Just let go!!! #whatapod EP. 8

I don't even know which number we are at >> barashm we no yeah bar here in bar we don't know which number because >> we're this is going to be endless >> because endless hashem is endless the whole nine yards is endless >> and I want to thank you personally that um you're giving me such a big platform I've been trying to teach to for years and I do for many people but they're very low numbers and you've managed to get my word at my word >> and beautiful Ashkaf to the point that this you know we did an episode of countless people came over to meow >> just to thank me and um you know you've been getting a lot of feedback >> such to start the year like that myashun was the weirdest rash I had in my life >> weird is interesting word weird >> weird >> go ahead >> weird scary >> I was still in the hospital >> oh yeah that's right I'm sorry you 48 hours before we tried to get discharged. >> So if this part didn't go in, I was in the hospital with my baby for 3 weeks. >> Yeah. >> And I had a just Hashem wanted me to see all these organizations firsthand from the from the from the I don't know if they call it right side. It is the right side. Yeah. To is the right side. But uh I have a whole new perspective about in in Colombia. >> By the way, maybe it's something we're going to touch on today. I think >> we'll go to Yeah. But I want I want to tell you about my rashun because you mentioned rashuna. So I'm going to go into rashuna just to tell you a little bit about my rash. A classic the bisph in the lobby of Colombia was a he stands there by the omay deep into everybody takes out a tissue because they're going to bow down. Yeah. And in comes a nurse. And what I don't know if it's the right term to say, but what does she say? Sir, we need you. And he says, "I'm in the middle of I'm not going nowhere." So she says, "Sir, do you want us to let her go or do you want us to put her on a respirator?" >> Wow. Wow. And then >> that was real life >> 17. It wasn't like a mush. People were yawning at this point in a shield. We were not yawning. >> Wow. >> And this was a full-fledged minion of all kinds of Eid. All kinds of every we had from to modern modern. We had everything. >> And you were one. >> I was just one. >> No, you were one family. We were one family. >> That's also another message you noticed that >> and everybody had their mountain. >> Oh, you're talking about the aas there. It's it's it's it >> everything falls apart fall falls away. All barriers fall away when when you're in [snorts] tune in reality. Nothing matters really not because of tudas that bring us together just living am >> you realize that yeah they say you always have a strat I heard it from you always have a lot of small problems until you have a health problem it's it's everything becomes so small and even the people who go to space they always say when they see that once they see the globe >> yes >> how we're a comparison to >> yeah come on >> stop fighting with your neighbor for a parking spot. It's it's it's >> or for color of color of the of the socks, [laughter] black socks, white socks that's going to make us, you know, >> we are so macro sometimes and we forget. So this is this is meant to >> so I think I'm glad we had this episode for because it may have been only that how do not have this episode and so you had different feelings too. You also knew about um the beauty of the day and >> so I had to go to a pharmacy nearby the hospital. Honor >> honor. They forced me. They said that you're not getting discharged without taking the box. And I asked and everything was okay. >> But I was walking the streets of Manhattan Broadway and I was singing the whole time because I wanted I wanted to I wanted to remind myself >> that's there's no way remembering without that. Second of all, I wanted to say if Hashem wants me to be Malah here, >> at least I should do it. You know, I should I should do something. >> Wow. >> I was just in the middle of all this bustling. >> Yeah. >> And that's really the should all see if they would only know who the is, there wouldn't be the bustling. No, it it's going to take a second when when when Hashem is ready, when we are ready, when whoever needs to >> I think it's going to come from our ends and slowly it's working. You know, Trump like him or hate him, he's brought back the word God in the go world. >> He's for sure. >> So, so he's like we can speak openly about it and because that's what we should be doing um speaking about Hashem and Hashem's name should be known all over. >> Yes. Okay. So what's the topic today? We were in the middle of >> Let me let me see if you remember. >> No, right. We have >> What do you want? >> Excuse me. What do you want from me? >> Right. >> I said what do I want from you? >> We have things and we decided that is a relationship. >> Everything is a relationship. So means a fear of missing out >> on this relationship. Right. And then the next one would be >> right and we say I felt good saying okay he the relationship the amount of the relationship depends on me >> indeed >> because he's too much loving it's on the lesser >> very good >> on the lesser it depends on the lesser >> always depends on the lesser of the two >> right yeah that's what he said okay that's what's >> so we're about to go forward >> which one is the next >> but before that we have a sponsor >> okay let's talk about the sponsor wow you promise you [laughter] you came so good >> because I want Before we say what the sponsor who he is, I I think it's important to know that um it's it's a tremendous if if if these messages and this to go to thousands of people, >> thousands and thousands of people, which it does. >> Which it does. And Immish helps people then it's a tremendous to sponsor on episodes. Yes. >> Because people literally change your life. When you use the word, we use it too easily. Hey, it changed my life. It changed my It does. It changes your life. I'm not saying it to boast cuz I know when my life changed when I had this stuff when I heard this toy from years ago it changed my life. >> Yes. >> So I know it changes lives. >> Yes. >> So so we have we have um a sponsor for this episode. >> What's his name? >> So um he says it's not about him. So it's not about his name. Although Zisha Bron and um >> if he doesn't want his name mentioned it's fine. I want his name mentioned because he has a um he's sponsoring it and he has a business and he says it's not about my business. I don't want to sponsor to share my business which does he want to share >> national pest control but that's not about his business. He has an unbelievable organization in my organization. It's called Panosini. >> Panasoni. >> Panisani is he finds jobs for people who don't have jobs. >> So any man that's looking for a job >> could call it Panasoni >> for free. >> For free. But it gets way better than