Loving Am Yisrael, KABBALAH, Bypassing Gehinom, Market & Eternal Investing - STUMP THE RABBI (55)

[Music] thank you very much for the water uh good to see everyone as you can see the besset here is uh almost up and done I would say we probably have maybe one more Sher here left two possibly depends on how much time the last move takes but uh B we already have quite a few surprises in the works BM uh as usual our Wednesday night is theot with stump RAB you guys ask me some questions will give us the answers um I have a few interesting interesting uh stories all depends on how you guys want to start whether you want to start with the questions or you want to start with the answers um today will be for for Leana SAR David benor es Mercedes Ilana benam Talia SAR s um s and also to sha faran and and all of so we have a nice visitor here from New York it's always good to see uh the uh World continues to uh go crazy I think with uh combination of the uh uh bad things that are happening with all of this you know destruction of property and so on but also I think it's going to get a little bit more Rowdy as the uh elections in the United States uh you know gets to a uh gets closer and closer to an end uh things will get uh bad because what's become normal in today's world is uh things that are against the Torah you know the uh the K uh once said what they call love we call Kit you know people call oh I love her I love her and Torah says you love her but it's KCT because she's not your wife and the problem is today is that a lot of the things that are forbidden have become the norm so what's what happens in politics today that's become the norm is that they Massacre each other publicly in every way shape or form without any regard whatsoever to the fact that these people have families or the fact that these people uh maybe didn't even do what they're accusing him of doing no without any regard whatsoever to whether it's true or not doesn't really make a difference don't let truth get in the way of a good post and that's really what's happening today is that the politicians especially the top ones the president or the ones that want to be president Massacre each other and I really don't understand why anybody would want to be a president after seeing how much torture the recent presidents get you know and uh from the media and how one day they hate them the next day they like them the next day they destroyed them and then they didn't get destroyed any so they try again and it's just a never- ending situation I mean it's not like they make that much money I mean they uh the president of the United States makes $400,000 in actual salary and uh but then he has all of his expenses paid let's say he called another couple of million dollars a year of course he has a paid gig for life that every time he's ever going to speak moving on he's going to be paid a few hundred, which means that he's guaranteed to make a good income but somebody like Donald Trump for example that already has a lot of money uh I don't really understand why anybody in their right mind with that type of position would want to be president because it simply means that you're going to be public property for the rest of your life the topic of conversation for the rest of your life and uh I don't really know why anybody would want that attention unless you know it's a uh just simply for G for for Pride that oh I did it and that's a very very sad state of existence because people that have G and I think I told you guys this one time in the series we had a few shim about it people that have pride they're much much worse than Beggars much worse than Beggars because a beggar he comes to you he's begging give me a change give me a dollar give me a quarter give me something you give it to him he goes away especially if he made enough money for whatever he need whether he wants to get something to eat a place to stay or drink whatever it is bottom line is he got it he's gone he's finished he's finishing begging for the day it ends at some point but a someone that's prideful his desire is addiction to Pride never ends because there's no amount of pride there's no amount of cavod if you will an honor that you can give him or her it's so sad that you see some of the most established people in the world beg beg for attention do the dumbest things in the world just for attention do the things that make absolutely no sense whatsoever just to make a headline just to go on some TV show and unfortunately you also see it in the uh in the religious world where you see some people that are simply begging for attention so what do they do they contact the media and they tell listen I'll be on your network why would we want Mr by nobody to be on our Network well you talked about homosexuality and uh I think it's okay oh Rabbi says homosexuality is okay okay yeah you're welcome to come to CNN CNBC CN this C that and that's how people like for example that's how he establishes himself everything that's forbidden he it's allowed and in essence how does he do it he simply tells the media yeah you remember that verse in Leviticus that says that homosexuality is an Abomination yeah it's not really relevant you guys just didn't understand it so let me show you the beauty of theah and by the way my my daughter has a sex store you should highlight do also maybe she'll make some more money in Tel Aviv a rabbi's daughter that's what she has owner of Tel aviv's first kosher sex shop she wants to promote intimacy between couples in the framework of Jewish values and she joins me in studio right now and this is how people that are proud live their life they feend for media attention they're willing to do anything for it and I tell you that if you're seeing if one day I ask you guys for a favor actually if one day you start seeing me on the news networks on a regular basis stop coming to my I'm asking you for a favor do me if you start seeing me on a regular basis I one time two times if something good happen something big happens good okay no problem but if you start seeing me on the networks on a regular basis say Rabbi thank you very much for all the good years you're you belong to the media now we're not coming to yeshim don't come why there's no way that I'll be able to tell you the Amit if I know the media is watching no way why I'm a human being I'm a human being anyone that cares about what the media thinks of him cannot learn a thing from him why it's all about pride pride it's all about what are they going to think what are they going to say about this let me make some type of statement that maybe this one's going to get uh media attention and that's why a lot of these Pride fiends these honor fiends these people they're like addicted like heroin addicts what do they do they have a publicist what's the publicist job public job is to take any type of little crazy thing that the person said and send it to the media what do you guys think of this oh it's not good enough okay Rabbi you got to get better you got to get better tell them that uh it's a mitvah tell it's to be homosexual okay next week and that's what they do and that's what they do over and over again and sometimes it's big media like the CNN's and the uh NBCS of the world sometimes it's small media like uh even a Yesa world or a uh local uh newspaper in a Jewish Community but you constantly see the same Rabbi being interviewed for no reason what did he really establish in his life what did he do how many people did he help okay so you have a call a big deal why what's the you know you have to be in the media all the time how when do you have time to learn and that's the thing that people have to be careful of because unfortunately the public today thinks that whoever is popular by default that means they're good that means that they're kosher and that's not correct that's not correct at all it's whoever says what hasem says that means it's good whoever lowers themselves in order to honor hasem that's good but whoever is looking for attention not so much not so much now you may get attention anyway but if it's only because you're trying to be like one of these uh uh jockeys that uh that are constantly saying something to to get attention you're not a person that we can learn from and that's why the says that if your does not have the of meaning he's not at least trying to be a sadik he's not trying to be righteous it's asso to learn from him it's a it's a sin it's a sin meaning like eating pork you go learn from one of these clowns that's on the list it's like eating pig for every single second that you listen to them no no RAB I don't eat pig you listen to them it's the same thing is eating pig no different actually the pig may be a little bit better why cuz the pig will make you stupid for a little while that's what says that the T says don't say that you become imp purified when you hear things that are against hem then that makes you spiritually stupid but for much longer than what the pig's going to do so a person has to be very very careful with who he listens to and why he listens to them uh whether it be a local rabbi or an online Rabbi or whatever it is and understand that we have as as a nation the only M it the only connection to the original source that exists in the world now the Christians and the Muslims can tell you the same thing but it's not true it's simply not true why because their book is not the book that was published 2,000 years ago you have over 200,000 versions of the New Testament who can tell me that this one is right especially since there's a new version of Christianity every other week now there's a new version called Leed Judaism and Messianic Judaism neither one of them have anything to do with Judaism but they're both versions of Christianity then you have the uh the uh sth Day Adventist the uh The Avengers over there they think that they keep Shabbat then you have the Lutheran then you have the Protestant then you have all types of different Christianity and Catholicism and so on so who's right who's wrong how could they all be using the same exact book and arrive at a different conclusion this guy's praying to Yos this guy says he's just the mashiah this guy says Mary's his mother this guy says that Mary is a saint this guy says Paul is a Rashad the other one says he's a tadik there's no real connection between the original source and and what they are same thing with the Muslims you look at the Muslims you look at the their Quran there's thousands and thousands of versions of the Quran thousands of versions of it and every single one of those versions has mistakes that are simply mistakes that a 5-year-old Jew can figure out one example is the fact that they say that mosu mosenu was related to Yos because his sister the sadik was really marry yosh's mother even though they lived over a thousand years apart or better yet and am were good friends even though they lived a thousand years apart and on top of that they were twoo completely different countries so you have basic simple things that the Quran has an error and anyone that knows a little bit of History anyone that double checks knows that obviously this is not connected to the original Source the Quran that you're buying right now or you're getting for free from Mustafa today is not the right Quran that you got 1600 years ago or 1400 years ago it's not but we have [Music] is the same one is the same one now the beautiful part is is that the more you research the truth of the Torah the more you'll know what I just said to be true but even more so the more you'll be able to fulfill the that you know that I am AEM your God you know not you believe you know and it's a obligation for every single Jew to do everything possible to look at all of the Torah proofs whether it be scientific rational or otherwise look at them investigate them and know them to be true because what's going to happen is at some point some is going to come to you he's going to tell yeah but you know that Rabbi said this but the other Rabbi said that and you know that this guy said this and this guy said that he's going to try to confuse you and that's why the says that you have to know enough T to deal with the what does that mean in Practical terms you have to know proofs proofs that God is real and that the only message only message that he gave us is the T no other message especially since he says that he's never going to change his Torah he's never going to change his nation and so on and so forth hm doesn't change his mind so it's an obligation for us to know that Tora is real now unfortunately for the most part doesn't know everything I just told you and that's why we have to do everything possible to help them because not everybody's in your position that knows that a is real or at least is very close to knowing that a is real and his Torah is real not everybody knows in fact most people don't the vast majority of is does not even keep Shabbat which means that although they may say that they believe in God most of them although they may say that they feel Jewish the reality is they do not know God why because if you know God you will not go against them even more so on the goish world non-jewish world vast majority of them don't know who God is vast majority of them are not righteous noahides vast majority of them are Idol worshippers and when we help is do CH by understanding who God is we're also helping the because many watch the shim and know that they could apply almost everything that I just told you to their life almost all of our shim are applicable to all of mankind because it's practically M it's ethics it's learning how to become a better human being not just a righteous Jew but a righteous human being and that's why there are many Jews and non-jews that watch the sh and benefit from them and make changes in their life but it also means that these people already searching for their it