Gedalia's intro

how people took their challenges and turned it into doing different things for cloud israel speaking to many rabonum over here over the shabbos i got the feeling that i have to share a little bit of how kashinopshi came about and will hashem without any expectations as we are trained we started off discussion now she has a team to help the parents to give them physique inspiration and continue to be able to do our voice accordish but six years ago when i found out that i am in dispatch as we say as many of us are heartbroken fall apart and have to go through a time of mourning grief and everything else that comes along with it because basically the nishama that we thought is going to be our pride and joy is basically dead unfortunately and to revive that the only way that's actually going to work is not going to be muscle it's not going to be russia's as we heard there's nothing else we can say that's going to change that scenario and having the opportunity to listen to all the group speakers over the years which i call my rabbi in this field we had hashem the opportunity to join avi after many months of trying till he finally accepted us because of the unique situation that we're in as many parents try to get in and he's mama only takes a very handful of people that call him most cases are not a case that he will accept so we were both hashem fortunate that he did accept us and with the dark side that we're following we were able to build those connections and do that by the sakuya dish but i believe we can call this night taking your challenges and turning it into something special and i saw many speakers here had their own challenges over the years and they became a speaker or they became a mechanic manish lokham over here took the challenges worldwide and they could be proud of it and we're proud of it and i actually used the analogy this morning when i spoke to which with louis friedman that he said he did this morning and it wasn't a big show so i used the analogy i said khabad does shalifis they go into towns i remember i would my first job i was in wayne new jersey i don't know what the shleep is and he came and he was there and we helped him certain things and at a house and i was amazed already back in 1990 as to what these people were doing at that time so i said to raphsmindover friedman yes to the people that are not here for them it's not so important for me for the people that are coming to you it means the world to them for us as parents they have not appearance they only have us so maybe what we do to some people is not significant but to this child it means the world hashem i was able to do this this be involved with my children and have this relationship now should i need that we're able to do it and many parents say hashem are seeing the knackers we're seeing the results we're proud of what we do we're not ashamed of what we do we're not ashamed of our neighbors we're not a problem not an issue with with anything else and we we carry our badge of honor so i'm actually talking a little bit to new parents that are here you should be proud of what you do be proud of being a parent your child has nobody else many years ago when we started kashanashi i was very fortunate to have a few ingallats all involved in the passion shlaimi litzman jinji hain rosenberg that mamish pushed me to continue doing the avoider believe me putting together this event on any of these events even this first small event that we did a bbq was not easy and hashem from our first event that we had 75 people to the second event that we had 250 people to our first showers we had 300 and we had 130 um couples here which was a 260 parents here over shabbos and then many came out to shabbos this is turning into something where we can say claudius is really needs an organization like this to be open 24 7 every single day every single week and hopefully with the help of many people that i have spoken the last couple of weeks there will be many other programs that we'll be able to share with other people i'm just going to say a couple of words regardless moiset we must probably went through over a million dollars since we started and many many parents because they love the children because they want the children to grow because they want the children to live and thrive they really exert themselves beyond the human capacity on the normal basis and they go out of their way it's like at seller members get a phone call three o'clock in the morning it doesn't matter even if it's on shabbos the ones that never had to break it to have their phone on certain cases 24 7 i mean 24 7. and we were able to save money in the shamans we have over 100 children of hashem today that are from because of what we are doing as should i come i should i can be following what we do [Applause] so appealing to the people that are here to see because most parents here don't have the funds to continue helping us sometimes it's talking to a friend talking to a giver letting them know we had muay thai the last few weeks when we couldn't go collecting funds because of covert we were pushed back many months and parents people weren't told people said they're granting they don't even let us into the house even with an appointment but hashem hashem gave us through different people to help us out tonight we're very fortunate to have the lombine family because of this huss of their son of a mitzvah boy to want to sponsor such a beautiful event thank you very much i want to i want to wish the lombard family and the parents and grandparents on both sides which the ones we know and the ones we don't know they should only see nakas they should have in everything they do up till the time of amen