Looking With A Positive Eye - Rabbi Moshe Weinberger (Flatbush)

like to welcome everyone to tonight's year i'd like to give your career to mr mrs mandy palmerance for sponsoring tonight's year we would like to have the great schools of sponsoring one of the shirem of yoganshui teresa saterra worldwide summer program called higgins your attire at 718-851-8651 or email tape center at yeshivanet.com tonight we have the covetables once again from marshall weinberger schlitzer robert goodish flatbush mashiva mr speaking about always looking with a positive eye it's my coverage of calling it weinberger for tonight's structure truth is rabbi bull can probably speak every night but he's very nice he invites people to speak you can sure i tell you a did a tremendous job growing up if you weren't in the country in the summer you had no summer you were the nebuchad who was in the city and irrigan churchill changed that it's interesting it says that he's supposed to try to take the coil and make it into kaidish khao literally means sand you take the sands of the beach and they made them what is the derrick that i purchased your choosing life to be mature and he says it's iron type a good eye what does that mean a good eye everybody has their own interpretation what it means a good eye to think for a second what would you think that mishna means when it says what does it mean rashi the rambam come out old we showing them learn ayantova means me desistapkus to be happy with what you have now that's not what i would have thought ayantova meant to be happy with what you have one time i had a boy i asked him what are you looking for shidduchim hey told me i'm looking for a collar with the medicistapkus i haven't heard that in a long time there's looking for a cow with me doesn't stop because that's looking for that's great neither why is that a derek why is that a mahalaking life i mean this is stop it's a good thing be happy what you have but rebel yes says it's a mahala from life there needs to be a thief kite and what the meat is histopasses and what does an ion toiver really mean today i was by the eye doctor i figured if i got this boy who made me go to the eye doctor today certainly i'm supposed to live with iron typhus now he didn't do everything he does but i'd like to say what happens when i go to the eye doctor it's a whole event first they sit me down and they take a picture of my eye i have to look in the glass and the red balloon usually very blurry and i have to keep my eye open the whole time it's very very difficult it's very hard but i pissed the test today they take a picture of your eye the next thing they do is they take a field vision test they want to test how much you could see out of the corner of your eye so again back to the box and there's a white background and there's little dots on the side you have to push a button when you see a dot so i mastered this test what i do is i keep pushing the button and i get most of them right and so i'm wrong but i'm okay the third thing they do is they test distance how you could see now this i also mastered i memorized the chart but i only remember that the first letter is an e after that i get confused okay but i i memorize the check dive distance and then they check my pressure they put drops in your eyes and they see how much pressure is on the eye so an eye is a wonderful thing me a doctor that if we take these four concepts of the physical eye we can understand a little bit what is and i'm going to start from a different angle but we'll try to work our way back and hopefully our journey will be something that will improve us enhance our lives and give us some kasa the gemara says in torment alexander miketon more commonly known as alexander the great had a salty fish in his hand and he was washing it off in the mayan and then he realized that has a tremendous beautiful smell so he followed the mayan and he found himself at the gate of ghanaid so he wanted to come in and they told him you can't come in sorry alexander you might be alexander the great you might have conquered a nice part of the world you cannot come into hashem to this environment so alexander pleads with them he says you know i'm a mellow don't i deserve something and they gave him a head a head a head a skull a head a head head really a head that's all nobody they gave him a head and he felt it was very heavy so he took a scale and this luscious he took all the golden silver that he had and he put it on one side of the scale and the head weighed more than the gold and the silver he didn't understand this phenomenon she went to and rabban and told him as long as you have a flesh and blood eye as much gold and silver you have the eye will not be satisfied he says prove it to me it's okay take a little dirt put it on the lashes of the eye let the eye close sure enough as soon as you did it the golden silver outweighed the head turbines from gave us an eye but if the eye doesn't see right sometimes you have an eye it's deformed it sees double it doesn't see everything that's the picture of the eye a person has to know when he has an eye is he looking at reality or is he looking at some imagination that's going through his mind an eye the eye and we don't just mean the physical eye because it has a physical eye too but we're trying to learn something