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Ki Seitze - Great Goals
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Why is the situation of the ben sorer umoreh so problematic? Why is he 'judged now for his ultimate end?' What is the concept of Teshuva-return? What is the difference between making change and having a vision? What does it mean to 'return to Hashem' - 'return to His throne?' Find out in this week's Parsha Podcast.
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you're listening to the weekly partial
podcast with Ari Gold wag recorded with
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efficient wishes rel 57 79 2019
this week's harshest fighters keeps 8se
and at the beginning of our parsha we
have the concept of the Ben Sira
Amira the son the boy who's between the
age of 13 and 13 and a half who has
turned away from the advice and the
guidance of his parents he's turned away
from the Taira his focus is on getting
more and more fat and food food that
makes him fat as elavil saving he's
focused on wine getting drunk and he's
headed in a terrible direction natera
tells us that and the conditions in
order for them to be met according to an
opinion in the Gemara there never was
such an actual case but the concept is
so deeply important that this person who
was headed in a terrible direction he
was neither an i'll shame safe we know
where he's gonna go we know where he's
going to end up the tire says that such
a person is put to death it's very
difficult concept to understand even if
it never happened we still need to
understand what is the idea what is the
tire trying to teach us with this
concept and climb Freelander as I may
have mentioned in the past that each
page takes about five minutes on the
partial podcast and I like to keep them
to about 20 to 25 minutes that's my goal
usually and so this is an 8 page piece
that would take about 40 minutes so I'm
not gonna read the whole piece but I
will focus on the second part of the
piece the last four pages the first four
pages I'll just sum up quickly has to do
with the pen sir Amira what is the idea
you know
I'll shame Sophie it seems unfair he's a
child he's not
I haven't mitzvahs yet or he just became
kind of a mitzvahs why is he judged that
thing's gonna be terrible what's the
idea was the concept and he lays down
bends based on the idea of urban Tesco
levenshtein the mush yak is that Sal so
the system explains what I'm Friedlander
says that the idea is that
where a person is headed the focus of a
person the direction of a person
depending on what the person has in mind
depending on what the ultimate goal of
the person is that's where he's going to
go now if a person has a Shifa has a
desire for Kadesh MTU be holy unto a
Shem be exalted come close to Hashem a
physician like a loving a Shem serving a
sham if those are the desires of a
person so then that's where that person
is going to get to because we're our
ultimate goal we have sometimes
subconsciously we have a goal we know
where we want to be we know what it is
that we really want for ourselves and
for our lives and first for our families
for children where ever we are headed
wherever our ultimate goal is is where
we are going to end up and the been
Sarah Myra he has a terrible negative
goal his the negative goal is to only be
involved in this world he's headed for
disaster why because he doesn't listen
to his parents he doesn't listen to
their guidance he's interested in food
and getting drunk and we see where he's
going to go okay and therefore the Tyrus
says this type of person his goals are
completely out of the business out of
business and he said it for a bad place
and therefore we we nip it in the bud
okay that's the concept okay again it's
important to understand that this is a
concept we aren't we're to learn from
because as our cause I'll say it never
actually occurred so but it's in in
theory we need to understand the theory
of it and see how we can apply to us and
in quiz summary tesco Levenstein and he
brings it around to the positive and
it's especially incumbent upon us
understand this now in the time of L
we're leading up Rosh Hashanah is just
two and a two weeks in a bit away so
what is the idea of chuva what is the
idea of repentance the idea of chuva
means returning where are we headed
where do we want to go what are our
goals what our sheaf is what are our
aspirations in life so that's what I
like to read to you
here we go you say the near gummy the
result we see this idea from the words
our sages harab harab aina haina
Kosovan Shar cuvees the Romanian writes
hey Doc yeah - Eliana snips remittances
assay we find that the very greatest
levels that a person can attain that a
person is to strive for they're given
over in positive commandments can my
malice obihiro the positive attribute of
choosing of being able to choose what's
right shanem our cars a behind choose
life
well the psyche Ducie all of these are
given over in positive Commandments be
holy
skadoosh stimulation the verse tells us
