Rabbi Yitzchak Schwartz

okay so i want to clarify something that was brought to my attention on multi-shabbas about my previous session maybe in the previous two sessions perhaps there are some people who didn't fully understand the idea of what i call the lower neshamas which get mixed together with the clippers they get stuck in low places and perhaps there are some people thinks that that means that kids who are not from have low neutrons what does it mean low nushonas lonashamas doesn't isn't taught referring to the quality of the nushon it's the same it's the same material it's just sent to a lower place that are sent into the world really low they're sent in the world to work in the basement as we discussed so let me put that to rest so all what does all this mean for us because this is the tacos this session is the real tacos maybe it was nice josh's before maybe it made you feel good as i said it's a nice tylenol but there's a taclees and the tacos is tonight the taco says what are we supposed to do i don't know what to do with your children i don't know every child is different that's not what this session is about but i can promise you that if we do what we need to do it will have an impact on the children that believe shum suffolk without a doubt we were asked a few times my wife and i over the course of the last few days like even somebody came to us as uh why do you have a right to speak to us okay i have credentials i said i have credentials we went through some parachutes we went to some parcels with some of our children and we grew from it is that right we grew from it did it hurt yes did it hurt it hurt she's agreeing with gender receives agreeing did we cry yes we cried and you think i'm a really close friend of shimon russell and therefore there was no problems right all i had to do was talk to him but it wasn't so easy to talk to him about it either because our families are like this the families are interconnected it's like we're like almost like one family you don't go to a family doctor that's your that's your brother and the children know each other so although obviously we did get some help from him but we had to do a lot of it on our own 100 on our own so where does it bring us to what is our avoider as parents of these amazing neshamas that were sent in this world as uh as the legend says to be girif bivin to reach into the depths of mud to pull out other neshomas nitzatsus of kadusa that are even farther down than them and that's how the world works as the lesham explained that behind the top the higher nushoma higher means he's in a higher place shines his light on the lower in the shama and brings him up raises him up and the one that just got raised up raised up raises up to one about beneath him and that one raises up the one beneath him so what about the last one the last one comes up and the shirt comes that's where mushir comes you know i said last one now turn off the lights the last one out that's when the shield comes we're going to talk about that today but that's not the eq what i'm talking about although maybe it is maybe it is the eco i'm speaking about is what we what we gain what is our tough kid and guess what it's no different than everybody else's tough kid in claudius oil what is the eaker let's ask ourselves what's the eaker of avoid hashem so yeah most people tell you okay terramitrius term mitchus so you asked he said tridley slavos asked litwak steigen you ask about musa learning musa what's the eager we're going to learn tonight we're going to take our great grab and show your soul the growl the government of illinois we're going to learn some of his pieces unequivocally defining what a void is hashem is and nobody disagrees with it it's the result or prime vital everybody about everybody in the safe haven slammer which is a leaker from the graph but we won't go into the other makuras hashem all of avoidance hashem depends upon tikkun amidas what does that mean that if we're not involved in ticonomitus all of our void of sachem is missing its base we're building houses of cards which with a blow can fall apart it can't be done a person can go through the slides being became tormented and we're going to show the foolish gamoras the gon explains how person could go through life return meets us and in the end he's nowhere if he didn't work on his medes shaheen kumar levus la mitzvah are the vessels which hold the mitzvahs the medes that we're supposed to be messaging mitchells are unbelievable things they're elokus how do you get the aura of elucuz into your body how do you do that there's only one way like we know that the swarm magnificent shama takes one look at this world says i want no part of it no part of it so why should the mitzvah want to dwell with it with the light which is no different than inshallah the light of the mitzvah de la cous the heels that we live on in this world and that we will live on in the next well why should it enter my body if my meters are not misukin it won't come in takes one look at the body deflating your body nothing doing i don't know this i don't do this stuff i don't know what inflation bodies are about so we show the mitzvah i'm speaking figuratively of course we show them it so wait i have something that you'll be masking to come into i can welcome you into me there's a place for you the elokus that you have within you you each one of the misses i got a place for you it's my middles in my middles because my medias are on the north south pole connected to the body and in the north pole they're connected to the shoma they're the bridge between the orbit lacus we can only get them in through a conduit through a connector to a go-between that's the meadows they're the lavoosh for the mistress it says the grow and the gross quoting here they're behind vital the great talmud of that result goes on the ground to say one of the sessions about leaves what does it mean he use what's our life force what makes us tick is it the abundant food that we ate or that we're eating that's the excuse for the goof the goof is a very small part of what we are what's the real heels of autumn liz jose thomas vigras amides we're working constantly on smiths amidas breaking guyver baking taiva all the man we don't have to go away everybody knows we've got a whole plethora of bitterswords right if you're just you know surfing along this world yid okay it's a davinan he puts on twill in he does mitzvahs dr coin if you're not constantly continually being involving yourself in breaking bad meters and fixing good meters