Marriage Is Not About Compatibility #MarriageWisdom #JewishThought #Relationships #LoveAndM #shorts

Stop looking for a match. You're not trying to find someone who fits you. You're trying to find the other half of you. Everyone asks, "How do I know if we match?" And my answer, I hope you don't match. Because real love doesn't come from matching, it comes from merging. For all the books are written, they become one flesh. Have you ever seen a man get mad that his right hand isn't the same as his left? Of course [music] not, because they are both him. They are different and that's the point. One hand that writes and one hand holds. One gives and one receives. [music] They don't match, they complete. And when they move together, they move as one. Same thing as in marriage. You're not supposed to match, you're supposed to merge. You're not looking for someone who thinks like you, talks like you, lives like you. You're looking for the part that was taken from you. And when you find it, you stop analyzing difference because it's you. You don't need someone who matches you, you need yourself.