efforts more successful as well one of the uh one of the things that I've seen uh really unbelievable unbelievable I've seen this several times over the years where there are some people that uh they succeed tremendously with helping people do chuva and others it's they fail with every single you know every single person they go to the difference between the two the one that fails at every single effort they do uh in in kiru is one that helps their direct family and friends but only their direct family and friends they don't try to help anybody else and they fail miserably the ones that succeed tremendously are ones that help anybody they can family friends neighbor people that live in a different country whoever they can get Torah in front of to get them to do chuva that's what they care about they don't decipher between their brother from the same mother or brother from the same God they make no difference to them they want to help anybody out there in those types of people succeed in tremendous way helping people do chuva so if you're not selective because of your personal bias hasem is also not going to uh uh limit your success because of that bias but if you uh uh but if you are biased then it's uh you're not going to have the the blessing from hasem to succeed because the reward that a person gets for helping other people do chuva is uh beyond the reward that they're going to get for their own MIT for your own MIT that you do keeping Shabbat keeping kosher protecting your all the good things that you do you'll get for helping another Jew do cha you get 310 worlds on top of it so it's an amend tremendous amount of reward that hasem is putting on the line uh you know for people to help others do cha and that's why I always tell people if you know if people actually understood what the uh what the Torah means and what the teachings are they would literally transform their lives overnight but unfortunately people can say they believe the Torah they like the Torah they follow the tah but part of them has this doubt now the very same T says obviously how much AEM loves the Jewish people but what people don't realize is that that the sages said that if mashia came in his generation he would have been the mashiah he was from the descendants of he's the one that wrote The M he's when he found out when he discovered the magnitude of the reward of the significance of helping other people do chuva he was already laad in his years he literally went in the street running around looking for secular Jews looking for people that are making sins just so he can help them do Chu imagine an old man an old man full of suffering 13 years he suffered from pain in his teeth 16 years he suffered from pain in his stomach so much so that when you would go to the bathroom he would scream so loud that his screams would be heard in the by the ocean even though he had over 500 horses that were fed at the same time to try to uh make make the horses more loud than his screams this is one of the greatest tedim ever literally suffered from the majority of his life when he found out the significance of kiru of helping people do Chua he started running in the middle of the street as an old man looking for anybody that needs needs help to do cha so if people understood that they literally would make helping people do CH supporting what we're doing at supporting the lectures all the things that we're doing literally their number one investment even if they can't invest their time to to or or and they don't necessarily have the skill or the knowhow or whatever it is they could still become a partner with us in doing kiru and literally share hundreds and hundreds of different parts OFA for the end amount of people that they help to chat through our efforts all they have to do is they press buttons or they write a check or whatever it is and they have huge benefits I have some students that uh know that this is the truth and unfortunately I have many people that watch benefit from the lectures uh some converted some got married as a result of it some have uh transformed their lives tremendously but literally some people $10 a month they won't even donate even though if they make 10,000 a month why there there's a kipa there's a kipa in some people that unfortunately that mean they don't have the Merit to uh to actually be part of it they may be doing some good things that are uh you know according to the Torah but apparently there's something behind the scenes that they're doing or they've done that makes them literally allergic to the same medicine that saved their life it's strangest thing in the world but it exists unfortunately exists okay next question my family is SL going off the and I want to get them back on the path how do I do that by the way I'm a going into 10th uh well the first thing I would say is get your family together and watch my film Hashem took back his millions watch it as a family once you watch it as a family I am sure some of them are going to have questions feedback uh inspiration and so on then they could uh send some of their questions to my WhatsApp uh and of course any one of them that has issues doubts and so on I'll you know provide them any answer for any question they have and helped them do that but the first thing they have to do is they watch that film and they'll get enough and inspiration to do even morean says that hasem can't have ATT tributes because he's one so would it be correct to say that God isn't good but just his actions are good no it's not correct God is good is is a uh it's not the uh it's it's Torah itself as a says that he's good the uh but that's defining him as just that is is is incomplete this is why it doesn't matter how many positive adjectives you use to describe God it would never be enough good kind uh you know just powerful omnipotent