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I hope you're all having a wonderful
Sukkot I know I am I love Sukkot I don't
know why I love it so much but I just
love it and I don't want to critique it
but I have a question about Sukkot is it
not a little bit of a strange scheduling
choice I mean all of our holidays have a
historical thing that they're
commemorating pesach Passover
remembering the Exodus and Chef what
we're remembering the day of getting the
Torah on Rosh Hashanah it's the creation
Hanukkah you know the Maccabees beating
the the Greeks what is it in Sukkot that
makes us celebrate it now I mean yes we
know that Hashem took us out of Egypt
and had us dwell in booths whether they
were physical booths or spiritual booths
in the clouds okay but like if I was
hashem's calendar coordinator when would
I put that wouldn't it be most sensible
to let's say commemorate that National
experience in its chronological order
like you leave Egypt there's PESA and
then sukode when Hashem put us in the
booth and then you received the Torah
that would make sense but even without
chronological order we
for 40 years in these booths okay so
then it could be anytime why put it
right up Clio and I mean think a second
about young people I don't know anyone
even the most cynical person that does
not you know at last moment of Yom
Kippur when you say Hashem Hashem is
gone
Hashem is one and I don't know anyone
who after that full day of praying and
fasting and putting aside all of our
physical needs and here's that chauffeur
at the enemy MP4 and doesn't just feel
like I want to be a good person I want
Hashem To Rule The World To Rule my life
like we just feel it and so if I'm like
the Divine calendar scheduler I would
want people to start the year that way
wouldn't that be a great way to launch
into the new year with all of that
hopefulness for becoming better and
leaving our mistakes behind starting
with a clean slate of forgiveness and
goodness but instead we go on to
Absolute code Sukkot I mean we already
had Elle we were doing two up for a
month and then Rosh Hashanah we make
Hashem King then 10 days of real
repentance now we really mean it and
then Yom Kippur final repentance but
then Sukkot and when you think about
Sukkot it's really about our basic
physical needs food Water Shelter right
we make like this makeshift shelter and
we wave around raw uh you know
ingredients raw produce and we pray on
the Altar for rain it's like things that
symbolize our most basic human
experiences like in our physical body
after Yom Kippur where we put aside our
physical body what could be the Thematic
connection between these things it's a
weird like sort of Planning and
Development what I want to argue is that
the halacha is actually
teaching us something here and it's
interesting because Allah says it right
after
right after Yom Kippur we're supposed to
immediately start building the sukkah
really like after young people you don't
get to just bask a little bit in the
Holiness no you immediately start
banging away I want to suggest that that
Allah is trying to teach us that there's
a direct connection and a process that
we are being led through on these days
there's an internal development
happening step by step and I think that
maybe the key to actually understanding
it is by reading what the sages told us
to read from the books of the prophets
on Yom Kippur and that is the Book of
Jonah okay I know it doesn't seem
connected but you have to bear with me
Jonah in a nutshell I'm sure you all
know it Hashem sends Jonah to tell ninbe
to repent he doesn't like the mission he
runs away and then there's a storm on
the boat they reluctantly throw him off
when they realize that it's him he gets
saved by a fish goes to preach an inve
becomes the world's most successful
Prophet everyone repents the people of
ninvee they don't need to go to a year
of Yeshiva they don't have a seminary
they're just like yes we're repenting
now and then when I say everyone repents
I mean everyone one of my favorite
stories in John is when they said they
all fasted and they made their farm
animals fast the people were sackcloth
and the Animals wore sackcloth the
people faster than the animals faster it
makes me laugh because our daughter Emma
if you ask her what she wants to do when
she grows up she is dead set on being
get this a professional ballet teacher
for kittens and puppies which means that
she spends most of the day chasing
around our dog dreidel and our cat star
with little handmade tutus and tiaras
that she designs for them it's like a
slow going process but that line always
makes me laugh because they take their
repentance so seriously down to dressing
up their sheep and goats in sackcloth
and then Hashem decides not to destroy
ninfa but Jonah is angry and at the
Injustice and then there's this weird
back and forth with Hashem with an
unanswered question and a gourd and he's
