Washing, Bentching And Zimun For Children - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

[Music] Ruth is not born became arrogant she retired I like to welcome everyone to today's cheer from a vehicle Zev Smith's Lita and washing benching and Zeman's for children life - a big issue cash and sponsors today share of yong-chol RV owner of yossel janko's - the initial mass of VM Falls is and Nelson of the earth side is today Kafka shot was the life yester character responses today she observed boldly the mission of others and soberness feel ever so unfinished for same sewers with Sarah Shyam there's an old child of clínicas mitts on the child the father I was learning to siggy of clinic I became to newer understanding that whatever the mitzvahs on but when a person an adult learns the office of Kenneth he learns all office for himself it's really a mitzvah on the adult because you'll see how many you say this how many tradition we learned when we learned for the clinic of a child but mamela we see how lockers for our cells for the g'day Liam therefore even though it's really based on Fenner for children today so young but it's really you Diaz for the for all of us even if it's no longer together with this mid-south Kenneth but today I'm gonna learn the alertness of Mattila see Italian and my my cranium Zima and benching and as we'll see it really touches upon the situs of those mitts as they gave for all of us and we'll start with a a very common question that comes in different forms when is the fear of Nutella Co dyin I guess it started with the Shia love a child ones take just a bite of bread does he have to wash but the MS is their gear for adults also you know today and we no longer eat bread today we're not longer like Rashi says in part a repeat the side of the Libra people did a little bit bread they wash they have a little bit red then they have the main Sudha how much of bread do we have to eat the Makai of to make it feel said I am with the bro I just saw a beautiful shower last night someone goes to a tissue arriba FD benched and this dry umbrella column can eat a little bit of kala drop without washing it's very hard to wash in the parentheses in the bleachers Hagen awash you'll out either drop of bread without washing so the embassy is I think we have to reduce this question even simply what is the fee of of the till SEO thallium is it like broccoli Shona you can't eat without a brush even a costume maybe the pill said I'm oh so you're now allowed to eat any bread with a Leticia value or maybe we'll say the futility of dying for bread is on a Casillas that's an akela that's high and then she meet the opponent so it's not enough of course true you have to have a Casillas or maybe the killer time is different since that tells your diam is because of Toma we all know that Tomas oilin is not unless than a kebaya so maybe to wash the till she Italian with labruffey after abaca failure and as we'll see there are many navya - so listen please the Russian of the wreck a extension of class won a victory or a shining oil is Hipparchus me kebaya a person ate less than a Cabiria ye Toma Suffolk fillet avoid he has to wash but you do not make a bra on less than a kebaya now that's my Michelle with Shila you're eating less than a kebaya you have to wash but no Brooklyn what's his Suffolk he doesn't say what the Suffolk is so you look in the base Yosef and Simon Kaufman says suck the base Yosef their care considers that maybe since the sphere that Iliad I am is out stoma it's only the cab area less than the key baby there's no Toma there's no no tells you guys but since the rate the base is over maybe it's white plug whenever you have a mice a feeler you have to have a contused I'm even a Casillas so here we see two important our lockers if someone has a Casillas of paths or bread Mozza he has to wash but no brother now what is make something very clear because I is kebaya is not confusing it's not something that you have to be a gardener to know basically a picture a center slice of rye bread typical rye bread a half a slice of bread is already a kebaya and a quarter of a slice of rye bread is the COS aureus so it's not so hard to figure out so what the air camp is saying if someone has a quarter of a slice of red or a quart a small piece of challah he has to wash without a bra the Clara it's Marshman a call shoe that's just a bite you want to taste the bread to see if it's worth washing you buy the culture maybe there's no key in the team because he's talking about if I because I used to a kebaya but listen please to us a secondary care actually it's early in this a persimmon rage Peggy mo and the recap is talking about the Lael say them and this ray KF is marvel Orien we know before we start the show Canara before we sought to soothe that we wash our hands Claire is there aquella why are we washing at that point of the Seder sup deep rikiya you washed your hands you make until she Italian but may shits are on the table LT bowl Shanee be morrow because we know we dip tomorrow into crisis and dovish at the bully dommage fee after wash so the recap is teaching us something that we never know we wash before the show Kamara not to the matzo we watch for the morrow that's dipped into her Isis frag d-r-e KF why aren't we washing off the monster matzo committed ERISA Amma Sheila's matzo Shiites advocacy is ain't Seraph nutella thou Parker's me cause I ain't Seraph Nutella and he brings me more in sook in brothers now there's a big cash on this cuz Matsuzaka sayest and he said Parker's Mickey's eyes okay we'll get back to that but they're a chaos the fire is saying on less than a Casillas there's no fear the team at all you could take a bite of column and it without and it tells you diameter you have to make of course the rough of family selectmen alright and you don't bench but he's saying on the tiller see italian is on a Casillas or more and this these two Sock'em of the rakaia are inshaallah listen cook Montes base muhabba stairs yes to be sure emma in painting is on allah parsley kebaya yeet oh yeah the villa Yvonne which means if someone has an intolerance to eat and he can't eat colic amat but he could eat just a bare minimum so if he can eat a Casillas on Shabbos he will wash he will bench but will not make a broker outlet killer see at I am ok we'll soon see it's it's really posed to have a little more than a conveyor for the Shabbos Sudha but if someone can only eat a Casillas he washes no broth up you make a mighty lucky min Haaretz and he benches the next sieve sieve gimmick Oakland fest macabre is Amaya Hipparchus Macca's iose yes Michel I'm ashamed Seraph Nutella so the macabre is quoting like both Rey chaos number one less than exact more than a keziah is less than Aggie Bayer you wash without a Baraka and less than the coziest is known at INSEAD I am at all and the past explains the subject like we said either told me Anita kebaya but this is also the sheet of the grub the back and the burka Yosef on a bite of bread you don't have to wash even logically the problem with all this is that the shock on earth is based on the rake AF and as the left from Camus de is difficult days in huland cast iron base and the magnet Rama see forgotten but dollars by us point out this rakaia has to be a mistake because the recap says on the say that I I think is is you know after wash this pastas mickey's is you don't have to wash Park us because now he's got that because I use and therefore says the mugging of ROM and the they become Uday's there's a mr. Mason had a wrong version of the Rekia and if you're looking there carefully the ones that we have it's as