KLM Easy Mitzvot Series 1: Oneg Shabbos with Rabbi Asher Baruch Wegbreit

[Music] welcome back to klm the last class we had i put a riddle on the table i offered a million dollars because i didn't think anyone would be able to answer it i'm going to repeat the riddle of course the riddle is known now but here's the riddle what do the following activities have in common spirits or omer or washing your hands that's one chakras the morning service kibuta of aim honoring your parents and finally onig chavis that that should be puzzling unless you heard heard the uh answer what do they have in common so according to to fairies israel they're all easy mitzvahs and it says in percyavos he's explaining paragraph it says rats limits the kalaka maha morta you should run to a mitzvah kala ferris israel understands kala means not a minor mitzvah what makes this minor okay but an easy mitzvah now i just the the reason it's a very hard riddle is certain things are obviously easy right is washing your hands before you say mow down a knee in the morning or washing your hands to eat just washing the hands is that hard or easy it's easy it's simple to do so that's one category okay let's jump the other end another one obvious onig shabbas why is owning chavez easy it's so pleasurable right who doesn't like to eat good food and and drink a nice bottle of wine or whatever you like right so that's easy now the question is and we're not going to delve into it this week i'm going to kind of leave you in a mystery but the question is the morning davening that's a long service especially if you go to the shoal i i bet if you took a poll of teenagers and asked them does any teenager in the world think that chakras is easy i doubt they'll say yes so chakras is easy in a certain sense okay but i'm planning i've gotten thank god a lot of feedback about these easy mitzvahs so i'm planning an easy missile series and we're gonna discuss upcoming why is chakras why is the morning service easy okay then we have the other one honoring your parents does the talmud think honoring your parents is easy not at all you're right it's not it says because why we discuss a little you have such an obligation to them they brought you into existence they cared for you so long et cetera et cetera so another mystery that we're going to leave unsolved right now is why is honoring your parents an easy mitzvah okay but that since we're doing the easy mitzvah series we'll get to that later but we've already discussed spirits of omar and now we're going to focus on onig chavis and and learn from that now the uh it's very funny we're at klm we're building a website and uh yeah i have some people helping design it and come up with the right framework so one of them one of the designers says he really he realized i'm doing an easy mitzvah series he says they're going to click that the most right and i learned from rabbi poston about this idea called click bait right so if if you're familiar with the internet and youtube and things like that so what is click bait they come up with a title that is like a bait it entices you to listen to what they have to say and it's very the the strategy clickbait is is is classic i i mean i've seen one things like this the simple trick to get straight a's in university now if you're in university are you gonna click of course the simple trick or how about this one a five second hack to make a million dollars on a daily basis no you hear that right the so but the thing about it is i think we're suspicious of those things too right you know it sounds great and maybe it probably is right exactly so click bait on the one hand it's very clever it draws you in but you know we're kind of skeptics so here's my question to you easy mitzvahs are easy mitz's click bait with all due respect for hashem right in other words are they really easy right and are they like these simple ways to make millions or not right maybe there's something underneath these easy mitzvahs so the answer is yes and no okay they really are simple hacks to make millions and on the other hand they're not at all okay so that's what we're going to discuss uh and first let me just give you we gave a class and there was a lot of interest thank god on spherusa omer and so let me just use this model of how it's easy and how way maybe not uh simultaneously okay so let's just take um spherica omer yeah the real one i want to focus on is washing the hands but let's start with spherus omer okay what do you need to do it's easy in the sense it's simple to do meaning you make a blessing and you count and as long as you're listening to the one leading the davening where you just ask somebody what was yesterday you know right how how difficult is that right so since it's easy um instruction number one is run to do it and what does run mean do it with enthusiasm and joy right do it with semka right all you have to do my acronym uim up your mood for how long does it take 20 seconds right for 20 seconds just do that with energy and enthusiasm and have and most importantly have in mind the mitzvah serving hashem simcha because you are if you're happy and excited and enjoying it then let's turn eternalize it by having mine that i'm serving hashem with simcha now i want to give the other example that i just mentioned washing your hands now washing your hands we don't necessarily calculate it that it is a mitzvah in itself meaning when you wake up in the morning right so you're washing your hands to do what to say modernity right or you come out of the restroom you're washing your hands to make a blessing right ashore yatzor and that's a dime or you're washing your hands to have a meal right so our minds are thinking about the