this. There are organizations that do this. There are organizations that you know help find jobs. What they have is much like a shatan idea. They have lists of people who are looking for jobs and they have lists of local all the local jobs >> that are >> and they have the names of the people who would hire. They also place in every kahiller someone responsible that this gel who anyone in this gah if they're looking for a job they would go to their local representative. >> Right? Right. >> So they have placed in each kah in bells and sat and poe and vision in each kah in my they have representatives that know who needs a job and then they would do they have from the back end in their office they they find jobs appropriate now >> meaning they they don't just dump you with names and numbers of available jobs they make sure that it's suitable for you. >> That's right. So many times um organizations would call would call up a company and say you know this person look for job they may get bored by now of hearing know I don't need to hear more names you know you're sending in any lawyer you know but what they do is they actually built a unbelievable reputation >> that companies trust them now and companies call them so what he's actually trying to do and to get the word out not just for people to call him when they need a job he wants the word out to the companies that they should call pattern that they're looking for a worker and they would get good ones because they do good. >> They've got a good reputation for doing good. >> I would assume if they're doing good, they're probably interviewing each one >> and they're interviewing each one >> and they're going through their skill set. What did they like? >> They do dating coaching, if I may use that term. Really? That means before the interview, they they they co they coach them >> for specifically this person and this job. >> Wow. And if the first interview didn't go well, we'll have another date >> and they'll then they'll prep them >> and then they like again >> and that's only after they know that >> it might be a good mas like so continuing with that example they continuing on like the check in both sides how >> this is amazing >> and they've helped countless jobs I forgot the number I think thousands of people they've found jobs for. But what you're saying, the uniqueness of this, it's not just a brokerage for jobs. It's not just um another organization. We'll help you. You send us your name. Yeah. >> They actually it's a a sophisticated system with someone in the office. There's an office. Yes. >> Someone in the office sitting there. >> Everyone else is volunteers. There's plenty of volunteers as I said in every kahill, but there's someone paid in the office >> to make sure to everyone and and to know what what they're good for and what they're not. So before they suggest anything to anyone both sides they will first find out what exactly you need and how it works and then they'll also coach them through >> for the linking for the shik and then they'll check in if the shik continues. >> That's right. >> I made one in my life a real >> a real and you see how much work it is. >> Yeah. And I always when I see him do they say is everything okay? >> So very good >> bro. I don't need it on my reputation you know you better take care of it. >> So they Yeah. So they check up afterwards and because they're in the business they even get calls from cases not again businesses right >> even if they they want the says I'm struggling with my worker >> I know you know how to prep them or he help them help them they identify what issues he's always coming late he's coming late to great workers coming late and he would send a representative a good bas counselor to help this I understand where is like >> coming late is also a turn off for the vamas when you get up late and you go to so that's a sensitive topic maybe we shouldn't talk okay maybe >> so maybe they can do things also >> so they managed to do everything like so his organization PI again he has his own business he sponsored the the um episode not to advertise his business but to advertise his which he doesn't get a penny for it and um I I guess we'll put up the number. >> We'll put up the number. The email address. I guess there is there's a website. >> Yes, I think so. Or at least email address. >> Okay. >> And and this could be maybe we can apply over there or something. >> You'll [laughter] hire me or vice versa. >> That's right. So, by the way, so if you want to sponsor an episode, >> That's right. >> and you want all this, >> even if you want half the >> right here. So I want to thank um he's a good friend of mine Zisha Bron. He's actually um one of my Tommy from years really. You've been coming to my classes in Muny. I do give a sh I've mentioned it to you a sh for men in my um every Thursday night and he's been coming for about 12 13 years. >> Did it grow because we mentioned that people are invited. >> So that's a good question. >> Uh it was Yamv. >> It was Yam. Thank you. >> Maybe I should come. Maybe I should come over with a with a van of guys. >> The women's groups are certainly great. >> Yeah. Okay. >> The women are more listeners than men. >> That's the truth. That's who they are naturally. That's how Hashem created them. >> Imagine both of us are shouting. Okay. So now we're going back to what's the next step after >> so the next step after Hashem says I want from you I want you to go in his ways. Now there's a what would that mean? Okay. >> First thing I would say would be copy him. Copy paste. >> Beautiful. So says, >> right? [snorts] >> So what it really means in one word, in other words, it doesn't it doesn't it's not talking about going his ways as in follow the to because we're going to get toem if you remember. >> It's different. >> It so it's midas. Be like him. Hashem is good. >> If he's kind, be kind. >> Be kind. So that's when I mentioned to you before that possibly we'll speak about organizations. Um part of part of being a what does Hashem want for you? He wants you to be a good person. It's not enough to be a >> where's the list says what is what's the list from the things that he as I said his his mid so maybe you can go through >> how would I understand that means his mid and where would I find the list of the midas >> because as I said the says if you go in his ways what's his ways his nature his his nature what's his nature hashem is good his he's good he created a world of put yourself. Get involved in what type of to help the world, not to help your name. And it's not about you and it's not about you. >> It's about how can I make the world a better place. >> I think most is done anonymously. >> It could be >> like even those big organizations, they started small. They started just because they wanted to do something good. Uh good examples 247 bag by the way, they're having a