possibly kebaya ain't sawed-off little SEO value so in other words both rake a offs are the same you sign on less than a caballo you have to wash but no brother and therefore we have the following you cite a person that eats bread even a call shoe has to wash if he's has a kebaya you make a brush also but light this mug and I've rum there's no difference a little bit or a Casillas from from a bite till the kebaya after wash without a bra now of course it's hard to believe that the basis have made a mistake the Marusya the my mom okay the beer girl all of cooking trust explained the base Yosef and I would imagine that's why the mr. brewer postions Lamesa the following when someone eats bread if he has more than a kaberi of course to make a broth um between the Casillas and a kebaya is a Suffolk but even on a kosher you also have to wash me Suffolk so from a coal soot tilaka Bayer you wash without abraca and compare your own words you make a Brooklyn but we do see let's not forget the Mohave schita the grub Erica Yosef then on less than a cos is on a bite you don't have to wash and the mr. Boyd did not reject that he says you should be mouths me like the other sheet this so we could say when a child is in a big rush that he wants to take a bite of bread and he doesn't wash you don't tell them anything because up to a COS ah yes there are sheet this is no fee of Mithila what is extremely nagae especially today many people have a sort of analogy to any wheat products and they eat just the minimum amount of how long Shabbos formats on Pesach so this is important to mention on a Casillas of bread the mini gives of course we wash and we don't make a Nutella see Italian you make uh might see and you could bench because that's the Kimura umbrellas on a quiz I see ladder bench I should mention the beer I grew up by us says that honor keziah is not only in we have to us we Suffolk would have to make a bravo the orcas are very new now love I in Zion quotes the house in ish and the Australia and I love design quotes about Yasha and remain valid ma'am I love all pass key like this grown so if someone has to just eat a Casillas not more according to the grow and other sheet this you'll latter make a Bronco like the chiffon are apostasy you should wash without a Bronco but as we said earlier the mr. Bruin rage side the Caliph's if cotton base says forsooth at Shabbos ideally one should have a little more than a kebaya because the capella is like an I feel as I Roy you have to have a sue this so it's eighty ideal to have more than a cab area but again if someone can't a Casillas you washed and you bench and hopefully you wait to the zoo this Chavez as well the next question which is extremely Nagaya you watched your child he washed he made a mighty did not a the Casillas of bread do you have to force him now to finish the COS alias so obviously if you want him to been shall have to have a cause is but also if he doesn't have a cause is at least then maybe until said I am was a Brooklyn about Allah so there's a mitzvah that says when someone washed with the intention to eat bread and changed his mind is not a brothel Muhammad Allah retro actively so we could say that the best thing would be for children and adults the foul de Mr Burrowes wise advice in crooks time of Zion lament hey when you wash and you make a mighty kadai to eat a cause is right away this way the brothers call and everything is how and you could bench and you know you had a Kentucky's next question is what is the age of kena for a child regarding until Co diam and the clown mitzvahs so this is interesting the mr. Gruen three places seminarians Heathcott involved Rosa Marquez Aleph and the Charlotte see a tough go from the Nile of Sabah caliph in three different scenarios since the sheriff Kenneth is six or seven years old he says regarding Krishna regarding kid this Friday night and regarding availeth during the three weeks the share of clinic is six or seven years old but when you look at health the hook a tough race MEMC cotton valid its marathi the fee of Jennifers of a sucker them it's a sucker up he says five or six year old is already high even thinner now the truth is it's already a little challenging six or seven make up your mind six or seven but now we have five or six or six or seven that's pretty you know pretty big range but the ends I think is push it when you're talking about the trainer there are two variables that you have to consider number one the maturity of the child some children are more developed some allege develop some are more mature some are less ready but it's also you have to take into account which Mitzvah do you want to be mechanic the child you know you look at the game are in Superman Bay's which is really the site of the fee of clinic doctor Gamora Cottontail in an area he knows how to make an enormous - Lulla he knows how to put on sisses scar even census hadeya lysmer as he odd of he knows how to keep his hands clean not forget them Tommy so he has the allowance of Tijeras the Gamora clearly gay gives a number of other examples that chin up depends on each Mitzvah hiya day alone on a is high even lulav now the truth is we all know that the Mitzvah the rise of loool of the Americas in suka once you pick it up you item now norm are wonderful inhaling but it's not market fred the brisker of y is the share of clinic adele and an a huh it's not even market so the Terra see says is your site antenna Venice is a child has to be able to do the mitzvahs properly not just minimally not just to be item if he can't do the Mitzvah entirely he is not yet ready for the myths so even though not know him are not my kids but if he's not ready for that I know he's not ready for the Mitzvah because the midst has to be done so we see that the stress is to do the myths of properly so I would imagine that's why the D we do find different Shira mckenna it depends on the midst of depends on the child but I think the medical ma is between five and six we'd like to assume the child is ready guila tena if your particulars are grandchild is somewhat immature he's not yet ready no he's not ready he's a late bloomer let him wait till six and seven but what's one thing that I learned to one of them anything you learned this week sugah Rico regarding the palacio diam there might be a factor that makes the share even later because we mentioned the Gemara and suka a day Alicia more as yoga washing your hands is not just the Mitzvah a person that washes his hands from filthy Evalia and makes MIT and during the suit the scratches himself or touches among camel assess the wash over a person goes to the bathroom and he comes back he has to wash his hands with a cake even though usually doesn't wash with a Kayleigh after the bathroom but once he got he touched the muhkam because he has to wash his hands so I saw only one of the high-end thing is from the Nakhla suite on the on hookers appeal see Italian it's a Mohammed outlet he says this point and he argued very strongly the till she died name is not just the the action of washing it's washing your hands and keeping them clean for the entire suit so even if the child knows how the wash is not such a big compliment to wash your hands but if he's not mature enough to keep his hands clean maybe he's not a killer sinner in other words the tills name is not a my sekai palma it has to be washing and the cognizance of keeping it clean I should mention adults also have to know that you know you have to keep your hands clean during the sudha mr. Merrin coughs a metallic see if cutting your Gimbel says as we go to the bathroom why I should mention if you die for a child