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need a sink huh you need a sink I'll move out of your way how do you see sink my little my little aha moment from this morning was it says didn't you just say what's what's is no I don't know either and I should probably look at some rein and probably have some better answers than me but but my intuition like what I'm taking is a clear sign for uh mental health like extra cautious yeah like rocku sh like take care of your body like like press option this is about mat right to not forget yes what's what's you can only you can only you can only really remember cuz how do you remember you want there were you there your body I guess not though so how do you you have to be Heth St L cuz I'm recalling ah in I could just leave my chill in here honestly oh I could flip it in middle of how's the coffee review what about the cookie review I like the marble ones more than the chocolate mom telling me about which cookie preferences you have oh right you're after BR I don't have to talk to her inv this is so odd to like walk around like this there's got to be a more the old are going to have start getting used to it cuz right I hope for the world's sake that everybody younger than us is going to normalize doing this we doing it all the time yeah there's too many spreading the well strings is I can just keep it on the other Sor are we continuing or we going to learn a m on the par ter continue no I think the ter continues like with like cavana accj I only see doubles of down here here [Music] maybe oh I started I started this yeah me too but I'm also like problem meant to say he wants [Music] to let's do the second it was given out later oh yeah I think we'll finish either way they both look like I don't know what they're talking [Music] about fell asleep yeah I I just went and skipped I wanted to find the part where we crack up about Mighty Bread Wonder Bread well it when you sent it to me it was on that spot oh it was pretty good sound just for like a phone or whatever your phone's great I just this I bought this to be able to make more content I that's good you don't want the Tyra to support you it's not the prettiest ever background why it's half for battered up nobody knows what's in here that's the The Vault that's where they keep the special special spot that's the the cab you have to achieve a certain level of cleance okay in that land and he found in that year y I believe came out no he found I don't think it's and and he was found he found in that year he found Mayan that's where my grandfather he was the founder of May he founded it he found he found M he found 100 Gates andess like like a value of a measure of of how much land how much yield is a measure it's a dry [Music] me okay very cool 100 hairs no side R yeah that would be side R I just learned an interesting thing last night that the 400 she that paid e was corresponding to the he basically bought 600,000 square foot of a like like for every single one of basically he bought for every single one of the root n of of clol forever one square foot of is now where does that calculation come from because Tera gives the price when it comes to redeeming land Tera gives the price of 100 100 shek for for a for a base which is one second I'm trying to remember was just a fly yeah um try remember the like measur slip my mind now but the point is proportionately it comes out to one is exactly 600,000 that yeah Square cubits because we know what the measurement per person 400 Bas the measure is 50 Shuckle for a certain amount that that if you if you now add it up as if 50 shekele is that amount then 400 shekele is 600,000 I just forgot the the ratio whatever between those two and you know me this kind of uh it was cool it wasn't it wasn't like we had to add or subtract or make like it was just like a very clear like 400 equals this you see sooch thr that chocolate in there I feel like coffee will send the bathroom I I might I might have to do that yeah yeah so so you just got sewed in that land the feminine in the feminine better and he found in that year also feminine 100 sorry it's called the beers or whatever whatever measur of PL I don't think it's even a measurement of land I think it's a measure of the produce of the yield from the land oh it's like measuring what he compared to what he s he got 100 okay down okay this what happens when you start a new par and start on Sunday it's like I don't know these right I don't know if I really did properly for years I should be familiar anyway but anyway and and and and then they BL so I think I think it's like and that he was blessed by like he saw clearly that he he got so much more than he put had blessed him right now blessed him had blessed great because it's like but now to say you're you're so we have to understand this that we say that that had blessed him blessed him after that he that he found the the so the is a is a additional inion over here on additional I'm just sending a link I forgot I didn't send anyone a link additional uh point to him having found the 100 100 you also catch how like in that L we both started started the basically summarizes and explains like what what the M that we were learning from is actually saying in like three lines the intro to that mare is literally we just learned yeah that's what I got from it it just it it flies right through and it's like yeah so that's what we're talk clarify the whole thing oh yes yes it just talks about how like it's like so it came from a place doesn't reach but it was only because after the it's not because of of but but it but it makes it but it manifests itself within a new opportunity for speak like that's why it's like the whole thing is for his son and for his son to marry rifa just like that's the musle of like the sphere like the you know the life or powering it takes the shape of whatever it's powering but it isn't that I really like I started that M and I was like a lot of this is unfamiliar for me like I never learned this so it was really like like this like wasn't really so like it wasn't like getting like I'm not on this level yet it was one of those my where I learn and then I'm like and it like humbled me you know like it like reminded me I'm like all right like I think like think a know what I mean so we have to understand what's and because it comes after why it comes after it says even the way you touched it the first time would make sense so obviously the tah is indicating something like that the blessing comes after right why wouldn't it say obviously the syntax is important also we have to we need clarification why is it just like doesn't say what he bless so is it talking about the or is it talking about especially because it's coming back I think it's a actually is yeast right com s is is like 11 just look but s is also like barley that's with an is that with an olive it's like in like like uh V yes is with an which is so [Music] what's be M 100 times more than I think this is this is in other words more than the normal measure that would have grown considering the effort that put into sewing over here this was 100 times more right so so so this that was 100 times the yield right which normally you'd expect to get one from from the amount that he was Zer and it said he got 100 fold and that this was a br from how do we translate and on the other hand okay also the Blessed him after finding the meaning meaning it's it's an extra oh soic answering it with the question because saying it's that it's separate inion because if it just wanted to tell you you you might already understand that it's a br because 100 hundredfold is already a so and even if and if it wanted to say that it's and to make sure that you know that it was a blessing say it beforehand so that it's very it's read obviously but here you saw that it was hundredfold obvious and they blessed him they bless the fields blessing so it's for sure something separate that's not just coming to teach you that they are bless the field which was not but it's coming D to tell you specifically that was blessed with this nevertheless founding of the of the hundredfold yield is is related to like it's obviously about uhh relates to talking about he found so it's it's it's mirroring what we say last week right we say that was a reward for so I'm noticing like a bit of a pattern here and it says but then the second half that's talking about a different type of hasem blessing him as opposed to just receiving the natural you know consequence of your good actions which brings a form of blessing but there's a difference between AB or blessing seemly that comes from a place that's higher than where you are can reach I don't know if that's what I going to talk about here but it's interesting that it's like copying the pattern like a we just had him last week's par same minion and now we're saying right so before says so by we're saying that is for sure higher than and that was a in itself nevertheless the is adding is bless second so just summarize yeah summarize for the the two people who have joined us sweet what's olive olive so yes SWS the land he finds whatever that he find 100f 100 times the normal the word Bim by the way is usually used like like when something a means it's not what you expect not you expect it that's that's what I'm saying like he found you know that that's already not all okay and he found the 100 fold and hasem blessed him and hasem bless him so we say this it says after and he found we're saying is its own Indian it's special