campaign in a few minutes. Um and and I owe them so much of stuff. You have no idea. They actually came with a birthday cake. >> Oh wow. >> To my son. They bought us toys and stuff. Oh, these guys be there's a I can go on and on. I don't want this episode to turn about him. But what I'm trying to say is how did it start? It was three ladies in in the square town that were cooking meals in their kitchen and they sp >> most big organization began like that. that the the or the the um the is that shouldn't get to your head and you continue doing what you're doing. You know this week's parl a good question. He's a poor man. Doesn't have any children. An old poor man. No children. He's ridiculed all over. Do you know what that word means? >> No. >> I thought so. >> I was about [laughter] to ask you. I'm way >> like he was called. What does every mean? >> Is from the other side. >> Which other side did it come from? >> Other side of the world. Everybody was on one side. >> Thank you. Not just the other. Yeah. Yeah. Not just other side. >> Oh wow, I remember the rash. >> Very good. So not just other side of the world physically also like like who's that guy? You know the entire world was on one side. He was think that that means he was a social outcast. >> Yeah. >> Like who's this guy? Yeah. >> Like you don't believe in the gods. You know you came up with this one and only god. Unbelievable. He had nothing. And then there's the reason I'm I'm saying you know quote unquote it's like what's the Hashem promised him if you leave your house it's this >> you see how Hashem puts our episodes in the right is this >> bro you can't make THIS UP WE WE WE'RE LIKE OKAY YOU KNOW WHAT NEXT >> was supposed to be last week that's right >> you know >> you know we would have had things on >> that's right and he puts in so much effort to put this together. So, we might as well recognize. >> So, we're going to have to come back cuz we we're going to speak about I want to come back to a different which I've um um much more which I want to focus on today if I may. So, we'll come back also to as in the other but let's just stay focused a second. Hashem says if you go you're gonna get you'll have money um you'll have generations you'll have children and he goes so what's the >> you just promised him the world >> you promised him the world the answer is his whole life he was doing his right [sighs] sometimes it's easy to preach your shittas you know I got nothing else going for me I may it says Abra went not because he's going to get money. Not because he's going to get children or fame. He went because he continued doing what he was doing. Hashem told me to go. I'll go. The nur wasn't you going to go or not? Of course he's going to go. The nur was that is that your organization which you started is going to become huge one day. Will it get to your head and now you're the oyer and now you're giving gayas and now like you know who I am. you know, no, he's the same simple man doing what he always wanted to do. So the organization say absolutely we have to be healthy givers continue giving. >> You also said right now you didn't even realize that the Jewish organization the Jewish nation. >> Yeah. >> Started >> That's right. >> with a small simple guy. >> That's right. That's right. That's right. So it means for the sake of for the sake of giving not for becoming um big organizations. So Hashem wants from us and I think it's very important just to speak out interesting the says what's the um three testing you now three of >> BEAUTIFUL >> WOW I'm doing great you're way better than >> I'm loving this. >> You put yourself down too much. No, no, he gave the answers before. >> Yeah, I know. >> Which means which means define aid. It doesn't say the or even the guy which all of this is very important and every has to learn to and do mitzvah. >> Why? One of one of the myths or claims or one of the things I had in my head when I was a I know some have the is always the case in the play. Why why does it have to be like that is not such a big one. I love you dearly but I I think you have a complete wrong >> you know what let's stick to the bash I'm cutting off everything why you translating it means means a sensitive person doesn't mean the nature of a slowly we'll get there you get there >> what does mean shy people embarrassed people >> gentle >> gentle By him is gentle. >> Yeah. >> Mhm. >> It it means it means I'm not taking over whenever I walk in. It's me. It's not about me. >> It's not about me. It's not about me. That's what means. >> So it's not making it's he >> those players that the a sensitive person >> a giver that's a giver. >> Yeah. >> So this really sums up in this one. Yes. >> Oh wow. >> Which means sensitive souls, idle, you know, gentle people and givers. >> So people who are idol and thought it's and they're not the loudest people in they should know it's a good thing >> for sure. But but says >> so what is that? That's >> which means it is >> what >> like everything in Judaism you got to have a right balance. You can't say oh I'm idol. Yeah, but you got to learn. >> So, you're going to ask the question and sometimes it's thrown on you a job to lead. You have to lead, but just don't make it about yourself. >> Stick to the mission. Stick to the mission. >> Wow. >> Just just do your job. Just do your job. Hashem wants you to build a beautiful world. So, I started saying um that's the definition. That's what is now. It's it's it's fascinating because you know, someone asked me for time. I always get these questions because I'm involved, you know, talking to people and someone did something really really bad but bad or the bad no a personal but really bad >> but that's only for humanity. >> No, no, no. He just did a real hardcore, you know, like eating pork and yum. So he asked me after Yumip I don't know Hashem probably didn't it wasn't me I spent Yumipa begging you know he probably wasn't it was too big too very big >> and I was like you don't get it >> he really believed that it's too heavy for Hashem to lift like he needed a trucking company for this >> by the way that language lift k was the one that said it asked is my too heavy to carry >> wow says you carry you can't carry little >> that's what K said >> and we should use that >> that's how he was was >> yeah so now here's what I I want to bring out a different point people think that this is a big I told this guy this is exactly what is for exactly what ch is for when the see speak about is about heavy hardcore and do it's for the most part people in show What did you really do? >> Right. Yeah. >> But but you did actually. Of course it helps. >> This is the people we need in >> No, but more than that, it's that is what Chie is for. For our fighters was designed for you. >> Now, why am I saying this? Cuz people who have bad mitts, they don't feel as bad as this guy, right? >> But