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welcome back
to klm thanks to you vernet
tonight i would i plan to try to show
you
how much incredible depth there is in
something you do a lot
and that's reciting to him for a sick
person
it's amazing how many mitzvahs are
involved
and how much deep connection is possible
okay but before i get there i'd like to
share this with you
um it says it says in the end of the
varian
that it takes up to 40 years to
understand your rebbe
right through what your rabbi's teaching
took moshe the
the claudia israel 40 years so
i'm 30 years in with my rabbi rabbi
greene
i'm 30 years in and i'm closer to
understanding something he said
he uh listen to this i mean as soon as
he said i'm a what
he says like this he says you know it
only takes about two minutes
to be in a state of ecstasy and then he
just moves on in the
in the direction isn't that what now
look
if he means like synthetic drugs or
something i understand him
that could take a couple minutes right i
don't know how long it takes right
but he seemed to be implying you could
get
reach a state of ecstasy in a way that's
not forbidden by the torah
right and i'll tell you you know him
it looks like he uh he was in that that
kind of state
and when we when we all isn't that
really what
we all love that isn't that what we
would dream would maybe be possible
into our observance and miss the ecstasy
so
i don't have a two-second two-minute
formula
but i think i get the point and i think
we can lay out a path
to ecstasy i hope that sounds good and
attractive
now let's face things right now the
world looks very far from
ecstasy right you know people are just
fighting to keep their heads above
water right and even those who are
fortunate not to be
in that situation they're affected by it
right who can't be affected by what's
happening now
and you know even even us
tara observant people it's a struggle
people are struggling teenagers are
struggling you know
i don't want to tell you horror stories
you know about in seminaries
young girls everything there's a lot of
struggling people just fighting
fighting to just stay in and
we're talking about ecstasy yes
yes it's possible and i'll tell you
here's what here's what i think
first of all there's a commodity
that i think is desperately needed right
now
even for torah people okay and this
commodity can save
lives but it can also lead to ecstasy
okay
what's the commodity meaning
having meaning in what you're doing okay
we all
you know everybody i mean is probably
one of the most quoted books in this
century
uh victor frankl right meaning
saved his life right meaning pulled him
out of the
holocaust meaning it's big it's huge
okay
now by the way i have to thank my friend
dr setzer he
gave me a kisser of uh dr frankel's
point but he says how does he say you
get meaning
listen this he says either you is by
creating something or some deed okay
or having an encounter or in a
relationship
okay number two number three having a
perspective on life's difficulties okay
sounds good right now the truth of the
matter is
we as jewish people and having the term
we don't have to manufacture that
we don't have to manufacture deeds we
don't have to manufacture an encounter
in a relationship
with hashem right and we have the right
perspective
i think it's more of a matter we forgot
we forget okay and and again you know uh
one of the one of the people i learned
with was so
taken by this he started interviewing
even from people
what's your what's the meaning of life
what's going on and you'd be surprised
you know
um raising my kids having a good family
uh uh term is
you know there there's there's not this
like
meaning that can lead you to ecstasy
okay
so um let's find out
what we forgot okay now what i'm sharing
with you
is from a safer i in the recent years
that like hashem keeps sending me these
things that are just
changing my life right already with the
kavanagh the mitzvah's
life changer right this one too it's
called takli submits is the per
purpose of misfits life changer okay
listen to this okay listen this once
upon a time
there was a powerful and revered king
who placed a task on one of his servants
and what was that it was to bring a
treasure like a buried treasure
that was deep within a very dense
and dangerous forest and he warned he
warned his servant he says
it's extremely dangerous it's filled
with predators
it's a jungle it's right he gives the
king gives him a sword
and he gives him some tools to try to
clear a path
so this servant he was he chose a good
guy
okay he went at this with passion
and determination he's chopping down uh
branches and thorns and thickets and
stuff he even designed the thing to keep
predators away and he's building this
path
right paving out this path he even until
he gets right
to the treasure he pays a pet he even
makes us like
steps going up comes back to the king
this is maybe
a year a year of incredible work he
