Maamar Reishis Goyim Purim 5715 #7: At the Core of the Soul, There Is No Opposition

so we'll begin today's class is dedicated in honor of the birthdays of the members of the freed family Ma and happy birthday we have sh [clears throat] turning 60 and his grandson turning 18 years old k dedicated by Elliot Kaplan thank you very very much and Ma and [music] happy birthday we've been learning here M by the which begins with theik is the Genesis of all the Nations and the end of aik is that he will perish and uh in order to explain aik huh Genesis of all the of all the in order to explain what this means like everything in is not just a physical Mitzvah but it's also a spiritual Mitzvah meaning it's a mitzvah inside the person including remembering aik and wiping out a Malik so he began a whole long explanation to understand the whole system of a hasem connected to the five levels of the Soul it says in Med that the soul has five names and and therefore the whole avoid of a person during one's life revolves around these five states of the Soul because that's what that's the operating system so to speak of the soul and that's what we say that we have five different names five different s five different levels or dimensions of the soul and he started to say that the main is what's called with the means the faculties of the soul that are integrated and manifested more consciously within the human body and then they have the two l ones which is as we will see that's going to sh we're going to shift now to those two they're called the difference of Pim and you know of Pim and Mak Pim means from the word Pim when something goes inside pimus it's called Pim meaning it's integrated what does that mean spiritually speaking when something is integrated in the person it can be embodied consciously so I could be a manifestation of it that's called that's called a p a that relates to something in a way that is relatable to The Container to the vessel a means it's also present and it also has tremendous influence but not necessarily in a conscious way sometimes it can have even a deeper influence but it's not in a way that's integrated and that's why sometimes it's much more powerful because uh it's happening on a level and in a way that is beyond my knowledge beyond my awareness beyond my consciousness and as always there could be Mak of kadus there could be Mak of not kadha could be something very powerful and positive in a constructive way and it could be something very powerful but it's not necessarily constructive it could be the opposite so are those parts of the Soul so to speak I'm using part the word Parts because I don't have another word but it's not really Parts but it's those let's say frequencies or frequencies of the Soul that's probably probably a better word that are more integrated within the the person or at least they could be much more integrated in that itself you have nefes and you have and you have is connected to name the says the gives them understanding it to V name so it's connected to Bina is usually connected with cognition awareness understanding particularly is connected with mid R is connected to La heart mid the emotive emotional experiences of a person and you have nefes which is connected to the coved the liver and that represents the capacity of the soul to implement to execute it relates more to M to action and that's what he started to explain at length the whole of the person is with and and we have two Souls we have a and and both like the animal Soul has the Divine Soul has and of the Divine Soul can ultimately communicate and Elevate and sublimate and work with the of the animal soul elevating it was there a prior way to view it is to is more along lines ofes that's an excellent question you're asking if there was a paradigm shift it's not my question it's my better question okay you know as you started to ask it I was suspicious of that because [laughter] you have to say over very good very good you were listening yesterday it's really a wonderful question if there's a paradigm shift in T and in general about how we deal with the animal Soul sublimating versus repressing so so I I just say two points number one generally everything that's discussed Inus you have earlier you know it's not like the B created a new Judaism everything you could find everything is there earlier but I would say is that it zoomed in accentuated emphasized and brought to light certain Dimensions or aspects that could have been either not notice so much or not emphasize so much or maybe hidden um if if we can use a mush from you know science physics if a scientist or physicist says you know I discovered something in in in the in the in the gim or in a Cell in an atom that I invented right then it's not science it's it's I discovered something that was always there but we never knew about it right and that's it's the there's something called an invention you know you build a new a new toy a new machine but you're using the resources and you're using the the the realities that were always there even though we didn't we weren't aware of them electricity was not something that they invented 150 years ago right or germs or viruses or bacteria or fungi or electron or electrons or uh the complexity of a cell or neurons Etc it's things that we simply didn't have the tools always to appreciate but they always there so say the same is true in say means it's the pus of the so you open up a that's what it says you open up a gar that's what it says so that's just one point that's important to emphas size right it's just with each with different different with different generations and as we the world progresses and progresses towards G so deeper Dimensions within y are revealed but they're revealed they're not created the says anything that a student will ever innovate was given to M from what does that mean doesn't mean it's not an innovation it doesn't mean oh you don't get credit you're just plagiarizing it means if it's real T it was already given in C it could be it was concealed then you know the principles were given and you you you figured out that Pratt that detail but in his writings about learning so he was writing about certain places where they learn and the main thing is AES the main thing is not to understand the main thing is did you say something new so he said actually in humor he says actually they actually do real because it's that we're not given [laughter] says it's real it's said the greatest the greatest compliment is that it's not AES you know that's number one but number two saying that saying that there was a paradigm shift because even though you have that path earlier like I said but still generally speaking very often the conversation was crushing thear in fact the term that was usually used wasar not and one of the differences is and rabinin EV says this in his introduction to T very beautifully he says with Yahara the main battle is a battle with a sworn enemy with with a sworn enemy with an enemy inside of you means an inclination to evil inclinations to evil you either have to suppress or obliterate or at least you know occupy and control with force in T he also uses that word but the primary word he introduces is neam is not evil nobody's going to say aim is evil why on the contrary you not let aggravate an Animal shem's Compassion is for everything every single animal the Tells a Story in that rebi the editor of the mishna rades rades we call the editor of the Miss RAB Judah the prince he once saw a calf there was a c a slaughterer taking a calf an agle to the to slaughter him and the calf ran under the bosom of of rebi to be protected you know animals are sensitive so rebi sent them off and said you were created for this and he sent him back and he became ill for 12 or 13 years years because of his lack of sensitivity to to the animal and and what I want to explain is lack of sensitivity comes back when you're very sensitive person It came it came back to him as an illness it's not like we look reward and Punishment it's like you did this I'll I'll I'll punish you but it's really it's something that comes back the lack of sensitivity for such a soul [clears throat] for another person what did he already what did he say what do you want from the sh what do you want I mean what look like but for him he became sick and then 12 or 13 years later there was a maid in his house and she was cleaning up she was sweeping up the says and there was a little weasel a weasel so she took the broom you know wanted to uh kill it or hurt it or get rid of it and and and said don't don't hurt the weasel so this was his health was restored what's my point changes itam means it can be very very bad you can have a German Shepherd you know you can have a lion you can have aah and they're wild undomesticated beasts like it says a person is born as it says like a wild donkey but essentially is not evil essentially the is work of Education of Enlightenment of sublimation it's put it he said it's not it's it's not a war of schmad against it it's work of Education it's pedagogical work with your animal Soul nobody's going to say the main function of a pedagogue is to destroy destroy the children somebody say what's the main thing of a teacher just destroy them all you know silence them and make sure they don't say a word during the year you know just make they're all troubl makers you know if the approach is everyone in my classroom wants to make trouble and wants to destroy me we know what the classroom looks like either it's a boot camp a concentration camp or it's a war zone or usually it's it's it's a poor teacher against poor children who completely are not in the same wavelength it's not a war it's a relationship it's a relationship that must