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we're very close to
p
and we're just going to learn a little
bit of
a for the month and for p just to remind
you of a few things that we learned last
week that are important to remember and
to do if you didn't do one of them is
that the whole month of Nissan we do not
say
ton or VD
confession uh if you didn't see B not
yet then you have to find the trees to
make the blessing on the
trees uh excuse
me better to do it now but if not you
can do it
to to pes's
the braa is long you're going to need to
take with you a
s uh I'm not too sure but if you have a
smartphone you can uh you can Google it
cuz it's a long it's it's after you say
the I mean that's not something you can
remember
remember better to go H with something
ready with a Sido I don't I don't know
any your s if you have it but
um you need to find we talked about it
last week we need to find two trees that
they bear fruit
so I forgot the lady's name that was
here last week she placed a message on
the group that she has two trees in her
backyard and anybody Kuma and anybody
can go to her her
house so try to do that another thing is
what's called everybody has to give a
little bit of charity for
communal account that helps poor people
get their food it's not a suggestion
it's everybody has to do it even if it's
five shekels but you have to participate
even if you have financial problems
you also have to participate in that
even if it's something very very small
can I give to you you can give to me
because we feed a lot of poor people but
don't do it now we'll do it after the
class this coming Shabbat is
Shabbat I'm just going to recap a little
bit what we learned last year this
Shabbat this coming Shabbat is Shabbat
a
uh you can go to watch the video to see
all the rules that have to do with
Shabbat but just remember it's the last
Shabbat before P after we read a portion
of the
ha and
uh it's important to know what it means
you can definitely look at the video
that we posted last week so now we're
going to continue things that we need to
do on Sunday I mean this year it's going
to be Sunday somebody might be watching
the video next
year and it's not going to be Sunday
this year it's Sunday that we have to
burn the kets we have to check the kets
and we have to burn it so first of all
it means that I have to clean the house
foretz we're not going to go through
that but needless to say the whole house
needs to be
cleaned and if if it's your home there's
no question here everything has to be
cleaned if for whatever reason it's a
big home or some of the rooms are not
going to be used you can gather all the
stuff you don't want to clean into one
room close the room and sell the kets
we're going to learn today what it means
to sell the kets but if it's your house
and you fully live in it then you have
to clean the entire house if it's not
your house which is very important then
you clean your area many people they
live in room with roommates or temporary
housing or any other type of of
situation that would make the house not
theirs then you clean you have to clean
your area whether it's just your room or
if you have a little piece of a living
room uh if you share you have to clean
at least the hallway where you going to
walk
through basically wherever you're going
to be in PES you have to clean for
yourself so you'll clean from the door
till your room in your room if there's a
bathroom you clean in the bathroom
believe it or not some people do bring
bring food into the
bathroom and sometimes not only that
there will be crumbs on the floor that
will be pushed into the bathroom so you
want to do a clean in the bathroom if
you share a kitchen that's where it
becomes a little bit more
challenging but to make a long story
short because it depends there's many
different types
of Partnerships in an apartment
sometimes you're roommate sometimes
you're guest sometimes you're just
renting a room so the rule to to
remember is you clean your
part and uh and of course way you're
going to pass backwards and forth and
the rest is not your area you don't have
to clean it of course it would be
optimal if it would be clean but since
it's not yours and you don't own it then
you don't have any obligation to clean
something that doesn't belong to you
itless to say after we do
the then whatever is there it's not
yours and we're going to go through the
rules of Thea of the burning of the
selling the cuz that we're going to do
this Sunday which means it's till Sunday
everything has to be cleaned Sunday
evening when the Sun goes down so we
still have a little bit less than a
week
and the we do on this coming Sunday
after the star go stars go
out the night before which means the
13th day of Nissan we must check
the I mean have to check that there
isn't any and it has to be done right
after the stars go
out you want to prevent from
eating uh drinking working or even
learning Tor the second the Sun the
stars go out you start
it's even better not to do all these
actions that I said learning eating
working half an hour before the stars go
out so you're not going to forget doing
the Bika I know in in our
generation most people comes the stars
go go out they're not even close to
doing Thea that's when all the pressure
starts so it's best I know every year
you say say okay next year everything
will be ready and this year I'm starting
right after the stars go
out try to do it there's a mystical
reason why we do it right when the stars
go
out and it has like the the major rule
of Shabbat it doesn't matter when
Shabbat comes in you you always come two
minutes before Shabbat doesn't matter if
Shabbat comes in at 4: at 7 you always
ready a minute before the same thing
with the checking the try to make sure
that your everything is checked and
ready and the stars go out you're ready
to do it and half an hour before that
you're already stop from working eating
learning to and you get
ready if you already started to learn
you started to eat you started to do
something comes the time best to stop
if you are busy with whatever you're
doing learning or still cleaning you
have to make sure that somebody will
remind you a roommate a friend a husband
tells you okay it's time to clean let's
let's
start it's important to start on
time and I'll tell you in a second
why uh if you're a man best to pray
right as the stars go
out it's good to do it right away so you
can go right away home to check the
ketz
and even if you're not a man it's good
to pray that that night before you're
checking the Sunday night Sunday night
before before the stars come out you get
ready start come out you pray and you
start cleaning start checking now one of
the many reasons why we check right when
the sun stars go out because as the
stars come down the night starts falling
we don't see it with our eyes but till
midnight it becomes darker and darker
and darker we just don't see it with our
eyes it starts becoming dark the the
border the line when night starts is
when the stars go out that's when it's
dark enough to see the stars a minute
before the stars go out it's there's
still a little bit of light so since
there's a little bit of light you don't
see all the stars it's not because the
Stars suddenly appear it's just that
still the sun is not
100% passing the line then since it
didn't pass the line 100% there's still
a little bit of light in the sky so you
can can only see two or three stars that
are very bright once the sun is
