Just Because You Inspire Me, You Don't Own Me - Likkutei Sichos Parshas Vayakhel

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meticulous and precise and accurate it's very good if you'll have the source sheets you'll be able to follow inside for this go to value Sheva dotnet the yeshiva dotnet it's the first featured video it should say live the title is when leaders are lazy and you have on top a source sheet you can open it up and it opens up right near the video so on the right side you have the source chain on the left side you have the video or under the video there's a PDF a red PDF which you can download and you'll have the source Street so you could follow in side so again go to the Sheba dotnet right under and above the video you'll have source sheets or PDF which you can open up and follow along with us inside the text that I chose today is a fascinating extraordinary and brilliant sheer brilliant citta a tour cashier that was given by the riba by the lubavitcher rebbe shop is parshas viacom coup d'etat fashion curve of Shabbos vehicle code a 1966 published in la cote suffice volume 16 parishes vehicle that's Lakota syphilis vol 16 page 424 and will begin if Aleph often posit vahana see in Havey us avnish ayam and if you have a homage and a paris vehicle i'm going to read the positive partial vehicle tells the story of the Jewish people donating all of the materials and fabrics gold and silver and copper and turquoise wall and all of the other materials that were necessary in order to construct the Mishkan the sanctuary the terror describes in detail how the Jews responded generously to moistur avenues summons and invitation the men and women everybody came and they donated not only that which was sufficient but a lot more to the point that it was excessive emotion ameno had to say stop stop enough we have more than enough voice that we have more than enough and the Turner describes how all the people who had a generous heart came men came and women came and they brought various his jewelry and he goes through everything they brought turquoise oil and purpose will boil and scarlet red purple turquoise wool and purple wool and scarlet red woolen and and linen and the skin of goats and of rams and of other animals and silver and gold and copper and and cedar wood at the end of it all the posix says vahana seein the leaders the princes the leaders of the Jewish people hey vos Avenue I'll show you on this Avenue a million laughs invocation they donated and brought the special precious stones knowing as the stones of Shyam and the filling stones that we used for the high priests apron and breastplate for the aphid emulation these were gems unique gems very special precious stones the princes the leaders are the ones who donated these precious stones and they also brought spices oil that was used for the menorah and for their anointing oil and for the Qataris for the burning incense this was their donation special gems oil spices used for the incense and for the menorah and for the chemin Amisha says Rashi from Paul said wanna see maybe us avnish I am going man stove the trashy of the vet about a cm a veal Raschi quotes the words in the pasta this is Exodus chapter 35 verse 27 vehicle peyrac mahmoud abbas akov zion panacea may view the princes brought the leaders broads akashi a mihrab nelson ribbon austin said and the source of this Rashi comes from sea free parshas nasser Myron is seamless nada Veronica between lobha maleficence Kandla is not Vakula why is it that the leaders felt and saw fit that when it came to dedicate the Mishkan and bring the first offerings on the altar they were the first ones but when it came for the work of the sanctuary here they were not the first ones to give what's the question later in purchase not sorry when the Mishkan is erected the michigan is fully up it was the leaders who came to my shrub a no and they offered various wagons and axes to the Mishkan so it should be able to be transported when it had to be transported and then they were the first ones to offer a special offerings to be brought on the altar in honor of Honoka some his Bey after dedicating the new altar in the new sanctuary and indeed every day for 12 days from the beginning of Nissen the first day of Nissen which is the day that the michigan was erected every single day one of them is see and one of the leaders of the tribes of Israel brought a special offering no one has the carbonation Asiya the first day was national and I'm another from the tribe of you who the Charis Casa Farkas he brought a bowl of silver he brought flour he brought a special spoon made of gold he brought incense he brought an ox he bought a rhyme he brought seven sheep and the next day was the second tried the second leader and the third leader all the way down 12 tribes including a Frey mm and Asha slice kanako-sama's baya asks Rashi a question Reb Nelson said why the contrast why is it that by the canoe kasam is bayer when it came to dedicate the altar for the first time with no offerings they were the first ones to contribute and yet here when it comes to the michigan they did not contribute in the beginning their story is brought at the end after all the jews the terrorist says what they brought Ella I'll tell you why cos I'm Runa SIA this is what the leaders said you snide would simple machinist not even let the community contribute what they contribute Oh Marshall Hostin whatever they're missing uh no mush Lymon we will complete I say we will complete that which is lacking Kevon fish Linwood Samaras a coil shanem of a melaka a diam ones that seaboard cloudiest sir all the community completed everything the terrorist says clearly that hammerlock i said i what the jewish people donated was enough to be able to construct a whole Michigan and to do all of the work ha melaka he said diamond was literally enough um rudeness see him the leader said ie Marlena lasses what are we supposed to do hey vos Avinash I have a gamer know in desperation that seaboard did everything what are we supposed to do so they brought the gems they brought the precious stones for the apron for the breastplate of the coin God though they brought oil they brought various spices incense herbs it's in the car is not ville by Hanukkah some is basically law therefore recalling what happened when the Jews were donating for the Mishkan they said we're gonna complete whatever they're missing and then there was nothing to complete so now and the Mishkan was erected six months later they were the first ones we're going to dedicate and give our contribution for the altar first well the fish and this absolu Mithila Rashi says and because initially they were lazy necessary ice mission one letter was deleted from their name vahana see emissive in this pasta cat says vahana sein without a you'd you would expect a nazi not a leader is spelled none Senor Aleph or an SEM non sinn you and all of you admit here it says Vova a non sent Aleph mem there's no you'd why was the you'd deleted from their name in the safe attire in the text of the Taira Rashi says because of their laziness this is the end of Raschi famous Rashi parshas like a cult chapter 35 verse 27 there ever now in this year in the city here in the Kuti cities begins to analyze this ration I want to open again the questions I'm sitting here alone in a room and questions would be very helpful so I can feel like I'm talking to people I know that I'm talking to people I know I'm talking to Rabbi you'd say so that's enough you're might have Russa today and I know other people are joining us but please feel free to ask any question on the youtube link there is a chat and you can insert all your questions if you have a Facebook link you could put there all your questions and they are forwarded to me feel free to ask whatever you like the pastor's let it man those who are joining us now there is a source sheet go to the Sheba dotnet go to the featured video and under it or on top of it this source shoes the pastor's let it mend him a forums organ when we read this rashly literally it seems as the before shall explain the masculine David says this as Rashi before and what's bothering Rashi the bowel did Toyota demanded vasana see Allah and indeed with some risk on Duffman on him and the pastor's as Dennis Imams dismissed not have given the letzte mechanics Ogden as a in a dove immediately be safe nor their farm Allah's ayahs given to Seder in MC Befana cottage butter whole emotion on a purchased rumor commercially stolen on it for nuns etc as that seed we have dinner diverse phenomena Shia Magnum aluminum re of solution admissible dictators are salmon the protein for needed novice and the same stayin not conceivably of Alma engine and Davos some safe in the agreement Varnum but am i bizarre Aleph are the posted - II may be without stain Bognor composite call made him trauma say vu who need not the bazooka modulation caucus labia their top of a colonizer Martian also live on gamer the Hayden shine even in the party and a diverse analysis given that Savoy base from was tell deposit Machado is a voice on a sinful by a vehicle in church and I saw a liberal their furnace washed and a as the passages Ison Mongoose designers Dennis Imams as missed neither given on the Black Sea and Dover Libous so if what's bothering Rashi is why does the term mention the contributions of the leaders at the end of all of the other contributions you eat some partials by he discusses all the men and women okay and only after that suddenly the leaders arrived you might say I'll tell you why because of the nature of what they brought what did they bring they brought the gems for the aphid and the flesh they brought spices and oil when I Shem told moisture in poshest rumor that the Jews should do not donate different items these were the last ones the same is true in parishes vehicle when moisture tells the Jews what to donate this is at the end of the list so just as the commandment to donate these items came at the end so this story of bringing them also came at the end it's the same sequence the instruction and the implementation match each other this was the last thing moisture told him to bring in his list he gave a to-do list what we need so that's why the Turner speaks about this at the end but this doesn't really answer the question fully because after it speaks about the Jews bringing all the donations it speaks about the special skill of the women who were spinning their yarn and how they spun the the wool which would later be donated which would later be donated to the tabernacle in the sanctuary and then afterwards we learn about the leaders he should have said that Jews brought all the materials and then the Mesilla brought their materials the last ones but in the middle he interrupts it with the story about how the women did it which is not talking about the types of materials and contributions to the Michigan number two why does the Toyota have to identify the leaders specifically why can't they be included in the fact that by a vehicle is the Turner says every single man and every single woman who had a generous heart brought doesn't specify any unique demographic speaks about the special skill that women did something special but why were than the cien chosen to be specified in the individually we understand as he puts in footnote 12 why he mentions the materials they brought because the mentions all the materials of the Jewish people brought but the question is why do they merit a specific mention now you might say because they're leaders because of their prominence but then if you want to show their prominence put them first or at least put them in the middle don't put them don't put them all the way all the way at the end and are we suddenly mentioning every prominent person who brought I mean there were other prominent people who are not who are not mentioned so from here actually understood that the reason that Toyota puts them all the way at the end is to teach you something that they did not bring their donations with everybody they brought the donations all the way at the end after everybody was done that's when they came that's why their position in the text in the Toyota is exactly a reflection of what happened he's done it move on I cook traditional machlin the comtesse as Denis co-op Kyle Timmons Arian another business in and of us from constant symbol if so one has a question even according to the literal interpretation how is it that the leaders waited till the end if then blame flashy as M goes up t's not with super machinist not even a marshal McCaslin holy the says's given with fishiness absolute this is what what's bothering Rashi this is why Rashi gives us a whole long story why does he have to say anything because there was something bothering there mentioned all the way at the end because they did it all the way at the end they waited for everybody how did such a thing happen you would think the leaders would be as enthusiastic as anybody else so that's why Rashi says that they said let everybody do it first and we'll do it at the end there was an element of laziness here and that's why their name is missing Laird this is how Ashley is explaining the story this would seem the way to understand this rush sieve base madaba the fresh tender grace are dishes in Finnish - if this is really what Rashi means then the long elaboration in ration is very rare very uncharacteristic of Rashi he does it in a few places but usually Rashi is brief