angry wants to die Hashem gives him a
parable comparing nimba to his gourd and
he doesn't really give an answer or
concede his point and then the book
finishes and you're sitting there saying
your Yom Kippur prayers and you're
wondering why are we reading this I mean
the seeming answer is like well they
repented so I guess we learned to repent
also but like really like yeah they
repented I guess we don't really hear
much about their thoughts their process
it's like one line out of the entire
four chapters of the book and if you
look at the main character he doesn't
really seem to do any repentance at all
Jonah starts out mad at Hashem
disagreeing with him disobeying him
running away he gets eaten by a fish and
he still doesn't say sorry in all of his
prayer and even at the end of the book
he doesn't say sorry and he we don't
even know at the end of the book if he
conceded hashem's point and you know
think about the Bible there's so many
amazing uh repentance stories I think
about Judah and Tamar says Tamara was
right and I was wrong or David when he
hears Nathan the prophet and he says oh
I've sent Hashem like this was the story
that won the repentance story contest
and so I want to suggest that maybe just
maybe the question of how this book
serves to convey the ideas of Yom Kippur
might actually be the wrong question
think about it if our sages were looking
to teach us something a scriptural
passage that would Inspire us to do
repentance wouldn't the right time to
learn that scriptural passage be I don't
know a little Rosh Hashanah okay you
want to push it off to the last minute
the beginning of Yom Kippur Inspire us
to do chuva but the last part of the end
of Yom Kippur that were the last message
that we're supposed to read from the
prophets the end of Yom Kippur is this
like even if it was teaching us
something about repentance isn't it like
a bit late in the game to be doing that
so maybe it's the wrong question maybe
this is not teaching us about poor I
know this is a little bit radical but
it's actually the last chance to give us
a message from the prophets before
launching into Sukkot so we read it at
the end of Yom Kippur to actually teach
us something about the bridge and the
connection that Yoda can give us between
Yom Kippur and Sukkot so maybe the
book's eyes are not on enhancing are Yom
Kippur but the book is brought to us the
Book of John has brought to us to teach
us about Sukkot why do I think this is
here's the thing
can it be a coincidence that the Book of
Jonah actually ends up talking about
Asuka right before we start to quote I
know you're probably looking at me a
little crooked like what does she mean
that Jonah what does that have to do
with this quote I tell this to people
and they're like what but actually if
you look closely the story of Jonah ends
with Jonah being mad and Hashem giving
him this whole lesson but if you look
carefully he's actually
not sitting under the plant if you look
at artistic representations they're
always presenting him as sitting under
this gourd plant
don't notice
something really interesting
actually
the verse one now it displays Jonah
exceedingly he was grieved so he's upset
that the people repented he's really
upset you know what is this about how do
you forgive such bad people look at
verse two and he prayed to the Lord and
said please O Lord was this not my
contention when I was still in my land
for this reason I hasten to flee to
tarshish because I know because I know
that you are a gracious and merciful god
slow to anger with much kindness
relenting of evil this is why I was so
upset because I knew you would forgive
them these are horrible people they've
done horrible things they fast for a few
days they dress up their cow in a sack
and now you forgive them this is
ridiculous this is absurd the way you
are ruling the world Hashem makes no
sense
and he's actually using the words that
we would say on your Kip are using some
of the attributes that we read of
hashem's mercy and he's so frustrated
that Hashem
is running the world this way he looks
to him like a sick game he says forget
it I don't want to live and then let's
look at verse 4 Ashton answers this is
so interesting because
are you really upset Jonah uh yeah I'd
say he's pretty upset Hashem I think the
dead will give away with him asking uh
to not live anymore okay uh so far very
inspiring for chuva now let's look at
verse five
and now this is what I want to show you
because once you see it you can't unsee
it he says Jonah had gone out of the
city and stationed himself at the east
of the city and there he made himself
Asuka it literally says the word sukkah
and he sat under it in the shade until
he would see what would happen in the
city so just to do a Midway summary here
what is going on we had repentance the
people of ninbeh fasted we have hashem's
forgiveness and then of all the things
that could have happened like Yoda going