in Viagra you should be holy you shall
you shall make yourselves holy should we
call you - Aveda the concept of serving
Hashem
Chimere it says in Deuteronomy chapter
10 verse 20 oh you say to avoid you
shall serve him I'll say yireh the
exalted level of fear of Hashem she
never saw Shana cafeteria a shame your
God shall fear Allah Sava the great
attribute of loving a sham should never
ever have this is Shana Kevin well
assertive a coup is such attaching
ourselves to Hashem she never bites it
back
the Colossus Mahina comedies every one
of these has different levels within
them carries bourbon sauce of Shem
remain o Yanna explains Barbara has a
liver ah Adam it was for these
advantages these positive attributes
these things that a person should strive
for that a person was created Shanna mer
as a verse says in Isaiah chapter 43
verse 7 Conakry wish me luck ye be
receive everything which is calling my
name was created for my honor meticulous
I never what is the hope of the creation
of my awesome alone after a big risk
with varnish never baba forum what's the
point of the existence if I'm not trying
to do that which the world was created
for the world was created in order for
man to give honor to Shem to give honor
to God to serve him to fear him to love
him to do all of these things okay
that's the end of the quote of revenue
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serve anyone is telling us these exalted
levels that we're supposed to strive for
I'm andreas give a solution there very
high levels in serving a sham a linear
model is a document says are saying and
at the same time he quantifies and tells
us that these are positive Commandments
she was working in her item for which
man was created in Cana Clara Hara Haim
lyric we gather Milo cellulitis so we
need to understand they're not just
exalted levels and I'm colada masher who
each person wherever they are has an
obligation to strive for them right has
an obligation not just a strive for them
to reach these levels beer America rally
mushiya economic leverage teens it's all
the mesh yeah could have leveraged and
explained as he's being quoted here
about by this lipstick I'm Milo Seon is
a Lou hey missus a say she never saw the
most shows like Yale Melissa you miss a
mo just like we said in regards in the
opposite extreme to the been Sarah Myra
who he has great Shiva she has great
desires and we see where he's headed
we see that he's headed toward
destruction toward over be overly being
involved in this world right so on the
other extreme
that's what Hashem wants us to do she
wants us to have a desire and aspiration
for these great exalted levels shall you
a marauder - a domain amla fear quadric
Ghazi shape of work Cain never autumn
don't say a person shouldn't say I'm not
holding by that level I can't reach that
level no this is what you were created
for Elam - Selena sale Hema Hema matara
a laser cutter idea these are the levels
that a person needs to strive for person
needs to reach while aiming circle
Shatila achieve about keep'em a couple
of nights of every action person takes
needs to be bound by the thought how am
i how is this advancing my goal which is
to reach these high levels of service of
a Shem Ashley Ashley Ashley fovea
desolate era who yeah caecus matara
somebody who has the aspiration knows
where he's headed
knows what his goal is that's who will
reach the goal well I ain't a chef like
Gilliam and Sally honest a loo person
doesn't have this desire doesn't have
this Shifa so he's not gonna reach these
levels already nice Eric eibar now fool
he is traveling in the opposite
direction
vomit Arlen
Legia the person will not reach the goal
that he desires that he strives for he
brings this brings to us very important
thing we find their own column Isuzu
Shara and actually not read this inside
i'ma still show me the very beginning of
safer so he talks about these very high
levels he talks about the level of
casitas which means righteousness
goodness force the level of raha kadish
talks about the level of kedusha of
holiness of cleaving to Hashem and
that's what he speaks about at the very
beginning of the book but now if you
look all the way at the end of the book
of mr. Sharma which has which you know
he goes through an entire process of
reaching to these high levels he again
speaks about the very thing that he
spoke about at the beginning which is
cleaving to Hashem I see this being on a
high level of righteousness so what is
the idea
it explains i'm Friedlander why doesn't
mr. Sharma start talking about the
beginning how am I suppose you know
that's a very high level
why is he talking about at the very
beginning the idea is that if you want
to get to that level if you want to
reach a level of kedusha of holiness we
want to reach a level of greatness
if you want to reach a level of
connecting and feeling close to others
your Oracle to God you're not there yet
right it takes time it's a whole
lifetime of work but you got to know
from the beginning where you want to go
you got to know where where you're
