Is "expectation" a DIRTY word? #jewishwisdom #parenting #expectations

We have behind the Bema over the last few months I had several guests here from Rabbi Kalish and Rabbi Moshe Don Kestenbaum sort of representing the more we just got to love them, validate them, hear them and to Rabbi Kestenbaum [music] expectation was a dirty word. You destroy kids when you have expectations of them. And then our our good friend Rabbi Chaim Tzvi Senter was in the seat. Rabbi Senter is all about here's the expectations, push yourself, you could do it, we'll get you there, you got to have big dreams, aspiration, expectation. So is expectation a dirty word or is expectation a critically important word? >> Yes. On all accounts.