Ki Seitze - Great Goals

you're listening to the weekly partial podcast with Ari Gold wag recorded with a gems never-ending assistance in Rome efficient wishes rel 57 79 2019 this week's harshest fighters keeps 8se and at the beginning of our parsha we have the concept of the Ben Sira Amira the son the boy who's between the age of 13 and 13 and a half who has turned away from the advice and the guidance of his parents he's turned away from the Taira his focus is on getting more and more fat and food food that makes him fat as elavil saving he's focused on wine getting drunk and he's headed in a terrible direction natera tells us that and the conditions in order for them to be met according to an opinion in the Gemara there never was such an actual case but the concept is so deeply important that this person who was headed in a terrible direction he was neither an i'll shame safe we know where he's gonna go we know where he's going to end up the tire says that such a person is put to death it's very difficult concept to understand even if it never happened we still need to understand what is the idea what is the tire trying to teach us with this concept and climb Freelander as I may have mentioned in the past that each page takes about five minutes on the partial podcast and I like to keep them to about 20 to 25 minutes that's my goal usually and so this is an 8 page piece that would take about 40 minutes so I'm not gonna read the whole piece but I will focus on the second part of the piece the last four pages the first four pages I'll just sum up quickly has to do with the pen sir Amira what is the idea you know I'll shame Sophie it seems unfair he's a child he's not I haven't mitzvahs yet or he just became kind of a mitzvahs why is he judged that thing's gonna be terrible what's the idea was the concept and he lays down bends based on the idea of urban Tesco levenshtein the mush yak is that Sal so the system explains what I'm Friedlander says that the idea is that where a person is headed the focus of a person the direction of a person depending on what the person has in mind depending on what the ultimate goal of the person is that's where he's going to go now if a person has a Shifa has a desire for Kadesh MTU be holy unto a Shem be exalted come close to Hashem a physician like a loving a Shem serving a sham if those are the desires of a person so then that's where that person is going to get to because we're our ultimate goal we have sometimes subconsciously we have a goal we know where we want to be we know what it is that we really want for ourselves and for our lives and first for our families for children where ever we are headed wherever our ultimate goal is is where we are going to end up and the been Sarah Myra he has a terrible negative goal his the negative goal is to only be involved in this world he's headed for disaster why because he doesn't listen to his parents he doesn't listen to their guidance he's interested in food and getting drunk and we see where he's going to go okay and therefore the Tyrus says this type of person his goals are completely out of the business out of business and he said it for a bad place and therefore we we nip it in the bud okay that's the concept okay again it's important to understand that this is a concept we aren't we're to learn from because as our cause I'll say it never actually occurred so but it's in in theory we need to understand the theory of it and see how we can apply to us and in quiz summary tesco Levenstein and he brings it around to the positive and it's especially incumbent upon us understand this now in the time of L we're leading up Rosh Hashanah is just two and a two weeks in a bit away so what is the idea of chuva what is the idea of repentance the idea of chuva means returning where are we headed where do we want to go what are our goals what our sheaf is what are our aspirations in life so that's what I like to read to you here we go you say the near gummy the result we see this idea from the words our sages harab harab aina haina Kosovan Shar cuvees the Romanian writes hey Doc yeah - Eliana snips remittances assay we find that the very greatest levels that a person can attain that a person is to strive for they're given over in positive commandments can my malice obihiro the positive attribute of choosing of being able to choose what's right shanem our cars a behind choose life well the psyche Ducie all of these are given over in positive Commandments be holy skadoosh stimulation the verse tells us in Viagra you should be holy you shall you shall make yourselves holy should we call you - Aveda the concept of serving Hashem Chimere it says in Deuteronomy chapter 10 verse 20 oh you say to avoid you shall serve him I'll say yireh the exalted level of fear of Hashem she never saw Shana cafeteria a shame your God shall fear Allah Sava the great attribute of loving a sham should never ever have this is Shana Kevin well assertive