in a way, it's it. I would be more concerned about someone who has bad mitts. Like you, I don't know if you're Jewish. We should check out your DNA. But this is a Jewish shouldn't go and eat. >> But bad midd the doesn't say you know it's it's it's a nature actually speak about >> not it's not one of the 613 mitzvah. No >> no it's like in fact the gabura says on a family speaks about a family and everyone noticed this family had bad meds and one of said we should really check out the and they found out they were Jewish. >> Wow. >> Now nobody would say that on Shabas. So how do we view certain people not part of us? The guy yelling has a shabos >> might be the one the problem. >> He's less Jewish. That's right. >> Wow. Because because because who is >> so accepting another is part of it. [snorts] >> Accepting another is like that's that that's what a Y is to accept and love every yet. >> It's so sad to see and it's all it's more more exciting than over here the the >> the divide. >> Yeah. Too many pieces. The Jewish nation is so small. >> It's so sad. We were hoping >> that noise say >> I don't know. October 6 was the most one of the most horrible days in Clifford. Remember? >> Yeah. >> October 5, October 6 leading up. >> Yeah. >> And we were hoping October 8th was would be a new world and it lasted for two weeks. >> So sad. >> Even co did something good but uniting and bring but >> we'll come back to our >> even with you remember he's humble >> shine simple. Okay, we're doing good. That's going to open another hole. >> So, so what what >> you know I I think I told you your father came to visit me. >> Yeah. >> It was so beautiful. Such an honor. Just had >> he saw our episode. He said I got to visit this guy. He said I give me his address. Give me >> We had a long conversation about life and it was very beautiful. But he shared also his pain. He says forget about and from not forget about I mean even don't go there. He says a bel you man walks in the street and a ghus passes him. They won't greet each other. So sad >> because we're we're we're different. >> Used to be when I was a kid and every ye that passed each other was normal. >> I have way more than that. I was from Manchester. So if you actually saw saw it was so exciting, you know, it was normal >> because it was a family and everyone went >> it was so beautiful. When I came to Muny and I got married, I came to Muny. I meet someone in the street and I would say gabas and he goes, "Do I know you?" So, I'm sorry. I thought you were Jewish. [laughter] >> That's a good line. >> That's a good line to use. But here park no is friendly good ms. >> So the people who say it's not like a a throw. It's not too far. It has something to it. >> It's a Yeah, but they use it as as as do only. >> Well, we and everything in Yiddish, you need a balance. You need a healthy balance. But for sure that the came before >> it's certainly before the words in the >> right. It's like you want to be a good Y, you got to be humble, you got to be idol, you got to be a giver, you got to be a fagginner, you got to smile to people in the street. >> What if somebody is very hard for him to forgive? >> The question is why? It might come from um you know, in today's day and age, we have to say maybe they're going through something. I get it, but maybe not. Maybe that's just bad mot >> and it's supposed to work it through. >> Work it through. >> What about smiling to people in the street? So, so lle sounds simple, but I think it's even harder than to go buy a lean. It's a it's a it's a it's a long life struggle. >> You touch a very good point because we're very into doing because if we could, you know, I see this a lot. Interesting. Um, everyone's very very to buy every fruit in the grocery, you know, I mean, everyone and you feel good. I bought every nut, you know, and every dread, you know. Why do why are we so into that? Cuz we know it's a holy day. There's something to it but how many is estimates you know >> for some reason to >> there's something to it >> is the least from all the holidays >> no that's what I want to bring out that because all the other holidays it's exactly my point every holiday we shake le okay we did something now what I what is this day is okay I go to work so I need to feel that I done checked off >> so and then it makes us feel good but if you know how to tune into midas then you won't need all of that that's exactly your point going back and is very easy because checked off and that's why people buy very very expensive people want to be putting in money but it also makes us feel good that this is what maybe work on maybe do you know you have you have that your wife and your children should be happy maybe you are for sick as should be to make sure I'm not going to criticize them or I'll be in a good mood despite what I'm going through so that right yeah no no expensive. We we check off with doing >> so you're right is more difficult than >> Wow. >> You want to do the next? Absolutely. And what's the next? >> No, not the next. I want to have a complete different which opens a not can of but a complete different conversation which I'm very passionate about. >> I'm listening. >> You ready? >> I'm very ready. >> One of the most difficult things in life is let go. just just just follow his steps. But it's so scary. >> When when does it become >> letting go? We call it I think is mamish in this word and I'll explain to you why you know one of the whatever your religion is. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. He prepared our footsteps. What does that mean? He knew before the where we're going to go. What time? >> What do you mean he prepared? >> He prepared footsteps. >> Footsteps. So he went before us >> and he says, "Don't worry. Hold my hand. I'm you're good. You're safe." I remember um a couple of years ago there was a big snowstorm in Many and I walked across you know I walked through my my lawn in a like a foot of snow and I stood up the street and I called my little daughter I said come to Tati she says I can't snow I said I said I walked I walked in it already you know just put your feet your little feet in my footsteps you're good you can fit there >> Hashem has planned our life and we think we're in control and we want to do things and Hashem says I've planned everything just walk in my footsteps and let go and things will be great. >> The reason I want to talk about this cuz I think there's a um it's worth a whole episode. It's okay. We have to >> how does one figure out? >> Well, I want to talk about that. That's why I want to talk. I think we should step back, forget about now the wordings to just discuss because I think it's a one of it's it's fundamental in life. So we have a mitzvah of a and there's so much confusion. What's a what's I'm working on my not yet my working on my you know what I mean? So that's so can I if I could