and made a promise in a chapter 4 where he says if you look for me you will find me but only if you look for me with all of your heart and all of your soul meaning you have to actively look for a in his in order to find it it's not going to come knocking on your door now it may come as a postcard to your door but it's not going to come nothing what do I mean about three four months ago three months ago maybe we try all types of things to help do all types of things you know try to use our knowledge from business in order to make to to get people to do CH so we try all types of marketing things we print CDs we have the USBs we have YouTube the app this that all types of things so a few months ago we decided to print out these uh postcards that I told you guys so much about and uh the company that was printing the postcards also has a service where they say listen if you want we'll mail those postcards to whatever zip code you want give us the zip code and we'll mail to everybody in that zip code and it charge you on like 50 cents or something like that per per card it's expensive because you have to pay for the stamp and you have to pay for the service and so and so it's expensive said you know what let's give this a try let's give this a try see if we get anything we invested a couple thousand I think a little over $2,000 go for it $2,000 we'll find somebody never know about a month and a half ago a month ago I get a text message someone somehow uh I don't know who they are cuz they didn't leave an name or anything but slip this card under my door and I looked at it and I said wow I've been looking for more information about my Heritage cuz she's a Jew let's see what this movie is all about and she said the movie changed my life I enjoyed every minute of it and today she told me I've been keeping Shabbat for four weeks already now I don't know how many other people did CH from that little tiny $2,000 investment but all I can tell you is that if it cost me 2 million two not 2,000 $2 million to get one Jew to do Chua it's cheap cheap that's what people don't understand people don't understand how much you have to do just to get a Jew to do CH how much you should be willing to do so much so the re says in someone that understands the value of what a Jew is and help helping them do chv would spend his entire life of 70 years chasing a single Jew just to help him do now to give us a little bit of an understanding of what thought about despite our sins our flaws and so on and so forth one of the of Shalom noticed that never ate breakfast between the of 8 and 8:30 never ate it before 8:00 he saw him eat 7:00 7:30 7:45 no problem eats breakfast so obviously he gets hungry early sometimes after 8:30 he sees a meat all the time no problem but never before between the hours of 8 and 8:30 never and a student that pays attention to his R pays attention to these things and he found it un usual and he said what is it for you know one time the tal they went into R shak's house and they were there inside the house and they saw that the rav has books from cabala that are very very very uh old and he wrote commentary on all of it meaning he was a not just in and all types of things he was a giant in cabala but he didn't teach it he didn't teach cabala but he was a giant in it many of dealt with cabala but they didn't teach it why because it's not for everybody himself says that you shouldn't even start learning this type of information until you are be and expert in all of the obligations all of the very Basics and you're completely be and expert in it and you're at least 40 years old most people want their uh second year of chva they already want to start learning Z it's most ridiculous thing in the world but anyway his entire life dedicated to the Tor had come in there in a cabala so the student that noticed that the r never ate between 8 and 8:30 said maybe it's a cabala thing but how do I ask the r if it's a cabala thing if we already all know that he's never going to teach us cabala so he saw and he saw it and he saw and one day he got the courage to ask the r say I noticed that the rub never eats between 8 and 8:30 how come he saw the rub which was almost 100 years old at that time shocked and start crying start crying crying crying but no I'm sorry for the I didn't mean to I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I just I just I didn't know it was such a emotional question and the r looks at him Shak looks at him he says don't you know that between 8 and 8:30 over a million Jewish kids are walking to secular schools the spiritual destruction of am takes place and all of these kids are walking to schools how can I eat when over a million kids are going to be destroyed spiritually how could I eat it's not that is not hungry you can't eat when you know that you have a million kids are going to get destroyed where are they going to go learn from they're going learn from a monkey that they are a monkey they're going to learn to be homosexuals by homosexual they're going to learn to violate Shabbat because it's just like another day to them they're going to learn to steal because that's the way to get ahead what do you learn in secular school what do you learn you learn to have a a wife before she's even your uh you learn to have a girlfriend before she's your wife what do you learn he says over a million kids are walking to school between between 8 and 8:30 how could I eat that's a person that understands the value of to understand such a value for because when you understand the value of you also understand the value of bringing them back to and when a person really wants really wants to help he simply willing to do anything anything possible all types of sacrifices whether it be monetary physically anything and it's hard to find people that are willing to do because everybody has their own line so that's why I always tell you guys you have to have Merit to do K so how do you get Merit to do K you have to learn to without learning toah it's impossible for your KY to work because even if you want to do K even if you want to help people you have to have some merits yourself you have to learn something yourself you have to be servant of hem yourself does not like Hypocrites he wants people to help his people but he's not willing to just give that Merit to just anyone so that's why we have to constantly learn whether it's learning M or it's learning the par or it's learning whatever it is you're learning you have to constantly constantly learn this is one of the key ingredients to being successful when it comes to CUV there's a lot more to say but I'm sure you guys have some questions so who wants to start with some questions something mik no mic today no so sometimes in different books you see quotes from like the zoh mystical books so therefore like how do you know what book is okay okay so that's a very good question now you see quotes and sometimes even I mention uh quotes from The Z how come that Z is is allowed but the other Z is not allowed okay so you should know that there is several different parts to to cabala in the Z it's not just all one thing much of what you see in books practically all of it and all of what I say to you is the midic part of the that's a mid that you're allowed to learn no problem the one that we're talking about that you're forbidden to learn is one is the one that discusses the names of angels and different specific unique acts that a person needs to do in order to sanctify themselves and start changing nature if you will it's called this is also part of it uh and also separate from it there's also cabala that's separate from the Z uh and that's something that you're only allowed to learn from a RV from a very very serious RV now generally speaking it's not something that you're going to find on YouTube anyone that tells you he's teaching cabala on the internet default belief is a liar the liar there's no such thing as cabala on the internet not because I've investigated everyone that calls themselves cabala but rather because it's number one not possible not possible number two you cannot teach anybody cabala number three those people that say that obviously don't know cabala because if they did they wouldn't be offering to teach it because when you deal with that type of cabala it's it's not it's not like teaching regular Tah it's could be dangerous put it that way because what ends up happening is that for for really mystical stuff involves angels and things of that nature and angels are not like a they don't have the same Mercy as AOS no one does but so much so that some of them if you say their name just saying their name without learning anything doing anything just saying their name just say their name they immediately check who you are if you're not meaning you're not holy enough to say their name they could hurt you hurt you seriously and that's why one time I uh uh spoke to my R and we're talking about all different types of uh uh things that I had in my house I used to have these little uh bull statues in my house cuz I was on Wall Street and these Eagles and he told me y remove this remove this you're not allow to have this not all to have that okay fine so I got rid of it and I told listen I have one thing like in my house that's really cool looking uh and I guess it's holy but I have no idea what it says he says what is it I said ah it's this picture with a bunch of Hebrew letters that some uh R uh somebody gave it to me in the name of some R donated a bunch of money so they gave this to me says what does it say I said I have no idea I don't know how to read the stuff I don't know so can you take a picture of it so yeah so I took a picture of it and S to him you only had few words for me get rid of it so I throw in the garbage go no Shalom G so what's G he says you have to give it to somebody it's going to go bury it like a funeral now that I have in your house I said why not what's wrong with it it's a nice picture the frame alone was like3 $400 said how come he says that's the names of angels you can't have that in your house so why not he says because those angels they may not like you so much get it out Rabbi says you do I liked it the Rabbi says no good it's no good so everything that I tell you guys usually I went through it and the thing is though is that sometimes people don't want to hear it they uh they want to continue doing whatever they want to do don't be don't say you weren't warned many times people want to have all of these super Supernatural spiritual things in their house and their life and they want to read all types of things they don't know how to read or they don't know what they're saying as a Jew you have to be an expert in the basics the basics and I promise you the basics are so massive it's going to take you a minimum of 20 years just to know what they are when you know the entire by heart then maybe maybe you could start doing a little bit of and stringencies and so on reality is most people don't even know how to read the so you have to focus on the basics so when it comes to the Z for for example there are mid in the Z you're allowed to read regardless of who and what you are as far as a uh you're learning because just a mid just like mid M and so on and so forth there's many mid they give you like the background details of different things that happen at different times that you're perfectly allowed once somebody says this is cabala either they're lying or you're not allowed to learn it so you have to move to a different direction next question is it sure that it's not then would be maximum 12 months if it's not sins G will be maximum 12 months yeah obviously we have to try not to go there right the idea the idea is to hopefully not go there not go to Gom at all but are you asking if G if uh it's not correct it's maximum 12 months uh yes or no it depends on the sin itself uh there are some sins that you don't even go to Gom for you go to kafak instead kafak is a lot more adventurous than than Gom uh so Gom is not the default uh Ka is a place you the last section I think maybe 154 and Shabbat talks about we learn it from AIG was one of the wives of Daval says to DAV may your enemies all go to kafak and we learned says what's this kaf says kafak is a place where there's this these special angels of Destruction where they slingshot the soul from one end of the universe to the other while whipping with all types of fires and Fun Stuff uh for how long it depends on the sin so for example there is a seance done that they brought one of the Zionist uh leaders in that Seance and uh he uh said that he was at in Kaka for 50 years one year for every time he cheated on his wife so and that's before G that's before gum now when it comes to uh when it comes to uh 12 months and Gom and things of that nature again it depends on the sin if let's say for example somebody stole he doesn't go to Gom he has to come back in a g he has to pay back whoever he stole the money from uh so if he can't if he comes back as a human being that means he has to work for that person that he stole from or maybe he's going to come back as a horse like we have a story from the bmov bmov knew we Hades knew that one of the horses of one of his talim had a soul of his neighbor of his friend that owed the money he had to come back as a horse and serve his neighbor until uh until he died just for owing him $500 or something like that so he knew that this Soul had to come back he couldn't go to ganeden could have go anywhere why cuz he stole money when you owe money to people and you could pay back you can't you don't pay them back it's considered stealing so and you if you stole outright you can't go to ganeden even if you kept Shabbat and everything else it's very very important for people to know that with blood on your hands meaning stolen money on your hands you cannot enter geden even if you kept the rest of the