The Shomer for the Chosson & Kallah - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

like welcome everyone to today's grace sponsoring call email ISP.com the other day we to dance and now hopefully we'll have another I learned of as we'll soon see there are many shs that come up hopefully we'll have the season but it's a plea that you saw many it's a whole it's a and a what is the what is the source of the of [Music] so we're familiar with and like everything in the every word is important Three need a interesting word a very strange grouping and what's the shar adds some say also which means as after child birth some add note the word in other words the initial list is very strange combination Then we added a what exactly does it mean? So from the it's not but you look at the and you look at compares and a what's the point? So it seems the is not to be alone outside. In other words, you want to go out of the house, you have to get a shimmer and that's what even though the use the word shim, it means so the as Rashi explains is because when you go out alone, there's something wrong. Now what is wrong with a oral going out alone? We're not talking about a bad neighborhood. So Rashi says precious words on Rashi and this is something that we see in other areas of Allah as well. There are certain people that we say about them. They have a bad masle. They're down. There's something wrong with them. Of course is definitely in fact the fasting fasting on the day of the yard is so the first at least the first three days and also as we know as we understand the is so but Rashi says it be it's not a sagashmi rashi's is again shed the shed basically it's the puts them in a sa [Applause] in other words a person in in this situation loses his defense and is more vulnerable for saki. The big question is okay but what's what is what's wrong with so here Rashi says a different thought Rashi says miss the the the shed is mikosi I'm sorry mkosi from his jealousy miss and that brings us now this is also a the fact the medish rabbius we know sutton we know the the famous of the the medish with where the med says whenever you find it's a jealousy maybe he's being matric why do you deserve this getting married but it seems that there are two concerns brings a s of and also is also more vulnerable to this sabut and explains why like we find. So if you want to put it there, there's those that are sick or in a bad mir and the more people the the the shed is misab and is out to get them. But basically the point is that the and the sak is a because of that great madrega. Now the truth is this should be a sh for itself but the for a that's a different and we're going to talk about which is a full for itself but I want to make a mention because it's hopefully it's not but the he says that the the reason for there's a special reason because the is not well you go out to you go out and you leave the alone he might have a sudden back. They might have a crisis. He calls for help. So he feels should never be left alone. Not day, not night because practically nothing to do with he might have a emergency, a crisis and he calls for help and no one's there. But again that's a difference here. But I want to make this point that and have a more vulnerable in fact that's the minigan worms that 30 days before the and some are 30 after or 3 days after the and should not go to Bakur. Now today the minute is they do go but they felt not to go because as we know the basic is a place of and they should not expose themselves to this but it's interesting although it's the it's not quoted in the quoted the end of andeld in it says and people say today we don't see them but they're there. So there's no doubt about it that although it's not in this we'll soon see but these are fully in effect I'll give you another example that's not in but then we're going it and the people are very concerned about it and that is about sleeping alone at night in a home that quotes and that's why someone that's a bachelor a single person or a summer bachelor they have a light on whatever it is but the fact that we don't see the sak doesn't mean it doesn't exist now before we apply this to the numerous sh there happens to be an earlier source before the gmorra regarding and that's the written by the tana that's obviously before the gar that's the one and he says the following now this is in the end of peric and he says in five different ways. One of them now he seems to be more positive. It's not this wake up you're on a very exalted. Now the has five analogies and that's why they say stories about him is how great he is and he goes out with very nice and as as he and as we find the the or or the there's a safer lateral Ericson has 18 reasons why but this is a whole different reason. This is not because it's the he needs a just like we understand that a prominent person doesn't go out alone even in a nice neighborhood because he has to have an escort he has to have a go. So it seems that there's a second reason for now the on he says it very beautifully is is the reason of but it doesn't make sense because if it's s why does he stress until he has people in the shook there's more people there's no s there are people here must be he says that so in other words. I'm going to say this because it's this we could say with all practicality. The learns learns [Applause] in it's very inappropriate for a melo to walk in the streets alone even though there are plenty of people there and there's no danger. That is the now this is noteworthy because this is quoted in we don't find it in says as we know because he's a so in other words you'll ask me why it's not