Indian it's n right Indian and we also have thought we're going to explain why it says and doesn't specify what the was and even if you want to say that it was for the field right being 100 fold right so the that comes after finding the the the field is we're saying it's as opposed to it's just talking about doesn't talk about there even though we're saying it's higher than nature and it's an obvious it doesn't bring that element of telling you that it's who blessed them with that it's only afterwards that we have that in right right oh wait wait wait meaning obviously that's part of the but on the flip side the implies that it's something else that after y discovered that he that he has 100f he was that's a even though also this that he finds 100 fold is obviously the blessing of it's not but but on the flip side the the the comes after he finds it and that's that's that has a blessing in other words it's not a blessing in the field it's a blessing in and nevertheless we see that the relating this only after because heuck he gave it away in such a way that and also and I think there's the second point that saying here is that the first part of the pule we like we're attributing the the greatness of finding 100f to whereas the blessing that receives Fromm we're attributing to hasem yeah so it's it's it's a few things that is pointing out about the about the syntax of the P they come to understand this yeah what what it continues to say and the man grew up he went on his way so he went and he grew until he big place what big place right consistently until well grown up through sewing it caused growing within himself right the man grew not the not the field not what he planted grew not only that but he grew as a result of his s two concepts in this of that he found he came across this m unexpected prop of having a h hundredfold times you know reward or blessing yield in his in his field and that the are blessed him Sim with something separate so this is in regards this is all in regards to the to the to the yield of the field right right him finding hundredfold is talking about the multiplicity right the the the magnitude of the amount of the actual of the actual grain just the physical produce the yield who andm blessed him that he was able to sell the for a high for a high amount this comes immediately after of the previous I just that's why we're understanding bying how how the continues saying this right in order to understand this P you have to understand the P that comes afterwards you can't separate the two you want to understand this P you have to look to so so now we're answering at least on a on a simplistic level little shot at least seemingly what this what this means is talking about that the field itself there was a br the field itself grew in you know it's just there's a high yield that's Bounty full yield the added BR on top of that is that he was able to sell it for a high amount too as not only did he have a lot of a lot of product he also had a lot of profit you could say a lot of product in of itself is a blessing he could just eat all that grain himself and be fed for a long time and here is making even more off so now you can have that much grain and get more from it so that's it's added extra so synta on the level shot I mean it makes sense right only exactly after the yield now he was blessed that he could sell it right simple makes sense oh wow interesting little note there there's so much that isn't in the there's so there's so much that we know from so much that we don't know so all the in of theice all the concepts of the forefathers and specifically the ones that is mentioned in the right they are they're spiritual matters this it's understood read the footnote there sure I don't know what that is so the reason the p for for what for for all of the oh oh for all of the the of the being relevant to us we're explaining something related to that that the reason the is that the a were shepherds is I guess by understanding why the why they mention it the obious no I think it's because they were shepherds well let's see see the whole footnote because there's no worry when you're a shepher and so they're able all day to they don't they're able to be open and freely to to they're free from any thought that isn't towards hasem to God all day and the the is interesting they're free from anything that would distract you from thinking about all day meaning to say naturally a person is thinking about all day and it's only TI that take you away from that not I'm I'm B I'm whatever that's the whole Indian but we come from the others that's what we are we if you just put us in a field all day and we have nothing to worry about we're serving the aish there perfectly exactly we're that's I think that's like the of this no well the is the last line qu from that's why they were shepher because that was the that was the physical manifestation of what they were doing they were they were shepherds were the which I guess means Shepherds for us yeah of course of course why but like so in other words all the even the fact that they were shepherds it's not just that the apost because they were involved in so they needed a physical job that allowed that allowed them to be they were that was the manifestation of what they were doing yeah so everything everything about our forefathers is is yes I mean we see that it's it's a common theme I'm seeing more more and more throughout the whole sa for braia like I'm starting to see like stuff doesn't make sense otherwise by the way a lot right it's all because it's before mon that's the whole indan that like before M don't think that this is like a like it's all and after M it's this fusion and all of a sudden you know there's this Union between and and now it's now we're bringing the into and it's a whole other type of that's why Sim but like it's not the same game you know you say that and and and what does that mean that it was it was all they also you say that like their performance of M was all only the panas right they did the P every mitzah the only Mitzvah that was done seemingly that's like on the level of Mitzvah so to speak was like the bris that was the beginning of like actual that's why it's like you know which I find interesting because like aren't there other types of mites that you can do like physically like like like when they got married and they had children that wasn't like on the level of like Mitzvah I say part of the are you part of house not not officially we help you I came from Brooklyn and I left my home there's filling in in this other show yeah there's there's a bag that says b I didn't know that this is known as that's cool I would have answered the like yeah then then you see what the question is and if it's something that needs officially being part of it then it's like oh no we're not officially anyway so so so yeah oh the question is like is like why the bris T is like is it because it's Tire can give me change $3 change yeah yeah perfect I just I need more bills to give to more people you know what I'm [Music] saying so so I feel like these guys should be in yiva honestly like when it's such young people collecting T no one asked my opinion but like I just I like you could arrange someone else to do that and let the kids learn so uh so we're saying all of the in of the obies are Are Spiritual matters [Music] so so from this we understand when we're talking about the of this blessing that his field was Bountiful that his yield is produce also talking about the you know the spiritual Bounty and yield produce right the two the two concepts in and he found the the the the Bountiful yield and blessing that he had the profit the from it right so both both these concepts of there being hundredfold yield and that he was able to sell this yield for for a great profit or spiritual things not just should blessed him with with with things it's a lesson for us in spirituality too and in a way this is's comment on the who writes that explanation of is that he is that he sold it for a high profit words the is not coming to explain something in either is telling you something and we just have to understand what that is like what does he mean right they are they are only in regards [Music] to specific or personal matter which is too a specific matter in other words when you say spiritual you might just mean like all-encompassing like so we're talking about so we're talking about what means spiritually that he blessed like we thought right we're talking about the the this this whole IND is the is the is the is talking about the of and the follows through the the service the toil of sewing it it causes growth and extends into the general l so the man grows so we're saying that that that yog plants y Works y does a a particular AV he does a particular service and that service blesses him in two ways one that his field has a bounty full yield and on top of that that his yield is able to be sold for a higher profit and as a result of both of these blessings he as a person grows as well and all of this is R of course and we have to understand what it means so what is in what is the product what is profit in right what is the product what is what is what is the field what is the produce in what is what is profit we selling it for high value me R and what is a person growing growing as a of these things okay so you could say that the explanation for this clarification this is it is of course of course of course so you could so the explanation for this you could say is