completely be after the line then
suddenly within a couple minutes you see
a bunch of stars
so in the spiritual level there are two
major midot that control the world rule
the world during the day is the mid of
and during the night is the mid of
Judgment of of
severity as the sun goes down
the starts diminishing in that
borderline when the stars go out this is
when the the severity starts coming into
changing of the guards changing of the
shift so as close as you can to the T
Kim the severity the den are not that
strong the more you go into to the night
the Mida the judgments are becoming much
much stronger therefore you want to make
sure that you're checking the K as close
as possible
to till the stars go out why not to
Shalom fall under more severe judgments
on that night now checking of theet is
not necessarily finding the crumb we do
the physical ritual but there's a
spiritual aspect to
it and the spiritual aspect to it is
that that's when I need to clean theet
out of my domain we're going to go
through it later that we clean with a
candle there the reason why we do a
candle if you notice from previous years
we clean with a feather and we have to
spread some pieces of KET around so we
can find them there's a whole mystical
reason why we do the whole
thing so you want to do it if we have
time we'll get to it today why we do the
Feather why we do the candle why we do
even the the dear with a candle I mean a
candle is a little bit of light turn the
lights on you'll see 10 times better
so there's a mystical part why we do it
like that so it's better to do it when
the stars go out because the the
intensity of the Mida is not that strong
and when you clean your physically it's
when you clean the K spiritually from
your and you do not need more severity
or more
judgments shining on you the judgments
don't shine on you but they they
so to say shine on you you want to do it
as close as possible to when the stars
go
out and there's many more reasons but
we'll get to that later now where where
do
you check
the any place that you think that even
by
mistake went in there you have to check
there even if it's a laundry room that
you're saying laundry room who eats in
the laundry room but sometimes it can be
crumbs in the pockets of the the the
pants the shirt whatever it is and as
you taking everything and ready get out
of the laundry basket and putting
anything into the to the washing machine
could be some crumbs fing over there so
even a place that you think why would
somebody go there with kmets a little
storage or sometimes under the stairs if
you have two floors under the stairs
it's used for like a storage area which
again sometimes people will say oh
nobody goes there so what's the point of
checking so you want to check any
possible place where K might be you want
to make sure of course nless to say
before that you clean it and then to
check
it why because there is always the
option of a little bit of it's coming
there
now go every room that you have to check
before you check of course you want to
make sure that it's clean you want to
make sure that it's organized and
it's it's it's not a mess that it will
be easier sometimes rooms are messy like
a storage room or or a side
room you have to check all the rooms
even in places like under the bed under
a counter behind a closet sometimes you
people do okay I don't really live in
this room and they do it real real quick
you want to make sure that you do do it
very thorough and better to do it couple
days
before it's also very important to
check important to clean in in little
cracks between things in holes
underneath placees that normally your
hand even can barely get there but you
don't need to go fanatic on places where
your hand cannot reach if your hand
cannot reach you don't have to to start
burning the house down yesterday the the
that's what sometimes people do
yesterday we had a help in cleaning the
kitchen so in our freezer there's a
place that has a little bit of like I
don't know like these holes I don't know
if it's done for ventilation I don't
know why it's done but it's not a place
that you can pick up clean close close
down there's a there was like a little
panel and
holes and I saw the cleaning lady there
for for 2 hours and I was like why why
why is it taking you so long she said
look how much KET were need and when I
looked I first of all it's ice cream it
doesn't look like KET but she was like
no look inside there's there's there's
crumbs in
there there was no other option of even
opening it sometimes there's a panel you
can take out clean and put put in but
for whatever reason in this type of
freezer there was the the there was like
a hole that first of all the holes were
very very small with a toothpick she was
able to scrape in but you could see in
and it was like maybe an inch going down
and you saw dirt in there there's no way
to get it there's really no way to get
it unless you sit there for for weeks
with a 500
horsepower ER vacuum cleaner to somehow
get it out from there I don't even know
how you can get it out really you can't
get it out she was going in with a
toothbrush and toothpicks and and at
some point I told her listen do a Thor
clean and we'll just cover it that's it
you you can't do it there's no point to
go too crazy over something like that
cuz you'll never get it out
the reason why I say burning the house
cuz some people take a blow torch and
they'll start burning it from above
because once you burn theet you can't
eat it you can't have any benefit from
it it's not kit anymore so one time I
did that many years ago when I thought
that you have to go fanatic and I
started burning things and I was like
okay this is not a good solution I'm
starting to burn down the
house so this is where the the line of
insanity starts
and where you don't need to be insane so
you cover it you cover it with hard foil
you seal it and as long as you don't see
it as long as you don't have access to
it and when you sell the KET you
remember there's a place in the freezer
that I couldn't clean so sometimes there
places that that you can reach doesn't
matter what you're going to do
so this is the line where you don't go
crazy you need to clean you need to
scrub you need to to to scrape
but when it comes to a point that your
hand can't reach in it then it's enough
you don't you don't this is where you
stop and it's enough to be to to to do
what's called the Bol is to say okay
this is this is why I I can't get rid of
it anymore you want to ask
something so you want to may maybe
borrow a vacuum cleaner
if you want we have an old one it's not
that great but you can take it but it's
a little bit broken but you want to
borrow excuse me it will suck it's not a
it's not a 500 horsepower vacuum cleaner
it will suck a big dirt it's not going
to it's not so great but you yeah you
want to be borrow a vacuum cleaner and
make sure that uh you do at least a good
thorough uh vacuuming cuz the vacuum is
is a very good solution cuz it does suck
from all
directions and the ones the vacuum
cleaners that are not so strong then
what you do is you cover the the area
from air and then it makes like a
suction and then even if the vacuum
cleaner is not so strong it will still
suck it you know how you put your hand
on the on the on the hose Suddenly It's
suck it sucks it much stronger because
there's no flow of air so if you if you
can't get into these places sometimes
you have an extension that narrows down
the hole so if you don't have that then