why not I don't know but I do know one thing all agree It's an it's two and as we said two different reasons for this the ton was that goes out with two or more all the time not one two they went very literally now let's apply this more specifically and let's start with an interesting sh first of all as we said it's haz I saw a number of swarshak a number of shakarum heard from a Mrs. almond milk. They're following there was a and this goes back over 100 years ago and there was no bathrooms. They had an outhouse. You go to a you know somebody's out out in the privacy of the woods had to go to the bathroom and he went out and never came back. They send search parties you know people get cold feet you know but this is new. He runs away during the during the during the suda and they looked they found them neb the outouse he had passed out. So the K's father was all excited. Oh, this is a toys. I got I got a lemon and you know it's it's a sim. They went they wanted to break the toys. He says nothing wrong with something wrong with you. You let the go alone. You violated. So it was not a it was about there's a more frightening story. I'm not going even say it but in one of the a whole story about they they left let the go alone and at great danger but I was spoil you know the was of he has the most frightening story that heard that asked him and he discusses the whole about that was left alone and the shadam did a mama did a a whole a whole job on and was if you have to tell the husband what had happened but he says such a such a scary story and doesn't even flinch in other words it must have been common in his days he doesn't say I can't believe it it's unbelievable he just says the story as it is and he goes on to discuss what's apparently 250 years ago it was common someone just told me now even he left the alone he came to danger it's not a joke you know we don't see we don't see but their presence has been verified. So the first is although today we think today we don't see it but you don't see doesn't mean it's not there. Next question which is a lot more challenging and that is this of the the is it only at night or who by day. So you might wonder what's the shila. So the emphasis is regarding a similar that I mentioned earlier about sleeping alone at a home. Mr. quotes the lil gets a hold of it. So there we see regarding it's only night and not day. So maybe so the answer like the answer to all the sh is or maybe we can say even more more first of all the whole doesn't begin because says the fact that says only is even by day. [Applause] When do you need more of a by day when the people on the streets and it's visible? So why think day is any less than night? Now maybe the sak at night is probably more by night but since each reason is true independently you need both double or nothing. No each reason is alone and that's why all say even by day and certainly at night. Now >> oh I want to get to that too. Now the big question is let's say the is a big and he wants to think of and punt is in the mountains and he wants to go for a walk and in the woods a deserted quiet area by day. So the question is does the is apply? So this is a perfect had it only been the we might suggest that if no one's there maybe could go. But since it's also an is of sak and going in the in in a in a deserted area is a sak even by day it's you're leaving it you're leaving this person vulnerable to the mazik. So therefore since each one is enough of a reason we will say emphatically the is night and day busy street or a quiet area. Next question is a little provocative but it's a good question to think about this does it apply to only to the oral. So again we will say you don't eat too much because says we might question maybe is different but let's not forget the so there's no the gammor is the is and now it could be in because the applies to equally the only question that we could talk about is this concept of does that apply to as well and know is so that you could look into and you you'll find that the most I did seek and is but most All that applies to as well. Now the other sits in the front. So does the big day. I think the do are in that big day. But [Music] I did see that the word is so whatever that that's worth. But I did see the inert and more importantly the is going to is talking both and so we will say that is definitely as well to the nothing to talk about but even like of we will say yes. The next question is very nega like someone already asked it. The gets himself goes to in the morning. He leaves the home alone. Is that a problem? So from the ones but [Applause] is saying a tremendous he's saying the whole of going alone is in the street being home alone. He's talking about the being home alone. I think it's more common to call us home alone for and typically she might be home alone. So the makes the a little more challenging than it is. In other words, it's hard to find for the seven days. Now the is saying when he walks out of the house to go to she needs in the morning which is not practical. Now again we'll say the should not be seen like the and says they're going alone but if a call is home alone no one sees her what's wrong I the gmorra the gmorrah seems to say it's alone but we could say very positive going out in the street is more of again it seems clear that the is going out of your house being home there's no problem but even like the there's no there's no s the only time we find a sak in one's home is going to sleep alone oh that I understand when a person is sleeping he's already you know he's maybe there's more but I did see emphatically although the says it even when at even being