challenge you >> please does it say >> I think nowhere. So if it's a mitzvah, if it's a mitzvah in the mitzvah, >> it's one of the 613. I'm glad you said the word begins with it. But the first mitzvah to believe >> if it's the first mitzvah of it's supposed to be in part. >> Not necessarily. It doesn't go in order. >> Oh, it doesn't go in order. >> No. No. >> The other one goes. >> Yeah. Yeah. Oh, no. If it's No, I get it. If you do like um Yeah, that goes. Yeah. is the first. >> So, so yeah, so I was confused. >> And what's the mitzvah in this week's >> P? [laughter] Um, how would I know? >> Okay, >> you learned the P already. >> Not quite. It's only Tuesday. I gave a sh already. I'm so Anyway, this it's it's interesting that all there's almost no mitzvah until we get to until we get to Yro. Okay. There's there so that was precious and then there's actually um one a little later of um you know I mean >> there's so so last week there was also eat um from from >> I have oh that's >> I think there are no mitzvah this week >> that's why it's >> yeah it was last week yeah >> was a depends how you define >> somebody asked me that last week I was blown away I never thought about it >> of course you wasn't a yetid. There was no such thing as so how do you call him sadik >> cuz there's plenty of >> it was it was very it was very anyway >> I never thought about it so >> you're taking me to say we should believe in which would you quote to say believe in hashem >> no idea >> okay it is the fundamental mitzvah Man says the first time Hashem approached appeared in front of front of the whole world was and he says it's I am God. >> Yeah. But where's the come? >> Believe that he's there. >> He just said I'm here. Do you believe that? [laughter] >> He doesn't say you have to believe that I'm here. >> He just said the fact. >> Yeah. >> So very good. I'm I'm glad that you >> we said last time you have very good time. >> I'm [laughter] a good student. know cuz sometimes people come with preconceived and then you're asking raw questions and it's a question which people don't have because they're so used to this puzz if I would ask this question to an audience that would know the answer they'll say but because you're not coming from there you're asking a very good question which most people miss >> if if it's a mitzvah which I was about to ask if it's a mitzvah of a you're not telling me to do anything >> right >> every mitzvah in the to keep jabas don't steal you know bring this scar in. Don't wear sharpness. Hashem is introducing himself. The first time he comes down, he goes on. I am the Lord and God. You took off. What should the response be? Like, wow. Amazing. It was you. Amazing. You know, round of applause for God. You know, you were so cool in the Nissim of >> You were there the whole time. >> That was cool. [laughter] But but you're not you're not telling me to do anything. You're just saying a fact, >> right? >> Good question. >> You're stating a fact. I want to ask you another question and we'll get back to the answer is also we all know. So when the to say >> don't tell me what's by the way we talk about I'm so confused. I rather sayim all the time and that's it. >> It's we that say every you know it's it's us. [laughter] >> That's why those people are way smarter because they get additional. Yeah, Rebelli always says it. >> I've never heard that. Yeah, very nice. Um, >> he says adds are so much smarter because they say so much many more more times. >> Very good. I wish I was beautiful. Um, where does when to does have to have >> you took me to I'm going to start guessing it's somewhere in the but it's not. No, it's not. >> Um, I I don't know. What would it be? >> Could you think of any about >> uh Who said that? >> First of all, it says >> Oh, not. And it's actually this week's par. >> You really? >> It's this week's par. Yeah. >> So, one second. So, >> but >> but it's not a mitzvah. >> It's not because it it's it's something which he did. No, he didn't have to. It was nice. >> Uhhuh. >> It's not I used to talk XYZ. >> Why do you know all these in by heart? >> Cuz I'm Jewish. >> Um I'm Jewish too. I don't know. All right. Because we should study to We'll talk about that a different episode about about importance of studying to >> We'll talk about that. >> We're so busy. >> I think we spoke about it a couple of times ago. >> Knew to >> Yeah, for sure. >> So why are we so busy only with the woman? >> Um I think we mentioned it. Read the book. >> Yeah. >> Did you speak about this previous episode? >> Um I can't say. So people tell me you know is not it's in. >> Thank you. That's the answer. Tell him so when the toilet answers nowhere you really it doesn't say anywhere so what's so this answers the first question my first question was how are you a fact I am God so Hashem says believe that how do you know that you know you say ask around everyone's going to say yes right >> how do you know that you know the answer is if you let go if you is your litmus test of how much am you have which means when was the last time you you know you and like what's what's like then you don't believe in God I do but he's not going to come through oh you believe in him but you don't think he's going to come through >> so it's every time somebody has a challenge >> that's right >> is a min tested >> yeah by is the feature to show hashem how much a minute you have >> that's right so a min is a fact how you mim by how calm you are. So we're talking as I say it's really a litmus test and how how much you believe in the >> a litmus. >> Yeah. It's called like okay it's like a test. We'll skip >> a limit. >> No no a litmus test. >> What's litmus? >> It's just a way of saying >> like a literature that was dismissed. [laughter] What's litmus? >> It's just a way of saying that this is here's your here's your challenge. Here's your test. Do you really believe in? So when people say I have full minute I haven't yet worked on my like do you believe God exists >> wow >> then why are you worrying so you may say oh I believe he exists I just don't believe he has so much power oh you don't believe in him all the way >> so here's the thing and I think it's very important to know people are very busy working on work in work I don't use that term don't work in work which means get to know him better you can't work on if you don't believe he exists But the more you know he exists, the less you need to work on. Is a natural outcome. There's no mitzvah in the have >> right they >> because I can't tell you to trust. I can I can show you how much I love you. I can show you how much I care for you. Then naturally you're going to trust >> right? So so it's just using a different term. It is when they say working on they're actually working on a >> no because people say just let go let go. I can't let go. Let me teach you who he is. If you can't let go, it