you create something you become Aver and
you and uh okay that's a joke for the
old older people the younger people are
like what who so not too long ago I was
in in a lecture I mentioned that and
some people smiled and the rest were
looking and we like what is it what's
that word so I said okay that's for the
older crowd
what was the word
mcgyver mcgyver was 30 years ago was a
show of this guy that mver MacGyver that
used to get into situations and he would
take a bobby pin and a shoelace and
suddenly make a nuclear bomb so that was
the the joke growing up so you become in
cleaning in the PES cleaning mcgyver and
you find how to make sure to suck the
the crumbs but again where wherever your
hand physically cannot go in that's
where you stop becoming insane now again
putting your hand underneath a a cabinet
that's that's normal you put the Hol in
of the of the vacuum cleaner but when it
becomes cracks sometimes there is cracks
in the windows in the in the window seal
wherever you can go in I mean you do
your best you vacuum sometimes I know
people will uh pour uh certain acid or
bleach to melt everything that's it and
then you don't you don't have to go
crazy and as somebody once told me we
have very high
bookshelves and uh I mean you want to
clean for dust but once my wife was
climbing up I told her nobody's eating
on the top of the bookshelf nobody's
throwing like that bread uh during the
week that there'll be a crumb there and
we do not have birds flying around here
that will might
drop a crumb so the seventh level of the
bookshelf that you cleaning for dust you
don't clean for kets so it's important
not to go too crazy over the
cleaning I told you already in one of
the previous classes last week that if
you already have so much free time to go
crazy go crazy on learning and working
on yourself how to clean the the H
within you rather than going with
toothpicks and scraping H uh cracks in
the floor I mean the cleaning has to be
good but not some people they really
really lose their
mind it's important to scrub anything
that KET touched it so if you have a
countertop a tblop anything that you
know that KET touched it you want to
scrub it because sometimes if you look
at this table for example you see
there's a a line around
if you just wipe it with a with a rag
it's not enough you you can see this is
a perfect example on this table how it
has like this uh line around that's
something you want to maybe take a
toothpick or a knife or fork and go like
that especially a table you ate on it
this is not so much a table that you eat
on it I mean actually yeah people put
their cookies on it and their
coffee this is where you want what you
want to scrub you go one time this is
what's called a crack or or I'm sure
there's a word for this in English to
this to this H this is something you
want to H scrape the joint excuse me the
joint I don't know I mean but you see
like there's in the wood there's like a
little
line this if you just white this is not
good enough here you want to take either
a fork that is something metal I mean
you don't want to scratch it you have to
also work with your with common sense
but that's something you want to scrap
sometimes in the in the countertops in
the kitchen the the the end the edge is
like that and and you just clean off the
dirt sometimes the edge is a little bit
elevated and in that crack that's where
you want to clean so anywhere that KET
was sitting on which is usually in most
cases will be countertops tables table
Toops anywhere that you'll put theet
that's where you want to scrape
Corners if now let's say there are
places especially on countertops that
are made from Marble you can get it's
because they to they put two marbles
together I means nowadays it's a little
bit more with with technology when the
edge of the tabletop the C top goes a
little bit up they make it one piece in
the older versions they take one piece
another piece and they glue it and then
a lot ofets get stuck
inside if you see that after you scraped
it and you cleaned it it doesn't come
out that's where you either Bo pour
boiling hot water or you take a blow
torch and very quickly you go on the on
the on the panel cuz it will burn
everything in it another solution is
sometimes what people do is they'll
they'll take a glue of what's called
silicone and just do another layer and
then you completely cover it so this
this is where you want to go a little
bit more extreme because there you know
there's humet on your table on your
countertop in your kitchen that that's
99.9% is humet there so that's where you
want to go a little bit too much now if
you don't have all these tools all these
options also boiling hot water does the
job and but boiling boiling hot Waters
anyways you want to cusher the counters
and cover them so you're going to pour
boiling hot water so you do want to go
here a little bit
extra another important thing
is it's important also to check your
pockets now a lot of people what they do
is they just wash everything but you can
start washing your entire house
especially that most people they have
summer clothes winter clothes so it's
important to to check Pockets you know
put your hand in empty put it inside out
shake it
especially the things that you know
because that you were carrying kin a lot
of people put their food in their
pockets especially kids
so sometimes even when you wash it it
doesn't even clean it so you do want to
go through uh coats and stuff like that
they will have
pockets that's the advantage of being a
woman dresses don't have pockets so
there's nothing to put
there now that's of course important to
to do before you do the not the night of
P when it's cold and you put a jacket on
and then you put your hand in you're
like uh oh I think I just touched a
cracker so you want to do that uh before
the
checking now same thing with the
shoes uh yeshivas places that you
study that's also a place you need to
check that's why this Friday we're not
having here a meal because the C place
is already going to be clean for p and
we can't have uh we don't not going to
have enough time Sunday to clean an
entire building so I know a few people
already asked us this shabas we are not
having a meal
so the best way to
do most houses should be and hopefully
are already Cure by
Friday some houses not some houses
Sunday is still the day of cleaning
but if you already clean the house and
Friday is already Kosher for PES the
best way to do is when you make your
shabas meal is that you cover the table
with a plastic a big plastic and you eat
h a p bread P they usually their Crumbs
are very big it's not like these little
kalas that spreads all over the place as
you buy either these H whole wheat rolls
that they barely have crumbs or or P
Breads and of course you eat a little
bit over the plastic when you have a
beard you go like
that and and you eat very careful and
right away you turn pick up the plastic
tie it up and throw it you want to do
that because it's still Shabbat and even
though it's clean for PES you don't want
to take away from the Mitzvah of
Shabbat what we do if you have the
option is we eat on the P we do what I
just said but on the porch so on Shabbat
we eat on our porch because the house is
we're already eating now on the porch
now every everything that is the kids
know they go on the porch the porch is
not clean Sunday we clean the porch and
there's wind and there's cats and
there's birds so better to eat a p bread
or a whole wheat roll something that
