Judge the Entire Person and be a Good Friend

the Jewish people are all in the middle of the 49 day challenge we're counting Sierra Solomon in that time we're working to repair the damage done by the students of Rabbi Akiva who mistreated one another who suffered a terrible plague and many of their demise because they couldn't act with loyalty and friendship they weren't able to respect one another in this time we're growing in our relationship with Hashem but that is predicated on a working and good relationship with one another to do so to be a good friend have loyalty means to see the good in one another it means to give each other the benefit of the doubt in fact the mission in the opening paragraph of us we began the specialist tells us a sailor caribou Kayla her father the Adonis colada with caps clothes make yourself a rabbi and the choir friend and judge every person favorably what do the one thing has to do with another what is acquiring a good friend have to do with how you judge people but Menachem anciens acts it was incredible safer but not from seeing a pickie of us says very simply you can't be a good friend unless you can judge others favorably if you're going to look to criticize and condemn and negate and you're gonna undermine and speak ill if you're gonna fail to give the benefit of the doubt and try to catch the other person with what they do wrong you're not a good friend can Nayla for father be a good friend and what makes you a good friend that is colla our than the cosmos judge others favorably given the benefit but down give him some leeway we're living in very constrained times and people are under enormous pressure it's very hard my friends you never check in on me I check in on you how come I heard you're not with us don't be exactly give others the benefit of the doubt just let it go and move on to be a good friend Kenny look how hunger to acquire friends means to judge others how do you judge people favorite done is cold on them judge the entire person not by that moment not by that man minute where you had a bad interaction call her Adam look at the whole picture and the whole person and then you'll be drawn to be able to be forgiving and foreboding you'll be able to be forbearing you'll be able to see the good in them and to connect with them that's what it means to be a good friend because the truth is and you see the bad in another you really just seen the band within yourself in our passion of the story of Nagoya the plastic says Tommy Tommy Accra they call out impure impure the schlocko - Alicia Harwood says Tommy Tommy acre if you are impure you point out the impurities in another what you see as a deficiency a Fault in another really is a reflection is revealing what's missing in yourself you know when you point the finger at someone there are three pig fingers pointing back at you really we are magnifiers even more than what we see in others to show ABS MacArthur Africa showed our theorem the Mahabharata Sawa tells us first correct yourself and then others or first says that work showed is like in Brook Shinae or Isaac Shelton vo it showed it means truth be honest with yourself before you're in such a rush to be honest with others in this time let us be good friends to one another and through that friendship and loyalty correct and the repair the damage done by those students and demerit the gula