a coup is such attaching ourselves to Hashem she never bites it back the Colossus Mahina comedies every one of these has different levels within them carries bourbon sauce of Shem remain o Yanna explains Barbara has a liver ah Adam it was for these advantages these positive attributes these things that a person should strive for that a person was created Shanna mer as a verse says in Isaiah chapter 43 verse 7 Conakry wish me luck ye be receive everything which is calling my name was created for my honor meticulous I never what is the hope of the creation of my awesome alone after a big risk with varnish never baba forum what's the point of the existence if I'm not trying to do that which the world was created for the world was created in order for man to give honor to Shem to give honor to God to serve him to fear him to love him to do all of these things okay that's the end of the quote of revenue Jana robinia a nice to me - el young serve anyone is telling us these exalted levels that we're supposed to strive for I'm andreas give a solution there very high levels in serving a sham a linear model is a document says are saying and at the same time he quantifies and tells us that these are positive Commandments she was working in her item for which man was created in Cana Clara Hara Haim lyric we gather Milo cellulitis so we need to understand they're not just exalted levels and I'm colada masher who each person wherever they are has an obligation to strive for them right has an obligation not just a strive for them to reach these levels beer America rally mushiya economic leverage teens it's all the mesh yeah could have leveraged and explained as he's being quoted here about by this lipstick I'm Milo Seon is a Lou hey missus a say she never saw the most shows like Yale Melissa you miss a mo just like we said in regards in the opposite extreme to the been Sarah Myra who he has great Shiva she has great desires and we see where he's headed we see that he's headed toward destruction toward over be overly being involved in this world right so on the other extreme that's what Hashem wants us to do she wants us to have a desire and aspiration for these great exalted levels shall you a marauder - a domain amla fear quadric Ghazi shape of work Cain never autumn don't say a person shouldn't say I'm not holding by that level I can't reach that level no this is what you were created for Elam - Selena sale Hema Hema matara a laser cutter idea these are the levels that a person needs to strive for person needs to reach while aiming circle Shatila achieve about keep'em a couple of nights of every action person takes needs to be bound by the thought how am i how is this advancing my goal which is to reach these high levels of service of a Shem Ashley Ashley Ashley fovea desolate era who yeah caecus matara somebody who has the aspiration knows where he's headed knows what his goal is that's who will reach the goal well I ain't a chef like Gilliam and Sally honest a loo person doesn't have this desire doesn't have this Shifa so he's not gonna reach these levels already nice Eric eibar now fool he is traveling in the opposite direction vomit Arlen Legia the person will not reach the goal that he desires that he strives for he brings this brings to us very important thing we find their own column Isuzu Shara and actually not read this inside i'ma still show me the very beginning of safer so he talks about these very high levels he talks about the level of casitas which means righteousness goodness force the level of raha kadish talks about the level of kedusha of holiness of cleaving to Hashem and that's what he speaks about at the very beginning of the book but now if you look all the way at the end of the book of mr. Sharma which has which you know he goes through an entire process of reaching to these high levels he again speaks about the very thing that he spoke about at the beginning which is cleaving to Hashem I see this being on a high level of righteousness so what is the idea it explains i'm Friedlander why doesn't mr. Sharma start talking about the beginning how am I suppose you know that's a very high level why is he talking about at the very beginning the idea is that if you want to get to that level if you want to reach a level of kedusha of holiness we want to reach a level of greatness if you want to reach a level of connecting and feeling close to others your Oracle to God you're not there yet right it takes time it's a whole lifetime of work but you got to know from the beginning where you want to go you got to know where where you're headed you got to know what your goal is without that you can never get to the goal and you pointed out earlier in the piece that the the Rambam says that the the Ben Sarah Myra this child who has rebelled against his parents as if rebelled against the Taira he's missing level of condition - he's not a holy person he's missing these very exalted levels but but he asks