be built on trust and must be built on connection and must be built on attachment are there children who will misbehave absolutely will it be children who get into a fight yeah will be the children who are completely not interested in the lesson yeah absolutely so now I have to figure out how to talk to the children how to communicate to the children should there be consequences yeah is there discipline yeah but all the discipline is in the context of connection the context of pedagogu I want to bring out who you are right so essentially it's very different than I'm here to fight you to crush you to destroy you that's the that's so it's a huge shift Shamus can have very very destructive thoughts absolutely [laughter] it may want to steal it may want to kill it may want to commit crimes and on on and and on a more benign level it can introduce a lot of Darkness into a person but essentially and that's the whole point there is a conversation that needs to happen the animal has a personality it's a soul it has an identity it has a way of thinking about the world its way of thinking may be very limited like the mus today you know my word processor is addicted to one uh one program and that's all that's all it's doing you know that's what keeps on running in the back end in the front end there's no other program but it has a program it has a way of thinking a couple of viruses creeped in right it's it's it's very predictable it's always following the same patterns it needs it but but the point is it has a program that's what we mean sounds yeah of course yeah yeah when you re reprogram a system right I'm not going to destroy you when when you do a code review I'm not I'm not trying to destroy you I want to see you know where where where the errors cre creeped in so putting a lid on a box yeah to so I don't want to derail but that was just my question yeah now in that itself there's two stages something called aafia and those are two important words literally means to subdue like subjugation or subduing means transformation but people make a mistake they think ESF means repression I don't think it means that esaf means not every part of me is ready to be transformed Med at every moment it would be nice but it doesn't work that way sometimes right I have to listen to the ne of Bahamas and say you know what I'm in control I'm a big boy you're safe but we're going to do it this way you'll be fine it's like a mother and a father who parent a child with presence not with anger with presence we're we're we're we're good good we're good no it's dangerous it's dangerous so I have to listen I have to know and I have to you know maybe we'll get back to this we'll talk about it later and this is what we do internally as well it's called aafia because we're not falling prey to the explosive emotion of the animal soul in the sense that I'm going to break your nose or break the windows right because that's what I'm feeling or I'm gonna run away forever I may be feeling that way and that's that's the the little animal is is hyperactive or is very Vigilant or is filled with with crazy fear or anxiety or shame or whatever it is every person has their its own unique expression depends on the hour of the day depends how it's triggered so isfi would mean with compassion to be able to identify it and put it in its place put it in its place means understand understand where it's coming from and understand that this is not exactly the decision I'm going to be following and it's in simple things I want to eat a piece of food the piece of food is not good for me but I want it and then bamus in its mindset that this is your Messiah you know this piece of cake is your Messiah right you eat it and you're happy I'm not happy 20 minutes later I'm going to be in a bad mood because it's carbs and sugar right so what do I do they say I don't want it I do want it this is where a scafi would come a scafi would come to identify the urge appreciate that these urges can be very intense but ultimately superficial and then say I got this one okay and I understand and we move away from it is already a level where ultimately the urge is transformed when a person works on their neam and does this things get transformed there's always a scafa on other levels you know there's different layers of the onion so that's a general summation of a lot of the discussion yeah so now we go V holding perion page 293 in your copies the bottom the last paragraph everything we spoke about relates to the to the work in the levels of and which when we're talking about generally are called what do we mean by as I said in the beginning of the class are faculties that are P they're integrated and they come means they're enclosed from the word Lush they're enclosed and manifested and embodied by whatever is contained in them in our case the animal soul and the body can contain them can manifest them they can become a the the the point of a garment is a garment must be suitable in measurement and size to that which is Dawning the Garment I have to wear a jacket if I get a smaller jacket my body won't be able to go into it so a always has to be something that's tailor made it matches that which is dressed up in it So when you say something comes beap it means the way it relates to its environment is one that it's a relatable the environment is suitable to it so it could manifest it so what does it mean the relationship to the body is one that is integrated in the chemistry of the body the different parts of the body manifest that aspect of the Soul or at least could manifest that aspect of the Soul by definition therefore there is a measurement there is a limit because it's a conversation that happens in a relatable way and that's why it can impact the body and the animal soul in a very personal and in a very p mean in a very real and visceral way because it's the aspects of the soul that have more of a measurement they have more of a limit is limit Med is a measurement and now we get to yet a deeper state in Consciousness which comes from yet a deeper dimension of the Divine soul in Holiness and this is called the of and they go into the last two categories generally of the Soul called and just like in garments right my shirt has to be a certain size the same is true with my pant same is true with my jacket same is true with shoes you take smaller shoes and it's squeezing your feet you can't wear it or big shoes again you can't wear it but then you have a it's more like a Talis take a Talis a Talis over there it's more flexible because the talus I'm not putting a particular limb a particular like my hand through the Talis the Talis is more that's called it surrounds the whole body it covers it envelops much of the body and therefore it could be a much larger size than my jacket because I don't have to fit into the Talis on the contr if the talus is Big it's big it's still a l it's still a garment so this is just an example in garments themselves you have that's why a Talis is often called it's not limited it's not defined by a particular limb it's more of an earth that encompasses the entire body what ises this is all a mush of course we're not talking here about physical garments the mush is of where I Channel them through awareness and through emotion through embodiment that have an intensity to them which transcends the ability for them to be embodied and manifested in a limited way because they don't lend themselves to that limit a because they don't subject themselves to that filtering and limitation so they remain Mak Mak literally means it's surrounds you right like when you go around something it's called your what does it mean spiritually not that is around you and not inside of you but the way it is around in you is as though it was hovering above you meaning it's not inside of you in a way that they say ah this is how I feel this is how I integrate it it's inside of me and it has tremendous influence on me and sometimes more influence than any because since I'm not aware of it so therefore it actually allows itself to have influence in a way that there's no resistance it has to talk to me so I have to accept it they can just yield all their influence positive or negative K not without without any awareness it doesn't go through all these filters so it's much more intense that's called Mak so that's what we're going to see now we spoke about NE and he starts explaining starting off with [snorts] will understand this B based on the difference between what's called comprehending something with your is with your mind cognitive faculties that's called versus recognizing something in [snorts] a way of seeing it comprehension intellectual comprehension means you know something but the reason you know and the way you know it is because of because of because there's a logical explanation of this truth and it's not just you're being fed a fact but it can be proven it can be explained that's what is and that's what means to explain it so even though I know it I got it I understand it makes perfect sense maybe I can prove it I can show it to you I can explain to you what it is that's all true but by definition it means I myself don't know the thing my proves it it proves it it's a very subtle distinction he's making here so I do know it he says you don't know it your SE is telling you that this is how it is it's almost similar somebody tells me a story that he saw I trust him he's a good guy he's not a liar but I wasn't there I'm not a witness you're sharing with me a story somebody outside of me is telling me a story but I never sought so therefore even if I trust him and I believe maybe a 100 people are telling me the story it's not like I'm doubting the facts they're normal people they're stable people they're