Tisha B'Av: Planting Seeds For A Better Future - Rabbi Eliyahu Brudny Shlita

like to welcome everyone to tonight's share all the men who came to the shul and all the moshe snoshim and all the thousands of people listening on the phone and watching in the stream thank you biggest and mr mrs dove nierenberg for sponsoring tonight's year my privilege occurred to mr mrs iron tesla for the supports of tonight rombine eight five one eight six five one or email ist yoshinet.com tonight's version [Music] what russia about bishop [Music] has very um is a big responsibility one could think uh what wasn't said it's a day that all we do is say guinness listen to half terrorists miguel some people twice some people once and our actions in ghansen farnum with the evil of tish above but there's one sentence in the kindness of this above that makes the avoider sayon every year very daunting does mispaid khodosh every year is a new aspect even though the highway is the same text say the same kindness we [Music] soil is down claudia receives rahman al-islam with every year further in gallus [Music] and every year is deeper and deeper in this collino a [Music] obviously the mitsubishi is a new a new insight on deeper understanding and understanding that as of till now we haven't fully grasped and the and the mcqueen and seems to say that that's the avoidance patrol i think i heard this once for matissio when he said this over he said this is understanding it on a level that you didn't understand it before having insights to it like you didn't have before misfit one of the deepest enigmas and difficulties and mysteries of tish above is this paradox the seeming contradiction between the mecca of the yoim of this above the aveilus of tish above it begins with the anninos of the shiva like the gomorrah says he sat between the tanner and the kirayim and this is the boss of the yayan of sudasama sekkis which is medina the gemara we keep us of a in the nine days but that's only a khumra the ika is the dinner of sudamazekes that in the sudha of air of tissue well if you're not supposed to partake in bhasavaya and what's where does this whole thing of boss of the yayan come from terret says mesa motel anointing is the gemara [Applause] it seems that in the original day when a father died rahman al-islam so even though there is an isa boss of the yayan witsat the dinner of but what happens after the kevorah when it transitions from anninos and then there used to be a minik vice dice there used to be macabre benedict they used to eat the cobble banana not to eat wasabi iron their day of maize bayaba and in and and in the years of yard sites commemorating it people used to make nadarim is a yid is expected to reach a level at that moment of mesa mutual fund at that moment to grasp the totality of our emptiness what it means not to have a base of what means to be in golo's bay no um what it means what the significance of that is so in the moment in the moment when bishop is beginning to take off the parishes we dim the lights we yoshivalakaka we're supposed to be misty in the in the way we sleep based on the availas we have to sleep on a stone or at least not as comfortable with pillows like we are usually the availas is very tangible very palatable there used to be monogamy that brought in the besieged stone or in the torah or in the vicious that you gotta if a person got an alia bishop of mourning he made a dayana ms and this is re-showing him that when he was a person used to make border dayana amas we don't do it but it's a mini mini [Music] i still saw growing up yiddin crying crying crying eden [Music] but as the goddess continues so there's this concept of aim sarah mays marginal we're so spiritual spiritually not alive there were generations before us felt terrible pain to us it's uh it's all as i get us but the tissue of the evil of tisha that was historically been a bitter bitter day in claudius people want to zoot him with nayamaku nobody forgot and gave each other a greeting on this ship of people lived the tish above people lived the tish above in the sense that you didn't greet someone not because is oyster shayla shalom of course but who who's who's in the mood it's dark internally so that's an aspect of this to try to rekindle to rekindle that old-fashioned yiddish from oil rahim lebanon to feel to feel the misery of nisrachak of golino but that's one side of the avoid of tisha and it's arif tissue above the day we fast so the first thing is we don't say sitka zadek we don't say we don't say it's it said tischendorf we don't say it's it costs godzilla we're not going to say sitka scratch come in the morning chakras we don't say tachnon no nephilis [Music] the only tinus among all the tamiyas that we don't say avino volcano is tisha we don't say it's a yonktif how could you say where exactly the miracle's bishop of emily it is a little complicated but i think the shot goes like this the mishna says that bishop of coincides with the day that the miraculous returned and that claudius roll cried that night lailahu of night was the night that the claudius earl cried abraham they read into the story of miraglum that they were banished along wanted to hurt them wanted to destroy them which wasn't true it's living ladies that we we cry on the night of tisha [Music] but the gomorrah asks according to the husband then the miraculous didn't