Rabbi Yosef Lowenbein

one of the most mysterious succumb in the torah is in this week's parasha it's actually one of the hardest sukkam to understand in this week's parasha tells aposic and hashem told moishen aaron albane he commanded him all of the mufashim tried to understand what this passage is he commands many israel and also paris to take bani israel out of its right one of the most mysterious in the torah what's more mysterious perhaps is rashi rashi says what does it mean he commanded them that how should you deal with the jewish people how should you deal with claudius all gently and be patient with them what is the toyota telling us command the jewish people to take the jewish people out of mitzrayim and what does the command mean to have nakas to gentle have patience with them how do we understand this the meforshim explained that this is not an isolated passage the posix actually a continuation of last week's parasha where moishe gathers this kanan the old the elders and the mufasam say that the elders of claudius were the broken people the experience the talmid they were the elders they witnessed the 210 years of suffering and he gathers them and moishrabenu was told by the bishop should have been before that argues with hashem and he says how could it be what are they going to listen what are they going to say and hashem says don't worry they're going to listen to you when you're going to say the words parker they're going to listen to you rashi says something fascinating with sharma because they're going to listen to you one of the most fascinating rashis rashi says why are they going to listen to you because this word paco and pocadeti is a secret language it was a language that was given over it was a semen that was given from yaakov and it was given to joseph and once they hear that language they are forever going to be interested in going out of vietnam they're going to change internally now what's very mysterious about this rashi is that rashi actually says that joseph said it and yaakov said it but the truth is if you look at the sukkam that russia is referring to yosef and yakov both never said it joseph repeats it twice and pasha's but what is the secret language pocket bacality is very on the heart understand this there's a beautiful fascinating medrash that says that sarah sasha was still alive then and she they went to her and they asked her and she said yes pakoi pakadati the secret is pocket pakadati i heard it from joseph and you have heard it from yaakov and the question is what is this pocket pakadati what are we talking about and the ramban says that pocket pakadati anybody could have came and said pocket pakadati what is this secret language of pocket pakadati now this is the same sarah sasha that also gave over the message to yaakov to understand all this we need to understand something very fascinating josef azadek suffered unbelievable he was betrayed by his brothers he was sold out he landed in mitzrayim he was in solitary confinement he suffered like nobody could suffer and joseph later on never had never was a victim he never screamed at anybody not only that when he met his brothers he said like says i'm yourself only because you sold me out joyce of azadek was so unbelievable that eight times the toyota tells us how he cries from deep sensitivity and feeling a child who's betrayed his mother dies when he's nine he's sold out he's betrayed by his as a little dreamer 16 years old and a youngster and they knock him down the brothers sell him out and they all they want to kill him and he's betrayed and he's accused falsely the most horrifying humiliation such a child should have elephant skin he should have no energy left but you see he meets an arab joseph's heart is a blaze he's a different type of child how is it possible such a thing joseph atzadek what happened to joseph atzadek that despite everything they threw at him no matter what happened to him he was in a different experience entirely how is it possible that we add temptation all of a sudden he sees his father in the window and he doesn't succumb in every aspect every arrow every stone that was thrown out of him he turned it into gold how is it possible that he did this one of the most beautiful transformational messages about how it's possible is and he outsmarted aesop to get the brachus and what was the brachus we say we say every night every mata and he instilled this into joseph 24 7. he told him everyone is going to bow down to you i am giving over these brachas to you every single day day in day out he gave him the extraneous pass him he told them you're my closest your rockels you were supposed to be the firstborn i'm giving you these brachas and every day joseph lived with these brachas and he believed that this is not a joke everybody's going to bow down to you you are going to be a triumph nothing could touch you nothing could hurt you and yourself went around life with this mission and now you understand why one day joseph wakes up and he has a dream who who has a dream goes and tells his father i had a dream that you're going to bow down to me the aviv shama rasa dover what does it mean shama rasadava he waited for this moment he waited that his son will have a dream one night that everyone's going to bow down to him this was the barakas that he gave him over he gave him over that message that nothing could touch you you are going to be king you're going to be the ruler nothing could touch wherever you go that was the message that yaakov gave yoshif 24 7. that's why rashi says the method says when he heard it he made light of it but he wrote it down he wrote it down he waited when is going to be the day when those brachus are geminikian and joseph went with those brachas and those brokers with joseph's energy that confidence that unconditional love so when joyce have landed when his brothers betrayed him and when he landed in mitzrayim and when he saw an arab he never thought i'm a thermometer i'm going to be the environment of this place i'm a thermostat i'm going to regulate the environment and from that moment he comes out and he becomes the most powerful person in the world the most powerful person in the world why because his father gave him the secret of pocoid poco and pakadati his father told him no matter what when joseph comes to get the brokers from yaakov what does he say your father's brochures he wasn't giving him any new brachas he told them to for my your father's brothers your father who is that yakov my brothers i gave them to you i instilled them and you gavru you took everything that they threw at you those are the braches and you made from everything you made diamonds out of it you lay down the law of the land you despite them betraying you despite them destroying you you stood strong no matter what they throw at you rocks you made gold out of it that is the secret of pocket the secret of pocket is that number spite no matter what you do nothing could ever touch you and it was that unconditional confidence that he gave into joseph that allowed joseph to come out and to triumph because what is the lush in pakistan 30 40 50 60. 