reliable people I have a relationship with them but they're bringing me the story I I didn't see the story so the Reb says that's what SE is SE essentially is you have a good friend have a good brain and he's proving to you that it's this and this and this and that so he's telling you a story and this is true with every logical conclusion and every logical idea and awareness is the SE bringing you information about a about reality information about reality may be accurate but it's not reality it's the information of reality up the gaps filling up the gaps filling up the gaps yeah might have tremend Gap the way you feel it is your way it's yeah and therefore you'll see even when you understand something well with your so somebody who's greater somebody who's smarter or did more research or lives later and therefore has more tools or is sharper or deeper or is more objective you know reviews it from a different perspective could come and ask questions and bring proofs the opposite and suddenly if you're objective person and you're not one of this bias that I have to be right cuz you're a real person you're try to be objective and analytical and scientific you're going to have a doubt in the authenticity of your theory or your idea or your logical conclusions and if there's enough questions which every question is a concealment on the story it's like you have this friend told you this it's amazing and maybe you changed your whole plans based on the story and then somebody comes right and shows this crack in the story and this crack in the evidence and this detail is not true and this detail okay so you could still live with it and then when there's enough questions and enough obstacles you say you know what we're throwing it out of the window and essentially this is how wisdom evolves throughout history Newtonian physics was considered so grounded in reality Greek philosophy and Greek science for thousands of years Aristotelian science and physics and philosophy this was the the stuff of reality who's going to come today you know it's close to absolete newon and Isaac Newton was a very very brilliant man with the tools he had he developed systems and patterns that were extremely extremely impressive and used true this true ability to be able to survey and perceive in order to reach conclusions came a by the name of Albert Einstein you know and upended so much of it einsteinian physics Newtonian physics it's a completely different Universe what happened because this is the process the process is I was using my SE my tools of intellect to be able to inform reality it told me stories it came to conclusions those stories may be extremely compelling and prevalent that's what SE does a TR to bring proof and then somebody comes and with new tools or with new ideas or with new insights or with new developments could could uh upend it all to the point that you say you know what I'm not even going to keep a little bit sometimes you still try to hold on to the skeleton we're just going to make we're going to make changes you make this change that's what sometimes happens in other words you have to fix the old Theory that's the first level you see this problem then sometimes you say you know what this whole thing got to go it's also true in people's lives right we also build up theories of life in order to function you have to have a theory of life we do it instinctively but there's a pattern there's the way I have learned to operate with life now there's a crack here a crack there crack there crack there so I have to fix this I have to fix this and then at some point you say the whole thing Gotta Go the whole Paradigm the whole Paradigm got to go that's a very very revolutionary moment in a person's life it's not just you know people have houses right so there's a leak here so you bring in you bring there's a leak here so you bring in the the person to fix it and then there's a leak here and then this breaks down that breaks down then at some point somebody comes says this place needs a gut job sorry [laughter] the whole Foundation here yeah we'll fix we'll fix we'll fix you want to really know what's happening this thing has no existence just giving a mush the say here we're talking of course in a thousand people told me the story maybe 100 thousand people told me the story but with new evidence as reality unfolds things happen to take one example Tak science since Aristotle thous arist Liv thousands of years ago he was the tutor of Alexander the Great Alexander the Great Alexander of mden from Macedonia was 100 200 years before khek kanak happened 2 200 years ago so you talk for thousands of years the the common knowledge by all the followed Aristotle was that What's called the world is a kadman the world is a kadman means there's always a question how did it come into existence how did the universe come into existence the answer it was always there so you don't have that problem of course it contradicts the first which means the first word is there's a beginning why is that the first word of T first of all because it's good that the first word of a book should be the beginning because it's the beginning but also because it changes everything if there's a beginning right you have to know why was there a beginning that means there was an transformative change between pre- beginning and especially when we know the beginning was also the beginning of time so it's not just a little change it's a qualitative Quantum Leap from a reality that transcends time to a reality that exists with time is also is also created I think the says created the concept of beginning bous is also created we the is also so that's how powerful the leap is suddenly [snorts] in the 1920s which was was not very long ago it's our parents generation or grandparents generation depends how old you are there's a whole new theory that completely upended thousands of years of philos phos ophy and it was till the 1960s in the 1960s when scientists can detect a sound that they had no explanation for which at least for most of them confirmed that theory which was proposed in the 1920s about the Big Bang now without getting into the details of what the big bang is but the revolution is there's AES there's a beginning there's a moment of transformation from I into yesh however you want to uh you want to define the details and suddenly a philosophy of thousands of years was discard it so this is just one example there comes a point where you may be you may dismiss the but there's a deeper type of relationship with something it may begin with comprehension it may begin with information but then the person immerses himself in it means and Powerful D intense D to the point where from it becomes what's called means recognition but what do we mean by recognition similar to the metaphor nobody's telling me the story anymore this story I know from myself and this story I know from myself a thousand people could come and show me a thousand different cracks in the story thank you you may have a good question but as long as I believe that I'm sane and I'm not having optical illusions huh okay you may need uh somebody who right there was the person who was uh institutional ized and finally after a few months the doctor said you can go so he said can you give me and he says why he says you're fine your normal everything is good she said could you give me a note could you give me a note that I'm a normal person he says absolutely with your signature yeah so this world-renowned actor makes a note and says you knowlin B Ben is a normal person sign of this great world-renowned doctor Nobel Prize recipient okay this fellow comes to SCH the next day he goes over to the and he says re are you normal he says I try to be I mean I hope so he says prove it prove it [laughter] how should I prove it he says I could prove it I could prove it I have a pie of baby I'm much more normal than you I have AAR you have a mil I have a right your loan is you say you're normal your wife probably disagrees just my you say you're normal your for sure disagrees I have a document that I'm normal so you understand what the so he sent him back to the doctor [laughter] [laughter] very good but you understand my point a document is very important a deed SE is like it's a star it's a document I have proof hak means visceral knowledge now of course if somebody is experiencing mental illness we have to always be careful with this right my eyes could be deceptive he's giving a marshall that I hear the story that I see the story and what if I can't see and what if I have hallucinations and what if I see things that don't exist so we always have to we have to be always be sensitive to that but it's trying to bring out a point in terms it's all a mush it's trying to bring out the point it's a different type of it's experiential knowledge that's what Das means it's yours it's yours you own it it's it's yours and now somebody could come and ask a lot of questions it's not going to change not because I'm stubborn if you're stubborn then it doesn't have to do with what we that's not [laughter] that's the neam afraid of being disproven stubbornness is one of the greatest forms of uh of survival with insecurity I am so stuck that I have to be stubborn the power of the when you learn gar one of the most of things even to a beginners is the intellectual Integrity there's no bias there's no biases there's a there was a huge between about a how you build a and what a and how many very fundamental about governs daily Jewish about aik and then the gar says that there was a weaver a they don't even know his name he worked in the gate of dung that's how he's ident a weaver from the worked in the gate of dung and he said I'll tell you what I heard from shalian he