during this suit up you have to wash your hands again with the Caylee because now your hands are unclean so getting back to a cotton maybe we could say that five or six or maybe even six or seven if he's not your day a little yard of is still young so I want to just make a point we try to train our children even before five or six to and it's a good idea friend up it's never too early but if a child refuses or resists he doesn't want to wash it's not kadai to make a fuss you know because could be he's leggy looking up the fact that he's resisting might be indicative that he's not yet ready and besides that if he's not yet ready he's no he of Jenna especially if he only eats a small amount maybe not even a Casillas you know yes they have a gush Malkin mixes if it becomes the batter whenever he eats he's battling with the parent then probably he's not yet ready that would also explain a child at once bread and he's not going to wash are you allowed to give a child bread if he won't wash so we should know the RAM on the end of cook stomach mo it's also to give a adult bread if he won't wash that's the its uplift naive you have this question when you give food to a non-religious person who won't wash so that's what favor you're giving him to do and etcetera button of eating without Mattila diet but if it's a child and he's not certainly Higgy looking up you have what to be saying makan he's young he's not yet developed he's not mature so with an adult you have a bigger problem with a child you could assume he might not be a gay love sinner but the point is you have to realize that till she had ayam is a big sugar and I hope to get back to in a different time but it's interesting that a child that's traveling traveling within a long distance and inkowl's hungry there's no water to wash it wouldn't be the terrible thing to give the child bread without washing if you eats less than a canal you certainly and even if maybe he needs more than that if he's are not yet a full he gear look another maybe this was to be say makan to someone to eat a little bread like to mention the shadow by the Tish just need a little hollow without washing it's not it's my latest point if he's driving until she a diet I saw a beautiful stylist I'm I'm a tomboy I eat see and then hop what am i doing I didn't yet wash seem a dime rights without washing so it's not such a bad idea to take a drop a bite that the brush will be fouled and then wash the truth is you could go wash and there make a mighty wouldn't be a half sick but the point is on a of bread there are enough sheep is that the Shasta you might be able to be sign if you can eat without washing are there any difference boys or girls regarding clinic and at LSE Italian so push it any Mitzvah that women archive in other words if it's not a mysticism on drama there should be no difference boys or girls if is a finish for boys is a pinnacle for girls unless of course mid-tempo national artists or girls up but there are her Shelton and cook pave of the end and a tough I invasive test valve says somewhat cryptic message there's no thinner for girls and of course the poisk America was wonder what does that mean and they're shocking himself in the beginning of shinmin Gimbel says for the appacha this fear clinic for bunnies so we could say there are michelle phan cheetah is surprising but the price can definitely assume enough applies to girls and boys no different the next group of questions is the Shila of my melanin so my my freedom is interesting there's no doubt about it to be dinner Gemara it's a very big feel the Morris says that emphatically my Macarena however the Gemara learns in Brosnan gimbal on the dais an incredible source of my my cranium visca dish them the yeasts and Kadosh iam visa and Kadesh I'm a loom I'm a trainer if someone wants kedusha wash my my cranium decent condition but there's more to my Mariner besides the kedusha that it brings it's also the secona that it avoids the camara says that insult that we eat the smell of storm it's a very dangerous salt and we have to wash our hands before we put it our wise applicable ax there's certainly even more to this but this is why the macabre begins cooked by olive short and sweet Miami cranium clever when I was always this fall about the pistol a souvenir a day ash in my malice if cotton Dollard quotes the commode Attorney land the mr. McGovern that say and a locker that's almost surprising vile a no anointing before the core of one of his Craven does not do any mixes he without making a brother he doesn't bench but says the himoto the kneel and the mr. was dove at this island that will not make him write C will not bench but he should wash my Mirena and that sounds shocking you don't bench but mine behind him the terraces Sakana he's not put the from he has to take care of himself so the point is those that wash mine refine him Tavia lay umbrella there are many reasons for them and if that would be the case what should why should have cut and be different I saw the or her silk on the end of coffee olive says yes Nicole Bala by is maja Saban a base I show his heroism I guess he means everybody should wash and this mirrors of the difference at me Rob says he told them a handsome they obey Him in the Talmudic IRA to make sure the children wash Miami find her that's Mustafa why not however payer do other a some that don't wash my my cranium this is based on at Isis in the gimel Amma days and practice with Tyson says that first of all today we don't have Melo pseudonymous so there's no longer this acronym and additionally we are careful when we eat we don't eat with our hands our hands are always clean so there's no concern of a lack of Nikias and therefore tasteless says for some unpacked that his hands are not clean he should wash but if someone's hands are clean and additionally the zone medal of pseudonymous places there's no reason to wash my McRaney and at the end of cooked a olive the macabre quotes this theis this is sort of a mild endorsement he says yeah Shane is harem mahogany tomyam acronym the mr. Brewer says that's the schita of places but the Graz mock me the mechana from quotes in the cout bottom that I'm a smear and hit from a hard wave is there so we'll say that the German jewelry that macabre love sacrifices do not wash mine refine him I think a good part of chloral are still very marked with not only because of the lava but I'll be Kabbalah and I'll suck honor now the question is what about katana sure the child be instructed to wash my my cranium so question why not if his father does it so that shall have that Senate you know you need a Senate what's interesting is you'll ask me is there any different boys or girls regarding Miami cranium so this is another one of the things that I learned regarding the Dolan when you learned the significant annum plus past this there's no reason to think that women are any less naive until I married him than men Melik pseudonymous applies kaduche applies and the bank of Emden at the end of corporate america sia he says maybe the women that are real super is finished they're very clean they don't have to wash butts Tommy says if it's a regular situation they should wash like men the leash some heifers Vitara Freudian push it both reasons of my mccrane and four men applied to women I saw Tom arrested yes I mean D Salma sky in May yesterday so hi I'm Zanna felt and Simon Kofi attest the shell was Alam didn't and says both reasons of my Mahina applied to women also should they wash say write wrote backfire pushes lots more even off my name Suffolk you ready said the answer there's no difference there Hashanah as I