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so hi shalom aleichem to everyone to uh i wish i was with you greetings friends as well i would like to start by humbly saying thank you to everyone for the tillers the darwining the adidas the caring the arva that i got when i had uh the covert 19 at the beginning of the season unfortunately and everyone was dabbling for me i want you to know it meant the world to me the love that flowed through it was uh was just awesome and uh we should all be there for each other you know caring for each other and supporting each other through all our different difficult uh crisis struggles and issues in life anyway a great suggestion i wish i was with you all and um i hope you have a meaningful and uplifting day together with the magnificent magnificent kesha nafshi team and and of course all the physic and help everyone has from abi anyway here's just a quick thought abraham from just a thought it's moti shabbos nakamu [Music] calls out to us through his naveem that we should have the comma the loss of the base of english and we go through this every year year after year nathan will not move [Music] where's the amnesty and the karma where is it coming from how can we meaningfully participate and bring muhammad to our lives so it's not just you know a barbecue and a sing-song but where is the amazigh that should be coming to us all so i had a lot of thoughts about this over sharmas and uh i want to suggest maybe a thought this negates all of us thoughts very much lamasa you know we never find a hazal [Music] it's uh who used to say it's very important that we should breathe all day and every day never saw such a hazard i also never saw such a hazal that said that um kedima aide leshon belila it's very important we should sleep at night [Music] and even more so baker never saw such a hazel telling me to go to sleep at night and get up in the morning maybe we should have one to get up in the morning but i never saw such a hazal no such gazelle as they [Music] because they're telling us the obvious because i'll come along to tell us what's not so obvious and what unfortunately the nature of man wouldn't necessarily naturally do to come out with us so i was thinking over shabbos of two ghazals the very much negative corbin and maybe very much nuget to us in our lives we find hazal altis don't look at the cank on the barrel the the outside alimashwar that actually is contrary to public belief because public belief is we judge everything by the outside every the marketing they say i think madison avenue teaches unfortunately it's all in the uh it's all in the outside in the advertising it's all in the packaging because i'll tell it's not true it's not the packaging at all i recently i bought a bottle of uh i think it was not tylenol something like that it was a bottle i think it had 100 pills or something like a big bottle when i opened up got home it was about a fifth of the bottle had pills the rest was all cotton wool what they needed for like give me a small bottle it fits in my closet better of a a big bottle you know you feel better spending 16 on a big bottle of the truth in advertising it's really a little tiny bottle tiny container pills the nature of men unfortunately so we see this tragically with our children our children you know as they struggle in life so they start changing the externals and we start judging them unfortunately tragically from the school systems to the streets and even ourselves in our own hearts why can't they just stress properly okay you know what you know we we're so struggled with that and we miss it we missed the point on the contrary what we should be seeing on the outside tells us something about the inside of a altistaka bakan khan don't look at the outside look at the panemias look at this struggling the shum on the inside you know when you send the package you want to send a package let's say if a relative lives across the country and you want to send a gift for the anniversary the servants so you package it in a box you put those styrofoam pallets or you put bubble wrap and then you package in the box and you tape it up and you put two and from you take it to the post office and write before you send it you put a label on that box a red label right before you send it fragile handle with care really the outside as we see our children that's a red red sticker you should tell us inside is a very sensitive nishama a paneemius an ashama that has such sensitivity such feeling for life and in their heart of hearts the custard the life force of this person is there the bishop of anemias but we look on the outside we shouldn't look on the outside we have to look i'll just talk we have to look on the inside this is the you see the shalom explains the beautiful madhush by moshe avenue and kurdish brother gave him the task to take clarisol out to mr imagine after 210 years what they look like well they dressed like what they were there what the appearance was emotionally thought they're never going to come the way they look they're never going to come the conspiracy rebukes you see the outside the suffering the pain the disinterest the struggles the hurts you see the outside the ani i see the outside about them but i see the inside i see the premiership name is the coaster the life force i see what's really there on the inside they that's our job don't look on the outside look on the inside see the previous and there's another hazard don't judge a friend till you come to his place what's makaima we take a look at our children can any of us for stay can any of us begin to understand what their place is you know i'm working in the field 32 years now worked with so many families mishpochahs and so many hurt struggling pains children and i can tell you and be made not once have i ever fully understood the pain the mockum the place that child is coming from with all their hurt their unique pain and suffering not once with all the work i've ever done i've never fully completely grasped it i've never been my gear you know to them akaima their place of their suffering he can't judge we shouldn't judge we cannot ever judge because who knows where i would be as we say in english there but for the grace of god go i if i would have suffered that would i be any better i don't think so we have to work so hard to take all judgment out you know why can't they just do this why can't they just dress like that why can't they just stealth supershamas why can't they just be you know work with me do this for me because it's not about me it's harder why can't i not judge them why can't i be in a place of absolute love of understanding that i don't understand i cannot understand impossible to understand what's making me where they're coming from with all their hurts and their tsar and their suffering i should understand and therefore i cannot judge i cannot judge to take that all away from myself and just love absolutely love and i was wandering over shabbos to myself if i could be mekhazik in these two ghazals if i would look through the outside completely not see it it's not there i'd rather if i see it at all to me it's a red stick a fragile handle with gear that's what i see on the outside because on the inside it's actually i see stereo ears i see the plea bishop epnius i see a suffering soul and i see one that i can never judge you know no jew in the history of khalison ever kept tariag no one impossible i'll tell you why it's passionate impossible because no jew could be both a man and a woman a mojo can be a soul a lady and a cayenne it's a no jew we can't we keep with arabist we keep we keep torah with arabis because we do it together as a clown it's carly's law no one jew can do it all because you can't be everything so you can't do it and i was thinking i said to my wife that if we have and with her to have in our own in our own families in our own context in life i feel such a source i have so many people i've met in the course of my life so many struggling people that we have a source to work on these two hazards and and imagine what we do when we work on those two gazelles every single day with our children every single day to work stag to see the paneemia shepherd anemias not see the outside imagine how we break sin the skin unwarranted hatred imagine how we reverse in the skin and we actually work on harvesting them by not judging unfavorably by not seeing the outside but seeing the inside just imagine the harvest in that we bring to the world and i think if we wanted [Music] is our commitment to these horizons and to our children and that we should be the banner bearers in this world we're gifted with the uniqueness of having these struggling children and through them we have to stay we have to be mature goddamn in not judging not judging a book by its cover and seeing the plea bishop anemia's not judging our children we are the ones our children demand this need this of us desperately that we should see their paneemias and in doing so so they should help them we will reverse sin and we'll bring our skin into the world so they wish to help him i hope that we'll all have arithmetic and that will dedicate ourselves to our children who need us so desperately and by doing so this hashem will bring the ghoul up inhaler of your main our main cell i wish i was with you have a wonderful wonderful day an idiot called bye