The Purim Drunkard In Halacha - Rav Yakov Zev Snith

[Music] like to welcome everyone to today's from [Music] Smith drunker in sponsoring 718 851 8651 or email.com Smith has its own unique shist people ask can they D in this in this situation can they bench if they maik do they have to pay and as we'll see that this today the drunk in PM drunk actually is really how it applies to all these different different but as we'll see it's really for many on a weekly basis daving after sud comes up often and person drank is we all go from sud to I a person had already drank during the suda so really to learn the Su properly I think we should step back from moment and ask a simple question how would we Define the status of a of a shik of a drunkard he's not himself he's under under the influence of the alcohol maybe he's like a I say he not a he's a very intelligent person in fact true Maybe he's an e after all he's not himself or maybe he's more of like a y a person that's sleeping is a nice person but he's not himself now the truth is a shik is not sleeping if he's sleeping he so it doesn't seem like any of the two so let's look into our as we'll see there are six garas that give us very clear guidance to characterize the the in it's also a person that drank is not of and the learn the next the next So based on this both that for a person that drank a r of wine to pasin there gasin Ina and now this is a tremendous because if you talk about an so we have to assume that is the small see p we drink the big but here you have to do that means around 3 o you can't P him he's not sh he's far from sh he always drinks so it seems once a person drank wine he's P to and says when he when he when he drank so now we saw something about re of wine now it's not sh but is a let's move on now we're talking about a person that drank doesn't say how much he that's quite a jump to be is one thing but to call it you know one of the worst says and here a person that but that that's not enough learns from if someone so either not either he's both now the question is what's the difference between a and so gives us clear guidance if he's still able to talk to a King let's say a king suddenly appears see a person when he's when he's high he's not himself but all of a sudden the king appears and I must mention both the and the point out is King any person is misbehaving all a sudden his rebi comes the r comes so he soers up a little bit so that's considered a he drank but he's in control once he can't talk to a and he does it anyhow that's the biggest if someone tries to D and and and his kav weakens and he drifts off a little bit no we could understand but how do you come to talk to the but this not this that's but it's also to and he did it he's not and if someone for some reason and he's saying to answer and this is quoted this is our introduction first of all the by pasing and what is a now this is daving how about someone that make a he wants to eat should he eat without a so this is the second source and Trum where some people can't take off Trum because they can't make a he's not dressed so he can't take a truma because he he can't make a but can take off truma not because of the because he won't do a good job taking off the is that a could make a the only problem is he won't do it right and indeed thei quotes now this does not mean this means benching now this is a tricky question because benching is the one must says we treat Bening like regarding of is the benching is the most important we have but then again it's not so the question is if a person Ben at least that's interesting he starts sh ends and say even and we soon see is now not a real sh he's just very cloudy but what does it mean you have to realize in their times they didn't have soda they drank wine by a suda and a person drank by a regular suda and he was Tipsy he was at least so what you do you eat a sud and you go to sleep and wake up two hours later you can't even bench so in the indicates that even is allowed to bench in other words a should that's the sh and but allowed to bench so what do we have so far he now shouldn't but he have his good he could Bening a is certainly L to bench and we'll soon see enough she that even a sh is L of bench we'll get back to that soon let's go in orderi continues and this a beautiful h told me daving and he told me benching what about krishma krishma is the ISA but then again you're not eating why do you have to take when you Ben but when you so the Shi has no okay so now we have and now let's go to another a can't but it doesn't mean only a sh cuz the learned this that we compare a to a and is also even in a of wine so to a now from the sh is it gives an indication only sh but the quoting the of the a that drank he made Kish by mistake he can no longer and presumably this is like the learns and it's because it's comp comparable to a and therefore once he drank a he's not allowed to P okay very good very good so if he stopped in Middle then he's allowed to if he drank if he didn't get drink too much good if he had water I left it out for reason we get to that soon good good now the the next gar I think is the most revealing because don't forget a r doesn't make come out anybody sh so obviously the problem is so we have daving we have Kish but here we come to the real identity of a shik and that's the same let's say a person sh not a a he's drunk and he made a sale or he bought something so it's he he gets now we're talking about a sh not a re and he did get you know to get you have to be a big says once in seven years they happened once in 70 years they try to find this man is drunk he did a and you give him the p is now what do that mean didn't we see they can't DAV so maybe the next words explain the first part of the when is a a if he's now what does it mean why is PL the S the SML the symbol of shik because as says twice he did a and he had no idea what he was doing so that level is totally not accountable and the the end of says is and that has a very good identity if the way the explain we soon see if the next morning he wakes up and he says you know what you did he goes no I I don't remember anything that's a and he's held fully accountable so now we see two statuses in a shik there's a regular that's and is a but the question is what about the regular M like a so I'm tell I think the is very P I saw this my own experience you know a person at you know sometimes gets even with other people he doesn't like and he makes fun and he screams and he yells and and and and he and he berates them and I that wasn't my fault I M couldn't help it so I someone told me this ver 20 years ago and I see every gets true more and more true matter how shake a person is he never embarrasses himself he never says about his Dark Secrets his past that