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Why Exactly Did Yosef Not Tell His Father He Was Alive ?
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[clears throat] Let's ask the proverbial
para elephant in the room.
[clears throat]
Why exactly did Yseph not tell his
father he was alive years before he
eventually did? He knew Yakob was in
immense pain. He knew his father was
probably mourning him. Why did he not
spare him that anguish? Simple question,
right? Let's ask another obvious
question. How could the brothers have
been so remarkably evil to attempt to
murder their own brother? I mean, who
does that? If the Gammorus says a
regular Sanhedrin would barely kill
someone once every 70 years because they
would leave no stone unturned and
finding a sus for the defendant,
shouldn't the brothers do the same
thing? Why are they just jumping up and
killing him? I don't care what Y did to
them. Who kills their own brother? These
are theatim that we're to look up to.
These are the embodiment of the Aos.
These are the tribes that we admire,
brother murderers.
There's obviously something that we're
missing. There's obviously more to the
story. But what? So far gives the
following much needed breath of clarity.
The brothers knew full well that they
were not a mere family of 12. They knew
good and well that they were not just
some small group that happens to be kind
and caring in a world that's not what we
would call the nice family on the block.
The brothers were well aware that they
were to become the eventual leaders of a
nation that would carry the torch of
morality for the rest of the planet.
They knew their grandfather was told to
become an avon. They knew that they were
to become the heads of a nation that
would introduce the go the godly
concepts of spirituality to mankind.
They were well aware of the sacred
mission that they were embarking on.
And therefore, precisely because they
were well aware of that, when Ysef began
demonstrating signs that he was leaning
towards kingship, when he began claiming
that he was to become a king over the
rest of them, when he began slowly
showing signs that he favored what's
called monarchism, the brothers viewed
it as more than just an annoying little
brother hoping to one day be a royal
king. The brothers viewed Ysef's claims
as a potential destroyer of the nation
of spirituality that they were tasked
with cultivating. The brothers viewed
monarchy in its ancient form as being
diametrically opposed to the nation the
brothers were hoping to start.
Monarchism, which basically shuns
spiritual greatness of the individual
and cares only about the leadership of
the king, is in direct contrast with
Judaism, which is entirely about the
spiritual potential of the individual.
The brothers knew that Yiddish is unique
in the sense that we are all part of
aim,
a holy and royal nation. We can all
climb to be on the level of a ni or a
kahim or a sage or a god. There's no one
individual who greatness is reserved
for. The brothers felt that if kingship
is what y was promulgating, he is a
threat to the future of the entire
Jewish people. He is a threat to the
spiritual growth of the future nation
that they're trying to start. If he
wants monarchism, then he has to go.
True, it was painful. Of course, it was
heart-wrenching. was a heart,
heart-wrenching decision, but it was a
decision out of true love and a
steadfast commitment to the mission that
they were on. And Yseph knew the
brothers felt this way. And therefore,
Yseph knew that if he sent word to Yakov
and to the brothers that he was not only
alive in Egypt, but he was second in
command to the mighty Pyro and
effectively the king of Egypt, he would
only be reinforcing his brother's old
claims. He knew that granted he would
relieve YaKob of the pain that he was
feeling for losing a son, but it would
only cause him to lose 10 other sons.
For if the brothers found out that Yseph
was in fact a king in Egypt, their
suspicions and fears they had years ago
would have only been validated. And off
they would march to start the nation
somewhere else. So Yseph decided to
wait. He decided to wait until the
perfect time to show the brothers that
they were making a mistake. to show
their brothers that true, the 12 of them
are set to become the flag bearers of
our nation. One that puts immense
emphasis on the potential of the
individual. But nevertheless, a king
doesn't have to be a contradiction to
that. A leader, if acting correctly, can
be a source of immense encouragement to
the masses. He can breathe hope and life
into the individual. He can serve as a
role model for the common people to
reflect. True, a king can push down, but
he can also rise up. A king done right
can be the ultimate catalyst for the
growth of the individual. Some religions
have leaders who take all the
responsibilities and power. Some
religions have leaders who take none of
it, no responsibilities. Judaism is a
unique blend of both. Yes, we have
leaders and we have Rabban, we have
kings and we have Naveim and we have
shim. But their mission is not to bear
the spiritual burden of the community.
Rather, their mission is to ensure that
each and every member of our community
is forever climbing that holy ladder
towards greatness. Forever climbing that
ladder towards spiritual heights.
Forever climbing the ladder that the 12
holy brothers erected for all of us.
Listen to this story. In the early years
of the state of Israel, there was a
Moshave that was half observant and half
non-observant. And when it came time to
build a school, it was decided that
there were simply not enough kids to
have two separate schools. But being
that each side had drastically different
outlooks on what exactly Jewish
education should look like, there was a
great debate as to which side should
have the leadership of the school. And
they came to a middle ground that one
side would pick the principal and the
other side would pick the teachers. And
the religious side was not sure which
side to take. Like most major questions
of those days, they went to the
undisputed gul of the land at the time,
the Kazunish, and they asked him if it's
better to have a religious principle
with irreligious teachers or religious
teachers and a non-religious principle.
And what he told them actually surprised
them a lot. He said, "Not only can the
non-observant have the principal, it
barely makes a difference who the
teachers are as long as the kids see on
the walls lined of the school from top
to bottom pictures of GD put their
pictures everywhere. No space should be
left empty. Merely looking at these
great men, our leaders on the wall
should instill in them the awe and the
aura our great nation exudes. That's
what our leaders are meant to do, to
inspire us and expand us and show us the
path we're all meant to walk down.
Here's another story. Arya Lavine would
famously visit Jewish prisoners in the
local Jerusalem jail every Shabas. One
Friday night, he went to the front gate
of the prison and asked the guards to
let him in. But an Arab guard looked at
Rabbi Lavine and said, "Sorry, but the
prison is in lockdown now and you can't
come in." and the slightly more
level-headed British guard sitting next
to the Arab guard. He turns to the Arab
guard and he says, "Don't worry about
him. He volunteers at this jail all the
time. You can let him in." But the Arab
says, "No, he doesn't volunteer. He
probably gets paid to come here. I am
not letting him in." And in the
meantime, while the two of them were
arguing, Ariel Lavine walked to the gate
of the prison and began climbing over
the gate. the Arab guard just standing
there in complete shock and disbelief.
He looked at him and he turned to the
British guard and he said, "Okay, all
right. I'll let him in." Anyone who's
breaking into prison to visit prisoners,
he must be a pretty good guy. That is a
Jewish leader. Selfless, humble, ready
to do whatever it takes to ensure that
each and every Yid could be the greatest
servant of Hashem. That's what the
leaders of the Jewish people are meant
to do. Our leaders are our inspiration
to become better. They allow us to see
ourselves. They allow us to grow
ourselves. They gently prod us to be the
best version of us. We look up to them
to remind ourselves that in Yiddish, the
sky is the limit and our job is to keep
climbing that ladder.
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