what do you mean but how can you expect the thirteen-year-old kid to be on these exalted levels he says no we don't need him to be on that level but we wanted to have that Shifa we the Jew as he becomes 13 a Jew enters into a covenant with Hashem he needs to have that she eva even if he's not actually up to that yet a person needs to have that goal you can't get there without that desire and he continues and he says like this because i'll dei plus with julius well i'd have shown amazing thing the tire tells us it's a verse in hosea chapter 14 verse 2 he says return o Israel all the way until a Shem return to a shem gadol a Jewish from a gas that keeps a cover Crizal tell us that when you do Tuva when you repent when you come back to God you get all the way to His divine throne get all the way to the highest highest levels in the heavens that's really so like yeah the dargah baby turkeys are covered the Pacific is saying we turn to mush em get back to the highest-level get back to the throne of ash rims glory just what's going on it's a funny thing you're telling the person who's down in the dumps on the lowest levels you're telling that person that they should return to the highest highest level how can you say such a thing because mo whose keys say I covered you've enough you desire we can understand what is the idea of the throne of his glory what is that what is the concept so it says in the desire on the shaman's Gazoo it's a tax keys you have an amazing thing where is the root of the soul of every single Jew the root of the souls is in a throne of Hashem glory no show mercy Strela hey my buddy buddy it's miss Kazue kabocha mine what is the throne of a sham made out of what is the what are the building blocks of the throne it's the souls of the Jewish people what does the idea what is the concept are you they tough kid I even tell kamioka Trickle Anthony so of it is a shrimp shall I leave Nicosia covered when a person fulfills his unique potential he's unique purpose why I shall place them in this world that's what creates the throne of Hashem glory the zel goodell a Jewish my guys like you said covered this is what it means what his idea of repentance brings a person back to the throne of Hashem glory till America that shall prove a logical solution on the core sure sure looking a Beneke state covered the concept of chuva kinds of repentance is that a person returns to the root to being a throne of a Shem during a place Russia manifests in the world by fulfilling his complete completely fulfilling the purpose for which he was placed in this world loggias Alsea Schley moose of Emilia tough kita I reckon you been in QC curvature mine by reaching to the highest level through Trooper person can reach to the ultimate level of Revelation of a Shem in this world by fulfilling one's tough kid fulfilling ones purpose why shouldn't place in this world it's our Clavin we need to understand but do whatever may have lied to me had I consciously avoided such oeuvre Hashem is speaking to a sinner he sang Shiva is Rob return o Israel you are sinning return to Hashem remorse - I'm saying again see Ashley Mose he's a sham is saying to the person who is in the lowest lowest level come back to the highest level at honest show like a 30 second come back to a Shem to the throne of a shams glory Shiva teens as hell committee been in Caesarea mine because chuhwa brings a person back to the human beings true reason for being in this world which is being a throne for a sham all right coz Leclaire of choice rock efficacy lascivious Achuar her where we could talk about this a person has already begun did you come back give me a throne Hashem so I wish let me alia when a person is on the way up already I was at fear he'll I'm she has at the slimmest then we can see them continue and continue until you get to the highest level you see a covered to throw my shams glory what's the idea here the person is on the lowest lowest of your talking at him about the highest level how can you he's you know you're jumping too many steps so he says just just beautiful period varm what is the idea you say to chuhwa what is the foundation of the concept of chief of repentance that's la casa he Rakesh Rishi forget about here cetera it's only when a person has a true aspiration at the very beginning of the path this hot juice is Karva solution to renew himself come close for Shimla Gilles Seabiscuit Ashley mousse where do I want to be I know I'm not there right now but where do I want to be I want to be on that highest level I want to be the vehicle the throne that Hashem sits on in order to manifest in this world the curve Cephas Oh F Sheila Haskell is Dara chuhwa and through this aspiration is possible to start the path of chuva leave Azaria Vader said she will eat its lock if if a person doesn't have this desire the tuber won't work this is an amazing thing just so beautiful Kakashi achieve an escape of a Kazakh boys Amelia slick like