versus the answer is it's a good question the question give out a good question what's the goal no the question was is this for every jew or just for people on the madre of the grove for every jew and i will show will look about it only avoid this hamidas can bring us to tactics only other are people going to life right for everybody who does mistress but it's not going to be pumped become part of you that i become a khelik that that mitzvah delivers to me which i don't have until i do the midsize i'm a cross there i'm lacking without all the myths if i don't have all the mixes i'm lacking i'm still a person i still have a new shoma emma's and if you do the midsole you're going to get scar ms but it's not going to be you it's going to be a handout you touch electricity you get zapped if you touch energy you'll be energized take a drug you'll be have the hell of abdullah's it's for everybody we're going to learn it's it's a sugar we're going to look at david meller why am i going to look at doping we started with w the whole series started with david miller right right so for those who were maybe there were some were not here we explained that what the gemara says and that's really our sugiyah which i said paraguimal in tehillim is has to be the capital to heal him of kesha navi laminate mismo david shawland now's the time for what was this fellow who was singing here what was his name wow what a voice fantastic now you're singing barry what now you're singing we could turn into barry webber now with the whole choir the gun says oh i have show oh that sword is just so beautiful it goes on singing as he's running away he's singing and the kumar says samakh when he saw that it was son who's chasing him he was masimka we talked we spoke about this now we're going to learn something else from david miller and we explained that if you weren't here you can see on tour any time what how we explained that now we're going to learn something else the grower says it suffered its new sir in every generation all the nissionas and the nizarzas these urus of the others come back in every generation and to every person everyone has his personal locator of avrom everyone has this personal arcade of gizro two different this uranus you took had to be pushed had to bring him everybody has the nissians of yaakov at some time in their life soros with the children soros with a sibling and everybody has says the going something will happen in our lives that's a neat search of david melech we're in the door of david melech as we said explained in the first session it's not an it's a coincidence that gemara says when does mohamed come right before machine that's what brings me it's the final battle of tovan land mashiach comes and who's going to wage that malcolm the messiah and he's minute and he wins in the end and we get rashiya kosher taboo is not coming to make us depressed it's coming to tell us look at david look at david he also went through this amnon and thomas and absolutely but he's in the end and it's not falpy despite it's because it's because of his struggles and how he approached his struggles how much deacon and mr david miller have to be isaac in to overcome the shame shimmy ben guerrero killed any [Applause] used to sometimes throw when rough statements are so come to you shall i'm serious yoshi if the cannon came throwing rocks on him that was uh you know small compared to what welcome went through in his life his brothers rejected him parts of claudius his life was filled with shame and business but he's our dogma we're living his life we're living in nietzsche mello says they're going to heal him you can look in the bureau of growing on michelle everybody can see it it's no you know hidden book like sapphire that's new so you can get it beer agro and michele perry club bass possible says the girl like this says how long was he mela for a very short time he only sinned once in his life once in his life he was queben shawn he was at sadiq nisgov and he lost his mahus he didn't do some more like property he lost his mouth hashem was moisture milk you rejected you sinned you didn't you were not making lots of hashem malchus he was when shmoor came to look at the boys you know oh that's the redhead are there people you know who don't want to do shidduchim with redheads did you know that that was a kiddish to me reddit they've got a bad name like redheads have a bad name i don't know i like reddit here but then um what many was like to say right they needed a jinji as a jinji right not to be confused with jinji here who's massive because he was born in maslow madding he's a shaykh domin david dobby knew how to kill lions giants and that's why when he looked at him anovi he looked at dove he said now he's a redhead wasn't he redhead he saw his his curse masumati so he he judged him by the book by the cover kibio it was he was seeing in that's interesting right here he saw that his was madin he was a jinji inside he's not martin from august yeah right he can't be the miller but he says he was toy it was a toast hashem told him you can see inside and and make your decision based on that there's a deeper level of riya which you can't get to shmuel i'll just tell you he's the one this one like this the gemara says why was david also like double twice sinned show one sin sho lost his meluha kept him looking forever and he wasn't why because his mother me joseph because dovey was marvel medusa so gordon explains like this you know we can imagine when shoal we can't go into old pirates it's going to take too long but show but he had to meet this problem when he was faced with the people and they were saying why do you want to kill the sheep he he was afraid of his public image i don't like i don't like the business of criticizing him of of tanakh but he was worried about himself and he listened kiyoresi he was afraid what the people were saying and he was murdered in a second he said you're right khatosi but it was a mixture of midos his failure was because he didn't work on that media his boss of adam at that moment was slightly higher than hira's code what the what didn't he could hear is in the garden here both said probably he didn't know what was he was the autopilot kid the superstar the next good leader his whole life he was like that and nobody messed around with them no bad rebbies no bad teachers no bad day abuse nothing glad at the malthus he didn't know what that was lord tom tom so he's an actual once natural ones lose the whole mouthless why look it was a media's problem there was a moment