Iyar: Healing physically & Spiritually - Israel stand up to pressure - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

you too we're um good to everyone is all about two things it's an acronym forem I am God your healer Al is an Y is God's name Y and the is your healer so first of all everyone and anyone that we know uh should have healing if they need healing literally from God forbid an illness Etc and even those that are uh physically well we can all use more healing spiritually the other the other acronym of Anem of of is AB Y yov and Ro Abraham Isaac Jacob and Rachel the three Patriarchs right we call them the OS the fathers and Rachel the question that uh that needs to be asked is why ra why not Rifka Rifka is also with a and why not Sarah Sarah so you'll say cuz the r doesn't equal Sarah well as I've told you many times that the numbers the the the concept of gatria and acronyms isn't a g game you know if you go into the Jewish bookstore you'll see some books a book of gatria you know it's nice for um a AO or a or a Friday night kumzits where you make up a gatria that bar Gordon which we welcome back bar Gordon is sitting on the screen next to me so we look at my my name my first names and B's first names and we find some kind of gamat Association okay that's it's you know if you have that sharp mind and you know that field and you can figure it out wonderful but when the Reb did that and the Reb did do that in 1931 at a Sim basa faan in Warsaw and I still knew people who were at that faan the SAT all night and discussing the relationship of the people sitting next to each other spiritually not that this person was a banker and this person was a psychologist and this person was a tailor maybe that too but and therefore they're sitting next to each other and why and what and how but rather what's the spiritual connection between each each person's name and the and where they're sitting and things like that so he did that but he did it from the source and then it become comes Torah then it's meaningful and valid not because I have a great mind and you know they had years ago maybe they still do you remember the famous the codes the Bible codes and were there people that were turned on to Judaism and to Tyra through that yes there were truth be told there were but if it ends only with the codes it's not going to last it has to have meat and potatoes it has to have le bread it has to have a meal you can't give a person just a quick fix and and an inspiration and then leave them dry it's something that we all in a way suffer from you know we we get close to someone and then we back off and we back off many times because they become a NJ I don't have any more time I'm not interested and it's it's this isn't a this is part of this is to learn more about you know being patient and giving everyone time and that's true a Isel so going back to the acronym of of of alob and Rael the question I'm asking is why was RA Chosen and the answer that I that I I Bas based on what it says in is that Ro according to Caba represents the leg the spiritual metaphor metaphoric leg that descends from malus ofus into the world of Bria now what does that mean I've just given you some Caba what does that mean practically there is a place within the godhead known as the world of ailos the world of closeness where there begins to be an opening an acceptance for non Holiness and how is that possible if you are very close to God how can you um feel how can you relate to something that is non ungodly I'm in the world of ail I'm the I'm close you know what does it say in the in in Thea do you want to conquer the the the queen in my house you want to come into my house and have relations with her hey she's my queen it's my house you want to do something do it outside not in my house and that's an expression by the way you want to come to me and tell me what to do I remember years ago in Marin County I invited someone a couple actually relatives and the the husband who was um you know a Marine County doctor which meant you know affluence and prominence and arrogance um started to argue with me at my table about yish kite in other words Torah from kite he he came from I don't know for an orthodox background but conservat you know and he and he had a background and he had the goal in the to to to to tell me that I'm doing it wrong and you know at my table if I'm coming to visit you at your office and I would like to I I want something from you I you know and and then you say listen you know I don't believe in your practices I I relate to it I came to him to his Turf and he's giving me the you know here you are on my turf at my table you're a guest shouldn't you be a little sensitive and I'm not saying you have to be a champion say oh I agree with with Orthodoxy I agree with Torah no I can understand if you're not there you're not there but don't humiliate my my ways of Torah at my table and that and we use the quote from the as a reference to that idea so if you hear that quote outside of the Milla that's the implication of the quote so why do I say that because when you're in when you're in the Queen's house with the King there's seemingly no room for negativity for Darkness for for depression you're with the King you're with the queen so how is it that malus ofus is able to allow itself to be the first opening for the world of creation the world of Bria which is where stuff begins concealment problems challenges frustration everything that we have in life so this explains that that itself is part of the Divine will in the very essence of God in what we call in Hebrew and ismos that inmos God has place for everything otherwise God is Not atus God is relevant