Why are we crying? - Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen

welcome everyone to tonight's sheer all the men here in the main shul or the women in deserts nation and everyone joining in through the telephone and the stream Bruce well actually the biggest occurs to the government and Newfield families for the support of tonight at the great social sponsoring yes 718-851-8651 or email ISP Toshiba net.com Solutions [Music] foreign [Music] it's worth a trillion dollars so all of you becoming rich tonight this is only somebody that learns toilet Stein if you're not my making it if you don't look into it why is somebody is always sick somebody what's not ashamed materials he does what he wants he's a bench here if you're using potato and you have to live your life according to the toilet means a total life not your learn toilet the toilet changes your life there's two there's a new there's two D numbers brisky title now everybody learns today who doesn't learn today when I was growing up 100 years ago who fill the shots of Masha feinsteins today every second person is finishing shouts right see in the paper picks a beautiful thing but the title has to change the way you live if it didn't change the way you lived then the title is not accomplishing anything so that's what's coming to style today it's just to live a Judicial life a Toyota life this is the title let me go to Italy when you finish Chas you got to live shots and that we're missing today so let's go back to that statement the title puts me limits I want to go down to Thrill tomorrow is the toilet I want to go uh to I don't know I want to go to I don't know where do people go what's up account where people go whatever statement and she says that if you keep the title the title isn't all was a yoke on a person or like this there's no person a person is made for toiling that's the way they wish they made a person it's on purpose people are toiling for panosa halavai we should be toiling in order to perfect that me this life is with difficulties now so life has a person is born with an old so why is the old from Tyler make you a bench and his fellows if I go work for myself to make a living go push it to living I should be able to support my family with basic necessities am I called an avid what you do for yourself you don't you're not considered a servant but if you ask me to do something and I do it then I'm gonna have it so what you do for yourself doesn't make you an avid olden times there were real or vote and today we don't have them but what you do for Yen that makes you another now we got to know why did we come down to this world for Michelle says everybody knows it um a person came down to this world for one purpose to be Nana from the Splendor of the screen 120. you always have to ask yourself I don't do it but the hell he didn't do it if I do this is this going to get me more oil or not that's the measuring stick you might have a measuring stick should I should I do this polar so I have to ask myself I remember I asked Robert Miller he was never Lakewood he was born in America never made it to Lakewood so I asked him once he had an uranical speaking I've been so they asked me if I could convince him to come to Lakewood I happened to go down to Flatbush to speak then I had to ask him something so he is I told him that they want you to be coin say yes me aren't you a kind I said yeah but they didn't ask me to do a pigeon when they asked you she says to me and I say you'll give it smooth I said they'll take you around that almost like it wasn't like today this goes back to 27 years ago maybe even 28 years ago see he says could you promise me more oil and harbor if I come to Lakewood then if I stay in Flatbush in my house so I say I don't own I don't own oil and Habit to promise you more or less sit down don't give me any advice and I'm gonna stay home as I said but you'll thank Hashem for Bismillah you never saw it he says I didn't finish thank you guys my corner so every move what he did this I personally know he always kept this machine if you live like that most of the things go to the Wayside if I haven't paid on somebody I'm angry at some money is that going to get Muriel mother or family that's going to get murdered there wouldn't be so much fighting going on these fights today to galore because people don't know that if they give in you're the winner like if standing used to say enough and I never saw somebody what's Movada loses out they give in there's more getting today than there ever was since all over people don't talk to each other doctor stayman says proves it because a person what is he it's difficult is you get old even if you're finished but then you get old this doesn't work that doesn't work every day is another like they have a pill box PM AM PM you know happens to the best of us you need a stand hey you need an open heart surgery so a person could think that it came down to this world Dr merciles to show them for this world alamai came down for the next world what gets to the next World third of a missus so you're working for yourself why because we came up we just had a premise a promise that if you work for yourself you're not an avid so you're working for yourself you're working to get what you came down to this world for so tired is the only thing