of weakness in medes who knows better than the people who are in positions of power how much medicine need to work on i hear the lotion that goes right it the obvious the others by the he's the the the like the fourth regular of the merkova he's the hashtag there were three of us and then there are four have koika's huge cochise in us we have the kurdish we have the congress of yitzhak we have the curses of yaakov and we have the caucus of david because we have the same messianis as they do every single person at some time in his life some for more and some for less so we have to take the limut from david melech that the eaker is tikkun amidas the now i want to learn another piece from the girl from you let's just stop for a moment though we learned from david melech that if you want to really succeed in life if you want to succeed in life that you become one with the terror that the midst is you are makayam and that feels you miss paolo and the years your mind which you strive to achieve really integrates into who you are it's only three tickets and that gives us heels then my heels is not coming from my belly my house is not coming from my habit marios is not coming from copying others marcios is not coming from insecurity marchios is coming from the oral 613 limbs that are in the human being we need that heels all the heels of our body the real heels that gives us amazing comes from putting a lacus into us and that we bring in only if we prepare a receptacle that the mitzvah yoho is masking to enter into and that's only meedus only if there are made this toy voice a goddess of all the middle services what classic example why you don't have scholar people are fighting arguing disagreeing brings the pilgrimage out of others that's goku magog the battleship throws all the carcass allows all the kurds and tumors to raise their ugly head in the end but and we are challenged every single day as parents with problems at home we show them how do you deal with the situation he's driving me crazy she's doing nourish kai they're making this stupid mistakes they're making all the time they're fighting with this fighting with that they're calling up from the school everybody knows what's going on and the house becomes upside down that's kosher milk mogu but if i can learn how to make shaolin wow what needs that requires to make shoaling how about these two words i'm sorry i'm sorry you see you know how often you have to say i'm sorry to these kids even though it's not your fault i'm going to say i'm sorry after what he did after what he said you got to find something you could say you're sorry about dig deep find something to say you're sorry oh i'm sorry i brought you to the situation i'm sorry this happened in our house i feel terrible about it rather than letting it the flames rise until it gets to mach locus divisiveness pure de la vovos we have to be isaac in the middle of schweitzer to get to shoaling when you got up this morning i'm not going to ask you what time you got up but when you opened your eyes i mean in my room we had a good bed the pillows were great i didn't really want to get out of bed tell you the truth i didn't want to get a bed why did i get out of bed because he got a daven right you got a daven and let's say i go to davening and i have a pair of trillion i could have used probably got away with the 500 pair of villain probably two thousand dollars repair thrilling you know what schweitzer me this every mitzvah really requires from us get your lazy body out of the bed i'd rather sleep every mitzra if you do them properly requires sweers amidas not one that doesn't if not it's called mitsusa noshimulu modo and for that you get scar you get to somehow participate in the suit of in the oil miamis so the mitch's cannot change you unless you prepare a place for them in your body you can become a very cruel person through torah and you can become crueler and crueler and meaner and nastier if you're not learning together with your torah learning tikkun amidas it'll you get a monster oh he's like i think the answer you understand i'm nothing against tormentors do them the makai and then all them and were nothing without them but we have to know how to get them in our premiums it doesn't happen on its own let me explain to you differently mitch is can you make a mitzvah you get up tomorrow morning i'm going to decide that scratching my back with my left hand is a mitzvah no no that's not what i'm saying make up a new mitzvah this is a mitchell i guess he said yo i make them it's hard to find something that there's not a mitzvah about the term again i i don't want i don't want to go there i just want to say again i'm not against torments what i'm saying is that a mitzvah will not bless you with its panemias the oreo key to change you unless you provide a clea that it agrees to go into and the client agrees to go into are the middles as the gold says and arizona says in basham there are levers to the mitzvos would you like mitchuson to be naked you have to have a place to put them you can darshan misses all day long you can guide me you have no place to put them you're just a machine anoshimalu mother what is actually my spear on me the conducion the taran the the kirk to change comes from the orga loki that's in the midst let's do another piece from the groin michele peric your dollar positive base yeah let's do it quickly though can you say that i'm sorry when you're dealing with your kids remind me at the end okay because this there's information here which it'll be valid we lose it out on and then that you know they cut me short and then so remind me at the end the question okay says the apostle continues to and one who goes croom how do you say croom in english crooked but it doesn't cook it like a thief no no that doesn't mean that i you know it's glad bo zehu you disgrace hashem says the girl like this hashem every person has his own personal dare he has to go through go go by not in mitzvos it's the same fill in the same city same shabby same yum tub everybody has the same mixes everybody but you have a certain path in life that you have to take for yourself the meters of people are different and no matter what meters you have this is the amazing thing every single profile of every single personality with all the combinations of the complicated combinations of meters every single one of them has the same 613 minutes to fulfill hello dober who so horizon says you have to go yo you have a personal vague a personal way personal personality with your particular special needs