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Welcome
everyone shalom aleichem to the agra
d'pirka
Monday afternoon national shear. Welcome
everyone. We have a very important and
relevant topic not only to this week's
parsha but something that could apply
to our daily life and our daily hashem.
A mitzvah that is mentioned in this
week's parsha
and not only is it a mitzvah in the
parsha but it's
one of the
certainly one of the most important
advice.
It's a mitzvah about which it was said
God about Torah. It's a great principle
in the Torah.
When the guy came to Hillel and he said
convert me while I'm standing
on one leg so Hillel said you have to
that's Torah Torah. The says
the
first of all of you.
Do not take revenge, do not bear a
grudge against the members of your
people.
We all have
to
and you should love your neighbor like
yourself. I need a sham.
Now there are many advice in the Torah.
There are 613 advice. Nevertheless
we do not find by other advice that you
need to accept the mitzvah upon
yourself.
You need to perform the mitzvah when the
mitzvah arises but that there's a need
to accept upon yourself the
responsibility of the mitzvah that is
something that we don't really find. We
know that before
one has to
the yoke of heaven.
But that there's a idea that one has to
accept upon themselves the
responsibility of a particular mitzvah
that is unusual. And yet there is a
terminology that has been legislated as
we're going to see that every morning a
person should make the following
declaration. Behold
I accept upon myself the
positive command of the
command. And you should love your
neighbor like yourself. I accept upon
myself the positive command. You should
love your neighbor like yourself.
Where does this come from? Who
legislated the recitation of this
formula? Well, this originates in the
writings of the Arizal. records in the
kabbalists.
Before
a person arranges his in shul from
the parsha and on one
has to accept upon themselves the
mitzvah you should love your neighbor
like yourself.
One
has to
to love each member of the Jewish people
like their own soul.
Because
of
the
Israel.
Because by doing so you will
bring up your prayer
incorporated from all the prayers of
Israel. In other words the first thing
we need to know is the legislation. The
legislation is one should orally declare
that they accept upon themselves the
mitzvah of
the command. And have
to love every Jew like themselves.
What's the advantage of that? Why do
that?
So the Arizal immediately tells us the
rationale behind it. There's a very
important reason. Because by doing so
I incorporate my with all the of Israel.
The
rise upon high velocity spree and
accomplish.
In other words otherwise if I just
or even if I with a minyan I could with
a minyan
but if my prayers are my personal
prayers
then my prayer goes up as a
island unto itself. And they will not be
as effective. But if a person accepts
upon themselves the mitzvah of loving
your neighbor like like themselves you
will incorporate your
from among all the of Israel. And it
could go high and high velocity spree
and accomplish.
over front
of the room.
Especially love for
friends.
One should engender love for one's
friends. How
other words
when a person learns Torah together with
other people one should engender love
for all the people joining with them. So
as my
A person has to incorporate themselves
as if he is one limb from among his
friends.
And then what should you do that result
says is that may have sorrow. If let's
say one of your friends is in distress
everyone
needs to join up in the person's pain.
If
somebody is ill you need to join in
their distress or
or because of children you
need to pray for them. The
field of stuff likewise in all of a
person's prayers
and his needs and words you should
you need to join up your friend with
him.
And
our that we warned us very greatly about
engendering a for our friends. So in
other words that result
is saying that this is this is not just
like a mystical
fulfillment to try to be
to be
the mitzvah of the
but there's a logic to it. The logic is
that you are jet powering you're giving
your prayer nuclear energy because
instead of it being just a private
prayer it prayer is now incorporated
among all the prayers of Israel.
Actually this interesting in the
safer
or akuma.
A reifel
one of the
best
me Dublin car. He brings a martial from
the
that one time the
was
with a group of people
and they
were
they had great feelings of friendship
among each other. And the
was
rather long and they couldn't really
wait for him. They didn't have the
patience to wait for him. And everybody
went on their merry way and the was left
there alone. And after
the people came back a little bit later
to sort of return when the
finished and the said you know you
caused great
separation by abandoning me. And the
gave the following martial. He says
there was once say
We know that birds like to fly south in
the winter they like to go to warm
climates. That's one common commonality
that Jewish people have with birds. They
like to go to Miami in the winter. And
in a particular region there was there
was one bird a very colorful bird that
raised the interest of the king and the
king told his officers that he would
like them to try to catch the bird for
him. And so what they did was they all
gathered together and one guy stood on
top of the next guy's shoulder and the
next guy on top of his shoulder and the
next guy on top of his shoulder.