dealership my sexual action was she Foster a person has to know from the beginning where he wants to get to without that he won't get there inside a hundred Sodom a statue of a hawk I thought let's think about it let's talk about a person who is trying to be better okay he wants to with all this kind of he wants to be better Michonne is dogma Chavez myself he changes his ways he makes his ways better in my society does this thing better that thing better me either Robin I fellas Kalka observer many times a person experiences disappointment Kasserine and I might still I might be missing mission about it's a tuba he doesn't experience success in his chew myeeeeh falls he does something wrong he's like ah that's it I was trying to be better he loses it right I see Machado you know it's Lea clematis teshuva why does a person not succeed when he's trying to do chuhwa listen to this amazing Estonia sashimi tequila's dr. Kucera has she feel like ELC Ashley moose who motionless hasn't even seen a my sanity is a co Coulomb if a person does not what what's the goal of the person if the person's goal is to try to be better don't try and change that's not gonna get him there because as soon as he doesn't change he feels like he's failed that's the end of him if a person is trying to to reach back to the key see I covered that's his goal so then he understands it if I fell that's part of the path no no it's perfect but my goal is to get all the way to the top my ball goal is not to not to change this action to change the action my goal is to be a great person I know that takes time I know that's all there's all tallied there's a whole it takes a there there's all these different things I need to be done along the way we stock started with our installation about jouvert person hasn't decided they want to be about jouvert they want to be changed they want to get back up to their highest level the shots the leave of the hoggish Acala the Ottoman Chinese Yi a la me myself he realized that it's it's not so easy to change each of these different actions yeah semester lashon's is called Yaakov it's not the same it's not the same when I decide I want to change myself completely I want to be a different person I see myself differently I have a different vision for myself that's a completely different approach then I want to change this thing I want to change that thing no I see myself as its addict I can picture myself I look in the mirror and I don't see its addict but I can picture in my mind's eye the great person that I want to be it involves this involves that I see that picture that whole picture right that's a different type of chuva that's a different type of repentance and I'm not again I'm not it's important to understand I'm not saying you need to jump to that level but to have that vision of greatness you call Binion how I Madiba nice just like any time person is building a building certain Irish man Mossad that's focus you need to have preparations you need to have a plan from the base till all the way to the top yeah shall I steal Baha fierce acellular tickler Carmel Jana you cannot build a foundation of a building if you haven't figured out how tall the building is going to be if you don't know if you don't have the plans camera truth circle issue if mere Adil Shah Makaha suits when it comes to repentance you need to start off from the beginning with a desire to reach all the way to the top to reach all the way to that place what am I doing here in this world I am trying to be a place where a sham manifests that's my goal I'm a - a talk nice by matara methi last dare hachoo relation she forces Rica like yeah the person doesn't have that goal in sight doesn't have a clear where he wants to get to from the beginning but it's not sure I'm sure it's Rach I'm sorry I rely on who know your gear you won't get there and he's not trying to get there ivory statue of choice rocky meet us at Earth Day she fo solution II I rock him the only way a person can get there is if his desire is his goal is to change his values like ELC Ashley Mistura to the highest level of spiritual greatness another it's time machine mi samovar not just its not for me to change a thing here I think there no I want to be a different person reprisal mean of exits ow he calls from the author of maverick who said him she'll say I don't know saber okay I said it says an amazing muscle for us on the scene this idea persons honored on a train and he says we keep in half of me I'm a too rustic he's on the train is going the wrong way the Train is going he wants to get to - you shall I'm and that the Train is going to Tel Aviv she may employ she would circle Shannon says keep on around campus someone said to him he's you know someone hears and talked on the phone he said yeah my mommy - shall I'm still random here is like this is the train to Tel Aviv so so they say they may if you want to get to - Sean line you're on you're on the wrong train