WATCH: The Rebbe's INCREDIBLE Interaction with a Boy Who Lost a Friend

Visitor: He lost a friend a few months ago and to this day he feels pain all the time, and he feels that he is ill, but he is not ill But he has pain, pain in his... And the same way his friend passed away a few months ago. the friend died and he's under the impression that he has the same illness. So we need... Persuade him that he is a healthy boy and instead of worrying for his friend it is better to give to charity from his pocket money to benefit the soul of his friend. When the poor person gets charity, he will gain from this that the poor person got "his" charity. -- He understands Hebrew? -- Visitor: Yes. When you give charity in merit of the deceased, this assists in elevating the soul. And this won't hurt your health, on the contrary, charity betters your health. May you have a sweet year. <v Visitor>My daughter... May you have a sweet year. <v Visitor>My daughter is getting married...</v> Do you have a special reason for postponing it to Passover? <v Visitor>No, not really.</v> It's five months, why postpone a good thing? <v Visitor>We would try to do it earlier.</v> Earlier. If it can be in Shevat, or even better, in Kislev. In Kislev there are many Holidays, Chanukah when we light candles, and it is a happy time etc. Whatever you decide, it should be in good and auspicious time. This is for your wedding. Have a happy year.