to the physical eye because it's very interesting that they used iontaver i in taivor has nothing to do with the eye it's a media we just said whatever the meter is so what to do with the i because i wanted to tell us something by using the eye a person could see something and he doesn't see the emis he sees gold he sees silver he thinks that's important he thinks that's where it's at and he's never satisfied he's never satisfied and where does that come from it really doesn't come from the eye so you do without beholshe the other way around first the eye sees and then the label is then the lathe wants it how come it says [Applause] when i was a youngster i grew up we didn't have much money you know we used to do we used to go window shopping and window shopping doesn't mean we bought windows windows shopping me we went and said oh he saw something oh that's nice i wish i had it next door that's nice we shattered and then we went home so the way it works today nathan tells you to leave not the late tells you mistake the eye sees what it wants to see so the lathe conjures up an image of what it wants to see there were two goddamn walking down the street and they saw a carcass on the floor in the veil one of them said it smells terrible and the other one says ah what beautiful teeth it has everybody sees what they want to see take a trip to the white house take with you an architect a carpenter an electrician the electrician is going to see the lights the carpet is going to see the furniture and the architect is going to see the building is the lathe makes your eyes see your eye sees what the lathe wants it to see like this so the eye can see something that's not even there if that's what your life wants to see it could see something which is artificial not real and think it's real because the heart wants it to be so you know when this happened tell you what happened where's the first place speaks about eyes in the tire think about it first place what right the knocker says you know what even they to that's him and your eyes will be open well he was right but what happened was not what they thought what happened was they got a superficial eye a foreigner he says that at that moment they got what's called the crack admiring you know sometimes you have a child he actually has an imaginary friend and he thinks the friend is really there and one of my children wanted to go knock on the door because his friend joseph meyer was there there was no yesterday there was no friend but his imagination was so strong that terra isha and the lady saw this beautiful fruit it was like so they took the eye the real life and suddenly they understood things they didn't understand before they swore in the way they weren't supposed to see it so the eye now became a very delicate instrument which if you have to have the right pair of glasses to be able to use the eye properly the naphtali trap so okay i have to tell stories i work in a camp in the summer i have to tell stories today even if you don't work in a camp you have to tell stories if you're middle of sheer and you say you're crying you always have to say a story otherwise i wouldn't lose interest is not known to be a great story if you've ever learned can help us there's really no story in kalos kalos is a very philosophical deep look at life but there's one story in cahala's and i want to share this story with you it says some alexa it's an old foolish king and he went and bought him at sudan gadolin and he built huge fortresses a huge siege to a city and boyish miss gang and fellow came watch the person story um and he saved the city what's wrong with the story is because anybody hears the stories how did he save the city he had the zakking excel he built this huge fortress huge siege around the city and all of a sudden he got saved how'd he get saved if i said that story the boys were asking me so how did he get saved something drop here's how he got saved all those mature and good islam were an optical illusion there really was nothing there people saw it but it wasn't there um that's all he used was he was able to penetrate his vision was absolutely clear and he saw there really was nothing there a person has a mirage he's dreaming of water he's in the desert sees water because that's what he wants to see it's a mirage it's not really there as a person has to take care of his eyes that the eye should see what's really there because the eye is very sensitive my rebel crime schmelzer's side of the rock i remember once he said it moves there's a picture on the yankees but the yankees aren't there's no yankees anymore i don't know the picture in the yankees his name was dave riggetti and there were signs all over regedi loves spaghetti so the rabbit said voice he's an italian he likes spaghetti what's after with me you're driving on the highway it's a hot day it's a billboard of a bottle of soda dripping with coldness and it's being poured into a glass with ice and it says out of one word refreshing certainly you need a drink you're doing fine tell me the turret says the eye says if you drink chocolate and kefir you don't want to stop for a drink you have to go further you don't have to go further but that's the kayak of the iron was out and far away from yeshua and far from their brachiative as children grew up and they went to