what's not it's not an all it's an all always only something what you're doing for Jana if I do for you is an all for me I have to take care of you a whole day we're going to take care of myself when you when you get dressed in the morning yourself you look at it as a as above the sin but if I have to get dressed an old person every single day I'll do it as if this is says the 60 000 different problems today people used to comment them hundreds of people broken people Harvard in the koyan what condition mental conditions the main thing what people are broken is not because they don't have enough to eat foreign there's so much food this meat platters fish platters meat platters who eats meat from abode if I would have told you 75 years ago to eat meat I see people standing eating from a board nobody to stop it so people are hungry today this is wherever you go there's food and if you don't have food you go to a wedding every night and you invite yourself and you sit down you eat in Europe you don't know what it means a niece we have no idea what it meant not to have food says his father used to come to Yeshiva to Prime lab to keep their Banana's dorm because there was no food in the house he went to learn with them and ate crimes should not come home the lay Ash of children testified they had no money in the house and they were happiest people there was nothing they say they used to come in a valley of Levine used to make a little levitic statement I'll be broken today because we have no food but broken because Jana has it you have to have it Jana has I go to weddings today I mean I don't go so much already I'm an elderly man already but I go to the wedding 20 piece band tonight like a boy and a girl get married Robert Miller used to say when he dances you saw I watched him Dance by grandchildren he was so Ernst so I once asked him why are you so answer it's because I'm I'm emulating the Malachi now the malachiman dancing in front of Hashem that a Jewish boy is marrying a Jewish girl so it's a very serious time they play music but you can't even dance with I don't know where they got such music from then you have a band of 20 guys and everybody's taking pictures of the band screen is down if I guessed there's nobody to remind us so Dr Steinman what breaks the people can a time ever covered what takes away can the tiger because the best life the Blazer sharks said I could ride a hundred volumes of the difficulties that I had in my life I never had a good day in this oil Maza and he was the happiest person around the stapler writes that place I had your suit him to patnami from talmouth Toyota closing back it ever lost 11 children in the war maybe married seven children three never had children that I once went to visit as rabbits in Union City if they read about the river I said I want to see the rabbitsen she said that I've had massive headaches headaches migraine headaches the only thing about Captain gong was the title was the closenberg rabbits had every reason in the world to beat sabrachm Hashem that's supposed to be Jew and Hashem because that's who you have to face after 120 there's no taxing in the next World I I they told me there's no Communications there's nothing there it's you and Hashem you're gonna have to get so used to because today we're connected to the world we're connected to the world we're connected to the world Non-Stop every minute if you have a cell phone I mean a smartphone or any type of phone I mean a buzz a buzz a buzz a person when they have time to think what you came down for so again has the best life all the dilemma I saw in my life the Lower East Side the happiest man Jews used to wait in the morning to get a good morning from Rabbi Feinstein then I was sorry I spent a lot of time with him also a happy man imagine weighing 150 wound Sitters in the summer day like today today was a little better than yesterday it's always good but the heaters of stamen happy man content we see from that that the toilet makes you happy so if you're not happy like this you got to go to the Doctor Who's the doctor the Torah authorities of the generations who they proved that they live a happy life and it's hard to find such people today it's getting less and less but vanilla was a happy man happy always can happy good frame of mind they lived with Hashem so now we know that is holding in the three weeks should I tell you how to three weeks tremendous I have about myself should I tell you how the three weeks looked in Europe should I tell you a little bit let me tell you let me read you some things and then I'll give you some Aces that you should make something what's left from the three weeks but let me tell you how how it looked like push it to Eden what didn't know how to learn because I'm all people when I was growing up decided people there was no art scroll there was no my sister land when you were young you're finished today you could sit for an art school tomorrow I'm not making fun of us I use it too either and you sit like this and you learn a piece of my room motion Feinstein I want to ask them a child like this emotion never learned to his back to the chair it says became a land as I was sorry so I once asked them I ca I follow you it's not as true I made up the story and now my back hurts me do I have to be mapped and matter