mentioned says do you have to tell you burn a base so you probably includes women of same is all Minerva Yasha ball said women like men should wash my mark Lehner however we could say pokazhi Mohammed abar many women don't wash my Mohini so the s mister of Osman Khalid Al Simmons off chemo and he said posh this is no hillock but since we have at Isis and a sheath in Chauhan are that even men are kiya Potter but they do it out homra so maybe women when I'm a cobbled of Homer so we could say whatever the women's many gears we understand understand why women should do it but those that don't are probably in good company because many women Packer don't once you hear that even by women is it starts to be makeup you can understand that girls young girls they're certainly it's out to be Maiko that the fee of Kenner is for men and for boys of like in that respect but for girls is more that's out to be makeup the next part of the procedure is the theme of Zeeman our children should they in the Zeeman should they and tell him who danced there any different boys or girls so there's nothing to talk about in your side in halacha there's no difference boys or girls men or women regarding semen in fact the South American cuffs addict SC field the macabre says that if you have nine adults and one child you let account them into Zeeman and that's the meaning of Sodom other Yama's el you could count one cotton into the semen of three or ten a day you're in that's the meaning of slide there are muscles the meaning of Ashkenazim is not the counter cotton okay so we can understand from this that katana should answer the Zeeman light the macabre that the even part of this even Avada but even for the Ashkenazim we don't count them in Dominion but it's far to eat and that's why the claret spas children should participate by answering the Zeeman someone else was insanely good simulation I'm dollars very long to society maybe the semen of ten he shouldn't answer because since he's not part of the semen so his demon is not a Zemon and everything attention Miami live October their bonuses I don't understand that benefits to practice to do what's right and even if he's not part of a Zemon regarding answering but it's not a protocol of October he's not sumption Miami Lovato lab so I think it's push it all agree a child should answer the Zeeman he's just like there's a fear on the adult some say there i some say there are born on so there's no difference a child his clinic has the answers even the next question is there any difference boys or girls regarding answering semen so pastas as we mentioned Zeeman applies to men and women the phone against schita and i haven't never seen it but if you have ten women noshing Mazama in la Atzmon is a field we don't combine men and women but women are definitely higher bands even so we don't make semen of women but if you have men and women the women should answer someone asked me how come women don't answer the Zeeman so i told them very respectfully and on my house the women answered the semen maybe the VAR it is if you bench when they're still there and they don't hear the Zeeman and you don't call them and you ignore them so they can answer if they don't hear it but in my house we call them we wait for them and I found Ramona says this mom is the CSI they say in the case of intensive cotton good he said there's no difference why women reason why women should not be high even Zeeland and you have to wait for them but you can't blame them for not answering if that if they weren't cold and told that they should come in and answered the semen so the truth is Eamonn is a sea of on men and women once we say that the flavor up then the same thing should be true regarding girls participating in Zeeman now the last group of questions is I guess the more challenging one is the fee of a benching what a to the child bench how much does he have to bench and the question I always wanted to clarify you learn the pie scheme there's something called a burka Sam wasn't Macoutes it is an abridged version of benching yet you look in the benches this is erm of today you cannot find it what happened to it if it's encoded in the pie skin so this no doubt about it if a mitzvah needs thinner then benching certainly needs thinner benching is the only broker that we have that Liholiho dais is that their ice even Berta cetera which we assume is there ice but some say is not okay we assume is there ice but benching undoubtedly is a broker their eyes to the holidays more so benching the Shannara Baskins we should treat it like shrine Ezra okay so I'm gonna say oh thanks Vanessa no problem never I mean when you treat renessa right you treat benching right that's the macabre man benching is likes when Esther and therefore if Wilma Hana even our mid sister I Barnum like Braavos and until says I am certainly a mechanic I'm benching and that's why it's Clarke it's actually a Mishnah in bronze that club not sure about em katana Ohio and Tila mezuzah and Burris amahzing and if you look at this iron passes but ball up he speaks very highly in great glowing terms about the benching of a child and a child should know that his benching is very very precious and that's why you see Minich yes well is a strong emphasis on cynic regarding benching in the hedorium and achievers at a young age the children are benching it's a long benching it takes them 15 minutes they sing at home any father's very patiently sing with their children it's a long process but Lamesa we see benching there's a tremendous devotion to pinnacle bottom regarding benching I grab this so under the restrain of the one who says that children are not ripe in benching the Mishna says that the high among those who admits that's going on no seeum and Nevadan because since a cotton eats without his sons without his father who's gonna be Manickam in the benching which is similar to the sheath of Rashi in brushes that cuff that katana even a keel of henna Rashi holds is parted from Krishna because he's not together with his father early morning or late at night and who can mechanic them with Krishna so the yuvan apparently holds that katana reporter from benching but that's not the sake of honour had all cooked favored Bay's the macabre says clearly there's a sea of henna on benching for a child I the Tyner the father's not there there it is the father makes a good friend up when he is there it lasts you know there's a tremendous finish the rich for the tubers rich for Simon Sadiq Zion it's like sort of out of nowhere do its verse says that even though chin-up is generally a mitzvah on the father travel himself not McRaven kind of the father cleaver thinner when it comes to benching the mitzvah of clinic is on the child the child's mikheyev Mitra bond at the bench why - Dona benta vomits list he says since we find such a home regarding benching that really meet her eyes the only bench on today's meal but we were mocked Marin on and even a Casillas so he fries ooh me they say I'm there's a special fee of benching even on the child himself so I was thinking like the bit of all the refunds tine is no longer tighter he doesn't need the father there's a fear on the child himself to make sure he benches but be that as it may it's a very good idea could i dimension that the parents or grandparents should make a strong emphasis the child should bench and it Sokka it's you need a little patience that child start singing and you want to go somebody's and it's you know it's long but it's worthwhile you make him a person that knows that a bench on his own and then you could trust in the bench on his own are there any differences boys or girls