the good ones and the bad ones you have to go i'll pee darker you have to go with your derrick and me this everybody has something at least you know this is for people like the gone and and the result that they only have one thing that causes them to do invaders only have one meter sean miller had one meter that could cause him invaders we have the gun we have the laundry list the source of avedis the reason we do available listen to this the mitzvah man here what's your name mendel here's the the root of all vegas is your particular weak media not you and the same is and the same is true of mitzvahs the root of every asiya samitra of kiyoma mitsu in the way that we're talking about is your particular strong meter need those hopefully so everybody has at least one availa at least one meter weakness guy taiva whatever it is covered kino whatever it is that if you make a you know accounting you'll find most of your avatars are rooted in that is it uh a person has to make darling you have to guys like uh taylor said in the thing you have to take yourself for a walk what's in me what's in me that's making me be natural in this all the time why do i keep falling and stumbling why what what is the media the media not the mitzvah i know what that mitzvah is i know what i'm supposed to do what i'm not supposed to do so why am i doing it why am i failing in the mitzvot or being initial never there's something in me that doesn't want it that's where i have to work that's hola yoshiro you have to make your vidorium you have to make a plan you have to go on your walk by yourself oh lesbian we're going to get more into that not in the derral your friend may need something else completely because he's got different meters you both have the same mitzvah two different sets of meters each one he has to approach it differently he's got to be he's got to be half hour early to daphne why he knows he's an autism he's got to really work on getting there the guy who's not in also he said that's enough i'll be there 10 minutes early everyone has to go with his there but legend says the girl if you're going with your yashers your yahshua says being honest with yourself being honest with ourselves what do i need to do to fix my needle that causes me failure and pain and lack of lack of accomplishment and you you may not find that you'll get support for it from others other people look at you and say no no nobody's doing like you you're entertaining your child in pain with whatever i always bishop's hole they're there what's it got twisted twisted parenting let's put another roshi tavis twisted personality we have twisted personalities we have meadows that we have to twist them we have to change our meters even if it's superficial maybe we don't we're not sincere about it but we know we heard there's such a thing it still helps but if you listen to others and you know it's not makuuba to treat your kids like that we don't do like that we don't behave like that like somebody said you know the share on the street would call you and after shaman says just explain to it we don't do that oh yeah okay no problem you will get nowhere by listening to others how to approach torah misses how to approach your mahalak in dealing with your middles it doesn't matter what other people say unless you find somebody who's exactly like you good luck he's not there and you don't listen if you don't listen to others they're saying you're acting crazy you don't need to come half hour earlier for for i met a year once in manhattan he worked in the uh he was a i don't know something big in computers or something he worked he worked for big companies but he worked in the in the kitchen kitchen area dynamically i said why are you working in the show why don't you go into offices are you kidding you know what it is to walk through the streets of manhattan it's gehennam he says i have enough of vaders to clap on yom kippur i don't want to add other ones everyone says he's crazy if he listens to them he's going to be natural he knows what his yet zahara is he knows the streets of manhattan are a big problem for him so he sits in the show and works in sure people then do a with his kids says the goal if you ignore shalamela listen to what people said he lost his maohus he wasn't hoiled even though people are telling you you're crazy you're doing wrong who yo hashem that's real here's hashem because why are you doing it i know i'm a habitual avarian i am habitual in my avedas because of this media i have to work on myself just like an alcoholic can't even take a sip of alcohol you can't do a lechaym nothing everyone tells you what's legend nothing nothing we haven't been doing it for a thousand years two thousand years what's your big deal if he listens to them he becomes an alcoholic again but one who goes groom he's listening to others bhusha shame it's not mukubu he's bozeyou he's hashem you know why this is gone because you're more afraid of people than the rabbi initially double a gosling only pays what he stole the gosling is a hotsu he comes straight up to you with uh a weapon and takes what it is so so by him people under punishment are the same he doesn't care but the ghana if he goes tonight when nobody's looking nobody's looking the benjamin's looking ah by you people fear people is more than fear of their bunch of you pay double penalize yourself i'm skipping the line there's another gamora very quickly even though it would we could give three shu and landis gamer alone candles are good as long as they burn once it burns out you're done yeah you're vulnerable the torah is like light light itself the light is the shemesh you're on the north pole it's always light whatever mcginley the torah is like the light which is always there it doesn't depend on a candle it's always there all right sunset i'll go walk around the corner and you'll get you'll get light another part of the world a person goes through this world he's on a journey in the end everybody dies you need schmidt both while we're alive and afterwards brings a marshal fascinating martial like a person going in the middle of the night he's journeying in the middle of the depths of darkness of night um and he's afraid he could fall in a pit he could get tangled in thorns he could be attacked by wild animals he could be attacked by gaslamin of him he's afraid he needs mirror that's mira from all those things the five things we won't have time to go into them but what are these five things then and you don't even know where to go besides all the dangers you can't even see the