home instead he sits and builds a sukkah
and we read this at the Crossroad point
between Yom Kippur and Suka there's been
like a fasting or repentance and now
somebody built a sucker where exactly at
that point what is he actually doing
here let's try to get into his mind for
a second he's looking at the city he's
not like Lot's wife looking back at the
city right he's like actually like for a
second like a glance he's actually
setting up shop he builds a shelter what
is he watching the city for to me it's
pretty obvious like what is there to see
in the city he had an argument with
Hashem he said I knew this would happen
you would forgive people that are so bad
you would show them this kindness and
what do you think he's hoping to see
when he's sitting in natsuka try to put
yourself in his shoes so I see it as one
of two options when I break it down
option one is saying maybe I convinced
Hashem I gave him my point of view avrah
have argued with Hashem and convinced
him to reconsider destroying Stone maybe
I convinced Hashem to reconsider not
destroying ninvee maybe Hashem will
compromise and make a little destruction
like a garden variety famine or like a
fire or something where just the bad
guys die what's the other option maybe
Hashem didn't destroy them because they
did shuva but Jonah thinks they're going
to go bad again maybe they'll be bad and
then Hashem will destroy them they'll
surely slip back into evil that wasn't
like such a serious repentance who wants
to be there to see it Jonah to say look
Hashem who was right and who was wrong
so he Parks himself in Asuka to look at
an infant verse six what happens says
now the Lord God appointed a gourd plant
it grew up over Jonah to be a shade over
his head to shade him from his
discomfort and Jonah was overjoyed with
the kikayon so Hashem made this plant
here to give him shade but that's weird
because he was already in Asuka Asuka is
made give you Shades we have like extra
shade honest shade now I want to pause
here for a second because maybe you're
not convinced yet that this story of
someone leaving the city place you know
like the city a place of permanent
dwellings to go sit in a sukkah coming
right on the heels of a big repentant
fast maybe you don't think that this is
a giant neon sign flashing Sukkot Sukkot
right like maybe you're thinking in the
olden days people always made like
little shady structures look at the
words it says here when he says he was
overjoyed it says in Hebrews which is
the exact word of simha that Hashem uses
when talking about how we should feel on
Sukkot it could have said he felt
relieved from the heat he felt pleased
by the shade it says
exactly the feeling
you shall be happy on your Festival but
here's the kicker
it's not that hard to make a sukha the
mishta tells us the rules don't make it
too tall don't make it too short but
like seriously you don't even need four
walls to make a kosher so got two walls
and a bit of a third wall and you're
good to go right but what is the main
thing you need plant material that is
not attached to the ground to serve as
shade now there are two main criteria
the shade needs to be more than the
light meaning it's not enough to put up
a few sticks your sukkah is unkosher if
there's more sunlight shining in your
Suka than shade the second main
condition is that you're not allowed to
have living plants on top of your shade
so the mission in chapter one attracted
says You must not put your sukkah under
a tree could there have been a worse
than yonasuka I mean he literally built
it to make shade because he's sweltering
hot and he gets effective shade from the
tree
that means that Asuka was not effective
so like if you weren't sure that what
he's doing is wrong and then if you're
not sure what he was doing is wrong
Hashem grows something over his house I
mean he has bad covering of a sukkah and
then he makes it even worse by having a
tree go over so like to me this is a
neon sign but if you still don't believe
me look in track dates took of the
Jerusalem talmud on the fifth page it
says that Jonah the son of amitai was a
pilgrim to the temple and went to the
celebration of the water on the Altar
and received divine inspiration meaning
in case you miss all
that this book is made to prepare you
for Sukkot the talmud also tells us that
Jonah's original prophecy took place on
Sukkot why does all this matter to me
if anyone ever talks with me about their
marital problems I always say listen I'm
not a therapist I'm a divorce lawyer I
have no clue what the right thing is to
do is but I can tell you what the wrong
thing to do is because I've seen a lot
of people do the wrong thing I can tell
you what not to do you know there's a
lawyer in New York just wrote a marriage
advice book called if you're in my
office it's too late advice about what
not to do so this is that here's this
day of repentance followed by this
experience being done in the most