Torah if you stole money from people you have to return the money in order to go to ganeden it's very very important for you to return it now what happens if uh the person that you stole it from uh doesn't exist anymore you have no contact to them or perhaps a company a big company where you know that uh if you go to this company and you give them the money maybe they'll arrest you or you have no way of returning the company money let's say it's a big company and uh you can't go to the cashier and says Hey listen 20 years ago I stole you know $500 worth of Twix from you uh here's the money you're going to give it to the cashier cashier puts it in the in the pocket she's not giving it to Walgreens so what do you do that kind of money of either a person you cannot reach after you've tried or an entity that could put you in danger that money you have to donate it for something that's going to benefit the public where in the name of those people so in the name of that organization or the person that you stole you just in your mind you do you don't have to write on a check this is in the name of Walgreens this is in the name of Steve you have to do that just in your mind I am you know donating this money to this public benefit to make up for the money that I stole 10 years ago 5 years ago 30 years ago and that way you give it to the benefit the public uh now what's benefits the public it could be a homeless shelter it could be Kyo it could be a uh some uh Park that benefits Society all types of things that benefit the public uh and and you do it that way that way you clean yourself up now what if you don't have the money meaning you stole 5,000 but really you only have 500 well start with 500 and then work yourself up and little by little give the rest of the money you don't have to pay P all back in one shot if you don't have it but if you have it pay back as soon as possible cuz you don't know if you're going to survive you don't know how long you're going to live you can't don't make a payment plan where you don't need one so for a sin like that like stealing a person can't go to ganeden and he can't go to Gan either he has to get an opportunity to recover it now if a person is got enough chances enough chances to recover stolen money and he didn't recover it and hasem says no more G for this person then the uh the says there a special few group of that feed him sand in G in one of the sections they feed him sand uh over there you can see in the sh I did about Gom it talks about that not not a fun thing I promise you it's not tasty uh and it's not even soft sand either no sauce nothing so bottom line is you stole something return it that's my suggestion now for other types of sins other types of sins it all depends it all depends on who what when and what you did but remember though you didn't commit just one sin what everybody keeps saying about gay is one year G is one year which is one quote in [Music] the and also in a few other places says Gom is 12 months that's implying you made one sin who here can tell me they made one sin to today today one sin one today so obviously you realize that if you made one sin let's say you got that sin got you a month sentence now by the end of the day you probably made five sins so let's you probably got two months the next day you made another few sins you got three months by the end of the week you already had a year by the time you got to 30 years old you probably have 30,000 years unless you do unless you do say I'm sorry I'm going to do better already from the second you say I'm sorry you're already cutting your sentence you start doing you start doing serious serious you could actually turn all of your past sins to to imagine how much than account we have of sins is how many sins we have turn all that into you're the b when you go from sins now what if you want to avoid all gay them all together there's one ticket that I know of that exists my R taught me this hard for me to accept in the beginning because I didn't really think am was such a big deal at first I just thought I love AEM so that's why I want to do kiru but then the more you get to meet am is the more you fall in love with them especially when you deal with them with their problems and their suffering and you suffer with them so I started realizing more and more how important kiru was and then I realized wow what a from the only way the only way to avoid G all together is if you make k your business meaning you deal with it daily that's your main thing not that you don't have a regular job not that you're a rabbi that speaks not that you give out to but simply kiru is a permanent part of your life if you're let's say making a living automatically without questions asked you're giving at least M or more to kiru but effective kiru not Cube that brings Church uh the priest to the to the synagogue real Cube that actually helps people do CH that's what Z says says anybody that deals with they cannot even talk to him at the bed they say go go go go we can't talk to you you're too uh too much of a cross that's the only thing that I know of that I've ever heard of that simply is no gain on whatsoever why because you've created so many by the time you arrive at that there a says does not want the r meaning the guy that gave the CDs every single day the guy that gave flies every day the guy that made movies every day the guy that spoke to people every day the guy that did C every day the guy that gave day which means that his job even if he's working for the utility company of Florida but he's donating 500 bucks a month because that's his M his job becomes C that guy that guy is uh that's it his whole job is cu we can't talk to him why cuz he's a what do you mean he's a he wasn't a no no he's a look at how many B he created We cannot put him in G and they'll suffer they'll suffer that they're Rabbi the guy that gave him a CD is in G so we cannot by default he has to go to G this is unbelievable from hem why because not only are you doing something good but you actually get paid for it which is unbelievable cuz sometimes the CBE that you do you do with your family you do with your friend you do with people that are obviously part of your nation you're doing something that's that's kindness and you're getting paid for it so that's one thing that I know of aside from that again remember all of the different things that happen in the world as far as people are trying to tell you to lower the sentence it's not that we want to increase the sentence we don't want anyone that's righteous to go to G only the wicked not that we want them to but that's what the Tora says so you have to understand every sin has a different sentence and every every sin has its separate sentence meaning some sins they're going to get the person to the first level of Gom some sins go to the second level of Gom some sins a one month some sends a two months some sends a 2,000 years some sends a permanent so it all depends so a person that just let's say for example goes to the fifth level let's say of Shalom that doesn't mean that once they finish the fifth level they go to ganeden they now have to go get retried retried to see where they're at they may have to go to the fourth level the third level the second level first level just to get out of this whole thing so it's not so P to just say no no everybody goes to Gom for one year that's it that would make Hashem evil if everyone went got the same sentence that would make a evil and that's what the ran writes in sh you cannot say that everyone has the same sentence why because it doesn't make any sense that someone that murdered people on a regular basis his entire life is going to get the same sentence as someone that stole for let's say two years of his life it doesn't make sense that they're going to get the same sentence of somebody that raped it doesn't make sense if they're going to make the same sentence at somebody that violated Shabbat every single day for 50 years it doesn't make sense somebody else that was a missionary doesn't make sense that all of them are going to get one year to say that Hashem is going to give everyone the same sentence would turn ashem into an evil God so that's why anyone that tells you maximum one year either it's because they're a liar or they're ignorant which sometimes is worse or a combination of both or they just want your money they care less about the truth they just want you to say make you feel good you're a sadik don't worry no matter what you do you go in there for a year just give me some STA and everything good that could also be it either way you have to use your mind you have to use your logic if I robbed the candy store worst case scenario I'm going to stay I'm going to stay spend the night at Central Bookings worst case if let's say the Walgreens supervisor is an anti-semite I'll get me arrested I'll go to a prison for for for a day a Jailer for a day and they'll release me the next morning after the judge says there a petty crime get out of here worst case but if I run a Ponzi scheme and I steal 30 40 $50 million don't think you're go to Central Bookings for a day you know if I murdered one person or two or five and I was a one of these killers I'm not going to jail for for one day or a week or a month why it's a different crime so if a human being understands the different crime have different sentences needless to say the knows that different crimes have different sentences we just have to sometimes no there are many many liars in the world that are simply trying to pacify you to make you feel good why because when you feel good your pocket automatically becomes bigger and that's what happens a lot of times people are looking for popularity contest but I'm not looking for popularity I'm looking to get you guys out of Gom and the reality is it's not so so difficult not so difficult all you got to do number one stop sinning the big sins the obvious ones stop first thing when it comes to T when it comes to stop the sins stopping the sins is not slowly stopping the sins is immediately everything you know is Big not low don't do it don't do it you did it do chva right away don't play around it's not like some people oh no maybe I don't want to go too fast okay you don't want to go too fast with learning you can't go to learn 12 hours a day no problem that's fine that's a mitvah but the evil that you're doing yeah it's not there's no slow motion here there's no stop killing people slowly there's no just rape one girl a week There's no such thing you have to stop right away stop violating Shabbat stop eating pig stop uh violating the toor of things that you know right away first thing stop second thing is gather as many as you could possibly get every you could possibly do third help other people do the same stop sins do help people do help people stop sinting that's it you do all what I just said very very three-step instructions very simple the entire you're going to G but if you don't stop sinning step two and three are not going to help you so much if you just stop sinning but you don't do mitv it's only a matter of time you're going back to the sins because you have to do something with your time if you think you're going to sin and do mitvah together at the same time do whatever you want and your is going to work it's not going to work man as Freedman thinks he's doing K thinks he's doing K all these K think they're doing K everybody thinks they're doing K what's the results you see the results you see the results one of the just opened up a new a new scam conversions a conversion program this where they're starting they're they're publicizing a kosher conversion program where's the bed we don't know how much is it cost H depends who you are where could I live anywhere you want do I have to live next to Jewish community no no no you just just pay us and everything's okay fees yeah just send us a this month that month this month that much for What videos that we have online for free all types of unusual things who's running the program a non-jew it can't get better than this it cannot get better than this guys who's running the program non-jews conversion program that's me I know this for fact I my own eyes so you have to understand you know who the r is based on his t if that speaks highly of the r if the that speaks of the also so first thing first stop sinning second as many as you possibly can every Mitzvah you know you have an opportunity Chase it do whatever you can to fulfill the Mitzvah praying every single day learning every single day doing ker food by the way I just found a newah today I found new I learned this newah there's a Mitzvah in the Tora that if you if you have a roof you have to build a a fence so nobody falls off the roof right a I don't know what is a window sill I guess something that's going to protect people now most of us don't have these roofs how do you fulfill this mitvah today if you have a pool you have a pool right you have a pool and you have little kids you have little kids in your house how many how many disasters have we heard AO of kids falling into the pool and drowning you don't want to fulfill a MIT spend some money put something around that pool why you're protecting people from danger yeah it's going to cost you I don't know a thousand 000 I don't know how much this stuff cost says borrow the money if you have to and I'll pay you back why for my 100% cash so you what you build you build a little fence to protect your own kids for your own kids your own benefit no no it's your own benefit but I'm going to pay for it why it's myah you fulfilled myah you're protecting little kids all types of things that protect people so it's very very important to take advantage of these MIT it's easy meets sometimes you know people ask me can I just say one sha for the whole day yeah technically you can if you're in the house all day you don't leave the