When Silence Is Louder Than Words... Or Even Deafening! - Rabbi Yonatan Rietti

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take you take an actual medication that is designed whether it's a natural healing medicinal qualities or man-made but it's been designed to actually address a very specific ailment and here we're being told that nothing which is what silence is is the most powerful of all medicines actually [Music] really reveals to us that where does ka us begin where does cast begin in my mouth or in my mind where does kinner begin so you look at safeguardim he lifts the Mitzvahs according to the parts of your body so the midst of kinna is a midst of shitali believes it depends on your mind live usually translates as as heart it really refers to your mind the moment you think something you feel it we're not going into that now we've done that we've touched on that a few times before comes along emperec yields base I think you know you're dalit pastor glamored hayabusarim do you know what is healing for your limbs the psalm refers to your limbs refers to Healing you know what's healing for your your limbs lathe a healing mind when you're thinking can anyone hear your thoughts no one can hear your thoughts you can but it's not decibels we're going to talk about listening to our own thinking we're going to touch on that in a few moments but comes along a mind actually Is A Healer what are the next two words next three words I was never good at math I failed so many times I can't even count ER do you know what rots the bone now bones are not soft they're very hard jealousy rots the bones foreign the majority of medications will help a certain number of your limbs Vanessa the mix awesome and it will also have other side effects there's no such thing as a perfect medication rum bum brings this by the way in his medical writings that a physician who actually gives medication has to really know the patient extremely well extremely well means they're a full examination and a full understanding of whatever else in the life of that patient might be contributing to his ailment or his illness like stress Financial stress one of the first things the doctor ought to ask his patient according to rambam is are you getting enough sleep because a lack of sleep automatically is going to reduce my immunity to germs and illness and it's going to stress me out to the point where I am actually inviting germs that my body ordinarily is able to resist because I've lowered my own immunity from lack of sleep or I'm not eating or drinking properly or dehydrating us for Shalom so it comes along rambam and actually offers that a physician has to be so expert in the medication that they they give their patient because they have to understand the patient's body metabolism and how it's going to respond to this medication so he says a person should not give his patience I'm I was this not in my notes but you can check this out in his medical writings that were translated by Rabbi doctor was no thank you Rosner thank you Fred Rosner thank you um I don't remember which Kayla gets in but it's one of the 14 volumes that you've got a lot of reading to check it out um but he he brings there that before checking out medications the first thing I have to do is check am I getting the sleep I need am I resting enough are there other stresses that I can reduce uh is it diet is it lack of exercise and then he goes on to other interesting things including music and um Aromas that can help a person to lift them up so it's rather fascinating but comes along and is telling us every single type of refuer has side effects foreign heart which is extremely patient brings Vitality to all your limbs necrate her sovereign powers and that's a simple reality ads Robin this is a written foreign he's telling us that patience slash silence is actually it's healing for your body and for your soul from cars and from Young from Agony and worries if you remove cars from your mind thoughts of Anger from your mind you are also removing there's an immediate correlation between what I think and how my body reacts to my thinking my body listens to everything I say inside my mind every cell in your body listens to what you're saying inside your mind your heart is the first recipient of what we're thinking that's why the word leave means both check it out okay in with all your thoughts look at the ramban who concurs with ebenezuela three words referring to the mind your mind affects your body um your body fat actually dissolves from Tina my body fat atrophize kid is taking place over here it's thoughts that I don't have what you have and it eats me up whether it's your home whether it's your family your finances finances your intelligence your uh physique whatever it is I'm jealous of those thoughts eating me up is eating up my flesh so comes along and says the possuk is warning me will penetrate the bones the pointer actually weakens the bones and rots them but he's saying before against to the bones already our body fat dissolves from what we think inside our mind I'm sorry a little bit of kidnap is good for a diet oh dissolve so the dissolving body fat there are bad there are better ways to diet uh then then allow worry uh because because I'll tell us I think it's in Sanhedrin dafkov that um don't let worry W is a lotion of uh tiger so Aramaic for Tiger don't let tiger go up on your mind okay Governor govern there are extremely strong Warriors we're talking about