home alone it's not true I was he said told him that The is when you go out of your house, a cow that's home alone should not be a problem whatsoever. And plus, don't forget when the and the fact that that we encourage the to go to the minion for seven days as we'll soon see and I is leaving the kala alone obviously and I saw this many other there's no problem. In other words, it's leaving one's home alone. Now we the only time we more like we said earlier leaving a alone especially in the morning you got to go to they might have an attack I might have an emergency that's different but the is not like and the now if wakes up the first morning after marriage and she's home alone she's scared no okay so that's that's but we're talking about again I did see And that says she'd not be left alone. But that's not the Now interesting question. A sha was uh was dispatched to go to the bring the to and he didn't show up. Could the go alone? Ah, you don't go alone. He's going the street alone. He's on his cover. So that doesn't seem to be convincing. First of all, he forgot based on so the reason of the still applies but more so this is the last of the last the says ally a person can say you know what I'll do what I want it's my body you know we do this to a person we give a malus zi beautiful bear girl has a beautiful why it's not your body you have a mission you have a precious a a life don't be m so when it comes to sak you can't be on s so zil both reasons would say that it can't be on his coet now let me add a little bias the ramon eanza the next ram He talks about and he says that the has to be there for the for the seven days really for the whole year he can't do but not not all agree but there are more she can say you know what I rather you go to work you'll make a few dollars I don't mind now others argue but does say so we see helps so why do we say regarding it doesn't help but when it comes to things that are totally in her coveted that her his devotion to her and even that but when it comes to is a a real sak whether it's or both reasons apply and that's why if you look in and of course in he says that he's not the she or he is not the bless is it's a in whether it's or not and the mere fact that in it says that he should not go alone in heaven and no one says but he could be so why didn't they say something you know it's there's no about electricity in they didn't have it but they had the concept of it would make life very easy if helps that's why I think it's posit doesn't help there was on now we don't see it but you look it was very they have the whole the whole about making is on left his new at home his apartment and he's going to the for come without the new he's so he wants to run home not tell the run home and come back but he thought wait a second I I need a sha he's embarrassed to say he left at So he had he'll say that I'm nothing to worry about. So I I saw one of the he doesn't have the sh I just made up the sh but he says he says he thinks that lea just like he could eat a clue for food under the bed. Now I didn't have time to speak to him but I think it's a mistake here and maybe he's misqued because you can't compare the two when it comes to dev of sak only then there are some that are make lelay for example we don't say the full some say that's why we don't dip it m into salt even though we need of salt because in fact some say is mutim fine but That's only when the only is but when it comes to the there's a second independent reason. So how does relieve that concern and that's why you highlight the points and both have to be satisfied. So even if you're going to say there's no s but there's still the problem of so I think should get a and go home. The next group of questions is who is qualified to be a shy? The Kala's brother's waiting already 3 months to be a Sha. He's all at 5 years old. He doesn't know what it means, but he knows it's a special is a 5-year-old enough. So the embassies the whole concept of is not in the or but because the Gmorra says and what do they mean? You have to stay home. So the teres like I told you like we should have mentioned earlier. I forgot to mention earlier in says to one person the shed is [Applause] when a person bumps into a a a shed he's in for trouble. In other words, the could be the shed sees the the the two people, but the is that a shed a mazik has the ability to mazic one person two people he can't he's he's they're untouchable. So although it's not that that helps but it's understood it's understandable and it seems that no one will say listen stay home for 7 days you're under house arrest don't go anywhere it's illogical we'll soon see the says when he wants to go to sh let him get so I think it's although it's not but it's understood understood helps once we establish a helps now the question is who is qualified to be a shy. Is a koton a good shya? So I'll follow Israel and answer a question with a different question. Let's say he wants to go to a by car calls a car service and a guy pulls up a driver. So of course being in the car could be a need but let's the question is a go is that good? So the emus is if if you're looking at a as a bodyguard. So if the guy is a trustworthy guy, he's probably a better bodyguard than a 5-year-old boy. He's strong, muscular. But here I'll tell you all the po I did a lot of research all the agree that a is not a valid. In fact the po say that a fry although he's not like a but he's also not a why just the is not a bodyguard it's not a sak the saka is a metaphysical of a shed of a so it's not a toll in muscles or strength and you need a kad you need a sha that has some in other words