testified and that became the so you have B you have B you have other and then you have this fellow they don't even know a name right he worked with with with and he became the The Authority cuz there's no such a thing uh elitism you know you come from this m we're going to listen to you the Integrity is critical intellectual Integrity but here itself you have two levels so we're not talking about a stubborn person we talking about an open person but once there's an of it's recognition not because I need a win you and not because I'm arrogant not because I can agree it's a completely different experience because I Know It with every fiber of my being and you know something with every fiber of your being it's a different relation relationship I saw the story I didn't hear the story an example for this theor says a child and we see a child could say Aba or right T father mommy mama even before the child becomes a b meaning has a developed brain of how to understand what a father is what a mother is why are you my father what's the relationship between me and you how did that happen he may not know that he's not on that level but still this is my father this is my mother that recognition you could say it's just a baby recognition but it's a there's something very deep about it this is a type of it's certain by him and questions of SE won't undermine it it you'll say yeah but uh I don't know you'll ask some question it won't undermine it because it's not it's because somebody sat with the child and proved to him that just like 2 plus two is four so th so this is your mother this is [snorts] just an example a child that's the only way he could recognize things and that's why what children recognize become so deeply ingrained because it's not filtered through the logical construct if you make a comment to me today about myself right my brain is going to take over and is going to say does it make sense does it not make sense why does it make sense the child doesn't have that tool to discriminate to dissect to distinguish so it could it can go in very very deep both in the positive and in the and also the opposite I don't have that filter of to say oh this guy doesn't know what he's talking about this guy has his own problems right the child doesn't have that filter but here we're talking in the positive sense the recognition of father and mother is a recognition not this is what a father is this is what a mother is this is how biology works so I have proof you're my father and mother it's the part of the brain that has a so he says it's not just a child it's just a dgma you can have a somebody who's very very developed int even though he's using his and he may have reached it through comprehension with but through going into a deeper place you reach aak that you know yourself it's there you have aak so it's not like the SE told me a story and brought me proof about something else but that reality itself is so vivid and from this and this this this you reach even a higher place the recognition is so deep that the eye we call the third eye the the eye of the mind can see it as though you saw something with your physical eye and then you cannot contradict the authenticity of it through questions through contradictions which all come from because you yourself perceive it as is when you see it that way and then when you see it the way it is so then when you have a position when you have something concealing it it's a whole different type of relationship you don't at all get deterred from the concealment because you know exactly what it is you know that this is a blockage it's not like a question it doesn't undermine the visceral awareness and Clarity it's obvious this is a blockage this is a problem so it's a whole different relationship and he says a person has the ability to work it through either to know y it or if possible to elevate it this is that has to do not with but with and in the levels of the Soul we call it not not not we call it the fourth name this is known as the vision of the seeing the ability to see in the third eye which we call the mind's ey I as in E ye and I as an I that I and the it creates is called a what do mean it's [snorts] not a that comes from outside there's something called which comes through understanding like understands something outside of me so the B is also something outside of me and then there's a b means a b from within from the the means from the essence of the person this is called meaning the entire of the person the entire reality and identity of the person is transformed or elevated or aligned through this so this that's the difference between and the example he was giving is from understanding something through the tools of understanding which is basically like somebody telling me a story that happened somewhere else so the is telling me that it's so [snorts] but it's not a so to speak a direct relationship and then there's a hak which is a direct relationship that may start with se but it goes to a much deeper Place till a point where it can even be like seeing seeing is believing where nothing can contradict it yeah if you're uh if you're going to the if if you're going to your right and you have your father on one side your mother on another side or whatever the custom is two fathers two mothers from both both sides [snorts] and you turn to your mother on the way to the you turn to your father and say one second why are you taking me to the say well I'm your mother I'm your father can you prove it can you prove it it's like that guy do we have a document to prove that you're my father and mother it usually doesn't happen right what if the child says I want proof [snorts] I want proof you're my father and mother so what do they do they say okay let's put the on pause we could prove it today you could prove it right you go you test DNA [laughter] you look at the match say oh and we come back with a certificate I can prove that I'm your father technically you proved it right but you understand that there's something very very sad about this whole story what's sad about this whole story is that we had to prove it you proved it you proved it very well in fact you know that your father is your father much better than I know because I don't have proof I don't have proof we may not even look alike so I don't even have the external proof but it's a very sad story doesn't say that we believe the mother but not the father yeah that's all but what happens the opposite what happens a child who was adopted child who was orphan and taken in by the community in the olden days it happened a lot or child who was adopted by someone else and they grow up they know their entire life that this is not their biological father and mother and they're looking for their biological father and mother suddenly here the test of DNA is the best thing that happened to this child because it's my only way of having a relationship a woman comes to me one day and says I'm your mother a father comes I'm your real father thank you you know in China there's a lot of child trafficking you know they they kidnap kids as babies and bring them to families that don't have children there's an estimate number that 200 between 25,000 and 200,000 children a year a year are abducted in China and sold it's horrific numbers so not long ago there was a story m not long a father 24 years he's looking for his son his son was taken away when he was a little kid he was playing in the Gard G in front of the house he was taken away 24 years this man was searching for his son he recently found him he traveled the whole China on a motorcycle a B I think a bicycle he had 10 different bicycles he was wounded he was Hospital 24 years searching for a kid and he found them but how did they prove it DNA so here DNA oh that's insulting no that's the whole proof that's the only way I could build a relationship you understand the difference if I grew up with my father and mother and say the way to the prove it prove that you're my father prove you're my mother let's bring let's bring let's do a DNA test before the what's happened in that house you say no I need to be intellectual I need to be logical if you're taking me down the I want to know that you're my father okay I mean you but but if we never had a connection that proof is the most important proof so this is the distinction so the says that's what all is like all is like going and finding a certificate of DNA to prove that you're my father it's proof it's good proof but everybody understands somebody will say oh the doctor confused two DNA he's not your father okay he's not my father yesterday he was today he's not that's not how how a child knows a father and mother the hak of a child doesn't have to do with proof [clears throat] this was the year and you people got married and a child was not born in a vacuum and yeah there's proof also we could prove it but it doesn't add if somebody will come to you today and say I'll prove to you that this is your mother oh now Mommy now I know you're my mother now I know the was once talking about auna so he says how do you define a he says a is is something that a question won't weaken it and the answer won't strengthen it when we use the word Amun we often see it as a weakness it's Blind Faith I believe my grandmother said I believe my mother said I believe they told me in yeshivas I believe amuna is a form of not thinking that's not what auna is that's not what real amuna is I mean I know there's that type of auna we have Muslim cousins who grow up indoctrinated with certain truths and they believe it very strongly they're ready to die for it how serious can you take that amuna if a is based on shutting down your head brain shutting down your closing your they called Blind