soldiers at War they were killed by worry it doesn't matter how strong you are physically worry will actually dissolve body fat which even if I lose weight that's not that's not recommended if you want to see maintenance of excellent health check out what rambam says there because he actually offers a guarantee on the ah red light he promises he he guarantees only arably strange language is Extreme extremely exceptional for rum bum to use such a language and the Arabic if he follows these 23 directives he will not come to illness his whole life Archie asking Harper until he reaches a very old age and one of them is exercise another one is under eating and the third one is soft bowel movement those are the three main items brings I think in roundabout and has testified I think it brings it twice there um but the point we're bringing out right now is that what we think affects our body and silence is thinking nothing I'll explain there's two types of Silence there's shika decibels you're not talking then there's diamond which is silence over here I'm not reacting in my mind example loses two sons on a a day of exceptional celebration Aaron he was silent what type of Silence he wasn't he didn't even have a he or he was silent over here it's not just a silence where I'm biting my lips and in my mind I'm saying Robert I can't believe you're doing this to me I'm gonna keep quiet but I can't see it's really hard it's really hard was on that madriga where he wouldn't even allow a thought to question hashem's Justice it wasn't shtika alone he wasn't even thinking we know that's consistent with halaka that akayan is allowed to be matameh for his craving but if it's a cutting even if he hears that his father or mother or wife or children those according to uh the whole wife is also one of the seven cravim some say it's only six but and the wife is to reborn on but but any one of his crave him that he hears has passed away a child mother a father wife um uh siblings he continues the Aveda but how can you you have to do either how can you do it knowing that a person's lost their closest relative so Ghazal tell us because the Cayenne godlers on that madrigue is not going to be Messiah from even though he's just received the Surah of the loss of a of a loved one aonakone is the first kind God Allen coin what type of of of diamem what type of Silence was that not thinking now it's impossible to not think but there's two types of Silence there's Silence from being quiet and then there's silence where I'm not even angry or upset or resentful in my thinking in my thoughts and that's what we're talking about we're going to get to a much much louder silence very soon but that's what we're referring to right now and David put it put it in his own words in in tahilim Parikh samache pasig base being silent oh that's praise really when is our silence a praise so I'm going to ask you a question when do we understand ourselves best during the day where i'm interfacing at work with co-workers the boss clients customers on the phone um responding to messages Etc when when do we understand ourselves the best during the day when life is kind of hectic and we've got schedules to keep or when we are alone with no one else around except our own thoughts and now we have a chance to listen to who's inside of me and what am I thinking anger resentment bitterness to those that I feel have wronged me or where does my mind go to gratitude silence when things go wrong not just biting my lips but not letting thoughts actually eat me up silence is praise the pr the praise we're referring to here is not necessarily actually actual words that come out our mouth but the Silence of not thinking you've wronged me I can't understand you this doesn't make sense where's the Justice now I'm not saying we none of us can go through that process till we remind ourselves which instantly even though it's a gemara in broadcast it's actually brought as uh called a person should consistently it's a very strong language consistently train himself to respond to when things go wrong it's got to be It's gotta be good that's a training and I I think if you if you would agree with me who's like the father of that statement and his talmud Ruby Akiva if you saw him in Caesar's Palace where they open up this chest of supposed treasures and all there is is is sand and immediately um he's he's given the death sentence and what's his response what are you talking about do you know not only is your life in danger but don't you understand what Hashem is about to take place that the Jews are making fun of Caesar with a chest of sand dirt and you're saying everything Hashem does is for the best Along Comes Leon Navi and gives adus to maybe don't execute the guy the Jews aren't that stupid maybe this is the sound that that was used by Avril mavina when he conquered his Nations so Caesar says okay let's experiment we'll take the one nation that we've had the hardest time conquering and see if it works and it did he didn't know this was going to happen malcolmish comes didn't know that but if you were accompanying him as he as he saw this chest open up you would say that what is the how can you read the circumstance that this is perfectly good it's all taking place over here it's all starting over here so I wanna talk a little bit about the art of Silence it means that we can actually hear our thinking and thinking is taking place with no decibels it's in total silence every interpretation