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I'd like to welcome back uh the viewers
of Toren time and Y to calana mitos
Foundation for our series a word for the
table and a mitzvah for life
okay that you're gonna at least have a
word for your
table in this week's para in yro is a
Commandment that we heard we do all the
time and if you saw the previous year
this is what we can call an easy Mitzvah
all right but first let's understand it
more deeply
um also I'm going to tell you something
famous it's about chabas okay the
Commandment the fourth Commandment Z
chabaso remember the
chabus to sanctify it now I'm going to
mention a a midr that I think almost
every religious Jew has heard but we
want
to appreciate it as if we never heard it
before one definition of of
spirituality is to approach something
that you're used to you you're so used
to it and it's as if you saw it for the
first time I remember I was thinking
about a chair one time you know like
we're right we're suspended in air right
now if you're sitting in a chair right
so I looked at a chair in a different
way that's a spiritual experience
okay I know you've heard this
ready every day of the week has a zuk as
a a partner right I guess the first day
is partnered with the second day and the
third day the fourth and the fifth day
the sixth who doesn't have a
Zog
chabus who is the Z of
shabas us no we are the Jews are soem
this is the midis let me read what it
says now I know you heard it but our
whole goal here is to look at this in a
different way it says like this um this
is from RAB
shim he
says shabas says
to everyone has a
partner I don't have a partner
says to
them your
partner is uh the Jewish people now
listen to this because the Commandment
says remember the day of shabas to
sanctify it so here's what it
says the Jews are
standing says to them
remember what I told you about chabas
that you that you are the partner you
right you are the uh marriage partner of
chabas okay now here's the thing that
that's famous now let's how let's think
about this fresh okay that means that
REM what is Hashem commanding us to
remember it to do condution to sanctify
it how how do you s how you're who do
you you have a partner those who are
married right how do you how do you do
kadim like how do you sanctify your
wife what does it mean to
sanctify what does it mean to sanctify
your
wife this in the garu says that the
every called marriage it should have
been called acquisition but they called
it
kadu what do what is some of the things
you do it means you treat her you
distinguish her from everyone else you
hear
she
yeah yeah
quickly F that okay there's a film upon
a film taking place here yes
okay it's so
important yeah they
can going to get some points for this
toight
okay we're being taught here that shabus
is supposed you're supposed to madish it
like you did your wife you Sanctified
your wife when you married her what does
it mean to do kadu to make your wife
Sanctified it's your distinguishing her
from Every Other Woman there is you're
saying you're different than any
everyone else okay so what do we do with
shabas we sew shabas you're different
than every other day right so now what
do we do we get in our nice tucks and we
wear nice clothes you're different than
every day we have wine and a nice meal
you're different than every day you hear
this that it's that simple it's an easy
Mitzvah but here's the point you're
going to wear the nice clothes you're
going to take your uh part out for a
meal you're going to have a meal you're
going to treat them special unlike
everyone else but let's do it with
cavana let's have intention I'm I'm
sanctifying chabas I'm treating chabas
not like the rest of the week you hear
and and that's an easy Mitzvah okay but
also so that's how you do it on chabas
just be conscious that you're you're
dressing up you're eating speci you're
treating the day unlike the others so
shabis knows you're my partner you love
me you distinguished me you Sanctified
me okay now that's the that's a word for
your table and you that's why you're
supposed to treat your wife exactly
let's let's flip that over yes let's do
two for one you're supposed to treat
your wife you know if you say uh good
morning hi to your friends and this and
that the same way you do to your wife
you haven't Sanctified her in the same
way right think of ways you can your
wife is being treated in a way you treat
no one else that's kadan okay thank you
for adding that but now what's the MIT
for life so first of all I told you we
fulfill REM uh what is hasem saying
remember what I told you about the day
of shabas sanctify it marry it make it
treat it like your bride okay but guess
what here's an other it's easy
Mitzvah remember it during the week
you're thinking about it all the time so
here are some easy ways to do it okay
ready re can I write on this yeah okay
by the way for your future classes I
know you'll love this but is 20 plus
years ago before my son was born we used
to have these I don't think you were
there said these men's vods yeah yeah
Rabbi Kellerman oh yeah yeah I'll never
forget one time he says if you guys
thought about what you did to make a
baby and then you think about what she
does the baby you'll have her on a
pedestal forever wow gorgeous gorgeous
way okay yeah no I'm I'm just gonna make
it fake any I can do this okay I'm not
gonna real okay ready so like I want to
show everybody that that's a yeah yeah
do that one after it's beautiful it's F
that was a fantastic one okay right look
everybody have in all right look what
I'm doing and and just if you agree with
me you're doing the Mitzvah okay I go
like
this I'm
writing right now which is forbidden on
chabas I just fulfilled the MS of
remembering chabas right when you do
something you can't do on chabis like
writing okay uh you using your phone you
say um this is forbidden on chabis you
just you just fulfill a Miss with
Thea that's where you should be
ecstatic also also if you banish Tuesday
you don't have to banish it okay but the
right here's another easy way okay today
is
yon if I just alluded to chabas it's the
first day in chabas so if you say y
instead of Sunday where they used to
worship the sun you hear that's
another you fulfill
the again right so every time you think
about chabas every time you mention it
you you just did it TR and you can't be
paid in this world it's a MIT that
Hashem says I C I don't have enough
reward to give you okay so that's the
that's the bright side of easy mitus
okay so you hear this shabas is our
partner we want to treat her uh treat
her special and we want to learn remind
ourselves to treat our wives special
okay and just if you think about chabas
you remember it you've done aush mitzvah
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