headed you got to know what your goal is
without that you can never get to the
goal and you pointed out earlier in the
piece that the the Rambam says that the
the Ben Sarah Myra this child who has
rebelled against his parents as if
rebelled against the Taira he's missing
level of condition - he's not a holy
person he's missing these very exalted
levels but but he asks what do you mean
but how can you expect the
thirteen-year-old kid to be on these
exalted levels he says no we don't need
him to be on that level but we wanted to
have that Shifa we the Jew as he becomes
13 a Jew enters into a covenant with
Hashem he needs to have that she eva
even if he's not actually up to that yet
a person needs to have that goal you
can't get there without that desire and
he continues and he says like this
because i'll dei plus with julius well
i'd have shown
amazing thing the tire tells us it's a
verse in hosea chapter 14 verse 2 he
says return o Israel all the way until a
Shem return to a shem gadol a Jewish
from a gas that keeps a cover Crizal
tell us that when you do Tuva when you
repent when you come back to God you get
all the way to His divine throne get all
the way to the highest highest levels in
the heavens that's really so like yeah
the dargah baby turkeys are covered the
Pacific is saying we turn to mush em get
back to the highest-level get back to
the throne of ash rims glory just what's
going on it's a funny thing you're
telling the person who's down in the
dumps on the lowest levels you're
telling that person that they should
return to the highest highest level how
can you say such a thing because mo
whose keys say I covered you've enough
you desire we can understand what is the
idea of the throne of his glory what is
that what is the concept so it says in
the desire on the shaman's Gazoo it's a
tax keys you have an amazing thing where
is the root of the soul of every single
Jew the root of the souls is in a throne
of Hashem glory no show mercy Strela hey
my buddy buddy it's miss Kazue kabocha
mine
what is the throne of a sham made out of
what is the what are the building blocks
of the throne
it's the souls of the Jewish people what
does the idea what is the concept are
you they tough kid I even tell kamioka
Trickle Anthony so of it is a shrimp
shall I leave Nicosia covered when a
person fulfills his unique potential
he's unique purpose why I shall place
them in this world that's what creates
the throne of Hashem glory the zel
goodell a Jewish my guys like you said
covered this is what it means what his
idea of repentance brings a person back
to the throne of Hashem glory till
America that shall prove a logical
solution on the core sure sure looking a
Beneke state covered the concept of
chuva kinds of repentance is that a
person returns to the root to being a
throne of a Shem during a place Russia
manifests in the world by fulfilling his
complete completely fulfilling the
purpose for which he was placed in this
world loggias Alsea Schley moose of
Emilia tough kita I reckon you been in
QC curvature mine by reaching
to the highest level through Trooper
person can reach to the ultimate level
of Revelation of a Shem in this world by
fulfilling one's tough kid fulfilling
ones purpose why shouldn't place in this
world
it's our Clavin we need to understand
but do whatever may have lied to me had
I consciously avoided such oeuvre Hashem
is speaking to a sinner he sang Shiva is
Rob return o Israel you are sinning
return to Hashem remorse - I'm saying
again see Ashley Mose
he's a sham is saying to the person who
is in the lowest lowest level come back
to the highest level at honest show like
a 30 second come back to a Shem to the
throne of a shams glory
Shiva teens as hell committee been in
Caesarea mine because chuhwa brings a
person back to the human beings true
reason for being in this world which is
being a throne for a sham
all right coz Leclaire of choice rock
efficacy lascivious Achuar her where we
could talk about this a person has
already begun did you come back give me
a throne Hashem so I wish let me alia
when a person is on the way up already I
was at fear he'll I'm she has at the
slimmest then we can see them continue
and continue until you get to the
highest level you see a covered to throw
my shams glory what's the idea here the
person is on the lowest lowest of your
talking at him about the highest level
how can you he's you know you're jumping
too many steps so he says just just
beautiful period varm what is the idea
you say to chuhwa what is the foundation
of the concept of chief of repentance
that's la casa he Rakesh Rishi forget
about here cetera it's only when a
person has a true aspiration at the very
beginning of the path this hot juice is
Karva solution to renew himself come
close for Shimla Gilles Seabiscuit
Ashley mousse where do I want to be I
know I'm not there right now but where
do I want to be I want to be on that
highest level I want to be the vehicle
the throne that Hashem sits on in order
to manifest in this world the curve