concise to the point Rashi can take a long idea and compress it literally in a few words of a sentence here the a long elaborate raashi and if this was really the meaning of Rashi let's see the words of Rashi can we justify such a long iris is such a long elaboration in Russian and goes through here many questions we're going to have here one two three plus seven questions is going to be seven questions eight nine ten and then there's going to be another few questions and then we're gonna get to the answer I have to say when I learned this it for the first time it mesmerised me I would call it an English a stickiness it's a it's a a masterpiece of brilliance on every level including as we will see the spiritual and the psychological application besides the understanding and the lumbus of understanding Rashi itself Aleph hakushi Amaro first what's missing what's not to understand what's difficult on Josh's question my role versus Donna Gaia's by Honoka sermons mayor comes in from a static remember tiller the cast shadows for Vaz nemesis by Maleficent Myshkin in that person it is not a given particular a tragic it I blame him for the blossoms late nor Nasim la mola is not over till who the question is very strange rashly says why didn't I see him bring the carbon is first and the Mishkan the work for the Michigan they didn't bring first the question is not about the car bonus that happens in purchase law say it's not even relevant here the question is about what's happening in parishes Myakka why they did not bring first in the Davos on Michigan the question is about here not there so now she should have asked the question armor up NOS and why didn't I see him not bring than a dove as first now you're going to answer very well as he says in footnote 15 look down footnote 15 I filled in Tim selamat reserve she's not emotionalism is bare till the mikasa keiko she had a i'll call on them however they were hacked in me and Chicana it's not working it's true the contrast strength is the question it's not only they were delayed here but you see it another rotation they were first so they know how to do things fast early so that strengthens the question because you see the contrast granted but what is the primary question why they did not come first here so that's how he started he should have started off the question I'm Rev Nelson my role is ciub why is it or mile or lung Benicio is not verbal about Hanukkah submission konoba Hanukkah some is bad it's not with him why is it that at such a moment when it comes to the donations of the Michigan they were the last ones they did not come first and by the time Lucas um is mayor we see that they came first but that's not what he says he asks about the camicus I'm his bear why the canoe cos I'm his band was first and this was not first that's not the question the question is why this was not first that should have been that should have been the focus especially we're learning our passions by alkyl my passion also base Maha tenets of beer now let's come to the answer of Rashi versus nagae another if this Osbourne from the Nassim is not the root symbol for Holi okay that I forget up my phone and I don't know spinning the kid says the time is efficient it's not sleep rush she tells this whole long story let me tell you what happened the leader said let the community give what they give and whatever they don't give whatever they don't whatever they're missing will complete and then they saw that everything is complete and they said what are we gonna do and everything is complete there's nothing more to do what should we do so therefore they brought the Avinash Shyam and therefore by Hanukkah some is bei if they were first Iraq she says and because they were lazy took away our youth from the Newseum why does Russia have to be so elaborate this is extremely uncharacteristic as I told you rashly every single word phrase expression is meticulous and precise why couldn't rush she just say it's very brief there very concisely now she could sail efficient is absolute they were lazy and that's why they didn't come first they were lazy as he says at the end gimel bessemer union let's now think about the concept itself in question number two somebody is saying you could you can send in all your questions you could write down all your questions on the YouTube chat on the facebook chat so somebody is asking a good question what Rashi is telling you what happened it may have happened but rashly is here to say the point why they came last to give the donations the answer is that the sender at the end of the day says it was lazy they were lazy how did it happen yes they said you know when somebody is lazy right yeah everybody's home now right you ask somebody to do something they say well I'll wait til this finishes and then I'll see what has to be done and then I'll do it okay that's how it happened why doesn't actually need to give us this whole elaboration give betsa manian the very concept is strange these Shia Duncan has the gun said tom was the posse terrorized in adverse honesty and nathan digs a knock on the door was unlocked via synonymous but dates or was envisioned as Miss absolute so there's a feel the big news behemoth male lady broch awesome the Gomorrah says him of a Basra cook of gimel 123 in footnote 16 that the trader is careful not to say anything disgraceful even about an impure animal even a big news bahama to me and purchased know if it doesn't say Bahama timaya says Bahama sure a Nana to hire an animal that is not pure doesn't say an impure contaminated animal how are we supposed to understand that the Turner extra-extra Cates the story of the leader is bringing a donation puts them all the way at the end their donation is counted all the way at the end after all of them including the story of how the women spun their yarn for the for the sanctuary why just to tell us one message these guys these leaders were lazy that's the message now the Toyota does include in its text many different sins and transgressions and catastrophes like the creation of the golden calf and the spies because the toad is trying to tell us a fundamental story that happened in Jewish history that has timeless impacts and timeless lessons but here the Turner doesn't even say it clearly the Turner just happens to mention them all the way at the end so the castle are telling us you know why toad has tried tell you that these guys were lazy why would why would we just want to disgrace them in a barrister gimel are you silent comedy you come and finish Tashi you may have when we analyze this Raschi further there are a few other things that are difficult to understand and he goes through seven questions oh she's a Stearman a obey there is an inherent contradiction here in the words from Denver's lashes of cubed sheesh limits embarrass our coach and Alabama law hidaya miss Clarke as the exhibitor key black outs mrs. evaluated from Alaska so Michigan I wish Tim Desmond demos la polla but not get felled the avenues I am I win a million were a former coach should not boy some similar mark Gemini mentioned will the greatest assignment I give all the cash I'll if you look in Rashi a she says once the community completed everything her coil hammerlock oh he said I am it was enough the leader said hey what are we gonna do now I don't understand first Rashi says that Sid were finished everything imma walk I said I am that means the community brought everything how call means everything everything that was necessary for the Mishkan but in reality that's not what happened they didn't have the jewels they didn't have the gems they didn't have all the precious stones for the iPhone and the ocean they didn't have the spices the herbs the incense they didn't have the oil so they didn't do everything so why do you say you sleep with cigarettes a coil but although these things were missing who means that which brings us to the next question base we bow this limits embarrass our cut ones Eminescu blacksmith asana diverse oliver the pastas made marble Amla havi Gomer diam going over hey sir so for something to give leftovers was in the sea mom get off Marsha this brings us to the next question if the community really gave everything they completed all the work and they didn't just do it but grudgingly they did it with the generosity of heart with enthusiasm as the turret testifies that the nation brought the broader brought excessively they brought enough and they brought extra to the point that my share to send the message stop don't bring any more we have too much there is the surplus we have too much so why indeed did they not bring these fundamental contributions and the leaders are the ones who had to supplement this void what happened they brought everything and they wanted to bring everything and merges that stopped they couldn't do enough and yet why didn't they bring these donations and then his see him so a all these things were not brought gibeholy either conversely for muslims are gonna see him it's tiring event marlena losses once you leave them i'm say by kanako-sama's management's 19 november tiller same the hope early but I've come of accompanying on him here in front the Mishkan I've had the big thick on why were the leaders aggravate it they were so aggravated and they said what are we gonna do now the Jews brought everything and that's why when the Mishkan was erected they jumped ahead of everybody and they brought their offerings first what's the issue in reality they had so much to bring fundamental aspects of the Michigan and the garments of the Cayenne em they're the ones who brought it the a Freud and Acacia those were the two great garments of the high priest without which the whole avoid is disqualified they're the ones who brought those gems including for the ocean inside his God's name the shame I'm a furnish oil for the monoi or incense for the Qataris these are the great this is the great service of the Michigan and and and the seminar mission of the anointing oil that sanctified arenít sanctified the whole Michigan these are not small inconsequential things what's the what's the agony here oh I missed out on the opportunity you missed out nothing you brought great indispensable vital gifts for the Michigan wonderful but we see no they were very perturbed they were so perturbed by Honoka some is may if they ran first Dalit vos Jitsu dilution in Russia is not vote simple machinist Advil so giving the milkman ashes are I'm gonna see him at my house when you slow on a mush lemon ice it's a strange phrase in a shear as she says the leaders said let the Jews can contribute whatever they contribute whatever they're missing we're going to complete why does rashly again it's very wordy there's a lot of extra superfluous words just say to the point the leader said whatever the Jews are missing we will complete that's what he should say obviously they'll give what they want to get obviously they'll give what they give I mean it's obvious that's what we're talking about they're giving for the Mishkan then the same should say whatever is lacking we'll make sure we'll complete but that's not what Rashi says Rashi says they said let it seep or give what they give something is telling us something here and again this is based on the idea that Rashi every word is very powerful and very meaningful you have to hear what Rashi is saying what is he saying with these words let them give what they give yeah no kidding of course they're gonna give what they give they don't people don't give what they don't give hey buses the hot gusher will mash them and pass him on a mush limit bus mate that's eatonville imagine Hassan and his sudden is an Indian venenum as a dolphin tongue when a good ABS organ or Martian lawyer viel the KH observer rather doesn't wash narcos fabulous question Rashi says that the Nasim said Oh Masha Masurian uh no mush limit the proper phrase should have be Oh master lawyer via whatever they don't bring will bring in fact that's the wording of the passage vahana sein hey view then his see him brought earlier it says the Jews brought they should have said whatever they don't bring will bring Rashi uses another term Oh Masha hey McCaslin whatever they make missing basically there's something they have to do and there's something of a Suren Oh Masha man astron there's a hey Suren there's a void there's a floor and something that they have to do something lacking and that's what we're gonna complete but that's not the case this was all about generosity every Jew could bring whatever he wants and you could say whatever they don't bring I'm going to contribute that makes sense what's the measurement Astrid as though they're taking away something something is lacking something that's flawed and missing that's what I see Soren means avoid the floor a lack valve for vizago's a male no lasses be pastor the Russian lasses who need male no Lahav tsubasa when the Jews brought everything then aciem say Marlena lassus what should we do who's talking about what you should do that question should have been what should we bring not mal Marlena olijavi what should we bring once they saw that that symbol brought everything so Rashi should have said in a cm said Oh what are we bring says Marlena lasses what should we do now that doesn't seem to be the right word indeed in 20 he says that there's one print of Rashi the second the second edition of Rashi that was printed 1400s or early 1500 has the word mojave and in one of the manage scripts of