Faith I'm not ready for Blind Faith by definition it's blind in other words if you open your eyes you'll see that it's all of game so the only way I can teach it to you is by telling you be blind even if I don't use those words said that's means it's something that a question won't make it weaker [laughter] and a an answer won't make it stronger why not of course it'll make it weaker people always email me I have questions on Amun could you answer me cuz if you answer me I'll get it back it's an important convers but that's not the question of that's an intellectual conversation it's a different realm that's the realm of SE and it's an important realm right prove prove could you show me the DNA and whenever you prove it through DNA there can also be the doctor can make a mistake maybe they took the results of someone else and they confused it with his child it can happen huh and that's the idea of SE and that's how it's supposed to work you proved something and I'll ask a question and then I'll ask another question and then you'll answer I'll ask another question and maybe my questions will be better my answers right sometimes in gar you have a whole sh and by the end the gar says Checkmate this opinion is dismissed it's refuted or at least which means we're left with a or sometimes the will say whatever was said was actually a lie it's completely completely non not not tenable you can't embrace it that's the world of the world of of it's a different world you want to give me the DNA and prove she's my mother F I mean it's not going to make me more my she's not going to become more your mother now sometimes you have to stay in the world of if you're dealing with scientific theories and you say I just see it and you become addicted to it because you're winning the Nobel Prize or because you have a tenure in Harvard University then it's a disaster science by definition should always be called a theory what do I mean a theory a theory mean based on the tools that we have today and the instruments that we possess today which are incredible this is how we understand reality but the humility that in 50 years from now everything may be changed Maybe not maybe yeah that openness to speak as a scientist about absolute truth is really crossing a border that turns me into a religious personality and not a scientist the real doesn't mean it's blind I don't want to think I'm intellectually lazy [snorts] there's a means it's the ability of the soul to perceive reality just like you see something it's like a sixth sense of the soul that when cultivated it allows you to absorb Ultimate Reality that's called that's called one of his my brings an example in there's a difference between and if something is lost how do I can how do I retrieve it so we have the have a Simmon right and you found it so I come and I tell you the simonm whatever the simonm are you know there was this type of knot it was this type of color it was found in this particular area as many identifying S I give and then if it's if if if it's authenticated you give it back to me that's the mitz and then there's something called who's known as a very very honest you know scrupulous scrupulous person who will never take something that may may may may not be his even if there's no Simon he has a eye in my my Talis looks like everybody else's Talis I don't have a Simon my coat looks like another hundred coats and Sh but I have a what's the difference of sim and Simon is it's an identifying Mark that proves that it's mine is a mushin what's your identifying we have a relationship when you wear something for a while you have a relationship it's a for this difference mean it's mine prove it prove it you have the DNA of the coat [laughter] prove it a Simon is proof huh that's what he says yeah so even as an adult there's the level of what we call Se and which is very important because that's the beginning of contact and if I didn't grow up with my father and mother if I'm adopted that's my the only thing I have the only thing I have SE there was um the he has a he has a very critical essay on the alter on the B for using since when do Jews use he's upset at the r he's upset that anyone he says that's how we became became Jews from from stop with all the philosophy philosophy is good for the Greeks he's very upset at all the all the that deal with that's what he writes so the the has a commentary sa I think as a commentary he said it's all very nice for him [laughter] he said if somebody was by you're right but this is for people who weren't there [laughter] sometimes this is the way you you you give them access to it what is he trying to say's [snorts] trying to say if you were now you're looking for DNA your mother looks at you says I raised you I gave birth to you I was up with you night after night after night when you were in the hospital for 3 months I sat by your bed 24/7 I nurtured you 24/7 now you going to go get me DNA and if we get DNA that's what's going to create the relationship but if you never had a mother if you're an orphan if you're adopted so what should you do say okay forget it I closed my mind now yeah I need DNA I need proof yeah I need AIS I need people to say oh I remember 39 years ago this woman had a connection to you that's what I have AIS I need Sone that's called Sim I don't have I can't look at this person and know with every five this is my mother this is my father this is already something called means there was intimacy it's connection we're talking here intellectually it's a different type of relationship means the soul sees not the soul he is not the soul understand the soul sees are there questions you may give me a million proes that my mother is not my mother fine I hear you I don't have an answer you know what I don't need an answer and I'm not afraid of questions real amuna is not afraid of questions people think if you have auna you have to be blind no that's already a cult in a cult you're afraid of questions because questions will undermine everything I once had unfortunately a friend he he fell into a cult [snorts] it was a real kban so I would talk to him and he once told me he can't talk to me anymore I said why he says the cult leader told him a cult in Philadelphia that he shouldn't talk to me anymore I said why he said because he said that you just you won't understand and you're not interested in the truth and therefore I'm not going to talk to you anymore I said maybe he doesn't want me to talk to you because I may ask you a good question he said no no no no no no no can't be if if I'm afraid of my position I don't want you to talk to certain people I don't even want you to talk to yourself because if you talk to yourself you may ask good questions real is confident it's not you if you need it you want to go to the DNA path it's very interesting and it's it's fascinating but it's not what's going to nourish the soul the the the the nourishment of the soul is the it's the Seeing it's the visceral knowledge it's the relationship itself when you prove hashem's existence through se you don't have the Divine experience you have proof that people your SE said I have a good story for you but I don't have direct connection with that story the connection with that story that requires a different skill in the soul it's a different the soul has it this is called and that's why it's a means it's more Transcendent it's not filtered through the limited structure of logic which by definition is all about structure and because it's about structure it can't be tus Infinity it could be tus mathematics it can discuss the mathematics of Infinity but not Infinity I mean real Infinity I don't mean Infinity in terms of U in terms of numbers so the of is a not like the B that other people tell me the story it has a very deep impact if you tell me the story and if you prove it through DNA it's a very powerful thing but it's it's not me it's your story that I trust the bat means the B that permeates your entire msus because it comes completely from within once you see something on that level now when there's an obstacle it's a whole different relationship you're not competing with something that can cast a doubt now this is a very sensitive idea because if you jump ahead right a person could just say I see it I see it I see it in other words this can also come from a place of blindness there's nobody to talk to so that's why he says NE is important and then from a person can reach a level of which is another fuse in the soul it's a it's a capacity of the soul and then he says even the B of which is is something that there's Aus of an opposition and you have to be at and you have to be at either nullify it or elevate it explain that's from the the son of the when you speak about there's an that is communicated to be Theon is immersed to nullify something outside of it this means that the yes precedes it and that's why the needs to be at M because it has to reckon with it and it has some some value some significance relative to the so the a is the yes but the definition of the a is that it's combating and disproving the yesh deeper yet is which we call in the of suus in the is the third day of sukus but everybody says it in the we speak about the soul and we say comes with the word it Embraces it's connected it's it's Cleaves and it's one B with you it carries your your oil your yoke it carries you it's called from the word right it's oness from the word Singularity to make you one he says this is what does this mean and this Dimension there's no other that you have to be because in there's no reality outside of that's the frequency of Beyond frequencies it's the so over there there's nothing even to be yeah it says a day that's so the five generally every day we have three