means you don't really believe who he is. >> Wow. >> So, our void is always going to go back to that's why I'm I'm against this idea of of of just telling people to let go. Let go learn more who he is. I have a very good example. Um, you know, lottery comes out and um it's the Megaillion. It's jackpot is in the billions. Okay. Power Ball went to the billion. Everyone runs out to buy a ticket, which is crazy because >> this chances are much smaller. >> Yeah, >> you rather buy it when it's like 20 when nobody's buying. >> Either way, you know, the chances of winning a lottery is bigger chances you'll you should be afraid to go out in the street if you buy a lottery because bigger chances you'll be run over, >> right, >> by a buffalo. >> Yeah. >> While being struck by a lightning [laughter] >> than than winning the lottery. Anyway, people buy the lottery. Now the you must agree if you win the lottery you will suddenly win $800 million. Do you know what you're going to have to deal with the pressure all the new friends that pop up right >> and all the security detail you're going to have. It's not easy, >> right? >> Not easy. >> I never thought of that. >> Never thought of it. It's very scary to have suddenly $800 million. I had to give the idea. >> It definitely changes your life [laughter] >> for good and bad. >> Yeah. [clears throat] >> You're in a different um um >> you're in a different league. >> Yeah. So how to give vault the idea next time such a lottery comes out instead of going and buying a lottery when you might win and it'll be very scary for you. Buy a lottery ticket for your father. If he wins $800 million overnight, let him deal with all the crap. Let him deal with it. You You got no daggers anymore in life cuz your father just won $800 million. You won't have to walk around wearing just now. You just got it. [laughter] that you let him deal with all he has to deal with. But me, you're not going to worry. I'm worried. My father has $800 million. Get it? >> Wow. >> So, I don't need to push you. Will I? Will I? Will I? You don't need to do that. You need to know >> that he has >> a he has $800 million. B, he loves you dearly. >> Wow. >> And then everything else. >> Which one first? >> It's a good question. I don't know. But you need both. But but we do need both. >> Wow. >> So do you understand when someone's worried in two weeks? In two weeks. >> And you're setting every week. You know why? Okay. >> I think I passed the t the what do you call that? The tip point. >> Yeah. Plateaued. Yeah. >> Yeah. No, I passed the stress. I I I'm on the way down. >> I was very worried about this about being present. That was my biggest worry. I said, "I'm spending so much money, and you know, 100K is a minimum today." >> That's right. That's right. >> Um, [snorts] I I might as well enjoy the night. I was a manager in a hall and I saw a lot of people not by their weddings. >> Wow. >> It's sad. I went to the hall to pay the the >> deposit >> and the guy tells me, he's an older man. He tells me that in his at he watched a video of his for his child. He doesn't remember anything. >> Wow. >> He said he was blank. So by the second of his child, he was pining himself the entire time like be here, be here, >> be here, be here. >> I don't want to pay 100k to do this. >> I want to be here. >> So the answer is if your father would have $800 million, >> you want to pinch yourself, >> right? >> How about if Hashem has 100 mill $800 million? >> So how avoid is this? Now what can be talking? Let go. Let go. Let go. >> You said another thing. You said be you want me to know that he loves me. >> Yeah. How does one know that he loves? >> So that that's a good question. But I'm going to get back to that in a moment. >> But again, do you understand if you would know who he is, you won't need to work on your >> 100%. >> So our avoid is to really understand who he is, right? >> And that's why he says, "Get to know me. I took you out of >> and then >> so it's not only a fact, it's a way to introduce to you." >> Yeah. an easy life. >> That's right. >> If you'll only do number one of the you got you >> chilled. You chilled. >> Wow. >> Therefore, the word chill, it sounds like a today's day and age teenage word. It's actually the ultimate Jewish word if you ask me, >> right? >> Chill. Just chill. >> We can allow ourselves to chill. I'm sitting in the hospital. They're nervous. They're waiting for doctor's appointments. I'm not talking about the organizations that cut the line. I'm not talking about that. I'm not talking about somebody got your back. Somebody's translating to you. I'm not talking about there's a coffee room 247 and these guys are sitting and waiting for food. >> Yeah. >> I'm not talking about all that. I'm talking about the stress of the unknown. >> Yeah. >> We have Hashem. We can always open him. We can always say there's hope. >> Yeah. >> In the darkest moments. >> That's right. So yeah, it gives us it gives us everything. If we have and that's why there's so much to talk about this if we have he'll take care of you and let go. Stop stressing. So um you know a question which should ask Hashem reveals himself the first time. I ask you what is the most impressive thing Hashem ever did >> no bigger than that >> bigger than that and you'll agree >> take out the infinite time >> back up >> what creation of the world >> thank you creation of the [laughter] world so if he's revealing it was there >> if he's revealing himself the first time by the way Ramban says what you just said you're jumping you're jumping >> I'm sorry if Ramban with the >> Oh If Hashem has revealed himself the first time and he's showing God who he is, why don't you say show your card is like, okay, it's amazing. I couldn't do it. >> That's the limit that you can handle that you saw. >> So that's where answers. Yeah. But I'd like to suggest he's in this it covers who he is. Once he says, "You already said because the creator of the entire world and he's adding, I want you to know I took you out of like which high level of kadesha were we on on the way out of >> a probably very high >> one second. >> Do you remember that? >> Weren't we cleaned by the and the whole thing or we're still >> No, they took time to climb up till we reach some house. >> We had seven weeks. >> Yeah. Seven weeks to >> that's why we have seven weeks later. >> Oh, nice. So we were >> okay the most >> and I don't even know if we could recognize and appreciate that people think how many are there altogether >> there's so people think there's neon no there's 100 there's 50 shades >> and then 50 >> so they not just they had nothing kosher holy they were meant below never negative you know when you check your chase account it's like the numbers are in red you know it's negative at least we can laugh about it on those hashem said I love how come I think this is why we we were in Islam