my minute that I always learn with my like you said you don't have to be matter but how could you learn like this how could you learn like that go be massive like that he couldn't understand how I learned with my back to the chair so I want to just tell you a little bit how the three weeks looked in Europe and then you'll tell me we were holding in America today and yeah 2023 and I hope the average and bring the smell of him [Music] who is he used to learn heaven and so it was an old man who lived around the neighborhood of the Yeshiva and he asked him could you tell me a little bit about some doylem from the previous generation so the Old Man incident about I can't tell you but let me tell you something simple people so what I saw when I was young I lived in a little dwarf in Europe I remember as Chris in English realities it's about koir quarter As Time agility could do it in one bro with one without saying he had to stop Karma because the people the simple people the tailors they were so great that's right this is testifying cotton foreign [Music] am I going to go into what happened why in America don't we have no three weeks I'm talking about myself what happened this is nothing and even Untouchable you occupied today when I was a kid I remember my mother used to read Santa Ana with a few ladies and they used to cry the men got together and they used to say over the Holocaust stories what they went through the Holocaust Ed today because all day you listen to speeches but when you're gonna cry and the guy tells you oh this one was a good speech that's all wasn't so good I don't like this one I go to the next one I flip this button I flipped up [Music] it was last week got up 2 15 every night 100 years old 101. tissue well by night he got up at 2 15. he started Kenneth 2 30 in the morning set it till 6 30 then he went to shul he doesn't he continued kindness where he left off when he came home he finished three o'clock in this he was sitting on the floor so his talmud had been seeing cook rights so but yeah she said when you say kidness you have to say it on the floor and I'm still staying kindness spent this great going but sadly spent hours they say with this Oilers so we can't make it no with that why I could explain you reasons it should bother you what happened to us myself my mother's father writes he came from Europe in 1938. affordable when the war started he got it he left right away somebody left because his seven children he says his heart's breaking he says the three weeks poshita people came in and they made it America First in a country he didn't know about the country yet it had to tell him that the country is the map he couldn't stay home those days when I was growing up you had to go to the mountains there was no the East Side you couldn't walk out of the house they opened up the fire hoses for the just the water supposed no they came today could stand like with the whole sum it's beautiful there's hundreds of kids and they came yeah I know I'm not saying you shouldn't go away a little bit don't get me wrong but it's the three weeks he brings down over here that my shine eventually it brings down from the zipline your slime told them people didn't say hello to each other in the three weeks I'm not saying we should do it so I want to have give you some a few simple pieces of advice because the Gamora says as follows you're married to see when it's be rebuilt somebody told me rabbi with not taking haircuts and shaving we're gonna go to weddings if that's good enough for you I hope that works but what so we need some advice now this is that happened the story over there I'll tell you the story is sword that he couldn't get the Eden he couldn't curse the Eden so you got them to sin with and then came and lost you for my shave it and had childhood woman he wasn't a lot of shakers pilgris took his sword and killed them both she says on there the ebishta said the episode was going to destroy Israel so the ebishta said you took away my cast by doing what you did so I don't have to use my cast Mata Milo [Music] that means if we do justice down here then has the justice he spoke up for the honor of Hashem what was the punishment a million times less than the Milo was to wipe out the whole classroom sometimes you want to stick up for the truth nobody's listening foreign you got to be afraid of says if a person wants to do the Mata on himself he makes he learns Musa and he learns the Musa pertaining to himself not when you learn mus that no you know it's me it's me then you're doing the Mata if you don't matter then the ibister says I don't have to do dinamala so by learning Musa Mata Sean Debussy working on yourself used to make every day says was once overheard saying at the end of his life at the end of his life he didn't hear well so when you don't hear well you talk louder you did film today are you excited about it it's just as much as going to the coast to the castle but I would go to the castle but I don't travel I have ADD I can't sit so long on the plane because then Davis was gonna say you can sit 12 hours in the plane why don't you sit by the Gamora so I don't start up with that they're talking about like an Ambien I could sleep the whole trip go first class the while I'm pushing it off still haven't been arrested on 36 years