blessing we're going to say or modeni but you know what look what hashem does the the actual pouring the water on your hands is a mitzvah right so number one have in mind that i'm doing a mitzvah and most importantly right be do it basimka and have in mind that i i'm serving with simply right so i've been practicing this before i get to the alma tells you diamond mow that knee when i'm pouring the water in my hands like wow and here's here's here's what i've been saying to hashem i can't believe this is a mitzvah unbelievable right you hear this he he sanctifies the mere washing of the hands and gives us eternity for it so easy mitzvahs are if you will click bait right do this mitzvah right but do it as a mitzvah number one and have in mind serving hashem basimka and there's more we can have in mind we'll discuss that by owning chavez okay do you hear this number one to run to an easy mitzvah means to express enthusiasm and most importantly have kevana for what you're doing right that here this is a training ground for serving hashem the okay so that in that sense it really is easy okay and it really is millions and billions i mean to say billions is is a disgrace for what awaits us or to to say um the level of bonding you can achieve with hashem just from a simple mitzvah is unbelievable okay now there's a second part that i said it's not so easy in another dimension it is right but it's not why because since things are easy we are prone to prac to practice mindlessness not mindfulness mindlessness right see that's the same most people are washing their hands not thinking anything they're just thinking about the next act they're not present in the presence of hashem you hear so there's that danger there's a danger of being robotic etc okay so that's the other side and for that we have to do some work uh to make the easy mitzvah valuable all right now we're ready to go to onigshava so we said the first type of easy is simple to do like washing your hands or counting the omer right the other two mitzvahs chakras and kibut off we'll discuss another time but now let's go to onigshabus it's easy in the sense that it's a pleasure to do and this we want to understand the two ways all we need to do here is master two things right how to run to it and then secondly how to be careful of the pitfalls due to the fact that it's easy okay here we go this is the first thing we do with easy uh look look at top but let's just run through quickly again uh the four types of easy right number one we said it's quick and simple to do we're going to use tonight in a telesedime okay number two you're accustomed to it like chakras number three it makes sense like honoring your parents and number four it's pleasurable like onigshavas okay so what is the instruction of ben azam piercus he says rox limits the color run to these type of mitzvahs what does run mean what does run express it expresses enthusiasm simcha and energy right now so let's let's let's take a look at the mitzvah of nutilis udayam you do it when you're going to say moda ani you do it when you're ready for davening and you're going to make a blessing on the tlc diet that's another time you do it when you're washing for bread okay now the thing is this and i i have garrison edelstein sweet to thank for this because he he kind of pointed this out you know when i think of the midst of the tea as a diamond i'm thinking of the bracha and the kavanaugh for the bracha or modaknee we know that modernity is a spiritual workout okay but let's just step back for a second the mere act of pouring water on your hands is a mitzvah it's a mitt's thought and boy boy is that an easy mitzvah okay you may have to learn the number of times but it's not so hard correct easy schmeezy right so what do you do with that so um i i mentioned to you anything that's easy and i hope you're doing this with spirits of omar it's like 20 seconds uym up your mood and do it with joy but don't just do it with joy look at the thing i said below perform with simcon energy and ham him have in mind him the cottage have in mind the mitzvah of serving hashem simka a great place to practice serving hashem simka is when it's easy okay so um how are you gonna use this information tomorrow morning uh when you're going to wash your hands maybe you should get some uh get a sandwich to do this right though washing your hands say a cottage i'm doing this to fulfill the missile washing my hands as you commanded me and it i i can't believe that i get to honor you and give myself eternity from just doing this little act and i love serving you and i'm going to do it okay so that's easy number one we are we're not going to talk about two and three because i'm planning with the help of hashem visit hashem to give sharing on those topics of easy okay but we did spherus omer which is easy one so serious omar and easy items have in mind serving december and uim but now let's go to onig shabbas right ownik shabbas we want to do that right and uh and again you could say for sure it's going to be the sim card right but what you want to do is him right now we're going to have to talk about implementation about remembering this this class making the commitment to use this on shabbos okay but let's just talk about this onikshabas you nee you should have in mind while you're eating drink i'm serving hashem okay i don't mind the mitzvah bonus shabbos of course and then also serving hashem right so that that that's what you should have in mind so um i i'm gonna yeah let's discuss this right now okay here's what i suggest with onigshabus is as follows um um you want to here i i really um encourage everybody to try to do this this shabbos right as you're eating i i wrote a script