glaringly obvious wrong way what are we
supposed to learn well maybe it's
showing us what not to do it's like here
look at this really not Kosher sukkah
don't make the wrong transition from Yom
Kippur to Sukkot here's how to do it
right Jonah messed it up you shouldn't
mess it up why do we need this so now
let's go back to the question that I
started with let's imagine for a second
that the holiday season ended with Yom
Kippur suko would be properly scheduled
in some other time of the year and we
start the year with a bang with a
chauffeur being blown at the end of Yom
Kippur and we go into a year of piety
and righteousness
right well think back to your Yom Kippur
finishing off I always finish off and
leave the synagogue and my last thought
being this year will be different I will
be amazing I have a clean slate I am so
pure right now I'm going to be so good
and literally by the time I've gotten
home most times I've lost patience with
one of my kids I've said something not
nice about somebody else maybe I forgot
to say a blessing on the food that I'm
so hungry to eat I'm like that was so
fast how did I manage to mess myself up
so quickly wow and then what do I think
to myself
maybe all this repentance is just
superficial maybe it's just fake people
don't really change I get so down on
myself so cynical I had good intentions
but what is that even worth maybe ninve
is like an exaggerated character of that
thing we all go through look how quickly
they did they want to be good but we
know the end of the story we know that
they're not really going to be good
eventually they're going to destroy the
tribes of Israel and do serious damage
to Judah like just a few years later so
even though they seem sincere Yona is
calling the whole thing into questions
saying they're not really going to
change what is this all worth is this
some big show this repentance does it
really mean anything Jonah thinks that
and he goes and makes a sukkah to go
haha look let's watch and see how
meaninglessly this unfolds and
by showing us that hisoko is not made
properly maybe it's teaching us how to
have the proper sukkah as the antidote
for that cynicism that can stem out of
Yom Kippur because the we could get
bogged out and the mysteriousness and
the absurdity of The Human Condition but
maybe there's something here to teach us
and and so I think that we need to look
at the parable that Hashem gives at the
end because if we're learning from you
don't know what not to do then hashem's
lesson to him deserves a closer look at
what we should do so now I want to go
back to the verses and look at verse 8
and 9. it says Hashem made a worm that
ate the roots of the plant and then
Hashem shown the son on Jonah intensely
and he's schmitzing he's sweating to the
point that he wants to die again and now
for the first time there's an actual
meaningful dialogue between Hashem and
you and Hashem says are you very grieved
about the kikayon and he says yes I'm
very aggrieved to the point that I
actually want to die I'm so upset and
now Hashem gets to the actual lesson
well we're so excited to hear the lesson
and then we get this really strange
Parable it says intent the Lord said you
took pity on the kikayon it says
for which you did not toil you did not
make it grow which one that came into
being and the next night perished now
should I not take pity on Nineveh the
great City in which there are many more
than 120 000 people who do not know
their right hand from their left and
many beasts as well
and that's the end
we have no idea what happens to Yona did
he die of heat stroke did he concede
hashem's Point all we have is this
Parable and the book is like aha there
you go that's the lesson and you're like
well do I get it I mean the parable
looks kind of sensible at first but not
really you had pity on the plant that
was here today and gone tomorrow so
shouldn't I have pity on the big city of
ninvet you're like yeah but is that true
did Jonah even have pity on the plant
that's not like even true as a
comparison so maybe we're not
understanding it right the word used for
pity in any level would it translate in
English as pity is hasta let's see what
that actually means
since we don't really know what it means
because it doesn't obviously mean having
pity on something let's look at what
Jonah was actually feeling and reverse
back and figure out what Hashem is
describing as emotion at ha as what was
he feeling it's not that he was feeling
pity for the plant he actually really
wanted the plant to keep on being
because he was interested in it was
helping him it was good for him so maybe
if we change the mercy prayer we'll make
more sense you had this interest and
concern for this fleeting thing that you
were hardly attached to because it was
really good you really cared about it I
have concern I Hashem have concern for
the people it's a significant difference
it's a small thing Jon is saying Hashem