it's not a body god it's a god And the giml explains this but they all say the same it's and you need a to be a soy is not a fry is not a but now this might play itself out regarding a because if for minion you need a bar I understand but who said you need for and all the ps agree A cotton is good. The only issue is what age cotton. So some say he has to be about it has to be at least five or six five or six year old. Some say eight or nine. But there are number of that seem comfortable that even a baby can be a valid. Now you're wondering baby but the po can say very practically need let's say the husband goes to sh and then leaves her home alone. So we sat at home you don't need a sh but those that are even at home the baby is a but the is that said there's no difference boy or girl any child is a good what I thought was a beautiful and it's not only a but it's the the good he discusses the is which is common for many some bachelors that the wives are in the bunk family and they're home alone and you're not asleep alone in home. So he says it's to him that for this you're not asleep alone but even a baby will take away the why because the is not the baby's a baby there's a there's a being there and he brings a beautiful because is like one even a baby could be why because you have you have a body he's a person we pas No, you have to have a a at least but it comes to it's that all you need is it to take away the so if you have a baby there the baby's so that's how convinced he is the dollar also says it even regarding even a baby could be a good the only question I wondered is before the ma is the baby laa could be without the the baby's an oral And the in the of it says comes the fulls. So then you could but it's there's enough that hold that a baby's good that certainly five or six with that that should be okay. Now I did see an interesting I'm sorry y let's say you rely on a baby and the baby's asleep. So a sleeping doesn't seem to be too you know practical or or or worthful worth you know worthful at all. But now he says you need a that's awaken a sleeping will not help. However says that minig once you have a person you know it's not again it's not a bodyguard it's it's a god what's a way go sleep now the next question is an interesting question because it has very another important let's say for example the is running late came late and it's not going to sh they want to get there in time meets someone it's time let me talk to I'll catch up just keep Google go I'll catch up with you So now the is not is of the so how do you look at that you know we don't have we don't have but the quoted in the news wrote many many years ago he says it emphatically he has to be if he's out of even though he sees him it doesn't help. Now for us it's hard to understand because if it's a so why can it be he's watching him the ter probably held that reason it's a it's a so escort to the king's going and then tagging behind where's the but even if you hold it's a d of of of is a So if it's a if it's a physical so you could you know you take out the gun you could shoot the the gun from but if it's a ver of you got to be the god why who said that is good but this what the said >> okay in the room I hear I hear but but here is going you don't have that now said it but What is interesting the kazinish was consistent because the next shila is much more nega and much more of a welcome ka what happens often is a sha either doesn't show up or you can't get a sha but the are practical verses I'm not going out alone I'm going on 16th Avenue or third or whatever I'm going there are teams of people here the the streets are buzzing with people in the morning shakers there's 50 people in the street I'm not alone so the question is do you mean an appointed sha a designated shy or as long as you're not alone in the streets. So this could be based on as long as you're not alone we apply the shed is he's not alone but if you hold it's reason independently true. So where's where's where you're going? There's other people. They don't know who you are. They're not you. But in the same seems to hold it's all a dollar. And now and the same exact from the if doesn't show up just go in the street and be be a tailgator. Be next to someone. Now it's probably the here but is still because if you hold you have to show some type of a where's the maybe the is that he's going with people so it's enough of a but I can just tell you the was that he held going in the street as long as there are people of it doesn't have to be that he's for as long as he is some type of connection is enough of a connection. The next question is a fascinating sh. Let's say you have the they want to go shopping quiet street. Do they need a sha? Now what's the sh because so now they're going together. What changes? Two add up to what? I I heard the two negatives make a positive but no two make up or better yet let's say you have a very common in Lakewood they have apartment buildings that usually the the the rent department want to go to there's no sh one protect the other one so two don't up so I told someone you know what the is asked what is the sh between andala and onion and garlic So let me explain the redeeming factor here in both these two is it's not it's two but then again it's where do you see and in the same but what's the so I'll tell you we need that we don't eat an unp an unpeeled peeled egg or garlic or onion that was left overnight. So how do we how do we eat egg eggs egg salad that was made out of shabas once you add a food you add mayonnaise or salt whatever you add it's fine so now if a person peeled onions Thursday night to make a chant and