Latest Talks Podcast - Ep #34 | Guest: Rabbi Elazar Meisels

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developed the network a motorcycle helmet bike helmet a motorcycle helmet motorcycle helmet I'm happy to see you here tonight you remember my name you remember my name he says of course you come here you say Kadesh I know what you do you're part of he says wow you're my friend okay yeah sure you're my friend I'll Le with you a photographer a photographer the weekends that's itow is in L in the business and is a lawyer and is a doctor and is quiet College Michigan State University Michigan State University and I became the rabbi on the campus the campus about 4,000 how old were you I was 32 wow 33 so Michigan is v v is the campus Michigan State n the the campus the 52,000 52,000 students 52,000 students it's a huge campus 52,000 students wow families but but this is in a public school and he connects with thebi yeah empty rightow for for for five miles men nice guy wow wow sotion Huntington Woods this is is Miles wow that's right whatever it is for wow [Music] anyway yeah no seriously 30 people 30 appointments I like this guy every day do the day you go you have a car you go my car was my office next to me I had all this farm so I flipped I flipped the script I did itow no seriously because because in in Michigan in the college appointments that's what you do that was my day you don't schedule that that schedules you took off understand but otherwise no you work into publicly that was two separate things New York which part of New York B Park okay 40 48 Street 48th Street move that's right same house what age around like what when did I come back I was Sy anything compan and so Viewpoint Academy is the courses of programming architecture accounting and graphic design it is Viewpoint Academy this is from the best off of viewpoint learn.com off screen Viewpoint learn.com and subscri latest talks plus latest talks plus is a extra tab of you content Miss can subscribe actually latest talks.com [Music] latest talks plus so latest okay point is support bonus content of latest talks Plus exactly V say wow beautiful umode 100% I wouldn't leave this we're just getting started oh okay and we're back the break Michigan yeah and and a two family house and I took over to school without any prepare no preparation no training you learn on the job yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah say like out of nowhere an infection the [Music] brain wow it happened on the plane there's no trials there's no experimental in 1985 is my on Google he was sitting there Googling and saying infection in the brain memory loss what do you do trial in Norway medicine and mention so right right wow alimer is a high school is grades 9 through 12 okay no 12th grade yeah for school who's the teacher train sure of course you have to subscribe to $10 a month for you get plus every other is just plus doesn't have satma does not have but a lot of the other business lot but what about what about teachers for a teacher for Teacher over there in I think it was 1981 by a conference special education special education special education techniques methods you can reach them you can work with them teachers teachers he came he taught degree was a degree a degree is as right degree but a degree you only get in a college you're not going to be able to do it if you don't have a degree the state's cracking down the state's going to make it that you have to have a degree is what you're gonna have to do so he went he spoke colle classes courses professors professors 1981 the textbooks from the knowled TTS special educ new yorktimes from special education they'll write about you right for free so you could do it no problem or you Chang the right but that's where it came from that's where it started mentioned special Educators every single person has special education the college cus or whatever by 14th Avenue 47th Street also from New York state that's right regs regions tests yes regs no you us they have a certain test from the government and they do the license to G region and they just make a partnership and they do it together right and then you can do it on your premises then you can do it by you it's a famous thing already by now as special Educators in the gun state from New York colleges in the state wow pay College college experience experience special UC we know how to fix these things so it's a year to get your bachelor's degree wow and you have your master's degree and you paid maybe $40,000 $35,000 and you're done with all things course yeah technically it's half hours me the courses we G the courses on Sunday Sunday morning that way throughout the daying playing after hours no so for please it's going to fail I guarantee you I'm telling you it's not going to happen because it's not cuz they takes you got to have commitment it's not going to work and I'm happy to say I was wrong it worked did beautifully it was was a group of 15 young a bunch of them and they came in they did beautiful and another group they brought their and they brought their friends and their friends and their friends we probably over the last over the last six years probably have about 600 young light wow became special Educators from the community through this program number number so the organizations for graduates [Music] gradu so this therapist therapist special education therapist personally oneon-one through therapy processing order processing this order by are processing this this Universal techniques yes you're GNA have a big surprise you're going to see Wow have a little secret for you they three digigit numbers yeah P3 see it yeah yeah the community accepted because it sounds like something very very slowly very very slow everywhere nobody also knows College College college is a crazy place you don't want to get near it College I don't care where I don't care what if you're not coming to either my program or something like me it doesn't have to be me it could be a different