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Makom Kavuah
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A child shouldn't lose their place in shul because their parents got divorced. Makom Kavuah helps children of single-parent homes find more than a seat—it gives them a place to belong. Bring Makom Kavuah to your shul this Yomim Noraim. To receive your free Makom Kavuah toolkit, please head to https://www.ou.org/kol-echad/resources/makom-kavuah/.
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When you walk into a shul, you'll see immediately
that people sit with their families. Most often,
you'll see a parent sitting with a child. That
is the norm in a shul. If someone doesn't have
a family member to sit with, they don't have
a place, and they don't know where to go.
There are countless boys and girls who we simply
don't know about. Maybe they even walked through
the doors of a shul and then they quickly
turned around. Maybe they stayed one Shabbat,
two Shabbatot, but eventually realized that
shul is not their place. And eventually they'll
stop coming to shul with ramifications
that we cannot even begin to envision.
We created Makum Kavuah with the intention
of ensuring that every single child knows
that they have a place in shul. There are
few opportunities where it takes so little
investment, and you're able to get such great
benefits. To bring Makom Kavuah to your shul,
it's literally as simple as placing a little
box in your Rosh Hashana-Yom Kippur mailing.
"Do you want a seat?" Yes.
"Do you want someone to sit
with your child?" Check.
At that point, the OU steps in and helps
you through the rest of the process,
including how to find the right
mentors to ensure the child's safety.
The goal is not to replace anyone in their
lives. The goal over here is to add another
layer of support in the simplest and most
effective fashion possible. We all know we need to
make a difference. By implementing programs where
our shuls are able to demonstrate that we see you,
we care about you, we are making communities
that make Hashem proud. The question is not,
"should we bring Makom Kavuah to our
shul?" I believe the question is,
"how can we not?" The fact that a shul could
say that we have a place for children who
don't have a parent. We have a place
for a divorced couple's child. That
sends an incredibly powerful message that every
child, every boy and girl has a Makom Kavuah.