return after 40 days because from the day that the miraculous left tilt ish above is only 39 days and for the gemara that that year there were two days with never is there two days thomas is always 29 days that year thomas was a molly and there was a first day with heidi shaw and the second name that one time in history and and the gomorrah says state of pasic which the gomorrah learns out that is and from that we learned out that tishbo is called a mayan shot parrot says the avish to create it a day of yangtiv so that tish above should coincide with the return of the miraculous tomorrow today that the tish above should we coincide with the day of the miracle the return of the miragulim the rebellion called tissue above a made of mud of an extra derivative so we see that the the corbin is commemorated with a jaunty in order to have the corbin aligned with the miragulim davis to create a yontes that when coraline is from them so what does that mean it's a bitter day it's a dark day it's the darkest day and then that day it's incumbent of us to have a produce to see the darkness even more even more even deeper to see the darkness that we're enveloped by but it's a jantes it's a moyet so there are good island that learned that it's not really a day of celebration like young is supposed to be vadas we get together with the reborn of shalom so young if we get together with the revenue enjoy in rejoicing bishop what we get together with the rewind and shalom in lamenting what we don't have azam get down the larynx kobe is the tells of russia she just said it must have heard it's rough gifter but it's from his rebellion the rebellion of obey but that's not possible there are foreign that say even more fish above is the day that the rewind of shalom who's the bound havister is the baal urum of claudiuso when did we part ways made ten tens ways out of your shoulder and left us didn't reside anymore like it resided with us during the time of the bias yes but the real ashwani left so this when a husband leaves town and leaves his wife at home and he goes away on a business trip or whatever so there's a fee of to leave and act affectionate prior to the leaving or at the time of their leaving and an extra measure of affection has a different responsibility to be muslim asks that from us he acts that way himself so tishiba which is the day he left us and we commemorate every year that day so the day he left us there was an extra measure of closeness that closeness is the moyet because there was a there was a there was a key roof vishas and we bought it was a cure the whole darvador every year we commemorate that kirov we but i think one could approach this i'll keep shot so understand this concept i'll beep shot [Music] the original tish above origins was beheaded that's in partial in pasha's devorian the torah elaborates about the behavior with a different language and the torah says you stayed in you were in your tents and you complained against takadas boroku and you said things about kakadu that were not true you said that is leading us to this disaster of going into eretz kanan because he has a dislike for us he's our adversary he took us out of this ryan to set us up to this destruction of your day the canaanite the suprema says why does he hate us did we say because we will if they avoid the zorro because we were the children of avram yitzhak nyakov and in its ryan after two hundred and ten years of assimilation we came to a madriga of avondazara and we did henchmen on that fish we didn't say he doesn't we didn't deserve it we took ownership on that of we deserve so we looked at this story the abrasive took us out of israel it was korea the yamsuf he gave us the toy run harsinai he gave us the mon for 40 years he gave us the bear shall miriam he gave us the um the the annan covet miracle after miracle after miracle but all this was a setup we're going to go into kanan and they're going to destroy us why because the sinners hashem i saw that we he took us out the sinister son because we were not worthy of his affection and love we we squandered his ahava he became our adversary he became our saint that was the british how could you look at the revenue how could you look at the rewini shalom as anything less than a month that someone who loves us endlessly unconditionally and here we did a hegemonyfest that we went to london is acting cruelly with us he's he's taking revenge in a cruel way because he's our sauna and that was the terrible terrible hat of lael tishaba of the miraguan and if the anish of hetman raglan was that we have to spend thousands of tisha buffs in galos atoning for that first night ani ladarus that iris has to somehow bring us to a place which is a tikkun and that will has to bring us to a place that instead of priscilla in all dark matte sovereign we have to find the havoc and all that has the punish that we go through in life collectively and individually we have to find that our of the avista we have to understand that he gave me he made me full of murder and your vanilla he gave me poisonous poisonous growths poisonous weeds stated night the same night this tissue is going to be moisture shabbos if you remember pesach was much of shadows okay this year i'm sorry it's friday night heiser was friday night some kind of connection between something about the missus morrow that we do on pesach to the