And this way they were going to climb to
the top of the tree and catch the bird.
The people on the bottom started getting
a little distracted got a little bored
and they started they pulled out they
were looking at something and they
started taking a coffee break and when
the guys on the bottom started to move
around and sway so everybody came
toppling down. Says the
similarly when it comes to
one's respective
is only as as strong and powerful
based on the combined effort of the
community. And if people are have
feelings of separation
and
and there's rift between people then the
is severely mitigated and limited. So
that's the importance of being
the mitzvah of
again it's not just a mitzvah to fulfill
when the time comes up but rather
supposed to be
something that one is supposed to be
every single morning and the first
reason that we're learning is that it
gives great efficacy to our
now it's interesting is this practice of
the re
is legislated by many many skin.
Most notably it's cited by again I found
in
the room brings that one one one when
one enters a shul they should say that I
need to
avoid that.
And
when you come to a shul you say that I
need to avoid that. When you enter the
shul you should say the base of him
the rash.
And
before you begin shacharit, says the
Magen Avraham quoting the Shaar
HaKavanot,
that before shacharit, you should be
mekabel upon yourself the mitzvah as say
of v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
And by the way, Chayadam likewise in
Chayei Adam above, he likewise says he
kabbalah atzmi l'ha'iv kol echad v'echad
min adam k'gufo like it says v'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha. And he supplies the
reason that we saw from the Ari because
by doing so, yachol tfilati b'chol
tfilot kol Yisrael. Likewise, Maran Gaon
Zeino the Chida in the Sefer Kesher
Gadol, he brings before P'sukei D'Zimra
yakabel alav mitzvat v'ahavta l'rei'acha
kamocha. Likewise, the Chida in the
Dvash L'Fi, which is a type of
encyclopedia of concepts, he says he
talks about the importance of being
mekabel the mitzvah v'ahavta l'rei'acha
kamocha before tfilah. And then he says
a beautiful drash on a pasuk in this
week's parsha. We know ahava is gematria
13, echad.
So, we read the pasuk as follows,
v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
If I supply love to you, ahava echad 13,
and you supply love, ahava echad back to
me, 13 and 13 is ani Hashem.
That's ani Hashem, that's 26. So,
through v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha,
through the ahava that we both show and
supply to each other, that brings
Hakadosh Baruchu
down to the world.
And just let's digress for a moment to
learn the Chida's second rationale for
what we accomplish by being mekabel the
mitzvah of v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
We know the mitzvah of v'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha, loving your friend
like yourself is a is a form of chesed,
a form of kindness that you display, you
show to your friend. And we know chesed
is always mamtik, it always sweetens
midas hadin and it turns it into
rachamim. So, this is the meaning of
v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha. If you show
ahava and chesed, ani Hashem. Ani is
gematria 61. Hashem is 26, a total of
87.
Ani Hashem. Through ahava, by being
mekuyam the mitzvah of v'ahavta, by
being mekuyam the mitzvah of ahavas
Hashem, excuse me, ahavas chaveiro,
that's a form of chesed, what you're
doing is
ani Hashem, 87, and you're one-upping
Elokim. You're overcoming Elokim. You're
climbing above the midah of Elokim, the
midas hadin. So, this would supply
another reason of why it's beneficial to
accept upon oneself the mitzvah v'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha in the morning
because you're trying to gain rachamim,
you're trying to gain mercy, and by
you're trying to arouse midas harachamim
through your tfilah. And one way of
accomplishing that is by being mekabel
the mitzvah of v'ahavta l'rei'acha
kamocha. By the way, this is also
brought in Ben Ish Chai in Parshas
Mikeitz Shanah Alef before tfilah one
should be mekabel the mitzvah v'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha,
which again means if some if you have a
friend who's b'tzarah, you should daven
for him. Kaf HaChaim also brings before
your misader tfilasai,
he quotes the words of the Arizal
v'arbeidam. And likewise in Siman Chaf
Alef Chaf Gimmel, he also brings that
one should be mekuyam
mekabel
mekabel the mitzvah to of v'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha. By the way, the
Machtzis HaShekel
supplies a reason.