one I have competitors that's okay a't threaten in a college he has no business being there you don't know what you're going to find out over there but you don't have that the men's the men's program at oh no you get a certification New York state certification you got a state certification yeah absolutely that's the gold tiet as as in stad from test a certification test and you have certification from New York you're a professional LIC you're a professional you can go into classroom you can go do whatever you got to do this is the reason for exist for this now [Music] nowee in 2023 2027 coming up right how's he going to know what is doing exactly so the ter say the techniques are the techniques the learning for graduates refresher continuing education like how does it it keeps changing no no no even though the daugh is like really going fast it's not nopl W so let's Circle back so what's are the challenges for challenges to challenge the first language say fast right commitment good commitment that's not the problem they know how to be good students problem is English English is a problem forw letter even someone who knows English doesn't yeah right the signature right yeah and we also give them courses in English we take and we we build the program that it should make sense foram it can't be the same program it's not the same program that I'm going to give to the ladies the they all have high schools English so this way we give them the ability to do it and this is on legal terms every single thing we do we do together with the college with permission is legally required to in the college no it doesn't work that way they don't give you a specific paragraph and if they do and we say this I have a problem with and this I have to switch and this is why and this is what I'm to switch it with and you work with me and we work together and they want it they're happy to% I'm I'm africanamerican yeah yeah 14th Avenue w wow special education for ABA also AB a Aba ABA isi do social Works do ab soci special ed speech right so what is Aba ABA is Aba yeah ABA meant ADV applied Behavior Analysis applied Behavior Analysis that's me in yish appm fix autism they have behavioral problems right A lot of them or they can't get themselves dressed they can't do things ABA learn those but you can fix the behavior you can't fix the person but you can fix the behavior example that because the child has autism child can't dress himself can't feed himself can't sit at a table doesn't know how to play with other kids and with the techniques of ab so this fix the problem and what the ative word autism autism is a spectrum and it can very autistic autistic somewhere off the Spectrum mention on the Spectrum the spectrum is gross Spectrum yeah it's a big thing to be on the spectrum because is on the Spectrum the federal government V because the federal government made a law that insurance has to pay for autism treatment because the government said so yet it's a federal mandate every insurance has to pay so now there's ABA agencies all over the world ABA agency AB AGC Fromm therapist therapist thetion that's right cre Network for that's right change Improvement in a person's house okay no problem you can make 100,000 you can make 150,000 this this is for private one-on-one sessions correct let's say um HCS you be a supervisor you could be a supervisor you could be this it could be a lot of things it's a bu a lot of made a lot of money most of our early and opened up agencies I don't want to tell you how much they sold it for but many more Millions than you and I know how to count tens tens of Millions wow a business industry yeah it's a good business and we have can we have a lot of youer light in this a lot of young light take this training a lot of ladies take the training and again that's the biggest how do people reach you if they feel that they have the ability to do something like this they call up we have a number we have people who talk to people all day long report transcript we have to look yeah okay yeah social [Music] right we put him in touch with who did it already no problem I'll talk to him like was average the was average isot [Music] for a second career also um in community community in the secular world goldish yeah passenger van serious no it's no fun it's not games when I went to was 1970s okay Lately by the way yeah you know this what is special education yeah 20 years later class out for sure a camp in the summer Retreats right that was the every time you know an intense two weeks of yish I come there one time and the director one of the other director says to me Lo just be careful and said okay fine we'll see what the story is I wasn't sure from where but I knew I knew this guy from somewhere after a little while I hopped and G from there invented class them therapy for years and years and years from the terrible abuse abuse they stapled on his back a paper that said I did something in recess that was wrong I forgot what he did by recess they stapled it on his back and they made him walk through the Yesa what yeah I shouldn't have said y's name it's a long time ago they would never do that wow I remember I remember that I remember going home and this today took a toothbrush and brushed his teeth in front of the class because we're going to wash out the m yeah yeah your insides are g wow mention wow it's the it's the same thing by the way that's why we we have a we have a program we do social work right why social work when you went to you ever heard of a social worker soci no social workers every school today has social work I don't know and if we don't know how to take care of we're going to have trouble we're going to have a lot of problems so from it's going to be from problem little problems little problems become big problems that's how it works little problems don't go away they just become bigger problems that's right right right exactly so I didn't want to make social work because social work is a very very social work is not for everybody