that we make of Our Lives of who we think we are and our spouses our children our job life in general is really taking place over here so we're always operating in silence even though we talk and we take action but what really is Extremely Loud if you think about it our personalities are made up of what we think our attitudes and all that's taking place in absolute silence foreign [Music] oh thank you so much thank you thank you don't want to lose time so where is there a Mitzvah in the tower this is not a trick question where is there a Mitzvah in the Torah to actually pay attention to our thoughts to listen to our thinking to be aware of what we're thinking it's not a trick question but surprisingly it's one of the Mitzvahs that is a tamidi there are many mits which are tamidi I know only list six um and I know from Rabbi David wax who's been into uh Ruben kanyevsky of blessed memory and many of the greatest good time of the previous generation to challenge uh the number but because according to rambam there's over 20 minutes of his tamidi that take place over here and if you add up all the Mitzvahs of Steve haradim and Robin and all the main her Mitzvahs the smug Etc uh you're coming up to over 60 Mitzvahs that apply constantly and they take place over here I'm not going into them right now but the one that everyone agrees with is don't follow your thinking don't follow your thoughts that's the Ebenezer we quoted earlier don't follow your thoughts offers that whenever lave is doubled over leivov is referring to the plural so leave his mind leivov is thoughts your thoughts don't follow your thoughts now it's important to recognize the context of that pasta which we say every day in Karishma the context of that Apostle isai you're gonna see it the trellis or the shrine when we passed away this is the riot I'm supposed to know Tariq mitzvahs because I can't remember something that I don't know so first I've got to learn Tariq Mitzvahs now that you know tiger Mitzvahs and you look at your titties and you're remembering as call Miss voiceai and to do them because that's the purpose of knowing them and remembering them the next words of the same password now that you know the Mitzvah I'm asking you to think and do now I can command you of Allah don't follow your thinking follow my thinking says the context of the mitzvah to not follow my thoughts when they're not following hashem's thoughts anger natira that's huge natera is huge natera is in English it's translated don't bear a grudge it's it's I didn't check it before but I think it's uh yeah uh you you uh your test positive tests because the next words in that same password are they after record it's extraordinary so Uncle says there are Mitzvahs of the mind I'm asking you don't go there don't go into natira bearing a grudge Rashid tells us right at the very top of uh um at the top of the page in Yuma it says Natura says rashibo he's guarding in his mind the ra that was done to him he refuses to let go the whole purpose of someone wronging me is to test will I let this reach my mind and think and think and think about it and talk about and talk about it and water the weeds and water the weeds and water the weeds well if I water the weeds what's going to happen to the weeds hit they're gonna grow they'll multiply and I water the weeds and before you know it my body reacts when I think about that person and then I go into all the negative proofs of the things they've said and done and before you know it I'm beside myself and then I sit down and say just thinking about what that person is traumatizing me and I go into it again and again and Rashi is telling us natira is Allah he's guarding it you won't let go of this memory well guess who is not enjoying a good night's sleep tonight guess who can't walk the streets and look at that person in the face I I'm I'm my own enemy and who's the real me that's my enemy what I'm thinking in that moment is coming right after Hashem said remember all my Mitzvahs to do them and now I can tell you don't follow those Mitzvahs which are not mine I never told you to have natira or Cass or gaiva or jealousy those are going to eat my body up and it's going to eat my mind is going to take me out of this world so for me to be aware that kinner is an Issa that means when I get the jealous thought pop up in my mind I've got to be aware that that's not that's not what actually wants me to think so the midst of Le taturu by default is actually a Mitzvah to pay attention to my thoughts to pay attention to what I'm thinking to be aware of where my mind is going and it's almost as though my mind has a mind of its own I'll bring a proof to you when we when you and I say my thoughts my mind here's my question who is my who is the my ' there's a u inside you that's listening to your thinking so your thoughts are not 100 who you are there's a you the owner Sharma that's actually listening to what you're thinking and Hashem wants us to fill our mind with enough Mitzvahs and Torah that when we do hear our thoughts we can filter them is the ultimate filter and I'm not putting down any filters that are out there I don't mean that but the ultimate filter there's only one filter it's what I'm thinking and next my eyes oh not giving a second look don't look first time but if I do don't give it a second look if you get a pop-up in your mind of an image that Hashem says I don't want you to look at that oh so I'm supposed to be aware of what I'm thinking