doesn't H crumb too much and not to do
the I mean if if there's no other choice
than you do like what you said you eat
some dates and you drink a cup of wine
but still it's Shabbat you don't want to
take away from this Holiness and the
Mitzvah of Shabbat
then you go a little bit extreme you'll
eat over a plastic bag put it even if
you don't have these big Plastics
tablecloths put a plastic bag eat over
it real
careful from bread that you that you
know will not uh make
crumbs and then at least you did the
Mitzvah of shabas the right way it's not
good to take away from the Mitzvah of
Shabbat because the the next day is PES
now uh you want to make sure that not
only that also the food that you make
now the thing is that a lot of the times
the oven is already ready for PES so if
you're already cooking something make
sure it's in a in a disposable tin or
something that is already belongs to PES
you have to be careful how you're eating
on Friday but I know what a lot of
people do is they're like okay I'm not
going to do anything or like you said
I'll find all the options of not making
a suda don't take away from the Holiness
of Shabbat so find a way I know a lot of
times what people do is they'll two
three families they'll they'll merge
together and they say let's all e
together in the same place and we'll all
pitch into the to the
cleaning if you have a porch if you have
a backyard whatever it is that's also a
good option eating outside but the the
important thing to take from that is not
to take away from the Mitzvah of Shabbat
that's the most important thing but if
there's no other way you can do the wine
and the dates and and you'll be good
with
that okay now finally we came to Sunday
evening and it's time to do
the it's important that right before the
any that you have you put away in one
place now there's a few opinions one
opinions will say it's fine take all
your comets put it in the closet close
the closet it put a sticker that it's
and after that you sell that there are
more strict opinions that they suggest
don't even keep the kets at home so your
plates your utensils that has the taste
of kets of course that you keep but if
you have an open box of crackers Just
Give It Away eat it throw don't throw it
you can't throw food but make sure you
don't keep kets in the house if you
have sealed bags of flour fine but
anything that is open better some
opinions especially the rabbi ofat he
says don't keep at home don't keep it at
all at home that's a more strict opinion
any KET that you have you gather it all
together put it in a closet close it
doesn't have to be one closet can be 50
closets you just have to mark it where
theet is but you have to separate the
KET and the rest of the
stuff no
there's a custom that we take 10 pieces
of and we spread them around the house
this
is usually done let's say the wife if
the husband is doing Thea the checking
the wife will do that and today today
everybody have a very easy life today
you can buy a kit that has already these
H pieces already ready and they're
sealed
so if you don't have the option of
buying that fancy kit and you take a
little bit from the P bread that you had
for Shabbat it is already hard anyways
wrap it a little bit with
foil like like this make little
Hershey's out of it you know they put a
little piece wrap it with foil and you
sprit around the house 10
pieces and if you by yourself then you
do it yourself if not the best if the
wife will do that don't let the kids do
that because they they they'll hide it
in Places You'll Never
Find and you know there's also the
chance that they they're going to mess
it up and Crumbs are going to be
everywhere but if if it's possible let
the wife hide it in normal places then
the husband will in the will need to
find it again you want to make sure you
put it in a foil or some way that it's
not going to start spreading
around
then you want to check with a candle a
candle of wax and not like the type of
havdala that has a few Flames that has
one
Wick and
also you want to take a feather that
belongs to any type of
bird better a
chicken and uh you check it with a
single candle single wiek candle and a
feather and you start checking the humet
to the light of the candle all the light
lights have to be down and off and you
want to check one hand the candle one
check hand the feather and you start
looking for the kets and you have to
find these 10 pieces of kets not AAL
candle you said no no can do from aala
candle you need one one wiek not a
library a lighter no has to be a candle
that's made out of wax okay today I said
today our life is very easy they sell
you this kit and in the kit will be the
wax candle the feather the spoon the 10
pieces the braa the whole thing I don't
a spoon and a feather I didn't see you
didn't see the food the just spoon in
the feather but ah you mean the kit with
the 10 pieces no no the kit I got just
has a spoon in the feather no candle so
look for the ones that has a candle cuz
it's important it will be a wax you can
go with a lighter or a
flashlight there's mystical reasons
maybe what we can do is not today maybe
Thursday we'll learn a little bit more
mystical why we do that but it's
important you do the Feather you do the
spoon you do the candle with the wax and
you find these 10 pieces in general just
that you H feed the Curiosity I don't
want to stop for
that the reason first of all why we we
we search with the light because the
candle light that is considered light I
mean we could don't consider
the the electricity light now really
when you clean the
kets I already scrubbed the floor
there's not KET there but I want to
clean the the humet that is in me my ego
my my my bad character traits the junk
that is in me my anger my my
frustration mainly the ego mainly the K
represents my ego my yes my
selfness and the only way which is the
dark side in me it's not coming from my
soul my soul is a is a pillar of
light it
says the candle of hem is the soul of a
person so our soul is compared to fire
to light so anything that is opposite of
Holiness is darkness and the only way to
beat the darkness is with light so we
turn all the lights down and we wait for
the stars to come out that it's 100%
darkness and I use a single Wick candle
corresponding to my my soul is called a
candle a verse by King
Solomon the candle of is the S of the
person so I want to do it only with a
candle and a single week candle not two
weeks not three weeks like the havala
candles that candle is me I'm coming to
to light the darkness in the light of
the Dark of the candle you can only win
the darkness with light and you don't
need a big uh projector you don't need a
lot of light you need a little bit of
light from the candle that overpowers
the
darkness now if you look if you turn out
the light very very strong I can
guarantee to you that it will be a
little bit of crumbs on the floor you're
not going to see it the daylight is way
too strong the lights on the ceiling are
way too strong turn the whole lights off
here and come with a candle you'll see
the crumb you'll see a little bit of
crumb why because the the dark is so
thick it doesn't allow you to see
anything a little bit of light from the
candle already creates the type of light
that you see little things more than
that that when I come to clean myself I
don't need a lot of light I just need a
little bit of a little bit of light if I
have a lot of problems in me I have
anger I have frustration I have the