already Mata if you're a little Musa every day who learns music I wish I wish I wish I wish I could perfect my character you start learning Muses for me see what you're missing I don't care if you finish shots six times if you didn't finish michila's charm you're not gonna make it in the next world listen to what I'm saying I'm a simple man that's the truth is safer to learn yeah I haven't learned one was a safer for me I'm not talking about listening to she wasn't reading the partial booklets the first old moose from the cadmoinum see this is he would go travel to him so now I want to do dilemative with the urban base is I'm going to give you advice now that you owe me a trillion dollars pay me an installments post-dated checks um so if you're going to do that La Mata means you're going to mind yourself now on it then when she'll come you'll be from the people so the first thing is Hashem I feel bad that I don't feel bad that's easy to do I feel bad I'm not from the positive Eden in Europe however to be missing the way it's supposed to be that I could do then the gamara says all Sorrows what we have Madison Haddon all Sorrows what we have today foreign who doesn't know people who are suffering sorrows this week I heard from a four-year-old child her eye how her left eye was being taken out because she has cancer and die can't save it no more can't see on the eye all because who doesn't know people who are suffering from yeah was once walking from his bedroom to the living room and her body is very happened to be there and the sashiva is walking very slowly says and they are partying some wind and I don't know where from the mountains from I don't call it the mountains that's a design that's what I want Upstate I called it I gave it a new name and should I call it Upstate mountains where I went to The Bungalow where you slept seven in a half an inch from upstate they go to Switzerland thank you it's about yourself eating a suffering mental illness divorces are so open so up doesn't go by a day I don't hit Cyrus he and this all happening because of hormone so at least in the three weeks you set some time aside tell the people stay home in the three weeks don't travel stay home Hashem that's my home it's my summer home whoever dreamed that a guy's gonna have a summer home when I was growing up why is Hashem so kind to us does anybody ask Hashem why are you giving us money should I tell you what happened in Europe let me tell you a story I heard it last week he's Aiden foreign first thing is Hashem I feel bad that I don't feel bad that I even I could do on your mind then tonight when you come home you take a sitter thicken what has taken oil layer or oil and you say one killer on the floor by your bed you don't know what you're talking about the ABC sees oh I'm saying okay I can't do the whole thing I can't do it myself but one killer before you go to sleep as long as you can still get up from the floor do it and then think about the Taurus of Claudius throw Dan is laying in the hospital and I'm running around like a chicken without a head where's your stats on your throat at least in the three weeks let me tell you the story to 15 women who don't have husbands I was there with him he says is his his father was a little child in Europe in Poland his mother this is grandmother thine very young but she had Danish was great so she used to go around collecting leftover crumbs crust for people to eat so one day she collected and her son's father is the mama can I have another piece of bread I could have a schnickle abroad so the mother said you had already a half a piece of bread today but let's give other kids a chance so he said fine she died the father made Aliyah to etc's father I don't know if he had how many siblings he had Friday night and this chocolate went to heaven to learn in heaven with ultimate the Yeshiva by the Morris which was mentioned in the title he had a dream that Friday night his wife came to him in the dream this is obviously saying over from his father to these ladies my father had a dream his wife came to him she died young in Poland she was buried in Poland this is and shaken is not going to be killed I'll tell you how it happened every night we're shown in bed who's going to die the next day and I saw that was on the list to be to die from the massacre so I went over to the bathroom and I said remember 20 something years ago I don't remember in the years but he said a piece of bread and I didn't give it to him accepted it finale deserves to live so they took him off the deadliest they put him onto this so how did it happen and this is telling you the father Friday night so when you're going to hear Shabbos much of Shabbos that there was a massacre that Time Communication wasn't like today is not dead his son survived the war so like this says my father 32 bokram went to hide in the base says his father couldn't breathe his father said let me go out I'd rather I'd rather die outside from the Arabs than inside he ran out and he banged in another door they didn't want to let him in he said this is they opened up everybody from the bathroom got killed he didn't get killed they used to remember the story from the mother in heaven was and she Every Good Deed what you do is always remembered by Kurdish Barca no good deed goes has some