Rashi but in all of it every everywhere else it says Marlena lassus Zairian for was Blake clashing annulment from Bala mine madam nas from kima duper come upon him is now she might think them shameful Bauer mine men nor them also and una them read for entry fashion etiquette bus chemist earlier very bad Palmas Mamula computer Shack soon other than the finish Menasha there is a principle in a she most times when he quotes a source from Gomorrah or made Russian which has an author he does not mention the author there are exceptions there are times when rash she does mention the name why most of the times has he not mentioned the name he just writes the idea and the answer is Rashi is not trying to quote the sources accurately he's trying to give a student who's learning a straightforward commentary on how much according to shot when every rap she does mention the name you have to know why he mentioned the name so the rep is telling us here the principal is this is this Rashi mentions a name when he knows that there is a difficulty in his commentary that at least a savvy child the savvy student is going to grasp and that's why Rashi quotes a name and the name answers that question and that's why most cases he doesn't coordinate in fact in fact in pouches vehicle itself Raschi quote something from ribbon austin without his name you know what i'm talking about in the beginning in the beginning of i a collusive roh bahamas recession he brings two opinions hvar illa llah via to several italic yachts is one of them is reppin our seniors in quarter blossom later in the parish something's from ribbon awesome oh my blossom wanted to quote Jeff Nelson earlier the answer is not relevant in the genre of Rashi doesn't quote names here he quotes an end there's a reason for it so we asked ten questions on their Ashley since Bayes we had three questions civil gimel we had seven questions god-willing at the end of the shear I always like to go through all the questions fast and see how they're all answered dalit better design for standing back them up being in the deal cast a devotion for childhood no sir my role is seeing this not a Masonic usamos bear the field of Malacca Sam Ishikawa is not for b'stilla we need to now create a paradigm shift the Lubavitcher ever maintains that the way we are reading this Rashi literally is wrong if we read his words without any preconceived notions with pure objectivity and clarity we will hear that he's asking a different question that we thought said look at his words look at the order of raschi's question and the language of rashes question in the name of ribbon awesome Myron is seamless Nadi by Hanukkah some is bei ebbe tequila or Bahama the milettis at Michigan law is not a vanilla what is it that the leaders saw that convinced them to bring the car bonus first while in the work of the Michigan they did not bring the contributions first the cash is neat for Muslims of litmus matter given by Maleficent Michigan b'stilla Norfolk 8:4 was MC honest father giveth healer by her Lucas on his bed without preconceived notions you'll see the question of ribbon Austin is not why they brought their donations last by the Michigan that's not the question you know the question is the question is why they brought their curb honorees first by the kernel cuz I'm his bed that's the question that's an honest true reflection of the words of Rashi my row and the seamless nodded by Honoka Simon's bei Aquila why did they see fit to jump first by the MS BAE I went by the Mishkan they were not laila if his question was the opposite the order should have been the opposite and the language should have been different not my rohana see him to do over there Tila on the contrary why didn't see him were not hearing Fela and while there they were Tila his questions both from the order and the language my role and the order you see that's the question not why here they were last why they were last here why they were first here he's moving from the Machine hot tea that's when eben awesome but calf is not boo but her Lucas on his bad killer that he dishes insane is not was but killer but her Lucas on his bare huh you see this also in his answer after hypnosis gives the whole answer of what happened he finishes and now you know why they went there first now you know why they went there first in other words that's the summation of the answer you know why cuz that was the crux of the question why were they here first but if this is what Rashi means it doesn't make sense it's two more be oyster this is astounding I love Ursula Cash's doing them was by Honoka cuz I'm as big it's not to the pillar Zion didn't see it or she so because I get out sign that's the strangest question you're asking you a question why the leaders of the Jewish people wanted to be the first ones to bring offerings to dedicate the new altar in the Mischka obviously that's the way it should be they should be first for such a great mitzvah for such a great act of service and dedication to God and the Jewish people and bringing the Skinner down into the world this is what the leaders should do that's not a question basil either babe the caches I from say the phone it was gonna because I'm his Bay off over the say definite versa Michigan is move on or the clash in it guitar playing in the cash I suppose in partially moluccas on Michigan and pontius mostly furthermore if the question is what happened here not what happened here that she should ask this question to purchase mostly not here here everything is good why didn't I see and bring it last here you said that's not a problem the problem is why they brought it first so ask the question where it happens it didn't happen here it happens in practice mostly why is he bringing bringing the question in our part also now a purchase doesn't belong here he says open parenthesis because there's a rashly and nos a - but why does it belong in Myakka is there a beer buzz as he honey sinners the explanation is precisely this it's these very questions that bring out the truth of the point means I'm bringin da de camarones iam Julio's Rashi oyster need so far and feelin as dos most in a sea monkey black day and a double of a soy F is given maximus axis Norfolk Eric so Mars design in them pasok da as does within the sea among Abraxane the double of the surface they release they care say that on hug the abbadabba the caches gar for was bageno kazuma's Bey hums a yoga Prophet Allah in under elevated thus versa - she's up domina blossom I don't see him break the net outs Kasia impossible patches no sir no it's amaz behind them tinted so beer in them PASOK da the question of why they brought konoka some is bad but he'll is not a question on NOSSA that he wouldn't bring here in Viacom it's an answer for Viacom the question on nursery is an answer for Viacom in other words when Ashley brings this question why did the Missy and bring the car bombers for them as mayor first he's not here to answer that the reason the Nasim brought there in the Dove at the end was because of laziness on the contrary he's trying to explain here that the fact that the leaders brought their nerd over at the end was actually the appropriate mode of behavior the question is why over there they were first so when rash she brings this question he's actually trying to explain the pus ik here rash she doesn't believe it was just a this was a terrible thing these guys were lazy and that's why they were last no rash she wants to bring out a different point actually they contributed at the end because this was the appropriate mode of behavior for the leaders as we will soon see and that's why it actually doesn't just say they were lazy that she gives this whole long story because Ashley is trying to clarify this point how does Rashi say this Rashi says you know what's bothering me here what's bothering me here is not here what's bothering me name is purchased massa why would they dear first when they were here last and the question is there why where they were for the first because actually it makes sense that they were last for foster from the Machine Blaine is a nerd of Allah besides what's the logic of this why does it make sense that the leaders should bring their contribution at the end of everybody they should be first you're telling me that the reason Rashi is bringing the question here when it's really a question of purchased Massa is why why because he's not gonna come to say oh this was the wrong behavior that was the right behavior no he's bringing the question here to tell me that there is a question but here it's not a question the question is also an answer the question in us is an answer for vehicle granted but why what's the what's the basis of this dr. oshie that's why she tells you a whole story and when you listen to his words you'll see the explanation on Runa seein the leader said you snide would see BIR machinist Noddy Oh Marsha MacCachren on a marsh Luminizer the Miss see'em said let the community give what they give and what they're missing will complete this is not about apathy let them do what they do that pass kids will not know see is a Somali nation that forests are designed as eating zone Tom das was a and pump when edge they're not blackton things is I mean Jana the role of a leader the role of a Jewish leader is that the first thing what is on his mind what is on his heart that the Jewish people should fulfill the mission they're supposed to fulfill after that he can afford to think about himself and his own privileges and his own merits and his own perfection OB dashi achieve the EMA father drew enough imposters by aided motion in our along mallamma Chilean might appoint Allah suck of El Amin ahora la we have a precedent to this in raschi himself in parishes history it says moisha when he was preparing the Jewish people for Martin Tyra he comes down from the mountain to the nation so Rashi says Mohammed shallow how your moisture point Allah sucker will him in her alum why say came down to the nation of course where did he go now he went to the ice cream store of course he came down to the people the pus ik is teaching you says Arashi in yes right chapter 19 verse verse 14 it teaches you that moisture didn't go do his own businesses point Allah sucker you know go check go check his portfolio go check his bank account go check what's happening in the office no he went straight to the nation Basilica it is that moving my commercial amana's my sobriety liam delicious from a distance so he demand it plain to give him free design egg and i suck it I need a puss sick with this that one might came down for the mountain he decided he's not gonna go eat breakfast he's not gonna go eat lunch he's not gonna go eat dinner God gave him a mission to tell the Jewish people the first thing he did is he fulfilled the mission and then he went to do his own things whatever he had to do personally I need a plastic with this that moisture de Bain who came down from the mountain with a message from God and by the way you should know he didn't go deal with his own stuff and his own needs and his own concerns he went straight to give over the message to the people my commercial wants to finish and just need a special puss equated my time in re law nor there in university dishes well your point Allah suck of maintenance NARS einat's Rock a hagu fully nor eggs I now suck him in the Union and slickers goofer Zeena commas - Martin Taylor kind of like over fractures I wrote some moisture Kimmel Piranesi my last sack of doesn't mean Moises personal physical and material needs last suck of means the business the concerns that are relevant to the mission of Matt and Tyler my she could think themselves the Jews have to prepare for math antenna do you know how moisture have to prepare for Martin Taylor especially to be the one who is receiving the Toyota Moshe cable tie to Messina the spiritual emotional transformation and preparations for motion think about the subpoena God just gave me a mission to appear the Jewish people you might think moisture said let me first take some time to prepare myself a couple of cetera that's that sock of the sock of that are relevant to the slickest of the Hashem to prepare juice from a container from death dragon as I say this I in the cannot see by hidden as some alum Ashton commanded slot him from Eden a brigade been eating this delicious fillet Burstyn when Xena says on this I Spit on an edged enough to that convenience and Haruka me is the car Sock'em Bay no you're bein a college bar oh ho Carlos I'm Hana Samantha theta but this is what a true leader is a leader is that the first thing he must think about is like the Gemara always says your cadaver album hollow hickey Robin when there's an individual woman there's a rabid moisture a bein who knows that he is the leader of the Jewish people so the first thing in others mind is to give over the Jewish people the mission of uh Shem and make sure that they should implement and become ambassadors of the mission and then afterwards he could think about his own spirituality his own spiritual are suck in between him and God including his own preparations for Martin Taylor not that his succomb are not important they're very important but moisture was a redefined human being the leaders consciousness first and foremost is my people my nation God gave me a mission for them what about my own perfection your own perfection will come but first and foremost you responsible to your people what is between you and God must