was connected to days that there was a carbon like we add a fourth F we call it mus that's the only in Kipper is the the fifth which is that's connected that's the level of yeah that's the extra it's so is such an elevated and then you have that's why is called so the says it's because means closing right like n n is is a lock it's to lock it up so we say the time of the Gates of Heaven are about to close because the Sun is setting on Yer so the gates are coming down so it's like the feeling is you know you know throw in your last petitions you know you could still vote you know vote for a good year vote for the right for the right year because the gates are coming down that's that's how we T did everyone said look at in volume four we learned once about he says there's a deeper TI in during the time of the Gates of Heaven came down already but you're inside you're inside that's the Gates of Heaven are closed but you're not on this side of it you're on the other side of it that's the and that's distinction he's making between and is much deeper than it's not the relationship of it's a relationship like when you see something it's visceral it's intimate it's direct no question can challenge it and no answer will make it stronger you're not in that realm again not because you're stupid and cultish and blind and and and illiterate and you hate and you're lazy we're not talking about that that's a different League we're talking here about something that's beyond sophistication it's not afraid of sophis it's beyond sophistication and the the Simplicity of a simple Jew that simple is rooted in that of of seeing so he gives a of the in other words you have the that's still competing with the yes but the is so real that it's Yes yesh means somethingness is no thingness and no thingness prevails over somethingness what does that mean in a person's life yes is when I'm in a mode of somethingness so I'm always looking for survival because it's something that I have to hold on to I in I'm in a place of nothingness which is ain't sa it's not a thing so it's the source of everything if you're a thing you can't be the source of everything cuz you're a thing if you're no or nothing you're the source of everything that's what a is so there a state of a in where I'm competing with the yesh that means there's a conception of yeses deep inside that the ion has to combat and they have some connection and some relationship and when you see the reality it's a different type of dealing with the obstacle the obstacle doesn't occupy that significant space because you're completely in a different realm like I saw the story I was there you want to argue with me you can argue with me if you know you were in Australia last night right and then somebody proves to you with passports that you weren't in Australia cuz you could only have one passport and the passport doesn't have a stamp from Australia you can't get through customs you're not Superman you're not Harry Potter so how did you get into Australia you were in New York questions so somebody who's T TR if I'm the FBI and I have to investigate that's going to be the evidence the evidence is going to be from the passport right but if you were there you know [laughter] you could take your questions and ask them but I know where I was unless I'm a certified m f something else then I can't trust myself that's the power of it's a whole different recogn it's a different recognition there's something called spit and finger G you know intuition a six sense sometimes you see things but I thought this was a visc in yeah yeah I'm just giving different examples [snorts] this is a knowled yeah it becomes it becomes a knowledge it becomes a knowledge and that's what real Das is and deeper then is which is even deeper so how does intuition to does it lead one to yeah sometimes intuition opens us up to to you know look again you know sometimes our intuitions are very very On Target you know I know somebody who was uh for years he was working with somebody and uh but there was always a voice in him that said this is not a good partnership it's really not a good partner but it it made sense on paper it made sense some paper and just one day he followed his intuition and he detached and it was it was a little rationally didn't make sense later he found he found out that his intuition knew all along that this was a horrible horrible relationship there was something very very very toxic and unhealthy and things that were really undermining undermining him but there was no proof but his body his body knew it but the intuition began a journey so there is a level of seeing things and that's what he calls and that that connection that's a me it's not from someone else telling me it's it's completely from within but over there he says there's still something you have to be so you're dealing with the on its own terms is already a of the so many ways you can talk to the neam in a way where you know come back with a different script like it's so obvious what the ne is what the soul is you know come back with a different script and the way you deal with it is there's a certain Clarity and a confidence that is completely not confusing you could get confused because you're talking one brain to another brain in is a Clarity of the that's indisputable and therefore it's very identifiable are you an obstacle are you not an obstacle what I need to do to help you what you need to do to help yourself you could still have compassion but there's a Clarity that's indisputable you don't get entangled in the struggle that's there's no struggle [snorts] does no there's no opposition why because is the of there's no other that they have to be because there's no outside of now I can't just jump to that there are moments when gets revealed there are such moments when that moment happens gets revealed what's revealed what's revealed is all of reality is experienced so to speak from and is all inclusive includes too so there's no opposition you say yeah but I had trauma and I'm insecure I know doesn't deny facts and I feel so much fear I know and I feel so much guilt I know and I feel so much shame I know doesn't argue with facts but suddenly lifts up the to Atmos and in Atmos everything is so I'm not competing I'm not contending there's no war there's no battle there's no negotiation there's not even a Clarity what you have to do what you don't have to do there's no other outside of that's the frequency of it's the frequency ofm it's not frequencies anymore because it's not light it's the essence itself in this space everything is one all my experiences in life were just infinite Consciousness having a finite experience so was infinite Consciousness you never stepped away your neam was never separated you hear what he's saying there's no they have to be you don't say let's talk about b b means yeah something has to become bottle something has to get nullified what is it my ego my ego needs to B this B there's B that's proven to me that's B that's visceral but it's B the word b already means b means to nullify to subsume to align to connect means you're in the place of there's no other to be it's like pre-creation pre-creation you need B there's no b b is an insult to stop talking to me about B we don't have to talk about B yeah yeah different level but yeah looks like there is a French word for it which is transported to English which word from to Clairvoyant so it's Clear Vision Beyond physical right Clear Vision yeah like do you say the third eye you know the Mind's Eye that Clarity and that's what real is but it's Vision yeah this is it this is it there's no vision it's past that yeah is above the vision I'm perceiving but the perception is so Crystal Clear there's nothing that's going to undermine it so you'll ask questions the questions are good I may have answers I may not have answers let me ask you a question you think Jews had answers to the pain of the world why didn't they ever say you know what okay so there's no God [laughter] look look at look at the atrocities look at suffering these are good questions I know they're good questions first of all cuz I know they're good questions and cuz I see who asked them [snorts] was also a big he was the they asked these questions they all ask these questions but they never said afterwards okay so now based on all these questions we're going to change the philosophy and probably this world is just a random mutation and it's a mistake and he said no no no I'll prove to you from the Adam that there was a compo and it becomes a philosophical issue it the questions were very real questions but they knew the questions live in the world of SE and they have to be respect it as that and that's why to give stupid answers people think that to have a you have to give stupid answers no it's it's it's insulting people's intelligence it's insulting people's amuna don't give me stupid answers to strengthen my Amun you know why cuz if my entire Amun is based on those stupid answers and that's what you see constantly you're talking about two Realms you're talking about two leagues in the world of you're asking very good questions and in fact my brain cannot wrap itself around certain things but my brain doesn't have to wrap itself around reality and therefore the pain is going to be there and I don't have to delegitimize the question I don't have to make believe you're a fool for asking qu qu questions it's like part of what we spoke yesterday you know when you have to start shutting down parts of yourself it comes back to haunt you speaks to theam in its language has a Clarity a vision that is so visceral but the questions will not undermine it but yet it won't undermine the question it doesn't have to and is that the question doesn't