one of the biggest Midas if you want to say that that way one of the greatest myths of uh character traits that akashbuckle wants us to emulate in him is Erica payum it's in the youth game it's all over the place Erica Pym is a very strange language really because Eric means long and up up means nostril a pie my nostrils not long nostrils doesn't sound very complementary but it's a it's a metaphor of holding in anger Hashem holds in his anger so when you see someone he looks about like he wants to explode but he's controlling himself he's not getting angry on the outside but you can see his anger on the inside but he's holding in so my question is very simple for a human being to hold in their anger and it's visible how long can you hold your breath for before your nostrils let go and it's back to the normal size a few seconds how long is hashem's Erica payam submission of Base as Sarah dyrus there were 10 Generations from Adam in order to make known to you Karma Erica Prime lived there God is how long is Hashem his patience in silence until he brought the marble and wiped out mankind with only one Survivor in his family so that's 1 650 years continues the same mishnah the Sarah day race avraham in order to make known how long is hashem's Erica Prime his patience because it was only till avram avinu came along and then and then Hashem said I don't have to be angry anymore now if avra mavina was born in which year 1948 years from the Bria but he didn't start going out and teaching monotheism that dialed hashem's anger and held it back because at last I got someone who's gonna put me back on the map Ina was 52 years old that's what rambam tells us he was 52 years old when he went out the pierce the Pearson he learned by now for 39 years that's insida Islam you'll find it in other um he learned by Nayak for 39 years you find it safe also he knew him for 58 years say that Olam written by Rubio one of the one of the authors of the mishna offers a Simon has 58 that's how many years that they actually overlapped and they knew each other but he studied by night for 39 years so he was 52 and on 1948 years when he was born and on his 52 years when he began his career in going around the world the known world at the time trying to convince people in monotheism and what number did you come to help me with the math 1948 years plus 52 is take a vote if you like 2000 hashems Erica payam is 2 000 years wow and it's mostly in total silence he's holding in he's not letting it out Sky of blessed memory was quoted by his daughter that she heard from many people that extended family was saved from tragedy of machlaikus from two Aces that he gave to parents whenever they would visit their married children he said go in to their home with your hands open and your eyes closed don't look and if you do look keep quiet let them figure it out themselves according to mishna Brewer once your child hits 12 for a girl 13 for a boy your midst of Kindle has finished there are others who tell you it continues but the essential the essential message here is let them figure this out I'm not giving I'm just saying a general point in some instances maybe they need a lot of help but the best people to help them is not Mom and Dad it's not the father-in-law mother-in-law how many families would still be around full intact and not broken and splintered if our mouths were closed from letting out burning criticism that remained in the memory of those children or children law for decades if only kairak had kept his mouth shut and kept the kinner over here instead of letting it out over here if he had been silent to his wife's cajoling and to the kinner that was burning inside him he would have saved his life his wife's life that he killed with his mouth his children he killed with his mouth his grandchildren he killed with his mouth his children-in-law he brought about the death of 250 leaders of Claud Israel from machlaikus all because he couldn't keep quiet ten tongues couldn't keep behind their barrier because I'll tell us sir is guarding it's not the same shmira a shame mate can have one God at the entrance but Sira is referring to God's all around like the lotion of of a Siege city is the same a three-letter route because a Siege city has the enemy surrounding them on all sides your mouth your tongue is guarded on all sides by your mouth but you've got two openings so your tongue is completely protected by your teeth and then your lips the shiny mirror please Revenge Asylum help me God and not open eat of those two so my tongue doesn't come out and say negative stuff I ten tongues spoke lash and horror against the gift of Eric Israel to claw Israel and most of us believe them and they brought about the death of almost a million men between the age of 20 and 60 over the next 40 years but tens if not hundreds of millions of Jews who were never born because of the hundreds of thousands of Yeadon that died because of those ten tongues ten tongues brought about not just the death of an unborn children of generations and generations if it weren't for those ten tongues we wouldn't have ever had one Tish above let alone 335 all because of ten tongues couldn't be silent how many more millions of children and dynasties of families would have been born and it all came because the teeth and the lips let the tongue out and the tongue shared Lush and horror and much of our history sadly because I'll identified well if it would just stay up here at least someone