so long this is my take I think hashem was waiting for us to stoop solo so he should take us out and give us all the am because if they would have been on the what would have we said today of course loved them we should buyem says no no no I'm waiting for men >> so you have no excuse >> and I'm doing all the coolest miracles >> for those no excuse >> to say for what >> to say to say doesn't love you for yeah >> and that answers your question does Hashem love me I'm the god created the world I love you no matter what means >> even at the lowest of the no there's nothing which I wouldn't I'll split the sea >> for the lowest she >> so I'll take care of you >> I'll take I got you back >> just just chill >> just chill >> now by the way about the below You were triggering and reminding me about the to the world would be a nice place to be in when it would be just a nice place to be. But to enhance and make even exaggerate the good is the to >> shows you how much more it means how much greater >> that's right >> for example coming out of the hospital >> you got to appreciate the world >> everything I I was yearning just to sit in and that's it just sit on a chair >> and a and sleep in your bed and a shower >> yeah a cup of coffee you know how many hours I had to wait there was one time I couldn't leave the the the the room because he kept crying every time I left and then everybody comes in. So I couldn't leave him and he would jump up. So I I had to so 12 hours I had to keep it in >> and not leave the room. >> I realized anything. We don't realize a cup of water. >> Wow. >> Shabas the machine was working when I couldn't use the machine. I had to go to I couldn't go. I didn't have a cup of water for a day and a half. Do you realize the little things from the >> That's right. The problem is Hashem created a simple easy world. We complicated it by being nervous. The way it works is >> Yeah. Yeah. Very good. Wow. >> So there's another um puss I like to quote. I think it's imput I think. Um >> probably it has the most uh mitzvah. >> They say it has the most mitzvah but it really doesn't. No >> has the most mitzvah. [laughter] >> Okay. >> It feels like the most cuz you're coming from preipheres with stories and shamosa stories and then suddenly oh bunch of all the rules. Yeah. But it's not um it says do not torture cuz if you do it's so they're going to cry and I'll listen to them now. interesting because I should hope so. You someone grabs you, you should listen to them. Why say something amazing? You know, someone she ch shephers a lady in the street, you know, imagine a woman walking in the street and someone yells at her, gives her a slap. What you thinking? When my husband finds out, boy, will he take care of you, you know? M you know when my father finds out >> and goes to and they go to >> so >> wait what do we say >> that's right one second one second so so yeah so Raman says you know he says you know Hashem says to that says oh you got someone to take care of you perfect you know I'm I'm I'm busy enough I'm busy enough and that's why you know famous famous Is there anything difficult for the no >> says so what's it mean >> the stress and the worry >> it means in yes we actually do make it difficult for the because when we're taking care wait a second I'm trying to help you and you're just could you allow me to do my job and if you're trying to do it like fine take care of it yourself >> and let me know when you fail and come back >> shoot me a text when you need me >> wow >> so created a simple world all he wants is to let go but we Our ego doesn't allow us. >> So one second. What else is >> So these two things >> we get involved. >> We got a little too much. Okay. >> What else? Don't we? No. I think these are two things. >> Wow. So here we need difficult. So it means just like that was easy. It's difficult. It's difficult because we're not allowing to do his job. >> I heard a beautiful shot of this. Go ahead. Yam is when two things separate, right? >> The yam was separated. >> He knows the day he will give you enough pan, it's going to be the separation of him and you. >> Oh, >> so he knows it's a good >> separation. Wow. >> He doesn't want to give it to YOU, BUT YOU'RE BEGGING. HE HAS TO. >> He gives it to you. It's a separation. Same Zivic. The guy's doing saying they didn't take >> as soon as we get >> he gets a >> he's I'll say Florida feast of a so he doesn't have that uh the day he gets a zig >> he takes off to Florida I did my I did I got my zeic I'm good >> hashem thank you so much I'm good >> yeah there's a lot to talk about that we that we focus so much more on >> so it's his form of beautiful love I don't remember where I heard it. >> So, so again, if we if our job is and then if you want to talk about as I said, where should where should he go? Don't worry. I'll lead you. I will lead you. Just follow me. What's going to be? It's fine. Yeah, I met someone. I can tell you I'm marrying off next in two weeks and me it's Hashem and I was told several times you'll see Hashem takes care you'll see Hashem takes care I was told so many times but you know the weeks go no >> WHY TO THE LAST MINUTE but >> that's that's why he wastes the last minute cuz he wants you to let go >> but let go [laughter] >> once again can I invoke your father's $800 million if your father has $800 million you have no problem waiting till No problem. But now we're two weeks before and things are falling into place >> and it's amazing to watch. It's it's almost like the 300s that came to Israel and it was like >> if we would have did that four months ago. >> I WOULD HAVE A BLESSED LITTLE YEAR. >> It's almost a year. >> I met a very good friend of mine of yours too. I'm not going to say his name on very close friend. And we're smoothing in the middle like the typical saying, you know, pusa, you know. I said, I've known you for 15 years. 