God is important God is beautiful but God is not all all if God is all all means all all and all means everything that exists and everything that will exist including negativity but the way it's in the godhead it's still part of aus so you could think of it as it's there in concept it's there in notion but it's not there in actuality and practicality Ro cab says because of the trials and tribulations that she went through and let's let's go back to to to Genesis to braus and remember what what did R experienced here she is she finds a man he finds her they love each other they want to marry each other then she has a sister Leia and Leia wants part of the game and Yakov the the the the husband the husband to be gives room for Le to so we have typical jealousy and you should know and you probably know there's a gamarra an entire tractate called yamus yamus is one of the three most difficult tractates of talud the acronym for the three most difficult tractates of the talud is Oni Oni means a poor person it's the Hebrew word for poor but it's also an acronym for or backwards Y is n is and is a those are the three most difficult tractates to study and understand y tractate tra tra what is about the le le Lite marriage very complicated laws and then there's one section which is called Soros the the s sorah means Agony and pain guess who we're referring to two wives where a man takes two wives according to the Torah you're allowed to later later on saw that this is a balagan and he made an excommunication for you to take more than one wife and hence today ashkenazim for sure live by this and Artic cultures it it I don't it wasn't this way always I don't know today I think it's pretty much you have one wife and I'm not talking about now a concubine a pish that's a whole other discussion which unfortunately in the last 20 30 years has become a popular way to uh to to avoid um you know uh adultery of some sort and have uh your Affairs and be sanctioned called through the concubine pish and everyone probably knows that Rabon came out against this Etc but going back to the the the the Tor the toras the name that the gamorra gives to two women married to one man there are there are pain and and and trouble for each other why because they're jealous of each other he gave you this oh really I got this you know on and on that's on track right so we we we see that so roel roel in a way was confronted with this issue of tarus of another sister wanting a hus same man two sisters want the same man and and by the way you see how everything is in the T the mishas of today it's all in the T you could track it it it's all happened already we've gone there we've been there there's nothing new Under the Sun how do that song go there Ain nothing new Under the Sun I don't know one of those jazz singers or Beetle singers there's nothing new Under the Sun there's nothing new Under the [Music] Sun it happened explains and Caba they explain that this idea of the of RA and Rifka and excuse me is the what we call the opening of problems so the language in is the foot lowers itself meaning the foot coming out of ailos is dips below the line and it metaphor I'm speaking metaphorically speaking and it enters the world of Bria meanings the first experience of existence oh once it does that and it does it malus does it it shows that there's an opening for problems issues negativity that's that's why roel is the r of an of because is not p is not sh so Nissan Nissan the month of PES the month of Nissan we just spoke about not saying it's all Rosy it's all galic we're sitting together with the families and the the and the dishes are out and we're Royal we're having a great time it's freedom we go on to during all on and on sh which is the following month the month of s the Torah was given wow the tah was given what greater thing than that can you have the month in between which begins today and goes for till thean is a month which allows T to be said and is said it allows for issues it allows for challenges and we see this also in the sacrifice that they brought the the the carbon the sacrifice called the carbon om which was brought throughout this month as we count SP which is a Mitzvah to count every day with a br if you haven't missed a day without a br to count if you did anyway includes barley uh uh a a a a donation of s in the in in the in the donation that you brought as part of the carbon it's barley barley is called M animals eat barley humans generally don't need barley I'm not talking about a barley soup but our main food is not barley barley is Mich says why is that because during the month of er we're dealing with the be n we were dealing with the Torah is T but this month is the month of dealing with the problems and the issues and the challenges and that is why the acronym isem I'm sorry ab and Ro because we don't want Rifka and we don't want Leia we don't want Sarah all those you know are kind of either pre orost issue here we're dealing with the issue and has explained the p is brought Al brings it in ETC is that we will we will follow you nut is with a n plural we not I I is a reference to God the Nish I will follow you okay the Nisha feels very comfortable doing that what about we the ne and the neab Not Just The Godly soul but the animal Drive uhuh uh-uh I don't like this stuff to get up a what at the 5 this morning to make the 5:30 minion for viim I don't like it it it's too early why do I my she isn't till A4 to 8 why can't I ding at 6:00 because the people of sh said you know you're part of this minion all year round it's important we' like to see you come to the minion get up earlier you could do it nuta my NE shabam doesn't want to doesn't want to run