for you maybe i'll post this okay but here's what i suggest you declare sometime while you're eating and drinking and having fine wine or whatever you enjoy right this is the this i thought you could say to hashem or feel to hashem okay hashem i can't even believe that this is a mitzvah you must really love me and i love you back as we discussed okay see if you can make that declaration so the first aspect to mrs being easy is run meaning do them the uh with simple enthusiasm but there's another dimension to easy mitzvos let me uh uh come back to you for a second okay all right so by the way you know you can use this fact of being basimka uh as a training ground that with if you get your skills and your energy and your enthusiasm up on these easy to do's then when you get to harder mitzvahs you're gonna it can it can be awakened in you so that's that's section number one of easy mitzvas but now ben aza according to paris israel is pointing out there's danger with easy misfits there are pitfalls to easy mitzvos okay and uh so remember i asked you up front is hashem doing clickbait that's for real meaning five minute hacks and you get millions of dollars a day yes in that in the sense we thought as long as you do two things you have in mind that you're doing a mitzvah and you do it basimka yes it's easy in that sense but no there's another depth to this to this mishna and to ben azai according to ferris israel there's another whole other dimension he's telling you be careful because since they're easy you're you're prone to pitfalls and you won't have klm you won't have proper kevana and the terrace rail said a beautiful thing we mentioned less than he's saying sanctify your intentions right but now we need to see what we're up against with these mitzvahs there are pitfalls let's take a look okay okay i'm back rabbi michael yes okay great so here we go the next thing is the pitfalls i'm just getting this here um one second here oh okay i went wrong way okay no we're not done yet here we are okay thanks to my wife okay look at this these are the four categories again one quick and simple like matthias says i am two accustomed to it like chakras three it makes sense like honoring your parents and four uh it's pleasurable like one chavez let's look at the pitfalls with each of these when it's quick and simple you're prone to mindlessness right the the opposite of what's so popular right now mindfulness mindlessness right how many people are thinking that they're doing a covet shamayim they're glorifying the heavens when their hands are having water poured on them right there it's there's a lot we're doing that we can do it mindlessly so that's the trap the pitfall of easy to do is out of mind it's it's mindless okay um now let's just go through the pitfalls and then we'll go back to the fixes okay easy number two when you're accustomed to it i i know everybody um you know this relates to charles question everybody knows that when you're accustomed to do something when it's a habit it becomes it becomes mechanical and it becomes a rote rote is not a a positive thing uh uh when it comes to mitzvos i don't want to even scare you we'll talk about when we get there third uh one the problem of misses that makes sense right like of course you're gonna uh prepare food for your kids or help them with your homework of course you're going to do that so you're going to do it for the wrong reason just because it makes sense to you to do it right so that's a pitfall where the more it makes sense the more you're doing it automatically you know someone gives you something to say thank you do you know when you express cars at all you're doing a mitzvah derice of walking in god's ways right you hear this there's so many things we do that we do automatically because they make sense and therefore he's not there cottage broke was not in the picture okay that's the pitfall of easy number three finally easy number four which is tonight's topic pleasurable right so what's the problem with a mitzvah that's pleasurable i think you'll agree with me we become self-focused right right and then when you're focused on yourself it's no the mitzvah is not new i think you i think you understand and agree okay so i'm only again i'm only going to discuss easy one and easy four and easy four is our main focus but easy one uh the problem of the telescoding of the omer let's take we we talked about the omer last week a blessing and counting right so you can do it mindlessly you could just do that and look we mentioned just have in mind that mesosphere is something but you can do it mindlessly so what is the fix look below think and feel the mitzvah right and that's what we're trying to do in these classes and that's what we tried to do last time we said there's such rich rich content in the midst of serious omer you're you're you're pining for the base of mgdosh you're um trying to awaken the incredible moments of horcini you're remembering you're strengthening your muna by remembering the mind right so you're thinking about and you're feeling okay again here let's go to the nutila sedan right you know what one of the times is you're you're washing uh you're washing your hands because you're like a coin serving in the base of migush there's a there is some say there's a mitzvah to think i'm a servant serving the the the creator of the world right so if you think if you think when you're washing your hands that way or here how about this uh when you wash hands for bread you're really helping craig cowan and other koa neem prepare for when they enter the base of mig dash so they were careful with truma so you're doing a you're tr you're doing a uh um a kindness to uh to the koa name and et