else might not know about it but the moment it comes out my mouth or in action then then I'm in trouble tell us how talking during filler is not is not good for us safe karate him is very scathing it says it causes terrible kitrogim and he's referring to the uh places of worship of other religions where the decorum is exceptionally quiet and it says when we talk during governing we cause a terrible because they're they're in a place of their worship the heavens and and here we are in front of a college park and I'm actually talking during darling my tongue decides this life and my next Marvis is dead means lives it's plural written by the the brother of the villagon so he brings there that the word is plural because there's no such word as life it's always plural so it comes out very clearly my tongue decides death but it also decides the quality of my life here and in the next World means both worlds so silence is good for the body is [Applause] I grew up amongst the wise the best thing for the body the body is silence is very hard to not bring about mistakes with extra words oh silence can actually be a protection of whatever wisdom that we might have and silence earns protection from evil decrees brought in severometers on the Iceman River Umar as well we'll see in a few moments when a person is insulted wow what an opportunity a person is insulted the show second he's quiet not not over here over here all your days and it's he can get rid of a lot of terrible decrees that were deserving to come upon him just from that moment of silence and famous the reason why this world continues what's the battery Hashem is the battery hashem's the power oh yeah it's deserving that this world continues with all the powers Hashem gives it to sustain itself for one person because it doesn't say plural Misha boil and PIV someone who keeps his mouth locked bishas when there's going on and he doesn't get involved it's worth keeping the world just for him and irony is we actually beg Hashem every day we beg him every single day please when I'm insulted when people tread on me help me be silent William it's not even sticker help me that when people insult me or curse me I should not even think about it just move on because they're doing me the greatest over by removing who knows what from my record and the busha of being insulted or humiliated and me not responding whoa that's huge e yeah we're not finished let my soul be like Arthur to any and everybody really this is how I ench Monastery every day I don't take three steps back before I've requested that you help me please that when people insult me I should be completely silent not even think about it and let me be like dust am I what it sounds like I'm asking a personal peace emotional please please please I just want to be 100 schmato Realty please let him you walk I want to be like oh I just want to be like everyone just walk on me please what's going on so here's a question what happens to the alpha after we walk in it it's still there when you Tread On The Ground does it gets softer or harder get harder oh you see what we're asking Hashem is give me the resilience of Afar that not if but when I'm trying none I've got this the resilience of offer I'm not affected my intrinsic value is still real the whole Parish of self-esteem please be worth me I got I got a lot of love and I saw her up by Victor Miller blessed memory talk about what a demion it is because it really is my self-esteem is not necessarily dependent on my estimation of myself because I've already got salmonella Kim rebellion's already given us a temple he's already told us you are a reflection of a kind of Sparkle it doesn't get better than that so if I have a low self-esteem if there is such a thing if I have low self-esteem it's a misunderstanding of reality it's just not reality I'll give you a simple Marshall a guy takes his uh I was going to say a 67 Chevy there might be a few people here who remember that expression but we'll go with a 2003 Camry he takes it in to the um what do you call it when when you uh for scrap metal the junkyard thank you he brings into the junkyard and uh the guy opens up the Bonnet and says this is not a Camry I think it is no no this is this is an engine of a Rolls-Royce in fact if you look carefully you'll see with all the bumps and scratches it wasn't Rolls-Royce now so bashed up you think it's an old Camry I mean I've been driving a Rolls-Royce all my life and I thought it was all beaten up Camry the basically I'm already gay we are already at Rolls Royce Barney Montana oh my true self-esteem ought to be the reality that you made me so we're actually asking Hashem please help me Revenge please help me to have the strength of sticker and Damen to be silent here and dime him here for those who curse me give me that resilience that I'm able to stand up to the adversities of life and not always an easy marriage not always easy health issues not always Financial issues help me have the inner resilience that I don't fall apart if you want to take this literally called here then the deeper meaning it's not that much deeper but it's deeper is that afar is soil what do you get from the soil what do we benefit from the soil food fruit plants what else minerals people we all we are we're originally from afar they'll ask that oh comes along the alpha and says you're treading on me no problem I will continue giving to you plant life fruits I'll continue giving you all the dyes you need