regarding benching so that's we come to another biggest size Nagaina for us Godoy limb as well the gomorian Broca's has a Shila the Hoffman bays are not him - benching their eyes order up on them in other words women are definitely - benching but is it the same tree like a man or not so Rashi says what's the Shila why should women be different it's not as Mangrum it's not like lula so now she says since the posix says we're out of savate salah or attack tyfa you should eat on the land that i gave you and women don't ever pay the canary to throw so maybe it's not a sea of there i saw on women about of their abundance is looking out of their eyes twice vez and I'm gonna rom quotes - Zoya that says a different Suffolk since an integral part of benching is bris and Tyra and women don't have either of them so women don't have been she neither ice but mom I said the Chimera is a Suffolk are women's high if in been she liked men Frank you are Lamine Africa Mina what's the difference they have to bench the rice with everyone was not ask Amina Sophie motherfu keepin a rather me they favor see if they could be they could patter a man for example a man aid a sue them he's not sure if he benched or he's not sure he said would say his wife not yet bench can a woman be might see a man in benching that's deshyla if women are high of their eyes so she could be might see her husband or a man if women are only three born on so at the bottom came part of their eyes now you look at the Gomorrah there's no her be more has deshyla the numero goes write them dr. Rushton Broca's and the Rambam hey olive this is a voyage ofshit this is one of the rear two times e5u Martha Schuyler and leaves it as a Suffolk so now how do we pass it a woman's I ever mentioned ERISA so the maja Bancorp a verb Alif says that it's a Suffolk and therefore they should not be might see a man in benching in other words as mr. burr explains we do treat women that derive invention but it might not be other eyes so therefore a man that ate a just occurs is and his wife a kadai sphere she could be mighty the husband when it when he needs to be why because now they're both their opponents but on a regular basis that we treat Oh an ISA that she's high of their eyes sir but the homeless she should not be might see a man now the big question which is so much more Nagaya than wiping my sea husband is let's say Anisha has a Suffolk if she benched she ate she certainly ate kadai severe she forgot her she benched or she's not sure if she said would say on Shabbos and would say on Shabbos is mark of the banshee so the question is does she have to repeat the benching if narsimha Haven benching their eyesight to sake of the ricer like for us men if it's only drive bonnets fake a drive on so the tubers shy refrain that was the Zeta of the Humvee and simin you're now live and he said in other place can have the same she that hired the monkey boy him they basically say that we treat women as the commander ice ax and variety Kumar says the - kameena to be might see a man why not big Marcel - kameena Suffolk the terraces no no no bench in Ohio Suffolk the higher the mr. brewer then quotes of Akiva ager and the burka Joseph that a woman's Suffolk is a Suffolk theravadin and she should not to repeat the Banshee but if you look in the B I'll lock up he seems very much inclined to go with this sheriff Rio he says if someone wants to go out to shower Fryman a woman should repeat the benching like if Sid because that's reassuring him that she's high of their ice and I just sobs time miss Alma and the two of us in the back of the same brahmajyoti mo he says it's kadai tip askin woman as a Suffolk benching if she ate of course a quesadilla should repeat the benching so Benji should not be cheap in her eyes let her treat Benji like two men treat benching so in each has a subgroup see if she said would say she should repeat the benching I'll serve a cat their eyes silicon or bazaar the question is when you have a question of henna for girls is there any difference boys or girls the answer is no because we treat women as if they would be almost like in their eyes for the holidays even though there's a Suffolk but Macomber we treat women like men regarding benching so so too we treat katana boys and girls this thing what's noteworthy de la whoosh and cook pave of the end of cafe bub they caught them that 8 today Sevilla is high even benching me Jeroboam sews up the oil estimate and the orava its master from the lavash that a child that aid just the Casillas or kebaya doesn't have to bench why not so it seems that the lavash hold on a midst of the Rabanne on of benching under Casillas there's no sea of China however the early robber takes exception as the illest Tama does the Pima Gotham shows that the lavash himself says this sinner by Darabont on that let's not forget Wilma Hana halwa children of Hanukkah and Purim which is the rabona so mr. Burris says the Farish chief cotton Dalit cotton is hidin in benching even if he only ate a Casillas what's a challenging question which happens unfortunately quite often a child washed he ate a bite or two but no more he ate less than a Casillas does he bench should you tell him to bench what did you tell not to bench he ate less than 2 cos is no one holds the Chi of benching elastin occurs aureus so the truth is someone says I should tell my son to walk away from the table without benching how could I do that but then again to tell him to bench when he not supposed to bench is also wrong sinner look jennife is all about giving him a proper canal so if you are certainly eight less than a COS ayahs you'll tell them listen man Kent if I were you I would eat a keziah so you could be cycle to the Mitzvah benching benching beans brother the benching brings their broth and panel so the pinup says and you could tell about benching and the importance of benching but if he's not eating more than just that how could he be instructed to bench if you have a full of to bench I how could he walk away without benching but you can't tell the bench when he's not leave the bench you could tell them if you don't want to eat okay I understand but remember when you become a goggle you have to bench but only in our case is that's why you're not bench E but you tell them you know what you have to bench no matter what you know it's it's very possible 80 years from now say I remember vividly I was seven years old I took one bite of bread my father says you must bench that must be a shetan you know everything he's supposed to remember he forgets the one thing that he's supposed to forget he remembers but as are you this as human nature Lamesa this is why it's clogged that if a child ate less than a Casillas he doesn't bench now I swear that from a layman's album that's not a good singer now what I did see that if there's a Suffolk named a he should bench for example he ate kid Sudha but not a Sudha not a cos is the past he had passed and other foods so then you could be mr. fish eaters that say if you have a kadaifi you could bench on the sphere or he ate less was wrong was no it was quoted as saying a child ate cause iose but not bigger than Sheila's Pross he spaced it out so maybe we could say that for the child he eats slowly see you latter bench to the Charles different whenever you have a sheet that the be say makan I saw they even based on a some cipher if a child ate less than a Casillas and he's full from it which is very rare I mean a quarter of a piece of less than a slice that qualify somebody's full but to some cypher hold if you have a kinase me even with less than a keziah Simic leave the bench so then you