sadness I have an ego I have whatever it
is that I need to clean in me I just
need a little bit of
just to ignite a little bit the and that
already will point out to me what I need
to
clean the 10 pieces of the that were
spread around they correspond to the 10
SP that are in me I mean everything is
everything is coming from the 10 SPH and
I have to start refining my sphere of
Mal the sphere of the sphere of whatever
sphere it is I have to refine it in me
the whole year round it was covered with
schutz and dirt andet and and even if I
have the mid of of kindness it still
gets dirty around the entire year
because I do charity but I am a little
bit happy and proud that I was able to
help that person and I say oh I helped
him I feel a little bit of g a little
bit of Pride when I do something good so
even in a good attribute it can be
covered with a little bit of dirt so I
want to look in me it's the time that I
I I need to understand when I'm cleaning
the KET it's not just being on the the
floor on my knees and looking for
something is as I'm looking it's
symbolically I'm also looking in myself
to clean the junk that is in
me so I want to make sure that it's done
the right
way maybe we'll prepare for Thursday and
we'll do a class why all these little
things but now we want to make sure that
we're doing it with a candle a single
Wick candle from wax and the reason why
it's good to buy from these kits because
they give you this candle that doesn't
drip some candles you light them up and
within one minute your whole floor is
going to be full of wax more than that
some candles they they the way they make
the wick the may they make the wax some
of the candles might have ingredients of
kets in it to make the the wa the wax
the wax strong so you want to make sure
that the candles also P so better to buy
this
kit we're in the year of 2017 you can
get it everywhere and even if you live
in tulso Oklahoma so you order it online
on Amazon believe it or not you can
order it and you'll get it to the home
so but you do want to do it the right
way now of course there's a certain that
you have to say and and you have to know
the braa the braa of course better if
you have it from a sid if you buy this
kit usually they'll have the already on
it which of course
is
and the next day when we going to burn
the kets we also
have that we
say me we don't say the braa there's
just there's a a line that we read we're
going to get to it now once you say the
bra and you start the cleaning you do
not talk throughout the cleaning so even
if your husband does the the the
checking and he says the braa then you
also should not talk it's not the time
of saying hey did you hear what happened
today
no this is for the searching of this is
for the searching you don't talk you
keep quiet you take the the couple
moments of Silence to concentrate on
what you're doing and you don't talk
about
anything another thing
is it's best together everybody that is
in the house where if you if you're just
yourself then it's just yourself but if
there's a husband kids everybody has to
stand there they have to hear
the now if you you have roommates or you
live a couple people together then you
all together do it and each one goes to
check their area you want to do it
together and of course not to talk in
the meantime
now if you have a few rooms in your
house and you're standing in the living
room and you said the blessing in the
living room first check the living room
if you said the bra in the in the dining
room first check the dining room you
always check the room that you said the
braa first and not to say the braa in
the bedroom and go to the living
room once you done the checking you take
the bag a bag put all the kets in it
it's best to take a paper bag because
the next day when we burn the kets you
just throw the whole thing in and you
don't want to use plastic bags because
if you have your own bonfire the plastic
makes this bags H since it's made out of
oil can make a fire it's more flamable
can
make this uh black smoke and you want to
keep it to the minimum few years ago I
usually Tred to have my own bombfire and
a few years ago so a few neighbors like
oh you have your own I want to come and
one of the neighbors that came I don't
even know what they threw in the fire
suddenly out of P the whole house was a
thick thick H
smoke and I was like what did you throw
in there and we had to turn the fire out
so we had to make a new one because the
kit was not burned and then it was
already full of water so it didn't burn
it became a whole big problem and this
was done half an hour before the time to
burn the kets
so I try not to put anything that is
flamable like Plastics and stuff like
that in the fire of the kets so it's
better to take a paper bag like it's
very easy to get one you go to any
Bakery here where they give you the the
pastries they have these paper bags just
put the KET in
it cuz later on we're going to throw it
to to burn
it best also to put in it the feather
the the the candle if anything is left
everything that you use for the put in
that
bag if you have the the the spoon it's
good to to to to tie it and just leave
the spoon handle hanging
out if you can tie it with a rope or
something that theet is in and not going
to be moved and put it aside tomorrow
you can burn it with the
kits now what do you do after Thea
now like I said we do the cleaning we do
a Thor cleaning but the main canceling
of the is in your heart so after you
cleaned after you checked after you made
sure you did the the
checking now you have to appro the from
your
heart what does it mean to approv it
from your heart
once you did the checking after the
cleaning and after you did the hard work
for a couple weeks you have to take to
consideration that now in my heart I'm
saying okay if I did forget a crumb here
and there or there's a pocket that I
forgot a crumb or one crack I didn't
clean I'm in my heart accepting that I
don't have any more kets I I this is
called the taking it away I'm totally
apprting it from my from my
domain now my if I do have any it's like
like ashes it's like sand and I can't
use it for
anything and our sages gave us a a verse
to say in our if you don't understand
aake don't say it an aake I mean you can
read it just for the sake of reading it
but you have to say you have to
understand what you're
saying and the verse the translation is
that
any or leav that I have in my possession
that I can't see that I didn't burn that
I didn't that I don't know of any type
is going to be cancelled and old and
it's going to be like heare heare
doesn't belong to me and it's going to
be like ashes now really what you want
to do you have to understand if you
remember last week we learned about the
order of the
sacrifices in the book
ofra and I I explained that the
sacrifice is a process that we need to
look at and to understand that's what I
need to do and that's what would have
done to me if I ifem was a little bit
less kind if you remember in the class I
mentioned that first you Slaughter the
animal to take all the blood out then
you cut the animal you skin it you take
pieces out if you go by the order of the
sacrifice that's what I need to do in
the spiritual level same thing here in
PES so physically I clean the house but
through the entire month or a week or
four weeks that I clean the house
physically that's when I have to clean
myself spiritually that's why I said
don't go fanatic on the scraping of the
floor take half an hour of your time