Um, and he elaborates on what we learned
what the reason of the Arizal. He says
dem yesh chas v'shalom peirud l'vavos,
if heaven forbid
there is discord
she'chas v'shalom ein hisachdus
nafshoseihem shel Yisrael l'ma'alah. It
cause
a discord and
and uh disunity between the souls of
Israel on high.
Ach kish kol K'lal Yisrael
mekabel alav l'kayem mitzvas as say
she'v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha. But if
every Jew accepts upon themselves the
mitzvah to love their friend,
v'al y'dei ahavas on zeh lazeh,
and through their love, yisachdus gufei
gufei seihem l'matah, their bodies join
down here, the hisachdus v'dveikus
nafshoseihem l'ma'alah, and it causes
unity and
cleaving of their souls above. So then,
gam tfilosam misachdus.
In other words, the Machtzis HaShekel
explains that if if down here there's
discord,
then there's no unity upstairs and then
everyone's tfilah upstairs is separate.
But if everyone accepts upon themselves
the mitzvah v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha,
if our bodies are joined in unity down
here, then we are joined in unity
upstairs and then our tfilos are also
unified as one and they are much more
effective. And therefore, Rabbi Eliezer
Papo, the author of Pele Yoetz,
he was
he composed a tfilah.
His tfilah goes like this, l'shem yichud
Kudsha B'rich Hu u'Shchintei, hareini
mekabel alai
I accept upon myself the divinity Elokus
Yisborach, the divinity of God,
v'ahavasai and His love,
v'yirasai and His fear.
Hu b'rachamav yita b'libeinu ahavas
v'yiras v'lo shalem asher yimplant in
our hearts love of Him, fear of Him to
do His will wholeheartedly, v'lo y'niga
l'rei'a b'chol ha'olam, so that we
should have
satisfaction from our descendants.
V'hareini mekabel alai mitzvas as say
she'v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha. And I
accept upon myself the mitzvah of loving
my neighbor like myself. By the way, in
many siddurim they have the nusach in
before P'sukei D'Zimra. Hareini mekabel
alai mitzvas as say she'v'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha. My siddur, the Masok
M'Dvash, they give it to you. And then
interestingly, just as an aside,
and a friend of mine showed me this
recently,
then the siddur of of Rabbi Yaakov Emden
this appears as well, that we're used to
thinking that there's six things we
should remember every day, which by the
way we spoke about many times that the
Magen Avraham says the proper time to
remember them is in the brachah of
Ahavah Rabbah. They're actually
up to 10
uh
10 narratives and concepts and teachings
that it is important to remember on a
daily basis. Number one, Yetzias
Mitzrayim, Shabbos, Yetzias Mitzrayim we
remember at the end of Krias Shema.
Shabbos we remember when we say Zachor
es Yom HaShabbos l'kadsho.
The Man,
Amalek, Magen Avraham says you should
remember Amalek when you say l'shimcha
hagadol. Mayim Sinai,
Magen Avraham says when you say v'charev
tanur l'shimcha hagadol sod ha'emes
u'mah, that we got Hashem angry at the
Egel. Magen Avraham says when you say
b'ahava, that we have in mind now Hashem
loves us, but when we made the Egel, God
did not love us.
What Balak and Bilam wanted to do to us,
the story of Miriam,
the Magen Avraham says when you say
l'hoidos l'cha, you should have in mind
that Hashem gave us a mouth to thank
Him, but not to speak lashon hara like
Miriam.
Remember Yerushalayim,
and the mitzvah of kihu anoishin l'cha
kayachla se'is kayo.
By the way,
the Pnei Yehoshua brings that a remez
that before the tfilah of shacharit,
one should have in mind to attain the
mitzvah v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha is
mah betzah.
What benefit is there? Betzah could
stand for boiker,
tzaharayim, erev. What to'eles will
there be in my tfilah
ki lo ahavei sachino, if I don't love my
friend?
My tfilah will only be effective. Mah
betzah, my shacharit, mincha, and maariv
will only be effective if I have
feelings of ahavas
chaveiro, if I have feelings of v'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha.