cetera and you're sanctifying yourself okay you get the idea is when the mitzvah is super easy to do you need to think and feel into the mitzvah okay let's go to our premiere tonight onigshavas so easy four is is pleasurable the danger self-focus the fix attachment hashem to vegas so we're going to discuss this now okay allow me to i want to come see you again for the moment okay let's start with this um uh if mrs glass from south africa now in jerusalem here's this site i first heard this from your son um it's a true story about the cutscere rebbe so the cutscore uh was invited by one of his town meet him for shabbos he spent the whole shabbos for him so this talmud is obviously so excited what an honor that cutsco rebbe is spending shabbos with him so on lel shabas you know serving he serves him food the custard is eating and he like overhears he's not saying it's so loudly but the cuts are saying the glow that's me the bow that's me um yeah he's eating the bow that's me right so if i don't know how your hebrew is but look vow that's me saying in my honor in my honor as he's eating the food in my honor shabbos day the speed like saying what what is going on here the rebbe is saying i'm doing this for my own the rebbe's own honor third meal is no different okay so the dominant finally on mozi shops gets enough courage to ask israeli what was going on and so the you know the the rebbe mccutz was known for being an ish emmis right so he says look uh everyone else says the bow choppers beau chavez you know they're eating this delicious uh won't say fish for the sense of where the delicious steak right the south african steak et cetera that the bone chop is the pho so the cuts are saying i got to be honest you know i'm not you know on his level i i gotta be honest i'm doing this for myself this is so delicious you know it's me that's i'm eating for me and and i'm telling you i announced having mine owning chavez i've announced it many contexts and is that it is so you people are so myself include so immersed in the eating process and so completely animalistic you know what i'm saying you can just get really caught up in the pleasure right so the glow that's me now i had to tell you that according to the raw we have to move past the kavod's meat because he says like this you know where's the source of the mitzvah of onakshabas it comes from yashaya hanavi and as we've learned in klm when the source of the mithra comes from the torah shivaksa from a prophet it is not a full dorisa like if it was in the five books of the torah however it is almost a dorisa and it's a very strong abundant it requires kavanah okay by the way you know owning shabbos is is is also fulfilled by lighting the candles okay that's cover chop it's also onyx shop it's it brings pleasure so uh whoever lights the candles in the home should have in mind the mitzvah medievary kabbalah of onigshapus but let's go back to this so the vilna gohan brings a proof from yashaya navi that you know yashaya the ramachan talks about the incredible hashem right that there are the ultimate pleasure will be to rejoice in hashem the world to come you sh it comes from the the the verses about owning shabbos okay in in local context the wrong hall extends it but not only that that it talks about that but it talks about a nakhola an inheritance and the gemara understands an inheritance without borders in other words you can get different experiences in the world to come but some are just beyond imagination right unbelievable unbelievable aspects of eternity so what the cross says is he he proves it from the verses that you have to do uh onigshabus for hashem for shabbos right it has to be in other words onachavas has to be the shema okay it has to be for the sake of rejoicing in the shabbos not for the sake of one's own rejoicing okay hashem's happy with your rejoicing don't get me wrong but for the full dimension it has to be for the sake of owning shabbos okay good now the question is how do how do we do that right how do we make sure and and let's be honest it's not as simple we know eating is intoxicating right not just drinking isn't that eating is intoxicating pleasure is intoxicating it is so it is not easy to be present in the presence of hashem when you're eating okay on shabbos now to tell you truth this class is part one because onnik shabbas the strategies that exist there's a few and i want to make sure we have all these tools in our tool test so you know by the way i want to point this out another challenge you know here's another riddle for you okay who's a guest who who um comes every shabbos and there are absolutely horrible guests yet you have them over for every shabbos and yet there's this other guest who's so incredible so amazing what a the guess who would dream of having and you barely pay attention to him right i i think you know right the yatahara is always invited and he gets us preoccupied in ourselves right so he's a terrible guest to have on chavez whereas a cottage broke right you know the we're going to talk more about it but he's the guest that you should really be focused on at the table all right so let's discuss how to do this okay um i mentioned this today we're gonna have a shorter workshop i'm just want to get these principles out like st phase one of owning chavez so uh vigor miller has an incredible insight into the gemara shabbos he says like this uh anyone if the kumar says anyone who uh has three meals on shabbos he's safe from the worst suffering the the then of the judgment of gehennam he spared from the birth pangs of the mashiach the the the difficult times in uh when mashiach comes and also the war of gogan magog the the negatives right horrible things and