according to what says in his uh my with same nothing new here it says who you realize the rebit like I always feel like this when I'm learning the rebit like whether D in theory is just saying go learn this go learn this go learn this go learn this go learn this and my addition is this and mashia now like that's basically what the Reb says the Reb is nice enough to tell us like like this is what's with this is what's WR this is what's with yeah he's a reminder it's like Ezra anyone who's the last is is a funnel that's that's malas right malas receives from all the spirits and then dishes it out to the world below it in the way that it's supposed to be receive right it takes it all into one and then you know that's that's the whole thing what's the explain in his M that it's you find in the measures as [ __ ] it's came or Comes Who even he was even lit up I don't know shining I don't know what the says comes came and he was shining yeah ha means like shining but in a but like giving light giving off light yeah Shining yeah shining luminescent right plants [Music] light all right or's the or light was planted for the for the planted so must have been light must lit right I mean planted and the is correlating the that this planting that planted who that was the light that the tadic plants that's what it's talking about or the light planted for for right I don't know what that is ton oh yeah and in the I guess the m z itself so what is right like we say right talks about CH or like we say in the right so it that there's no except for no planting except for okay what's for yourselves Z plural explain of the what it says that that and planted is is also coming to someone's saying I should buy viewers no thank you hopefully if we plant with Earnest work then we'll have a bountiful yield and a bountiful profit so and then be blessed by us yeah then we'll grow as people so it's not just talking about Saka basas giving money but all Mitzvah that are called with the name of so simply all all Mitzvah that have to do with righteousness that have to do with giving and it should be for us as righteousness itself is also called by the name of planting for six years should plant your field these are the six books ofish right and then yeah this is that y planted is the light that is sown for or for the or for the concept of righteousness foric for for right what what is isn't a person who is righteous is righteousness embod which is the right right that planting grows the the the person the man in general who the cloes because the the planting of is a General the of learning T and fulfilling so we're kind of answering our question here because you might think that like like when it says field and whatever it is is like a specific thing in R like what's the inion of planting were saying no that itself is a clest thing thing because it's talking what's the field the field that you're planting that's just the or or Zera is so it is a Clos big thing that's why that's why it doesn't specify how he was blessed right it's just F meaning because it's a rook n a thing in general as far as following the muscle so to speak like okay his field was Bountiful so he had so he sold it for and then but the person grew all right and it's still been a g to the Indian of because what he was planting what is the what's the product is right right so two concepts that we say right of of of the Bountiful yield and this the profit from that or general concepts right that just as now we've clarified that is generally speaking about just as is a like we just explained so so too the the the things Concepts that that were drawn down from on high through this service are also General ideas General things right he wasn't he wasn't selling one product at Amazon he was invested in Amazon to bring it way back down to me yeah meaning it's it's a specific thing but that specific thing is a is a general thing mhm so the T represents all of tyan mhm and it's exp let me take you over mind explained in many places 17 okay yeah that basically impants what what 17 no I was I was just oh 17 yeah AR written here the 17 is tell yeah so it's like the footnote must be a good one um yeah basically that Hashem puts within within Dash is the is the essential power of the mitzvah right just like within within gardening or or or or or planting anything right within the product that grows within the produce that grows well well within the seed is the is the essence of the product that grows yeah so you need more coffee this are called sewing or planting is a reference to the to be enclosed within physicality yeah yeah the purpose of this is obviously that there should be an elevation right you only you only plant seeds so that so there's more yeah yeah you're not hiding the seed as you said so we need to understand according to this explanation of why are called of of why MIT are called sewing and planting is because there's a into in order for it to grow more right you have to understand to plant we don't do that I'm not the one putting inm did that and gives us the to and like you said by m there became this Fusion of because allowed for this to happen and now it's our it's our responsibility to reveal it by using GM but I didn't I didn't Infuse the the that ability within GM has did that yeah um or maybe where we're going to go with this to say that when you do it you're you're really like changing it but let's see spoiler you're really one with God so what God does you do and what you do God does yeah yeah that uh so we have to understand it seems like the to call sewing is it only really works about he was the one who brought below doesn't seem to be fitting for to say that when I do I'm planting no I'm revealing that that's what that that's the case but I'm not making it that way makes sense how are you going to say that is doing now we're saying is like no maybe maybe like the field growing was but that you know that's after the fact that the so yeah it seems like and so how could it be a lesson for us like what's obviously it needs to be related to us because is telling it to us in and we're supposed to learn something from it and from this as he just said right we understand that simply fulfilling the is also just like sewing so what so the the explanation is we can understand this according to again I think we're quoting from the from the yeah what he writes over there at the end he gives another another explanation on on this concept of the light swn for I love when me and you learn about I want to implant in my the intellect and emotion let's translate it like that of my all my animal soul to be infused with to I want to implant in my animal Soul the the intellect and emotive qualities of my Godly Soul because through this right I I plant that seed and it grows there's actually an elevation in the intellect and the emotive qualities of my Godly Soul by me planting it in the oh yeah because because because the the the the of without being planted into the just a seed yeah meaning it's just in the level of seed it's it's uned potential it's just in other case but it's in gas unless it's planted in yeah and actually something gr that's that's the go otherwise okay is one with there but has no no no effect onas but it's just a seed that hasn't sprouted yet yeah very good [Music] cave on um the C we're actually going to learn very soon right this is rooted in the world in the the realm of which comes after the the the the higher more the world that preceded it of right and that's the source of the the animal Souls from that chaotic world of T but a more it's more chaotic because it's higher because it's it's it's it's a it's more intense Godly in other words it's only by it's like you said the by itself the are just a seed it's just a it's just a potential for the growth but the growth can only happen with the help of the of the the land which is rooted in the higher he need to put the seed into the land yeah otherwise it's just a seed it's going to stay a seed right it's why the land I think the musall helps us a lot actually because the seed where did where did the seed originate from from other produce that came from the land in other words like what came first the seed or the produce chicken you know so it's so but what came first came first so where theam is coming from is a is a to your place then even the and by the putting what it by by me putting the of in theam I'm able to then Elevate theam yeah sit here yeah okay we have other people sitting here through the camera but we'll move all right no problem no problem come down a bit there think of that probably could oh no I didn't want to do that you think this relat at all this idea that you say like like Tyra came from the mid bar and mid bar this isn't that interesting we're saying here we're saying here the whole we're talking about Z right ter is the Z but at the same time we also say that ter was is comes from midbar which is er loara dka there is where Terra comes from loera so I I think it com different levels in teror though because teror was given from a place of AR loer meaning that's it's not the confirmation that's what we're talking about after that fact like that's what that's we're saying the seed comes from from from that came before it so only the a could make er that's the giving of Terra once Terra is given now the desert became a a field that's aable now you have to do the planting seeds in making the field grow yeah you can't turn the desert into no matter what you can't turn the desert into cultiv land