house you could say one blessing say and have that it means for all of the food that's sh for the whole day but why would you want to do that why wouldn't you want to do B every time you eat or sometimes people say listen does this need to be uh does this need to be can I just do on it why would you do less why would you want to miss out on do every mitvah you possibly can every mitvah you possibly can now technically you could say one sh if you're in the same location the whole day you're not leaving the house and you know you're going to be there all day working on your computer or learning or whatever it is you could do one Shack call for everything that's sh for that day or if let's say for example you have in your mind uh that you're going to eat several fruits you could do a blessing of for one fruit but have C that it means other ETS that you're going to eat you can you can do that but if you have an opportunity to do other blessings let's say you know that you can eat this one now and the other one maybe in an hour maybe in a half hour maybe this don't have the cover for both of them do Another Blessing it's another mitah that's why he says that every Jew has to do 100 blessings a day you do 100 blessings a day for sure you have AEM in your mind all day you have Hashem in your mind all day you go to ganed so it's not that hard to get the ganed But it requires stop sinning without stop sinning nothing works nothing works and it's very hard for some people to stop sinning because they're connected to a sin somehow either it's a uh a person that they're with intimately their wife a husband that they're not allowed to be with a girlfriend a Shmo a business a uh a profession whatever it is there certain people that are tied tied to the sin like it's like in them it's a very very hard Chua for them but they have to do it for themselves they want to go to ganed sometimes it's very hard it's a bigun but that's your test that's your test and you have to pass it you pass that test you're going to ganed next question K it sounds like almost like a contradiction earlier contradiction that that a person who sins the only get out of jail free card so speak is if he's he's involved in he first half okay so you just said that a person can't can't do fa the second or third step without getting rid of the sins how does that no so everyone is going to sin I'm going to sin you're going to sin and everybody's going to sin at some point and then you do Chua for that everyone sins everyone sins the person who's doing including the person DQ he's gonna every even SCH sinned everyone sins and then you do Chu but the key is not to be glued to the sin meaning not to actively sin knowing that you're making a sin and not care if you have a sin that you're connected to and you're glued to and you're simply not willing to let this one go gu has a girlfriend he know he not allow to have a girlfriend not willing to let it go whatever kiru is doing right now there's no way that's going to work why cuz for that moment whenever he's he's has this mindset that he's not willing to let this one go he is someone that's unfortunately not uh not considered part of for that particular issue why he's he's simply canceling a part of the Torah now if you sin you fall and Dov du that's one thing but if you simply decide my life is going to be a sin on this part and no sins on that part that's a very serious problem so it all depends if a person wants to do serious Chua he has to stop the big sins and he has to make sure he stops the sins that he knows about and that may take him time but he has to stop them kiru may help him get the Merit to get the strength to stop sinning but as far as the kiru of itself being effective to get many people to do chva that only happens if he has M Merit like serious Merit there are many people that try to give lectures or give CDs or share things and do different things but the results are minimal in comparison to other people and it's not because the other people are better speakers or they give more CDs out or they have uh more money it's not because of that it all depends on the Merit of the person where the Merit comes from how he number one cleans self up or herself up make thems holy so that's the stop sinning that's the stop sinning part you have to make yourself kados that's the stop sinning part second thing is MIT mainly learning T the more Tor you learn the more holy you're going to be after you do those two things sacrifice sacrifice for the sake of sacrifice for T sacrifice for the sake of of now all of these different parts they may come all at the same time they may come at different times and you're going to be tested in different ways but the point being is that it's not that a uh one guy is uh able going to be to do kiru because he is a uh good speaker and one guy can't do kiru because he's a bad speaker no sometimes you have the worst speaker in the world do the most amount of K one example m mhu worst speaker in history he had a stammer and a stutter in so many words can't talk can't talk imagine if instead of me speaking to you it would be like a b see that's mhu that wasu unless he was teaching Tor when he was teaching Tor there was a speaking from his throat worst speaker in the world without t with spoke from his throat so it's not that one is a good speaker bad speaker what M have over everybody else aside from the fact that he had amazing midot he was the most most humble person of all he was willing to sacrifice his life for so aside from learn from learning T fulfilling T doing you know perfecting his midot and so on he's willing to sacrifice so he did not succeed because of his natural human skill sets he succeeded because of his MIM his actions when a person's actions show AEM that he cares and he wants to be holy he wants to be a representative of a he or she can succeed in getting all of to do when he's showing that really he's trying to like make himself successful not so much one of the examples is somebody uh came to rovic and uh rovic had a event one thing that rovic had he had always had people looking to hear him speak always wanted the speak ponic had a huge huge and and helped orphans and the needy and so on he M buildt A Torah Empire and needed millions of millions dollars to support this so you would have different events and people would donate money andonovic one time was one of the events and a guy that uh came from slabodka uh came to the event to raise money he didn't know there was was the rovic is event he came to speak but soon as he saw the is over there okay I'm not going to raise any money today but okay whatever I'll give them I'll give a and I just sit there and listen to the r speak so before went on he spoke to who are you I have a yes small yes Inka trying to raise some money that's what we he okay how many people this that what do you do okay okay he went spoke a little and then the comes ROV speaks and he starts telling people the things that break your heart what happened in the Holocaust how they tortured am how they starved how they were murdered how they took babies and Tor all types of horrible horrible things breaks your heart and then all the things of what they're doing now and now they're learning to and you're taking these babies and turning them to me and so on and so forth and everybody's already excited because you broke our heart but you're lifting us so people are starting to take the checks those days there's no PayPal there's no there's no venmo now people took their checkbooks everywhere so people started to write checks but before he finished says I know that all of you came here with a giv heart and you're here to give but I ask you to please everything that you were planning to give give it to him don't give it to me the the visitor shock of his life why the has millions of dollars of expenses he has he has this he he needs the money why just this this whole event for him why is giving me the money he goes no goes we'll talk later okay everybody now they see he's giving to them they decid you know what let's give him more raised enough money to support his for three years after a few years the got together with the again he saw him again he says I really appreciate what you did but I have to ask you why the r has all types of buildings he has to build or he has to support why would you give it to meich tells him something that we all have to learn from he says what am I here for what am I here to build buildings am I here for people to say I'm a big Rabbi what am I here for I'm here to make sure there's more Tor in the world now yes I have most I have and I have all that stuff and we need the money of course but while I was talking I realized that if I tell everybody to donate to you they're by default going to realize that I'm not here just giving them a lecture so they can give me money I'm here for the sake of the Tora and they're going to end up donating more money to you than they would donate to me and what was that mean that would mean there would be more Torah in the world so what do I care if they donate to me or they donate to you they donate more money there's going to be more T in the world how many rabbis in the world do you have such like this sometimes you walk in or I walk into a Sho people sometimes uh get excited they say oh Rabbi Rabbi Rabbi who's the only one that's not excited the rabbi why they think I'm here to take their job oh what are you doing here I live here oh you're staying here for a while no no I'm just here for I'm I'm leaving soon oh okay okay okay where do you pray what difference make let me just pray leave me alone they got start they start getting worried why they think I'm here to take their job why do they care about their job so much they care about donations oh he's here donate one time I gave a lecture at one place and I don't talk I don't ask people for donations I don't charge for speeches nothing except you people I charge you guys $1,500 ahead pay sunny at the end and venmo venmo s venmo so anyway uh I don't charge anything but somebody invited me to an event and uh I spoke we spoke to some people there and uh sometimes people come at the end of the speech they give me a few dollars and okay shom so the event was over a little disappointing the the amount of people that showed up a little disappointing thatth what happened but whatever we did what we did we tried now at the end I saw one guy uh um that I know and uh said hi to him and I used hi and I left and uh later on like a few days later he contacted me he says rabbi did you get it he said get what said did you get the money that I gave you said you didn't give me anything cuz what do you mean I gave it to the rabbi to give it to you said the you could ask the you didn't give me the money he goes you're kidding me I said no I'm not kidding you I'm not going to go call the RAB hey by the way you stole my money I'm like if you want call the rabie he goes no no I don't know it's on okay I'll send you I'll send you what happened I went did a free event and the rabbi stole the money why when you're money hungry when that's your reason for why you're doing this role then Rabbi is not your role you're a businessman that pretends to be a rabbi you're a businessman and that's unfortunately what happens a lot if you are worried about money you should not be a rabbi should not be a rabbi yes of course you need money to build and you need money to support and everything cost a ton of money 100% but if that's the reason why you're doing it shouldn't be RAB why go be a businessman go open some some Mall go uh build buildings go do real estate go be a doctor go be a lawyer go M Lawns do whatever don't be a rabbi why you're not supposed to be doing it for and that's what happens many times is people get impressed get impressed when they see oh this Rabbi build he's got 300 kids there one of saw that his were impressed by a rabbi that open the Yesa he's got 300 kids and every time he would come to the Yesa he would dance with them dance with the kid ah wow such a tadik such sadik he's dancing with his kids every time every day comes to the Yesa what a sadik is Right Rabbi he says I don't know does he dance when somebody else opens a Yesa with 300 kids meaning is he dancing because of the Torah that he's producing and that's in the world now or is he dancing because he succeeded because if he's dancing of a Torah that's being produced then he should be dancing just as much if somebody else did it if somebody else open Yesa next door to him with 3,000 kids would he dance just as much or he' say can't believe he beat me I can't believe he opened a bigger bitet than me I can't believe his campaign worked can't believe he raised $100,000 I can't why do you can't believe why do you why are you hating if you're hating that means you're not a rabbi that means you're not holy that means you're a businessman and that's what happens many times when you focus too much on the money problem is you cannot help people that way you lose all of the so it's important to know that yes money is involved it is in essence a business but it should never be the reason why you do it you have to make sure that you're doing it for the right reason to honor hasem to publicize to to help people everything else is secondary and it's it's a very hard test I can tell you that it's a very very hard test uh because most people that's one of their top desires is money most of the that's their di they think that money means safety money means Security money means uh success and so on and so forth and that's how you measure yourself uh this is also the reason why I personally for myself one of the things that I do for myself to help myself is I don't talk to people about money people call oh listen I want to donate can I call you no call Naomi call baa call somebody else call Ghostbusters don't call me yeah but I want to talk