omnipresent no amount of compliments and and positive descriptions of God would ever be enough but he certainly is good the fact that he's a lot more than what we could ever describe does not mean that he's not you know uh one of them he's he's all of them my Homemaker makes my Homemaker makes a point to mention Yos at least once a visit I don't wish to offend her but I wish not to hear those words in my home I do reply Shalom she doesn't know well why do you spend so much time with your Homemaker um I mean if if she's saying it you know you busy yourself with something else but if she's saying it to you as if she's preaching it to you then fire her and get somebody else uh Shalom how do I know if I have Jewish blood uh if your parents are Jewish if uh both of your parents are Jewish then certainly you're Jewish if your mother is Jewish then you're Jewish uh and uh you'd have to prove it that she's Jewish that you know perhaps they your parents had a Jewish marriage or uh even if your uh uh grandparents on your mother's side had a Jewish marriage they belong to a Jewish Community they were buried in Jewish SE cemeteries those are signs typically that a person is Jewish um but uh if you don't have these documented proofs then if you want to be Jewish you could simply convert to Judaism move to a Jewish Community uh that has a bedine and convert to Judaism no no there's no purpose of trying to figure out if you're Jewish or not Jewish question is do you want to be Jewish if you want to be Jewish then start the conversion process don't waste your time trying to look at the uh archives of ancient history to see if you're Jewish or not just go convert and that's it finished umab I'm converting to Judaism as a non-jewish girl I was very much in love with my first love my first love reached out to me after two years of no contact but she has no idea about my interest was I right to ignore it anything from your past ignore ignore and do not respond uh is mashia guaranteed to come in the next 100 years mashia is guaranteed to come period when based on calculations of many could coming in uh tomorrow the next day in the next year in the next month certainly within our lifetime but again the calculations of a is hidden there's no I uh we can never say guarantee on anything we're not God we're not uh anything we're simply trying to become Servants of God and even that we're very far away from ever uh you know from from achieving there's a lot more work we need to do uh Robert ruin do you agree that Mar Kahana was right certain things he was right certain things he wasn't Rabbi thank you very much for over 100 pounds of free books I'll be sending a donation that's also another thing for you people that are uh not only ordering stuff from the KY store the free books the free USBS um you know that if if you can if you're not uh you know poor uh uh please donate donate and try to encourage other people to donate uh especially if you've ordered uh multiple times uh I know it's I mean I never really like to talk about donations even though it seems like I've been talking about donations more often lately than not uh it just seems like I have to remind people that uh to remind people that they need to donate there some people that order literally thousands and thousands of dollars worth of USBS and books and everything anything else and you don't even see a donation of of a few hundred from these people and it's not like they don't have any money they have money for vacations they have money for all types of stuff but they don't have money to support it's very strange it's very important for a person to know that everything that we do cost a fortune we have a budget of about $2 million a year that means every month is over $150,000 in expenses okay that's a withd or without anything there's there's literally $2 million of expenses every single year and that's just going up just today just today I signed a contract with a uh with a company that uh just to get started with the contract is almost $10,000 it's going to be an ongoing cost of about $3,500 a month you know there's a lot of money coming out a lot of stuff all the stuff that you guys see whether it's the new BH kids channel or the books or the uh USBS or the uh translation the AI the uh you know everything cost money there's employees distributions of food they're helping the poor people a million things that happen behind the scenes all kind of helping people get married helping people eat helping people you know pay their electric uh the the two Cals we have all of these different things cost a fortune cost a fortune and and if we had more we'd spend more because there's just a lot more to do than what we can so anyone that benefits from the organization especially if you're getting you know you're benefiting from the lectures you're benefiting from the free books and the USBs and so on you should donate uh now if you are completely incapable of donating you're so broke that you barely have enough air to breathe I can understand I've lived in your shoes but you still have to find a way to get other people to donate why because you have a coworker a boss a colleague a neighbor a family uh a relative of some kind other people in your community that they have money they don't need to be millionaires they just need to have a normal job and normal life get them to donate 100 bucks a month 200 bucks a month or whatever it is get people to donate it's it's to your Merit it's to your benefit more than anybody else more than anybody else will send us whatever we need he'll send us but if you want to have a share in kiru you have to dedicate time to donate money to support kiru it's not enough to just watch the lectures it's not enough to do anything that anybody's doing everyone can do more including myself including myself everyone