ghana you know if you should stay in the city because the gun wasn't the charade and he went to the ghaznish listen what the hazard he said and the hazard he said if the gannet the teacher is willing to put up pictures of guidelines even if the curriculum stays the same you could leave your child down but if the pictures are rabbits and cows don't leave your child there and the ganetta refused and he moved out of the city the casinos were standing if this person sees a picture of a god all day in and day out you go today to the yeshivas you see on the walls pictures of kidaily islam it makes a russian that's the power of an eye bangla taiwa bangla this gives you the immediacy establishes because when a person trains himself in a moon he's happy with what he has he truly believes that hakadosh parkou is gaza marsh hashanah how much suffering do we have from looking what's by somebody else whether it's his house his car what he dresses with i want to tell you what the pharisees trello says this rebellion hercules is called [Applause] he never forgot his learning why because central has been hooking his health i am type and i entered means me this is stop because she was never for a diet he never had any worries people forget think of the thing about 25 things he has to get this he has to get that he didn't live like that he lived whatever i could who gives me i have and that created a shalva sane that he was able to learn and retain everything he learned unbelievable i want to tell you what to me was a half a fellow dick amazon i was getting a whole preparation for this just for this story a yid came to a rabble and he told the rabbi he has a problem he has a business and a fellow down to black opened up the same business reba i want you to give him a claw his business should shut down it's a rabbit said i want to tell a story a fellow came to my father with the same issue came in said this fellow down the block has a business and i watch for my window people going to him rapper give me a brock i shouldn't be sad and repligate my brother and he came home he's okay he came back to the rep and said rebel give me a brock i should be happy give me a break i should be happy that another yid has panaso give me a broker when i see another year get covered that's the aside of iron trife if maya muna and be talking then i only see good i don't see jealousy i don't see competition i'm happy for another youth it's randomizer in britain very into the royal family so they hadn't they had an event and the queen got dressed up and said shane up a guard them and someone was wearing the exact same dress like the queen that's terrible does it piece of giannis the queen she wears something that only she has so the person wrote an apology to the queen dear queen i know exactly what you're right dear queen please forgive me as wearing this the queen said i have to tell you something i didn't notice the queen never looks at what someone else has but it does it does say it i am tell you that the brainstorm gave me there's a pussac the plastics in michelin who you vira somebody with a good eye is like a bench dimension because he gave from his bread to the poor person and he benched besides that kurdish pearl was going to be stalin and brothers he's someone who he's going to live but what does it mean kim allah boy so i'm going to approach him he doesn't give him just the bread he wants to have his bread not stop and give him food i wanted to have exactly what i have not less and that's godless that's a toy button says a person can't really love someone else like you love yourself you can't i'm sorry i love myself but i can be happy that he should have what i have not less i don't need to show off i don't need to show i'm better than him come on it's okay if he has money like me it's okay if he has covered like me i thought i was a big shot because at least now a gray rogue there's a thousand gray rogues on every five blocks and flatbush gray rogues it's fine you could have a great role that's what everybody else is like what does that where do you learn out this meter from it says that this is one of the meters of three meters abramovino had one is iron typhoon where do you see abramovina because when the male has time offered him now tremendous treasures same very rich nation for the richest nations and he said hashem and the major says that because he said that abraham got citrus because he said now he got feeling dramatic i lift up my hand what's the drama he says you know when you deserve the spoils of war if you fought the battle and you won but if hashem did everything if i could take dirt and it becomes sword it comes a spear then i didn't do it i remind you of the election my hand that fought in the battle was hashem's hand not taking anything and that's the citizens villain tits and film are supposed to remind it's not automatic people look at it so they don't know it's hashem it's it's evil train yourself train yourself for islam with them and that's what your eyes should be looking at that's what your ladies should desire and that's my mail of what you should see and then you see the reality of life you don't see them inside them gadayalam you don't see the casabazov you see the rookies and everything you see the godless and everything and that's to me this is stop us because i see