instead of being on your knees to scrape
sit with yourself and say okay how am I
cleaning my my
Nish I'm obviously I have a lot of hits
hit is what makes my ego to inflate so I
have anger I
have anxieties I have I I think bad
about other people I have all these
things in me that are they need to be
cleaned so being on your knees and
scrubbing is very good but also you take
half an hour of your time and you're
saying okay let's let's be real you
remember last week we had a lecture
about the whole point of the cleaning of
KET is admitting just admitting yes I
have a problem here I have a problem
here I have a not to look at another
person and says he has a problem she has
a problem that's very easy to do to
point the finger at who has problems the
point in in PES is to say okay I have KS
I have a problem with judging our people
I have a problem with the with whatever
it is but that's the cleaning of the K
that you do because I Want to Be Free
the next lecture we're going to have
today is about what is real freedom
because PES is the holiday of freedom
and we all are stuck in
slavery and we're stuck like in in jail
and we're not free neither one of us is
free we are not what's
called and we're going to learn next
class what does it really mean this
freedom and why am I not free and how
can I become free because we all want to
be free I want to be free from my
problems I want to be free from debt I
want to be free from Shalom physical
problems I want to be free more than
that my is in jail my is in jail because
it has all sorts of of of barriers and
limitations that I'm in jail so the
whole h of PES is to go out of jail p is
called it's not
called doesn't say in
the in the T it's
called the holiday of of matah or the
holiday of Freedom are sages added the
name
p so the cleaning is yes cuz I can't
have in the house cuz the is that I'm
not allowed to see eat or own
HS but the clean that's where the
cleaning is but has to be parallel the
physical and the spiritual so I'm
scrubbing the floor scrubbing my Nish so
the whole time that I'm taking to clean
yes I need to clean cuz I can't own or
eat or see but it has to be also in my
heart that's why having all these
classes just about PES because PES is is
the preparation is not less important if
I come to the night of PES and I did not
prepare myself spiritually then the
night of PES is not going to affect me
so
much and the the class that we're going
to have after this class we're going to
go some stages and what is the real
freedom and I'm I'm we're going to talk
about it that what happens on the night
of PES is a very special
night the night of
P it's called it's such a powerful night
that if you
notice we don't see even say that night
we leave the door open we don't do
anything we were're 100% protected by
Hashem and what happened spiritually and
mystically on that night we're going to
learn in the next J I have uh the most
asici night of the year some some of our
sages say that P is the holiest night of
the year more than Kim because I don't
need to do much the The Godly light The
Godly Revelation that comes down to the
World on that night is unbelievable and
what I can achieve that night just by
observing the
holiday then then I can reach to the
highest level of the peak of of of the
what my n can
reach but the preparation has to be
accordingly and we're going to
we're going to learn next class hold on
that what's happening that night so the
preparation is extremely extremely
important that's why the last couple
weeks that's what we're learning about
PES what what's PES why the whole story
if you notice our entire being is
wrapped around PES every day we
mentioning every day when we pray when
we bench every Shabbat we do
everything that we
do because our our entire focus is
around the concept of going out of Egypt
and now is the day we're commemorating
the day you know how I always say in my
lectures about about the night of PES
it's an apicius time it's the time where
this Godly light came down to the world
3,300 and something years ago and
permeated the power in the world that
any individual can go out of their MIT
out of the limitation
and that's the night I can hit the
jackpot so the preparation is just as
important and if I don't have the right
preparation then I will come to that
special special night without the right
tools so everything that I do I do it in
the physical and parallel it's also
happening in the spiritual so once I
clean the physically I have to clean it
Also spiritually which means that I have
to accept in my heart that yeah I don't
have any more kets it's not mine it's
almost like you know the little kids
that they get in trouble and they steal
something you go and catch them they're
like that's not mine but I found it in
your bag no no somebody put it here it's
not mine and they're so convinced or
they're convincing themselves or they do
whatever they can to make you think and
believe it's not
theirs so you want to do the exact same
thing with your it's not mine very so I
don't know where that crumb came from
it's totally not
mine so after I did this whole entire I
have to accept on myself I don't own any
more kets when I approv it from my heart
I'm saying okay now I took on myself
there's a lot of chairs over here now
I'm taking from myself that I don't have
any more kets and I'm and I accept it
already that my my system is
clean and that's extremely important and
then we say this PUK and again if you
don't if you don't understand the
Aramaic say it in the language you
understand but it's important to say it
and you you an know theet that is in
you and again it's extremely important
that you say in a language that you
understand and that you understand what
you're saying I I know a lot of people
say the the Aramaic and then they didn't
understand what they're
saying
after you have be very careful with the
KET that you leave for the next day put
it all the
side whether you're going to eat theet
whether you're going to burn it but you
put it
aside some nobody's going to move
it no Crumbs are going to
come going to spill by the kids or
Shalom an animal and you want to put it
in a in a special place
now the next day this year is going to
be
Monday on the day of P what's called P
the morning of P 5 hours after the of
dawn you have to make yourself a little
bombfire you have to burn
your so today in most communities you
will find a big bombfire a big barrel
where they make a big fire and the fire
department is already standing there for
security if you can't then you get
yourself a big metal tin or metal bucket
or whatever it is of course not to to
start burning down the the neighborhood
you make a little
bombfire and you throw all your kets in
it and you have to have some kets so the
10 pieces is not good because you will
have them in the foil or in whatever bag
it is better to keep a little bit of KET
that's another reason Shabbat you want
to have maybe a piz bread or a roll CU
you want some some of your own KET now
if you clean the entire house you don't
have any kets you have to burn kets so
it's good on Shabbat eat a pet of bread
keep a few pieces that you can break it
in and you can actually burn it and you
want to see that the KET is burning and
it's become comes burned completely
toasted if if 20% of it got burned
that's not burning theet you want to
take a little piece even if it's a
little piece of bread and you make sure
that that bread is toasted to
ashes now once you throw it in you do