wait that's between you and Asha what's first and foremost important is what do the people need at this moment this is the president Rashi taught us the paradigm of a leader of an Aussie already impartial sister I'll Dennis eben didn't lead on this is what rashly means here to that edge the tough kid from the Nassim is given Sue's Oregon as his nod vote Sybil ma shed miss not even as Eden's omen Adams and v4 say Kenan who did he becomes a gives up to Marsh I'm an astronaut am Ashley monoi Unni - Marsha lawyer vo the k-8 suppose a bomb it's a day at Africa dot San Ysidro I'm Saiga month as even his own bringing when it over some Michigan Alice's be a help them over may listen to the fleet rifling infomercial or video was made the same minister as a hopping that's not as felt the bringin well ignore they don't happen be heartless well then it seems NSA's on this blinging not as concerned I'm at Syria so Marshall Hoffman das was even get mad Feldon by sir Raj they bring all this flee as if he got from business with sly mo business I am finish action fleeing a broth them them dachshund in the diverse early-mid versalife to bring in now say chemist and Blaine was a bonus unit sphere but sorry Mitzvah two factions man grow more as much as mom grandma Viveiros give my felon buys it done is on Amish linen myself Wow come back to the question now she said why did the canoe kasam his bear why did they come first and why here where they last sir - she says what's bothering me is not why they were last here what's bothering me is why they were first dear why is that what's bothering me so now she says let me explain to you they wouldn't see him and that's why he says all we're gonna see him then the sium said our job is that seaboard will have to be here for the people empower them motivate them inspire them trigger their enthusiasm explain to them enlighten them you snot dude super mushroom it's not this is not let them do what they do is none of our business and then we'll see what's going on no we have to be proactive our job is to think about it simple to think about Claudius well to inspire Kamali's all to give to the minister that's our job and that comes before anything else just like moisture coming down from the mountain he's not even thinking about his relationship with God his own mouth container he must first think about the MacIntyre of the Jewish people that I am Yankel and splinter the simple Jews received Tyler that's what he has to think about as a leader and of course all the other Jewish people that's why they say you snap the root simple Maximus mandolin and that's where actually puts it come RunAs see if this is what gonna see him said you smiles would see him I shall miss Madeline and I want to tell you something that I believe when they never said this sista there in the fabrini and Iacocca adoption cover they never said Camryn is seeing is rash she also is intimating that the Nassim were walking around who's a music Hunger student ongal arrant that was worth his words in Yiddish they said and they they motivated and they alarmed they created an alarm they created a consciousness come who they they've kept on telling everybody heaven again every kid every kid you're gonna build a home for the divine presence finite human beings are gonna create a home for infinity mortal man and woman is gonna create a home for infinity they were going around I'm gonna see it's not we'll have to get and then they say and what they make missing we will complete they don't say what they won't bring you know why cuz then I see him knew they're gonna be successful they were confident they will motivate Jews to give whatever has to be given as long as they have it there was no option what they don't bring we will bring they knew they'll bring everything what they said is Marshall and Astrid rush in the Hostin is what the Jews made missing what they didn't have I from Egypt than the see they had so much spoil yes but it they may have they may have used up a lot of things especially for a mitzvah amidst for that past that was passing and I have to use it up so MacCachren there's a historian they don't have something ah they don't have it not they're not bringing it even though they have it because they put it in their pillowcases or in their or in their closet no they have it then they're gonna bring it Oh Marshall Manhattan on a mosh lemon what they are missing they already used it up they depleted it this we're going to complete our peace a time of war lush annachi keep on che boat Sybaris Linwood semi-circle I'm gonna see him Marlena last slice omit Mojave does but sits in it Knutson adverse on Michigan our beacon to their path key Dalton is seeing the ball does Ashley much simpler Sequoia Eden of marshland Givenchy burning and Alice's become I'm saying exact Marlena wasis was lik they form certain outs miss seein that Bowser became sq feet in them onions air Taff get owned an heiress Tom's a young gaben tinactin Megan's a rich that was been interest on Michigan heavy was a vishaya if so you can kiss the words of Rashi when they may see him saw that everything was complete they said Marlena lasses what are we supposed to do they should have said what are we supposed to bring we got nothing to bring now Ashley is telling you something else he's not talking about the donations he's talking about the people Marlena lastly is he's not talking about what should we bring what should we do as leaders meaning we finished our mission we completed our mission Marlena wasis a leader has to ask is there any child who still needs inspiration is there any woman or man who still needs motivation who still needs to feel their power to build a home for God Marlena watchlists is there still something I can do is there somebody I can help and then they saw no the Michigan is complete everything is done it does not denote buddy to motivate they did a job par excellence excellent this is what happens when you give a shear in quarantine let me shove it Marlena laughs ice they took into themselves what are we supposed to do is there anything left to do as leaders of the Jewish people and the answer is no no we managed to succeed the Jewish people maximize their potential what's our job now and the answer is it's done oh now I could think about myself so now they started to think about their own contribution their own donation for the Michigan now we want to be part of building a Michigan so hey vos Avenue ashram they brought a venir show yeah let's take a break for some questions bringing contributions so why they called lazy you're asking that Moshe is asking why are they called lazy a leader must educate a leader must inspire why they called lazy are they supposed to show by example what others should do why they called lazy this was selfless they were letting others go first and they're only gonna make up the lack I don't know why they're called lazy another question we learned to mastectomy Gil adoptive of this morning at 8 : Madhavi Bechet memory may be ghoul Iloilo m-- Rebbe moshe is asking so why doesn't Rashi always quote the source that's a good question but it's not for this year another question could waiting to bring last have something to do with an ego it's not laziness it's ego ok good question let's wait with the laziness we're not done yet we're not done yet [Music] okay Reb Massey is writing from Israel welcome for merit is wrong he's saying I don't understand why don't you quote the program benezia land the Gemara that hannah sia means the clouds miss 'i'm in hebrew also means clouds the clouds brought the avenue sham the clouds brought these gems and then the Nassim just had to lift them up and bring them and bring them to the Mischka that's a wonderful wonderful comment but my dear friend my dear friend Rashi does not include this interpretation i said in the beginning Rashi last night maybe Rashi doesn't quote every meadow sure she doesn't quote every good mother you know why Rashi only quotes those interpretations that he feels are loyal are loyal to prosciutto so Micra they are representing the literal straightforward interpretation we know about the interpretation that Missy and Missy amidst clouds it's like a marine humidify in hey it's a Targa muna Simba newsy oh it's a tiger - and it's broad ambulatory 'm it's in choice Rafa he has this in footnote number 14 but rash she believes that this is not what honest Sein means and we know why because it's not the literal interpretation of the sukham and in footnote 14 the lubavitcher rebbe explains why and he says because when it says bahamas see him to say that it means clouds is not the literal interpretation literally it means the leaders and that's why rashly this does not bring that interpretation and there's also proof for this in the beginning of trauma Hashem says may a scald ish Asha add vanilla beta colostrum OC may co-pays call ish so that's the cold brisk a literacy of art may is called is a shade vanilla body I want the contributions to come from every human being who has a generous heart and in vehicle it says Co ECE Shaw so from a literal perspective Raschi believes that all the contributions are coming from people people who have hearts not from heaven okay if you want to look in footnote number 14 there's a long discussion why Rashi does not introduce that interpretation of clouds [Applause] [Music] somebody's answering the moistures answer that cholera muratova Bechet Miami maybe Google alum is only if it wasn't internalized as yours but if it really became yours then you don't have to quote it from its original source if you really made it your own there is that explanation there it's true this is explanation but it's it's beyond the realm of this year okay you're welcome to ask any question I appreciate the questions very much you can write your comments and questions on the YouTube chat or Facebook and it's sent to me for those who are joining us first of all I'm here sitting with Rabbi yitzy Horowitz my dear friend in Los Angeles abusive its Edmond Baraka therefore Craver for you but times are highly solve a nightmare our main I want to welcome everybody joining us at this special Shir here Thursday 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explaining vehicle why they came fast last by asking the question there why they came first and I'm going to answer that question why via they came first and in that answer you'll understand already why the question is not why they came last but why they came first and that's why gosh she gave us this introduction that has an asiimov and that's their job and they were completely dedicated to it to it and they were completely devoted to it with their whole art of passion what the Jews don't have we're going to complete and as a result of that when they finished and they saw everything was done they said what do we have to do we finished our mission now they thought about themselves sieve of George them but us is already given that if they can say that our nugget fulness iam Isabel apoyo been again Sue's a Elena is a coma not his sorry when their phone of adenosine fresh tan and though this was a meager vitamins and adverse animation business soy is given Nitin dancing to the boy nurses and I'm given an image time Indian function is at slow on the calf today the summer sack enzyme is not verb a Hanukkah some is may Allah apparently this was the appropriate behavior however in reality they realized that they lost something out of this whole process they realized that something was missing in their own work as a result of this and then they understood that even though they told themselves consciously that they're waiting till the end because this is their job as leaders but they understood that maybe unconsciously I'm adding those words maybe beneath the conscious there was another incentive here there was another agenda here that was not appropriate you know people are complicated we are mixed up we're excelent sweet and sour chicken and you never know clear your motivations there's so many layers of people's motivations so the leaders looked at the final at the final summation at the end of the story and they realized after everything said and done something was missing something was missing for themselves and then they understood if they would have done the right thing completely that wouldn't have happened and they went deep into themselves and they realized that some thing of laziness was involved here it wasn't just leadership there was also a component of laziness and this they felt they had to crack it in buses were Stalin the historian what was missing they did their job leaders motivate people the people embraced the call beautiful what was missing is a sloshy mafia Mazda Minton's Augean fish limits Evora Sacco Shannon Marva Malacca he said are you as the symbol of Martians when alice is given notify the Milwaukee for Michigan Diana if I can do get in the can - I'm sorry as dinner dollar from the museum isn't it given mortadella come on over bald in the cinemas and a sash limit zebra Sequoia was Erina dovish English kind of emotional haste to stock as a hobby need King Hamish over in Horatio's eternity versa Mishka Matt Ali hidden on say the phone fresh talent as a run hugger form is not for beginners need given kid a boy nor season I'm given a Ranga missed an Indian from abscess combustion mister well what was missing that's why Rashi puts in those words that Sieber finished everything how melaka is a dying the donations were