from all the flowers and just just to make it beautiful and I'm gonna give you lots of variety of flowers I'm going to continue giving all the minerals and precious stones and iron that you can turn to steel and a wood that grows from the ground that you tread on so kind of saying if you really want to take this to its Fuller extent then what we're really saying give me that inner strength that when I'm wronged by someone not only will I not walk away with natera remembering their faults instead but help me have the inner strength that I will not resist helping that person even proactively was this Apostle King in mishpatim I think that if you see the donkey of your friend or enemy so thank you enemy collapsing under its weight as of task of life don't don't walk away help him as many times as it takes and we're referring to dafka someone who I would ordinarily want to oh not him for I'm not this is great payback time no it says Sparkle don't go there I want you know who sent you the enemies donkey I did because I'm giving you an invitation to show your inner strength your real metal oh so now let's examine when silence is deafening the first six days of creation took place in utter silence even if there were volcanic eruptions and the world is in turmoil as it unfolds there was no one there to see or hear it Hashem is creating the whole universe and planet Earth in silence why because you know what real praise is silence we're going to see in a few moments what praise are we talking about Hashem created every element in creation to sustain mankind indefinitely please be very careful not to believe in the richest agenda that's trying to promote that planet Earth is unsustainable that is Fiera because the Torah says foreign I think I can't remember which password uh when Karas Parker says uh the funny sorry they saw him then later on in Paris hey Hashem says be fruitful and multiply as many children as you are able to bring into this world do not worry about panasa anikel shakai you know what that means yes from the smallest ant to the Antelope and rhinoceros an elephant a giraffe I can sustain them all don't fall into the Trap of thinking this world is limited in its resources it's not true that's pure propaganda do you know that the more technology advances the more we're able to harness powers that we didn't know even existed I'll give you a couple examples because of Technology advancing we are now able to drill up to two miles beneath the earth's surface and find completely new oil wells and gas reserves thanks to technology we're able to harness wind and create electricity water hydroelectric plants we're able to take actual sun rays and and turn it into electricity power heat warmth light there are powers within the Bria that are invisible and silent and they are gifts and as technology advances and reveals that there's much more in the Bria than meets the eye literally and all this bar who prepared in the six days of creation and he wants us to know I did it in silence because I want you to hear the message behind these gifts all this asset was done in pure silence Cal m down what a personality doesn't need my extra what was he for the first 29 years of his life before he was anointed how old was he when he was anointed he was 29 years old how did he spend his life to that moment he was a Shepherd he continued being a Shepherd for a while too he was a Shepherd now where do Shepherds reside out in The Valleys mountains wherever they find pasture for their flocks lived with hashem's perfect creation he saw now I'm going to use language that we are familiar with but David hamalak saw the sun a ball of fire 93 Million Miles Away beating its heat down on planet Earth he saw water rise sham Mayim foreign the heat from the Sun and the waters on the oceans is made up of another two words all the same gemara SAR mine the water rises wait a second water is heavy how do you get it up so high into the sky into those clouds and the answer is Asian Mayim oh the heat from the Sun and David Malik is odd [Music] by the rivers and the pastures we happen to know that the carbon dioxide in the atmosphere is absorbed by plant life and the plant life the leaves actually transfer the carbon dioxide into oxygen photosynthesis here you have a seed silently growing in the ground and it absorbs moisture from the topsoil the water from the rains in the topsoil and shoots down roots and then a trunk that becomes a fruit tree plants flowers vegetation and it's all taking place in total silence and we are getting sunlight carbon dioxide going through all of plant life throughout the world and it's converting it into cocktails of oxygen and David is enamored when he looks at the veins going up a leaf and those veins are drawing water from the ground through the roots and the stems eventually the trunk and is blown away by the perfection in the Bria and it comes to the most obvious conclusion so let me share with you some of you may have made a bracha on bread today I might see let's do a quick experiment what do we need for us to be able to have a kazayas of bread on our table what are the different stages someone just touched on a few of them do we need seeds in the ground oh yeah we need to we need to plant seeds in order to grow the wheat but you need to you need the soil do you agree we all need soil and do we need the field where the the farmer is going to till the soil and then eventually plant plant the seeds is the farmer doing