Overlook and Noah solemn's sin gets overlooked now comes very tough talk and I'm sorry for saying it from the Panavision the Blazers now let me just give you a little background I don't have too much time was a man with learned 17 hours a day seven days a week forget about it that's what he did how he did it nobody knows his blood pressure the doctor said when he was 30 years old he's not going to live past 35 his pressure wasn't well hot was what the daughters say over that every day when they went to school they thought they're going to come on their father's gonna be dead they're going to be assignment and he lifted 102 and a half so what was it oh so if shark came to him and said I need your help me running clothes so I'm getting older I have to learn so it says that the shark says I also have to learn you have to help me write I'm an old I have to give it over to you I have to start getting about the Robinson came in and she commanded it she made noise she said I gave up my whole life that my husband shouldn't waste a minute I never told them when the kids were sick I sent them away before pesach because we had to clean the two rooms I sent them to a base he said maybe to learn not to start I never told them any diggers and now you're taking him away from my tomorrow so if shark said too bad I need I also want to sit by tomorrow all day in the whole night I can't nobody asked you've joined the Shah minimum they asked them why because I never saw such a shrinkite in my life there's no negis he's Kool-Aid Tighter and cool assumption man how can't I help such a Eid sir is the caution I know it's a dangerous Castle but this is a shock so please excuse me it's the Pony talking now I could quote you verbatim his word said he gave his shoes that's 1991. he was niften 2000 in one he was lifted by between 100 and 406 to figure out how old he was he was an older man when he said it he said I know what I'm going to say it's not sweet talk but I gotta say it now you could say it now because you're not Holocaust Survivors if the other one Holocaust Survivor I wouldn't even say over what Jeff shark said but you're not he said what do you think the Holocaust happened for you think the Davis is that happened because the ability keeps a husband and when the biscuit gets too full the episode does what he has to do I'm telling you there's millions of years in the natural show don't keep title don't keep Shabbos I'm afraid that it's gonna get full again the basket so I Want You Back him to be magazik yourself to make up for all these who are not doing mitzvahs never ate breakfast nine o'clock in the morning he said how could he eat breakfast when thousands hundreds of thousands of years are going to fry your schools and I'm gonna eat breakfast we're living in times of I say well it doesn't make sense the Apes is giving us through Muslim he gave us Anonymous three years ago you remember that covered yeah close the shoes not wow the world shut down for some reason everybody shut down everybody promised a member there was a telephone is going to be toned down we're gonna go lesson goshmias Vengeance what happened able to give us a reminder now David gives us another reminder Russia we thought as a superpower Kansas again with little Ukraine who's making the joke the upstairs boss he's saying I'm showing you guys boss doesn't make sense wake up before it's too late now the ABC gave us in America of a bottle okay more Diamond fly a step straight from the country it's a joke there's no justice left in America Robert Miller said it's gonna become a jungle one day do you go into stores in certain States you could they don't even prosecute you who knows what's going to happen in New York is anybody crying out to Hashem or we're building mansions we're building mansions we're here for good I asked the people you want my Sheriff to come after the summer I got plans rabbi yeah I got plans you know what's the next minute today which has been this infinite Mercy is waking us up from Allah's items the aim points a pair good but are you living a life of Torah we're becoming a split personality bipolar from one side we learn and then with the the Tyrant says you gotta live a certain lifestyle that's what we have academ for to tell us how to live our lifestyle I hold I'm a simple Layman from the Lower East Side I'm bred in the Lower East Side I hold I hold I'm a simple man there should be a business I want to be the rosberg how much a lot of spend on a chandelier even if you have 40 million dollars it's not your money you know you want to hire me as there is medicine but nobody's gonna come ask any childish how many times a year could you fly around such your time I own the time sashem's time gives me time to hang out how long how much longer lessons ladies in Lakewood young ladies one after another we never had so many boom boom boom boom I spoke today awesome from Florida his mother died suddenly boom nothing heart attack Avis is shaking us up how much longer do you think he's gonna wait America is a jungle are you praying by Rama you say a lot of America stay safe we think nothing can happen to America everything to fall apart it could be I don't want to tell you what to be who's worried nobody Michelle the violence good take over we do we build we take over neighborhoods I'm