Marrying Into the Unknown With NOYB Outro

Do Does it happen that people go and do shlichus and the marriage doesn't work out? The women that marry these Chabad guys and they come into a marriage not knowing what's in store for them. We're talking about over 4,000 people have done this already. It's not like, you know, you think of, "Okay, I want a house with a white picket fence." No, >> [music] >> I want to marry a guy with a beard who's going to take me to a country I don't know and start off a life where who the heck knows what's going to happen. >> You You're absolutely correct. Let me tell you something. A Chabad rabbi said to me a few years ago He was Reb Baruch was in my and he told me that if you want to go to those places and work there, you better have a amazing marriage. You can't have an okay marriage. And I always think of that concept. He said like if you live in a regular Jewish community, a frum community, you go for dinner, you can go here, socialize with other people, see people at shul. You're going to these places like you're just saying. You end up in Scotland, you end up somewhere else, you better have a solid marriage. >> How do you have a solid marriage? You know the girl for 3 weeks. >> You dive in.