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Love is a VERB
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How do you get more love in your
relationship, in your [music] marriage?
The problem is you're looking to get
love when the solution is to give love.
You don't love someone more because you
received from them. Ava, the Hebrew word
for love, the root is have, which
[music] means to give. Love is because
you built an extension of yourself into
the other person. We've invested and
we've sacrificed for. It's a piece of
who we are. And we love it. Therefore,
as an extension of ourselves. Love is
not an adjective. Love is not about a
feeling. Love is a verb. Certainly,
you're entitled to want the other to
speak your love language. You want to be
the subject of their affection and of
their giving. The solution to get it is
to give it. Give, care, sacrifice. Put
the other before yourself. Prioritize
the other. And introducing the energy of
more love will create a more loving
environment. By giving, you'll be
getting the love that you seek.