can do more how do I know because simply put every time I push myself even further somehow allows it to succeed you guys have no idea how difficult it is to give these lectures you have no idea what kind of difficulties I deal with and pain and Agony and troubles and and and all types of things every single day by the time I get to the lecture I literally feel like I just gave birth to to to to six tuplets but you guys don't see it you see the finished product you see the product with that looks like I know everything and all that stuff but in reality you have no idea how much goes on behind the scenes and I'm not asking for any crocodile what I'm telling you is that I push myself further and further each and every single day because I know this is what's needed in order for me to serve Hashem properly in order for me to be a vessel that Hashem uses to help his children around the world get closer to him do chuva in order for me to be useful to be a useful existence in the world forget about reward Heaven all that stuff that's my mindset is not on that my mindset is I want to be useful and to be useful that from at least from my uh uh from my uh uh experience you have to sacrifice everything now sacrificing everything on day one people are not going to do but everybody could sacrifice a little more whatever you're doing now you're doing let's say from 1 to 10 sacrifice your sacrificing a level one okay so try to move yourself to level two sacrifice a little more a little more donation a little more effort a little more this a little just sacrifice a little more every one of us can do more every one of us can do more if you say that you can't do more you're a liar and you're lying only to yourself only you lose out of it nobody else is going to lose out of your because anyone else that Hashem wants to bring the blessing to wants to give the reward to he'll give it to them and you're simply going to miss out so it's very very important for a person to push themselves and not just settle for their own learning for their own giving for their own doing push yourself even further get other people to do it do even more yourself and you'll succeed you'll see that the more you exert yourself the more you push yourself in your servitude of hem not just not in work and and making money and and all that other stuff but the more you push yourself in your servitude of hem the more you're going to succeed which is not necessarily the same case in the in in in business and everything else sometimes a person can push themselves off the cliff and they'll still fail in business and and everything else but in your and serving of AEM the more you push yourself the more you are GNA succeed the more you're gonna because hhm is gonna give you more but if a person doesn't push themselves then they're simply they're missing out of the real version of themselves the full potential of themselves and you have to you have to find a way you have to find a way to push yourself further uh when it comes to donations every single person should have at least 10 people that they are getting them to donate to the BM campaigns every month at least 10 people why everybody knows at least 10 people that could donate every everybody knows family friend neighbor coworker cousin whatever it is everybody knows people if you cared enough you'd find a way I remember there was a cause that uh really inspired people uh where there was a little girl that was sick a few years ago literally every single person was so inspired by this campaign they sent the campaign to everyone they knew and everyone that they didn't know and within 24 hours they literally raised over $2 million there was over I think it was something like 15 to 20,000 donors how do you think this happened these people didn't know anybody simply people cared people cared and that's just to save one girl one save one little girl's life here you're donating to help us do c that's that's literally to save not just one person's life but if we get one person to do chuva every every single mitvah that he ever does goes to your account but in addition to that he's now going to marry somebody that's also religious now they're going to make even more meah together they're going to have kids one two three five 10 kids whatever they have the all of their kids are going to keep MIT then their kids are going to keep MIT all of the people that ever come out of that one person that does Chua all goes to you and theem has made us make a whole lot more than one or two or three people do every single day every day we have people reaching out telling us that the lectures have changed their life the books have changed their life the USBs have changed their life they're now religious they're now uh doing all types of wonderful things the happiest investors in the world are the ones that are invest in the no other company has done dollar for dollar what we've done and it's important for a person to take advantage of it because there is a huge opportunity with a limited amount of time and people take it to heart and care enough about it to get not just their own doing but to get others and don't just wait to find your Rich cousin and Rich uncle and Rich grandfather to donate those are usually the hardest people to to get to donate get the average people to donate average people give 4 50 bucks a month 100 bucks a month 500 whatever it is get that get 10 people now work on the next 10 get the 10 people to work on 10 people every person could literally become a machine of K the problem is that people at some point or another they start thinking wait if I get this maybe I could just do my own thing maybe I could do this and they start you know delving into the places where the yet gets them away from the original plan so Focus do what you're supposed to you know and and and