about something else oh something else I talk to you about something else I talk to you about money don't talk to me about you want to donate donate it's on you don't you raise money no I don't raise money I press share on on on the internet anyone wants to donate donate that's what I do other than that I don't talk to anybody I don't convince anybody for money why cuz I know I'm a businessman I was a businessman for my whole life if I call you I'll convince you you to donate your mother if I'm trying to sell you you'll donate your parents your dog your cat you'll donate everything but that means you'll never listen to me again and that means I can't help you anymore if I put on my salesman hat if I put on my salesman yeah we'll get the money but we'll lose the we'll lose everything it turns into a business I don't want to be in a business if I want to be business go back to Wall Street pays better you understand so it's a rule for myself that I do for myself that to help myself my own don't talk to people about money you want to talk about money call one of the people call the assistance call the people I deal with it tell them what you want to donate they'll take you a little credit card they'll give you the address that's it yeah but I want to donate a lot donate a lot donate a little donate whatever you want don't talk to me about money don't want to do it why it's just I know my he starts up people always try to say oh listen Rabbi I want to do this do whatever you want let's move on next conversation next next I'll talk about your money for you I'll help you with your money of what to invest in you need a one of my students is now opening a new Factory and he wants to do all these different things he asked me for help and guidance about that no problem I help you for free but you want to start talking me to convince you to donate never never happen the day I start asking you guys for specific things and start convincing you guys Hey listen do me a favor can you we have a campaign I start doing that delete delete my number delete everything why I'm serious can't can't it's cannot cannot do both cannot be a businessman and someone that helps people at the same time spiritually can't now rovi himself suffered a lot because of this because he knew he had to build enormous yes and so on but that restricted him as far as how much he was able to teach and how much he was able to learn but he did it as a sacrifice for the sake of is so it's not necessarily A Bad Thing to raise money it's just that it limits your ability to teach it limits your ability to help people specifically why because again people are usually not going to look at you the same once you become the guy that asks them for money constantly now if you have your assistant do it you have somebody else do it no problem but if you're the one that does it it becomes problematic so and that's that's what happens a lot next question yeah um okay Rocky and itates idolatry itates murder sexual immorality okay but then and later in it mentions section where Isaac is as Destin of Rebecca that same word show the bathroom is on the outside it stilles can what's the question why that two why is it three top SS for two what individual ah so the uh the issue that you have is the uh learns specific things from specific words ishma was guilty at some point before he did chuva of many many different sins including idolatry including uh all types of things but actually the says that is did CH eventually now when it comes to uh Rifka Rifka herself was a tadika but she didn't have the same Merit as because her uh parents were Idol worshippers her parents were Idol worshippers so their her Merit was lesser so that's one of the things that you learned from her that's how you connect it her her brother our parents were uh not such good people so that's one of the things that we learned that's one of the ways that learned that her Merit was lesser if you will than who his father was abrah sunny so um how does a person give from stocks how does a person give or or from stocks meaning like wants to take a long position yeah for four five months a year yeah 100,000 in there one day is going to be 50 12 how does he give M okay so from stocks from Investments not just stocks so let's say a person has a uh $100,000 in cash or $10,000 or whatever the numbers is it's all relative and he wants to invest it and uh the investment goes up in value now he does not have to give M on the money until he realizes that gain meaning so long as he did not sell that investment it's not a real gain it's an unrealized gain and therefore he does not have to give M on it and he should not give Mas on it because he doesn't really have the profit yet even if the $110,000 went to a million he bought a stock at one and it went to whatever it went to and he made a million dollar now until he sells that stock it's not really a million dollar It's Paper gains only becomes realized gains once he exits the position the minute he exits the position he has to calculate his gain and he has to take M from that gain whatever the gain is let's say he went 10,000 turn into $ 100,000 so he has $90,000 in gain he has to take 10% at least of the9 $90,000 $9,000 and give that as male after that he reinvest the money into something else uh this becomes a lot more complicated for people that day trade and the reason why is because they do so many transactions the vast majority of them lose or break even uh some of them gain but so little that they end up losing so it becomes much more problematic to gain M for something like that usually you're not going to be able to do uh a M like I just explained because you're holding on the position for could be uh seconds or minutes uh so usually people that are have uh they are going to uh give based on the gains on a quarterly basis on a monthly basis on a yearly basis depending generally speaking the word of advice is to try to give M as often as you gain it meaning as soon as you got a gain try to get the the m and that because until you give the M you don't have a benefit from it you don't have a Mitzvah in your hand now why would you want a Mitzvah a couple came to Shalom and they told him uh we have a boy that supposed to doit but the father is very very sick and he's not going to be able to attend theit so we thought maybe we should deler play theit until maybe the father is going to get better in a few days and uh we can do the Brit what does the r think looked at him he says do the right now oh you shouldn't wait no no right this second right now you do it wait tomorrow we'll do it we have to get the mo right now right now do it right away get a mo right now do whatever you can to get the mo right now and do the so the couple they come to one of the biggest rabbis in the world meal someone that talks to the people of the other world on a regular basis he says do Brit right now you do the Brit right now so they call the moel the moel comes everybody's ready to see the little baby get B all of a sudden they see the father come out of the room dancing m music like he was never sick in his life he did the me but then after that okay uh we have to go back to to the r explain to us what just happened here a few hours ago the guy was goess was almost dying now he's dancing no so they come to and they s for the teach us what happened here what is it like a cabala thing no not no not cabala at all said you see when someone gets sick has to send an angel to heal him right s an angel Rael SEL to heal the person that's sick but sometimes the person doesn't have the Merit to get ra to come visit him right away he has to suffer a little bit a week a month a year whoever so how do you get an angel to come how do you get an angel to come to heal you if you don't have the Merit to get the angel to come says you told me you have what happens in the comes the angel comes Prophet comes and they tell listen Leo since you're already going down there we're supposed to go there next week to heal this guy why just take care of that also heal the guy you got that's why I told you right now bring the angel right now so when you have when you have any Mitzvah in front of you that Mitzvah is the most important Mitzvah in the world meaning on Monday on Monday morning you just got out of the bathroom what's more important keeping Shabbat or saying saying why now if you violate Shabbat it's correct if you don't say it's not correct so how come is more important because is right now because you just went to the bathroom you have to see Shabbat is in 5 days from now you understand so right now the mitvah you have right now that's the most important Mitzvah in the world so when you got income you got a paycheck most important mitvah give right away do not delay why don't delay it's an opportunity to do Mitzvah yeah but I could do even Mitzvah later on when I gather $5,000 instead of $50 why you have an opportunity to do the share this Mitzvah over 500 times instead of one time yeah but maybe the it's going to help more if I give 5,000 who is it going to help it's going to help you you could do more mitv every time you give it another Mitzvah you should do that you should do mitvah as often as possible even though it's sometimes a uh uh difficult to do it whether it's uh you know you're you're only making small money so it's not like every time you get $20 you take out of it and you give it to somebody so the way you already start developing the mitvah is you already sear at the money meaning you don't necessarily have to give it to the end user to the the organization right away let's you got $20 then $5 there $500 there and so on you don't want to give every single day so what do you do you take the M out of the money right away you put it in a box or some special account and then when you decide to give it you give it but the key is to try separate that money from your money immediately like it's ke you guys know what Kim is Kim is we not allowed to grow two different fruits together and root them together together to make a new fruit it's forbidden two items two items right so you you're not allowed to do two two different things it's forbidden so the when you have to look at your money as if the money and your money are they're forbidden to be next to each other separate the money why cuz that once you get yourself used to separating the money right away you already start thinking it's not my money it's not my money this is money Hashem gave me 100% I got to take his share 10% % over here 90% over here finished and then whatever you decide to give it to whoever you want to give it to at that point but you have to be very very strict when it comes to it and you have to try to do it as often as you can uh simply because like I said it's a Mitzvah and you got to try to do as many me as possible so as far as Investments the long and short of it is when the gains are realized gains are realized uh especially when it comes to real estate stocks things like that that could change value uh you know uh aggressively in a short period of time one day the stock is 10 so you have to uh take that into account and uh don't give M ahead of time uh simply because again it could be uh it could be a major uh change in a very short period of time do it only after you realize the gain oh and last thing last thing I can tell you this is I know from the business world is uh for tax purposes uh this has nothing to do with MIT this is just a financial benefit some of my clients uh in the past when I was in a in a business of investing people's money uh they would when they would give M to uh to their whatever they wanted to do they would actually give it in stock form instead of in money form meaning let's say they had uh 10,000 shares of XYZ company that appreciated in value instead of selling the stock and then giving M from that they would just give a th000 shares to The Entity why because when you sell the stock you have to realize gains you have to pay taxes on it so whereas if you donate the actual shares to the company then what ends up happening is that the company is a uh you know they they have to uh deal with the taxes and if they're nonprofit they don't have to pay taxes on it so you have a tax gain from that now don't do that if it's like $100 like don't bother the the the the rabbi or the uh the whoever you want to give it to for some you know1 or $500 to open some brokerage account if it's a substantial amount of money it's you know tens of thousands of dollars and it's significant then it's worth it for them to have a brokerage account yeah but if it's like $50 something like that don't do that to them just give them the money and you know you deal with taxes but if it's a substantial amount they may even want to keep it who knows but either way that's a uh that's a way that people take advantage of the US tax code us tax code by giving away stock or or actual an asset rather than giving the uh the money itself yes I'm sorry I'm taking up time you know it's no it's a question you're from New York you get special privileges you mentioned in the beginning of the show that uh it's it's worth it if you knew the value of of saving one Jew would pay up to a million dollar and that's cheap okay two million so realistically to what point do we value the the spiritual life of of one over a thousand over 100 over 10,000 uh no you don't value one over anyone meaning that if priori investment right so so when you have when you have a uh uh investment you have to look at what's going to be the most rewarding any investment that's spiritual and physical you're not going to invest your hard-earned money in something let's say for example you have two two opportunities one opportunity is going to make you 5% a year one opportunity can make you 50% a year you don't have to be a financial Guru to know that it's not worth it to invest in the 5% a year if you have