you just have three meals in shabbos you're set to go no gehenna right so reverend miller says pay attention to the gemara's words it doesn't say ko oh hell anyone who eats three meals in shabbos is spared these things he says koha makayam anyone fulfills three meals fulfills says rabbi miller is you fulfill the purpose of the meal and how do you do that by integrating the messages of shabbos he says and he himself says he says you know most people in chaves are chewing themselves into a stupor they're chewing into the stupor but what we should be doing is chewing on the deep ideas of shabbos while we eat you know set it up both ways it can just it can just get you drunk on yourself or food and drink is a way to integrate you know that's why kiddish is with wine and we put eating and drinking it can really help you integrate the the deep messages without having to have suffering because rabbit mother says suffering teaches us the key messages about the world in a kardash so he's saying hashem is offering us a much better option onigshabus if you integrate the messages of shabbos you'll be spared all those things because you got the message and you integrated it and you internalized it and you can eternalize it okay good so that's what we want to do so message number one and that's what we're gonna finish with tonight is what's the first thing you should be thinking chewing on while you're eating and drinking and fulfilling the mitzvah of owning chops again i remind you since it's easy as a pleasure have in mind the mitzvah if it becomes clickbait if you have in mind on each other's and secondly have in mind simcha and declaration you know how amazed you are that this is actually a mitzvah that was part number one now the pitfall we said is self-focus how what do we do how do we get out of self-focus we attach our thoughts and feelings to hashem to vegas but there's a special to vegas on onikshabas which is to zero in on the messages that hashem's trying to convey about shabbos okay that's the that's what we're up to right now okay so again let's call on rabbi miller to set this up you have a kid uh who uh the mother wants to send him to the store and he's a freaking helpful kid we won't explain the causes he's a forgetful kid so the mother wants to make sure that um he checks the list and gets the milk in particular so she ties a string on his finger okay right and and then she sends in the score with the list and you hope that works now let's go over to shabbos a fascinating riddle again bradley miller says let's take the the shabbos eating drinking right so that's that's one song [Music] compare it to ms morsher leo meshabas that we recite right what has more to do with shabbos or mismo shirley on the shabbos if you are honest unless you've thought about this deeply if you're honest the only mention of shabbos is the first line miss shirley omishabus right yomze mahubad is filled with shabba shabba shabbas khabib shabbat shabbas et cetera et cetera so robin moore says guess what ms moore shirley omishabus is more focused on chavez than the other so let's go back to the boy the boy has a string on his finger it's supposed to rhyme to look at the list and get the milk okay so the boy knows that this string is very important right because if he doesn't have the string on his finger he's going to forget everything so he's a folk you go on the string string he goes in the store and comes back he forgot the milk why because he was like the whole times focusing on the string but not what the string was pointing towards okay what's the nimshaw was the message here yongsan is saying honor the shabbos would drink enjoy and shabbos is important right but it's not telling you the essence of shabbos why shabbos is important for that you need to go to miss morshir leo mahashavas right because there it's saying it's good to thank hashem and rejoice in the creation in other words the the the miss marshall of shabbos the whole first section is about what shabbos is about that's what you should be focusing on that's what you should be chewing on when you're chewing on the food is the mice abrasions that the world came into creation from no nothing now who who were exemplars and having such a type of shabbos guess who avraham and yitzhak okay in the minha prayer on shabbos we say avraham ya gal yitzhak your name right talking about shabbos it says abraham would rejoice gila arena gila he would ya gail he rejoiced and yitzhak your name he would sing joyfully about the mice braces about shabbos you hear they were in a state of ecstasy because hashem created the world yeshma island right the mice abrasions the creation is beyond deep and beyond wise and beautiful and amazing and kind we could have so much to make us if we focus on mice braces right celebrating so if you will and this is where i'm gonna uh close right now the way to the step number one to avoid the pitfall of self-focus with onak shabbos step number one is to focus on hashem and what he did to celebrate if you will to show celebrate the ultimate accomplishment a sims accomplishment of creating the world and creating this such a magnificent place for us right you know i was thinking of like a muscle for us too is um and it fits really well with the gracious rabba um you know that the gracious rabba talks about shakianu about a person who built a home he built a lavish home and then he makes a shakiano what's the lavish home the mice are gracious right so you know after uh many years on building making a building right or like a beautiful building uh or a home whatever so you have a hanukkah tobias or you have a dinner right you have a banquet and a dinner right this dinner banquet right so what are you