comes back to the king he goes
i made the path the path is cleared
so the king says and he goes the king
looks and he goes
he's amazed he goes do you think i
wanted a path
i wanted where's the treasure i wanted
you to bring
me the treasure okay
what's the nimcha the nimcha is is
really amazing
okay but from the mirror had the
sovereign
observation in das torah okay he says we
look at the 613
commandments as a bunch of disconnected
tasks but put on by hashem
do this do that do this do that do that
truman's and meisters uh
shimona esre uh you know don't get angry
he's saying it's not a bunch of
disconnected misses
they're leading to two treasures
okay not one there's an ultimate
treasure but let's just say
there's two treasures okay and i want to
illustrate this
and i want to tell you this is a life
changer and
we can embark on a journey to ecstasy
let me show you
uh an illustration what i'm talking
about
okay here's the secret here's the secret
here are the treasures we're supposed to
head for
the 613 mitzvahs okay
have ultimate goals and purposes
in this world we're not just talking
about the world to come
but hashem has an organized plan for us
all being adam lamakom for example
torah learning what we're doing right
now davening
shabbos what is the treasure
that we're supposed to attain at the end
of that experience
devakis to hashem attachment to hashem
in your heart and your thoughts that's
what ready
we're right now we're in a class of
torah
what are we supposed to bring back we're
concentrating we're focusing we're
trying to gain
you want that you achieve devacus to
hashem
you want that your heart and your
thoughts are by the way just when we
speak about devacus
i just want to point out it's not
closeness to hashem
okay here let's say this is close
right the vacus is your thought
and and your thoughts in your hearts are
literally attached to hashem
so this is the treasure you're supposed
to bring home in those activities
all being um like hesa it's a duck uh
not bearing a grudge honoring your
parents
to be like hashem okay we're either
everything we're doing the goal is we're
either attached to hashem
or we become like hashem this is the
form
this is the plan if we pursue the uh
pursue the torah in this direction we we
have
the deepest meaning all the time and
i'll explain
more okay
so here's the secret uh to ecstasy my
humble opinion
and i can say that i feel i'm on the
path i'm not just
talking about this abstractly okay the
thing is this
is hashem
problem we when we're doing mitzvahs we
often feel like we're doing hashem a
favor
you know i'm tired i don't feel like
davening oh i gotta do this i gotta do
that
we're not doing hashem a favor he needs
no favors nothing right
he's doing us incredible favor because
you know what he says he's saying to you
look follow these paths
right and i'm going to do the following
i'm going to perfect you
i'm going to help you achieve perfection
right
the rambam the rambam says
we have two things we're here to
accomplish tikkun
means to perfect your soul how do you
protect your soul
by cultivating the thoughts and the
emotions that attach
attach you to shem and guess what
there's a clear path
when you're learning torah you're
attaching yourself to hashem
there's a whole okay now that's tikkun
the nephesh
tikkun goof right is how do you perfect
your
be your person your physical being
be a mensch be no be like hashem
okay hashem says i'm going to show you
the path to walk on
the bedrock of and you're going to end
up like me
now listen to this and listen to how
literal that is
you know when anna marishon was uh
created
the the the midrash says the angels
mistook him for
hashem they looked at him and said
kadosh kadosh
no no no no i made him he's not the one
okay but listen to this it's amazing the
and and the obvious it brings this it's
um
it's in yo yo and it's the sifri
okay he says like this there's a puzzle
says anyone who's called uh by the shame
of hashem
will be saved okay so there's the reason
what do you mean hashem is called by the
shema
of hashem right what do you mean a
person it can be called
can be mistaken for hashem yes
you know hashem is compassionate you be
compassionate
you know we are on a path that being not
only
is a path to actually become so
so compassionate that you could be
mistaken for hashem
and therefore saved it's just it's
unbelievable
this is what we're doing gracious
compassionate
all these things so we're accomplishing
so much
you know you i remember in you who'd
have brought me a cup of water
right so not now
but he brought me a cup of water right
so okay
nice thing to do right you just
became more like hashem
you were giving right and also the thing
of this you know we talk about
perfection
now in the secular perfectionism
perfectionism is like a bad thing right
perfection
who's perfect only hashem's perfect
right but
i looked this up what does per being
perfect mean right