And by the way, another remez to this
teaching,
Rav Tzvi comes from the Sefer Birkas
HaShirah of Rav Aaron Leib, Rav Aryeh
Leib Zinz in his perush on the Haggadah.
Ahavti ki yishma Hashem koli.
He says that ahavti,
when I'm mekuyam the mitzvah of ahavas
chaveiro before I start davening, then
ki yishma Hashem koli, then Hashem
listens to my tfilah. So, this is a
remez that before one begins to pray,
they should accept upon themselves the
mitzvah of v'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
So, so far we've learned two reasons for
it. Number one, when you incorporate
your tfilah among the other the tfilos
of all of Klal Yisrael, it's much more
effective. By the way,
I'll tell you a little story.
When the Rashbam, the son of the
daughter of Rashi passed away, was
passing away, he asked everyone to leave
the room, and he called his student,
and he gave him the following secret.
And he said, "When you give tzedakah,
give it to the gabbai's tzedakah, and
then add on a penny.
and say this pruta I'm giving for all of
Klal Yisrael.
Or any prayer that you offer
that you don't incorporate all of Israel
is not really accepted. So here this is
a tradition that dates back all the way
to Rashbam that one should always
perform mitzvahs
and do mass and toivims what we say
bishaim Klal Yisrael cuz then their
mitzvah and especially their tfila will
be all the more effective. So one reason
is your Klal Yisrael tfila is among all
of Klal Yisrael. Reason number two we
saw in Chida, it's mamtik the dinim.
It's mamtik midas hadin. Through the
ahavta, through the chesed of loving
your friend, ani Hashem. Ani Hashem is
87. It overcomes midas hadin.
Let's learn a third uh maila, a third
madre, a third uh element of what we
achieve by being mekabel upon ourself
the mitzvah of vihavta l'reiacha
kamocha. This comes from the Toldos
Yaakov Yosef. Again, talmid of the Baal
Shem Tov. He says
the what we achieve is k'dei sheyiya
tfilosai
klula im tfilois shleimei emunei Yisrael
hayodei'in kavanos hatfila.
Here's another great achievement of
joining your tfila together with the
rest of the Jewish people.
I'm a simple Jew.
My kavanos are limited.
I don't know what oilam each segment of
tfila is.
Perhaps I'm not even
achieving on my own what my tfila should
achieve, but there are Jews
who their prayers are extremely potent.
They have very lofty kavanos on every
aspect of tfila.
If I incorporate my tfila by being
mekabel the mitzvah of vihavta l'reiacha
kamocha I'm now appendaging my tfila
with the tfilos of all of Israel. And
specifically what I gain is now my tfila
is attached to the tfila of the tzadikim
and the chasidim who their tfila is
especially powerful and potent. So now
my tfila is going to be fueled and it's
going to go as high and it's going to be
as effective as the tfilos of these
shleimei emunei Yisrael hayodei'in
kavanos hatfila.
By the way, it's interesting the Beis
HaLevi on parshas Vayeishev
likewise refers to this teaching that
before one one starts davening one
should be mekabel upon themself
the mitzvah of vihavta l'reiacha
kamocha. The Beis HaLevi distinguishes
between the word
ribui and kibbutz.
Ribui
is needed in an army.
You see in an army you need a lot of
people. Why do you need a lot of people?
Because the more people you have
the more bullets that are are being
fired at the more locations the more
you're going to find the vulnerable area
of the enemy and the more you more
you'll be able to penetrate. But
everyone needs to be so to speak
shooting at a different target.
Everybody needs to be sort of
a man onto themselves. Meaning the
advantage of ribui is when you have a
lot of different people each doing
something a little different so in the
end you'll accomplish what you need to
because somewhere you're going to find
the area that that's uh
a vulnerable spot. Somewhere you're
going to find an area that's going to
going to succumb. But if everyone's
shooting at the same target then the
you're not really adding to uh
the what's the difference whether you
have 100 people or 1,000 people? You're
anyway we're shooting at that target.
But the Beis HaLevi says that when it
comes to tfila you need not a ribui, you
need a kibbutz. Kibbutz is everyone
gather together in the same place
praying to the same Ribono shel Olam for
the same
need. That is the advantage of kibbutz.
