Learn Secrets of Jewish Intimacy From Tehillim

he shall be like a tree deeply rooted alongside Brooks of water that yields his fruit in its season and whose Leaf never wither and everything that he does will succeed this is literally everything we spoke about today first D tells us here that this person that follows the Torah follows these teachings of Kusha runs away from the naysayers runs away from the people from society from all of the different negative influences whatever they do as far as their intimacy with their spouse will yield fruit now this is not only applicable in a person's life this is applicable in the world today there was a person that was a uh expert in the area of bism he was a botanist that R frim recently spoke to and he says to rim I can't believe how much wisdom there is in the Torah he said just last year I learned about the extraordinary wisdom that's in the of how it affects the land where all of these people that observe this Ma and in so many words didn't grow anything for a whole year abandon the ground for a whole year you would think this would be bad but if you follow what happened to that their land after the shita was completed you would literally see a natural Miracle where all of the nutrients all of the minerals all of the things people pay a fortune came naturally to those grounds because they were able to rest and now their ground is able to yield much more fruit than they were ever able to do before why because they stopped for that one year says to him this everything else you've learned and much more that you didn't learn learn about bism is all part of our oral Tor in a section called well we see in there that there is a mitvah to not grow anything on a 7even but didn't just do it for that so you can follow what he says there's also a benefit you will be able to see with your own eyes of how the land becomes better as a result of you stopping for that one year the same concept goes in a person's life a person is active the whole week he's lifting boxes he's driving to different places he's up he's down he's doing all types of things he exerts his body now if every day or several times a week he's also exerting his body on intimacy then he's never going to have the ability to re-energize he's never going to have the re the ability to improve himself to rest because all of his exertion at work is also coupled with the exertion with intimacy where all of the nutrients all of the minerals all of the seed that he needs to have strength and to improve and to stay healthy is constantly exerted it's constantly spent on the other hand if he maintains himself and he waits for Shabbat the ramban says not only will he not experience a loss that would weaken him but he would actually give strength to his mate these are two different things he says the loss he's not going to experience and and weaken him why because he had the whole week to regain that strength he exerted himself intimately on Shabbat now he acquired more strength more of that seed throughout the week so even though he exerted himself physically at work and whatever he did that didn't affect the minerals and all of the things that are in his body and therefore by the next time it together he's not going to experience that same weakness that your average person does whereas sometimes they're intimate with their wife and they end up waking up late the next day or they're drowsy the next day or they get a cold or all types of things now of course this is again there a this doesn't happen every single time so a person that's very promiscuous and say no no I'm fine every day is fine fine you could be fine long term you see more of this stuff just like in any other experiment over the long run you see the outcomes of these things much more than you do in the short run but needless to say that weakening that a person gets won't happen to you why you had the whole week to regroup you had the whole week to gather those parts that you've exerted in in a positive manner but even more so he says it'll actually give strength to your mate what does it mean give strength to your mate that because you're doing it in a holy way because you're containing yourself because you're doing it in in such a fashion that aadh says you are practicing Holiness not just speaking Holiness not just saying that Holiness is a good thing but you're practicing Holiness your seed becomes holy and therefore when you share that Holiness with your wife you Empower her you actually Empower your wife and you give strength to your mate you give strength to your wife now therefore says the ramban it said in the name of DAV in uh 1:3 bring forth its fruit in its season which is from Shabbat night to shabbat night and Jukes to POS within the verse and whose leaves do not wither that is to say that the union will be for the sake of heaven and it will come to completion see here we see that the ramban is telling us again the same verse by David and mentioning it by letting us know that David already implied this teachings of sanctity between a man and his wife in the first in these couple of verses but in fact the whole T is talking about it in Chapter One D tells us Praises of the man who walked not in the counsel of the wicked and stood not in the path of the sinful and sat not in a session of scorers right off the bat the is telling us if your friends are those types of people that are fools that say that intimacy is simply to relieve themselves they're not able to contain themselves they just want to do whatever they want to do and you found new friends your new friend became the ramban your new friends became the sages of your new friends became that want to achieve Holiness that's already you achieving praiseworthy and those people that are making fun of you one day they're going to ask you for blessings the next verse D says but his desire is in the Torah of hem and his Torah he meditates day and night person that is going to achieve Holiness is only going to do that by having Torah in his mind if a person has Oprah Winfrey and Netflix and sports and money and all that stuff on their mind at all time they're never going to attain wealth spiritually they're never going to attain sanctity now again everybody in their own level but certainly everybody can reach somewhere better than what they are right now and then says the verse that is deeply rooted within this lecture where he says he shall be like a tree deeply rooted alongside Brooks of water that yields his fruit in its season and whose Leaf never wither and everything that he does will succeed this is literally everything we spoke about today first the tells us here that this person that follows the Torah follows these teachings of Kusa runs away from the naysayers runs away from the people from society from all of the different negative influences whatever they do as far as their intimacy with their spouse will yield fruit in the right time in the right season but they're not just going to be fruits that are rotten fruits that have worms in it fruits that are missing body parts missing abilities missing IQ points but rather they're going to be deeply rooted they're going to be ones that are the best of the best and in fact he himself will have a long life his fruits and whatever he does is not going to wither is not going to weaken the act of intimacy between him and his wife is not going to weaken him and not only that everything that he does will succeed meaning this is not only going to lead to successful children but also successful marriage happiness and successful when it comes to P meaning a person can live a piece of ganeden by attaining kadha not so the Wicked says rather they are like the chaff that the wind drives away therefore the wicked shall not be Vindicated in judgment nor the sinful in the Assembly of the righteous for hasem attends the way of the righteous while The Way of the Wicked Will perish this is obviously self-explanatory where David says everything we just said at the righteous that achieve sanctity the chase after sanctity the chase after Kusha everything that they will get the wicked will not now you think that sometimes the wicked look like they're succeeding look he just brought a $10 million house look he has this company look he has this look he has that he says look eventually it's going to wither eventually it's going to go away eventually he going to fly with the wind eventually you'll see who was God with at all times and who just had the optical illusion of the Satan strong lectures uh similar and different to the one that you heard tonight that are simply full of sources honesty that's brutal but is effective it helped countless people get closer to Hashem because For the First Time in their life they heard that there are serious ramifications for their bad actions whatever those bad actions are