so they they say like this complete
right complete and um and there's no
flaws or
or deficiencies okay so of course
in truth only hashem is perfect right
but here's the thing every time
i'm focusing on being on la cavero for a
second right
every time you do an act of generosity
you are more complete than you were
before when you handed me that glass of
water
you are more complete right a a poor
person come
ask you for money now the thing is this
you give it
you're a little more complete but you
give it
but now here here's what's amazing okay
when you know that the goal of every
mitzvah
is to either be attached to hashem or
like hashem
it it imbues such such
quality to your act okay so if i know
that i'm supposed to give um money to
this poor person
now how does a shem if i'm gonna and if
i want to end up more like hashem in the
act
do i just go like this or do i feel for
the guy
do i feel feel that how embarrassing it
is to have to ask for money
do i feel that he who knows how much
money he has exception
you hear this if i know um there's a
treasure here
i'm supposed to give to dhaka i'm
supposed to end up
travel the path of hashem and be more
like him it's a different
act okay and and now ready
let's go to bain adam the macomb right
there there's certain there are certain
thoughts and emotions that if you
possess them
you are by definition attached to shem
okay now we're into the introduction to
this thing this is going to be at least
two shares okay but just to give you
example
okay here's a list of
here's a list of the thoughts and
emotions that could
you could experience for example when
you say suzuki december
what's your goal am i just doing the
rabbinic commandment to recite
tsukiti imra or what if my goal is to
vacus
what if the goal when i set out to say
those to
them i want to end up attached to hashem
in my thought my hearts whole different
experience
a whole different experience listen to
the list okay
you're a sachem meaning a sense of awe
reverence fear that's an attachment
in your feelings hashem pasha
your thoughts what am i supposed to do
when i'm learning
a torah is here i'm amazed by hashem's
wisdom
right when i'm done you hear this
there's a pe
there there's also a path to the
treasure
and then you have the treasure so do you
realize when you realize that
whenever when you do all this you're it
what could be better than being attached
to hashem
and like hashem right i promise you
the journey becomes a path to ecstasy
and also you you'll feel so accomplished
i'm telling you see the thing is this
you know i just make a joke
you know nowadays if you do things
online given as giving it
a chance to have a wider audience go
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if you like this sheer i don't want you
to send it to a certain person
thing don't share this with the atahara
okay do not share this this information
i'm telling you
is this information can change you right
so
we don't want him to be focused on this
okay so
so let's okay but now i told you that
we're going to try to put this into
action
um tonight here's something we do a lot
reciting to him right now i want to
focus on to heal him for a sick person
okay for a hola all right i want to um
if we were to talk about the hill and
you know and it's all
the applications unbelievable right
let's start with to hillam
for a sick person right we all do this
right
you know you get it you get an email it
says you know i just heard this email
um to try to say the name you know
please davin for sippora sylvia
baciohevit she's a mother of eight
children
who's having brain surgery okay
please say to helen now what mitz is
this is klm
cavanaugh mitchus what mitzvahs are
involved
how many mitzvahs are involved when you
recite to helen
a lot okay uh i made that i told you the
comment about
appraising the mitzvahs to discover all
the the commandments that are within a
single act right
so i have praised and this is a like a
a conservative estimate i appraise to
him to have six
uh derisive commandments attached to it
okay
so we're just gonna cover i just wanna
discuss
the first three okay so yeah let me just
tell you the list
as a kind of overview and then next time
we'll get into it
okay number one
the vegas number two
halaqa
number three awareness
that you're in the presence of hashem
number four crying out to hashem in
times of trouble
darysa derisa not not recognized exactly
love you whoa really exactly darysa
okay next recognizing
that uh that hashem is the that
everything that's happening is divine
providence okay
and finally chuva okay
it's supposed to be a part of a process
of chuva
those are six things that happened when
you recited talem
let's just quickly discuss the first
couple
okay devakis to hashem right we said
that is one of the treasures you're
supposed to attain right
so when you listen to what i know now
i'm not focusing right now
on reciting the tahilam for the whole
