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one of the struggles that that that
some of the kids are having is that you
know they got they grew up and and
today that people don't own anything
it's my father's fault it's my mother's
fault this one's all that before
i'm like you can't you can't go on in
life if you're busy with everybody
else's fault how do you know this
so it's a totally different subject but
just just for anyone
i guess someone has to hear this abuse
anything that you've gone through in
life parents whatever it is
you you can't live in the past why
by abramovino and i had a discussion
with someone in my house tonight right
before i walked into this
to the share and he said why should i
forgive my parents they treated me
so bad for so long why should i forgive
them
i said first of all i'm i'm not gonna
you know i i spoke to him about
russia i've been went through stuff and
doubled everybody in the united states
i'm not any of them and i'm not the
stifler and i'm not that so don't give
me
don't compare me to anyone i said you're
right okay i never understood
and i speak about this but
unbelievable yeshiva right the people
that he made in kharan
unbelievable yeshiva pact bali chuvas
of ram will be not packed bigger than
aisha torah big big
place
why is he was doing so well
why did he send them out and he told him
i'm not even telling you where you're
going
because the bottom line is whoever's
listening
to grow to grow
and to have a life you've got to leave
your past
so understood that he had an
unbelievable yeshiva
but nimrod
tara they threw him into a fire avoid
the zara
the place that he lived hashem said you
can't be
unless you leave your past
so you've got to get out of bethel
and you know what if you're willing to
leave your past
you're guaranteed to succeed in your
future i'm not even going to tell you
where to go
because it's not about where you're
going it's about to
just let go and you know what if you're
not so from and you're not so great
you're not just excited
let go because you're selfish because
you cannot
continue your life when you're carrying
all those
anger and hatred and memories you
can't go further so hashem was saying i
don't even need to tell you where to go
you know drug addicts when they come out
of rehab the first thing that we tell
them
you must change your environment no but
i'm good
i could say no i know how to say no now
i'm good i did six months
i could say no like you could say no and
you could say no but if it's going to be
the same friends
in the same city and the same dealers
and the same everything
you're going to say yes in the end first
thing is change your environment to
coach boca said
of ram you're doing great you have a
great yeshiva but you can't become a
vramavinu brahmavinu
unless you leave your past let it go so
if your appearance weren't perfect
let it go in the holocaust there's a
difference between the survivor
and the victim a lot of and i'm not
judging them
or whatever but even the people who went
off the derrick and everything who could
judge them
we could judge them after a holocaust
right but they never let it go they're
walking around the holocaust on their
shoulders
our parents our grandparents don't even
talk about it most of them
don't even want to talk about it that's
the past i came to america
i work hard i dive in hard i learn hard
there are a few survivors that tell me
they stand in bottle park and they watch
all these little yeshiva kids
get onto the buses and they're like we
won yamashima
you lost you didn't have a country
anymore
we won they let go
of the concentration camp they let go
they left that all behind ashara ekka
they came here and they they look at
these little kinder
and and the shules and the yeshivas and
they're like yamashima
lost the nazis lost what i mean they
lost they killed six million
they still lost titties titus you lost
so if you if you're a young person
listening you're an older person living
and you're living
in your past jews don't live in their
past jews learn from their past
don't live in the last five months
either don't walk around with your head
down the last five months
or what whatever happened whatever we
went through if you're gonna live in the
last five months
it's gonna make you sicker it's going to
depress you and it's going to give you
anxiety
and never there's so many people out
there that are taking medicine and
therapy and never
they're not alive anymore because the
depression and anxiety of
of this whole covert this whole thing
let it go
let's go further we got rosh hashanah we
got ello anila deity lady lee what does
it mean i
i'm to my loved one and my loved one is
to me that's not fear
just love what kind of what kind of
why do we name the month of ello i need
a daily it's the month of judgment
it's the month of preparing for the
biggest court case of your life
whether you're going to live and die it
should be a anila chuval
jubilee anilira of a year ali
what's this love anila deity daily
that sounds more like adar
not hello wrong
wrong it's a relationship
it's love era everyone changes is fear
you know what yuri is it's much more
than fear
it's awe
how can i fear in love no it's oh when
the king walks in you're like
wow that's much more than
don't hurt me please don't hit me don't
burn me
don't give me a disease please hashem no
that's not what it is that's not what he
wants he wants anila does even daily
or yes he said he's god yes or he's like
wow look at everything he created
you