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The husband is at fault of why's wife is
not modest.
And the [music] wife is at fault for why
the husband doesn't learn Torah. Why is
that the case? Why isn't each person
responsible [music] for themself?
Simple. If she really wanted him to
learn Torah, [music] she knows exactly
how to convince him to do it. Each and
every [music] day she knows how to
convince him how to do it just like she
convinced him to buy a new house that
they can't afford. That she convinced
him to move to a community that she he
doesn't want to go to. She [music]
convinced him to go to certain vacations
he doesn't want to. She knows exactly
how to convince him when she wants to.
[music] She should use those same
talents to convince him to learn Torah
each and every single day. Whether it's
cooking, cleaning, this, that. [music]
Everybody understands be a woman. On the
other hand, if the wife does [music] not
want to walk around modest, it's because
of the husband. It's his fault. Sure she
makes the choice [music] of what to
wear, but she's only making the choice
of what to wear because
since the husband doesn't tell her that
she's beautiful every second of [music]
the day, and he is very, very stingy
when it comes to compliments, and his
eyes [music] are looking elsewhere, then
she feels like she needs to get
attention from other men. She wants
other people to compliment her since he
doesn't compliment her, since he doesn't
care about her, since he compares
[music] her to other women cuz he's
looking at them, so she figures, "Okay,
so I have to compete. Since I don't have
his full attention and his full heart, I
got to fight for it." So she walks
around that way. So [music]
he is the reason she's not modest, she's
the reason why he's not learning Torah.
>> [music]
>> And the same aspect goes for everything
else. So if a person wants to fix the
problems in the house, the first thing
they need to fix is themself.
First thing they need to fix is
themself.