okay it's still part of the mitzvah okay
i let's say i want to for uh support
right so i'm going to say it to him but
the act of reciting the telum
is between you and hashem okay
and you listen to it rabbi miller
enlightened me on this but the romahal
says this
david melech
that's all there was probably no one who
was
closer had more devacus to hashem
right absolute devacus incredible to
vegas
so explains the the ram call if you
immerse in a tahillim and you think
deeply about what you're saying and you
recite it
you will cultivate the the the vegas of
david melech on your level
avas hashem yours hashem all of hashem
but it's a script i i taught a earlier
class on ashrae
te hilum is a script of the turn into
david
melech his devakis unbelievable you hear
this
so when you recite a to illum with a
with a little bit of immersion
appreciation what you're saying
devakis to hashem your thoughts and your
feelings
will attach to hashem okay and you'll
have
a major treasure okay but now let's go
to the other one
ahole why am i doing this what's
prompting me to do this because i care
about a jew who's suffering right
and when i care and when i recite it
with you know
esther morgan was her name with that
woman
yeah you know i was very moved you know
one of the people in the class yehuda
his heart was broken there was a jewish
woman was murdered
shemirakhan right but you know that
our heart's supposed to break for our
fellow jews
and guess what hashem hashem's heart
breaks over our troubles and suffering
so when we say that to hillam
and we really want uh tzipur sivia
basiachev
to for hashem to have mercy on earth
you're becoming
like hashem you get close to hashem by
doing tale and property
you become like hashem by putting
by having total care and concern for the
person
who you're hoping hashem will have mercy
on please god
you hear the last thing okay for tonight
we're going to go to the the second
section of all the incredible misses of
the talent
uh next time but for now we
we took we spoke about this last time
um how many people are in this room
how how many peoples or a number of
people right very small
under the uh the guidelines for sure
okay
but ready who else is in this room
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hashem if you have that if you are aware
that you're in the presence of hashem
as you are that's the first commandment
that's the myth that we've discussed
this
it's anoki i'm hashem your god you're
supposed to attain awareness that you're
in his
presence right so when you recite it
tillen i'm just gonna recite the first
pussac
in kuflamid which is something we say
and i i hope to
elaborate and show you all the devakis
that's in the in kuflam that we say all
the time
right but let's just listen to this
right okay
and akash burkhu okay please if
for your whole limb for and beso holy
israel
say that say it to him say this to him
right but i just wanna i
i'm gonna say the first line and i want
to i realize
first of all devakis okay
i'm going to say i i want my goal is
that my thoughts and my feelings attach
to hashem
from the meaning of this okay and
i want the refuse flame of harumbin
miriam
charcoal israel the the holy right
that's
um right and now
awareness i'm in hashem's presence so
listen to this is going to
first read it translate and then recite
it so it says
right shira malos okay
from the depths from the emek
and microphone from the emek i'm calling
through what's an amec
amec is a valley and if you look at the
amic and relationship
to the mountain it's low it's a low
place
says the maubon you know this person
who's
david and milk is asking for forgiveness
for a sin
and he feels and this is and this son we
can feel
you know when you when a person god
forbid does a sin
he's lowered himself right and he's in
the emek
or a person who's suffering or
struggling
financially they're low right so hashem
i'm crying out to you from this low
place
right so this is the vacus if you if you
immerse in that you're getting you're
attaching yourself your thought in your
hearts to hashem
but now look what it says
i'm calling you if i'm
calling hashem that means
i'm in the presence of hashem if i pay
attention to that
if you just
i'm calling out to you hashem from the
low spot that i feel i'm in
there you go you're you're aware
you're in a presence and that is a
profound accomplishment
you just fulfilled the first commandment
and you're more perfect
you're more complete and you're less
flawed
you hear so this is the path it's
amazing just
think about what am i doing if if it has
to do with another person
i'm gay i'm beco i'm turn i can turn
into hashem
the hop deal okay not kevin yahoo right
and if i'm if i'm doing a mitzvah that
he commanded me
right towards him to fill in this and
that
i'm attaching myself to hashem either
way
i'm i'm attaining a treasure that is
precious beyond belief okay
please try this at home
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