As and then the Beis HaLevi refers to
the teaching of the Arizal
uh namely that before one's tfila one uh
should be mekabel upon themself the
mitzvah of vihavta l'reiacha kamocha. He
says the zeh mevuar b'sifrei hamussar
she'akoidem hatfila yisbolen kol adam
b'mitzvas vihavta l'reiacha kamocha.
I want to share with you a fourth
element and a fourth important
maila
of accepting upon oneself the mitzvah of
vihavta l'reiacha kamocha before
tfila.
Reb Yonasan Eibeschutz brings
that before a person stands to daven he
should be moichel anyone who harmed him
and sort of say I'm not going to take
anyone
to court and meaning I'm not going to
deal with people b'midas hadin but
rather lifnei mishuras hadin. Doesn't
mean you can take someone to court, but
you're going to deal with people
um above and beyond the letter of the
law
and to try to remove all animosity,
jealousy
desire for honor
because how could you stand before the
Almighty donned in soiled garments? What
could be more disgraceful than
bad midos? To stand before God with bad
midos.
And therefore to be mekabel upon oneself
vihavta l'reiacha kamocha, to moichel
everyone, to go lifnei mishuras hadin
because Hashem deals with a person mida
k'neged mida.
And if you are ma'avir al midosav and
you remove from your heart kaas and
strife
and you're not going to go lifnei
mishuras hadin
then Hashem's not going to deal with you
lifnei mishuras hadin.
So that's another sort of important
element. By demonstrating love for your
friend and that
that you're going to forego what is due
to you, so then Hashem's going to deal
with you b'midas harachamim similar to
what we saw in the Chida that it's
mamtik the dinim. However, he says
if you're going to be very exacting and
stand on the letter of the law with your
friend
then your tfila is just going to be a
sin.
Because then by you standing in in front
of God in tfila, God is just going to
analyze your record and say you're
unworthy. So it's important to accept
upon yourself the mitzvah of vihavta
l'reiacha kamocha to ensure that your
tfila is not a cheit before Hakadosh
Baruchu.
And that perhaps is a little bit of a
different nekuda. Not only is it mamtik
the dinim, but you're basically saving
yourself. Otherwise it's it's perhaps
even dangerous to stand before God in
tfila with your review
with your record scrutinized so much.
And now we come to be to um a fifth
rationale for the Arizal
offered by the Bnei Yissachar in parshas
Mikeitz.
Bnei Yissachar Reb Avraham of Averech,
talmid of the Kedushas Levi, Reb Levi
Yitzchak of Berditchev. He says Chazal
tell us
klal gadol baTorah vihavta l'reiacha
kamocha zeh klal gadol baTorah.
And this mitzvah, says the Bnei
Yissachar, is needed for prayer.
That a person needs to be mekabel the
mitzvah before one prays. Why?
Says the Bnei Yissachar, the primary
hashras hashchina for Hashem to dwell on
a person
the primary requirement is the mida of
anivus, is the mida of humility.
Meaning
when a person understands
that
I'm so distant from Hakadosh Baruchu
I'm immersed in physicality
I don't have a panim to da- to pray to
Hashem because of my great pritzus.
Meaning
mean the the main hashras hashchina when
a person has genuine feelings of
unworthiness
and how do I dare stand in prayer before
Hakadosh Baruchu?
The only way I could daven, person
should feel, is b'soch ami, lost in the
crowd, among my people.
To be koilel himself among all of
Israel, to love every Jew like themself.
And by accepting upon myself the mitzvah
of vihavta l'reiacha kamocha and judging
everyone favorably
then
and joining with the rest of the Jewish
people
then a person is able to really
so to speak get lost in the crowd and
engender hashras hashchina and real
humility for Hashem to come and dwell
upon the person. So the mitzvah of
accepting upon yourself vihavta
l'reiacha kamocha
says the Bnei Yissachar is in order to
accomplish this and achieve this feeling
of
of recognizing and feeling that we are
in fact unworthy of davening and that
will ultimately be the greatest way to
have our tfilos be accepted.
And um
finally the Bnei Yissachar gives another
reason why of the advantage of accepting
upon oneself the mitzvah of vihavta
l'reiacha kamocha before one davens
and that is because davening is in place
of the korban tamid.
And when to bring the korban tamid it's
brought on on
And you need to be like a kohen.
