Kriat Shma Al Hamita, Tikun Haklali, Fasting and more things you need to know to 'Fix' your sins

the basic part of yeah exactly has in general two meanings to it first of all you you you're leaving the body on the on the bed and then nees goes out and you need guarding because if if if the body is not guarded then all the maik all these these angels these demons they come to leech on the body so you have to put a guard around your body this is first thing but in more of a spiritual level is a so it comes to fix something that a person did says that is the highest level what a person can kill all these angels and the CIP that he created by his sins when you do chuva you stop from creating more angels and when you do in a higher level of chuva and you change your path you start killing them but says that that's the time when you really kill all these angels that you created with sins that's the time it's m 1200 yeah and the thing is that if sometimes if you you miss you fell asleep you say it in the morning it's not it's so so you can still do it's not so bad bad you you're looking at I'm not so good in math but you're looking at like what 40 40 50,000 a month that's not bad I can't hear you no there's not well there's a potentialy the thing is that in each piece of the seed there's they say that in each drop there's like hundreds of thousands so you know in each part can be Millions but in each one of these seeds there's a that was potential to come down so a neish so a person does that he kills all these bottom only one in the real act one comes down the rest go back up and when the ACT is done in a sin they all stay down they all get cut potential huh because each one had a potential yeah this is one this is a lot of people hard for them to understand the the severity of the sin but the thing is that this is the only Mitzvah that Hashem tells you I'm making you a God I'm making you a partner I'm giving you the power to create life I'm making you a partner when I'm husband and wife are together they have a godly power they bring a with them and they make a a creation this is the only mitvah that hm tells you I'm giving you Godly powers to create something from nothing now when a person goes and destroys it and and and goes and I don't know what's the word in English but you know who it's like what are you doing you know is like a father just bought the brand new Mercedes $150,000 he gives his son is the keys and he goes and wrecks it what I just got it this is but tells you I gave you now the the secrets of the secrets the power of of a god you go you throw it at the wall that's why the the sin is so severe now in regards to the to the consequences dka in this particular sin yeah because there's so many it creates so many this is the sin that creates the most in one in one shot any other you do one you create one can be big you know another one that creates so many is because in one sentence wow every letter you create thousands of them so a person talks all day long how many he creates so the that the the power is very strong same thing with Shabbat a person can do a thousand Shabbat in the same 24 hours now according to you know it depends depends you know sometimes you get judged for each sometimes it's all together one we're not going to get into the concept according to about it but in in fact a person now doesn't keep Shabbat he can do technically only 39 aot right but in fact each one of the 39 he can do a 100 times so what he has like 3900 so Shabbat can also shom be the same the same power as what you said with regarding and says first of all man has to die to to fast 84 times for each time he did it now person grew up not religious you can't even count what I'm going to fast my whole life I have to fast I'm not never going to eat so the you know the they said no no no no you don't have to fast mamash every 84 times all the time rather since the is in you have to fast three times 84 and that's it so there's all sorts of contradictions says different but doesn't matter the thing is that nobody can fast 84 times times 100 even you can't fast so many times says no problem you can LIF doed the bit we talked about it last time that you you say okay it cost me to eat a day yeah you can do half a fast yeah or you fast in the winter the thing is I'll tell you like this when I became religious I I used to fast for about two years every Monday and Thursday and one time I learned with the K and and it was you know close to Summer and it was time for and I was wow I can't wait already for for V I'm starving he's like why so I told him cuz I I'm fasting he's like why are you fasting so I told him because I fast every Monday and every Thursday he's like why so I told him you know about I want to fast a lot so he said okay fasting is is is good huh but he told me at the time he's like you know thei said that if one of these days that you fast you're not going to learn 100% because you're hungry your liud is not 100% good cuz you're hungry don't fast better to sit all day long in the ISA that your mind is clear and you're learning 100% that's 100 times more powerful than you fasting so that point I was like okay I'm going to stop fasting the thing is in our generation we don't we're not built for fasting our bodies are weak it's much better to study Tor 100% with all your powers than to fast the whole day the your your effect is 10 times better now in regards to the tun of this specific a says yes you every day of your life so you if you Merit to live another 50 years you're talking about your couple hundreds of thousands if not Millions the other way of doing it yeah you have to you canot to to redeem a lot of the fast B but the highest level to get rid of all this is if you make another person a man or a woman stop that oh then you have an army of what you achieved and when I saying a man and a woman because a woman also has responsibility here it's not a woman cannot just say oh I'm not it has nothing to do with me you know if a woman walks in the street in a very not modest way and a man or 100 men look at her and they go and do the a the woman has much more to to to carry than than the man but if I now for um became religious when I was 28 years old you know I can't can't even think how many times so I I do I do CH and I do and I do this and I do this and do this but if I go now and stop a man and I educate a man not to do this a anymore oh now this is now I have him working for me too this is like a multi-level marketing so if I made five men away and know that they can't do this and they start saying and they do this and they do then I already have the power of more people and that's not only in in everything same thing with Shabbat same thing with any because you don't know you know essentially we don't know we can't count all our you know how many times you know in my past I probably did one of the worst one can do so I don't know how to I don't know how many times I did how many times can I do CH for one thing that I don't even know how many times I did so if I know that I did many times then I have