doing you're you're in the dinner banquet you're honoring the one who let's say made this building possible right so that's what we're doing that's that's real owning child is you're delighting in the shabbos in the mice abrasives right it's a dinner banquet for hashem he's the guest you really want to pay attention to at the table okay so that's step number one in dealing with the easy mitzvah because it's pleasurable right so just one more review and we'll stop we have five minutes just to discuss if you'd like but um again mitzvahs that are easy should be done with joy and enthusiasm and kavanaugh for the mitzvah itself and for serving hashem phase one phase two misses that are easy have their pitfalls and we therefore have to figure out what are we going to do about it so when it comes for you example spherus omer right you could just make you could just say the blessing quickly and count and you're done but that's doing it with mindlessness that's practicing mindlessness so here so you think and feel into the mitzvah by learning more about it here by owning shabbos the problem is being coming intoxicated with yourself and the and the and the food et cetera so the way out of that is to to to to broaden this and say hey owning shabbos i'm i'm i'm doing this to celebrate hashem's accomplishment i have two other strategies that will come next time okay let me just uh stop share uh okay have i stopped sharing rabbi michael yes yeah yeah okay great okay so uh so um that's it for now i just want to encourage people uh any questions about either spherus homer or onex how do we relate to the cut scope is i mean like we shouldn't even attempt at them i mean obviously i don't know no no okay no i wouldn't want to say that he was uh yeah so i think he was being at you look he was teaching in my this is my humble opinion okay he was teaching that let's be honest you know the the first step uh the first step is to get a kind of be honest about where we're holding right so if we say covered shovels mechanically but we're really just lavishing our taste buds we have to realize that's what we're starting but but for sure i'm sure that he would say that and then my humble opinion i'm sure he would shoot his kavanagh to the heavens you know but he wanted to teach the talmud that's my humble opinion you hear it so we just be honest but but rabbi michael if we really make a commitment right you know i like yaakov dickman's thing of he he printed out a modeni and he puts it by his bed you know parrots wrote in his sitter you know shaol teaches people the idea so what i'm saying is if we make a commitment and we know what where we're holding originally but let's i would be delighted for you all to tell me that you either you said to hashem uh you know hashem i can't believe this is a mitzvah boom that's that's like really do you hear what i'm saying rabbit michael i think we can do it i do i do have it thanks okay rabbi wait pray yes so i i love the idea of shabbos as a sort of a banquet of tribute to hashem right as you said that you know some so often banquets are fundraisers and and and i'm thinking that you know we're really raising funds for ourselves we're making money right beautiful but but but you know don't don't you're not supposed to you know right we're so how do we balance that okay okay beautiful yeah i mean first of all well i think we should take charles insight and say like this you know most fundraiser right rising banquets are fundraising for the the place right uh for the person who they're honoring et cetera yet so here hashem is uh has a bank banquet and he's really raising funds for us that's incredible so let me ask anybody can answer what mitzvah when you think about that what mitzvah can you fulfill when you think about that point perhaps i think you can love you can love hashem for giving you the incredible benefit of you know exactly and praising him you're you know it's like you know it's like you know you know i thank you no i thank you i thank you i thank you right exactly exactly exactly right isn't it incredible we're making we're celebrating and we're the ones going to get all the the raise the million dollars yeah it's it's beautiful and by the way but um it's also an act of years hashem to appreciate and opposition to appreciate hashem gives us reward we don't have to be self-centered about it very good how spirits are over going with people uh let me just tell you a story uh you know that beautiful uh poster and the artist uh approved us sharing it so we made a hebrew version uh and i put it in the elevator of our apartment building and uh so the uh i've had three people in a row ask me the same question which was the the surprise in the class last week which is um we understand zechariah mgdosh right that that serious humor is yearning for the mig dash we understand this uh mom at harcina according to the savior but how is it so it was beautiful i got the schmooze with the uh with the neighbors but uh but okay so try to keep that going a bit uh i'm gonna try to also send you some physics for the key serious omer is going for a few more weeks right um but now we have you owning shabbos on the table and again if anybody has suggestions of how we can make sure we carl uh tishler brought this up you know we need to work on strategies to um to remind ourselves in the moment of these precious uh mitzvahs right so and i'm gonna believe they're trying to send some error shots i would love for people to send send their reminders rabbi michael you can have a picture of your putting your watch on the other on the other wrist okay everybody uh thanks very much for attending okay [Music] beautiful thank you welcome welcome sure [Music] oh