complete everything that was necessary for the construction of the Michigan the Jewish people contributed so the contribution of the leaders was superfluous it was unnecessary when the leaders realized that their contribution was unnecessary it and we're going to explain what that means it means that they're part in building the Michigan was not the same like the rest of the Jewish people the rest of the Jewish people's contributions were indispensable their contribution was there but it was not indispensable because rashly says his limo zebra s hot oil it was done it was bleeped and then they realized that they lost in this process and then they understood that their behavior of delaying their donations till the end had a component of laziness what does this mean the husband let's explain a Zeidman are documents of the casa favela Monica Duffman declare mission a big the corner saying because they beneath the a lead game of autumn zelban it from work the Avenue shyam Avenue million for Holi comes in my Civic event removing from them Washington's limo as a coil diam indignant doubles from Casa resolve of Julio's rifle as Nozomi technician in Canon Bakuman clothes and thus forceful taco well doesn't the Peters finish limits seborrhea Sequoia Shanna Marama locker is a diam if this action 3d mode one of us by say is knit given from the hidden marshland amended as monado's and ID because of a Hooley mr. Gavin asked them food prize for the avenue Shyam Avenue million wahoo Lee would the fan happened in the sea and get filters they have been it King life is that was in it was a Mishka metalli hidden Eden under he Gavin dose was given more upon admission mashenka Eden it was a mercy mission it given and gather from the clay theist he says the kiss of life - Avinash imachining event was a dispatch versus given in them was a boil the black the avenues triumph ash Martin - when the Jews realized that they don't have all the materials for example the jewels and the Germans you know what they did they added more gold and silver they added more money so that you should be able to buy these materials and these fabrics that's why it actually says he's schlimm o essa coil they completed everything I'm a locker it's a diam it was enough even without the naseeb that's why it says he's limo ish limo comes the word harsh llama they fulfill they complemented even those things that they didn't have they added more money more silver more gold so they gave the prize the value of the oil or of the spices or of the incense or of the jewels and the gems in the precious stones that's when the leaders realized that they don't have an equal partnership with the Jews in erecting the Michigan the Jews gave that which was necessary for building the Mischka the contribution of the leaders was already not necess Cerie because the builders had enough money from the Jewish people to be able to purchase all these items the participation of the leaders was in the fact that they actually gave the materials that they did and those materials were used but essentially even if they wouldn't have given those materials there would be nothing missing that's why it says he's schlimazel a Sequoia they will match them everything either they gave what they needed the fabrics themselves the materials themselves and if not they gave extra money so you could purchase it so that's when the Nasim realized that their partnership in building of the Mishkan was not the same their partnership was in the fact that they avoided the need for Jews to go buy it but the money was there the money was available so they avoided an extra strain an extra exertion of energy because they have all the materials because they have all them because they have all the materials but it's not the same when the Jews gave the materials that was essential for the Mishkan what they gave was not essential they would have had it even without them by using the money that the Jews gave to buy it that's when they realized that there was something here in their calculation that was flawed they were telling themselves for leaders let everybody do their job we can't think about themselves but sometimes in my idealism there may be an unconscious or maybe conscious but a very still voice of laziness that is motivating me to be so idealistic sometimes idealism and selflessness eclipses a quality that I should challenge a quality that may be toxic that may be selfish that may be coming out of laziness let me tell you a story this story the rebus shared when he said this fashion he steered the story he heard it from his father-in-law the previous lubavitcher rebbe reb na conscionable ur was one of the greatest students of the baal shem tov in the market he was also a very very poor man and a very holy Judith knock'em of Chernobyl the hail occurred not from Chernobyl the author of mou inai in the Hasidic work Mary nyah one day a Jew came to obnoxio lobular a disciple of his an affluent Jew and he gave him 300 ruble a hundred silver ruble which was an extravagant amount of money and him not him saw this and he started to ask himself why did God send this huge sum to me which was completely unusual it didn't happen before even his more affluent disciples would not give so much it was a crazy son of money then he said I know why just a few minutes ago a man came into his room the man was crying he has to marry off his daughters he has no money he doesn't have money to feed his hungry children he has no money to pay a teacher to take care and teach his children the poor man is broke no food no clothes and the man told him at the end he needs 300 ruble so not himself up so the reborn asylum said to me 300 rubles I should be able to give it to this poor person as he fought this another thought came into his mind and said I should take a hundred silver ruble and spend it on one man that's not fair I could be messiah I could give life to six families let me distribute it between six families everybody will have such a nice portion of money why should I give it away the one person it does not make sense from a philanthropic charity point of view well job knock him do you ride away called him the poor person and he gave him all the money and he said over this story and he said because I realized that the second thought was coming from the eighth Sahara how he said as follows if it was coming from the eighth sir tithe why didn't it come in right away I got the money and I was thinking why did God give it to me why did God give it to me the exit I should have said to distribute it to six hungry families maybe to the poor person or maybe to six hungry families it did not come into me right away first I decided I it was here to give it to the poor person who needed the money after I decided to give it to the poor person suddenly the its artists at I avoid this is not good what can I do so here the toxicity came and the selfishness came in come on Deb knock him don't give it away the one man bring hope to six families it's a lot of thought you know maybe the seventh family will be the binocular maybe the six family will be reppin awesome that way less money will be given for Dhaka Nebraska monopolist realized he says look when the thought came in if it came from the edge detective who was pure idealism it should have been there right away you know why they ate too hard didn't come with this thought right away very simple in the beginning when I was deliberating the Excel Hara was hoping that I'm gonna decide that the money goes to me after all my years of service and my debts I deserve 300 ruble that's what he was hoping I'm gonna share it only with me and my family that's what he was hoping that's why he didn't give the idea of distribution to six families or once he saw that I decided to give it away to one poor person now this is already not good this he didn't like he wanted to disturb that plan how he couldn't tell me keep it for yourself he realized I'm not working that way so you had a better idea distributed between people and that way I'll take some time some will stay with you some people will get it some people won't get it the main thing is that poor person won't get the gift that God intended for him and if knocking realized this is the age so Hani gave it all the way to that purse there ever said from here you learn that sometimes idealism can eclipse a different type of emotion a different type of feeling I'm telling myself I'm a leader I'm selfless I'm only thinking about you you you I'm not thinking about me and I'm doing my job and there's a trust to it there's a truth to it but there's also another truth to it another truth to it is I'm lazy or maybe I'm stingy or maybe I'm indifferent or maybe that there may be other motivations that are behind it and when they saw that at the end of the day they could not have an equal partnership in the Michigan they realized it was laziness here and that's why by the MS baya they changed the order but now we have a big question but let me see there's other questions okay this question we will answer soon okay feel free to write in your questions and you could put them in the YouTube chat to put them on Facebook and they will be delivered to me Casas for the table in our house bu but we're still not finished Boulder's by an aussie fathers if they say that I'm not familiar playing a las ocho but at that free it laughter mega-mush psi knife hidden for something it seems asthma not even Hanukkah summers bear to heal the hip if to say the phenomena see MS back of my Maleficent Myshkin is there and have you given it by for niacin isla de compañía chances organ as the tick on the roof is due to the feelings of the Midway are not see that was invaded if the cases that we said that an Aussie should go last so then why buy them as bears did they jump first so you'll say whether they learned their lesson that they were lazy by the milettis on Michigan okay so how do you fix your laziness by doing something that's inappropriate by jumping ahead you're a leader you're supposed to take care of the people first so for next time I make sure that your laziness is not mixing in for I got that but you don't fix one flaw by doing something wrong if the ideal situation and the ideal behavior of a leader is to think about the people mean haha l her own lawyer your point allow suck of even my own Matt and Tyler comes later if I'm a leader so then why buy Honoka some is baya that they shift Moo's men's again as visas because my neighbor submission is presenting image turnover from a closed happens a fresh Tanana seems that he'd have finished them infinitely some Michigan the says Carter's a run again Algy main is that lipstick easier bidding them founded given kitty boy the house body in them to deliver some rich cannot socket on the holy finale hidden vicious aunty beside thereby vices the scapula noivern her eagle on the deeper doctors dog a month nice of them as yet the easel up and I hate looking into some ashram as the missions of oldest of Aaron was free year when the father hain ms as the tasket for nausea aid they are shave it is tuba Vaadin as it is on funding anima Matala male opening ECM says i'm in the mid kadamba voronin diseases and Binion a michigan as as old Esalen great design Alma's ration was but have happened the molasses of michigan but oil will be heck them when they fine had done it marcin given the say that I'm not the right and come over cameras man whom then was dis not would see the mushroom is Madeleine Oh Marshall madrastra non a mush lemon oyster midsize a Taft adults machine gopher how does he fathered Osmond and dick by Eden dolphins a glided sightings in mock them sanction Brennan's there in the dark there as the Michigan's of good Boyd went back to my field shoddy when they're deeper when I see a common second okusama spared a seasoning and Claudia NASA's Nigeria as a sign be hectic anarchism is bear for a leaden I'm same an additive amber Taylor what happened was Dennis iam realized when they saw the results and they understood that there was something of laziness air they understood not only that there was a wrong incentive but that their behavior was also longer generally you're right but this is an exception when moisture is coming down from the mountain and the question is do I focus on my own spirituality my own relationship with God do I go to the Jewish people I go to the Jewish people this was their calculation here but here was wrong why because the Mishkan is that which would bring the divine presence back to the people forgiveness for the sin of the golden calf so it wasn't only important for the Jewish people that everybody should have a part in it everyone should have the souls to give and the leader wants to make sure that every Jew has this privilege and the leader is concerned for every single drew to be that person who donates for the Michigan to have that part of it but as a leader of the Jewish people you also have want that the Shamus should come back to the Jewish people so you the Michigan up and running as fast as possible yes you want every Jew should have a part in it but if you care for the Jewish people you want the Mishkan up and running fast so therefore you want to make sure that everything is ready to build as fast as possible and that's why the mode of behavior let me motivate let me inspire but I'm going to wait to see what they don't have and then I'm going to bring that if you're a real leader and you're really concerned with the Jewish people you're