an opportunity it can be you 50% a year right so now if you have an opportunity to invest $1,000 to save one Jew right and then you have the same thing $1,000 to save potentially a th000 juw where do you go you go after a th000 Jew why because it's obviously a bigger gain so this is why it's critical for you to look at your your uh donations as Investments as Investments you have to go try to save as many people as possible this is also the reason why I tell people not to debate anyone not to go on these message boards on Facebook and all these other message boards and start fighting with people about their beliefs that's a complete waste of time for a bunch of reasons number one it's a waste of time because no one listens to each other you could tell them proof in the world and you spend an hour and a half writing it they WR wrote you a comment 30 seconds later you know why they didn't read it they don't care they don't care what you wrote and that you worked really hard on it no one reads each other's comments they're just there to hear themselves talk number two it takes too much time to help this one person and that time you can use and help five people that are easier customers so instead of debating one guy use that same time give Shield to 10 people to 100 people to a thousand people that are willing to listen and not just fighting every there's no time to fight with people anymore people ask me all the time listen my brother he's an atheist he's really knowledgeable about this can you call him no no but he's he's off the D okay I'm sorry you can send in my movie no no but he needs personal attention okay pray for him then pray for him send it's not going to be me why I can't spend an hour with him when I know I can use an hour to save 100 people it's not fair his blood is not more red than 100 people it's not more red than 100 people yeah he's your brother and you love him and I love him too but I don't love him more than 100 people so I can't spend an hour talking him and convincing him to leave the Goya or to leave his boyfriend or to get over whatever sin he's doing and take that time that really I could use to help 100 people so that's the thing you have to look at your time as also part of the investment don't waste your time debating people that are just fighting with you tooth and nail about every little thing don't do it look for easy customers there's a lot of them the vast majority of are yearning for the they're yearning for truth they want it they just need somebody to tell them stop debating people and so on because also you should know people that do that most of the time it's not because they want to help the people it's because they want to prove that they're right it's all ego oh see yeah I gave him 15 proofs I told him this and this and this okay then he do Chu no no but listen and then I gave him 10 proofs and he did this this okay but did he do Chua no no but listen and then after that I gave him the 30 proofs and did this did they do chuva no no but listen and then I gave him 18 proofs and I wrote him an email and I sent him a movie and he watch did he do chuva no okay so you wasted your time no but I give him the proofs okay so maybe your ego is going to go to but you're not going your ego may go to ganeden but you're not going why because the whole thing you're doing is for your ego you're not doing it for yourself you're not trying to help people use that time to help people not your ego don't have an event for your ego don't type 500 page letters on the internet for your ego help people and how do you help people look for the largest crowd look for where you can help the most amount of amount of people with the least amount of time that's what you got to do this is the reason why we continue doing the sh whether there's 20 of you or two of you or 200 of you because I know has mercy on me and he takes this shoe he puts it on the internet it reaches tens of thousands of people a day later a week later a year and a half later however much later but that sh is there it's not gone if you're giving sh and you're not recording them it's like it never happen why because the most you can do is just help the people in front of you that's also one of the reasons why I don't do shabbaton bunch of times people ask well can you do shabbaton I don't really want to be separated from my family but the real reason is I don't really want to help just a couple hundred people I want to help more and I rather spend that same time energy and resources to have an event outside of Shabbat why because outside of Shabbat it goes on the internet on Shabbat I can only help people that show up and the problem is if people don't show up like one time it happened to me I went to some I only did a couple shabbaton in my life I did a shabbaton and I went there it was nice people wonderful but it was only maybe a 100 people maybe maybe 100 people the amount of time the few days that I were there the amount of resources we spent to make it happen probably could have helped uh 10,000 people with that time so again when you're doing it on Shabbat you can't record it so you limit it to how many people you could help in front of you so it's okay sometimes especially if that's the only way you could reach them but if you have another way to reach more people then do that that's the same thing when it comes to your money invest your money where it's going to help the most amount of people invest your time where it's going to help the most amount of people because that's what you care about you care about helping people and that's how you get a lot of merits and it's the key is to look at it as an investment next question I'm sorry Part B I was I was really thinking of um the kind of let's say say bu wants to go to he doesn't have enough money for the flight for tuition to get there should you put out your sale for like let's say $1,000 to help this person get into a is or should you use this $1,000 to invest in in a video that could reach $100,000 people or 10,000 okay so that's the uh the old question is do what's what's more uh uh valuable to invest into a to invest into now some say say they're equal some say they're equal investing into a if he's a serious he learns every day he's going to get 600,000 a day it's very very profitable K can get you a whole lot more but some say that K is much much higher I don't know anyone that says that you know is higher either it's equal or k is is higher and the reason why is for exactly the same thing that what you just said if let's say for example I give this $1,000 to go and learn now I'm betting everything on him now if he goes and learns and he ends up becoming a serious tamid I have a partner a little bit part a little small partner at least in what he's doing I'm not getting every one of his MIT but I'm getting something and if he's a real serious that little something can be a big something what if he's not what if he decides to go to Israel and smoke cigarettes what if he decides to go to the clubs what if he decides that it's not for him what if he decides to come home because he's homesick what if it doesn't work out all of my money went into this one guy and it didn't work out even if it does work out at the best case scenario I'm only a partner in part of what he got not everything the only way you get everything of what does is if you do meaning the real is you got to give him half your money that's the real meaning half the money that you make you give him that means if you make a million you got to give him half a million dollar you make $10,000 you give him $5,000 that's the real real the other that's more common is you give him all of his expenses whatever his expenses is so let's say you make a million dollars but his expens is not a million his expens is let's say $10,000 a month she give $10,000 a month that's is that's the most common that's the only way you're getting all of his MIT and sharing it 50/50 to pay for one of the things that he does one month two months you only getting a small portion but that's again so even if you get a it's a lot of money for the sake of hopefully if he's a if you don't know if he's a he's not a verified yet he hasn't confirmed it yet he hasn't been tested yet he hasn't committed yet it's a very very risky investment like a penny stock on the other hand if you have a video that is reaches a lot of people that's a serious video that get people to do chuva you going to invest $1,000 it's going to reach 100,000 people you can't even compare the two it's like comparing Apple to some penny stock why because that's definitely going to reach 100,000 people that may reach somebody on the other account out of the 100,000 people if it's a good video surely it's going to help some people do Chua and even if you have a small percentage two three four 5% people do chuva you're talking about thousands of people doing chuva and you have every single one of their MIT for the rest of of their life and if one of them has a kid or he themselves turn to you're Rockefeller in gedan so surely in this case that's why most people say kiru is much higher now because supporting is also very very critical and very important part of what we do at is we do both every single month we send money to Israel to people that we know for sure not maybe yes maybe no for sure they've serious people they wrote books they're writing books they're learning non-stop in the co outside of the K their entire life is to so I know that every single penny is well spent and obviously the majority of the money goes to K to help people do chuva and so on and so that's a much bigger need but you do a little bit of both because you can but the point being is that if you have an option of only one you're limited to only doing one then it's it's it's a no-brainer if one is a better product than the other now again if one if the is rki and the K is some video that you made in your house with with $3 budget then give to rki why because you know rki you don't have to test it you know he's going to study he's going to study with the money but how many RIS do you have in the world you understand what I'm saying so it all depends on it's not just a dollar for dollar it's not just Apple to Apple it you have to measure it but generally speaking uh it's much easier to get more benefit from kiru because there's just more of it there's more to do and today it's easier to do it's easier to reach a lot more people uh with K than ever was before in the old days you just do a lecture you reach as many people as you mentioned in the lecture maybe make a little videotape that you're going to print 500 copies of that's the best you're going to get today you spend a th000 bucks you can reach 100,000 people like he said you know so it's a it may not necessarily be 100,000 Jews but it's going to be 100,000 people for sure and you're going to get some people to do good stuff so that's uh that's you know that's what we have to constantly use our business uh helmet for CU and use the knowledge that you have it's what we do the Flyers marketing the CDs the videos the this you try you dabble in different things to see what works the best you know even like for example sharing our stuff on uh Google doing all this uh uh search engine optimization we have a budget we spend on it to reach a certain amount of people but we don't spend a big amount of money on any one particular thing until it shows that it's proven that it's actually producing results once it produce results then we uptick it another $5 it produces the results that that warrants it it's another $5 another $10 that's how you're supposed to do it don't just like throw a lot of money and hope for the best doesn't work that way it's not uh you know Torah is not like Coca-Cola you you can't sell it to everybody you know you can't I wish you could but you can't you know if you send the shim to uh to a bunch of anti-semites I'm not really sure you're going to get that that good of results as uh if you're going to send it to uh people that live in Lakewood you know so uh so be smart in the back me had a question Facebook question no what about Forex what about H Forex someone turns 1,000 Forex is no different than stocks no different than real estate no different than art no different than any other type of investment it's just an investment vehicle the end result is the same you bought something at Price a you sold it at Price B There is a profit between the two whatever that profit is you give M from that profit when that profit is realized not when it's unrealized meaning once you sold it once you cover the short or once you covered the long you realize that profit that's when you pay M uh doesn't matter what the asset class is it could be a bond it could be a stock it could be a uh a uh art it could be a Bitcoin it could be a dog a cat a car people if you want whatever bottom line is you sold something for a profit pay myale people was only relevant in the past one it's aad legal today not let sell people but just in case no next yes let's say you were to put 100,000 right on this for and um let's say uh you saw you were in that ski for whatnot and you start losing and before you lose it all you you cash out at you know you lost 40,000 you cash out at 60,000 you should also be able to give for that no no you lost money you only give M off of profit off of gain off of gain so if uh if you got an income from your job that's a gain your job gave you a $5,000 paycheck that's a gain you bought a stock for 10,000 you sold it for 20,000 you got a $10,000 gain but if you bought stock for 10,000 and you sold it for five you lost 5,000 there's no M you lost money so there's no M there's m is only from a gain not from A Loss if you end up giving money from that 60,000 meaning from your example that you gave you bought it 100,000 you sold it 60,000 which means you lost $40,000 if you give money