he peeled eggs didn't have a chance to make a chunk he put it back in the refrigerator Friday morning he woke up he had a mixture of of onions and garlic and nothing else no oil no mayonnaise nothing to surim is that so I saw and the tr said someone asked me to sh and he said the is one of them alone and this is the unique situation that two is add up to a so he says this but according to that I say it might also add up now it's not convincing for two reasons first of all understandably gimmel and almost all pis can say that onion and garlic is not mut if you add a neutral ingredient mayonnaise that's mid but how to surum add up to aa so they dispute the whole contention that onion and garlic is mut but even if you go with the that onion and garlic itself is mut because there we could say that lisa In this in that case it's not the is but and somehow adds up and it shouldn't be a problem. But here if the is showing and walking in the street alone two it's like two two walking in the street is that less of an ism or more of an ism. So according to the it shouldn't be a but said it and that's the meaning it's hard enough to get a the want to go al go alone that's fine could be the is even a even a mel has a privacy of his own home he doesn't need intruders at all times so the want the privacy that's again there's a little of an issue here why it's so But the end of the day it seems all the that don't need a now that's a little more of a sh because there's not a vote of privacy it's just practicality but who said I did see the says the because I think is worse but then I looked hard I found the on the old he says a bigish he says [Applause] so he's saying a big even so once I saw that so we we follow this it seems that the is the covered maybe that's the self-co I'm not sure but definitely and the they go alone and not to worry what's very is when does the obligation the of begin so in it should start after the you know when someone's engaged they call him I have no problem with that but in he has no whatsoever other other than getting presents and being happy when does have after the when he's married. There's a story in the he said you heard this from Pervosi once met Raa Salvik son of the night before the and he's going out. So he says where's your it's already the he says my father held that the that is only after the I don't need and the same approach in the in the in the end of page he says he came the theor came to the he says my son's getting married when does begin he said when he becomes a after And this is also mentioned in the 64 the needs when he's simple when he's not when he's called now what when he called I'm sorry now this is also the test says it also it's not there's nothing to talk about now you might say But in they they don't say beginning from the morning. Okay. They say don't say when they see the so that's is not necessarily the same thing. But it sounds like the for seven days of now some are a little more quote unquote. No it's not only the it's the goes with that approach. I saw others also say that. So no you want to be in other words you get married Tuesday evening Tuesday morning but the pella is people have a meaning the offroof now the offroof is either on shabas or shabas now first of all why shabas and why not and why shabas and why so this is interesting the minig really should be from the shabas of we'll soon see why but since perhaps shabas is itself a shir we say we Don't say maybe that's why you don't hear on Shabas which is very fair to say the says Shabas does not does not protect people the pay says Shabas protects us from the um not from so Shab is not going to help our problem but so why offroof the he doesn't go out from the from the but the there's no problem until the now he doesn't say why 26 does say why and he quotes an unbelievable just was in he says that the mini was to sell to the highest bidder but he said it's inapprop appropriate the wealthiest fellow gets he learned a whole year and now he doesn't know the how could he become a so he decided to give it to the most person but the minute also was if there's a in attendance they gave it to the so he asked the wait a second logistically it's not how do you have a on you don't get married on y so is over even if you get married he says no it's talking about a week of week of the Yeah. week of the He's called the He's called So says spelling out because you're saying maybe but he didn't get married yet. So he says the following even though in he's not the doesn't have to show his to the but this does until the but regarding this is enough to require him to have a this is the best I could find why the week before it's this based on this that he quotes that that's also considered a now >> what truth where you say >> anywhere any >> he doesn't but he doesn't so that's that's the issue the week he's learning the week of this now now says some say why so it could be because and I want to add and you look in I have the in front of me. In other words, so the is the most dramatic display of now some say if they make a shabasa for the I'm not sure what that means but she doesn't get an aliyah that's for sure. It's also good but not the the the whole of is to make him a officially declare him you know so we have three men hug him the meaning of most is after the some extended and we did see a from Shabas now Shabas probably also from the and beyond now each should follow his own says the oil this ta the before after the but he understands those that have their meaning they keep their meaning I'll say make it the week before so the iss of the is hectic enough busy enough it's enough pressure on the