just stay on the right path and succeed uh what can we do to help Israel win the war the ultimate thing that uh a per a Jew has to know that everybody has to know is that weapons do not win Wars armies do not win Wars countries do not win Wars who wins Wars ashem God of Wars Hashem decides who wins and who loses Hashem has been the only reason why we've ever won any War whether it's the wars from the Torah against Amal against the kenites against the midianites against the Giants of OG andon against all of the Nations that went against the tribes of yob and his sons a and elzar against you know four countries uh or the wars of the mbes or the wars of modern day Israel any war that they won Unfortunately they haven't won a war in 30 years but any of the wars we've ever won it's because God allowed us us to win now why would God allow us to win simply we did what he wants us to do we did what he wants us to do which is what learn T do do follow it so anyone that wants to help do has to number one take more learning tah upon themselves so if you are learning tah let's say for one hour per day increase it to two hours increase it to three hours the more you love hem and his Tor and the more you're going to increase it learn more Tor the more Tor you learn the more you're going to be able to give more more merits to win the warm is gonna each time you learn another mishna each time you learn another each time you learn more each one of these that you do gives another rocket to defeat the enemy another rocket to defeat the terrorists another rocket to win the war Bez we don't need Rockets or planes and so on Hashem can simply put a plague on the enemy and kill all of them Hashem can simply make an earthquake swallow all of them a tornado make them all fly up in the air and and drop in the middle of the ocean we don't need Rockets planes armies money to win Wars we just need Hashem how do we get on hashem's favorable side learn learn more T do more and for those of you that are able do more K support more K do more donations to support K more the more we do that the more we help get closer to hem that means more people are doing MIT more people are learning tah the more merits we as a nation have and the quicker we will be able to win the war without it unfortunately this war will never end this will be the beginning of the last war and uh it's just going to get worse and worse from here mayem have mercy on us and Inspire our hearts to do exactly what we need to do in order to earn earn the merits to protect us from all of that from all of the evil that's in the world more more more and especially more that's how we're going to win the war see Rabbi Weise from The Condemned the targeted assassination of aamas political leader ish Haya inan saying Zionism has only caused death and suffering um are themselves part of they are friends to to Wicked people and the Torah specifically says wo to the wicked woe to his neighbor meaning that even being a neighbor to a wicked person is a forbidden needless to say befriending a neighbor needless to say that that's wicked needless to say times a million befriending an enemy of the Jewish people so they are part of the the uh they have no whatsoever to sat to Judaism to the Jewish people the and anyone that uh is uh opposed to that could simply listen to what the uh the the rebi misat today even uh uh talked about them and saying that they're and they stay away from them so they're always going to support the enemy no different than the uh you know the uh uh Judicial Court of Israel always supporting the enemy if the enemy is the Arabs the judicial court of Israel is going to support the Arabs if the enemy is a uh Nazis they'll support the na they'll support anybody that's against the Jewish people it's the craziest thing in the world but that's that's what does so it's important to uh stay away from those people and increase toah and kiru in the world so Hashem gives us the wherewithal to uh to have the Merit to to overcome our enemies both within and out okay let's see who put together the of the this is all part of the tanak these are all the uh Prophets sections from the prophets from the Prophet Jeremiah Isaiah can loved ones see us from Heaven um yeah yes and no the uh teach kuim specifically teach that uh the um loved ones like parents and uh very close family members still uh share in the celebrations of their children when their uh so for example if their child if they if the parent died and their child got married if it's a kosher wedding the parent will attend uh if it's a uh death they'll attend uh but they're not necessarily here all the time they're they're not uh omnipotent or omnipresent uh but they are involved uh with the uh with the world with this world to a certain extent they still have knowledge of certain things in this world certainly if a person pays them respect you know they you know they honors them in their yard site uh prays for their Merit and things like that and it could be even more involved there are some people that I know that are uh you know very very close to uh to uh you know to their family members that have passed away and uh and reason I say very close is because even though their family members have passed away they have recurring dreams of certain members of their family uh where they literally have conversations uh so uh it's there are some people that are uh uh tuned in such a way their n is Tun Ted in such a way where they literally can uh have uh uh I don't know if you want to call it a relationship but there's a constant uh dialogue if you will uh and by constant I don't mean like every day but you know could be uh several times a year uh you know but some people on the other hand you tell them what you dream about he goes I don't have dreams they don't remember their dreams they don't