make it weaker the answer doesn't make it stronger so you can appreciate the fact that the brain doesn't have access to this level of reality I am fine I understand ain't is ain't and my structured logic does not get it if I would have been God yeah [laughter] like likey writes right if I would know him I would be him you know sometimes I tell myself thank God I'm not God like [laughter] God it's hard it's very hard at least I mean I guess if you're that I don't know I'm not going but sometimes we we we feel this pressure that we have to be God you know what I mean having to understand the world is a position that only God needs to do I don't have such an it's not one of the have a Mitzvah to put on a Mitzvah to give to somebody who's not interested to understand the word yeah yeah true and the ram says that the way to and is to understand the world right but the pressure to understand every mystery and every Injustice it's it's Titanic it's it's beyond and that pressure can itself drive you crazy so there's a Simplicity in auna that can experience reality without the need to delegitimize questions and with knowledge that there are questions that are beyond beyond comprehension and yet it doesn't take away from the reality of a that's that's all in then you have y is a completely different league is the part of the Soul that's rooted in the essence of just like before creation so there's no other to be that's not arguing with the neas it's not convincing the it's not persuading theas it's not entangled it's not even being M anything it's all Oneness there's nothing outside of a it's the way the world experiences reality the way it is subsumed in complete Oneness like the ray of a sun in the Solar core the mush the ray of the Sun in the Solar core we have the ray of the Sun but it's completely completely subsumed in a so it's all a manifestation of so it doesn't deny anything that happened to me in my life but in the level of it's all he say there's no to be so there's not any more Two Souls that are struggling with each other or convincing each other or overwhelming each other or killing each other or transforming each other even transforming each other I'm not I'm not in the I'm not in the field of transformation in real real also translates in relationships between people real doesn't need to be doesn't have to nullify anything so it's it's it's its experience if I could use the word experience because of a better word could be in relationships as well father to son friend to father to son and and husband to wife and friend to friend and person to person on the contrary the the ultimate relationship is I'm not just relating to you so it's not just my defenses are down my defenses defenses being down in a relationship is already one of the biggest and hardest things right defenses to be down which means complete trust like the trust that a baby has Compares himself he says felt like a little suckling in the arms of its mother you know you ever look like a little baby an infant 3 weeks old 3 months old it's cute it's delicious it's Angelic and it's being soothed by the mother just finished eating right the mother's waiting for it to uh give out the burp so she can go to sleep and they can both go to sleep you know and the the safety in the eyes of that child you know what I'm talking about there's a Serenity unfortunately we live in a generation today where there's a lot of pressure on mothers to go run run back to work after short maternity leave so sometimes a mother may need it P for her own psychological stability to get house sometimes she needs it because there's two jobs they need two jobs to support the family to pay for the bills and even then it's a challenge but sometimes it's part of a modern Distortion that having a job outside of the house is somehow more important than holding that baby but today we know that attachment is the foundation for everything and the deepest forms of attachment or the lack of it are formed in the earliest earliest time after birth so there's nothing greater for a mother and father to do than provide attachment for that infant because I would say I would say I mean most scholars in this field say that most of our wounds as we develop is attachment wounds there was some wound in our attachment as an infant there's a void attachment there's absent attachment there's confusing attachment you know the mother is on and off the father is on and off there's no attachment and all this creates scars in the development of our brains which the neab is going to have to deal with why am I talking about mothers leaving their children I forgot oh so like that that safety of the child in the bosom of its mother you know that's how he felt so in a relationship of the there's no defenses because the is so I'm not busy defending I don't have to be defensive I trust you you trust me that's the foundation of all relationships and then in that itself there's the ne there's the so is the core of the there's nothing it's experiencing and it includes everything so there's no they have to be M when opens up when the fuse of gets turned on the experience of life is absolute Blissful infinite Oneness and there's no opposition there's no like H but I disagree because I'm really a very bad person the neas is not a bad person on your level of or look how ruined I am I'm an incompetent person look how much fear I have everyone is part of of that conversation because it includes the as he says there's no outside of but then you have lower different frequencies of the there's the way it's is it sees there's a Clarity there it's not but there's a Clarity so it's relationship to is one with absolute CL Clarity because we're not in a debate there's already debates there's conversations and it's important it's not bad debate doesn't mean you you lose a debate means I have to listen to the other side you have to listen to what says that's because you want to talk to the and then each one is and I can't just wake up in the morning and say I'm just in [clears throat] real is not afraid of is the essence of all of them right so even in I can hold on to the you're before CL after CL or middle of Cl [laughter] yeah so that's the truth in yish a person reflects T ta reflects a person so in y you touch on something very beautiful we have different dimensions of learning T it's known and so it says in cabala in the writings is it's the frequency of and that's its power it's the literal interpretation in other words it deals with the world on a concrete level and then you have and and that's which is isus what do we mean by this different levels of t explore and relate to different dimensions of the universe like if you open up a book of caban it speaks about it doesn't speak about how to make the black boxes for that you look at how to make the boxes and how to write the letters and what to write and what makes it that's what is that's and that's the that I have to put on if I put on only I'm not I have to eat mat that actually my teeth can say a the mat is delicious this year Etc but when talks about right will say you're being being once I thought I'm putting on black boxes yeah you're right on an AIA level it's a black box with with parus inside on anilus level it's the energy of that you just connected to your brain and to your heart so there's not a contradiction just different layers of reality just like when I take a microscope and I look at this very table or this very tissue I'm going to see deeper dimensions of the tissue doesn't mean it's not a tissue [laughter] doesn't mean it's not a tissue it means based on the instruments you have you will perceive a different level of reality but ultimately the tissue is a real tissue God wanted this tissue cu the fact that we live in this world and we see a tissue is supposed to be a tissue what's so is it's the fifth level and what's the is never doesn't negate if is competing with the other four it's not that's how you know you're not whenever I'm in competition with other people or other Jews or other parts of it's not it's not oness I'm busy competing doesn't compete with NE doesn't compete with doesn't compete with doesn't doesn't even compete with the it's a place where everything comes together so it's the it's the core and in the core you have everything because it's the core of everything you're not going to there's no place where is not there because if it's a place thatum is not there it's not ultimate truth is the is the truth of everything so it's the truth of NE the truth the truth of the truth of if it's only truth of then it's not the totality of the person like he says there's no they have to be M because every msus is experienced from and in and over there it's so here all the parts of the person so it's not a question of it's not even a question of the word b even doesn't apply H that's the fifth cup of of PES you have the four cups that we drink and you have that's the connected to that's the fifth level that's we don't drink it yet because it's the fifth son very good so the four Sons it says Diel the four Sons is is Russ is you have to always keep those two together because could influence doesn't get stuck and then you have that's what it says in the Reb used to speak about the fifth son who doesn't come to the seder at least the four come to the Seder and I would say that the fifth son brings out the and the only way to bring out the fifth son back is if you reach him with there's no alienation there's no alienation so many ways the reason our generation has so many of the fifth Sons is to help us stimulate our own it's not just I'm not defensive it's much deeper than that every real relationship is no defenses you can't have a relationship if my defenses are up if I sit