it who doesn't want to do it so this is the month where you have to subjugate the and force yourself and I'm saying so in the beginning it's forcing yourself then you end up enjoying it cuz hey you started your day so early you got so much done at 12 1:00 already I'm almost I've done tremendous amount people are just scratching their ear they just getting up a friend of mine I see 9:30 shakas 9:30 shakas 9:30 I'm already you know already turned over the world I'm I'm in touch with people and and here there and and and but some people are you know they get up late and they stay up late I don't stay up late so I'm not bragging I'm better than them but n whatever your comfort level is the neph abis doesn't want just be lazy be the same n you have to get both The Godly soul to leave its position and do better and the animal soul to become a mench and that's why we chose we choose the r of RA to be part of the acronym so this month the month of the month of um of I Has great great energy the fact is this is the only month of the year where there's a Mitzvah every day now you'll say what do you mean there a Mitzvah every day you're putting on true I'm talking about something that is not a constant every day this month we we do what do we do we do um hold on right exactly that's a special honor to be able to do that every day and just for a moment since it's a I want to I want to I want to share with you how important it is to say the BR slowly carefully Yul and thoughtfully unfortunately in most of the Min that I've been around throughout my lifetime this is the way the goes now how much time did the person make the BR think about blessed are you God King of the universe our God that you commanded Us by doing the Mitzvah of counting the OM what does it mean to count what are you counting how much money you have in the bank how many sheep you have in your in your flock you know how many kids you have what are you counting so I'm not saying you should spend a half an hour in having all the kav the the unifications of God's name but and while you do that you need to look into your s because you need to know especially in the you need to know those words that if you pay attention they are three different two different Pim that are not said are supposed to be thought of you know what I'm talking about right under each SP it says y whatever that's two verses that are being divided by the 49 days so what I'm saying is whether you know their meaning or you don't know their meaning the point is that there's something going on here it's not just you know and it's really Asing sorry to say that that do this but be that as it may we have to make ourselves the BR carefully and properly and we have to teach our children and grandchildren to make a br carefully and prop L and thoughtfully again I'm not I'm not expecting and I'm not calling for you know big avodas you know and I'm not looking for the Lish you know you want to do it do it I don't want to you know I'm not po pooing anyone do it but just to say the BR with articulating every word every word has a beginning a middle and that's not a beginning and a middle and an end that's swallowing a word it's an embarrassment to swallow a word of a br it's wrong so the idea of when we say it's a Mitzvah every day says yeah we have the mitvah every day very nice but let's talk about the quality of the Mitzvah I told you a long time ago but I I say it each because it's it it's like it's right here I see it in front of me this was in Los Angeles AB you're part of the world and uh it was in the Yeshiva you know where Thea on wearing and wearing over there and for mosa yeah in the in the Fairfax area anyway it was a middle one night I happened to end up standing next to a his name was Ravid Mish he was a sare he came from Russia he's from the kabad family mov I think in betar or you have some movens very cidic family and very very refined people and good people Anyway by chance and and and we knew each other but here what's my we're doing my right who makes a big deal you go into and you go home you say hello if you know someone goodbye and chat a few words anyway it came time to make the BR so doin made the BR I made it the way you know I didn't rush it but I made it the way I just okay I happened to take a look the way this or heard I heard actually and because I heard I looked up next to me and I saw AB Michelin standing there the man's face turned red when he started to say the BR and as he said the BR and again without you know and Fanfare and and and moving and body movements but he he said the BR with such fire that it was it just went right through me I like wow my BR compared to his is not a br a regular BR on a Wednesday night in at a my minion with no one looking and no cameras and no whatsapps and no YouTubes a they tell the story of going back a few generations of the parrots they call them parrots of chov that's where he came from that when he would say a before he said the he put his hand on his farad I've told you this many times but it's important to remember it again and his friends asked him parents why do you put your hand on your forehead before you make a br and you know what he said said because when I was a little boy theed told me parents it's in yish it means don't be childish before you make a blessing you should think before who do you make the blessing so I decided from a a little young boy on the way to do that is to put my hand on my forehead before I make a br so I can go time out on the court wait a minute who I who am I making this BR to so this is the idea whether it be at a ptit 150 years ago whether it be AB du Movin 40 years ago or whether it be us today wherever we are