mitzvos matzo to the mitzvos avenues of tisha buff what's the connection if you learn a little bit of the union of pesach [Music] there's a mitzvos matzah that commemorates the heiress of pesach there's a mitzvah's murder that commemorates the before the shibut the koishiya shibut the miserable sheep that we had him it's right basic night when we first in the niece of akkad when we're in the mode of passovinisa we remember the tremendous nissim of euchilis mitzrayim the valley valley [Music] it's not only to contrast you know what kind of aoca knew it was it was first of all yin when it led to a vallciano no it's not the whole picture because the aloha first you have to do matzo then you do more if the whole idea was to contrast you should first do more and then do not the turret says no after you ate the matzah and you internalized the nissan the khasadin of yatia's mitzrayim then step back and review those those years of misery in hindsight the zelda revina shalom that took you out of israel which was he made all that misery all that kosher she would the children in the in the in the living the children that parish to be able to bathe in the water kala vena day after day after day what it looked like what hidden and it's ryan went through the tragedies the the riches the redefers it it was such a such a level of redefer that it took a 400 year sentence and was able to shrink it to 210 years because of koshiyashi now that we got out of its ryan how do we in hindsight review that kufa of misery that kufa of mishpot that kufa of suffering don't we see in hindsight that it contributed to our redemption to our producer so not only are we giving for the heroes foreign if those people would have realized this as they went through that pain and suffering that that's what's going to ultimately get them out of the triumph it would have been a different understanding state and madrid that obviously while claudia saw learnt the ammuna of pesach to the fullest the amount of switzerland which is the foundation of our immunolo is the foundation of the moon but this is a piece that obviously they didn't internalize fully because when it came to the saiyan of the miraglen after all that transpired in their history they were able to look at the story and say the sinners he's getting even with us forever he's our adversary he's and on that we went through now thousands of years of misery of goyla akha goyla of harveighs and riddiphis and with cephas we're all of how many million people historically a numa that began almost at the number we are today the number of of cloudy soil today isn't that much bigger than it was bashas it's here switzerland how could it be how could there be such a demographic where are all the eden where are the hidden that we learned in the gemara and getting about beta how many hidden they were invaded of the amount of people invaded by the corbin the parrot says we know where all the hidden are in the gas chambers in the pogroms over over the millennia and we say it [Applause] foreign so what's that for that we should get to a massive that we should be able to figure out that there's no such a thing as mishpot the navy says as the australia relaying on the last day pesach we've never obviously come to this point if we're still in in corbin and we're still in golos we've never yet come to this point of the minute clarissa arrives at enough to be what's so we're going and going and going searching for that moment for a moment that we're sitting on the floor and a kitten and it's may say mo tula fan of and it's young not it's yontif because we have to meet with the avista not it's jantiv because he has to give us a hug on the way out it's yontif because we get it we've learned from history that the patch are what keep us going the assorian artenics of so the deeper we feel the corbin it's the the deeper we have to feel the moon of shooter that this corbin is what keeps us going and let's share with each other a secret that we all know why are we here today despite the corbin or because of the khurban why are we around why is there a claudius role why is there a claudius soil today despite the corbin or because of the corbin to find it in the gra where it's um thomas gomorrah's it's everything yourself [Applause] go in terrorists israel because we weren't ready for him to go in terrorists as well because if he would have gone in terrorist assault and built the base and make those debates i mean this would have been indestructible and if the base of english would have been indestructible what would it be given for our mosques kardashian passes through so we would have had to go so yeah that's his state touches i'm worried the composite compassion is the wrong in the middle of the raglan gandhi's because of you i couldn't go in terrence israel because if i would have gone in there and says well i would you the base couldn't have been taken as a mushkin against [Music] so when we talk about tissue above a yantef that's why i think the grass says the second half of the day after the moment of ayate's age which is in the second half of the day the cross the whole of availas recedes we get up from our chairs we get up and sit and it we don't keep in hugging only ukraine din why because that's when it really we were saved because that's when the migrations came that's when the age came in the megadose and that moment