down with you and there's no complete transparency and Trust we can't we our relationship is very superficial that's why trust in a marriage is everything without trust we don't even begin to connect it's all fake I mean it may be better than a third world war but it's it's like two diplomats sitting by a convention in the United Nations you know what that looks like where there's a complete that's rooted in so when you talk about we literally have different layers of T they all touch a different spectrum of reality and everyone is Rich it's all but it's the way the comes into remember is not comes into and then there's the pristine element of and over there and that's the energy that people feel when they learn what's the energy what is it it's not another V it's not a in the you have Rashi you have ran you have you have you have you have you have right you have the and each one it's it's it's infinitely Rich cuz it's never competes with never competes with it doesn't have to put something down in order to become who it is because it's not defined by a realm it's not defined by a color it's not defined by it's the essence of the it's the essence of the it's the essence of the it's the essence of the it's the the core it's the DNA the atmus of everything where is DNA where is it is it in my ha is it in my teeth is it in my fingers is it in my it's in my heart maybe it's only in my brain it's in the serious limbs it's in my liver it's in my kidneys it's in my nails and what's the answer how could that be come on you're comparing you're comparing a strand of here you can bring a tooth to the brain you can bring it to the heart the answer is the says from if you get a bit of it you got all of it nobody understood what the B meant what's if I take theum of this tissue I have the whole tissue it's a joke when you're talking on the in DNA we have a musle for it when you're talking about that level of the body so you can give me the tiniest tiniest strand of here right it has everything on the level of on the level of nerves no sorry the hair doesn't have nerves you could cut your hair I'm not going to scream you can cut my nails I'm not going to scream everybody understand that certain limbs are more vital than other Limbs and more essential to life Etc but on the level of DNA every n if you're part of the organism every nuda has the whole because what is DNA DNA is literally the blueprint for the entire body not just for one one strand of here entire Source Cod it's the entire source code exactly and DNA is not busy competing with each other if DNA is competing with each other in an organism then we we have some serious issues because it's it's one on the level of every every of it is is everything as as that's the can we learn one more paragraph okay let's learn one more paragraph now we come to since everything is so just like you have you have unholiness when it comes to you also have something that tries to undermine and even and that's where Mr comes in represents and arrogance the has an expression you can be a kaga means a crown in Aramaic a kesser You Can Be a King Without a Crown that's what a Malik wants to be without a crown meaning I'm not competing with you based on any R there's two forms of two forms of arrogance that's why it says in the in the song of the sea they speak about right in the beginning what's the L over there I'm going to sing to hasem because he is exalted of the exalted so this that's one type of go and then this it's a different level that can have some rational justification and then there's a doesn't need reasons there's an arrogance where you're a talented fellow you're a celebrity people go crazy about you you're getting validation from the whole world you have 9 million likes for every stupid clip you send out right so you start telling yourself you know what I'm smarter and better than most people at least there is a substance there's something there you a talented fellow you I don't know beautiful charismatic interesting you made a lot a lot a lot of money didn't happen from nowhere right your Ingenuity is incredible your work ethic your charisma your fearlessness you built you built companies you're a tyon and you look at it and you say you know what when this person walks into the room right everybody and and you you start taking it you start taking it seriously it's a miserable life but I could see where how the person how it happened that's what the navi says don't don't let the not start becoming arrogant because of his wisdom or the wealthy man because of his wealth you start thinking it was my strength my credit my strength my Brilliance my resourcefulness my looks my handsomeness and he says even a person who knows that it was a GI but he says you know what I deserve it I deserve it and this creates a relationship to life one of ases in GA I walk around with ears around me and I walk around with a sense of an inflated sense of self it's a very difficult life to live because you're so dependent on validation but this we we can understand how it happens you know you're the Talk of the Town you you you own this and you you own that nobody makes a move without you you know I want to go into Google I need you I want Facebook I need you Tik toac I need you Instagram I need you even when I want to go to bur Park on ways I need you because you created ways or Etc whatever the type of it is since there's sub some substance behind this G I can also lead you out of it I can show you how things happened how things occurred in fact your neighbor in class your classmate you know is much smarter than you [laughter] [gasps] he didn't make it he also worked harder than you he also started off in the basement right and he's working in a grocery store if he could make ends meet he's happy you could show a person how things work you can also show them the results of GAA look what happened to your marriage look what happened to your children look how many escapes you have look how crazy you became look how many real relationships you have you can you can talk people into it you can talk them out of it at least you can begin having a conversation that will cast doubt in their head and will bring them on a journey towards bitt towards healing it's a journey but it's a journey where there's a conversation the has an expression there is where the Arrogant person is actually poverty stricken there's a level of that is not tuning in to any facts it's a level of that absolutely doesn't have to have any reason any justification any substance so sometimes people lie and they have such an audacity they don't need any facts they don't have to deal with anything I'm just lying for the sake of lying without any any feeling of conscience that have to be committed to truth this is a level of Tunes in to a space of arrogance that doesn't need any justification this don't be it through didn't come through it's not going to leave through it's not you're talking you're talking to the wrong person it's like you try to convince a horse to come to the she was irrational hate irrational hatred what's irrational hatred talk and talk and talk and tell me you're a good guy yeah the more you tell me you're a good guy the more I see how weak and stupid you are and I'll kill you even better I'll kill you more with more efficiency and you have to know it when you see it the worst thing you can do is negotiate and and I'll talk you out it's a different level this is as we learned earlier there was a hot bath everybody was in a of the Jewish people when you're dealing with amik you must have why CU amik represent every rational person would stay away from what amalik did he destroyed himself he couldn't help himself the irrational hatred of amalik that level of arrogance and hatred is beyond what you can explain so now you're starting to explain to amalik all he sees is that you're taking him seriously and you're weak so it motivates him to do it further what is this in a person's life we also have this inside so when a person has this level of it's not enough works with in a limited way because it's Bap it works with your mind it works with your heart so you can affect things that also have a measurement but things that have no measurements they defy comprehension they defy reason so now when I need to get through to them I have to go to a level of some times there are obstacles in a person there's darkness in a person that with I will not be able to penetrate it the person needs to come with the and even more with the to be able to deal with and that's what he's going to continue what that means in a person's life what does look like and how does it affect theik inside of us B will continue on Monday morning 7:45 a.m. shabas we have our regular schedule of sh everybody have a beautiful day and a shabas we see the in the whole world okay thank you to the for coming and gracing US ah they sent it to him I think the guy the guy said I'll s the what the scaf the scaia not from the part of putting yourself self when the esaia is done from the self it's a different esaia I never when I heard I 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timeline where it's she was here right wow and I feel this not for no reason like when you me the real I mean maybe it's in Russian culture we Embrace each other each other and and and the V never stops and what's good about this like I have a friend who like a mnet but he not he's not he's but we have such a love for each other we have completely different totally that's amazing and and the we have is like that's powerful it goes to a deeper Place much deeper place he and me we understand that because we grew up together I mean just well right that's on a level of there's a different type ofus completely completely