path in front of you imagine if all the lights in the hotel would go out go find where the door is go find where the staircase is so that's a person is in this situation no light this diamond and then somebody brings him a torch so he doesn't have to worry about the holes in the streets and doesn't have to worry about tangled in the bushes but he's still afraid from a little tiny little candle it's not going to help you from a lion not afraid of a light of a candle who may not list him and he still has to be afraid of bandits like and he still doesn't know how to go because he can't show you the there far ahead of you only right in front of you when the sun comes up sun comes up fantastic no more animals no more gas loading bandits they don't come out in the daytime so i'm safe no it says you still don't know which way to go it's light but which way kevanji gilla parches when you get to the crossroads there's a sign there at the crossroads you get to the crossroads there's a sign which direction to go in right now you don't know what's ahead of you maybe you should be going the opposite direction on the road it's happened to me before going opposite there's no there's no cross street you don't know are going the right direction or not you don't know says the girl i don't know how much time we have left but i'm gonna do it quickly because he otherwise he comes in and you know like it's a very uh he does his job he's the media sardine here in the in the in the chapel zone crossroads that's where we all need to get to the crossroads the crossroads how do we get to the crossroads well first of all we've got to get out of the darkness says the grower there are four things that are big problems for us doing some different aspects of a human nature that causes us to do sin we're lazy because we're made up of the inanimate minerals salts they don't have any fears in them we're a little bit out of control because we're made of water water has no glue we are able to move forward and grow and progress in life because we have a little bit of the tomato and we're able to communicate and be productive because we can speak there's something above that system there's a fifth thing i'm sorry it's in very short supply today people laugh one of the apostles don't ask me who it is because i won't tell you one of the person who's name is mufous in bakula islam said to me once i was talking with him he said the beats he says to me there's lots of stupid rabonim in the world just because a person learned the aradeya or even mish-bit doesn't mean he has seiko we need to get to the crossroads what's at the crossroads we already got the light we have mitzvahs and the gomorrah says he got a candle what does that mean i have mitchus so good you got protection we have terror we have terror also we have mitzvahs and we have terror but we still are not safe we're not safe we're not at the parties of dohin we have to fix our leaders the medias says the gone the gomorrah first the parish is talking is tikkun medes and that's hashem says the gong wow that's amazing i thought years hashem was which texture do you eat and how do you mega your eyes when you're dabbing and what kind of clothes you wear you know i met a yid in hong kong a year in hong kong he wasn't technically speaking through him this is farther so i don't know if he was showing him shabbos completely or not i think he was not completely but you know masarati what they call is hong kong and he sells diamonds and they're pink diamonds his specialties pink diamonds what kind of customers do you think he gets most of them are from this side of the mojito whatever it is now he knows every every non-jewish woman wants a jewish husband and he's got diamonds pink diamonds he's he's dead he's dead he realized he was not married he realized that he told me i said what are you going to do for us how are you going to get married here it's all called chinese or chinese are you going to get married here he said and and you're vulnerable i told them you're vulnerable this kind of business you're volume and the only rich ladies who are coming in right or want to be rich ones how are you going to do this said i'm aware of the problem and in order that i shouldn't fall in the trap of a shiksa wife whenever a woman comes in who's maybe in the parasha she's the right age or whatever i make myself disgusting i make myself look disgusting i behave disgusting so she doesn't want to have any shyness with me he's a yoroshima i am that man he's a yoneshamai mamiti he's afraid of da vege he doesn't care what that person thinks of him and he doesn't care if that person if she buys the diamond in the end he's a yoge shamayim he's misakis says the maharao from this kimura on this kimono he's still not standing in front of hashem he's not there he's not with hashem until he gets to tikkun amidas the parish is drawing what's parishes in the crossroads that's why i have a choice i have choices to make at the crossroads mitch is where i'm we're matuving him we have to do the mitzvahs we have no choice we have a choice but the mitzvah are we're mitsuban they're a given they come from the ribbon islam what do we bring to the table the koicha saneves we need to be careful not to do the veyron the coils and that's we need to do the mitzvah army this is what we bring to the table we have to make a choice am i listening to all the naysayers i'm listening to all the people who say do like this do like that or do i know i have enough information i know what's good for me and maybe i didn't know what's good for my child i don't know but i know what's good for me no mitts not going to go with the girl says the fifth thing is people need seiko you have to have terra well first of all you need seiko to learn the terror he's settled to fulfill the mixes but you also need seiko to be about leaders can anybody please i you know i asked people around maybe somebody has an idea is there any media raw that makes sense what's the litmus test of a of a bad meter rabbi russell said the other night that he wiped off the menials table and he said this i wasn't proud of it right he said i wasn't proud of him there is no middle law that we can be proud of after we did it we feel and empties a person loses it gets angry oh there you see why i was entitled to get angry and but you know what you just lost there's nothing that's masala says though nothing is masala more than cass is it worth it to be anger and lose part of you in the shama tariff is it a good deal i came a piece of my mind yeah but you also lost