90 years she gave up on having a child the hashem the unconditional memory the unconditional remembrance i remember you sorry he made sarah pregnant he remembered her that is the secret of pocoid yaakov told you he said you're going to be a giant you're going to be a king yourself went through life with one mission in mind my father believes in me i believe in myself my father believes in me parker nobody could ever do anything to me and he waited and he dreamed about it and he lived his dream and up until the last minute when everybody forgot about it everybody forgot him hashem and yo says nishani i forgot my pain i laid my son menasha ifrani you made me fruitful in the land of myself for him the pakadi you made me overwhelming you made me the giant and when did i become the giant from the deepest depths of the pain and suffering i was in a state of unbelievable suffering everybody forgot about me everybody abandoned me they accused me falsely they gave me every type of stone i could have been the biggest victim in the world but i had the secret of pocoide i had the secret that i mean it means remember don't ever forget who do you tell that to somebody you're supposed to forget joyce have shared with him the secret apocad joists have had the secret from his father his father shared with him and that's what he told sarah sasha and when sarah sang she was singing the secret of pocket it was a much deeper message she was telling you yaakov don't worry joseph lived it was exactly what you told him and he turned into a king the barakah the barakah of your father was governor and this is the secret of what happens in this week's parasha this is the secret when last week's parishion mushroom gathers this canaan who are this kingdom this kingdom of the people who suffered who watched who had the real experience those are the people and mushroom who tells them we have the secret of pocoid and that's what sarah pasha came to validate she came to say do you want to know why i live this long is because i have the secret of longevity who gave it to me joseph when he told me the secret to tell the father when he told me the secret to tell yaakov i got then the secret i got the secret of pocoid and when you have the secret of nothing could touch you in fact every painful thing makes you triumph every painful thing makes everything worth it and that's what mushroom was telling the claudius roll when you're going to go to kriyasyamsuf and it's going to be business am you're going to see it was all worth it to 210 years you're going to see the unconditional love every moment of your life is going to make sense just like the moment of joseph's life so many years of suffering so many years of pain but it was all worth it because he was negal because he was pokhoi because he became the giant beer kosovich so tonight when i look at this room over here i see the sickness of claudius roll i see that we have avraham inu avraham avi fishoff we have [Applause] we have gidalia miller who's a true goddess we have shimina sadik shimon russell we have more mart sadiq who started a big organization our teacher all that every shul should be responsible for the bahrain to give them unconditional love we have all the parents over here who have the secret of pocoid they have this secret of pocket that is unconditional love and in the haitian life of a salabanim if we give that unconditional love that yaakov gave you is safe and that yourself lived with if we if we give everyone the secret of pocahod if we give that to our children the haitian and that is the secret of pakoi and the truth is that this organization was founded by people who knew the secret of pocket and they gave their children the secret of pocket and they decided just like joseph not to turn their pain into a victimization they turned their pain into something to teach other parents and all the parents over here have to recognize that they have this secret apocalype the secret of giving unconditional love and that's what rashi says in this week's parasha by yitzhav him how do we go out of mitzrayim i would abrasion could have took everyone out of its life without involving the nickname there's a canaan without involving anybody but he involved them because he wanted them to want to go out of mitzrayim what does it mean to go to missouri to be menaches to do it gently to have unconditional love as shimmer russell explains have unconditional love because that is the ultimate relationship you could do your child when he finds himself in the most lowest places if you have unconditional love that's the haitian life of a salabanim and every person that's going through pain and suffering is the sick name is there's a kingdom that's going to bring in the gula because you have the secret of pocoid and don't let your pain be pain be it exactly like yo that joseph never ever did he turn himself into a victim he said it's precisely the secret apocalypse when i was in the most deepest dungeons just like saturn 90 years old when i was ready to give up that's when the avatar was pocketed when he gave me the unconditional love and with this koyak claudius all this kanem the main people in this room they're going to be able to share the claustrol pokhoi then we're going to be able to go akagemashia bakarmamesh