family to make for the whole week before is very difficult so if that's your so but if it's not your and start from the day or the after the now that leads us to the next question if cannot find the sha he wants to go to shakers. There's no sha what should he do? So the one side to be is he goes into the street if there are people in the street we had that but could be even if he lives in a suburban area there's no one in the street because here let's let's go again if the reason is who said that's that's I saw this in the a beautiful safe on on he says imagine I want to have praises for next three hours. So, but doesn't who said that? If you don't have it, then go any more. So if the reason is we could apply a very legitimate and listen to this the preacher seems to say the following he says there's a minute that that doesn't go to for seven days he calls it a he says the only is he shouldn't go alone to sh because he so get but he's absolved from seven days he calls it a minikus So the issa he can't go the and the in the regarding going to a brisk they all say if it comes he cannot find the sha better stay home that's not that's not that's not the right thing to do if he doesn't find the sha let him go on the street number one the streets in our streets is enough but even if there's no one on the streets that I saw in per 26 he said you could then you could rely on the of said this as well in other words we're not being mousled in the mic we're being we're just being in fact the same he wasn't he was very mach this many it says he was once walking the street and he met was going alone he says we where you going Where's your sha go? Nah, don't worry. He says, I'm not I'm worrying. And he stayed with the until he got a sha. So it's not a zil in a minute. It's just basically understanding a sense of priorities. So when you have a the best thing is get a sha even a young sh is good enough. If he has no sha let him go into the streets and he's doing a mitzvah to miss on on these great days of is something that's not the right thing to do. Now, you might ask, well, if I'm going in the street without a making it worse because people see me and I'm without okay, what could you do? But for that, it's a it's a but who said that is in the in the it's page 39. These stories written by eyewitnesses. The story is told that came to with the leo. He's getting married that day. He's going to the place where the kassan is. He's taking along for the day. And boy did he get upsak. He says, "Who gave you a to take a boy from yeshiva and miss a day of yeshiva because of" and then he said something interesting. He says, "What are you worrying about the mazik? Who said the mazik are interested in you?" So he says, "You go, you'll be okay and you leave the baka learning." So the baka left without the now it's a story because it gives you a sense of priorities. Don't forget it was not after it was the day of the you want to be fine but get get but get learning get get your brother at 5 years old but you know the the grass tokite or kite turns krunkite is not is not of a virtue. So I guess it's just a perspective to see what's important. But this is printed and he said like he said he went out with the bra without a sh. Now someone asked the question should not that common but it is common person's remarry how both do they need a so the answer is if the reason is he is just a short if the reason is form he is and as early as that whenever there's is there's a dinner of don't forget the isra is not a it's not an extra credit it's a question is when to apply it then we say but once you see and even though a do need another point I wanted to mention this he says and it's a beautiful theim the preacher discusses about the going the ding he might not have a soasha you wearing what's that to go if you tack a hole that alone is also so why do you why do you push the to go ding he's leaving his kala without a that's see the the you can say well that's that's you know debatable but to leave a kala for seven days sa who gives you a right must be that that was pion Even at home alone is not an is the is going out an interesting minute and you you won't believe but you look inside you can see this some say based on a and that the minute that didn't go to was not because of he didn't go for seven days because when he comes to he's going to from now today we pay to to the and here they didn't let him to because we don't want to lose our I guess those days they understood the test the unusual incredible power of the of the says that one and the other person was finished so some say that's the reason why he didn't go to sh cuz he was an unwelcome guest no one wanted him you want to go go to places a bris But the mis again the the min is not like this or said it right away. The min is that does come to and does and don't worry. Let me leave with one more beautiful gem. the a he quotes a dash I don't think it's probably before but he says what's the he has a different reading in the gor he says you notice the chose two interesting examples in one and he said look how because you find something tells us So too. So the Gmorra is crying out to the you're in a very unique status and very of right now you have a clean slate. Right now you have a get a get a get a keep that level says that's why it's so compar it's all an opportunity to keep and talk to you all. We learned to help clearly was we have a beautiful but as we see there's says the reason for is and the is helps because he's no longer because the says in that's the quality that's the potential or the limitation of a a shed. 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