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welcome back
given that uh klm the awareness movement
for
uh the incredible impact of having
kavanagh
intentionality for the myths as you do
and we're continuing our series
on psalms to hillam
the number of mitzvahs or i like to say
opportunities for fulfillment that lie
in a single act are incredible
reciting to him has an impact
on the world at large which we'll
definitely talk about today and you're
forging
a bond with hashem for eternity when you
recite it to helen
we discussed however it's a huge
difference if you're conscious and
insert
the awareness of the misses you're doing
when you recite a tehelem
as we said every mitzvah
that we understand it's a mitzvah by the
context
it's like a diamond in the rough what is
a diamond in the rough
it's actually a piece of carbon it has
value in there but if you try to
convert it as is it's not so much
value we mentioned about 150 dollars a
carat
but if you carve and fashion the diamond
that 150 dollars turns to
about five thousand dollars a carrot
okay it's just a metaphor okay
when you recite it to hilum
you can do it on one level as a piece of
carbon or you can present it
as a finely fashioned diamond and that's
what we're going to continue to discuss
right now so let's look at the context
we're focused on tahin for a sick person
all right
the average uh religious person gets
i would say at least five requests a
week
um as follows you get a text you get an
email that says
can you please say it to him for uh
plony he was just diagnosed with the
machola
and he needs our prayer urgently
i received exactly that uh about
about two days ago okay so you get that
what's your response what's the normal
response
okay we are nice people good people
observant jews so we say okay i'll say
it to
either we say i'll get back i'll get to
it or
we grab it to him and we recite it okay
that's a good deed right but now what we
say to do at klm is to
stop for a second and
ask yourself the following right again i
read the email oh
yeah i should say it to him stop stop
for a second say
wait a minute what does hashem want from
me in this moment
what am i about to do and the answer is
you're about to do a hesed it's very
kind
to say it to hillam for someone who's
sick you're about to do a kindness
so it is a kindness but let's put in
right let's remind ourselves i haven't
missed that when you before you recite
that to him
have in mind the mitzvah of um doing an
act of kindness which is
a very profound mitzvah because it's
emulating hashem
where do we learn kindness from akaddish
borohu so we're walking in his ways
so if you want to be let's go ahead to
mention the
past mindful we want to be mitzval
and we want to be mitzvah in the moment
right so
the first thing you should tell yourself
before you recite
is the shame mitzvah i'm walking god's
ways i'm doing a kindness
you just refined that diamond it's no
longer in the rough
that was what we discussed last week and
now
we added another thing too we talked
there's another mitzvah
if you look at the bigger picture okay
and you ask yourself so the first
question you ask yourself is
why am i why does hashem want me to do
this
and then you realize he commanded me to
do kindness to walk in his ways
but now there's a further question you
have to look at the context
i'm as somebody a jewish person is
critically
ill is he alone
unfortunately not right now there
um i i had some friends do some research
just people
sick with corona right that's the the
current
uh um challenge we were in front of so
do you know right now there are 40
million
people suffering from corona that means
people with
side effects that are from very serious
to critically ill that's in the
population at large
i got an email from a friend in london
one in 15
people are contracting this okay
so what do we see is this person this
person's in trouble
and they're not alone there's a lot of
other people in trouble
and if we expand the picture even
further
as the rabbi pointed out you know even
if
a person's not suffering directly from
that illness
the economies are shut down there's
lockdowns that are having huge effects
suffice it to say there's a lot of
trouble so you ask yourself now
i'm reciting a tale i'm doing an act of
kindness for my
dear friend or whoever it is right it's
her ben
rachel that's what i heard just last
night they said he needs rock
marubhim from the shamayam needs tons of
mercy from the heavens right so if i
look and i say wait a minute someone's
sick
kindness trouble there's another
what does hashem want when there's
trouble he wants us to cry out to him
that's another mitzvah it's a torah
commandment
when there's trouble when the jews are
in trouble you cry out to hashem
so if i'm going to be mitzval in this
moment
not only is my tehem an act of kindness
of walking in god's ways just like
hashem does he said
so to we do but
there's another saying he says when
you're in trouble when the enemy's
uh closing in on you sound trumpets
it says cry out to me and it says hashem
will remember us and save us
okay that's the mitzvah of
crying out to hashem in times of tsar so
that's another dimension
uh within this single act of reciting
the tehelem
and what are you expressing when you do
that you say hashem we're
in trouble and you're the solution to
our troubles
that's a big accomplishment you're here
and i just since we're talking about
this mitzvah the cry out in trouble
we are focused on tehelem but let's
expand the picture
riffa anu when you're dominating for the
for the sick
right helene when you're diving for
