How To Love Anyone

[Music] hi-yah people's and welcome to another exciting episode of kosher vids hey do you have someone that you really don't like anything it's impossible to get to love that person well you're wrong whoa yep you heard me because with our simple method you could learn how to love anyone and I mean anyone let's take a look it was so funny oh my gosh it was hilarious misunderstanding we left like a whole day sounds hilarious I guess you just had to be there yeah I guess they're just one of those things super exciting Franky came to visit us today the second your mom told me to come over I was like see ya you're leaving okay what about me don't worry you guys have plenty to talk about I'm sure so what kind of stuff are you into nothing you'd be interested in what does that mean it means I don't like you what I was a value Tory in school and time travel what time travel that's what I mean to me to doubt it no really I think it's totally possible all you have to do is harness the speed of light and tap into a wormhole but I mean the second you did that you've created a time look each time you travel you create yet another time and then you'll have all these completely different users and clearly they were their matches you're my best friend in the entire world yeah man this is fun I love you well see it back I see it I love time travel me too we'll go play outside yeah sure [Music] seeing the clip you just watched the boy was finally able to find something that they both shared in common and because of that he was able to focus just on the other person's good side it totally overlooked the other person's bad side you can also learn how to do the same with our simple method so let's break it down [Music] let's start with the definition of love love is that pleasurable feeling that you get when you appreciate someone else's good side every person has a good side to them and a bad side to them the question is what are you gonna focus on if you focus on their good side you will feel love if you focus on their bad side you'll feel hate the reason why you love your best friend is not because he only has a good side it's because you chose to focus only on his good side in order to love another person you don't need to change the other person you need to change how you think of the other person so here's your homework for the day know this is the type of homework you're gonna love much better so what I would like it to do is go to the store and buy a special notepad every night for the next month think back at the day and pick one person who you want to learn how to appreciate more maybe even someone you dislike then write down every positive attribute that you can think of that person for example if someone is very annoying he may be annoying but boy is he consistent and energetic so good you're thinking room and take out your beautiful notebook in a very calm fashion think to yourself although this boy may have been lonely there are some wonderful attributes about this boy he's consistent energetic and also full of life or let's say you met someone real mean that day well he may have been mean but he's also very expressed communicative and maybe also he's a good learner or how about maybe very talented so he does have some positivity about him that I can focus on think about it for a while and when you're ready to make a decision write it down I choose to love Suzhou because he's expressed communicative good learning or consistent energetic and full of life and every time you see this person try to remind yourself of the decision you've made to focus on his good side [Music] well that's about it for today but don't forget love is a choice what do you want to do do you want to live a life full of happiness and appreciation of all the good that there is what do you want to live a life full of anger resentment and hatred for all the bad that there is a shame created both good and bad it's your choice what you want to focus on and what you want to live so please choose to focus on what you truly want in this world and that's what you will experience thanks for listening till next time okay and the last one is is we hate homework [Applause]