he did terrible a that he doesn't say he doesn't give away his own business deals he's only hurting y why because the end of the day a shika is in control you know he has his targeted victims that he wants to get even since kanak is making up a list of people that he's going to you know settle the score but himself he doesn't say what he did when he was young and he's afraid they're going to find out so I thought you I thought you loose so he's a sh that's why the only p is if he doesn't know what he's doing and he will spill his own Secrets also but is not he's enough accountable that he and you'll see that again whatever he does is unless he but the second place in in this is even more revealing imagine sh made Kad there was I don't know why but there was K of because he's accountable look into it saying make sure he's really if he's playing games then he's back to a regular shik in other words to be a shite you have to make sure that it's true but we see from this and again to my knowledge if I'm wrong please correct me less I haven't found any one any L although but it's not on the map so L is no even by and the and is and we soon see each particular case is even and knowledge has no status whatsoever now let's apply this more specifically so first of all what we say to the following sh someone comes over to you I heard you heard you learned the of a drunken I don't know what happened and I I was before mus a regular shabas I I felt I went outside I make KES I drank her and I want I just finished making KES what's a sh not a sh it's he made it to says based so once no difference but and that's another I didn't yet mention tries to help become sober so basically once you drank lot there's no but if he drank just a r so if he walks around a little bit a mill 18 minutes walking or a little bit sleep that will help him sober up from Ras once he drank more than Ras and he's really a sh nothing's going to help I mean you have to sleep it out but just the RAS walking or sleeping does a trick so the learn out from this points out says it that means Aus can't D but he has an a walk around or go to sleep a few minutes so there's no doubt about it if some once someone drank even a mere R of wine he should soon the the might be there's no other minion but basically this is however now we come to some very important regarding says you quoting in other words AI should not D but it comes to a point that he's back to himself right he doesn't sayi the rest of his life so how do you know when you're back normal you drank R 2 minutes ago right so he's AI an hour later he's still AI so if you feel that it doesn't have any effect on you you let it why because they wore off now the more one drinks the more one has to be has to wait but it would could be and that's what some say that if he drank he knows himself he's a gra he's a big man big person and he drinks wine all the time and R doesn't make a dent in him so it doesn't have to wear off didn't never it never set in if he's certain that it didn't have any effect so it's like he says I know I drank that was 2 minutes ago maybe the first second it had an effect but I'm okay so this is a person has to be honest but if he knows he doesn't feel the effect of the wine then he's so not with being he not a now you have to be honest because does do something but at least we could say the head of the is he feels it has no longer any effect but don't forget even a little effect makes him a now on this there are more adds another and that is now this you see when you learn gamar it's I can't explain it but it's the truth they had strong wines their wines that were undiluted you couldn't drink and in fact you added five pots water to one pot wine it was still a guffin our wines even the stronger wines we could drink them now is it different grapes different people I don't know you learn gamor says radishes they couldn't eat plain it was too strong how radishes you can't eat so grapes but at the end of the day and is is talking about pasing which is but he says after drinking our wine there's room to be make because it doesn't have that effect now exactly what again don't forget you have a strong wine that is 15% alcohol so you can't say it's not strong but definitely we could take that in consideration our wines are not as strong as their wines so we have the M saying you're in control full of control then there are more ads what he says K nearly very re his own if you dve him with the you could also dve now again nobody is m a sh remember no whatsoever talking about ring from until what ever now this seems right away suspicious because the typically quotes others and here he stresses nearly if you use a you could D now if you look up the his own dark you'll see that he's not at all happy with his heta he says I would say if he use S then maybe you could have him then he adds don't be on it because I didn't find any pis that says this I just wrote it to that people DAV as a and was very sensitive to instead of criticizing he tried to find a justification so maybe it's okay now what does he mean p the main thing is you should be able if you're going to miss words or skip words and confuse and go from so who needs but if you have a s you're anchored but it's interesting in the D that he wrote first he said don't rely on me but he put it into the but he stress came nearly so a lot has been written like make up your mind you say it's not a good hat it is a good hat but I think what's ped is when a person drank just the rav and he's a person that drinks wine he can handle R without a doubt then you have besides and the fact that it didn't Dent make a dent so we have three that he's in control the based on is different and's original using aid but then there's another this is the and he basically says today who ask even when you're not so when you you don't have much to lose now no one should be insulted there already says this in when someone without he wasn't but again because we don't have again without kavana now no one should be insulted but we don't have much kavana to start with now of course each is not a but you add them up but what's most important that I think this is most is the in per B Sim and the a in this we mentioned earlier did not the whole day because he drank so he couldn't pass so wait a second and what you doing there's no no but daving maybe the is of DAV as a again no one but no one is don't forget about the is you drank wine during the week's for no reason you want to come that's inappropriate but what does a do when the gave us and gave us what are he supposed to do so he says and quoting a that this is shows the beauty of Cl is when drink and chick we know what happens but when what does he when he drinks I should say what does he do after a lot of wine goes and that's