15 years ago, we had the same conversation. >> So, so like we're here now. [laughter] >> We don't look undernourished. We're good. >> So, looking forward, look back. You made it. And, you know, speaks so much. Of course, this is a cipher, but um there's a great line, if I may say. >> [laughter] >> Um you know sometimes >> you got recommended by your other over here >> free what's it called? Um, >> plugged. Yeah. Yeah, we got plugged. The Ramal is plugged. >> Talking about free ads. I try to push mainly this message of every time I go to KF. Um, it's like my number one speech there. >> Really, >> my number one speech is let go, let go so many stories and jokes and and so was see who wrote a famous cipher and he added one of the chapters is it's a must. You want to push I'll push is a must for everyone to learn which again and again basic is hard to understand. So there's a very famous translation left, you know, underneath the typical one, but then by now there's so many English ones. >> You got >> duties of the heart. >> Duties of the heart. That's what the duty of the heart. >> So many good books and it's a >> Yeah, it sounds more like fluffy. Oh, duties [laughter] of the heart. That's a book I would buy. >> Yeah, it's it's it's a must to learn. So one of the great lines, if I may say, he says he says, so I mentioned before, if you think you don't believe in God. Yeah. And then you say, "Of course I believe in Hashem." Okay, so you believe in Hashem. You just don't believe he has the power. Okay, I believe he has the power. Maybe I don't believe We're stuck somewhere. I believe in him. I don't believe he has the enough power. Of course, I believe he has enough power. Maybe I don't believe he loves me. No, of course he loves me. So maybe this is like too petty. No, he does petty things too. Maybe it's too big. He does big. Any of your excuse he covers. That's what covers any excuse you want to say why you are collecting. So this great line is as follows. Anytime >> you're asking Kashan for anything, it's nothing compared to what he's already given you. >> Right? >> Think about that line. You need $100,000. If you if you need $1,000 need $1,000, but I need $500,000. 500,000. I'm going to ask Hashem for $500,000. >> It's the same thing for him. It's nothing. >> Not just the same thing for him. He gave you more than that. He woke you up this morning. He gave you back your eyesight. And you're wondering if he's going to give you $500,000. He gave you way more than what you're thinking about now. In fact, the ability to think that he's not going to give you maybe $500,000 worth more than $500. Wow. >> And you're using your brain. Now, >> has given you way, way more. Don't limit his powers. And maybe one of the reasons we do find a dollar in the street and you don't find $500,000 because you expect Hashem is going to give you a dollar. You don't expect Hashem is going to give you $500,000. >> Maybe do expect it. He's your loving father in heaven has the ability and the willingness to give you everything. >> Wow. >> Allow him to give you. He'll give it you. >> Let go. >> We can end right here. >> We could. I want to add one more thing and I think it's important that again as I said if you just believe he'll give you $500,000 he'll give you $500,000 but we shouldn't use this as a as a skiller because this is going to backfire meaning to say oh there's a new skiller just let go then you'll get it in other words it's not about me it's about him so when I said before the whole time if you don't have if you're upset about something don't more. So if we use to say um you want something just let go you'll get it. What happens if you don't get it? Oh you didn't let go enough let go even more then you'll certainly get it. What happens if I don't then let go more. So it's all maybe Hashem doesn't want you to have it. Maybe >> in other words, if it's all about me, if life is all about me, then I've got to work on myself to get what I want. I'm going to try this and try that. I'll even try to [laughter] >> You know what I mean? >> It's just another thing. >> It's not It's another thing to satisfy what I think. >> That's right. So, it's what I want. But if your entire is based on then know that he's the See, he knows what's best for you. So of course we have and the more you have chances are you'll get it because he's as I said before your loving father in heaven has the ability and the willingness to give you everything unless he doesn't and if he doesn't and he says no you'll be okay with it you know why because your yiddish didn't begin within if I have I'll get what I want your entire began with a that'svelt who he created the world and it's his world you don't know that I do, but I just don't plan to sing this in public. [laughter] >> I'm also not a great singer. But you know, when when the heart goes, the heart goes. >> You dance at your son sons daughter's wedding daughters. >> Sons. You have a son. You have a son. >> Two. >> Two sons. >> Did I? I've married off two children. Yeah. Two biological children. >> Nice. Isn't that nice? Oh man. Married off um Right. You married every night. But every night, but yeah. Um so what's your question? Did I dance? Boy, did I dance? >> Yeah. dance away, bro. >> But I want to wrap up this again. Do you this last line why that is so important? There are people who who are very busy that if you have you'll get what you want. >> And again, I agree. You'll get way more if you have. But it shouldn't be it. It sounds like as if the world begins and ends with you. I want a new car. So if I have I'll get my car. >> There's another reason why Hashem wouldn't give you because if you don't have a reason to get out of bed, you wouldn't. >> That's right. >> Men. Yeah, for sure. >> We're we want to stay. The only reason we get out of bed in the morning is because we need ends meet. >> Mhm. >> If we have too much. >> Perfect. You're right. So, you're giving reasons why Hashem now there's there's more than that which is I don't need a reason. It's his world. My point the whole time is if it stems out of a but again because in the doesn't say you should have to say have a minute. If you have a minute, you're going to have naturally. But the more you have a minute, in other words, the more you know who he is, A, you're going to let go. And B, you're going to be okay if he doesn't give you what you want >> because it's all about him. >> So, you'll be okay regardless. >> Yes. >> And another thing I'm realizing is the hostages, they had such little from this world and such little control and such little of themselves. >> It was natural. Yeah. to find. >> It was natural for them to find. >> Yeah. So many things stop us from living with Hashem because we're tied down to >> but we're not giving any ideas because Hashem it's a bigger in the reality back to >> Yeah. >> But if we stop for a second like who gave us the house we have the kids we have the >> Yeah. >> the job the to sit here together and do this. There's so many things that could stop us and and Hashem gives us this. Yeah. >> Wow. >> So to wrap up more, >> don't hurt the relationship. Don't hurt the relationship. >> Be a man, a happy, friendly, giving person. And also walk in his ways. Let go. Don't think too much. >> What's the term? >> Yeah. Just follow him blindly. Yeah. Follow him. >> No. Lishmo is not now. >> Yeah, I'm excited about that episode. >> Okay. >> I feel like I can use some more aav in my life. >> We'll do that. >> It's a beautiful, beautiful um understanding what a hashem is. >> But in the meantime, we're going to learn to let go >> and hashem will be there to catch you. >> Thank you so much for listening. It's a pleasure and an honor to have you here. If you know someone who wants to sponsor these episodes, we are right here waiting for him. Like, subscribe, comment, and spread the good word. Share this with a friend.