that what hashem gave me that's mine i don't have to look anywhere else for what my job in life is let's take it to the next level a person should have this desire to share it's in the game ralph comes to a meal and is not wearing a belt he said what happened to your belt he said well i gave it away so i have money for kiddush i give you a bracha what's the bracha should be enveloped in silk that's the brah no refund is a short fellow and he went he was by i think his daughter and he laid down all the rich people came crushing the ladies and they took off their silk and they threw the silk on top of them it was enveloped in silk that was the bro he came to rav and rob said oh you should have said bahrain if he would attack her become a millionaire he would have found the treasure i understand first the ralph was very tall so it's interesting so i heard from him which i hold his emma subscribed the definition of the word bracha means to expand to let it grow hashem doesn't just type blessed means should be this rabbit in the world i'll clean the cavalier hashem it came with when you got a bracha and you keep it to yourself that squashes the bra it becomes ice broth it's like a comet's it but if you share it the bracha becomes greater so ralph told him you should have said the matter had you said that the bronco would have been the queen and a much better iphone and you should lie in bed with silk on top of you but yes you try to take it for yourself that's the opposite of what prague is and i entitled wants to share and that's a mind type that's so filled with me this gives you havana and a lot of things that happen in the world too so now that we got the eye in shape a little bit and we got the eye that it should see right now the next thing is peripheral vision and distance vision you can't just see what's in front of you you've got to see the whole picture i'll tell you niphodic about samsufa says by asking iron by the menorah depends what you are yeah if you're a pedicheva so the diticipal learns how did he hold his hand straight that is able to light him up every day he lit it with the same his head just like the first time andrew eventually here's what sam siphon says the lights of the monarch were tilted in tilted in that makes less light it would have made more sense for lighter mineral to be straight up you'd be able to see much better why was it like that there's two lights he says there's two pairs of eyes this is the lotion of the sun there's physical eyes and the two things are opposite the more your physical eye works the less your roughness eye can concentrate when somebody really wants to concentrate what do they do they close their eyes they shut out the physical light and substitute a rookhnius light why do you cover your eyes by shmaya shrow so i'm cypher because now's the time to concentrate and i want to link to something to that we should understand it better when yaakov avenue is told to go down to mitsrayam tells him a very interesting passage yosef will put his hands over your eyes now he knows he's been in clash royale commander if someone's nifty the son should come and close his eyes comes from that passage but this is the big machama fayaka if you know when you die yes can put his hands in your eyes what's he telling him says like this you should know that as you go through history claudius well is going to suffer clarissa is going to gullets and you have many many caches and you're not going to understand the story of joseph should be put his hand on your eyes the story of joseph has got to be a great tragedy a favorite son is sold into slavery for 22 years he doesn't see his son and what's the end result he saved old christian you know what it means to save clients strong yesterday said come down and i will support you and everyone you have and clya's troll exploded and he he fed everyone the fiat taft even what the baby needs for 71 years that's how you used to save christ from so he told yaakov avinu this story of yosef yoshi's it's a hand over your eyes the world is not what it seems when you say israel what are you saying you're saying today we know hashem is ali keno and the world doesn't see it when he took out that tells her of and the nazi guard asked them harabina avu then got where's your god and he answered it's not just my god it's yours too and i'm all developing from there and i heard in these words shema israel today hashem a volcano but there's going to come a time when it's not just a volcano but it's going to be hashem so you cover your eyes when you say shma because when you look around the mathias doesn't match the circle the eyes are deceiving you you've got to look deeper you have to be able to look in the distance you've got to see peripheral vision you've got to see that your ability shoilam is leading us to the shiatsu kanu in every ace sorrow so therefore the lights of the monaria were slanted because the less light physical light you have based on some of you maybe experienced a shallow shooters in the dark it's inevitable this maybe some of you have been there for hours in the dark no one could see you even the mirror which everyone thinks was such a lit fish yeshiva shall issue this was in the dark because no one could see you and in the dark somehow you're able to see the emmas which sometimes you can't