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by the way that's a nice concept not
doing revenge on someone that's very
hard to do my instinct everything every
fiber in my body like when someone does
something to me um I feel like I have to
respond I feel like I immediately have
to go right back at them like I can't
let things slide and I think that it's a
struggle for a lot of people and this is
one of the things in our religion I
think that is one of the more difficult
things to do is to get to a place where
you don't feel the need to always
respond to people you can swallow
something and bite the B
and not respond back very difficult
thing to do I really suck at this this
is for me one of my big big challenges
for example we were in a restaurant a
couple days we had a company meeting
there and uh we were at a table and we
were like six or seven people and we
were being a little bit Rowdy but not
disrespectfully Rowdy we were just
having a good time you know talking
amongst each other and somebody walked
over to our table and asked us if we
could quiet down and said you're
disturbing my meal now it happens to me
we were just finishing up we were
literally ready to leave anyway in a
minute or two we were leaving but I was
burning inside I was like who does this
guy think he is how dare him coming over
to me in a restaurant in a public place
where this is not a library this is what
it's for it's for people that come
together eat good food and talk and have
a good time and he's coming to me to
tell me to be quiet who this and I
immediately thought like how am I going
to respond to this and and I said you
know what I I actually didn't respond at
all I said okay no problem yeah we're
actually leaving in a couple of minutes
and that was that but when I walked out
of the restaurant I turned to Mishi and
I said you know I really want to go back
inside I really want to go tell him
something I really want to go understand
like where he was coming from like what
did you mean I wanted to do that I
didn't all right can we can we make
believe I'm that person because I want
to defend that person