the importance of articulating properly a and to train children and to train older children there's nothing wrong if you say to your teenager say a like say it nicely say it with kav I'd like to answer say it slower you know there's nothing wrong yes you're going to go and admonish them and put them down and ridicule them you're going to have issues but but sharing the message of a br like this any BR but in this case is important and the more we do it and we we we you know or whatever people have influence in shs it's important to to to somehow get this across to People by privately going over to Bal who's let's say a he asked he do for the because he's in the year the a year of aus right of mourning so privately you see he do fast this morning shabas the the the B mus so fast a person got up and he left and he and he said in front of him in front of every says you are not allowed to go to the because the says you have to be you have to be favor favored by the congregation and I do not not favor what you're doing ding so fast now I'm not saying that's the way to do it that's not the way to do it cuz he embarrassing someone in public but I do agree with him I do agree with him you know you know talking about another few minutes you're in a rush that's why everyone has to suffer I mean come on yes it's a first minion and it's the minion were people going to work supposedly okay I understand but everything has a Shear you know the five minute rule you don't start K till 5 minutes from when it began right oh no I want to start at three minutes later first of all do you have do you have nine other people responding nine people have to answer are there yeah but that you don't want to go theum easy way out the lenient way out you want to do it to begin with right these you know I'm not telling you guys any great you know Secrets here but what I am sharing is the importance during this month of it's this is the month to bang out the the the M the food The Barley this month meaning this is the month to deal with these issues and they're simple issues but we we we you know we go sometimes not the right way on the simple issues and finally and finally we're going to start the uh T the chapter 4 um on Monday so I really would like you to take out aanya between now and then and try to refresh your memory of some of what we learned so when we start of course I'll give a recap but nevertheless become familiar so that we don't have to you know I'm saying we you know you you'll be better equipped because we're dealing with some very philosophical issues how God created the world where is God and know everything else and uh you know you remember that we left off chapter 3 with a question how can existence be if it's within the godhead if God is here and I told you that famous ver that uh such questions it's fine to to go to sleep on like we did for three three plus weeks um because basically the result of that question is that we don't exist and God exists now if you accept that God exists and God is all true and everything that God wants Hashem wants is the EMS then you're going to do the right thing we us with our isms and our stick and our the mices okay we don't exist until we startop chapter 4 that's when we start existing so I want you to ref refresh your your your your memories on those things that we learned take out of Tanya don't say oh I'll just hear AB by dolphin and I'll enjoy the half hour Dolphin Show Monday through Thursday I want you to learn and to to know to be intelligent be what did mayor Kahana say what was his line uh every Jew is good but better is a learned Jew right don't be ignorant you know let's be less ignorant let's learn more let's think more let's bring more and Hashem will help that each and every one of us will will have a a of of not just but uh will deal with the r issue in our lives those complicated issues and and from the depth of my heart I I I wish that ER is will stop bowing to to the pressure from the United States and Biden and everyone else and and just stop I mean I'm telling you guys this brings back what I heard from the rebba in the 70s in the 80s but in the 70s I remember standing at the faan and the Reb would speak a half an hour 45 minutes about how people are capitulating Israel Israel is capitulating and how nesset members are capitulating and they're doing it because they want their chair he said the bankle meaning their their chair in the in theet they want the position and they're getting money and this guy's taking for this and this guy you know and and the with porest heart out m is POR is hard out follow what the Titus says not what's better for your party what is going on over here you know a a man is threatening I'm not going to give you the ammunition the bombs that you need if you don't do it my way excuse me the hell with you go somewhere you know aish just just capitulating and capitulating and I know some of you might disagree in certain points but I follow what I heard from my re from and I heard that capitulating to politics is not a tot way Hashem knows what to do and when we stand strong you know and why why why am I preaching to you you know what I'm saying it's like because it hurts it hurts when I think about it hurts me and when when I see the news and you know and maybe I shouldn't see the news maybe that's the answer but this this this cing to you know but giving GI in and Mish Mish everything they do they can't they can't do their job the poor soldiers they can't they go in and they they waiting what's going no we're waiting we're going we're waiting and we have to make sure we don't it's like my adosi yes Rabbi Rabbi laser Brody always says he calls it the anti- amuna