concerned not only that they should all bring that too but you must be concerned that the Mishkan should be built up that the Jewish people should be able to be who they are they should live up to their ideal identity as God's people as the ambassadors of the divine in this world through the divine presence dwelling among them this is essential to your mission and therefore they understood from what happened at the end that there was a laziness here and from this they understood that their calculation was wrong the laziness also made them miss calculate what is the right thing sometimes the right thing is not to think about yourself but sometimes the right thing is no I want to think about you but I have to right now also make sure that I'm gonna bring my contribution so the mission should be accomplished that's essential to being a leader so now by the canoe kasam is baya they realized yes they're leaders they have to inspire the Jews but it's so important that the Mishkan should be up and running the MS baya should be full and wholesome and it should be dedicated for the sake of all the Jewish people and that's why they did it first who but here we come to this fascinating fascinating piece now listen I tell them we'll looking up a flag in a savvy student is gonna ask a good question what's the question about these documents by the Nassim of gift felt nourished at first but think lolly so bended with some vegetables are in a dove is Native another barometer canal seems I lost sight of about them that amazed Ana's given the Miriam left us a Michigan as the Eden zones it's not the design is not to achieve mushroom as Marvin come deface as alt was eaten of monado venom Dennis see him in there mom until he bounces get on the one and because I'm busy Rossum and for Voss a stir surface Sodom and say hey look man it was a Michigan is there any lived mizushima llamas the myth versus my tick as the mine maracas octet knows how can you say that the leaders were missing something in the partnership with Claudia sir all in the donations for the Michigan because what they gave wasn't absolutely necessary because they already had the money to buy it one second they were the ones who empowered and inspired and motivated the Jewish people to bring the donations as we learned before is not vote see Burmaster miss novel they had a mission and they were successful in motivating the jews to give this means that all the contributions of the jewish people could be attributed to their merit it was done through their vigor through their inspiration through their leadership through their empowerment so why are they missing out missing anything if I motivate you to give sadaqa and you give stuck I'll know equal partner with you because it happens through me I was the one who was the matchmaker I'm the one who inspired you then it seemed inspiring all the Jewish people so all the donations of the Jewish people can be attributed at least partially to their merit and privilege so there was no floor and their contribution to the mission was speaking about that they realized Marlena lastest what should we do everything was done and then they thought about themselves and they realized that their donation is not gonna make up it's not gonna make up for that they're missing everything they're doing is nice and dandy but they are miss something in the construction of the Michigan because their donation is not equal to the other juice that's not fair to say it's absolutely equal in fact they get credit for all the other donations as well this is a good question and that's why Rashi adds one word hypnose Reb nothin is the man who taught this to us who's rip Nasim the beer in them from the dinner Mahima for someone for nab not business as veteran our smiles she Buddhadeb Nasim Bashar CEO Venus showed the kohoku Shimon and when Shipman is believed about solemn Lavine is might see in misery even Venoy still oz lav removing salt boy - your shirt Salafi there oof doin them Dean is hard to Shia Sunnis Kaiba's for northern stelae we come to the feminine is up and knocked them visas PD Shia threat of catan Vetter ship with a typical uncle - Reuben Salafi he loved his shamanism ilaha illah need given in mitten i'll dad assays be needing the DA holy shiet husband in the Mercedes not Islamic Islamic invective cat under of them scissors from the Nasir is when they even fall gun on Chinamen na'toth is thus might seem easy for them and not him but nice them Lisette some a Burstyn a Shia is very scarce boy - Yasser divisions a on them a brush them a evil within the same Hamza condemned mid metallic ah one of the most famous hollow fleas of Reb Nasim which is actually attributed to his name anybody who knows Gomorrah feelin kaduche and afters love or many other places and Shas you know she Buddha did AB Nasim the commitment attributed AB Nasim the lean that rib naasson revealed what did hypnosis on teach Reuven owes shimon $10,000 he borrowed from shimon $10,000 the ocean at $10,000 shimon happens to have a debt he owns lady $10,000 scam deafness in and said might see in me seven nice the masa you come to rubin and lady who needs the $10,000 from shipment he goes to Sherman but shimmer is owed $10,000 from Reuben so lady can go to removing and take the $10,000 from Reuben instead of it going from Reuben to shimon at the labor you can go straight from Reuben too late what's the kiddush what's the novelty of this a locket principle of ribbon also Central America should miss persimmon pay Bob and there's a famous concise so separation on this in Sim and payoffs if cotton Aleph referenced in footnote 33 those of you who learned the choice know this site should know this right as well the finish is as follows Reuben and lady don't know each other when lady comes to Reuven and says Reuben $10,000 Rubens's I don't know you what's your name I don't recognize you I never took money from you go away from me the relationship between Reuben and Lainey needs an intermediary it's Shimon Reuven old Shimon $10,000 shimon old lady $10,000 so you'll think when lady comes through Reuben says love Baltimore MD dia I don't know you go to Shipman what do you want from me let shimon come to me accessory up nothing the hello who doesn't work that way one's the creation of a relationship was created through shimon who's an intermediary so now the leme the obligation on the loan is transferred directly and it's conferred directly upon Reuben like removing old lady as those shimon was never there in between you want to compare it even appeared a little bit to a matchmaker a shopkin the cousin and the caller would have never come together without the matchmaker right but after all afterwards you don't keep the shop looking at home because he's the intermediary between us he may have initiated the relationship that's true but now it's time for him to leave there's a relationship directly between the cousin of the cow I know it's not a perfect example here we're talking about a monetary obligation they move in half the shipment and Shimon had to lady Hoover never had a monetary obligation to lady but the point is shimon is the one who created the bridge between reuben and lady once that bridge is created you could remove shimon out of the equation and removing owes the money to lady says did it ever this is the case here didn't I see him with a shopkin they were the matchmakers they came to the Jewish people and they motivate them and inspire them ever get gelt for the biskits bring back the scrim into the world that's true but when the Jews are giving them money they're not giving the money to Shimon to give it the lady might see in is EV and noise still misère we take the money from the Jews and we give it to lady we give a directly fashion there's a direct relationship between the Jewish people and God as though the leaders were not involved they had the privilege to motivate to inspire to initiate the relationship but once that relationship happens it's a direct relationship it's not anymore attributed to the Nassim that's why they've lost an armor at nothing Rab nos and taught us that even if I motivated you to give but I motivated you to give and ultimately it's about you it's not about me it's about your relationship with God the shopton is not the one who remains inside the relationship it's not like the cousin calls the shotgun to speak to his wife or evolve oh no no the job of the shotgun is to bring out the inherent relationship the job of the Nassim is to bring out the relationship between the Jews and God directly and once that happens that out of the equation what the Jews gave they gave directly to God Shimon is not part of it and therefore the museum did not have this partnership possession Maria doesn't demco face bystander csoka doctor from tennessee they haven't gotten as a URI the established religion submission commits commander looks a decided us ver to sci-fi resident I'll say any start for some Alexis a Michigan when are possess fresh standing was M desert is not with Saddam arsonist not even or Marshall McCaslin on a mosh lemon I said but when the motion is Mishima as by says knit give incision as Evelyn wasn't bringing on the farms egg is aft on Amish lemon I sign it on dome even Bob Isaiah's given up Kuwait as a dolphin Elaine did Brandon boys Masha man astron Amish women are suing them Casa for the mess felt in the Maleficent Michigan Bashar Kaba same design advert Ella as Ashley matzo versatile that symbol of ounce of Gotama Shlomo's comes a marriage given as those candid fire and venom is a status according to this we have now a deeper insight into this whole story this was the calculation of the leaders leaders thought we don't really have to bring we could be those who motivate everybody else to bring and that's our partnership I motivate you to gifts adduct I don't have to give myself okay you're giving is because of me it's due to my credit it's due to my serious this is what they thought and that's why what do they say they don't say what the Jews don't bring we will bring why they didn't believe that they have to bring we don't have to bring they said what the Jews are missing we will complete meaning if the Michigan eat something and it doesn't have it we will complete it that's their word they should have said unknown movie and not on a Muslim and we're gonna bring we want to bring they didn't have to bring they felt we don't have to bring you brought you're bringing is enough from me I get credit for it we both get credit for it there's a partnership here I inspired you and you didn't you did the work great wonderful partnership we don't have to bring if there's something missing in the Michigan in the heft sir masha masha allah masha limited there's something missing in the michigan then technically we have to bring it because we want to michigan but essentially in the best part is the person is concerned we don't feel the necessity to have the source to be part of it we already have the part of it we already have part of it through you they didn't believe they have to bring that's the brilliance in the words my slimming I soy the Michigan may need us to bring we don't need to bring we already brought when you brought suddenly they discovered something wondrous which they didn't expect that seaboard did everything there was nothing left for them even the Avenue shyam was paid for already and that's when they reconfigured their mindset they realize suddenly this is strange there's mama she nothing left for us mamas nothing even what we bring is not essential or not necessary and that's when they were challenged to realize that perhaps they made a mistake and what was their mistake the mistake was that were there was a component of laziness here and there was a miscalculation and because of that they delayed their contribution and they realized as a result that also this is not this has not considered their participation like herb Nelson explained she Buddha terrible Austen and when they discovered that they decided to repair this mistake by the Chanukah Sameach huh I'm looking for questions why don't we give people the benefit of the doubt maybe they thought they were doing the right thing we are that's the point we're giving them the benefit of the doubt completely they thought they were doing the right thing not only that they were doing the right thing a lot of what they were doing was the right thing but here you learn how truthful the tire is and how it believes that we can be truthful people we could really be honest we could truly be self aware of looking at our motives looking at our incentives looking where idealism can sometimes have a floor not because the idealism is false and fake and superficial but sometimes different inner agendas subconscious or conscious can cloud our judgment and make us make us bias so that's the beauty of it that the Turner believes that a person could be so pure so refined so real so authentic and it's not about disgracing we asked before why do we want to embarrass them we're not embarrassing them we're actually highlighting their beautiful virtues but we are also highlighting the fact that even in a moment of greatness a person ought to be able to examine themselves and sometimes reconfigure and ask themselves as my thinking not been clouded what an empowering empowering thought empowering thought and a hopeful thought of how of how much Toyota believes in the power of people not to be perfect but to be accountable that's the answer to your