this all alone or does he need assistance oh you need to plow the whole field and prepare it for growing wheat oh and then you need to harvest the wheat and then you have to thresh it and go through all the 11 stages of making bread do you need rain yes we do and that comes from water which comes from the oceans which is heated by the Sun 93 million miles away the Sun is working in total silence the rain comes down thanks to gravity gravity is invisible and silent water is silent well until it impacts something physical and now you hear it everything is pure asset all day long and he's doing it in silence why Robert Islam tell us you're here I know people of the Statue of David Amala could see you through the prayer but why are you so quiet and then comes along the mountains and forced the rain clouds to rise and cause precipitation and the water comes down into the rivers and brings it to the mainland for trees to grow and provide us the carbon dioxide exchange into oxygen and according to Rabbi Victor Miller this by the way this is a photo it's not real you need the crawly creatures including ants and cockroaches in the top soil to absorb the water from the rain so it remains in the topsoil you can survive without the ants you need daytime sunshine and in some cases you have to irrigate your Fields yourselves there's a lot of people involved over here and you need four seasons to grow your wheat do we need filler oh you bet we do aramarition and it's only when he realized the purpose of the rain coming down to provide food that grows from the top soil for man to survive that he doesn't avoid her she believed filler and all this comes about because of Elohim why is Elohim called Elohim calls himself because he is the power of all powers is gravity a power you see this man falling over here is sunshine of power you bet it is is water power sure tsunamis is winter power tornadoes yeah hurricanes and there's one power that controls all the powers they look him so I'm asking you in your mind's eye can you see at the top of a large wall Elohim and beneath him you've got gravity rain wind Sunshine rainfall oceans rivers topsoil mountains and he's doing this because he is doing this has said kindness in absolute silence why in Spanish what do you want me to cut from all this because at the end of each day no one was there except the second day no one was there the second day but each day Hashem said after he saw everything he said Ki this is good is the British name says it's good that's a pretty good extra to be simakon this is good who's he talking to well the toe is talking to us this beautiful world was created and it's pure cassette is it and I haven't even got into do you need money to buy the bread do you need trucks to bring the wheat to the Miller do you need the Miller and assistance and then pack in sacks and bring that to the bakery do you need more than one Baker to actually bake the bread and then the packaging and the truck which needs tires and engines and all the people that assemble the trucks and when you start asking yourself what's involved in one kazias of hamotzi probably hundreds of thousands of people there are many messages we get from this interdependence I depend on others I can't do everything myself gratitude to people all around me in the Jewish world and the Gentile world for inventing the tractor and the combine harvester and the various farming utensils and the factories that build the trucks we are dependent on each other gratitude is reality but possibly the biggest lesson of all what is Hashem screaming out loud and why should why should I hear him say I'm here in what way is he saying I'm here appreciate gratitude what else and I should know to Darvin to you all excellent answers what is so deafening about his head all day and night lifting your finger walking in a straight line requires the alignment of your spine and your muscles a distribution of your body as you walk balancing yourself who's giving me that power to hold a cup of water who's giving us the power to move our tongues we know the answer but the question is what's his message was so intoxicated by the message for 29 years he could not get out of his mind your hazard is unlimited why keep time because you're good why are you so good Hashem Darvin hamela could not be Messier from one simple message you love me so much every single leaf is screaming I love you I'm here to give you oxygen every fruit every blade of grass every ant in the ground on the ground every drop of water is screaming in silence I'm sending this to you as a kiss of my love for you was so saturated with this message for 29 years that when he was anointed malachal Israel he had no clue what was in store his love Hashem was so strong will you be able to find within you the resilience to stand up to a father-in-law who tries to assassinate you multiple times chases you for the best part of two years after you already know that you're malach and that you will be murdered and yet you're being pursued by your own father-in-law will you be able to stand up to the loss of not one child from but Sheva the first child and I'm known and then I've shown and Arden Yahoo and according to told us in the VM he lost four more children in the Maga near the end of his life eight children it is Lifetime where are you gonna find the inner strength to know that Hashem has not let go of you because he spent 29 years unable to undo what was deafening every blade of grass