could say for child he gets follows upon that but if it clearly a not a cause is not today sphere give him a proper henna now someone else but I don't understand when you take a young child you let it theoretically we don't do that you'll have to sit down with him and practice benching even though you didn't eat at all let's learn how to bench you'll have to do it's a very macabre so how could this case be worse Terrence is the caches of toys if the child does not had a bench you're training him how to bench so the every word of that practice is justifiable you're teaching about a bench but this child knows how to bench you're not training them how to bench you want to train them to make Mitzvah when he's not Mahim in the Mitzvah that's a improper Seneca there's another law I should mention briefly the Bjelica says this in cuffs amicus Seif vom that a child's can a sphere is less than an adult's can a sphere in other words when we eat a piece of cake or two we don't have to watch because nowadays to me those that don't wash unless they have two slices of pizza for example so two slices get h3 a fern adult but says the BL of a cotton skin a sphere is less than a goggles g'day Sania so when you're talking about what's considered to be is suited for a cotton you have to mattify the amounts because the Cotton's kadaifi is less than the goggles kadai cilia but the point is the best finish here is what's done right let him wash and eat a cup area make it to the Italian let him wash my mccrane him let him answer the Zeeman and let him bench with similar if he had a Casillas or more as far as the actual benching is concerned what is the share of Kenna is it an option just the first brothel if he's young and what happened that is no Siham ikutsu so one thing I will say the shear of pinafore benching is probably later than other mitzvahs because you have three long breakfasts and we bench actually for breakfast it's not just a shackle even more than if you rattle off you need patience the chi yoga in the beginning of clouds time above says a kiddush that cotton how your day allah da bear knows that a torque is high even benching but the price Kim are surprised how could that be you know just sit Benja even even the first three brothers is an avoider so Lamesa if he's not with cloud benching properly like we said like the best girls but they are on an area he's not - but i you could say the words saying the word does not yet been but what's interesting is there seems to be a source in the Gemara that justifies the no sir kamikatsu but listen to this in cook pays a lien Aleph the muhabba based on a gomorian Baracus laughs ma'am if talking about an adult mind you if an adult said brief Ramana Malcolm Murray died Peter he's right sir for the first brough avenging that is what we call an English an abridged version avenging Ramona Marie the hi Peter he's right sir yes he's right sir that's the camera says and the Shannara quotes disregarding an adult sup the Rav and cook pays a lien Dalit vicious attack a person cannot bench the whole benching he could rely on this abridged version then on this says the mr. Brewer and Seif cotton valid you Laden katana Mew could be much kind of Democrat tell about this no sir I what are you coming along with new innovations for benching parrots is not for a cotton this is even regardless if it's good for god it's good for cotton and that's what the mr. Burriss says if you want you could use this idea for a child as long as he's less than eight years old so here we have a macabre regarding good item based on a chimera that the no sir comic wit sir does work now again it's not a wrong kind of necessarily because even a goblin could do it it's just not a regular sinner but what's more to this the back in the end of cathodic base he says it was just recently printed in vignette Xia Venice Rob Murray Tully Bascombe has Harbach a daily Hakam him of Italy a new version of the new Scirocco benching and if you look there it's tremendous it was crafted with tremendous karma the first breath of the child says the regular first brocco then and again it's long I can tell to now but it's a tremendous cost from a synopsis of every part of benching it even ends off with a feel official I am you know it ends up with the bringing you shut up bringing Messiah so it has every brother until the end of benching that we say very brief is a cannula my samishii a special I'm Elena McCall you strolled I mean that's the end of it tremendous calm this is what's referred to as the Baroness I was in makutsi it's more than the kumaras Brill Cremona because that's only the first brother this has the first route that its entirety and it has a synopsis a very brief abridged version of the rest of benching and Rabbi Yosef ISO quoted in this is a Sbrocco page 186 he says why not do that if a child finds it hard to bench until 8 years old let him do it but Lamesa played Kazim I am at the bar I looked around in all of the Sidora I looked around and all the benches that I could get my hands on come out none of them have this nahama cuts now the better benches have more to it they have if you forgot to say you ever say I did especially Ruxin but no one has his no Siham ikutsu as I saw it and now leash lame reps name is Salman until the Olive Press he first says that was the Minich in many places and you see this in old to Durham which I guess I don't have but neo let me see it but today it's not done cuz it's not a good idea to train a child to do what he's not going to do when he gets older now that of course he does not mean that you can't do it because it's wrong because if they're back and the mug and I rum says to do it it's not wrong but it might be confusing he's benching this his father's been she that he gets old to this so in other words finish you have to keep it basically a practice for his adulthood to do something exclusive for children might be misleading now what's noteworthy Rupp's name is Alma says so let's say he's not ready for benching let him just bench the first brother and that's it in other words it's better to do with first bro only then the no sama quit sir that is sanctioned by the back now if you look at the ice of imets page 283 he says you should train your children in benching piecemeal part of the time one brother second brother so although we would find this questionable happy try to tell a child the bench the first brother it's only the person that's first brother three prophet but apparently the first Brock is better than this no sir hammer could now the mice if someone does the no sir hammer could sir topple abrupt I can't see it's wrong obviously but we do see that the minik this today and all times it's not done what's interesting is that the question for the age of kena we would say what do you mean what's this island we just saw five or six or seven but if you notice I mentioned the rather mister grill quotes it until eight he could save them this short version so apparently for benching the share of clinical to eight years old and I can understand it because you need more than just to shackle me but tomorrow for benching maybe the age is eight years old okay some say that it's even earlier and today to truth is today in the pre one day they're ready benching and I spoke to some of aimed at benching the whole benching it's very tedious but they've a him do it so maybe you could say it's today's earlier but again if a child that is refuses to bend she's immature don't make a fuss and a younger age leave it with very you talk and this year of clinicas until the age of eight what's interesting I've heard this more than once is it an option