even know if they dreams other people it's they have such entertaining entertaining dreams it's almost like maybe you want to go into coma and just simply living your dreams like it's such interesting dreams that they have some people have that uh and uh they have and they sometimes they uh they get uh information in their dreams from loved ones that uh can help their life can help their life but again this is uh not relevant at all to the overwhelming majority of the world uh not just the Jewish people so uh I wouldn't necessarily uh uh if you have if you're not tuned that way already uh you don't need to try there's nothing to try it's either hasem allows it or doesn't allow it but to answer your question are the people that have died uh watching they're involved in uh certain parts of a person that uh life but not not like every second or every day can a woman see a male dentist opthalmologist or podiatrist uh a woman should always go to a female doctor uh but if a female doctor is not available or the best doctor available by far is a male doctor uh and the female doctors are not good for whatever reason then certainly you can go to a male doctor um but uh again it's a uh there are certain things that uh um you really have to exert effort to go to a female doctor like a you know uh female doctor uh you know that have to do with giving birth gynecologist and so on for that you should exert extra effort to go to a female doctor again if the only thing available is a male doctor you still use the male doctor but you should try to go to a female doctor it's worth the extra money the extra effort and so on is there going to be an all out war between Iran and Israel will America get involved what are the Torah predictions there's going to eventually be a war between the entire world and us so that's already enough as far as when how it could start to the tomorrow it could start in a year from now it could start down the road you know we're uh uh simply doing everything we can to help more Jews do Chua before that happens because once that happens the uh you know the the the ability to do Chad the ability to uh um Everything Changes let's just say that everything changes I met God can I call you and tell you about it no you didn't meet God you met some Demon that's may be driving you crazy because you make a lot of sins and either way please don't call me um I just don't have the time to have those discussions sessions okay uh Rabbi how can I have how can I have more strength to overcome my fears anxiety mental depression I use medication please what's the source of my disorder there's a series that I have a series of lectures uh called uh go to the playlists on the YouTube channel uh and it's Bon b t a c h o n it's a series I believe of maybe 16 or 19 lectures watch all of them start with number one by number three your life has improved by number five your mentality has improved drastically by number 19 you're a different person person it's going to help your anxiety tremendously and I would say even continue you know every so often watch it again but there's other lectures after that Rabbi thank you very much for the beautiful hat from Brazil you're welcome enjoy the Hat what do you think of Mr Beast and how he's in so much trouble now out of all the questions in the world this is what you ask okay all right for those of you uh that don't know there's a guy named Mr Beast he's a YouTube channel he's not Jewish to my knowledge but he's the number one most uh popular YouTube channel uh out there I think he has I don't know like 300 million subscribers something ridiculous like that uh and apparently you know everybody knows who he is and uh he does a lot of uh interesting vide and so on and someone is asking what do I think of him okay uh I think that uh you know I've I've uh I've watched a few of his videos in places where I can't learn tah uh he does some you know entertaining things for people the shows or whatever the people to win money it looks like he means good he means well he means to do good uh but uh you know with with all that being said uh how he's had a lot of success building his company building his uh uh multiple companies and channel and so on but it seems like everyone is after him now uh where they are exposing him or that he's doing something wrong that the videos are not real or some of them are not real and apparently there's some uh guy that's on his staff or was on his staff that is a pedophile so with all that being said I can tell you this as a non-jew he's not obligated to to obviously follow the tah keep Shabbat in that case but he's obligated to follow the tah and keep the seven noahide laws and so long as he follows the noahide laws he'll have endless amount of blessings in his life in this world and the next but if he violates the Noah laws then he'll have endless curses that could initially be dressed up as blessings for example some people think that having a lot of money is a blessing but it ends up being a curse for many SCH King Solomon says the scariest uh uh thing he sees is when there is a uh uh a uh money waiting for for uh for for its owner meaning that it's a uh uh some people Hashem punishes them by giving them a lot of money because it comes with a lot of problems and so on but some people can use money the right way so in this particular case you know if he uh has a guy that is turned himself into a woman and now is being accused of pedophilia and he knew about it the whole time then it's not just the guy that that is obviously mentally insane uh uh the pedophile not only is he a problem but protecting such a person supporting such a person uh makes uh the guy Mr Beast uh a co-conspirator in the world of Heaven whether he's co-conspirator in this world the law lawsuits all that stuff that's you know that's obviously lawyers