into an orchard yeah but theya gives the tools to do that takes the desolate land and turns it into arable land now it's up to you to do it do it right isn't that K KK's principle what's what's KKL the current Comm out of Israel forest and so on turning the desert into into yeah it's funny but we're saying here that the whole inion of Tua is really we have to it's it's a it's a it's it's not point my intellect and emotion in the animal soul and that makes it Greater Wonder yeah so because the but that doesn't mean converting the the the intellect and emotion of The Godly Soul into an animal Souls type of why not no meaning for sure just in a in a way of teram mitus which is slavish in gosh yeah of course inam that's the whole point it's just not aaro way for sure not way no for yeah and all of it right you know it's not is it really even planted and is it really growing it's B each if like it's just like feel forced or you feel like it's by root or it's like filling obligations like in most things or like in everything it requires a healthy n Bahamas to do this yeah like itself requires a Heth to you have to you have to have some sort of ego to yeah also this is funny right Rock it's like only so if it's rock it's only this so it's only this and seemingly the same thing but more yeah we should look that up we should look up what M say about that like that's in general right where else but but in it's it's it's higher than everything it's is is with your capabilities Beyond fine right it's explained that this concept of is the right implies that you need to do this work yeah so we went from being Shepherd to Gardener that's the Indian right we're saying y was a Shepherd we spoke about the sheering because we're trying to say that all right right so we're saying the fact that he's getting involved in doing this exactly it's why isn't why are't we talking about him so right he's a Shepherd so that like that's what he was but here we see that like that's why it's saying it's specifically it's a we have to take note of everything it mentions inra about all the all the things of the El the ter is coming to tell you specifically like yeah he was a shepherd He thought about D all day okay no but that's not planting the S of the into the respons that's that's being being a Shepherd isn't doing that going and planting is doing that the VOA working in the field is doing that and that's V there's no just being the the shepherd wandering in the field all day like oh tripping that's not only and growing 100 fold after you plant right it's not it's not the Ava otherwise it's come let me show you how many seeds I have right wow look at my storage house full of seeds seeds are so cool right story right it's the Argan yeah yeah but like go go plant some seeds Okay let's let's speed up a little bit Yeah meaning I feel like I'm I'm translating too much like more than more than we need right it's good there's Beauty in that time to digest singing theam you know yeah when comes to a good bull know no one's like let's let's move this quicker let's talk these with quicker let's get through them you got stuff to do so funny we saying like us us human beings a very funny thing [Music] let's stop Maybe by this ice cuz it's going to yeah I want to go to the bathroom D and like maybe we could pick up a little later are you driving back to today um yeah I think we're going to arrive I always look like I've had one yeah whether or not I've had I always well we'll be in this week start you will be coming over m there's one over here you go out the second door yeah and look right to your right I'm going to get a coffee refill [Music] interesting straight there through those I'll help interruptions [Music] looking at it that's a nice short M and it's beautiful we did it last year and I think we should try to do a we didn't do last year so people will know where we are we're in we're in we're on page on page 4 You Turn the Page a little and uh in response to those who asked this does look like a long M it's longer than it looks this m is longer than it looks and by that I mean it's what it's three columns but you can do it over the course of I don't know 4 years it's a it's a long R and the only reason I'm doing it is because it has so many gems inside it we're going to try to pull out a couple of them in our in our 20 to 30 minutes to go it's hard you can't miss but you think it looks long wait till you find out what's inside it then you'll think it looks long and as y's eyes have gone bad because of the smoke of the incense that uh as's that as's wives have been burning [Music] downstairs K someone that's why AB dies AB dies because he doesn't want to have to live to see ASA turn out as rotten as he does he's a murder netive theum is involved in Gil I believe it actually implies that too so he's done the three B he's a bad guy and is least at least is completely oblivious to this it seems doesn't know about it we're talking right sounds like is unaware that is a monster makes the decision he's going to give a to his big and the explains how he how he's able to make such a big mistake why is he unaware of how rap M kid is and the answer is that ASA lies from he fools him with his mouth he hunts him with his mouth is that he feeds him now that's is absolutely acceptable certainly we're not going to have some sadic like because he feeds him so comes in and says it's not that he feeds him not that he hunts and puts food in his mouth it's that he hunts him with his mouth he asks good questions he ask you how do you some salt he asking these real deep intricate questions in Tera as a way of fooling him into believing he's a big at the same time we are supposed to believe at least in rash that was somehow very seriously fooled by as who we know is a murderer and is involved in so where you going okay do you know where it is yeah okay go around there good luck over the all right and that's how they ended up in [Music] t we're supposed to believe the is was fool has we haven't heard about this before it's supposedly like a legendary pass down thing from generation to generation that ad has a gives to Y and that everybody gets to decide who gets the braa being the preditor of the Jewish people but there's apparently a braa which we find out about only now which is not not great narrative for we find out only now about has to pass along and has decided he's going to give it to the big exotic who we know to be a big and yeah it it would seem it's the right yeah it would seem it's the so he has a very special that he gets to pass on to one of his two kids and he chooses to pass it on to the one who is not just a small Russ but like a big [Music] rash I give up be right back okay so you started walking this way then we found a door we go through this door [Music] they were both locked to their credit saying de to and we have come in and RKA says no we're not going to let that happen I know the true identity so RKA is a lot deeper than her husband R recognizes that there's a Russia here and that the can't go to this Russia and she dresses up yakob in a outfit and she cooks food and she tricks and Y is indeed fooled not only is he fooled he's super fooled because when yob walks into the room he smells the smell of G I'm smelling the smell of a field that's blessed by andly thinks that that is he thinks I fig this is just what ASA smells like the murderer smells like which is also just the the enormous obliviousness of right that's the that's the he seems to be incredibly oblivious how does he not realize this and in the end he feels he says when he says's saying the voice is the voice of but the in the of as why does he say that says because he knows that yob always says things like and as has these real rough hands so he also knows that yob is a good boy and ASA is not a good boy he kind of knows that nonetheless he fools himself into believing that he can smell the smell of G coming from ASA and the question is how he gets like messed up and the answer of course the m is the didn't mess up at all or that whatever mistake he made was a very holy mistake and that y exotic who understands everything but this is what the M starts with the m basically is coming to answer this big question is that Y is not a shallow person God forbid and Y is not easily fooled God forbid y knows exactly what he's doing why would somebody who knows exactly what they're doing seem to make so many apparent mistakes and the answer is of course because I don't know I never know if anybody's going to listen to the end so you have to tell people things in the beginning so they don't become makes no mistakes he's a perfect s he knows exactly what he's doing and he is as aware of as as his wife he's just handling it differently and the way that he handles it is like this so we're going to unpack this entire thing in reveal that all along y knows exactly what he's doing y knows what as is and nonetheless smells G aen on him and tries to give him because he understands that there's such a thing as CH and he's hoping that he can help as CH that's the that's the beginning and end of the entire story if you had to take this to the shabas table and put it into one quick that believes in cha more than RKA understands here's a t here's a Russ goes here's a Russ maybe he does maybe he smells like G I understand that he used to be a guy who's Rough Around the Edges but maybe he can do better I believe in my son that he can still redeem himself so he sees as as a potential B and RKA just doesn't see it turns