to tell a child maybe he's still young the five year old a six year old you know on a bench just say burn the Fosters now at first glance then has some merit to it because we know chakra is abraca Kanellis it clues everything with the effort burn the foster eyes seems to mirror charcoal so maybe if he can't he won't bench burner flushes as an option but there are two problems to that first of all many pipes can say that a shackle does not come bread has all made a special I might say you can say a shackle Mbit also benching needs to be broken how does burn the fauces cover for three brothers and most importantly it's the wrong Center you tell a child to make it burn the flashes is that a bench Inc all you need to do that when you get there it becomes a knob god but raise their Pella the Casa glove and Eric's V Seamon cuff test he says he wrote is safer to van Germany Giro he said I saw this Minich that you their parents tell a child to say burn the Fosters she writes the a 'shmock omaha minik but he says they've got a nice avoid Kaduri the mugging i throw in the beginning of ray shield writes that if a person had let's say a small amount of grapes and a sue and a small piece of Apple which is not a Casillas either one but together it occurs is you can make your partner flushes some Tomas - echo really burn the Fosters covers grapes because I'll set a special Bravo over my angel eyes so the air for in this case you're not gonna make them a main show us anyhow since I immense do something in other words burning the first race on grapes is not a broth is not an incorrect Brussels of atala it's just insufficient so if it's better than nothing then it's probably better than nothing so you could make you burn the first race on a half because is a grave the neck is ice of apples so suck the Kazi glover ibis oi he says a kiddush sniff luck let's say someone is stuck out of town and there's no bench oh no scissors he doesn't had a bench he's gonna do nothing or he'll say partner flush because he knows burn the flesh is my heart sug the Casa Club he's not yet - benching but it's not an improper burn the forces it's a shepherd now what are you gay you can't give it you did something so it's like in between it's me not yet - benching but it's not like he's saying a phrase I say if I'm 84 he's saying from ASA burp right it's a browser that has meaning and the pelvic pail is revelation hey look I love I in Dallas is the exact same approach if someone doesn't have the siddur he can make you burn the phosphorus because it's not wrong now I did see the schmear shabbos in the undoubted curves eye and says so according to Mesa if you end up getting a sitter later on it's filled with in C are equal you have to bench because it's a funny scenario you're not yelling with the Bonaparte's but it's something in other words this is the one of the rare times that it's better than nothing usually it's nothing not better than I think you know better late than never know better nothing but this is better than nothing so Lamai so we could understand the Minich but the problem is why you train your child do something wrong it would be probably better to help him to say the first raka or at least the brahmana but again I don't think it's done on a regular basis someone asked me what he thought was alum the society the child cannot bench the entire benching is it better to say the first brother or to say a man shall a sin of omission because man shows us the synopsis of all three I told him me Angelus is not soulless imagine your boss pays you one Valley after working for a month he says Rubick Akula mixes two mixes kekulé a man not Rubens mix us you know man shows in that Charlotte she's like in the end up salary not a salary in fact many post kamal unites a banshee with him and Charlize because man is not the real thing but we'd have to be smarter than cos out if the child can bench the entire benching let him say the first Bronco by me and shall I sounds appealing but it's a cannot a child ate a kadai sphere full meal but ran out to play ball came back three hours later can i still bench what do you do the mice if if the she rico he can bench but someone said how could you say something he's came back he wants to been she can been she's not gonna bench but again you can't be behind at the child wrongly so you know someone said what you should do is give the child some a pet no I have a better idea tell child you know what you should do wash and eat more bread and bench you'll be so a foot to the midst of benching now the truth is that benching that he says is not going to help on the first suit though because it's already over but at least he'll ever set up the importance of benching I said this receiver someone said you know something that to pets are easier than washing and benching maybe but the nice that the thinness is a very genuine spin of let him wash and bench he won't help to the first to that but I'll get this recycler to the midsole Benji another Hara that I wanted to mention is a question that we had the Schuyler once and I still not clear about it but I want to thank someone that asked me this Aurora the question is a child was vomits was by Mitzvah on matauri Shabbos going into Sunday so the family came together for the Sudha perfectly Sudama toys Chavez they punked happen to have a big crowd for the Shabbos with this all sugars so they get him down Myers there and he looked at the clock was ready after this man after man the town's man someone says oh no see whatever y'all see massive of your bar mitzva because you ready vada Lila then the question was can he be the Mazar main for the tea boy he ain't out Scottie he's benching Oz God can he be Amazon man for the tea burn so the truth is what comes to mind these programs in the past the famous epic in Vegas Shakira is the fear benching on the akela the mice Aquila or the sphere if it's under Fela he ain't house cotton if it's on the sphere still full so if you go with the acai that it's on the sphere maybe maybe you could bench but the problem I saw didn't say vacated Mazama I'm a cool topic Bayes and he has a strong point maybe this is worse because z1 is totally in Seraph a healer with the other people when did he eat this food I was cotton so there was no tariff so he asked Ravana and it wasn't responded in this shape and a lady Hale Eccleston involved and was dead of a character smart he said that really Zeeman today is only the rabona and the today's demon is a watered version of the real demon and the olden times demon he benched and was mighty to the island today it's just a bison I'll mention let the boy say the seaman but l'm i said the tiny is a strong time that there was no tariff another i wanted to mention for those that bench with that remember you also have to be I to your own benching benching is at their I submit sister husqvarna so basically you're benching with the child of course have a mind he might see yourself another benching childhood Horeb I've seen this more than once a adult the benches with the case but he doesn't want to drink the wine or the grape juice his young child will be willing to drink for him so the question is could the adult make the broth offend and give it to the child to drink so it sounds funny you're making a broke of our child and we as you're drinking but says the Ravin cooked Sadiq sieve valid that this is fine because really isn't that's not an integral part of the bench English TS case the reason why we drink the wine this shouldn't be agonize that no one drinks the price so the Rav says it's perfectly okay that the Mazama makes the broker and gives it to the child to