government whatever governments in you know the secular not any politics there's not enough there's no amuna that we know what we have to do we have I have a son in the Army we all know we have what we got to do but we it's like and it's it's a conundra because Hashem runs a show so obviously he wants it this way or or does he want it this way I don't know um like he we we don't control the leaders we have an election and it's the same same thing over and over again yes but but MOA every person has free will Hashem wants us to voice our opinion Hashem wants us to say what tah says and not to sit back on our loins and say oh it's all from Hashem of course everything's from Hashem but to together hasem is you have to be proactive and you have to do and you have to stand up and you know not everything's you're right at the end of the day everything's from Hashem October seven from theem the Holocaust is from Hashem but does that mean to say that we should we shouldn't prevent these things and and absolutely that's the that's the whole in others but versus s and others you know what do you mean they say what right do you have to tell God what to do who's telling God what to do this is what God says Hashem says protect yourself Hashem says when when when a government you know make make us anyway will help that you know that famous kabad line from the medish we will win we we're winning we will win but I'm talking here specifically we'll overcome uh this government and I don't mean to be political now but I I I believe that if and when Trump gets elected and I I I don't mean this politically I just mean I believe he's not going to be you know exactly what tyu wants but he'll be I think much more in line with with with some of these things that you know again yes politics you play politics but the bottom line isar and each every one of us has to be strong and it's it's it's very painful for me it's more painful for you cuz you have some you have kids in the Army and you're living there but I just feel like my hands are tight what you said M it's like my hands are tight so what am I going to do sit here and say my hands are tied and sit back on my couch and do nothing or I'm going to try whatever I can talk about it now say to Hill him give money you know whatever everyone whatever they could do anyone else wanted to say something the other night say they touch on it Rabbi Manis Freeman did mention the other day that it comes down to you know how you know he said that he referred to this song by by um the famous singer um what was his name um the famous Kad singer um and he last year what's that yeah freed that there's a song about if there if there's one last tier that will make bring mhia he said that tear be mine and and Rabbi man said no it shouldn't be a tear why should it have to be a tear it should be a a Mitzvah let that last Mitzvah bring Let It Be My Mitzvah so he said that's what the rebbi was saying the rebbi was saying when someone he said Rabbi um Rabbi La went to him and said to him you know in in in theas he said what's going to be he said what's going to be with this terrible situation was going on then back then and the rebi said no it's not what's going to be it's what what are we going to do what are we going to do to make it better you know and in other words he was saying something that effect we have to do the mites we have to do and all these things we have to do sure we have to take a war we have to prau kill the enemy there's no doubt about that but what do we what can we do I I I I I don't agree I don't disagree with Freedman but I'm I'm talking about you know we we need the right people with connections this world works today with connections it's all connections you know and we need we need to get to the right influencers I'm serious yeah we have to get the right influencers to influence the people on top to to be strong and we have to give them the the the amuna and the courage to to to to do what Hashem wants and not capitulate Yi what did you want to say y you wanted to say something he's he's off okay yes yeah no I'm here I'm here I'm here go ahead hello I'm here yeah okay so last night Jonathan Jonathan Pard last night was interviewed Byer anyway he said two things he said two things first of all he said that in the four years that Biden was President he did one good thing he was able to says now Israel people are ified regardless they're unified against America unified against the Arabs and he says the first time ever when you see left and right are together on this issue nobody says that America is right everybody is Unified Against The Situation Number Two the second thing that he said he said that um that the world changed the sorry the whole world didn't change but Israel changed on October 7th what does it mean it means October 7th every single Jew Israel sees things differently than the rest of the world whereas till October 7th there kind of was this W ISM and this mishas that was in Israel but he says now since October 7th the world that Israel has changed it's the only country that has changed since oob that's what he said good I I hear no they should help it should it should be only good and only with Sim you like you said with with Mitzvah and and the as you say knows what he's doing and is in charge of everything and and and and he'll knock sense into to to to us and to our leaders and and we're going to do the right thing and uh not be threatened by uh by funding cutting and all all that and and and and we will we will succeed uh once and for all to eliminate this this enemy this Terror have a great day a greates a great shabas I'll see everyone M next Monday bright thank you all for coming Z byebye