the peace of your neshama is a good deal it's foolishness i took somebody to have statements outside once a young boy he had a problem with cars brilliant young man shaman looked at him he anybody who was by abstaining those in in a nanosecond he said you know a few words and that's it that's the answer he just looked at the kid and he says to him you're smart smart boy hey carson that's it next guy the apostle convention says only fools get angry you're if you have seiko you know humility is worthwhile and arrogance you lose out you may get temporary benefits from it you destroy the world around you but you may get temporary benefits from it sheker never never ultimately never works angelo ragliam emes is a gevaltigamida a person is honest with himself honest with others overeating taiwan is never ever good the next the shabbaton please let's have some healthy food also all right give out your food but it's disaster right all right but there's there could have been that also you know you have to eat it and shall show this and all that but anyway but taiva is never smart it's only when you have control with your seiko um seiko what do i need to eat how do you deed it was a his every every food he ate was with a husband every single food was a husband terrible food disgusting we couldn't eat some of it we said no it's healthy it's protein this is like tastes like the bottom of the lake didn't matter this is what you need to eat seijo we need seijo we need to be hoylek biyoshoi we need to do what you know rabbi khalis spoke i came to matthew and i said your speech he says because you were normal keep speaking normal normal my rib i don't know there's a very few of them left my rebbe rav sheinberg zadzal told me on more than one occasion he said he pointed to the doors of the the the base midrash he didn't mean daft the people came in the basement he said so the beach very few people with all their marbles common sense seizure we have to dive in the sacral type after the we should have said for the osho and we see something else from this position that we have as they go and explain if you go with what you know is right for you for your situation regardless of what people say because i'm more afraid of doing wrong in the eyes of hashem than doing what's wrong in the eyes of other people that's hashem yoshram what does that teach us here is what everybody is doing is not your shaman it can't be it cannot be ain't autumn everybody has to have some nuance some han hogger some schmidt something he's doing in a virtual that's different from the if it's in kula then it's not that's the best sim and it's not your mind the best semen we mentioned it before that the last the mashiach depends on the last elements of the nisham kaiser coming out of the mud and he said the last nitsas these these terribly confused and complicated nashomas who are assigned the basement work and we have to help them get out of it it's the process of the gula says the the maury naim who was mentioned last night or rabbi rubenstein says in the past that's ongoing present every day every moment tommy because bo who sends the mission of elio and navi to us the heishi leibov are born it only comes through tikkun amidas it comes to tikkun amidas that brings the golola says went with this it's all due respect to what some people think about how you bring meshia remember i told you there's tt out there there's a lot of twisted torah out there so i'm going to say it's different but i don't say different because my personal opinion oh and he bears our suffering he's suffering he's afflicted he's filled with wounds he's filled with our vedas and our sins says the you got to get him up on tack him up you know make him bleed that's not what it means that doesn't mean the people who don't yet know the rebels from they're not connected because of this or whatever it may be and he bears the yoke of their sins he bears the yoke of their sins so that these people don't get punished these people that we don't get punished begin today then says the zorg because i mentioned before i believe in hearing the language even if you don't understand it i'll explain it begin today then again aid in the tsar says there's a certain chamber we're going to now into ghanaian okay you ready there's a certain chamber which all of us are in now hey that's what all the people are suffering are a special chamber in ghanaian where all the suffering takes place why are they suffering in ghanaian why they're suffering in ghanaian if it's a mashiach there's a hey-ho in ghana in gehenna where everybody's suffering no doesn't say that it says there's a chamber in ghanaian where everybody's suffering knocks at the door in the chamber of those who are suffering from sin from answers from matsuvim the kaori look how mario in the whole cave and he invites all of them to come to him how you tell us i'm taking all your service i'm taking the israel he bears the yoke that that we it could be worse right but he bears the yoke himself the kulurasi no land all come upon him taking on those you see from here that this mashiach process brings up part of gehennam from gehennam and puts it in ghanaian yeah everyone's worried about the various of their children we should be worried about our own awareness but you know all that stuff which belongs you know let's let's get in the right department belongs in gehenna who brings that chamber up to ghanaian and mashiach takes it on what does that mean even though it was uh his mahalik was kabul and qasidas here he goes bringing mashiach requires everybody's got a piece of machine in him every one of us has a piece because everyone has a nashoma and we all have new churches for kedusha that we have to elevate and when all those these sources of conducion come together all for maokai so that's meshiach that's nishma mashiach we make nishma samashiya yes he'll be one person but where is he gonna get his nashamah from from all of us from allah our voider from our tiki nominees because we bring it all together it's in the mod then he says it's in the mother in the tumor mitzvahs mendel through mitzvahs we bring out the ducha from the tuma and we make we bring it back together with nishmas mashiach and now his neshomer is whole and he can come and he could be misguided but how do you know where you're nakuta's at everyone's got the job it's everybody's job it's not specifically meant for lubavitch whoever you know any campaigns or anything it's everybody's job to bring mashiach where's the nakura in every person says absolutely where it