see in the light so a personalized i entitled sees the world the way it really is and yes where mazda that i entitles me this establish and he is explained that me this establishes that lets you see the world as it is therefore you could see the world as it is not just in your personal life but in the starship ability has it been working this why is it a derek it's just a me dog it's not a medal it's a way of life and it takes effort to be able to see i once had a buck in my ship 10th grade very smart boy couldn't read could not read so in the beginning of the year he was able to bob was able to do it but by the middle of the year he just put his head down it was a shame tremendous bulk history i didn't know what to do with the boy i felt very bad for him came from wonderful wonderful mishpache i told the father take him to work he needs to be productive he's just a sad depressed boy he's a big gamble took him to work wasn't so great for him a year went by two years went by after i told his father i want to go to the mirror he told me later he really just wanted to go away to israel but he died going to the mirror his father says you want to go to the mirror okay he went there with your israel there was a fellow there's an expert teaching how to read and he taught him to read and land you're in london kylo because he was able to see and then he told me rebbe you should know that i was learning with one hand tied behind my back well maybe two or maybe two but when you're able to see you're able to read history trains himself to see the good and everything so you had a lousy day one day you get up to minha and you say them in one of the books it brings down that there was a fellow rabbi barry rothschild in lakewood and he told a friend you know he looked he was down he said every time you say made him i want you to think of five good things that happened to you that day i was wondering why he said five and then i figured it out every day we thank hashem we're alive you're alive we have the edition of shaman it's no longer with us he used to say i'm so lucky i could have been born to a couple in africa wearing earrings and running around in a hula skirt and instead i'm learning tyrus hashem there's a fellow a young boy maybe as a teenager it's a terrible car accident and the doctors got together and the doctors wanted to pull the plug on the board if he was conscious and he was talking but the healthy doesn't have much of a chance there's one from a doctor and they got into a room and they said he doesn't have quality of life he's missing quality of life so this from a doctor said okay i want to see something tell me uh dr so and so on a one to ten what's your quality of life he says i'll tell you my children don't like me a six ask another doctor what's your quality of life looks has problems with his spouse four or five so let's go ask this this boy so he commented his yiddish akin and they say tell me forgot what his name was how much i don't want to ten ten why he says because i get up in the morning i can say my diaphragm to ten going on tell me a birth of a child is not an ace mommy's come out yes that's as close debris as we have today it's touching gracious that's not it's not the three malacca he ran to them and he understood they didn't want to come to him so he ran after them means to understand by aaron it says he saw what was going on and that's why i decided to make an ego means havana i want to talk about tisha for a second bishop if you look in besides the first capital the pay comes before the iron everything's alphabetical but the pay in echo the pay comes before what i am sucked rashi shot because the miragulum spoke what they didn't see the iron comes before the path that means they saw and then they spoke and they didn't do that they spoke what they didn't saw but they didn't see in english what they didn't saw and i'll see this english but it's not true they they said what they saw they said they saw people dying they saw giants they didn't say lies the end maybe they said linesmen began to say the territories amnesia they didn't see they looked at it superficial that's not called seeing if you believe in hashem and you have a moon of hashem what are you talking about how do you not touch it up different i swore at my eyes man it says yeshua and don't worry kilak there are bread what do you mean there are bread he says how do you get bread you work on the earth you put in seeds you may grow the wheat you grind up the wheat you make it into flour you mix it water all that is the bread when you go to the bakery everything everyone did was for you to have a piece of bread so after everything your abinesh trump did was just that we should walk in and get the bread those big cities that we should have big cities those big fruits are for us to enjoy the people dying was that they should ignore us it says that on that night of fish you're going to cry that night all the time he says what did they cry they spoke los angeles they had sinned on the rabbinis that's in israel because they said hashem hated us that's why he took it out of his ring it started there it started with not understanding how much more who loves us and if this is what's supposed to happen to us then it's good you find truly shyness of it that's juan madriga then there's my dragon gums