not saying we shouldn't but do we know that we're in goas that they the hobbins find are the ones walking with their mission in the street a long time ago I have to say in English um and keep away from them as much as you can whatever they do their culture their styles they wear this I wear this we gotta keep as distant as we can even billum said hey I'm the Vodafone we live separately we don't copy their styles we want the ladies to look the way the old Yiddish Rabbi stop complaining already you're always supposed to be a killjoy ma'am I always do it you always do with us we'll do nothing to you America's not a safe place who knows what's gonna happen in the next election Fianna doesn't run and they'll see them go wild somebody knows is anybody said Avista is it infinite the closing better get up and madeever from the books I met him once in my life but I read the story I read his holy caught his life and Holy Ghost every night for months and months it's my wife is next to my bed still can't get enough of the houses I want to tell you something we look for coolness for everything today I'm not ending this that's it I said you're great you guys are great you're letting me talk you're great like a very nice guy yes he knows I'm a sweetheart of a guy unless you're confident I'm a nice man I don't bother nobody really want to end the official oh the closing back it up okay closing back it up so he was so it was tough Shin dollar the rebel was in touch 1944 to 45 the rebel was one year in the camps so is Tish above Shabbos fell out on Sunday so with Shabbos the Nazis made them walk those three days in the heat they gave them the Salty Fish to eat the rabbit and eat bishalakum in the water Heaven never tasted Bishop the rabbit was Tish above it was Sunday took off because the things but he was wearing had some leather in it so the Nazi saw him walking without things that I made him walk on this where all the Pebbles were what glass was at the end came the guy named these two sheets this they go in them today we made a new sheet the seven o'clock military because we can't go with the going specs too uncomfortable so we made it a little an in-between which according to my humble opinion it's not always called my should be still through the old plug I was brought up as a Morgan of Rome's plug and a Goins plug that it took the Morgan of Rome but another three sheets and they made it exactly to your liking so exact I'm Isaiah The Simple Man my father's father had 51 jobs in Detroit in the first years when it came in 1913 to keep Shabbos what did you do for Shabbos at the end of the first he passed the tree the guy's testifying who's walking with the rebel and then I will licked the lift with some water and the rest of his life he's bemoing the fact that he didn't wait 72 minutes after Tish above he ate after in the Holocaust Ed not cut Corners whatever we could everything has to be Mama we deserve it but where's our mysterious snuffish I tell the people there's a child of a nerve if there's a child of the surgeon are you doing the surgery I'm not getting into them I don't know the area never got involved do what you want carry 17 loads whatever you want bricks whatever you want I tell the shoe people you have to wear your watch some place can hold the air is not good so you it's a Mitzvah watching series you get paid you don't lose your job you start early you have Toya Mejo this whole time I'm against too but let me tell you what time really means you should know what Allah is you taste the food to see what you can eat Shabbos if it's missing salt not yet buy special foods for Te amo that became a whole party in itself hundreds of hundreds of dollars [Music] like there's no tomorrow Rabbi what's going on with you stop stopping because we're trying our best when I was growing up in the east side let me tell you who we had when I was growing up as a kid they had the beautiful Leo hankin The Honorable in one neighborhood in the little East Side of statement have you ever read the book from Israel from a thousand times foreign I don't have a clock at my life no more already I don't know if I'm doing this right or wrong America story I was once walking with my wife's grandfather of a Victor for a few minutes I asked him could they say they give me a brother so he said if you give me a bracha I'll give you a broker so I said I'm gonna give you a break do you want you can tell me whatever you want nobody's gonna know about it ever I say you always say that when mashiach comes it's going to be Miller in the back I give you a broker when Messiah comes it should be Miller in the front those is the best this is the best brother I got in my whole life you'll be shocked who's going to be in the front when the sheriff comes who's going to be in the back so I want to give you a brother from the depths of my heart you're holding a Flatbush Sam you and your wife she said have all your teeth to 120. you should have to be home till 120 comes he said you brought me you you you you you you and you should be in the front row thank you so much for listening [Music] against your retirement is busting like you big to have clients are very inspiring to be serious she's like your biggest to the government of Newfield family so let's 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