from that that's not M that's staka staka you can give any time but you don't uh but there's no a second question um B that's a second question no goad basically uh how can a person enjoy a l when family ah it's a very good question how could a person enjoy when he has family members in uh in Gom uh well first off for question number three first off you have to do everything possible to make sure they don't go to G while you're alive while you're alive uh if you do everything possible bring them to a give them a CD share a link send them a book over and over again from time to time you know they uh you stop for a little while you start again you m do everything possible throughout your whole life to try to get them to do chuva sometimes it's once or twice a week sometimes it's once or twice a year but the bottom line you try it on a regular basis to help people to do you if you left this world trying everything possible to help the people close to you do Chua then there's nothing for you to be upset about because you tried plus you should never make your family the only people that you help do chuva in fact you should try to help strangers do chuva a lot more than you help your own family and the reason why is because you want to show AEM that you are helping them not because they're your brother or sister but because they're hashem's kids now if it's It's All About hm's Kids then why do you it doesn't matter if they're your brothers and sister now what ends up happening is that when a person helps kids do CH helps that person you care about aem's kids measure for measure Hashem is going to help about the people you care about now if you do everything possible to help the people do chuva generally speaking including your family your and everybody else you do everything possible and they still end up in gay yes part of you is not going to be happy about it but not for long not for long and the reason why if you spent your whole life trying to help people do ja you're going to have such a good time in ganed you're not going to have time to think about Gom you're not going to have time to think about your family you're not going to have time to think about any of these other people that are in bad places because in in the world of Truth there is a uh there's no uh feelings of this world once you realize the magnitude of sin when you go up to sh you're G to say for putting them in for putting in G because you're going to know what's the magnitude of sin so and also you're going to enjoy the MIT so you're not necessarily people think that you know ganeden is going to be the father the mother and the family and the whole lineage of kids all camping something in ganed ganeden is not camping you know it's not you're not you're not going to see your your brother and sister and camp with them have barbecues and invite them for Shabbat in ganeden that's not exactly how it works ganeden is a very very different than this than the fun and the joy of this world it's Joy that's unexplainable if you will but the point being is that if you ex you know expended all resources in this world to help surely you're putting your family and your loved ones in a better position to be helped by a better messenger because many times people are not going to listen to you not because of what you say but because you're saying it your mother is not going to listen to you not because of what you say but because you're saying it you're her baby yeah but I'm 30 years old you're still her baby she still remembers that she used to change you in diapers it's hard to take reuk from somebody you saw fill up their diaper three four times a day it's hard to take rebuke from them so what happens is don't rebuke your parents don't fight with anyone in your family get somebody else to do it get somebody else to do it take one of the Cs give it to them take a lecture link share it with them it's a much better way more effective way to do kiru uh and also a way for you to eliminate a uh problems where you get angry at people because they don't want to listen to you and that's a sin of itself it could even be so it's better to get other people to do to help your family uh do chuva and you focus your efforts on other people doing chuva strangers that way can reward you for both Next almost done okay is the prohibition of e the first fruits from the tree apply also is it apply in the Exile because there's a Prohibition of eating ah no no it's only in Israel only in Israel the FR first fruits of a tree for the first three years is only in in uh in the Exile you're allowed to eat uh whatever grows in the Exile there's no uh uh there's no obligation to wait it's no obligation to wait good question next yes Joshua oh I've been waiting for you put you on strike today story with okay a similar strategy appli for other like acts you know so was a unique person was a a giant and uh we learned the of the not necessarily because we're going to do the same things as them but rather number one to appreciate theik to see how great they were and how much greater they are than us uh number two is try to emulate them on a smaller scale and not to overstep our boundaries you know there's uh uh knowledge that for example kov Ki the the he uh used to fast from from Shabbat to shabbat while he was writing the M now you fast by the second day you're going to the hospital so don't try to be rough Coy you fast you fast you fast the when you obligate to fast don't fast any more than that why focus on doing other things learn more T do more and so on so we have to also know where we stand so how do you do something even greater than rabusa without being RAB zusa how can you do it there are different levels OFA the lowest level ofak is when The Giver knows who the receiver is and the receiver knows who the giver is both know who they are you know who I am and I know who you are that's the lowest level of taka the highest level OFA is when The Giver doesn't know who he's giving to and the receiver doesn't know where he got it from from everyone's Anonymous so if you have somebody that you trust you tell him listen Rabbi or dear friend or whoever here's $500 give it to some sadik that you know don't tell me who don't tell me who give it to one of your don't tell me who though that's the highest level of why you're giving it to somebody to do it for you obviously has to get there somehow you have to trust this person you're giving it to them he's giving it to the other person the other person oh who gave it to me oh he wants to stay Anonymous that's the highest level of the receiver doesn't know and The Giver doesn't know there are sometimes that you have that the uh receiver uh the receiver doesn't know but the giver knows so there's a famous story of a uh uh y aad very famous story uh that there was a one guy a rich guy named Yos and Yos was very rich and uh was known as the cheapest person on Earth anytime somebody would come to him anytime somebody would come to him ask for staka they would regret the day they were born he would not only wouldn't give them any money but he would embarrass them on the way out go go get out of here you little beggar nothing you go go go so he was known among everybody everyone hated him Kaman cheap stingy he has so much money does he want to give $5 one day y dies nobody shows up to his funeral why Kaman didn't help anybody got his uh Rockefeller bank account doesn't he want to give $5 to the to to some poor person nobody showed up to his funeral except his immediate family a wife kids then a week later 500 people show up to the rabbi 500 poor people show up to him crying hysterical what happened where did you guys come from we I we live here I live here I live here I'm the one that works at the butcher place I'm the one that works at the I'm the one of this I'm the one of that okay what happened he goes we need money he goes what all of a sudden he goes no not all of a sudden we always needed money he because so how did you all manage all 500 Families how did you guys all manage don't know say every week every week we went to the uh the Butcher and he gave us the money cuz where did he get the money from we don't know we don't know with the work the money was there every week for how long 30 years 30 years we're getting the money same thing all the time is the money is the money is the money where's the money com from we don't know so the rabbi goes he says who gave you the money no no no Rabbi I can't do it I can't tell you what do you mean you can't tell me I'm the rabbi I'm the rabbi of the of the city no no no I'm tell you Rabbi I promise I'm going to tell I command you to say it right now you have a problem with 500 people that are homeless I need to know what's going on he says listen Rabbi I made a promise 30 years ago to every week would send me money and he says give this envelope to this guy that works at the winery give this envelope to this guy that works at the butcher give this envelope to this one this guy came to my house this week I kicked him out but give him the money he needs money but I didn't want to give it to him give him all the money he says how did all of you how did all of you survive all these years your that stingy he's the one that financed everybody the rabbi started crying hysterical how did we disrespect yadik how did we not show up this funeral how we all hated him in this he started crying himself to sleep quiet himself to sleep that night y showed up to him in his dream for please don't cry don't cry you have to know I did it on purpose cuz I wanted I heard from that this is the highest level of one one level the highest level of I didn't have anybody that I could give it to so one person knew but I I knew who the people want I wanted to give it to they would come to my house they need money but I don't want to give it to them so I would give it to him and he would give it to different people but to make sure that I have the full mitvah and I'm not getting any honor of it I was a what did I do I made sure that they embarrassed me on top of it they would get mad at me so they would never ever think last flesh on Earth they would think it's me but don't be sad Rabbi don't be sad right now you know who my best friend I'm sitting here with them the rabbi woke up the next day he told this Kayla about this dream he says that's what they wrote in his grave it's a cheap stingy aik and that's how you know the story so that's it next story next story next uh next uh question or we're done next story no so my question is why isn't there about deleting apps digital sh why why is it okay Del ah okay so when uh something is inscribed uh on a scroll on a piece of paper it's considered mamash it's considered real you write Shem AEM Shem AEM on a piece of paper and you don't want it anymore you have to take that piece of paper or that book and put it in Thea they have to bury it you can't just throw it in the garbage cu's name is on it unless it was written by a Christian if it was written by a Christian the r says it's mitvah to burn it but it was written by a Jew a righteous Jew wrote Shem on some piece of paper or in a book and you don't want it anymore it went bad it get destroyed whatever it is you have to bury it but when it's on digital when it's on a digital image of Shem AEM whether it's a digital picture or it's a digital app or something like that it's not considered my mus all it is considered is lights that are hitting your screen it's little electrodes that are hitting your screen that are changing different colors it's not really considered hashem's name so it's not it's not uh there's no uh uh problem in deleting Shem AEM if it's on a computer screen or an app or anything like that because it's not considered real butash is not it's not it's not a real image it's not it's it's a it's like for example if let's say if let's say you here right now I say right I say now you are going to say am in right but the people that are watching on the internet they're not allowed to say Amen they can't they cannot say Amen unless they know that my voice arrives to them within a a fraction of two seconds two seconds if there's a delay more than two seconds then now let to say Amen because what they're hearing is not my voice anymore but rather more like an echo of my voice or or or an image of my voice so if you hear some let's say video of let's say a rabbi doing any Tye of blessing on some video on YouTube or something like that you don't say am in because it's not a you're not hearing their voice you're hearing a digital replica of their voice it's not considered real so the same concept when it comes to the things on your screen right now you see that there are numbers on my screen but if I press this those numbers are gone I didn't erase those numbers it that the light the the electric uh thing changed Chang colors so it was never really there to begin with it's not considered real when you write it on something you could do whatever you want that writing is not going anywhere you could Lift It Up Lift It High put a light on it without a light on it bottom line is that image is staying there because that image became part of that paper that's considered real that's what you uh uh you have to bury but anytime it's a electrodes on a uh on a screen digital screen you uh it's not considered something that is uh holy or or or to the extent where you're not allowed to Ras it so if you write let's say Shem AEM on your screen but you made a mistake you're allowed to re it with no problem all to it generally speaking you shouldn't write a 's name for no reason unless you're writing a digital uh thing a a scroll a sedo or something like that you shouldn't use aem's name uh and even if you're writing some of these things many times there that refrain from doing anyway and just put a hey or a or and not the full name you'll see many do not have Shem in all blessings or