all the time i he had a heart problem he had a heart problem and had to go for operation his wife was crying for an apparatus of the hearts today we said he had a heart operation might operate some heart operation he told his wife don't worry since i'm good after the operation i take very good care of himself he exercised ate a lot of cottage cheese and he helped himself healthy and then he got yana he said the only way to clear yanamachla he has to take very strong medicine they're not sure if his heart can take but they tested his heart and his heart wasn't the heart of the 60 year old was the heart of a 40 year old because he had taken such good care after the operation that now he was able she turned to his wife's eyes too still hashem magdalene could you imagine what kleisthen felt with this hormone mice the device was marked in the fastest way in the palace we have to get his iris from this to be able to look at life personally and astonishing [Music] i'm going to tell you a certain secret how to do it it's called vocabulary it's the words we choose to describe something a fellow came to palm and he said i have a problem with the shidduch i'm going out with she's too strong so if pam say don't say strong say dynamic she's not strong she's dynamic things are terrible right now i'm going through at times a little difficult because a bunch of people used to travel together in a car pool to the city somehow when he came to work he was always so upset then he realized why he comes into the car and the first person says this about what happened in bed and this guy happened and his boss did this his wife did this his kids did this by the time he came to work he said no more couples of music and the world is good i tell rebellion they shouldn't fall into coffee room syndrome you know what coffee room syndrome is they all go for a coffee and each one starts saying all the problems about them and now and this one down by the time you come back to fellow is so angry but underrated learning talk about the weather go prepare your madame batman i really mentioned we we're our worst enemy in that because if we look at things with a criminal like if we don't try to take the positive if we believe that karishma who loves us and sometimes it gets hard the foot became our vision our vision our peripheral vision is good we see much wider range but then we spoke about distance distance avino has a mice and nebuchadnezzar terrible story think about it and shim and valevi go and they kill out a whole city and yaakov says [Music] fire [Music] he waited till the right time i heard this from the rapper of gifter to his organization it's called the jewish defense league some of you might remember it don't tell me you do because you'll be dating yourself and this slogan was never again every jew of 45 fortifies the type of a gun and the doyle didn't hold it yet there's much time i'm sure as much sad as the leader and invite to cook mr zai handled man it's gonna come back to haunt you they were able to have asia morrison there's a reason why this hadron's called a neha edo they see things differently kyrah saw that descendants are coming from him holy descendants si figgin he didn't know his children do chuva lotion rashes half liver fowler he didn't lose his whole vision he didn't see in the distance you have something stuck in your eye what else can you think about when you have something stuck in your eye nothing he had something in his eye another cut iraqi tell you he didn't have clear vision he wasn't an air a dog that's what happens the last thing is pressure we have a lot of pressure to do things right away to act right away and we don't see the whole thing because under pressure you have to act right away it takes me the caches i saw by my rebellion that even the most difficult circumstances they didn't let go they knew what had to be done pamela slow not right away personal doesn't have patience so you see something naya michigas in the belt we should learn like this and we should do this and then you know there's a messiah that's how we do it you can't let pressure ruin your vision tiring everybody knows the three weeks everyone's the nine days and we got to fix things up you got to check your vision if you forbid that the person which you probably have a right to be and you want to stay off a bit to the person then i can't can't talk you out of it but if not let's rise up let's see the replenishment in everything you do i was like you show them a drawing how he woke up in the morning first you say murida ani then he would say hindi muhammad zuman to wash my hands because he died then he would say i'm getting dressed he claimed the grass of the cacao preparing to daven he would make his beard straight in his pace he would say and preparing to dive in and everything he did was a mice with rabbinic was never separate from the biryani a person like that gets a different perspective in life can handle the challenges of life there are many challenges your body from doesn't want us to fall apart he has nothing from us falling apart but if we see the al-hashem we know that in the future and even now nachos hashem to the day when we're going to desire to see program by sponsoring a share call here in shiretara at 718-851-8651 or email tape center at yeshivanet.com for coming [Music] hey