people who need pernassa
when you're saying right it's all
over the place any time you pray to
hashem
help please put an end to this plague
heal the people who have it let the
people who are healthy not enter it
employ help bring about employment right
so in
all the any time you do that you're
fulfilling this commandment
and again if you're a good person
you pray about this fantastic but that's
only a diamond in the rough it's carbon
so have in mind let's train ourselves to
have in mind
this mitzvah of crying out to hashem in
times of trouble
there's another step okay there's
another step
with this mitzvah to cry out to hashem
in times of trouble
okay and that's what we're going to
focus on today
so we see here the act of
you're reciting words you're praying to
hashem
but if you um atta adapt the mindset
of what other mitzvahs are taking on
here
it expands so as we just said that
when you realize i'm praying because a
person's in trouble
and there's a lot of trouble throughout
the world
that awakens the mitzvah crying out to
shem in times of trouble
and we said that's a big step because
you're saying hashem
i see you as the solution to this
situation
now there's in the rambam by the way
this is coming from the mishnah tara the
rambam
hillcast tinus halacha
of base and gimmel okay i'm basically
presenting you the rambam's instructions
and and revealing the depth of this
mitzvah
sure it's already a great sensitivity
realize
there's trouble and hashem is the one to
turn to in times of trouble
but the rambam says there's more to that
we have to ask ourselves why
are we in trouble why are people sick
why is there a what they call a mageifa
an a pandemic why is there economic
trouble why is there political trouble
why is there trouble
this is the next step when you cry out
to shem
in times of trouble you're saying hashem
i
acknowledge that we are the source of
the trouble
okay i we're a jew is supposed to take
collective responsibility for all the
suffering
not just of jews of the whole world as
it says in gamaria vamos
it says all suffering and retribution
all the difficulties faced even by the
non-jews
right or for the sake of israel to
improve themselves and to recognize
we haven't acted properly towards hashem
we haven't
acted properly towards each other so you
hear
the the next dimension of this
mitzvah of calling out in trouble is to
accept a responsibility for the trouble
and not attribute it to chance you hear
this so
tied in to the the calling out to hashem
in times in trouble and being
in contact with the fact of how much
suffering is going on
is realizing that
it's because the way we've behaved
and therefore what's the solution to
that
chuva chuva is part of this mitzvah
part of the myth of the crowd to hashem
is to say
i accept responsibility i know that's
because of my poor behavior
and my fellow jews poor behavior
were responsible to deal with this
so i want to discuss
the act of chuva in relation to to helm
remember
these are just mitzvahs in the single
acting quote single act the singles and
quotes
of reciting italian for a sick person
there's so much
there i repeat there's hesed kindness
walking in god's ways
there's crying out hashem and
identifying him as the solution
and now we're seeing there's another
thing
the tehillim can be recited
in a state of chuva that's what i want
to
have us work on tonight that's our focus
now anybody who's been uh
who listens to a torah leaders and
rabbis and giving cheering now there's a
lot of talk that we're close to the
final redemption
there's definitely a lot of talk that
we're in times of great suffering and
difficulty so everyone's going to say
chuva and by the way i have a very good
suggestion
for you is uh uh um rabbi poston you
know most
most rabbis teach chuba in elo
and the rosh hashani yom kippur you know
the the hot time for achievement
robbie poston gives it a weekly share
it's a weekly share on shari chuva
that would be a great investment of your
time because you're hearing from
everybody do chuva so you have to know
how to do it and to stay involved with
it what i want to do tonight
is also give you um i i feel funny using
this but everyone uses it
it's a hack right i'm going to give you
a chew of a hack but
what the heck it's like a shortcut or a
little
angle to do something in a non
cumbersome way so i if you will
i want to um and the beauty of this is
chuva is so precious to hashem
that he'll take it on any level and you
won't believe how
even a little bit of chuva a little a
low level chuba goes a long way
case in point the gemaran
right famous gemara and it's hard to
believe this gemara
right you can uh to marry a woman
you know you do the process of
conduction and it takes
it has to take legal effect and
sometimes you can make stipulations
i'm going to uh makatish this woman i'm
going to get married to this woman on
condition of
x so it has to be a valid condition
you're making
so here's the here's the amazing one it
says there
that a russia can a wicked person
can say i'm a kaddish this woman
almanas to be exotic right
to be righteous right so the gemara says
it's a valid conduction why
now listen to this it didn't say because
he did says
perhaps he was mahar herbert
perhaps he had a thought of chuva
and because of that we validate the
conducion
right so that what do we see from that
even a thought
here horchuva a thought of chuva
has tremendous impact right
now what the mufashim explained what is
the thought of chuva
is it could be just regret for how you
acted
regret a little bit of regret okay
there's a as you if you study charity