what's called you annoying
it after you do the B you're saying the
next time the verse there's no there no
blessing when we burn the
but you do say another verse of this
again it's originally in Aramaic but if
you do not understand the Aramaic then
you say it in English or in Hebrew or
whatever language you
understand in this bonfire like I told
you you put these 10 pieces of kets but
you want to make sure you're also
putting real kets in it some people have
the custom to burn their lulav from
sukot they put the lulav in some people
have many different Customs some people
have a custom to the havdala candle that
comes to the end you don't go till the
end some people keep the havala candle
they'll burn it with
hits there are many different things
that people take on themselves to that
they burn with the KET which is totally
fine again just don't burn the house
down that's that some people they think
that anything that is not good they they
burn pictures of their ex-husband
they're burn pictures of people they
heard all sorts of people come up with
all sorts of ideas they know that person
is I'm not joking some people say that
person is H in my life I'm going to burn
their clothes I'm not joking the
question that that I get some people
tell me I I can't stand my ex-wife can I
burn her clothes all sorts of crazy
things this is not k a little bit of
bread a little bit
of wheat something that is done from
wheat
and yes it is customary that people burn
their
lulav and there is
Anan that when you cut your
nails you can throw the nails to the
garbage you're not allowed to throw the
nails to the garbage so there are two
ways to dispose the nails one of them is
to bury them is to go to your backyard
make a hole bury the nails another way
is burning the nails just throwing it is
not good and also flushing it around the
toilet is better not to do it because
what will happen is in the sewer systems
it will go down the sewer and uh it can
still wash off to a certain place and
there such impurity in it then you want
to burn it now the problem you want to
bury it or burn it and not just throw it
because there is T on the nail now this
nail belongs to you there is a remaining
of you so to say you cut it you cut it
off you but it has some of your energy
and you throw it out and it has this
impurity the kipa can have possession
over you that can bring all sorts of bad
thoughts and bad dreams and even bad
much worse than that
because you know if you I don't know if
you know or remembered I once told you
that at the time of
Napoleon Napoleon when he came to
conquer Russia Russia then the balat the
old was at the time he was in Russia and
Napoleon was going after him and the the
every time wherever he would be the
armies would come closer then he would
run away talking about the balatan he
would run away cuz Napoleon wanted him
he knew he's very
powerful and
and even though the Russians were giving
a lot of problems to the Jews at the
time the time the batan ISS better that
the Russians win him cuz he's totally
evil if he will take over he will be 10
times worse than the Russians so he was
doing all sorts of mystical things to to
stop him to push him and to make him
lose Napoleon was a demon he wasn't a
human being that's why his hands he
never showed his hands his hands were as
you know the famous pictures of in
Napoleon his hand was always in the
jacket cuz his hand hands were weaved he
was a demon so he was very small also
and that's how he would win he would so
to say
hypnotize his soldiers his soldiers were
like machines that's why he conquered
almost the entire world so the balatan
knew about it and he was trying to stop
this his power so Napoleon was
constantly searching for him so every
time they would come close he would run
away to a different place and one time
he forgot shoes in the place where he
was staying and he sent him to run back
to get the shoes and when the armies
were too close they just burned the
entire Village down so the B says just
that he's not going to have possession
of something that belongs to me you see
now in in our generation it's we still
have what's called Black Magic and
Voodoo and all that stuff which is 100%
real and if you look at the voodoo they
do they take something that belongs to
you when in the movies they just make a
puppet but in this practice of black
magic the person that knows how to do it
needs something that belongs to you and
it can be even a piece of your jacket
something that belongs to you somebody
that knows how to control the dark side
of it can control you because he has a
position of you
so when you have when you cut your nails
it's part of you it has your your energy
now once it's already cut off you then
it doesn't have the positive only
negative and the kipa has position over
your nail so it's not good to just flush
it down the toilet it's also extremely
not good if you're filing your nails
then you must must have a like a tissue
or something file it on it and even burn
the tissue we should make a class about
Nails because women make their nails
nice and they file it and they cut it
and it's you have to be very very
careful besides that it's not good to
have nails that go over the meat you can
have nice nails but don't make it too
long because all the impurity comes and
gets hold on your nails nails are very
very they I don't know the the right
word is not to say except but the
because nails they come from a very high
source hair and nails they have life in
it is is a part of energy of your body
but there's no in there that's why you
can cut the nail cut the hair you don't
feel anything cuz there's no in there
there's no in there but there is energy
there is that makes them grow I mean the
nails grow and the hair grow this just
shows to us that it comes from a very
very high
source so EXC
me said how to
treat hair hair you don't have to burn
or hair is different different energy
the cipa only can grab on the nail
doesn't grab on the hair you don't have
to start burning hair but when it comes
to Nails you want to dispose the nails
the best way to do it when you don't
don't definitely don't throw it in the
garbage better not to flush it one way
of doing it is to cut your nails you put
it on a piece of cloth tissue go to the
backyard take a shovel you know small
one pick up the the dirt put the nails
in and bury it the in a PO yeah in a pot
whatever the soil hands or yeah hands
and feet and and put it in soil the
power of the soil you if you dig there a
few months later you'll see disappear
the power of the soil will disintegrate
the nail
the best way of doing it which going a
little bit more extreme is to burn the
nails and it sounds like wow I'm going
to start burning it it's very very easy
you take a tissue you cut the nails on
the tissue you wrap the tissue together
I wet the tissue then I make you know it
becomes hard I put it in a tin of oil
olive or pickles or whatever tin that
you use once a week throw the tissue in
set the tissue on fire let it you burn
the nails very very simple of course
everything should be done in a very
secure
way why am I telling you all this cuz
once I used to uh burn the nails with
the KET I would keep B I have a bag of
nails and burn it with the kets so the
reason why I'm telling you that cuz I
know people do it I I later on find out
better to burn the nails right away
don't don't keep it so the reason why I
told you this entire story because I
know people do burn their nails and they