every movement of the body every time we swallow food and it's doing its own job until it exits the body even when we are expelling waste from our body our body is screaming out Hashem you love me monthly it's a parallelization it's a pillow that the good part of the food the nutritious part stays in the body goes to all the cells and the waste is expelled it's an amazing mechanism and that mechanism is screaming out I love you I love you I love you knew this too well and that's why he was able to take so much in his lifetime and bounce back every time we are surrounded by this deafening screaming message and I don't have to go further than any movement of my body whether it's blinking of an eye or the movement of our fingers everything we do and see and touch and say is simultaneously Hashem screaming out loud in absolute silence you're doing this because I love you and if if there's anyone here who doubts any of this ask someone who's been in hospital and can't wait to be able to go to the bathroom by themselves independently we've all visited or have had that opportunity to reconnect to Ruben I I owe you so much I can't believe I have not properly being grateful and appreciated things that I've taken for granted until they become dysfunctional or not moving I will close there's much more to be said on this important subject and I apologize I've gone over time but essentially the bottom line is silence is not just golden I'll close on one person who was not even the biggest static in fact he really kind of turned to Russia it was not it was not good for him he's the nephew of avram avinu light he moves to sedim and what was discussed that he was saved what schools did he have to be saved he was silent he had the chance says Rabbi Tesla and uh I never saw this inside I heard it from two of his time Rabbi Rabbi Arya Carmel who was my first Kumar Rabbi and Rabbi Miller in gateshead used to give shirim on on his review that sort of Tesla every Wednesday night so I attended that for six years but I remember he they both said I never saw this since I don't know if it was ever committed to writing ruthless says the following light Achilles heel was love for money and the fact that he was silent in the Palace of power when he could have made a very easy deal power I'm just going to show you information which is worth a lot to you that Isha is not his sister it's his wife knock him off in his and she's yours and who was the only heir to avrah mavina by the way so he could have made a deal with light with with paray and he stood to possibly inherit according to those that he had money and quoting those that he didn't he wouldn't have but his love for money was so strong that in that moment it was deserving that his life would be saved from Saddam whose else's life was saved because of his silence who was born in the cave amine and mayav who was born because of mayaf Rus who was Russ the great grandmother of David and then you came from light lights close hasn't finished yet because who will be or is born because Messiah did lights silence have a ripple effect into thousands of years that directly contributes to conver T don't underestimate our silence in this time 2023 here we are in arguably the most difficult generation to raise children what they are over exposed to and what's being forced in our faces and in our ears silence to ever has to Shalom second guesser but our mouths were not designed for silence they were designed for filler for Terror for kind words encouragement and emotional wants me to use my mouth and say Rebellion please do get rid of amalek once and for all and all those who SE of a Malik peel it away and you'll see all the ingredients abortion being promoted transgender operations and hormones it's all a Malik it's all promiscuity it's all decadence this is all about promoting a lifestyle no family freedom to do anything you want even hazal tell us in Sanhedrin I think yadu Ben Israel there's no content to avoidasara then why did they why did they follow it they only served the fighters hessia oh my voters are told me that this is a lifestyle same gender marriages something that's a to Ava of mid Shrine that we're not allowed to go back there because men would marry men women would marry women with a a a an actual document of marriage we're living in arguably the hardest time in world history when it's impossible to remain insular because of the devices that give us immediate access and we're here and see all around us our children cannot make sense out of it they can't even articulate their confusion they're too confused we need to be Loy tattoo to know what to think and what not to think and articulate it to our children and use our mouths not just for silence Bashas mariva but use our mouths to our eventual and please I know we should be making our secrets of hundreds of thousands of hidden to cry out to you please this is a Maga a marble of which there's never been in world history since the marble please remember our children will not be able to stand up to this give us the power to withstand it and get rid of our enemies are men foreign [Music] listen it's important that is the first silence is one time when it's time to speak up and that's when you're tired is looking for sponsors to help bring the Sheeran to the community step up and speak up and sponsor a share call that you can show your attire 718-851-8651.com I'd like to give the big 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