drink and as you're with that that is not a good eye on the case and the emesis this is not such an outlandish trade this we do this by your brisk that we have on Yom Kippur or tisha bub when we don't drink we give it to a child and in those jewels very rare that that they make kiddush in shul friday night and the one that made kiddush cannot drink he gives it to a child and actually solve if I would leave you with the Suffolk because I could tell you both stud them but it still bothers me very much I don't have a Clark ID but take the hook from Bianca might a child ate a full Sudha kadai sphere and it's not sure if he benched or he not sure if he said would say on Shabbos when it's my octave and he asked you what should I do he ate a full meal as a Suffolk if he has to bench a second time so how would you look at that so pastors will say what do you mean the AP they severe fake with their eyes so the former just like for us he has to bench over if you ever suck if you bend you have to bench over but wait a second he's only a cotton there be a full extent of her schemes only me drop on them so why don't we look at him as a Suffolk through Borna but then again what is sinner isn't kind of practicing when I'll be a goggle if you'll have this very scenario knees of God will have to bench over so the question is how do you look at it so it comes to mind we had once discussing their powers of climbing the rock we had at this past year this past year this rubbles fell out on Sunday so we Goodell did not make up dull until Sunday night ye would have to eat I'm at saree shop it's made of dolomite sorry Shabbos the question is one of the thousands of year the Shekinah there don't Affairs do they make up dollar matter each other's could they're eating so the I think the general consensus the place gives he does not make up dollar because why should you make Abdullah I'll set up but there's no finish in Abdullah McSally Shabbos aya Fela makes Abdullah because of honey look I even Abdullah he has a few odd Smee but if it's only a sea of a pinup there's all kind of Abdullah metoya Shabbos so the question is in this case so the question is why we look at benching meat side after we'll say he's not softened ERISA because wanna be a God we ask the bench again but then again right now he's a cotton so the Shraddha Hamer and album crest says he compares this to an issue that has a Suffolk if she benched so we said earlier even if you hold it to smell boy if I if uh but we treat her like a Suffolk Theresa so he says the cotton as a Suffolk should we been CH just because I was God that's what he will do I couldn't talk to you all making shatter like a sign for business for the wonderful share a buddy said one minute the Ingham a light is troll that is on a dialysis for months already and nobody has a whole family of 13 kids and they want to save his life be quashed nefesh mama Sh his brother came to America is ready to offer his give away his kidney to save his brother's life 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Savannah's even just take a few minutes just learnt a about session natassja diam we learned a few lockers for I think more for adults and for children but anyhow to see a diam is even on a coastal we pass can according to those sheet this Mahakala we should treat even a drop of brandy after wash the brokers only said on a kebaya or more according to the grub you could say I brought hanukkah's alia some more but it's sort of a me cartel cut so we wash in a coastal but the shoham Arab sock is you make a burka only and a kebaya not even a cos I sue the Shabbos does need a kebaya so someone that wants to know we would like to just the minimum amount for the Sudha let him have the equivalent of a half a slice of rye bread and challah for what what corresponds to that and then you can wash and bench and in the eights of the psuedo to give to a very young child less than a Casillas when he needs it without washing this what to be same upon it's not Safina as we said in fact is that some America less than occurs is the child is the same fear of kills her valium is six or seven and some say it's a little later cuz the ELISA Morris yoga when it comes to my my cranium we many people are mocked with men and women boys and girls we did see some aquiline that don't wash that all that's based on this sheet of tasteless some that meant wash and women don't wash so for those that women don't wash certainly girls don't have to wash but boys and men that should be a fear for those that have that fear of regarding regular my McCraney Zeeman women are high even seamen they should be wait they should be waited for until they come they should be called today from the kitchen but since there's a fever women boys and girls also have the identical fear benching is the brother that's the rice of the holidays we should treat it like so and Ezra it needs a thinner fit needs patience but it's good I to invest and make the child bench properly in fact some even say the fee above clinic is on the child not on the father but be that as it may there's a fee of clinic invention that's emission up even on a Casillas disappear that a child should bench in others even though there are Balan but there's a clinic Onodera Bonham women have a Suffolk if they're Mahoney the Raisa but we did see if a women have a Suffolk if they bench they should bench over and a child that has a Suffolk if he benched or not there's enough the Suarez to say that he should bench over also Suffolk because when I be a goggle in this scenario he'll have to bend children is there any Chad if there's any sad that the child ate less than a Casillas if you know that with certainty he should not bench if you have any sad that he's McLean of the bench let's say he had other foods and he's survey with that or he ate a little bit and he's full then you go down to bench but if it's definitely wrong to bench a child should not be instructed to bench if there are two versions of the nursing home acquit so we have the original nurse of based on a Kamara and then you have the Box a little longer than us up but for some reason it's not done today we prefer the child to try to bench the whole benching or at least the first brush up but we don't do things that he won't do as a garden it seems a share of clinic as eight years old so I'll make it in earlier but basically the child should have some benching after eating it's not a good idea to give the child just say bear in the first choice or even man so lice fennekin's do it right it's better the first brother than a man choice if the child delayed vent you know we have to share eco it would be advisable to wash and eat again and bench it won't help for the first to that but it's a good finish and the importance of the benching if you bench with the child together make sure you have come on into the weights up and to give a child Zeeman on the night of his Bar Mitzvah if he eight ounce cotton is questionable now more often than at the child eight on his mom it's a night which is typical by the Sudha then a cos s avenge the Mazon man but if he eight hours cotton and is benching at night to Suffolk if you could and if he could be the mazaa mean and as we said a Suffolk girl has the muslin a child and eight could ace Lea should we bench another time sir and a voice say whoever didn't give yet thank you everybody that gave tremendous mitzvah you did to help record and fish save a whole family not just a father please he's standing the back his company such an MIT so you don't catch every day now have the game could give again they be sure to click fool try move she gave give again please