cloudy soul was speared so how could we say and that's why that's the time when we inspire because the rebirth of cloudy soil is from the ashes of the corbin that's not a cliche the ashes of the corbin will preserve the cloudy soul king allah no hamas so let that be the misfit produce of course we have to grasp it and feel it like we never felt it before and feel the loss and the pain and the anguish of hormones of goals but let's also understand that at the same time all that transpires with claudius all in history the pain and the assurance and the sin asuna sauer and the displacements of the goddess is all all hased it's all coming from haver has shalom to entertain for a moment that akadeshbaar was our adversary and the day on which to really be cleaning this paradox this you saw it is tissue as we're sitting there avail as we're being mcqueen in as with internalizing what we don't have we also have to internalize that it's yontif because what we do have and that what we don't have builds what we do have and that's in general for guns claudius but each person eva called has to have his own internal bishop of and he has to look deep into himself and we all have pain hefts of oil marseilles has to put him so it's a hidden world who me who who lives a life of bliss and happiness we all have what we have but we have to be able to to see the hesed in it eva everyone and that's stuck at the meeting i mentioned before that cloudy so used to have a mini that by kriya satori on tisha but they said die in a hereness what's dianas i says we're not under madriga we don't live on that madrigal we could give a broke on the corbin over the mini cloud he saw in the rishonim's times that we made brocco and corbin very interesting thing the gomorrah says the gomorrah says that the after that we laying on that shabbos is hochechem umaya so this year we don't have such a husband but last year we did last year we don't do this we do a different heisman we have three weeks of puroni ice the first week is the first perique in yermia the second week is the second perique in here yeah me and then she the third week is isaiah but the gomorrah says not like that the gomorrah says that when the officer which is the second week because then tishogov is going to be on a sunday the following week still relaying because it says over there says why we don't do this person says [Applause] that the sector does our thing first week hear me uh second and the third week hazard but it's a very interesting texas twice it says and he goes off to a sequence of 12 weeks three weeks peroneus seven weeks is what we know as the shivered in the hampton and then two artists of chuva one is shivaya israel and one is this a twelve after a sequence that's really the sickest seder after us for the summer we start with the shiva slush of the president but it's interesting when the the taosus brings the against the gemara that's all irrelevant or you should finish the ship within against what does have to do with this gemara tusken murrah is a simple gemara that you lay in chicago you foreign we just went through that the ultimate head of the miragulim was one word besinas hashem his son what's the shadow then to take out that piggle from a yid's heart atomizer and then [Music] comes because we need a rehabilitation we cried on tissue love we were miserable untis above and there's always the danger that we didn't properly internalize that antidote called moyet that equimoyad because that's the most difficult part of tissue it's much easier to cry and not be disturbed by the moyet which is a contradiction which is a tatty the sausage is his name [Music] m because it's going to interfere with the process we're trying to keep a process that sinner is not part of the equation look how far the ghazal going seven weeks of nakamura and i've been a time holds that the seventh week is a prerequisite for him kipper if you haven't managed it by the shabbos before him kipper shooting israel but do seven bahamas because the hammer is so important for yid the relationship between knesset the relationship between eddie every yoghurt me is royal and akkad has to be wholesome has to be guns for staying divided in sleep we say in in in in in in in zmiris you did nephesh over agamon the history you did nephesh do we have it internalize that he's our you did nephesh in addition to being ava rahman he said you did never then we asked her make it sweet to us that your hour you did me so maybe that's the rammus when taisis argues with the gemura he brings the sector not to say foreign how important it is to follow the slosh of the peronus with and only when you're finished with the shiva denicante and we have a relationship of a harvard to the avista and we first state that the abrasives are where you did never shove a rachman then you could go to chu ranium keeper only then this is the omnic of the moyet of tissue yes it's a yanthis it's a yantiff that we're here to say the tale we're here to tell the tale we're here to to learn echo again we're here to say guinness again and it meets hashem so not equivalent no it should be a habit of however [Music] in creating the conditions to turn this above into hamad by sponsoring shiorim avignon shiretara remaining shrimp of the next five weeks of the summer quality 718-851-8651 or email ist yeshivinit.com for this great source [Music] for coming