are going to deal with that but as far as the laws of God for sure if he knew for sure he's a co-conspirator now uh to to employ such people is problematic because uh even though what somebody does behind closed doors is not your business and it shouldn't be your business but once somebody makes what they do behind closed doors their priority in life to the point where it becomes their brand meaning that that's all they talk about that's all they present that's all they uh uh uh that's that's pretty much becomes their image becomes their logo they're they're they're very uh um you know they flaunt it they it's it's it's it's something that is a they make sure that everyone knows this is what they do then it becomes a a problem why because the these types of people have a very serious spiritual ailment and they will not be silenced they will not uh uh uh stop until they get other people to support and to join them in the same spiritual uh crimes so when you have a guy that does what he does behind closed doors nobody knows okay it's one thing but once a person becomes so public turns himself into a woman and then after that he uh uh uh appears like this and and gets worse and worse and does all types of treatment and so on and you're actually showing him to the public you're showing him to little kids you're showing him to the audience at large in essence what you're saying is that you're supportive of this and that makes you a co-conspirator in being an enemy of God now once a person becomes an enemy of God whatever blessing they have can turn into a curse just like that just like that so we see one day the whole world is applauding this guy as a genius which clearly you see what he's done he's figured out things that 500 million people haven't figured out he built things that seemed impossible in a very short period of time with extraordinary effort but now he's went from being beloved by everyone to he's turned into Enemy Number One and there's no end to the problems so you're seeing that something happened to the blessing it's turned into a curse now as far as uh the other stuff that he's accused of uh where he's you know has all types of CGI or you know I know somebody made some type of uh somebody sent me like a short uh I don't know something that uh they're talking about how he's uh accused of gambling or he's accused or or or or uh promoting gambling to kids all that other stuff uh put it this way if you're going to build a business you're going to build also enemies you're going to build problems who succeeds the ones that's able to overcome their enemies and their obstacles in the most efficient possible way without damaging themselves too much uh because if a person is expecting to have a smooth Road without having enemies without having disgruntled workers without having competition say bad things about you uh without uh people accusing you of a bunch of things you didn't do then you live in La Land these things are going to happen now of course the more you succeed the more people are going to uh try to uh you know Express their jealousy of you and they'll blame you for all types of things you don't have to worry so much about what your enemies say you only have to worry about what God says and the god of Israel is the only God there's nothing else but him the Torah is the only Divine book that exists it's the only Divine book that was given this is the oral tah and the written tah and a uh while every Jew has to follow the tah the written tah and the oral tah the non-jews have to follow the noahide laws which include the teachings that we teach here and all the lectures include M includes a lot of beautiful things that apply to all of mankind and a person that follows what God Said is certainly not going to allow themselves to support what the enemies of God are saying and doing so my suggestion simply run away from the uh from the wicked and anything that even remotely wicked as far as once you have God's blessing all of the uh naysayers will go by the way side how could m not listen to Hashem when Hashem warned that he should not take the of no Hashem did not uh uh sto mosenu from expressing free choice and mosenu didn't not listen to Hashem U simply chose to take the the because he thought they were righteous converts he thought they really genuinely wanted to convert uh he's he wasn't able to read their minds and know the future at every moment just because someone is a prophet doesn't mean that they always see the future they see the future when hasm allows without interfering with their free choice so Hashem he simply never asked Hashem whether to take them or not and that was his mistake he should have asked hasem are allowed to read and [Music] no yeah some parts of it are certainly fine uh because it talks about the behind the scenes like midash talks about behind the scenes of uh uh of what happens in the stories of the T yeah it's I mean even though it does talk about MIT from time to time uh there's a lot more about the uh behind the scenes it's not simple to say 100% yes not not simple to say 100% no okay we'll finish off with maybe one question then we're done thank you RAB for the knowledge which hasem has bestowed upon you would you speak about evil eye in the future and about jealousy I have several lectures about it just go to the YouTube channel type in either evil eye or the word jealous and you'll get several lectures about each one of them Rob is it allowed to rape prisoners does God allow it no I watched your children's Torah study video on the macbes it was awesome enjoy it yeah there's a new kids channel it's called BH kids where you'll see me teaching the kids uh go to BH kids Torah on YouTube we also have a Facebook page BH kids uh and uh we're BM uh planning on uh releasing you know one video per week maybe more BM so far