Well, if you need to be like a kohen, by
the way, that's why we wash netilat
yadayim
every morning
in order to be
like a kohen doing the avodah, because
our daily prayer is actually an avodah
similar to the kohanim going into the
Beit Hamikdash. And we've explained in
the past how P'sukei Dezimra
corresponds to the
the heichal
entering the ulam, and
Yotzer Or is connected to the shulchan,
and Ahavat Olam is connected to the
menorah, and Shema is connected to the
mizbeach haketoret, and Ga'al Yisrael is
the parochet,
and Shemoneh Esrei is the Kodesh
Hakodashim.
And therefore, we are in fact like
kohanim. And if we are like kohanim,
then just the middah of a kohen is the
middah of V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
Have a mitzvah shel Ahavat Yisrael,
v'rodef shalom, ohev et habriyot,
u'mekarvan laTorah.
Sfas Emes says a beautiful idea. We know
that Rabbi Akiva says that klal gadol
baTorah
And Ben Azzai says that klal gadol
baTorah is zeh sefer toldot Adam.
Sfas Emes says the ikkar fulfillment of
Torah u'mitzvot is to do so among the
rest of klal Yisrael, not an island unto
oneself. Zeh klal gadol baTorah. The
ikkar kedushah is generated when one
performs mitzvot among the rest of the
Jewish people. Therefore, we're mekayem
mitzvot b'shem kol Yisrael in order to
be mevater oneself to the klal. This is
klal gadol baTorah. What's klal katan?
If klal gadol baTorah is V'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha, then klal katan is
that every mitzvah should be done with
all of one's ramach varim u'shasa gidim.
That's the klal katan. The klal gadol is
kol Yisrael.
Comes Ben Azzai. And Ben Azzai says zeh
sefer toldot Adam. Not only do you have
to do Torah u'mitzvot b'shem kol
Yisrael, you need to incorporate with
you
all the generations.
Klal gadol, kol haneshamot that were
klal in Adam Harishon.
When you do a mitzvah, you have to do it
b'shem kol Yisrael.
In
you're doing the mitzvah for the Jews of
this generation, of earlier generations,
of the times of pre-war Europe, times of
the Inquisition. Person has to do a
mitzvah b'shem the klal Yisrael of the
Jewish people. One has to identify with
the entity called klal Yisrael. And klal
Yisrael is not
one person or even one generation. One
needs to identify
And by the way, this is one of the
important reasons to have at least a
basic awareness of Jewish history,
because the highest madregah of avodat
Hashem is to serve Hashem on behalf of
the entity that is historic Israel,
historic klal Yisrael. The the
entity of Yisrael from all generations.
That's the opinion of Ben Azzai.
And finally, a practical reason why one
should be mechaven to mekayem the
mitzvah of V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha
before one davens.
Why not before one learns or any other
mitzvah? So actually, we we said over
from the Rashbam, the Rashbam said
really, whenever you give tzedakah or
any mitzvah, you should have in mind the
that you're doing it b'shem kol Yisrael.
But why specifically tefillah?
So the practical reason given by Rav
Gamaliel HaKohen Rabinovich,
who's related to the very well-known Rav
Rav Gamaliel Rabinovich,
um who's the Mekubal, he says as
follows. He says, you know, the
the tefillah in the beit haknesset,
especially shacharit, could be a very
stressful time. It could it could bring
up a lot of strife and quarreling. What
nusach, what pronunciation, who's going
to daven for the amud? What do you mean
you're davening for the amud? But my
second cousin's goldfish's uncle passed
away in 4 weeks, so I have to have the
amud. Wow, what are you talking about?
My machatenista's fifth cousin's
grandson's nephew
one time I think he might have died on
this day. I'm not sure whether it was
today or or maybe he's still alive, so I
should have the amud. It could be very,
very stressful.