Cephas Oh F Sheila Haskell is Dara
chuhwa and through this aspiration is
possible to start the path of chuva
leave Azaria Vader said she will eat its
lock if if a person doesn't have this
desire the tuber won't work this is an
amazing thing just so beautiful Kakashi
achieve an escape of a Kazakh boys
Amelia slick like dealership my sexual
action was she Foster
a person has to know from the beginning
where he wants to get to without that he
won't get there inside a hundred Sodom a
statue of a hawk I thought let's think
about it let's talk about a person who
is trying to be better okay
he wants to with all this kind of he
wants to be better Michonne is dogma
Chavez myself he changes his ways he
makes his ways better in my society does
this thing better that thing better me
either
Robin I fellas Kalka observer many times
a person experiences disappointment
Kasserine and I might still I might be
missing mission about it's a tuba he
doesn't experience success in his chew
myeeeeh falls he does something wrong
he's like ah that's it I was trying to
be better he loses it right I see
Machado you know it's Lea clematis
teshuva why does a person not succeed
when he's trying to do chuhwa listen to
this amazing Estonia sashimi tequila's
dr. Kucera has she feel like ELC Ashley
moose who motionless hasn't even seen a
my sanity is a co Coulomb if a person
does not what what's the goal of the
person if the person's goal is to try to
be better don't try and change that's
not gonna get him there because as soon
as he doesn't change he feels like he's
failed that's the end of him if a person
is trying to to reach back to the key
see I covered that's his goal so then he
understands it if I fell that's part of
the path no no it's perfect but my goal
is to get all the way to the top my ball
goal is not to not to change this action
to change the action my goal is to be a
great person I know that takes time I
know that's all there's all tallied
there's a whole it takes a there there's
all these different things I need to be
done along the way we stock started with
our installation about jouvert person
hasn't decided they want to be about
jouvert they want to be changed they
want to get back up to their highest
level the shots the leave of the hoggish
Acala the Ottoman Chinese Yi a la me
myself he
realized that it's it's not so easy to
change each of these different actions
yeah semester lashon's is called Yaakov
it's not the same it's not the same when
I decide I want to change myself
completely I want to be a different
person I see myself differently I have a
different vision for myself that's a
completely different approach then I
want to change this thing I want to
change that thing no I see myself as its
addict I can picture myself I look in
the mirror and I don't see its addict
but I can picture in my mind's eye the
great person that I want to be it
involves this involves that I see that
picture that whole picture right that's
a different type of chuva that's a
different type of repentance and I'm not
again I'm not it's important to
understand I'm not saying you need to
jump to that level but to have that
vision of greatness you call Binion how
I Madiba nice just like any time person
is building a building certain Irish man
Mossad that's focus you need to have
preparations you need to have a plan
from the base till all the way to the
top yeah shall I steal Baha fierce
acellular tickler Carmel Jana you cannot
build a foundation of a building if you
haven't figured out how tall the
building is going to be if you don't
know if you don't have the plans camera
truth circle issue if mere Adil Shah
Makaha suits when it comes to repentance
you need to start off from the beginning
with a desire to reach all the way to
the top to reach all the way to that
place what am I doing here in this world
I am trying to be a place where a sham
manifests that's my goal I'm a - a talk
nice by matara methi last dare hachoo
relation she forces Rica like yeah the
person doesn't have that goal in sight
doesn't have a clear where he wants to
get to from the beginning but it's not
sure I'm sure it's Rach I'm sorry I rely
on who know your gear you won't get
there and he's not trying to get there
ivory statue of choice rocky meet us at
Earth Day she fo solution II I rock him
the only way a person can get there is
if his desire is his goal is to change
his values like ELC Ashley Mistura to
the highest level of spiritual greatness
another it's time machine mi samovar not
just its
not for me to change a thing here I
think there no I want to be a different
person reprisal mean of exits ow he
calls from the author of maverick who
said him she'll say I don't know saber
okay I said it says an amazing muscle
for us on the scene this idea persons
honored on a train and he says we keep
in half of me I'm a too rustic he's on
the train is going the wrong way
the Train is going he wants to get to -
you shall I'm and that the Train is
going to Tel Aviv she may employ she
would circle Shannon says keep on around