hurts what hurts inside you which media inside of me am i suffering from that's nicolas mercier who sent these problems the difficulties in our homes so we could have some focused introspect where's my nukun samashiya what part of me is interfering with this situation to handle it with seiko is it guyva is it shame is it covered is it kino their kids are developed about by the way never make that mistake you know they say you never know goes goes i'm buying closed doors you never go know what's going on under a a big hat and believe me it doesn't matter what school they're in where you shoot it in the problems many more than you know about than that you don't know about then you know about so when so you know everybody knows what's causing him am i afraid of what people are saying shame is it is it shame is it embarrassment it's a guyver that's the revocation i could go for a walk that's my job my son brought me to the crossroads it's such an humiliating experience we have somebody in our neighborhood a bunch of girls live in the house they're the miniskirts and he's uh ah got him he has to go and he walks out and they're in and out and everything you know how much shame you have to swallow how much gyver you have to get rid of to deal with that his daughter's brought him to the crossroads and doesn't need flow unbelievable it didn't go easy and it requires for me an akedo to immaculate what i think is important and turns out is not so important my cover with my guy my reputation what people think about me that brings me where it hurts that's what absolutely says that's the that's the chamber of gehinum a bad meter is a piece of gehennam it's a helicopter it's a portion of god that's within us it all got mixed in by the magician we're filled with it there's not a cell how many cells in the body anybody know i don't know it's billions right billions of cells did oh they gave me five minutes wow to get it so there's not a cell in the body not one cell in our body that doesn't have in it we're completely completely have absorbed it's not our fault we just got to make sure we don't add on to it but you're born with it my one of my kids who was very colorful and got himself in a lot of trouble in schools he had one republican who had to deal with him when my son would uh inappropriately act out in yeshiva whatever it was so shiva should tell them he said he said he said no it's not your fault you were born that way it's not your fault it was it was bright it was a good approach but we're all filled with ra this is not you know you know firing brimstone mooser let's be honest just let's be honest like i said there was never a person born who's going to live forever after head or the mauritian except foreign maybe but other than that everybody goes even ishai he had no head at all he went also he also died anybody goes around this world and you'll never die the the thing the first people think you know eternal teenagers for sure think they'll live forever right it's foolishness i got you five minutes right five minutes we have only five minutes our voice i'm to comply i just i got to look at the clock okay so it's foolishness to think you can have a baby without sargeant upon him because that's part of the saint claula beat silva and tell debonim oh my house is going to be perfect all the kids can still as they see him around the table and everybody's going to yes tati yes mommy and they're going up and up and up in the schools and nothing no talking to money from any of my children you're in la la land and your koi friend beats over until the bunny and we're also in la la land if we think we're not filled filled with riots not a it's an unfortunate situation but it's a gift also because if we would have no imperfections we wouldn't have no avoider nothing to do what would we do we talked about this amalek what does he do he's annoying he does his job because he's much who have to do it he's got no free will he's got no choice he never comes to the crossroads never comes to crossroads we do why because we're imperfect inside it's a gift the gemara says he's saying let's have a chorus says let's give praise and thankfulness to all the mauritian and that they sinned because had they not sinned we wouldn't be here he says more about whatever he wouldn't be here and the quran says it'd be meaningless our presence would be meaningless we'd just be a you know an appendage of aldermen we'd have nothing to do in the world let's be havoc let's be thankful of husseinu i'm filled with ra it's not a bush to say it i'm filled with rai but yet used to talk to himself to talk to himself if you talk to the yates also he says why are you why are you why do i mean it's a mathias inside of a person but it's not me it's ureth in me it's more of me it's mixed into me i got to work it out you got to bring it to the crossroads and go for the walk in the right direction it's obviously not easy like so solante said bigger accomplishment to fix one meter than to learn all of shots which lots of people learn all of shots today duff you i mean they go to the share and they finish seven years you're done so let's be thankful to the reborn belvedere toyota let's thank our children go home and give them a hug and a kiss thank you for bringing me to the crossroads now i can be in the amazon hashem now i can get to the eager avoidance hashem i was going through life mulumada in la la land thinking that the eaker is the mitzvah in avoidance hashem you do nothing the mitzi's are gifts from hashemi's ball they're they're stickler of oil okay you didn't do anything it's my meatless that i used to get the mitsubo tsar agro the sky of avoidance hashem is depend how much you have to work on it we don't work anything on the mitzvah itself the mitzvah mitzvah we work to overcome whatever media it is that is interfering with the mission and that's what the sky is from that's what this so the legend explains in the end those nashomas those complex nashomas that fall down into the into the bluetooth it's the mud and they have to they have to sweep beeping like it says they they have to sweep the sewers because their nutritionists are kaduchar down there and they have to be brought up by other people some people are above them somebody who's under showman has to shine upon them from above to bring them out of there in the end says that says the leshem a person should never have taught rumors never have tahumas those in the showmas and so it says in the result when their teaching comes they go straight to the castle they don't get paid less