there's
so many dimensions and depth of regret
you could feel
and every bit of that cleanses your soul
brings it close to hashem
but let's focus on this even a little
bit of
regret goes a long way so
here horchuva is to feel a little bit of
regret for what you're doing
now let me add another amazing thing it
just shows you
hashem so much wants us to come back and
come close to him
he values these efforts right he values
so much when we take responsibility for
the troubles of the world and realize
it's because of our behavior
he values it so he says you know just
even if you do a little
tremendous things will come because it
says in gemara brachas here's the thing
a little regret i'm going to add one
more thing a little embarrassment
if you're embarrassed over how you acted
believe it or not okay but but
i think you should believe it because
it's a bearish gemara in brachos
all your sins are forgiven do you hear
that you can
achieve an atonement for all your sins
if you're embarrassed let's say about
one sin so to feel a little bit of great
and a little bit of embarrassment is
huge
okay now i uh so
we're gonna we're gonna uh apply this
immediately okay
but i wanna let you know when you're
hearing
these uh clarion calls to do chuva
how about even a tinge of regret
and a little bit of embarrassment of how
you acted right
again uh let's imagine that you you got
ups
you lost it with you know one of your
children you got really upset
or uh i'm gonna give you a little some
ideas
of things we we could think about to do
trouble but let's say you realize wow
if you reflect for a moment wow i can't
believe i acted that way
you see my face right now i'm a little
embarrassed right you feel that
it's so precious to hashem he says you
know what
i'm gonna uh i'm gonna spare you of the
suffering that would come from your sins
because you were you were embarrassed a
it and also i saw rev garrish and
agelessing pointed out beautifully
you know as jewish people we have
uh it's one of our core characteristics
that we have having a jewish neshama
is it were gom oh this is really
beautiful
the three essential characteristics that
we have
uh implanted in us from abraham avinu
and with our jewishness
are gom we do kindness
right why are we saying talent for sick
people kindness
right money having compassion
right so when we feel the tsar the pain
and the difficulty of other people right
that's rahmanus
you you are predisposed to that emotion
but hashem
creates eternal value it's a mitzvah to
rise when you feel compassion even for a
moment for
anybody's suffering you're again walking
in god's ways
and here we say by shunning we're
embarrassed
right we we we have this capacity and by
the way that's the beautiful thing
ravelsin points out when someone uh
converts
with hilo was asked by aguero a convert
teach me the whole torah on one foot
right
so he says he answers back to him what
you're
what you wouldn't want done to you don't
do it he explains on a deeper level he's
saying to the
the non-jew if you step in with us
your soul will now have these
predisposition
predispositioned to great levels of
kindness
compassion and in being embarrassed
about inappropriate behavior
those are gifts you hear those are
absolute gifts
so my chuva hack so because we said
that part of the myth of crying out to
shem is to acknowledge our
our that we're the cause of the trouble
by our behavior and we're saying what's
the response to chuva
how do we do this uh hear horchuva i'm
just seeing
a little bit of regret and a little bit
of embarrassment
so to we're gonna let me just give you
uh i've i've been to mishkiyaki yeshiva
for years
i even also wrote a book on shari chuva
so i'm very familiar
with some of our common you know we're
not perfect
and we we tend to certain averages
occur more often than not and so i'm
just going to give you
a short little list okay and if there's
anything there that you tend to do
you can use this to to have a here
horchuba right now
and have a big impact on a solution to
our troubles
and and also with down so here here are
a couple of
things that are quite common okay anger
okay just just listen to this list and
identify
perhaps in the last week or so maybe
you were angry okay a big one
lush and hara maybe either you know even
a joke
that met cast someone in negative light
or believing
you know let's say a perceptive person
says something negative about a jew
it's hard not to believe him but that's
a navera right
so common of errors are anger speaking
lush and horror
believing lush and heart let's go those
are between man and fellow
let's go between hashem how many
broccolis we have a day
a hundred right are the blessings
supposed to be recited with kavanagh
yes out of the hundred maybe there's one
or two that weren't done with kavanagh
but these are things we all face they're
common challenges
and here's another one okay uh
for men in particular we have a missile
learned torah right
so any time you could learn torah you
don't that's something
else we have to do true before why did i
make this list
because you can sincerely
feel some regret and embarrassment over
these things
okay and that has a big impact so what
i'd like to do
right now is i want to and i want to end
this
as we have been doing i want us to
recite it to him
and transform it from carbon into a fine
diamond
by applying the misses that we've
learned so far so we're gonna
we're gonna recite again um and i just
encourage
uh all those listening please grab it
tell them right now
okay and let's uh let's put this into
action
and i i want to continue to focus