we have I think uh averaged out about one per week how do I do complete Chua well first stop the sin whatever sin you're doing stop it if it's wasting seed if it's other forms of immorality if it's desecrating Shabbat if it's stealing if it's whatever it is that you're doing that you know is wrong that's against the toah stop it's the first step second step is make a fence not a physical fence but a fence to not get you back to the sin meaning that if somebody's an alcoholic and now has stopped drinking alcohol it's not enough to just stop they have to make sure not to go back to the same places and to the same friends and environment that they used to you know drink alcohol with so they can't have the same friends they can't have the same environment same concept with Sinners that have sinned let's say with desecrating Shabbat because they used to go to nightclubs now don't go to nightclubs and don't go and hang out with the same friends even if it's not at nightclubs why because again it's one thing leads to another uh learn as much tah as possible about those specific issues that you need to do CH for that's part of building a fence the more knowledge Torah knowledge you have about the topic the more you'll uh the stronger your fence is going to be uh number three regret it meaning it's after you've distanced yourself away from the sin for a long enough time and you've uh uh keep yourself away uh from it and you've learned enough about it and what God's opinion uh what's God's opinion about uh the mitv versus the sins then you'll be able to truly be remorseful about what you've done when a person stops doing the wrong thing initially there typically they're not stopping because they believe it's wrong uh but rather they see that it's getting in the way of their life it's not as beneficial for them there could be something better so to know that your sins are wrong takes time takes time takes distance that's why it's the third place that's what writes in one of his letters that's mentioned in is seph is uh that was written by about 100 years ago so in there he talks about the third level of chuv is the remorse it's not the first step or the second step because it takes time to get to a point of remorse step number four is of chuva is to pass the test because at some point hasem is going to test you again with the same type of uh uh you know same type of uh uh uh sin and you have to pass the test once you pass that test you'll be able to become much much stronger to no longer have to endure the desire of of of of of of this sin uh as much as you have in the past so you have to pass the test fifth is to make sure to try to get other people to do chuva get other people to get closer to Hashem to learn T to support tah uh and uh that's the fif thing because that's going to help fix the past so your chuva uh of stopping the sin putting the fence regretting it all that stuff that's going to help uh your uh present certainly your future and part of your past to completely fix your past you also should help other people do Chua as AEM says to the prophet don't uh let your the uh your sins of the past be the stumbling block of your future meaning in order for a person excuse me to uh to fix their past completely they have to also uh to do cha completely they also have to uh do the best they can to fix their past and the past is fixable uh mainly by helping other people uh do cha so their current and future MIT that they're doing as a result of you helping them do cha is going to fix the uh the past that you have and you can't use your current mitv to fix your past because you need your current MIT for your current life uh okay thank you very much for Lear with me May bless each and every single one of you that is learning that is supporting we'll continue getting closer to like we said a uh each one of us has to do more whatever we're doing as far as our servitude of hem we have to do much much more we succeed in doing so uh anyone that wants to donate could donate at BH torah.org orem.org uh or the many other different ways and last reminder for today anyone that subscribes to to the uh YouTube channel as a paid subscriber send us a proof and um to in your address to email events BH tor.org and we'll send you one of these uh cool cups or Tumblr whatever they're called that I enjoy so much thank you [Music] it foree [Music] let's go [Music] W you're trying to save the the price that's on the line is much much more dear why it's eternity it's not just a few dollars and the reality is is that you cannot waste any time you can't afford [Music] to let's [Music] go wo [Music] [Applause] let's [Music] go simply focusing as much of your energy as you possibly can on people that are interested in getting closer to Hashem don't waste your time dealing with Christian missionaries don't waste your time dealing with people that are anti- tah don't waste your times with people that are atheists don't waste your time with people that are openly homosexual and are enemies of hem don't waste your time with people that are vulgar and disgusting and simply do want to do not want to change don't waste your time with people that have an ego bigger than this room don't waste your time with them why because there are too many people that are more humble that are at a position of their life where they realize they need to change there are too many people that are interested in the more significant and more purposeful life too many people like that go to them why cuz they're much easier to get them on board just this guy already wants to get on board woo woo woo [Music] wow [Music] let's go [Music] simply focusing as much of your energy as you possibly can on people that are interested in getting closer to hasem don't waste your time don't waste your time let's [Music] go wo [Music] wow [Music]