than the crown polisher they don't get a secondary back seat they front seat like all the grace that's a digging exactly as them the oiler like kesser eleon those nushamers that are in the in the sewer in the pits why does it why do we have to go through that cesar but so eleven two went with this here's your i know everybody asks why me why do i have to go through this first of all hashem you should be thankful somebody said the other session so we should be feel privileged but why me says of the solar divine soup that even though is biadeno a computational influence in the years of mine but the matzo mean within which you have to exercise your behavior the struggles within which you have to exercise here is a hundred percent buddhism [Applause] we don't know why the bought us in confrontation with situations that we have to struggle with deep deep deep meadows it's so difficult it's so pain it hurts hurts to pull out a splinter from you i remember i was a kid i feared that more than anything else pulling out splintered it hurts but afterwards you feel better well we need to embrace our children we need to embrace their problems because that's going to make us throughout their shame [Music] sometimes sometimes they don't sometimes they need another gilgal sometimes their trooper comes at the last minute of their life menasha maybe it was just the last minute but it's not everything it's not everything or nothing there's stages every moment every second every day it's limited because they they're they're assigned a specific job that's what that is name is in our hands but in which situations will exercise not in our hands did they have here the damage that's what the growth happened did he have here to become like the prophet time no he would never be like the prophet zlayam never he was maslow madden his special meetings were abe he never changed that that can change every second it can change every day and every moment it can change and they're a bit slowly evangelist it does depending on what the person needs for his particular situation could change from minute to minute to change from day to day from week to week in right now it's possible it doesn't mean the next second it won't be possible it's possible i know it's a whole shabbos i i don't know yet you get into minutia it gets difficult but they have myself in which they have very limited behavior so do you and i so do you and i have shown that's why a person that should never want to have a nissaian we don't know if our bahir would work on a higher level of nissan we don't know i don't understand something ready only one thing no i haven't no about what i'm saying right and everyone is is a russian and everyone's like we've been trained basically hate people to donate and now now here we are i don't know i never was trained that way but that's tt that's t that's tt a child one of my sons he plays games in his room i personally don't care to be honest with you i'm happy because he's in my house and i love him and i understand what he's going through so but i'm saying in the community communally people that's why i said holy bioshock but people have been trained to do that right you have to have sex what i care about moisture i care about moisture you have to say i do i love you but you i and you you have you have seijo you know moshe the more you think with seiko and are normal more other people will be well what we need to do is struggling on the street go over and love that that's right that's right because that's right i'm not sure what we is but that's right yeah right right you have to be in community you're talking about individuals yeah i don't i don't know moshe i i don't know much i the people don't listen to me people don't listen to me i don't have a day of what goes on in the community i can only have a day a little bit what goes on in my house and to myself and a fraction of a day what goes on in my shoe even though i'm the love of the shoulder i never thought i can say i gave up i never thought that i'm going to change people people don't want to change people i love them all i love them all but i can't change the way they sing you can't change the way people think moshe but we're supposed to be jewish right moshe get used to it we live in a meshugan of elves there's tons of tt out there twisted tara there's tons of people who don't have sahala yoshi that are not holy bioshock they're going like an aeder like the flock that's not yet hashem but at least it keeps some discipline in the community you'll be in the flock but you'll be the leader for yourself be together with other people you get caught from them also it's not they're not all twisted they're not all meshuggah they're not completely you know on a scale of one to ten not everybody's a ten meshuki and not in every way of life is he a ten some areas he's maybe he's his gun's fine his god's normal and you have to pick out the people in their areas in which you deal with them that you can get something from and the stuff that's twisted first they gotta know if it's interested or me twisted some maybe that's triggering you that means you gotta go for a walk right yeah but it happens what happens we don't have any influence on anybody other than ourselves i'm just saying people are struggling it's one there's many layers of the struggling one is dealing with children who are struggling and then compounded by people who don't understand and don't try to understand and are hurting those people that are struggling that's wrong true it is that's everything you said is correct now question what do i do with it right right right i try to love those people my you know my wife gets you know for the most part stop trying to know what's going on in the world because she knows she tells me you just get upset there's nothing you can do about it i get fuming when i see tipsys and wishes of things that are happening it's so foolishness that i get right my blood pressure goes up she says you should not be looking at it's not good for you you know what to say the best thing about hitting your head against the wall stopping be poor within your sphere of influence not beyond it you'll never get someday your sphere of influence gets a little bit bigger because you well ho go with your yashers you need everybody needs a rebbe a madrid and he's role models he needs everybody needs that every nobody can do it just on your own i'm done i'm done this is informal here i'm finished i was making i'm this i'm done i'm done i just want to be positive we can walk outside we walk outside