you're too merciful he's imagining
Hashem as a sort of a softy judge a
judge who doesn't take crime seriously
imagine that a criminal comes to court
and says oh I'm so sorry your honor I
had a bad childhood and it just feels
bad for all the bad guys and lets them
go frustrating imagine you're the
prosecutor you're the police and you
went to all the trouble of catching
these bad guys right or in Jonah's case
you're a prophet who spends their whole
life telling everyone to be good and
they just end up with like this super
softy judges and I was like okay you
know I'm letting you off the hook but I
should have saying no no no no you're
not understanding it's not that you had
mercy on planets that you were at a
vested interest in this plant you were
you were perhaps a little bit
self-oriented but I have a real interest
it's not that I'm just being merciful
I'm actually concerned for the personal
growth of each person it's actually good
for me I care when Hashem when the world
gets better Hashem is saying it's like a
parent instead of a judge when you uh
you know when you punish your child or
decide to let them off the hook it's not
because you're having Mercy or not
having Mercy is it your interest in the
growth of your child so the question you
ask yourself in a case like that is what
will further their development sometimes
we need to be tough sometimes we need to
be soft but the factor is not like oh I
like my I like them I'm having Mercy on
them I'm kind to them or I'm not kind to
them either way we're being kind to them
but we know what makes our child tick
and so we're interested and concernedly
watching them grow to make sure they're
becoming upright people and then you do
what is right for them to grow and
so you for this tree had a vested
interest just because it was giving you
some comfort think about Hashem who is
actively concerned in us as our creator
and perhaps this is the antidote for our
Yom Kippur crisis Hashem sees your heart
and your good intentions he knows you're
gonna stumble but he isn't watching you
and keeping track and Counting you know
just to catch you so he can punish you
he sees your foibles he sees you
dressing up your pets making mistakes
not knowing the difference between your
right and left but he wants to have that
moment of connection with you and even
if he knows that the moment after that
you're gonna fall apart and not be the
same so what do we do on Sukkot we build
this little rickety Playhouse we said
Hashem look what we did isn't it
beautiful we decorate it and we ask
Hashem for our basic needs just like a
child asks their parents and we
basically relive that time in the desert
that represents Hashem taking us on this
journey a journey that had ups and downs
it had Sinai in the golden calf highs
and lows but eventually through that
process we were able to come to the land
of Israel and no point does Hashem kick
us out of the sukkah or out of his
Clouds Of Glory saying uh you know
whatever you know you you made a mistake
Hashem says I'm with you I'm concerned
with you I'm concerned with your growth
and so with that state of mind not a
perfect piety but of Good Intentions
knowing our vulnerability but at the
same time that Hashem loves us and he
values even those small faint moments
where we feel that connection where we
want to be connected in where we're
yearning for him even those moments are
of Limitless value to Hashem just the
way that Jonah had that moment of great
joy being with his with his you know the
shade of his plan Hashem has So Much
Greater Joy from even that moment of
just pure wanting to be good but Hashem
is not just going to toss us away when
that moment finishes Hashem foresees our
ups and downs and the sukkah is like
hashem's
enveloping us it's like a hug where we
sit and we say look how simple we are
we're just these Flesh and Bones we had
that moment of Yom Kippur of being above
all physical needs but in the end we
come down and we just have physical
needs and we have we need food we need
water we need shelter we're so we're so
fragile Hashem we make so many mistakes
and Hashem says okay but I'm still going
to dwell with you in that sukkah and
that is the spirit that launches us into
a good year having the high of Yom
Kippur to look back to and to remember
but that Embrace an envelopment by
Hashem in the sukkah to finish off that
season saying even if you've Fallen you
will fall but it's okay because I see
your heart and I value those moments
that you were trying so hard and I know
that you're going to keep on trying and
keep on growing and that is what propels
us into a true growth mindset of
becoming closer to Hashem throughout the
year and in the following year setting
our hopes even higher and please God
with our whole life just you know
dedicating ourselves to becoming better
and becoming closer to Hashem so with
that I wish you guys all a beautiful and
happy Sukkot bye guys