you're going the wrong way you're going the wrong way who makes the best part of viewership is suck this Apollo me mother she's all going the wrong way so he gets up and he turns and he sits on the chair that's going that's facing the other direction should put him a Cubano Malcolm ketsu now he's facing the right way right I still the yellow clunky left like it's lacking out if he's facing the right way he's never gonna get there gamma stopping but very so qu ver also somebody who's unsure when it comes to cut to doing chuhwa rock piscina myosin it's in I'm sorry nice I'm sure it's enough friend to just change a thing here change this thing their little mother Cuba luckily I don't know like even enough and all he's done is turn around and he says still sitting on the same train going the same wrong direction he's just sat facing the other way we should circle a taste Marrakech the first thing you need to do is get off the train get off the train is heading to Tel Aviv get on the train that's going the other direction Lashon s is Kevon Iraqi meter she phone is gala DLC Ashley Moser meters in order to change his direction to change his values in order to have a much higher desire to reach to the greatest levels of true perfection of true spiritual greatness that's what a person has to do so now the wrap up here is like this I'll other my videos have tribulus topic machine and my sunshine struck my - oh yeah her it's not enough to try to change a thing here thing there raesha surveillance at you would swiftly as me Tasha Nia Rock'em Sheena Shiva like said person needs to change his values change what it is that he's focused on where he's going where does he want to be Makkah she fell hobble elements instead of desiring like the Ben Sarah Myra instead of desiring just the emptiness of this world toys she for like jealousy Ashley Mo's person needs to have what do I want in life what is it that my goal is I want to reach great spiritual levels the Chev the goddess of Cal Cal gave it as Hashem to reach and aspire to greatness in all the different areas of serving as Shem goddess Patera been great and learning goddess pittsfield being great in prayer Kalispell Vitus Hashem being great in my service of Hashem Lily stop even more it's not enough to have a small amount circle yes rafting we should have done she needs to be hungry he needs to want so much when it comes to spirituality show the meal at Suvla me Cathy Lamott choice gobias person needs to set themselves himself very high level high goals she's a new chef like me that's where I want to get to Johnny idea summit are like a condom chef like yeah one person knows where he wants to get to usually I feel lucky let's see a shameless and he has a desire to reach to the highest level also I think even enough and that's when the person is going in the right direction I was young foolish honest is drunk then he can change his path Lally Slava fresh lava of a matter of a she fell she hits a glass why because I said Eric can reach one level after another in order to get to the highest level and he says an important thing and that is that how do I get to that level what's one of the tools that I can use to get there is through Fela it's through my prayer when I ask Hashem he brings to me I'll answer when I ask Hashem in my fila when I say um what do I want your help to be able to get to that higher level in learning I want your help to be able to get to that higher level in my roughness in my in my service of us Shem and my facet in my kindness to others I want your help of Shem that's what a person is focused on the things that a person asks for in his Fela in his prayers that's where he really is the thing that a person's goals are when a person States those goals it's an amazing and powerful way when I express that first of all I'm asking a chef for help and I get divine assistance second of all I'm expressing for myself a recognition of what I want to be important in my life to the extent that I expressed that it becomes real to me the more that I say it the more really becomes if I'm talking if I'm asking a shamisen please give me a looking session please help me learn your Terra sham please help me be a kind person to others a sham please help me be be involved in whatever way that I can in your service so then it becomes real it becomes greater it becomes it only gets gets higher and higher so I want to bless you and ask you to bless me a sham should help us to be able to change our goals or to to focus on what our true goals really should be and make those our real goals if some should help us to be able to pray to ask him to help us in those goals if some should help us to go higher and higher in our service I wash em every single day thank you so much for listening a wonderful Shabbos this podcast was made possible through the gracious donations of listeners like you for more podcasts like this please visit www.carmensognonvi.com/newsletter [Music]