sometimes you see posters like a posters or different in posters they don't have the UT KK there they have a UD or or something else that represents aem's name because again you don't necessarily want to just throw hashem's name like a tennis ball you know you want to make sure that wherever you're putting hashem's name that's a place that's holy it's not going to be desecrated and disrespected so a lot of times people put aem's name on like their profile picture or on some uh Facebook poster mistake mistake don't use A's name that way you want to write the word AEM you can write the word AEM anywhere you want because the word Hashem means the name it's not the actual name but rather it means the name that's what you can say Hashem a million and a half times and it doesn't it just means the name why the name because the actual name itself is so holy we're not even allowed to say it even when you say the name that you think is the name which is Amai I'm not saying the doit it's usually with the doit it's not really the name it's not really the name the ud k v k doesn't actually sound as Amai I doesn't say Amai it sounds something completely different we don't say that name never never say that name so much so that when somebody uses that name uh disrespectfully or even says it even says it says no one of the says used to delve into this name used to study this name and he almost lost his you had to get a lot of suffering in this world because he used the name to study it not to write on a Facebook post to study it even that even that you have to be careful with revived the dead so people are stupid they write the the the the name or the sound of the name with the why and the and the way and all that stuff stupid people you write it okay no long no long no l no bye bye bye bye bye it's like a tourist attraction bye bye you see go on a cruise Cruise to Nowhere name of hasem if it's on actual paper has to it's holy means that uh if a uh if you studied for if it's it you have to make sure you have to treat it carefully but also there are some uh that actually also say that even if it's even if it's a t that's not doesn't have aem's name on it a written T and you studied it should also go to G even if it doesn't have aem's name on it let's say somebody wrote up a Torah article you go to Let's say's son is a website of every day they send you another it's a good website and uh those papers that you get if you if you're reading on on screen you finish on the screen you can delete it no problem but if you printed it should put it in a after you finish with it magazines magazines depends on the magazine in it's a normal normal thing to see in y and other religious neighborhoods a special uh uh garbage pale that's not a garbage that's only for G where people put all of those magazines and books every week that's because there's a lot of Torah over there a lot of magazines over there a lot of newsletters out there so every week people take all of those things and they put it in something that looks like a garbage pill but it's not a real garbage pil it's a garbage pill just specifically for Torah stuff and there's an organization of volunteers where they go and they pick it up and they bury all of this stuff as a for the community I don't I don't believe they have that at least in America but maybe they have it in M maybe they have it in uh in Lakewood but uh here I don't know of any of it I don't want to name any magazines but there are weekly issues that give out on newspapers and I see a lot of them end up in the trash first of all they get thrown on on the Lots then it depends it depends what's in it if it's you shouldn't throw it in the trash it's if you read it if you didn't read it no one ever read it then it's there then then there's a say doesn't have any in it thousand T tens of thousands of homes so people read it they throw it out again like I said if if let's say there's a magazine on a table you never read it some will say it has no Holiness in it until somebody reads it but if somebody read it learned it is in there after that he has to put Ina that people are throwing it out they're throwing it out they should put a little note on the magazine to to put it in AA instead uh but yeah yeah it's a uh it's not uh it's not a very commonly uh known uh Al outside of the really really FR communities uh that are careful with these things when I first saw this uh this G garbage pale I I couldn't believe what is this that's why they put I said why are all these books here that's G like these books are in G yeah yeah all these books books magazines this that every week they fill them up you said that um the phone the lights aren uh real it's not real yes so why is a man not allowed to see things that's a different story uh not it's it's not real in a sense that it's not considered aem's name uh that you're not allowed to delete it but if it's an emodest woman or anything like that that is very much real uh you're actually seeing the image itself you're seeing obviously something that's happening that causes thoughts that are happening in your mind we're talking about not real in a sense that it's a it's obviously a real name of hasem and just like it's a real emodest woman but we're talking about real in a sense of how to apply erasing it or not erasing it you're allowed to erase the stuff that's on a digital image on a computer but you're not allowed to erase the stuff that's on a piece of paper it's only the the real or not real is only in a sense of when applying it to whether you're allowed to erase it or not when it's a real uh or even not real IM modesty it's not allowed to be watched at any time meaning real person or even a cartoon not allowed to watch IM modesty IM modesty doesn't have any uh but that's that's uh that's a given but it's it's not real or not real as far as if it's not real like as if you're not watching nothing real or not real as far as whether you're allowed to erase the name different different application of the same word anything else we'll finish for the night because right now you know the rest of the I can go all night want to keep there no give me one more question you're in New York so go ahead the um I you have one yeah um this is an argument I was having with my brother but what's the point for a kid who's left in B mitv to what Tor says what's the point of a kid before doing what the kid says okay so right so a kid doing mitv kids have to start doing mitv as soon as possible not because they're getting the reward for it uh but rather because it's training if you only start a kid keeping Shabbat at 13 years old guess what he's also going to be Shabbat at 13 years old unless you already made Shabbat part of his life since he was an infant since he was a kid that simply understood who ABA and IMA was he already understood that he's not allowed to play with certain toys at 3 four years old he's not allowed to uh turn on lights at 3 4 years old you know by the time he gets to 13 is already going to be used to it he's not going to know a reality without Shabbat so that's keeping the kid pure it's not a matter of he's getting a reward for it but rather it's a matter of you're training him for the time of when it's really going to be effective in the uh in the Sports World they say that uh it's you play the way you practice meaning if you practice with your all your heart with all your heart when it comes to game time you're going to do really really well why because you cared enough about practice that when it when game time comes you're going to be ready but if you practice like a like somebody that's half asleep you're not going to be ready for the game so in essence if your kids are already trained when they're three 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 years old 12 years old to what it's going to happen when it's really applicable they're already going to do very well it's already going to be instilled in them Shalom used to say that he would it was a in his family to already start teaching kids about punishment and even about G when it was 6 years old why if you teach the kid about G to his extent now you don't have to start talking about ripping people apart just the basics of the punishment fire you teaching about Gom at 6 years old he said you're not going to have to teach him at Gom when he's 60 but if you don't teach him at Gom at 6 years old most likely you have to teach him when he's 60 that's why you have a lot of kids that go off to D many kids go off to D because they don't really know why they're keeping the mitv either because all they know is they do it because they have to but they don't know why they have to or they know that uh just about the bad parts and not about the good parts usually it's because there's something missing so it's a complete Torah education starts at when the kids are very little uh and you continue it's not just about teaching them that if you do this you're going to Gan edin when they're little kidsim says when they're little kids you have to bribe them to learn with you to read and to learn Tora and to uh do things with stuff in this world give them candy give them honey bribe them with money B them with money tell them listen here if you listen to me read the par for two minutes I'll give you candy candy okay I'll listen to I listen to okay right now he's not listening to because he cares about he's because he wants the candy says it's the best way to teach K it's the only way to these to why if he starts learning this way eventually the Torah is going to turn into the candy the Tor is going to turn into candy but if he tell listen come here cuz I said so guess what he's going to hate you and whatever you teach come here I'm going to punish you forever he's going to hate you and whoever you're teaching about if you brought him say listen want a present want a present yeah I want present okay come learn out of bed with me okay I'll learn out B why do you think my house the holiday every day constant presence why they learn they learn get present you learn to with M today okay he's a present learn today with IM present you learn to with a present why learn to get presents why I want to have in my house so that's going to cost me every single penny that I have and don't have that's what going to produce why because that's that's what that's what said well I'm bigger thanish I'm going tell you guys I wrote The Z what I write I barely write set a stamp you want people to do CH you want people to do things you have to bribe them sometimes that's why even AAG rashi rashi writes in his day when they would teach kids out of bet they would have it written the Al Bet engra engraved on a piece of wood and then they would fill it with with honey and every time the kid would say the letter the right way they would let him lick the honey why says if every time he thinks of Al he thinks of honey then the the AL is his Tor he doesn't knowu yet he knows Al is T for little kids learning Al Al is T for them that's 100% like you're learning so when a kid learns learn is dancing in so when you give the kid you give the kid a little bit of sugar a little bit of Honey or candy whatever every time he has a olive guess what he's going to think of something sweet when he's 30 years old every time he says and sometimes you see when they say they like this why because they must taste something sweet they actually taste something sweet in their mouth some they actually taste something sweet in the mouth when they learn T okay enough stories for to you today see you guys next week there is a chance that there's not going to be a sh on Sunday but there's good news if there's no sh on Sunday it's going to be a little bit of good news why because that means we'll be moving finally and if we're moving that means that I'm going to tell you the next time I see you a nice announcement about the new community that we're going to build t with everything in it so it's uh if we close the deal hopefully in the next few hours that means that we'll be able to move next week and that means that that's going to be the next destination that I'm going to tell all of you guys to finally when people ask me should I move to this yes finally I'm going to say yes a million people have been asking me over the years should I move to Florida no but you live there exactly don't move but now it's going to be finally a place for you guys to move too and the reason why is because finally we're going to actually have our own place we're going to do a lot of things I'm going to give you more details once it's a closer to reality but nonetheless it's all in the plans it's all in the works I'm already telling people to move to Florida but only to move to where we're going to be not to just some random Place wherever because we're going to be have a betet a place that we're going to build a Yesa school all types of wonderful things and try to build the next Lakewood but even bigger even better uh once and for all we we need to do everything we can to invest into American Judaism uh simply because there are 6 million people here I could easily go on a plane tomorrow and go to is but that means that I'm Giving Up on every single local person in America it's not fair so instead of worrying about my own T I have to worry about your so that means we have to build something and unfortunately what we've been trying to do over the last six years is try to help people do chuva and then they go toet problem is many times they do chuva by us and theet ruins them so we figured that it's time for us to bring some people and to build something special and and uh we're going to need a lot of a lot of a lot of help from to make it happen and it's already happening uh so that's the next step is going to be hopefully the next few days we'll be moving and that will be the destination and at some point also but until then I will see you soon am [Music]