out RKA is right I mean if we're looking long term right long term you don't end up getting CH out of but y a noble expectation he's not making any mistakes so with that in mind we're going to start the having given away the entire M and told you the entire story we can now begin to read it inside now I'm telling you you have to do this you know I have this um on my podcasts on Spotify you're able to track um who listens to them and how long they listen good morning able to track all sorts of things on Spotify so one thing that I track first of all just funny is that there's a there's a gender split in my podcast and it says that there's something like uh 60% men 39% women and 1% gender nonconforming so somebody who listens to my podcast is gender non-conforming I would like to give them a shout out but it's probably just somebody who didn't want to check the box but the second thing you find out when you get your analytics on on Spotify it tells you how long people listen for and you have 100% listeners for the first 5 minutes something like 75% after that and then by the end you're down to like 50% you can watch the people they don't listen to whole podcast so if you open with a strong question about not having good judgment and you forget to give the answer before the second half of the podcast they leave thinking that a fo so you got to give the answers at the beginning or they leave tying this is what it means in when it says never say something that will eventually eventually be understood on the hope that one day it will be understood that means don't give people these catchy lines have I told you this before it's one of my favorit we talked about it yeah yeah last week did we talk about it just last week that's how often I say this I think since last week people think the pain cuz I heard just last week that's possible um it says uh P says who all the time and my son my my 8-year-old who you met a couple times I learn with him on shabas afternoons and he always says who who says that's that's his joke that he translates who as who is the name of a rabbi who said but why say who that's not how you say somebody says something say you say say you don't say the reason why says says means every one of these had certain things that they always said they had expressions of a sh because every Rabbi who talks eventually comes back to the same like four points again and again and again so everybody has their thing so these were these were their things you want to know what each rabbi's thing was this was H had like four things he would always say not just once he said it constantly this is one my which is stealing from somebody else anyway we are we have to understand what's going on here understood that it was so he feels he feels y's coming in in Disguise yob walks into the room but he what's going on said this is as and is saying this as who is a Russ smells like G what was going on in his head how could he possibly have felt so highly when it came how he have considered as as being so important remember we know it's y we know that he's smelling because walked in but doesn't know that so what's going on in Russ walks into his room and it smells like what's going on uh we also want to understand in general how did view as because there's a few ways to read as we've explained that he thought was that he found a way to fool him by by tricking him but at the end of the day how is that he viewed him as being quite righteous he wanted to give him the so it does say that he fooled him he would ask him how to take that don't ask really tricky in order to prove that he was the real deal but that's not the whole story that's not everything thinks that he also if you proof yes good job come on sit down okay both of them okay then you just have to wait there go wait is it too for them to they'll never they'll never find it besides this will keep them busy they'll get to they'll get to watch the two bathrooms any it's not the whole story that thought that because we also have one time saying I know he's a Russia when he says a yob walks into theob walks into the room disguising says as and he says um he says how you doing he goes and goes well my son as would never say that that's a so knows that as somewhere in the back of his head he knows that he's not as good as y so so was he really fool it's unclear what exactly he thought of him okay the is is the stuff that's left over when you're making gold has incredible and can turn into two things can turn into more or can turn into that has a little bit on it that has left extra stuff the head the head of is is in a turb it's a sort of wrapped in the turban of which means that there's something that as has in common with to unpack this a little bit outside of what the AL is doing here what's done in another is that uh G has a positive side and a negative side people generally think is being a negative thing but they're wrong are incredibly powerful you definitely want first of all you don't want to live in a world without because a world without you don't exist the entire idea of the entire idea of putting any limitation on anything the reason why you're separate from the table and separate from me and of your own individual identity is because hasem said there should be a stop here that at some point certain things should have borders reason why we call shakai which is Shai I'm allowed to teach I'm allowed to say God's name the reason why we call Shai is because he's the one who said die the one who said wait wait stop right here water shouldn't go on the dry land dry land shouldn't encroach on the water you shouldn't encroach on the table the air should be separate from you your cells should have their own individual identity you exist because hasem says stop over and over and over again everything that makes things exist if you want to go back to basic biology the thing that makes life separate from normal chemical substances is that it's cut off from the rest of its environment a cell isn't a cell until it's separate from the environment that membranes are a symbol of that's right membranes are the original that's right that's exactly what I was hting the original biologic gura is a membrane that's what makes you you the entire reason you exist and you're not part of the everything is because of gura so you owe a lot to gura in addition to that all of the greatest has come through and you need no greater proof for that than himself we have we have this very tiny story about we have like four three foures all about we have all over the ter and is a really big deal gets like half a about him and most of the isn't about him right the story of somebody getting married to y when we meet y like once he's he's barely showing up in ab's story he's an accessory he's the guy who gets tied up and almost murdered but he's not in the story I don't even know if he has a speaking role if you if you're acting out the story of the Y has like five lines he barely talks he almost never says anything he does like once he has like eight speaking lines he says almost nothing he says he say hey why we walk it up here that's the entire story y does not talk much he gets a very small par dedicated to him and all of his stories are basically re rehashes he also goes down to a to to a hostile environment he also pretends that his wife is his sister things also don't go well for him initially and then later on go well but it's like the short verse y does not have much story to him he really isn't discussed much Y is barely one of the others and at the same time you know where he really talk he has one big speaking role he has what you would call in art a soliloquy there's one period of time where he just goes and when he gives the when he gives the bra his is longer than anybody else's there's no on the ter as long as is incredibly long and Incredibly powerful every line of it is every anybody could possibly want so doesn't talk much but when he does talk the strongest in the entire from who is the symbol of is not so doesn't talk it doesn't have a lot of flash one know where the come from it's also power is power and it's quiet power you probably know that somebody who needs to show off a lot and wave around things in your face usually isn't all that powerful all that impressive right people have to show what they are not as impressive the most impressive the most powerful people usually quietly sit in the corner and then when they need to show their strength they show their strength either verbally or physically the strongest people in the world don't have to constantly be flexing their muscles but they're big deal is power what G is is power he doesn't talk too much when it's time to give a he gives a so like that is a stringency on one hand it's on one hand it's it's unimpressive on the surface also means power powerful punish say most of say many CEOs are introverts huh many what many CEOs are introverts there you go the most powerful people in the world that's the thing powerful people don't have to tell you they're powerful but every now and then you get to see a glimpse of it you go oh wow that's power that's what is so we owe a lot to is very POS where come from at the same time obviously can be a negative attribute too generally speaking we want to avoid cous we don't like very strong because vur is also very exacting it's uncompromising V does not forgive very much can be violent that of the negative aspect of which isn't a which isn't a separation which isn't a membrane used as pure negative is what