soci work the a social worker is a health dose by a social worker is psychologist or psychiatrist by we have a Social Work everybody's normal so nobody has to go to a psychologist or psychiatrist is a social worker by the right the social worker by the a social worker does that $50,000 our social workers in the highly trained skilled counselors not all of them but so the basically a psych psychologist but psychologist right as a psychologist own the ability to sh my prescription a psychologist psychiatrist psychist psychologist counsel social workers if they're good and if they work at it it takes a psychologist to got to go to school for 5 years six years social workers a year and a half so zuk much easier in a year and a year and a m as he comes out of school and he graduates psychologist he trains by people and he trains and keeps going he keep on going and social workers uh psychologist not typical the whole mental health um community in the from World social work it's you can't do this if you don't have a drive a real heart but by man we you know we're not so good with feelings right we we have feelings I feel hungry I feel tired I feel angry feel frustrated but that's that's as good as we get right and every one of you who are sitting here every one of you you're committing yourself to get into the Kish and to help a guy to become sens and mama my mama oh cancer forone all right so what else is new goodbye in touch with the feelings often and willing to hand exactly give me the light at the end of the tunnel so B so that's he figured it out the point is he wants to identify himself problem and how he dealt with Ah Williams but whatever Down syndrome it is what it is so corlor Carriage syndr kid street I'm he did it for three days in Williamsburg it is what it is identifi theom of and as to not in time to anytime all the time all the time yeah I have a I have a funny feeling that that's not true there you go I think okay so discussion about do my best special education special education AB um Social Work social coupl marriage therapy couple therapy Social Work speech speech therapy articulation aasia there's a lot of things that a spe therapist does we have occupational therapy occupational therapy Physical Therapy occupational therapy had a stroke or somebody that has difficulty with movement or something like that works out with them something like that and now they're not they're not functioning well we have an ba and Masters in Business Administration in the business somebody for the Masters in Business Administration very well trained it depends in the program but in in the Masters in Business Administration the MBA M those basic accounting basic forecasting business plan um cost analysis business law marketing all of these things that a person needs you go into business it's very nice to business and he wants to bring you in but you don't know what you're doing so CEO presid CEO presid CEO average I always tell people you got to be the smartest guy in the room why do you want here's here here's the big issue the big issue is that many many people in our community they don't they don't take the they don't they don't take the Reigns they don't put themselves in the driver's seat whatever life will bring me my schar's going to have a business if myar has a business in linen I'll work in linen and if he doesn't insurance I'm going to sell insurance you don't get to choose your future you don't get to choose where you're going and that works for a lot of people because no problem they don't need a degree they don't need my course there's a lot of people that have and they have no way to develop them and you can take control of your life somebody else manager company in employ the corporate world so students just Vice you know the basic concept from them any there's nothing there's no program that's going to tell you everything you need to know not no such thing but it'll give you the confidence to pick you up and put you on the path to go to where you want to go right I was driving to one night I got the flat tire so I called and four guys come flying D over there so two of them get to work and they're fixing the tire and one of the standing there and he looks at me and says you R by misel I said yeah it gives me a big hug I said whoo what's this he says you don't recognize me I was in the program I became an ABA therapist by you I have a parosa my wife has a husband my kids have a father I'm a mench I'm not a schlepper any and I'm a m said I'm I was AER I Supermarket now I'm the boss now everybody wants to hire me he made a business he made an ABA business now and a business that he's going to make money on Wow it change a person's trajectory in life 25,000 students wow this is insane from Lon we're going to have to wrap this up all good things must come to an end a phone call from somebody in Western Michigan University West he said Rabbi I once heard you speak and there's a bunch of Jewish students students read by Western Michigan is in okay kalamazo is 5 hours from where I lived Montreal I said o I said Jeff I don't know said please Rabbi everybody's here everybody wants to hear you I said okay I'm going to go nobody pays you to do this you go you do it that's what it is fine I drove out there 5 hours just con 12 mention she was reformed on the floor maybe he's high I don't know what he's doing he's low and high at the same time I don't know what his deal is but on the way out he walks up hi Rabbi thank you that was beautiful next time wake up and good fine I'm an idiot I wasted a whole day I have to stop doing this I can't do this I have to know make what I'm doing this is crazy okay right there TOS wow when you fail sometimes that's your biggest wow and you don't even know what you're doing how did you find that cuz I know him and I handled right right a message for the SE haters for the people that are watching if you have a 60-second message for them just look into the 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