question Rebbetzin Sora it's not to be perfect it's to be able to be accountable to be able to take a reckoning to be able to go back and say hmm maybe this is my trauma maybe this is my insecurity maybe this is my fear maybe this is my narcissism maybe this is my selfishness maybe this is my fear of engagement maybe this is my detachment maybe these are my childhood wounds and maybe this is my laziness very good question thank you for sharing your question just looking at the questions okay beautiful you Dolloff modem come on item as designed MC emotion Rashi you love fish innocence tomatillo nursery is mish mom Vanessa visarga Felda rice you de la hoy de vos philosophers are the union from atlas met insists on inferno you'd wish mom Norbit name is Ayana means as the his solemn phone I stood was by Steve pitbull is nipa plates on or the sea buffoons ans at SLU the Isaiah does miss Gallagher Vernon oh man I take a roof and be shameless iam the fishiness at slow as men at gaze engine is a saloon the bowel does by sayeth you fell the tackle is a beetle as subsidized a Unga has a zionist seein the libitum they give filters the need verse a mission from the Eden as he commanded as a when I slipped them thongs in mushrooms and thus was let felon by hidden when their Helga Shanna see Assad guide him given saison sanction is absolute belief in Isaiah - that force in billion a Michigan so needs inhaler cafe with Matawa under hidden pieces the Mishkan ordered of them - rosh hashanah by Eden hot garlic enzyme undid vasana see according to all of this will understand the end of Rashi that a youth was taken out of the word Hannah seein the cause they were lazy what's the connection because they were lazy therefore you take out our youth from their name what's the connection it's like okay I mean take care of you because they're lazy what's the connection the deeper answer of this is you'd is the smallest letter in the alphabet in many farmers explain that you'd represents under khuda seminal point which is the quality of bittle humility the idea that I am a conduit for God going beyond the smallness of my ego and realizing that I am an expression Elijah so you'd represents the quality of humility what Rashi is teaching us is missing are you when you're missing are you it it means you're missing the bittle it's not it's not because they were lazy the youth is missing it's the other way around because they were missing a youth therefore they were lazy that's the idea the laziness the laziness when we when they saw the laziness they realized that the youth is missing so again it's not it's not that the you'd was missing because they were lazy it's the other way around the reason for their laziness is because there was missing oh yeah just like by yahushua moisture added or you would write a bunch of slacker footnote 36 adding the youth was an extra-strength theory sure you'd care she asked emeritus Menachem here's the other way because they were missing the bitl because they are missing this was a cause of laziness we did this missing bit will come out and missing you'd come out it came out when they encountered their own laziness and that's why Nasim is missing oh you what does this mean it means as follows a leader is a great person but in being a leader there's a risk what's the risk the risk is that sometimes the leader feels says the Labov ature ever that because I'm empowering you and I'm inspiring you I therefore own a little bit of your work your work can be attributed to me I get credit for it again it's like the matchmaker who feels that the relationship between the cussin and the caller is always happening through him as leaders they were missing the ultimate bit towards the ultimate build the ultimate bitless I am a channel for God's light if I have a privilege of being a leader of being a mentor of being a teacher of being the leader of the tribes it means that God is manifesting his light through me what is the danger the danger is that sometimes I feel like I own you and I think we can all relate to this concept sometimes when we're in leadership positions we sometimes fail you know I almost like I own you it's a certain form of manipulation it's like almost everything you have is from me and it works both ways the leader feels that way about the and the people feel that way about themselves it's like you know I took care of you I'm the one who brought you to this place you wouldn't have anything without me and this is where the Eagle of the leader gets into the place the ego of the leader creates a distraction it creates a toxic distraction what is he missing he's missing valued nasi is known sin you'd all of you must have a unit and if you don't have that youth and you need to use more than other people because power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely you need to use more than other people because you're in a leadership position and it doesn't mean you're not a great person you could be great you're fit for leadership God chose you for leadership but as being a leader you have to remember it's a gift it's a privilege you're a servant of the people because you're a servant of Russia you're the conduit to bring our shams light to the people you don't own their light and they shouldn't think you own their life and you shouldn't think that you own their light and you own their work and you own their participation it's a source you have that you motivated them but what you did was your job is to bring out their relationship with God not to become an intermediary between them and God sometimes I find that mentors teachers leaders they don't allow the people to develop their own relationship with God you're not a baby a leader has to believe in the people you're mature you have to make the decisions you have to grow up you have to own your relationship with God she booth in there AB nos and might see in me 7 Iceland lost your relationship was with Hashem it's not with me it's not with the leader yes I may have taught you I may have inspired you I may have brought you to this place I may answer your questions hopefully I can serve as a role model etc etc but don't get in between people and themselves don't get in between people and their spouses don't get in between people and their God and don't treat them as dummies realize your role as a humble person be humble see it as a privilege do your job then SC and we're missing that so they felt I don't have to give for the Michigan whatever these guys do it's really me come on it's all me they're just doing it because of me this is a youth was missing where did they discover this they didn't realize this they were thinking let the Jews give but underlying the idealism there was a little bit just a little bit he says what was missing was timeless habitable and this sense of ego this little sense of ego caused a certain laziness because that's what ego to us that's what ego does I'm not a complete conduit laziness is a very broad term here basically you know I just a detached from the mission and therefore what happened their participation and the Mishkan was not equal with all the other Jews in other words the Mishkan including the presence of the divine coming back to the people could have happened without the contribution of the Naseem they gave things but they had the money without them this means that this came out this ego came out in the fact that they indeed as leaders ultimately fell behind the other people that's the paradox when the leader becomes egotistical not only is he not leading the people he falls behind the people because his relationship with the Mishkan was not to sit there relation with the Mishkan was not there saying like the other Jews we now finish the last section of this city if you'd base I can't tell you how powerful how relevant this idea is in so many situations and so many ramifications leadership can be manipulative in a spiritual and idealistic way and that's when you're missing the youth that's when you're missing the youth is this idea is this idea that a lever would tell people to be a catalyst I don't know what you mean if you can explain your question a little more I don't know exactly what you're asking but if I'm speculating I think what you might be saying is that the job of a leader is to show people their own light not to treat them as babies and basically you're on training wheels and hold my hand and I'm gonna bring you to the destination sometimes you have to hold my hand but the purpose is like your child you don't want your child to always walk holding your hand you want your child to become an independent powerful person what do they say that there are people there are teachers who create students and who create who create who create whether they say small leaders create obedient obedient disciples and and greater leaders create enthusiastic followers but the greatest of leaders create leaders the greatest of leaders create leaders why because the greatest of leaders are people who actually see themselves in a very humble light and therefore they know that what's their agenda to create people who will stand on their own feet and become independently powerful and make a revolution and lead other people the greatest leader is the one who watches the other person not need him anymore not need and not in the sense that they become detached but in the sense that I want to bring out in you your power your light your relationship with God she Buddhadeb Nasim Shimon may come in the middle but then Shimon has to have the ability to watch with nachus as Reuven and Lavy meet each other Reuven here being a symbol a metaphor for the jew and lady being a metaphor for God if you'd base Zoe be a lean on al-qaeda [Music] is I used that in an aji ROTC had needin like everything in Toyota this is a lesson for every single Jew why I had needin his daughter Union an assist and a see astonish a mosaic goof I've done and I'm Ashley Borden but shaggy them because the dose was yesterday and I was an Amish behave in a submissive a so he's doing them the IRA as a bear villas by Ames on it felony Nevada Sasha Hamlet canine well the Mishkan shallow society boy Daffy in there Nasir's in their spy fans matin Sehun hadn't day you'd the tackle is a bit full but Dumas hemella was dude of them was given Chikara shove image like if Mary by Allah Allah is a my life a Londoner as turn design that hellish and because your hats me is that much beyond not see when as the gun societies from them straight and some a Burstyn is not a bank in every Jew is a Nazi every person as a leader your first leadership extends to your body to your life to your organism the gomorian my second scenario mahmoud base calls the body a miniature City and you are the melon you're the king over your city that's the first one you're 248 organs you 365 sinews and then in a broader sense every person has a sphere of influence this person as a leader in his or her family in his or her company in his or her community in his or her environment every person has their orbit their relationships their you know food web they're there their food chain which they have influence over and this is where there's a tremendous lesson if you want don't lose sight of your own relationship with God what happened within the CM is there was something flawed in their relationship with the people in their understanding themselves as Nassim and as a result of that their participation in the Michigan was not the same like every other Jew as a Nazi it doesn't absolve you from taking full accountability for your own life and working on yourself and don't think that you could live through other people what a powerful lesson don't live off other people you can't breathe their oxygen especially now you have to own your own life I can say I'm inspiring so many people I don't have to work on myself you have to build your own Michigan you have to be a partner in the Michigan yeah math to make sure you're avoiding the session is complete you have to refine your character you have to work on your body on your animals so leadership does not absolve you from complete internal focus to make sure mipzor Altis allen the gupta passuk says when you see a naked person give them clothes when you see a hungry person give them food but make sure you're also covered with clothes so the ton of the Valeo says you see somebody naked for mitzvos dress them somebody without try to give them pata but don't keep yourself naked you can't live through them just because I'm inspiring people I'm teaching people I'm leading people therefore I don't have to work on myself no you have to davon and you have to learn and you have to grow and you have to connect thing you have to be aligned you have to make sure your Michelin your donation to the Michigan is perfect and how do you do that a major part of that is that your leadership always has a huge there's a humility in your leadership if not it takes you over and it makes you drunk and it makes you toxic you have to have a youth in your leadership you have to have bit though the kymaro says in breakfast 34 a king when he bowels down by financial barakaatuh he stays down a host - you know that nobody else does we pick up our heads a king has to stay down you know why so their ever says because he bounds down more than other people therefore he can rule over other people because he boughs down more than other people he stays down also an Astra therefore he can rule over other people to rule over other people means