gives gives to as who is also just like his father and relates to the reason why relates to is because they're both one of one of so obviously there's not a there's not a good morning obviously it doesn't work but that's what he's saying he's the don't forget is better than silver at the end of the day he holds he holds a verying but I'm feeling want do me should we do cabala today says I that there are there are 10 spher this part's not too much there are 10 spher right 10 parts of K they're also lining up against those 10 that is crowns of crowns of impurity and that would be the negative sphere so on the side the sidei have that all of the with all of the Spheres all the positive spheres have a flip side to them that's negative and on the negative side the reason why these negative spheres are able to exist in the first place is because they get all of their health they get all their nurture from thei side so gets all of its highest that gives it life however it doesn't give it life in a positive way at all it gives it life and that life is entirely stucked up inside it ni it's entirely absorbed within it so CA ends up getting a battery pack from Kusa but it isn't affected by the battery pack in a way that makes doesn't become any Holier because it has it just remains alive because this is swallowed up in this is not what we want ideally when CA is connected the dream here is that will connect to K and become but in most what happens that connects to K and alive and there's no left there's left just enough to keep it alive it doesn't change anything that's a disaster that's the uh that's the fear right the ideal is that goes out around and everybody else possibility is that yes open he went want to sit down don't have a seat welcome over [Music] there this guy so what very he's explaining like really well one you have to make a friend the other when your friend choose them care you're not allow to be now what's a Russia what's a Russia no trick questions so doesn't right okay so you're not all to be friends with anyone who does have does anybody know how this is supposed to work with it sends you out to a community that's not quite room or you meet people in your workplace who are not yet and your job is to become friends with them and then to bring them close to the through close with them and BEC friends with them you're able to change their liveses I mean cards on the table you're not allowed to violate a mission because you have some sort of divine mandate worried about this you worried so do it from a distance yell at them throw rocks get one people see when it doesn't work that's what it does work you also see what the excess of H good morning do you know the main vehicle for uh main vehicle for bringing people close to the has always been has always been shabas meals there always been meals it's not really show you make a show people come to show but uh anyway it's fine the main vehicle for bringing people close to has always been bringing them into your home and having them interact with your family that's 100% of the time uh last P last last week I was at the P shop there was a panel I probably told you some of the things on the panel one of the things that came up that I really liked is there was a Mrs sharpsteen who was on the panel and somebody asked her uh how to deal with feminism and Judaism and the question was that I've heard before from I've heard before from people who don't like women that a woman's role is in the kitchen what do you think what doad say about this Mrs Char was asked this question Mrs Char answered I believe a woman's role is in the kitchen and the room went silent you know this trick that do they start by saying something outrageous then they get you right so the room goes silent I believe a woman's role is in the kitchen and a gas went up from the office a and then she goes and I believe a husband's role is in the kitchen and a child's Ro is in the kitchen and your entire your entire Community belongs in the kitchen because Judaism happens in the kitchen and she went on to explain that uh that the workplace is actually an unideal place to be for both men and women nobody really wants to be out there in the workplace the place where yish happens is in the home and the place where people become from is in the home the place where y stays is in the home the home is where things matter right so if you want to say that someone belongs in the kitchen all you're giving them is a compliment that honestly everybody ideally belongs in the kitchen it's VI that people have to leave the kitchen sometimes the vi EV and as she pointed out very accurately there's not a single Mitzvah she said it immediately my mind started going can I think of a can I think of a p can I slug her up but my first thought was can I I wasn't going to do it at the panel but she immediately got me thinking she said she said to the students she said that um that uh there's not a single Mitzvah that can only be done in SCH but there are several Mitzvah that can only be done in your home and I immediately started thinking is that really true I still can't think of one a Mitzvah that can only be done in SCH I I can't think of a single one she might be right and where is there are many mitzah that are tell on the house so you want to know where kadha is it's certainly even if you find one exception obviously more are involved in the [Music] home is there any Mitzvah that can is there any Mitzvah that can only be done in ch and nowhere else I'm not sure there is which gives you an idea of where of where Holiness really is is in the house when we say that a woman's in isas we're not putting her into the house we saying you get to be in kadha and it's a shame that some people have to spend some of their day in clippa clippa being work and Sh and Bas just frankly I get it we make Aion we make a minion sh homes all the time I mean for sure if you want to talk about where I'm up in is obviously SCH is not up I don't mean to trash schs but I do mean that we don't give enough credit to what a home is so you want to make somebody FR I we don't make people from it's a good up expression but allow it for a minute if you want to increase someone's FR kite the way you increase their F kite is by inviting them into your home they sit down at your table they talk to your kids they see what it's like to live in a Jewish Home this is what it people talk to any Bala and talk to any gtic and ask them what really turned them in the right direction I guess a small percentage in Ms are going to say henics and the rest of them are going to say from call from last the rest of them going to tell you that it's because they saw in a home in one of their homes one of their families be like that nobody was nobody switches their life over because they heard a really good Shear it doesn't happen because of H now that means you have to become their friend okay so M says you're not allowed to do this I'm not allowed to bring that Russ into my house I'm not allowed to put a rush at my table with my kids I'm not allowed to Buddy up to a Russia how do you do this work on one hand I told you the only effective way is to be friends on the other hand I've told you that it is user to do this you take it point of view the the the what might be perceived as a Ras has the potential for CH okay but right now he's not so once he does cha he can come to my home but how do you ever get them TOA the only path to is mean you can only make the only real way to bring somebody close is to is to close to is to bring them close to you first Miss says they're not allowed anywhere near you how are we supposed to bring them close if we're not allowed anywhere near them it's a the Reb addresses this question and the Reb would have to right the Reb kind of has to I I don't mean to put this on the rebba but the Reb kind of forced us into this corner he better have an answer so does have an answer to this the says means you're not allowed to become friends with a what is a what's a friend in a friend there's a that goes both ways I'm Mas on you and you're Mas on me I can talk to my friend my friend when I'm in a bind when I'm having trouble my friend pulls me out of a hole that off off the table out of the question has no place being a with somebody who's not yet loving them taking care of them being a on them taking care of every one of their needs being like parent being like an older brother being like an older being like an older sibling where you're giving the my children I love them so so much I die for them very easily it's not even a question they're not my friends they're my children it's completely different they don't get to have a on me they're my ma and in the moment that a child has has on a parent there's something there's something dysfunctional about that relationship but they still Liv depends what you mean by has because uh probably a large part uh receive financial we're talking we're talking Spirit we're talking Spirit they're not allowed to have a spiritual on you and the moment that they have a spiritual on you say you can be sure that's not your you should avoid them if you know somebody who's not yet who's having a on your spirituality that is a clear sign that that's not your that's somebody else's but you have no business being if the person's not yet they a and is Bing the moment you sense so there's a member of our community distant Community not the medi but in the general area who uh who told me recently I have to I have to use I have to change enough