Most People Get Tisha B'av Wrong

Hi, I'm Arammy Glazer and this is Kula. Today is tishabove 1,956 years after we lost the basa mdash and every year since we sit on the floor and we mourned bas mikdash and all the sorrows that happened is since the first tishabove happened 3,338 years ago by moragum when the maglam came back and told we can't do it they're too strong cried the whole night men and children and they said hashem hates us he took us here to And Hashem said, "If that's how you think I think about you, you're going to cry every year on this day." And what happened the very next day? Kalisra wakes up early in the morning. They climb up to the top of the mountain and they say to Moshenu, u we're going in anyways. And Moenu says, "No, Hashem said, you're not going in. Hashem said, you're going to die here in the desert and then after 40 years, your children will go into the land." And they say, "No, we're going in anyways." And they were called the mulim. Now I want to share with you a Torah from he says that these were right. They were on to something. The gar says anything the host tells you to do listen to him except for leave. And these felt that hem is telling them you can't go into Israel. That means leave. That means I don't want a relationship with you. That means you're out. and they said that we're not willing to accept and tells you're right but it's not going to work out this time in the future this is going to work but not right now when is the time for this says that the garment and the gar describe the generation of the mashik as a generation of in the time of mashia the will be widespread and thebah will succeed. Seemingly is a bad thing, but says that this is that Kalisra will use in order to shell off all the gullless mentality and the traumas that they've been through in Yiddish and create a fresh new personal Yiddish and personal connection with Hashem. Now we all know people who are very passionate about gula. They're very passionate about they're passionate about Harab. They're passionate about building basing the carbonos. People who are raising paradumas, people who are practicing the avoid basing. To a lot of us, it could seem like these people are crazy. They're they're weird. What are they doing? They're going up to Har. They're they want to build a B mikdash. Are you crazy? What does that have to do with avoids and learns and does gula? That's up to Hashem. He's going to bring us alim and he's going to bring the B mikdash down from Shmak tells us here that the gula is going to come through people who are like the maleim people who say we want B mikdash. We want a connection with Hashem. We love Hashem and we want to connect to him and we want to do what it takes to get there. We're not going to wait around. We're not going to pretend that all these things are just going to happen miraculously and all we have to do is daven for them. All of us need to realize this tishabove that tishab is not just about crying about the tishab is also a day to wake up to the fact that it's not here yet and it's like we are destroying the mdash we say in the end of migill bring us back to you but hashem says you come back to me and I'll come back to you wants that hashem wants us to want it and not just want it but to act like we want it. We see a clear pattern of how Gula is playing out. It's miraculous but at the same time it's playing out in a natural progression. We see the state of Israel was formed 78 years ago. We somehow win all the battles with all the countries around us. Israel expands 1967. We get Harabas yet we give it back. But we see that this is happening in a natural way. Miracles are happening every day but it's also happening in a natural way. and we should want to be a part of this. So on this tab, I urge you to not just think about all the sorrows that Clal Israel has been through in the but to also think about how you personally can contribute to the Ba Mikdash. What can you do to bring Bas Mdash closer? What can you do to want to bring Bas Mikdash closer? How can you awaken within you that desire to have a Ba Mdash and to be connected to Hashem? May we all be Z to bring the Gula and build the Ba Mdash each with our own unique talent and passion. And may we remember to not judge others on how they're bringing it. Maybe it's not the way you were brought up. Maybe it's not how you understand it should be, but it is how they understand it should be. And if they're doing it with passion, with heart, that's what Hashem wants. May we all dance mdasha from today on tishabuff. Looking forward.