uh on the to hilum couf
and you'll see that you you know
kuflam 130 is the go-to
it's one of the main go-to's when
someone's in trouble
they say say this to helen right
and it makes perfect sense why
why do we say this to him what did the
rambam say
it's a mitzvah a torah commandment to
cry hashem when there's trouble
and the trouble comes from our sins from
our bad my sin
so says them album you know what this
whole home is about
asking forgiveness for our sins you hear
this
it's the solution to get us out of the
trouble the whole
film is a sincere request from hashem
please ima vanus tishmaur ya miyamod
hashem if you held on to our sins
who could stand so this is all about
it's all about addressing our sins and
asking forgiveness
okay so what i'd like you to do
right now is first i want to review the
myths as we discussed tonight we're
going to we're going to look at that one
more time
and then we're going to recite this to
him having these misses in mind
all right just to review what we covered
when you get that request to recite to
helen
you have a mitzvah of walking in
hashem's ways
your response stop for a moment say why
am i
doing this what does hashem want he he
commands me to do kindness
and to emulate him so the reciting for
the sikh person is the midst of walking
the hashem's ways
next what we also discussed is you say
person sick is he alone no he's amongst
a lot of sick
people and that means he's in trouble
they're in trouble and as we know right
now the world's in trouble so that leads
us to this mitzvah
there's a mitzvah to call out hashem in
times of trouble
and what we just stressed so number one
that's outstanding because you're saying
hashem you are the solution in times of
trouble if we call to you
you'll you can save us but in the
context of realizing
why are we in trouble we're in trouble
because of our collects collective sins
of eras
and therefore that brings in its wake
another
mitzvah the mitzvah of shiva and as we
discussed
you while you recite the tehillim if you
say it in a state of chuba
right you have a here where you have a
thought of regret
and a thought of embarrassment about
your behavior
there you go you fulfilled another
mitzvah you you
fashioned the diamond to be another
incredible act
okay we will now try to recite this to
helen
uh on behalf of the sikh people you know
and on behalf of claudius rail and the
town we're doing is kuflamid 130
and for those of you who are not so
familiar with the
english translation i'm just going to
highlight some points of what this
tehelm is expressing
okay it opens by saying my mama kim
krasik hashem
from the depths i'm calling you which
means
the the um we're admitting we're in a
low place right now
we either we're a low place because of
our sins and we're also
because of the trouble we're facing so
we're crying out hashem
from a low place and asking for help
and then we say um we're asking hashem
to not only hear our prayers
right listen to my voice but accept my
prayers
says the maulbin okay and as we said
this to him
is acknowledging our sins and asking for
forgiveness we argue to hashem we say
hashem
if you were to hold everyone accountable
for their sins
and not be merciful there be no one in
existence so we're asking we're saying
it's your it's your divine compassion
that you forgive us for what we've done
and that's what we're
uh appealing to and at the end we're
in fact we're we're praying for the
final redemption we're saying
we're hoping for the mourning of the
redemption and and
where all the troubles will be gone will
be close to hashem
that's the basic gist of the talent
now uh before i recite it and i would
like you to recite it along with me
okay let us all have in mind the
following mitzvahs
okay so for this to be real
i want you to think of some uh sick
people
that you would like you know for them to
have a rafa
so take a moment to think of someone
amongst the
the many sick of claudius rahel that's
number one
okay now that i now that you've
identified someone
right so we're saying it for them and
the other sikh people
so have in mind the midst of allah
of doing the kindness to pray for
people in trouble that's number one and
now have in mind the mitzvah
of crying out to hashem when there is
trouble and there is trouble
that's number two and number three what
we discussed is
part of the mitzvah to cry out in times
of trouble
is to not only acknowledge hashem can
save us
but to realize that we're in trouble
because of our sins
so we want to do chuva and what i'd like
you to do now
is take a moment before we start and
think of like i said there's anger
there's lash and hara
there's not learning tara when we can
there's making poor blessings
etc just take a moment and think
of the things that you need to do true
before
and recite the def to him to hashem
to hashem feeling regret over your
behavior and in fact embarrassment on
how you've acted
and that means we'll and and have in
mind therefore the midst of doing chuba
okay let us begin
i'm going to recite the prayer for all
the jews
all around the world who are in trouble
for the ver
and suffering and may hashem have rahme
upon all of uh all of them and may we
see the final redemption as it says in
the prayer
based israel honest
are placed in tsar and captivity
whether they're at sea or on the dry
land hamachi mirach himalayan
may hashem have mercy on them the
otsiyam yotsiye
mitsarala revacha to take him out of
constricted places to
to a comfortable expanse um
from darkness to light um
now speedily in our times amen
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