details that's not identifying so I'm working through changing details it's a little bit of L andar but it's fun for for a point a member of the community is is in the broader roin area who regularly had been going to anoun not mine a different a of and recently started going to a show that although they are although they're Orthodox they are just fa not a very not a very from place not a very from place at all where things happen that are patently inappropriate but technically an orthodox and he didn't start going there to Davin he started going there because he started giving a shear and he just goes gives a shear and leaves and he wanted to have a positive effect on them he started giving classes there which is a beautiful thing this is very much what we do we go to places that are that are not quite holding yet we try to bring them up to a higher level so he goes there to give a shear and I saw him I saw him the other day in a Mikvah which is where all the good conversations happen don't worry it wasn't you obviously you're looking like all guilty just just cuz I saw you in the M doesn't mean we had this conversation I saw him in the mikah and I asked him how are things going over there and he said they're going great and I I said are you having an effect on them he said yes and uh and thank God they're having an effect on me too and I said wait a minute what are we talking about do you mean you're inspired by how they increased the no I think you know I think their version of things has what to offer us too and I said you better get out Fus you just crossed the line that doesn't work anymore if uh if the people you're trying to have an impact on are trying are having an impact on you then you're not welcome there show up be proud of what you are be proud of authenticism and if some of the things they're doing that are not which was what he was saying some of the things they do there not so he's finding that he can work them into that is a red flag that's a red flag you asked what happened to I don't want to say names but you ask what happened to certain people who didn't have such success it's because they were they were impacted by their environment now how in the world you can learn something from everybody but not from everybody something for example of course but is still an here the idea is that wisdom you can learn from anybody and uh and certain positive attributes like he learned 10 things from a gun you can learn from anybody but you can only learn from Terra as on one hand you can learn from anybody on the other hand the G says that if your R is not like a Mal don't learn anything from him Tera can only be taught by can only be learned from The Source I understand that everybody has something to off it's a fine line and it's a fine line and ER on the side of being things yeah I'm tell you ER on the side of caution from years of from years of personal experience and years of experience with who are out there let me tell you something on the side of if you find you like the stuff that they're into maybe take a step back I uh I used to give a share at a community where um they were from is one foot in one foot out sort of a a modern liberal Community I used to give a sheare there and when they were in Shear it was always fine we get Shar it was always Terra but after the shear they would go and they would they would shoot pool that's what they would do they go to a pool hall like like one of these bowling alleys where you know you smoke and you shoot pool that's what they would do after this year it it was part of their schedule the guys would come near my year then afterwards they would go and shoot pool and one time they invited me they said Rabbi we really like we really like hanging out you come shoot pool with us and I think that there is aara to do that there's aara that you know if you really want to have an effect on people go shoot pool with them but the fact is I very not when they pool we're friends when you're in sh outside of sh if you're going to shoot pool you're not going to teach me how to play pool I understand that this is difficult to here because everybody wants to throw themselves in feed first but I'm also telling you that there is a line the reason why is so successful is because we have barriers there's Lin set up and with your interest in geometry and physics obviously it's an attractive that's right I could beat them at pool I know math but uh but let me tell you something there's a there there are very strict rules to engaging in this work effectively you want to have an impact on other people step one is they can't have an impact on you you haven't heard before explain now the reason why we got into this is because of gives power to and the wayes is an ineffective goes over to and says I'm going to give you and goes great I'll swallow you up and I will use you to give me a boost but meanwhile I'm not going to ever become any better it's and's job is to make sure that they never you have an effect on them but it's supposed to be you're having only gets doesn't get any change from that's what he's saying you have 10 in get when ites always they have they always get when it comes to they raise themselves up like an eages to them gets into them immediately goes into Exile even though they get they don't become and whatever they get it get swallowed in them this is an ineffective an effective what happens is it ends up taking over completely but the question is that if they swallow the moment kha hits them then how exactly are they staying alive if every bit of and every bit of kadha that they get immediately get swallowed inside them how does clipper remain alive at all it consumes everything it has when it's done consuming it it's gone what gives cppa its power and the answer is that there is an aspect of kha that is called Mak that gives it its power anyway so it has an extra level called Mak which is this level that transcends clippa that is not ever swallowed by clippa and that's the idea that's the idea of the idea of is that there should be a healthy distance between the that is that we take care of it we we take care of you we uh we have on you we are able to give you so that you can live and that you can grow and that you can come closer to but at the same time you can't touch us and the moment that becomes I mean anybody involved the moment you get close enough that they can drag you down to where they are you're operating in the SPH model instead of the Mak and that interact and Inter with they end up giving them the IDE it says what it means is don't become should be it turns out they can you can pretend we're all friends but we're not all friends not yet it depends on when he hangs out with him whether he is still a in his mind or whether he's being influenced it's all about what goes on in your head you can act like a friend but the fact is that a real friend is someone who is ready to receive as much as they're ready to give and that's not that's not for somebody who's not yet once they're from great but in the stage where they still have some problems inside them it's not time to receive yet it's time for you to give to give until they're ready to be givers themselves and uh I know that that's not what people want to hear because I know people have yaras I I sometimes speak to your Yahara and it kicks me back you know we can all be friends everybody here everybody here is good enough to be my friend but uh the fact is that if you want to interact with something that's not yet holding you need to be at the level this m unclear from other it sounds like a little spark stays there so does give it its highest at the very least and that sort of gives it the ability to interact with the this m sounds like no point at all that's a complete loss um and as a matter of fact as the M goes on it sounds like y was going to that same mistake and R was like you better Mar this guy that's where the goes is that has the idea of going into as in a ptic way being his friend giving an equal and understand you I give you many examples of this although all of them are uncomfortable but as long as as long as our m is mostly let me uh let me let me bring you to the to the end logically is that yit understands what as is and rifa understands what as is but they have completely different approaches to their yit approach is that since as has a holy spark inside him he has a holy spark in him I can level with him I can be equal with him and together we will influence each other and pull out his holy says the only way you can really interact with this guy as a you got to stay far away from him you got to have an influence from a if you really want to interact with somebody directly that's got to be comes down to which form of is more effective and in that respect makes a mistake he's not making any mistake about who he's dealing with he knows as is he knows as could be a he's hoping he can help as by getting in the weeds with him and the answer he can't get in the weeds with somebody want to make them better he that's right he was hoping that he could put enough he was hoping he could put enough payoff into ASA in order to uh in order to bring him out yes let's bring it to let me say it a little differently because the mare also says it a little differently mare also says that he that ASA wouldn't have to die there's two ways to get rid of clippa one way to get rid of clippa is to completely smash it to destroy it that's as is going to be completely rooted out as's children are going be completely