campus someone said to him he's you know
someone hears and talked on the phone he
said yeah my mommy - shall I'm still
random here is like this is the train to
Tel Aviv so so they say they may if you
want to get to - Sean line you're on
you're on the wrong train you're going
the wrong way you're going the wrong way
who makes the best part of viewership is
suck this Apollo me mother she's all
going the wrong way so he gets up and he
turns and he sits on the chair that's
going that's facing the other direction
should put him a Cubano Malcolm ketsu
now he's facing the right way right I
still the yellow clunky left like it's
lacking out if he's facing the right way
he's never gonna get there gamma
stopping but very so qu ver also
somebody who's unsure when it comes to
cut to doing chuhwa rock piscina myosin
it's in I'm sorry nice I'm sure it's
enough friend to just change a thing
here change this thing their little
mother Cuba luckily I don't know like
even enough and all he's done is turn
around and he says still sitting on the
same train going the same wrong
direction he's just sat facing the other
way
we should circle a taste Marrakech the
first thing you need to do is get off
the train get off the train is heading
to Tel Aviv
get on the train that's going the other
direction Lashon s is Kevon Iraqi meter
she phone is gala DLC Ashley Moser
meters in order to change his direction
to change his values in order to have a
much higher desire to reach to the
greatest levels of true perfection of
true spiritual greatness that's what a
person has to do so now the wrap up here
is like this I'll other my videos have
tribulus topic machine and my sunshine
struck my - oh yeah her it's not enough
to try to change a thing here thing
there raesha surveillance at you would
swiftly as me Tasha Nia Rock'em Sheena
Shiva like
said person needs to change his values
change what it is that he's focused on
where he's going where does he want to
be Makkah she fell hobble elements
instead of desiring like the Ben Sarah
Myra instead of desiring just the
emptiness of this world toys she for
like jealousy Ashley Mo's person needs
to have what do I want in life what is
it that my goal is I want to reach great
spiritual levels the Chev the goddess of
Cal Cal gave it as Hashem to reach and
aspire to greatness in all the different
areas of serving as Shem goddess Patera
been great and learning goddess
pittsfield being great in prayer
Kalispell Vitus Hashem being great in my
service of Hashem Lily stop even more
it's not enough to have a small amount
circle yes rafting we should have done
she needs to be hungry he needs to want
so much when it comes to spirituality
show the meal at Suvla me Cathy Lamott
choice gobias person needs to set
themselves himself very high level high
goals she's a new chef like me that's
where I want to get to Johnny idea
summit are like a condom chef like yeah
one person knows where he wants to get
to usually I feel lucky let's see a
shameless and he has a desire to reach
to the highest level also I think even
enough and that's when the person is
going in the right direction I was young
foolish honest is drunk then he can
change his path Lally Slava fresh lava
of a matter of a she fell she hits a
glass why because I said Eric can reach
one level after another in order to get
to the highest level and he says an
important thing and that is that how do
I get to that level what's one of the
tools that I can use to get there is
through Fela it's through my prayer when
I ask Hashem he brings to me I'll answer
when I ask Hashem in my fila when I say
um what do I want your help to be able
to get to that higher level in learning
I want your help to be able to get to
that higher level in my roughness in my
in my service of us Shem and my facet in
my kindness to others I want your help
of Shem that's what a person is focused
on the things that a person asks for in
his Fela in his prayers that's where he
really is the thing that a person's
goals are when a person States those
goals it's an amazing and powerful way
when I express that first of all I'm
asking a chef for help and I get divine
assistance
second of all I'm expressing for myself
a recognition
of what I want to be important in my
life to the extent that I expressed that
it becomes real to me the more that I
say it the more really becomes if I'm
talking if I'm asking a shamisen please
give me a looking session please help me
learn your Terra sham please help me be
a kind person to others a sham please
help me be be involved in whatever way
that I can in your service so then it
becomes real it becomes greater it
becomes it only gets gets higher and
higher so I want to bless you and ask
you to bless me a sham should help us to
be able to change our goals or to to
focus on what our true goals really
should be and make those our real goals
if some should help us to be able to
pray to ask him to help us in those
goals if some should help us to go
higher and higher in our service I wash
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