you have to be much more humble not less humble it means you have to see yourself as a selfless conduit of God what is the greatest obstacle the feeling that I am the leader I am them are SPEA and that your relationship with Hashem is only thanks to me I am the intermediary between you and God this is the downfall he says of a leader the moment I sink that your relationship Hashem is all because of me and I become an interruption in your relationship I manipulate that relationship I have now stepped out of my boundaries I am NOT a true leader I don't have that you what is that you'd that you'd is the conviction the humility which is not always easy that I do not own your relationship with God I am a manifestation of God's light in the world I don't own my leadership and I don't own you it's about your relationship and I have the privilege to bring it out and this is what was missing by the Nassim and here we have to learn a footnote 37 37 question a catalyst is a substance that speeds up a chemical reaction but is not consumed by the reaction very nice people have to be a catalyst you speed up a chemical reaction but you're not consumed by it I'm learning that we have to be constantly introspective of our motivations and yes this can drive me crazy we're not talking about over analyzing yourself don't overanalyze yourself do good things build up every day a Michigan fresh M but it means to be self-aware but you shouldn't overanalyze yourself because you'll go crazy all over this is a great remedy for codependency very well said good remedy for the pansy take a look in 37v Ashley Meyer footnote 37 the issue I'm Marcia gamma Tom's Mardi Gras she shamed by la mine red nose Kop Scimitar let's actually talk and the father's shades Alanis E&Y AHA sabaha bit over la Haine Exeter is mich mom the samovar pnub nos and shall of miss super holiness you'd get mo Sharat Salah have a deception Ben Gamliel - you say for sure who royal Azalea submitter pure minimally oh I knew she Yoda initial gnosis FCC is an embargo shuttle engine shame a little bit Alice commercial high a solution in Ming I'm leo they talked initially a cool movie Khmer that may have it have nothing to mashanda more fun of make sure who absolute hush of sugar oh you least not see a submission minimally oh wow this gives us another reason why rashly quote seven awesome how can a great leader really be missing Bittle how does such a thing happen a holy person the answer is ribbon awesome Rashi is telling you rib nose and take a look massages hurry is defeated gimel very briefly there's a whole story there yep Zimmerman Gamliel was de NOSSA he was the leader of the Sanhedrin rib Mayer was the sage rib Nelson was the half Bezdek everyone used to honor them equally but then rep simmerman Gamliel felt it's inappropriate that people shouldn't distinguish between the nazi and the albezia and the hokum and therefore he made a new tack honor that the way they honor him should be different then remain and AB non and when they saw that they decided they want to dethrone him cinnamon gum leo and they created a whole plot and they was found at the end and they changed since then they would call it mayor I hate him and have-nots and yesh claimed him now we're talking about great Jews these are the transmitters of terrorists about bread of showing up lil red mayor if nothing give out the qidan the per shot is have not said new what an Aussie is his father was a raged kaluza's father was the head of the Babylonian community in exon then he made all the appearances strong he understood what an Aussie is he came from such a family he wanted to be the Nazi your mayor said let's the throne of Shulman I'm lil and you'll become the Nazi he understood that a Nazi can sometimes have something that is not fully bittle relative to his remote level he saw what happened with him another show me I'm little did a one they should honor it made and AB not seem like they honor him and he understood then even in the holiness of resuming I'm real as a leader that could sometimes be mixed in something that is not a absolute embodiment of pure bittle and he also saw that he himself believed that he was worthy to be a Nazi more than of showing I'm Lea so if nothing was the right person to teach this lesson about the 'no seein missing the youth and he finishes the last paragraphs over shines - phone as C Smith pit bull that Moltres as I hunted Kato such as Yoda Madden was a pearl - that's Leighton Eden my Safavid aussie in skippable limited Toyota Kia mamizou's behavior BS essays vs arrays do let them break not up Michelle said Kano buzz I'm off to is the England how you'd promised you hid your vehicle a novella trainer chamomile art say no when a person's leadership and influence on others is with Bittle then you merit not to make a mistake like the mistake that they made and you don't make a mistake and think that by impacting others it dispenses you from your mission in life you know that you always have to increase in your own service in stiking and learning she the heart of Inge and learning of Toyota fulfilling the mitzvos with beauty even with more vigor and strength and this helps bring down mushiya mushiya is called the ultimate youíd y'see the ultimate leader because mushiya is the ultimate UD Heda the one who represents the core of the Jewish soul which is one with God without an ego may come and redeem us and bring us speedily to our holy land Eretz Yisroel mushiya represents the acidity youth and that lasts let's see all the questions and how every single question is answered and i'm gonna do this very fast we're gonna go through all the ten questions question number one why does Rashi bring the question about what happened by Chanukah Sameach the issue is what happened here not over there we're talking about parties vehicle the question is why they went last here not why they went first there and even if he wants to bring that that should be the second point not the main point question number two why is rash is so elaborate about what they said he should have just said they were lazy and they came last why this whole speech that everybody should give and then we're gonna give when they finish why would they tell you to intimated that they were lazy and embarrassed them publicly it's not even a major part of the turd doesn't even say it explicitly will you put them all the way at the end to teach you that the leaders were lazy why would they try to want to do this for an unnecessary reason finally there's a contradiction this is question number four Rashi contradicts himself he says that SIB were finished everything but then you tell me that the leaders brought so many things that means they didn't give everything which brings me to question number five if the uber gave everything and they wanted to give everything and they were so generous why didn't they bring all the items that didn't see him brunt question number six why were the leaders so aggravated that they didn't have what to bring they had plenty of things to bring very fundamental things that jewels in the gems question number seven why does Russia say that they said you snot would civil Martian is not man he could have said the Nassim said whatever they're missing we're gonna give why the word summit Astron a question about why should my passengers at Marshall I love you question number nine Marlena last edition said Marlene olijavi question number ten why the name Reb Nasim now let's see the answer on all these questions by introducing the question Arab nos in the way he does Rashi is bringing out that the question is not why they brought last year the question is why they brought first there what would be a reason to say that it shouldn't bring first they should always bring first their leaders and if it's really a question why they brought first day the question should be impartial Osteen on a partial vehicle the answer is with bringing the question here rashly is trying to explain that the reason that is seeing brought they're in a dove at the end was because this is the appropriate behavior and the real question is why were there they went first in other words when Ashley brings the question Myron is see him he's not bringing it as a question on partials not say that's not relevant here he's bringing it as an answer in an explanation in the plastic here that answered the first question why would they bring last that's why I she gives this whole elaboration on Luna CMAs not would save a machinist not even why doesn't actually get straight to the laziness Turner she doesn't believe it was laziness we actually believed that there was a fundamentally powerful point they really believe that Jewish people should give first this is our job we're going to help them give first and that's why the Turner tells the story it's not just about laziness it's talking about the real role of a leader so we already answered the first three questions and then they said what the Jews are Missy not what they won't bring because if they have it we're gonna make them bring it will inspire them to bring it what they don't have we're going to bring and that's why they said Marlena lasses what should we do what they meant was we finished our mission that explains their answer that's the quite answers Marlena wasel's this also explains where now she says they finished everything so why we're gonna see him upset why the Jews bring everything and this is the point that sibrel gave all the money for everything but they didn't give all the merchandise didn't aciem brought the merchandise and that's when they realize they don't have an equal partnership because even without them there was enough money and that's what made them rethink their thought processes and they realized there was an element of laziness here so this answers the question of the contradiction if they finished everything's of the Nassim at nothing to bring yes they brought everything but they brought money and they couldn't bring the other materials cuz they didn't have the other materials and then SEM were upset because they realize they're not sharing the same partnership in the Michigan so now we answered we answered nine of the questions and of course they complete this by the hammock Asami's bear where they come first because they realize that the idea of coming last in this case was wrong because building the Michigan a swift as possible is also concern of Claudius ro and finally wired nos in because the Nassim could think to themselves we inspired everybody to give so they're giving is equal it's as though we did it AB nos and teachers you know she put the durapan Austin Reuven as a relationship directly with lavey and indeed this was their mistake they thought that because they're inspiring others to give it's attributed to them and then when they realize something wonder is that there was nothing left for them to do because the Jewish people gave all the money they realized this was a wrong calculation and that's the connection here we have the eleventh question what's the connection to the hood because because they were missing the you they were missing this humility they were missing this type of bittle this is already a more spiritual interpretation after the chat he says the konami assign yana they were missing this level of bittle so therefore this level of bittle made them feel that they own the relationship between the in God and therefore it could be attributed to them and because of that it ultimately caused a certain this alienation of certain laziness and they didn't merit the full partnership in the Mishkan like other Jews because they were great people and they were leaders and that's why the story is told because a leader thinks about the people first and foremost when there's a crisis when there's a serious situation leaders have to stand up and think about the needs of the people not their own needs when you're building a Myshkin when you're trying to stop a virus when you're trying to help the world you have to think about the people and this is what they did but you always have to be conscious of the fact that there may be a little ego that has taken over which is part of the human condition and it's not about perfection it's about accountability how amazing that these nasir saw what happened and they became introspective and they realize that they were missing the unit and a few months later when it came to the canoe kasam his bath they said we're not making the same mistake we're going to inspire everybody else but we're not going to forget that we need a work on ourselves and we want to be the first ones to bring the offerings to the back bed Michigan to be able to make sure that the MS BAE F is dedicated this is the preparation the Greek mushiya who is the ultimate leader the attendance of an average the youth of Claudius Rome what allows them to be the true king of the Jewish people what allows them is the Gemara says in higher years you're not a leader you're a servant d you'd the ultimate humility that he is a complete conduit to bring the light of Hashem the light of goodness and infinity to every single Jew and every single person in the world my dear friends I want to wish everybody a wonderful day Thank You rabbi HC Horowitz for being here with us my dear charissa and I'm sure I'm going to get feedback on the sheer from you yitzy uses his eyes suffering from ALS may have a reform he uses his eyes to dictate articles and 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