destroyed comes we completely destroy as and all of his descendants but that wasn't always the plan at this point there was still a possibility that as could become aad and he wouldn't have to destroy him instead there would be a flip over of so at this point and are arguing over the fate of their son also saying he's a lost cause we throwing him in the garbage let come and kill him and saying I think I can talk to him right get thek and you can't get to that spark you interact with it do they to do with a spark that's a good point say that's a great that's great that's great you hear this I'll read a little bit differ it's great I love this idea it's from you it's great it's brilliant he say look at where they come from y had met several B first of all his parents his parents were he grows up in he watches make a bunch of people better how does RKA grow up around would need to be completely destroyed right so her entire experience is irretrievable and his entire experience is retrievable so it's very interesting point they come from different points of I haven't seen that written I really like the idea smart idea plays out actual real stories from the front lines the bar that causes to be able to continue to perpetuate in the world he doesn't totally give up when he says M he gives him the fat land he doesn't totally give up on ASA he recognizes is right but he doesn't please don't give up he gives them something you need need water here um here's one phenomenon that's very unhealthy that you see sometimes is sometimes a congregant I don't and I hope most abundant say no but the fact is a lot of abundant say yes now when they say yes it's for two reasons reason number one is because they maybe they really do everybody has a different Yara and some people have that yar fortunately fortunately by the way it's not a terribly common of all thear one of the least common ones is f Anda it turns out we talk about it like a real common one it's not terribly common it's a small percentage of the population the majority ofen don't have that they trust me they have other ones there's ones that are very common that's not one of the most common Yas as it happens but some people have it so it's possible he's telling the truth what is even more possible though in most cases is he's actually not telling the truth he's trying to be relatable of course we all doubt sometimes in the effort to become relatable what a person does is they try to have an impact on somebody from a p instead of a m and the impact of having a Pia relationship with somebody who's still struggling with their is that you end up being they swallow that up and now they just have one more Rabbi one more holy person who has the same problems they have and that doesn't make them any better because it's what does make them better a no I don't some people don't I'll help you not a Mak relationship brings somebody up a p relationship with somebody who's not yet from gets swallowed inside them and gets turned into something that they can use as fuel for their this is exactly what's happening over here is given what does it swallows it and gives it fuel for its own so sometimes a beliefs he's leveling with people by acting real when the truth is acting real is is incredibly overrated being real is not overrated but acting real is pretending you have a struggle that you don't have in order to be relatable is something that is always people people swallow that up and they make it part of their case for for continuing to do the wrong thing so number one don't don't don't fake problems you don't have number two problems you have may be fake sometimes that's number two number two I was at a uh I told I think you've heard this before from me I was at um a uh I have to always change details because enough people listen to these that somebody will eventually call me and go stop talking about me in your podcast uh I was at one of these uh one of these shabbatones for one of these groups and I won't even say which group that way we're very sick one of these shabbatones on one of these panels it could have been anybody but one of these shaton on one of these panels and there was another on the panel with me and uh the question that came up is do you really believe mhia is coming in a world like this it's a real bad horrible world do you really think MH is coming and uh this and the question was not asked to me you know sometimes you get signed a question so the got sign the question and they asked the do you really think M's coming and the says I want to be honest with you I now was anything gained that day terrible answer first of all it's a terrible answer second of all it might be true it might be true there's nothing wrong with being honest and being vulnerable you know where to be honest and vulnerable among your sit down with sit down with other and about the fact you're struggling with an area of beautiful that's what is in a room full of people this was a this was a shabat of people who are not yet some 200 300 people who are not yet or not yet shabas and heard say coming that's not the forum for confessions that's not the form for confessions the form for confessions is the among your friends so number one it's just not the place a pass on the question so number one not the place and not the time number two he's wrong about himself the fact is that every yid believes every fundamentally believes in a person might at the surface but to say that I authentically have a problem is authentically wrong authentically every is authentically every authentically already believes this the answer you'll find from the Reb in almost every where people write to the the will start up by saying first of all you're wrong about yourself you don't have any s second of all you have aara welcome to the team welcome to the club who doesn't have aara you you you in every other exist so if you want to come and say I have aara where I struggle with something but at the end of the day I believe that's fine but to to be wrong about yourself is not is not a particular either but we're seeing in our M today is that this doesn't work in cabala either is that when Kad tries to level witha and tries to have atic relationship with it not atic relationship instead what happens is Thea just grabs it swallows it and ends up making it part of its own problem so now all these now all these T all these people what do they have they now have a rabbi in their Corner who also isn't Shia's comach it's ni doesn't end make any difference yeah what okay sure okay let's go back into the M unless we're done we how long have we been going we've been talking forever let's do a little more of the M we started late we did start this is exactly what happens that comes to them if you reach if you reach somebody who's not yet holding and you go down to their level and you are and you become somebody who they on it's back backward and forward then you are how in the world does exist is everything that ites it automatically makes part of it problem how do there are 11as each one of theas corresponds to one SPH and one clip of that corresponds to it there are 11as there are only 10 SPH and only 10 spes to so what is this what is this is a that is on top of these things on top of this negativity and is not completely swallowed by the negativity that is that there is a way to interact with clippa that doesn't require getting down and rolling around in the mud with way to interact with CA that gives it life without also being swallowed by anything you put in their immedately they're able to retain able to retain their negative qualities because Rel and now we've answered at least one of our questions from the mind one of our questions been we know knows that is no good we know that knows that is no good because when he says he's saying I know that only would say know know he knows that only speaks since he knows that only speaks niely that means that he knows that isor how he act at the same time as ask him questions like how do you take so he also knows him to be a he seems to be refus and we now have our answer answer is that he understood that as at the level of hising at the level of how he actually acted was having problems but at the same time he understood that he had a relationship with him and at this level there was a there was a was that was not interacted with so we have as to be a duality but there's a part of as that's holy and a part of as that's not and he was hoping as we'll see in the rest of the M though we're not going to get to it as we'll see in the rest of the M the idea was that as could do CH and he was hoping that he could using this using this relationship that he had with as sort of stok the flame inside as and turned him into something worthwhile and it turns out that that was not possible but that was the dream the dream was that ASV wouldn't have to be completely destroy told you it's a longer M than it looks all right um we have a breakfast and uh who sponsored you sponsor and he sponsored in honor [Music] of he was murdered he didn't pass away and um and um doing things don't make any sense to me because you can't put something higher than the highest right how do you how do you doas for someone who the world there we go L arish you can't you can't you can't you can't push someone higher than that there's no we might as well talk about it a little bit right first of all there's this uh go grab the bring it [Music] yeah if you go any other things you you Google my name you'll find this like three of them [Music]