to do 10 times more K so it's same thing with everything every little mitvah would you affect other people or would you add P much more than that then that's the way to reverse it no I came back into this body they kind of told me okay we're giving you an opportunity now so if I had 15 years that I didn't keep Shabbat calculate how many shabbatot is that probably a couple thousands then the fact that I first keep Shabbat that's the first stage but I created this hole I dug a hole so the way to cover the hole back is to you know do so many other things and one of the things is getting another person to do and that kind of covers it up but that's why you know we know for example with the with the of anger C people don't really give value to that but the a of is very severe and the reason why a is anger besides that K says it's like a because you you you you you're saying I'm getting what am I getting upset from it's came from AEM why can I even get upset but the thing is that KAS you the the damage one makes with Kash it's almost impossible to reverse so every a that we make imagine like you take now a a piece of wood and you bang a nail you can take the nail out but you still have the hole so CA anger is one of the ver that you you pull out the nail the hole is still there so foras is the opposite everything you do the opposite you you kind of reverse it but some of the hole that is created is very hard to to to close but the best way to close the whole that you created is to make other people not do it and to educate other people so if you're talking about the then you have to go educate other people that helps a lot you mean what is better than the other I don't know no he's talking about what is more powerful I do both I don't know what who one is powerful I'm not taking chances the thing is that the I do every day that's not even a question yeah I read every day it's not a long time takes half eight8 n minutes it's nothing you do that too everything you can do you do the thing is that when you do a you don't know the severity of theam of the blemish so one can say oh I'll just do no you don't know the severity of the blemish why not read another 10 minutes what it fixes in the the thing is that you don't know where the is so you know says you do great you don't know where it Pol which part of the polished so come he says no you listen to thead thead tells you do you do it you don't ask questions so I can tell you already is extremely powerful and is also very powerful for so you know it's three little things that you do takes you 20 minutes a day is extremely powerful but for everything yeah you say it on is extremely extremely powerful huh men usually say it before it depends I think said after each one said it's better in Shabbat so for a woman if you're single and you have time it's much better to do to light candles or like a little bit earlier if you're saying after candles before candles doesn't make much as long as it's Shabbat the thing is that even if you say Saturday morning satday after doesn't really matter Shabbat is is the most supicious time for cha now we don't know exactly when Shabbat comes in that's why we kind of guessing and we have the 18 minute Gap we don't know exactly only hasem knows his times but the thing is that Shabbat is the highest time of the week to do CH why or how come you don't CU Shabbat already has the power that elevates you be above the level that you have to say you doing ch ch you can do any second but but I'm talking about Shabbat like right before Shabbat comes this is like the high level to do the the best time of the week to do cha so the thing is that we do cha every night in because maybe we're not going to wake up and it's closing the day we're sealing the day so we're doing Chua for the day because if you're going to wait for y kipur I don't remember what I did inan I think in y kipur i remember what I did inan in 10 months back I don't remember so I do CH at the end of the day so the end of the day it's not that I put my pajamas on and I lay down in bed and that's not how you say I say like I'm praying I put my my jacket my hat I put my my gard this is is is a time this is not a time to you know sleeping bed some people say it in their bed with Pajamas the right way to say it is like you pray now when you do you you you read the actual pray but the real CH is to think what did they do today to take five minutes of your day to say what do you do today maybe I maybe I didn't speak nice to my wife maybe I wasn't nice to my neighbor maybe I did this maybe I did that so I can correct it so this is the such a important part of the day that what did they do today maybe I said something wrong you know and you you really do better stand huh it's better you stand no that doesn't make a difference if you sit or stand if you're saying we do in then you stand for that part but the whole you can sit is considered Sam explains it that Al corresponds to Sam right before it's not Al you're not sitting on your bed the thing is that it's actually better not to be on your bed especially if you if you're married cuz your wife can be in the room and you know your mind is not exactly where you where you want it to be and in the room maybe you have a bathroom attached to the room that bathroom can be open the room sometimes they have dirty laundry or whatever it's not the right place to say I know many people that they go to if they have a b close to their they say in the they walk home and go to bed but better not to do it in your room better to do it in the way you pray in your house in your in your living room but when it says Alita the it's just using the word Al on but it actually the explains it's when you're going to to sleep so you can say 5 10 minutes 20 minutes before better to say it but as close as possible cuz once you said it you don't want to drink you don't want to eat you want to minim what you want to do the question is woman and can they use yeah why not you there's many towns that are you know there's one M for the entire town so the men go in the women the women go to the mik after at night woman the more than one time in a month no only after she has her perod any El she goes there no there's nothing she doesn't benefit anything I want I wanted to wait I'm sorry that I stopped with the K with the time for cha let me just say it quick but the there's many times in the in the year when we do chva so first time is you do CH the next time you do is aneous time for CH is Shabbat the next time for icious time for CH ises and then so you have every day you do CH for the day every Shabbat for the entire week it's very hard especially when you're married and you have seven kids to to sit down and do cha but when you're young it's easier but yeah Shabbat you sit down and you do for the whole week whoever you need to apologize say sorry fix things thenes is a very auspicious time to do also cha for the entire month and then do CH for the entire year and then comes but if a person lives all day long then he never has a problem with the with sins what about if you