And then one guy says, you know,
the rebbe in the town where of my
seventh cousin's grandfather's sister
passed away
190 years ago from 6 weeks from today,
so I should have the amud. So that could
be very stressful. And therefore, before
we start the tefillah of shacharit, we
have to we accept upon ourselves the
mitzvah of V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
This way, we ensure that we have a
fighting shot that the proceedings of
the morning will go smoothly without any
altercation, that we won't have to call
the police department to straighten out
any uh issues at the amud. So that's
another reason to uh be mekabel the
mitzvah of V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
Now,
we'll end up with a story, and then I'll
give you the executive summary. There
was a young man in Yerushalayim who got
married, and after a couple days, he
sees it's not working out. Can't get
along with his wife. They're fighting,
they're at each other's throats, they're
fighting like cats and dogs. So he runs
away, he goes to a shul in Tiberias, and
he sleeps there in the night. The rav
comes in, Rav Moshe Kliers, and he says,
"What what are you doing here?" So the
avreich didn't want to answer. So the
rav said, "You know what? You'll come to
my house, you could stay over at my
house." Next morning, the avreich sees
and this rav, he's bringing his wife a
tea to her bed.
And every day the rav, before davening,
brings a cup of tea to his wife.
So the avreich tells the rav, "You know,
I really can't stay here anymore. I see
your wife is ill.
It's not right for me to
to stay in your house." He says, "Ma
pitom? My wife's not sick, she's very
healthy."
So he says, "Why are you bringing her a
tea every morning?"
So what do you mean?
This is to be mekayem the mitzvah of
V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha. If the
Arizal says you should think in your
mind before you daven, you're mekabel
upon yourself the mitzvah of V'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha, so I thought to
myself, what, it's enough just to say
it? You think it's enough just to say
it? Even better than saying it is before
I daven, I should actually do it. So
what could be better than before I
daven, I bring my wife a tea? As the
Gemara in Kiddushin says, the main
rei'acha that you should be V'ahavta
kamocha is your own wife. So better than
saying Hareini mekabel al atzmi mitzvah
assei shel V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha,
better than saying it is actually doing
it. So we've learned today
that the Arizal recommends, and it's
cited by
Magen Avraham,
Chayei Adam, Chida, Kaf Hachaim, Rabbi
Yonasan Eybeschutz, that one should
recite every morning Hareini mekabel al
atzmi mitzvah assei shel V'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha. We provided seven
reasons. Number one, the Arizal said,
when you're kolel kolel your tefillah
among all the tefillot of all of Israel,
it is much more powerful. Number two,
the Chida says that by showing this
chesed, you're mamtik the middat hadin,
and through V'ahavta Ani Hashem 87, one
more than middat hadin. Number three,
we saw from the the Toldot Yaakov Yosef
that by being mekayem this mitzvah,
you're joining up with the tefillot of
shlomei emunei Yisrael. And you know,
you might daven a quick shacharit, but
there are Jews who daven maybe in
Yerushalayim, they daven shacharit an
hour and a half. I know in Borough Park,
there's a minyan, a very chashuv minyan,
they daven an hour and a half a day. So
even if you're not on that madregah, at
least have in mind I love all Jews, so
your tefillah will now be empowered by
the tefillot of shlomei emunei Yisrael.
Number four, this way your own tefillah
will not be sinful, you will not be
scrutinized so heavily, because if you
love your friend and you're willing to
judge them favorably, God will likewise
do that to you, and your tefillah will
not be a cause of
uh
careful scrutiny. Number five,
one engenders the hashra'at hashchinah
through humility,
getting being among the rest of the
Jewish people, b'seichel ami anoichi
yashev,
which one accomplishes by being mekayem
mekabel the mitzvah of V'ahavta
l'rei'acha kamocha. Number six, bringing
tefillot is like the avodah in the Beit
Hamikdash, you're like a
kohen, and you want to
follow the the middot of kehunah, which
is to be ohev shalom v'rodef shalom, and
we accomplish that by saying Hareini
mekabel al atzmi mitzvah assei shel
V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha. And then
practically speaking, to avoid any
strife in the beit haknesset when you're
together with others, you
you you start off the day with the
kavanah Hareini mekabel al atzmi mitzvah
assei shel V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha.
And now we see why this is klal gadol
baTorah. And we learned from the Sfas
Emes an an amazing idea, that not only
should you try to join your mitzvot
together with the mitzvot of all of of
but you should perform mitzvahs on
behalf of the entire historicity, the
entire kaima shlaima of the Jewish
people from the beginning of time. So,
we should strive to a more fuller
fulfillment of the great mitzvah of
that which Rabbi Akiva said is the God
of the Torah. Thank you very much for
joining today. I wish you all a
wonderful day.
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