burn it with humet so don't keep bags of
nails it's not good better to better I
know a lot of people like might might be
throwing up right now and I'm with all
these this descriptions but best to burn
the nails right away take the whole nail
thing serious because it does have a lot
of power of impurity the reason why the
says about the nails
buries
themid burns them CU aad says no it's
enough to bury them Aid that says I
don't want to even take the opportunity
the option of maybe a dog will dig it
out something that maybe
willom will get harmed by it I'm burning
it completely to ashes that there's not
going to be any remaining of this
nails so again the reason why I'm
telling you all this
is because people keep their nails for p
to burn it with the burn the nails right
away don't wait till PES let's just go
one more part and then we're done for
for
today what happens when a person goes
out on
a trip or they're sleeping out or
they're not going to be in their home
toally
oh excuse
me what happens when you leave now
people leave on a vacation go to their
parents whatever it is when do you do
the first of all I know a lot of people
say I don't do not feel like cleaning
I'm just selling the entire house and
I'm going to go to my neighbor it's
still good to clean the kets and you
still have to do
aik so even though you you you selling
the house
so if you leaving the
house let's say the time of the burning
came and you're driving just twoh hour
drive to your parents you still have to
do everything the same thing but if
you're leaving a day before that you
can't say the blessing for the check
then you check just without a
blessing and right away you en the you
appro the KET like we said if you have a
little bit of bag of kets wherever
you're going to go burn it over there
but you still need to clean the minimum
of cleaning you do the if it's a day
before you say you do it without the
blessing and you then you sell all the
kets uh but it is important still to do
it I think what we're going to do okay
we're going to leave now we'll stop
now excuse
me no I
mean the thing is that the burning has
to be done the morning of P so if you're
leaving two days before take a bag ofet
and burn it over there A lot of times
what happens is that people let's say I
live here and I'm going to spend
the P by my parents that live two hours
away I can still do everything thing
till the morning of PES burn and then go
now we're talking about if somebody goes
a day before two days before you fly
people fly out for PES you clean the
house I know most people already say I'm
not going to be here I'm not going to go
crazy still clean it still clean the
kets you can still do theik just without
the braa and I mean if you flying
transatlantic don't carry a bag of KET
with you don't you just I'm saying some
people leave let's say somebody Lees I
know somebody who's flying tomorrow to
America to do the p in America they're
going to their
in-laws they don't need to carry a bag
of kets with them they'll just do it
over there they'll take a roll and and
and do the burning don't youn your own
yeah but you can still own your own kets
when you're there that you put in the
house and you but that's exactly the
thing they don't they're not going to do
it there so the in this type of
situation they clean their house they
seal the house now they're going to have
a room where they're sleeping so I told
him put theet in the room where you're
going to be sleeping do theik without a
blessing and the next day you have a
little bit of your own KET but you in
these few days eat
yourself a roll or something and then
you burn the KET don't you don't have to
fly transatlantic with a bag of kets is
no point for that the point is that if
you're going leaving the home way before
you can still do the without the
blessing and where you are you can burn
a little bit of and participate in the
in the bom fire throw a little bread in
it in it and very important to remember
a lot of people come they throw their
bag in the fire and they leave you have
to be there you have to make sure that
the KET is burned a lot of people what
they do this is another thing by the way
I forgot to to mention many women when
they do a when they bake kala the kala
that they take they wrap it up with foil
and put it in the freezer and some
people again they wait till PES to burn
it if you have a gigantic freezer and
you have room to do it then do it but
you're going to have a problem cuz you
can't burn the dough when it's frozen in
foil so you will throw it in the bomb V
nothing's going to happen it's not going
to burn it so you did not do the actual
Act of burning it so what you have to do
is you have to defrost it a little bit
open the F you know what's going to
happen right now it's going to be like
gou it's not going to even you can't
even open the foil even so the bottom
line is that yes it is uh more nicer or
better way to burn the the dough on PES
but the problem is it's not done the
right way and then the dough doesn't get
really burnt so what happens is one time
that's what my wife did we had a freezer
full of bowls anybody who would come
close to PES open the freezer bowls of
foil will come out because there was no
room to put it every sh the whole
freezer was bows and then first P we
threw the whole thing in the fire and
I'm standing there and I'm like what am
I doing this is never going to burn it's
going to take it half an hour just to
defrost and then it's in the foil how am
I going to get it out now so it's not
going to burn so the next year we
started opening it all and it it was so
sticky that I couldn't even open it and
then it was cold and damp and the fire
did not grab on it it did not burn it
well the best way I mean if you I mean
hopefully you are doing the
Mitzvah so you burn it right away put it
in an oven high heat or put it on
exposed fire burn it till it becomes
completely burned from the outside
that's it you throw it I'm talking about
the the piece that you separate from the
dough
if if you want to do it on PES you have
to be very particular that that piece of
dough has to be burned completely the
external part that it cannot be eaten by
any animal that cannot have any use to
it therefore my recommendation is don't
collect bowls of foil of dough in your
freezer and that way also in PES it will
burn much much better but you do need to
make sure that the the humet that you're
throw in the fire has to burn you can't
just throw a bag and leave you have to
make sure that it's burned that it
burned to a point that nobody can have
any benefit from it not an animal not
anything if you have a p bread and only
the side of it is burnt that's not
burning the
kets that's one meditation that it's so
easy
to and of course you have to do
everything and be being careful and not
to burn the house down and not to inhale
smoke
so yeah just to use cautious this is
not not something that needs Toom be a
danger and do it the right
way by burning our
physicals hasem will remove the the
spiritual KET from in me that's the
the the verse that we say in aric that
the same way that I burned the kets
should remove all the kets with within
me that I should be humble and loving
accepting and tolerating everybody
around me and that this should be the
last time that we're burning
ours next year this year I mean we
should do the Corban PES the sacrifice
of pesak and we should all be cleaning
our kets from within us
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