the perhaps the of a so he takes his Med and he uses c g he concludes today we have noav anyhow and he so again it's not a it's not a for real but that's okay and I think most I think of all you see there the truth of his words go to any I mean the night ofbody some people are crying and they're crying everybody's daving yeah people five minutes ago was they were outall but that's the so the applies that and certainly on now so the doesn't course quote this but he quotes the and so we have now another I must mention the SM one of the he says sounds pretty on the bottom says it can't be but the does quote this as a so we have a number of we have and basically this is why we could say certainly that drank before M he has all these and now of course the the question is let's say he drank more than a little bit and he feels it a little bit so now we don't have the main head to the m that it wore off so here we have someone asked this question what should he do the problem is if he waits any longer he's going to miss this man let's say he I give a perfect example a person many people there's barely time to have a suda the suda is so quick and they run from the sud to you you bench them with re you write to and let's say he fails the wine or shab so sud and he goes 5 minutes later after the sud he's probably a he didn't wear off so says let's say you know you're afraid you're going to miss this man let's say the case of going to miss this man it's going to be time for soon then allows us to as because don't forget is not it's only you have to have your priorities again it's not not but have if he is this is the end of this man now there another and that doesn't say but and both say let's say it's the last minion he could wait it's not the end of his man he lives in a small there's only one 130 it doesn't have all the minion so he can wait till 5:00 and be so they say missing is also a big loss better than now you can understand why many people make and they d right away now of course you should limit the amount that you drink not more than R but there is a he the better in all these cases is if you make have to make kidish use grape juice cuz we'll soon see grae ju for k for it could be a problem but foring it's not a problem at all it's not a it's a din in sh or potentially SH now many most make Kish on after shakas but there's plenty of time till M and plenty of dancing plenty of of walking around the dancing around whatever it is so that's not much of a problem next question is let's say a person by the perm suda and he drank he's holding he had a few he's doing G good I mean he's definitely High question if he's chicken out but he's very high can he bench what should he do he'll go to sleep he'll wake up tomorrow morning but then again he's a high sh and maybe so I hope you remember this is the no doubt about it there's a special and listen to words it he can't talk properly why don't you talk straight ter is he's not talking about a real he's close so se you see a is a louder bench the next s and it was a so in he's fine now to find the is hard because is incredible but you can't find the Ste from one to the next so the P the other say is look at the it's very clear is talking about but a good but he's a bench he's now he's that could not he's not talking so straight but he still could be so when someone onms AOW a bench once he becomes a that's that's a suff because from the it's not clear what the sh sh and the sh concludes so it's lot in between to understand what thei meant but it's at least a and a he should wait and until he's always Sher but if he bened as a Sher so that's the special of a now he says an unbelievable what do that mean he's talk slowly he says most people talk fast but who said it's a Mila when you come to a King you talk slowly right you think what you say so maybe that's that's why did perfectly benching is perfect but in a sh then he's out of control but no doubt about it I should say that a could bench again always use a Ben you have's additional should wait but if he can't wait he's afraid now or never and that's what says the don't play around and bench as it is and try your hardest to do it right Nowa I should mention once all whenever we have a we have a stickle of suff always use a s then you have that ra and practically it works now the M says and I'll say once once for all this is only a by sh sh nothing not benching not ding not nothing it says now usually doesn't make but that's always never a a a at all the next question is interesting and here you see the importance of learning properly let's say you have nine people and one shika can you make a zon of 10 is is a sh or a counted into a zon I we soon see about a minion so when you learn superficially M says is bench maybe a Zan of three it's a ple he's allowed a bench but he can't make Zan how could that be so it's more mysterious is quotes ver the of the who quot his is p based on a b doid Simon hey there is no such b David there's a printing era and meant to write B that's one of the early now I have a we have we have a base Yehuda the Chas and you look at up it's just the opposite and this is very very important to understanding the status of a shik in B yehudim can you count him into a minion not about Z about a minion so he says it's AAR and which you think it is that a is don't forget what he does so why can still why can you count him to Dominion right oh then he says is a doesn't count but a regular sh what's wrong he says it's not like a yain cuz a Yash you could wake him up but a sh you can't wake him up so his analogy is that an is not counted into a but that applies only by a a regular shik is counted into a minion now this is scary because the M didn't see b or B David he quoted which you allowed to do but now we got just the opposite picture and in it's if he's and what he does at this state how could he not be considered he's talking about a minion but why is IM different so again the M when you learn it you'll you'll be surprised but at the end of the day to say that he's counted even to a minion of ass or a z of ass seems to be convinced based on base Y unless he sh should not be can be counted into a z now can a make a now the person that drank made a br wine don't make another I mean the end of his Su he's having a dessert piece of waterm he wants to make an so I hope you that's our you shall me says based on as long as he knows what he's saying the puts together benching so it seems even a sh is allowed to make a nowes has a different gear I can't get into now and the says you should be if he's not to makeas but if the question is a or not have to make a so sh should should wait if he can but if he wants to he wants to he went to the bathroom he if he could say it properly now again again is very insistent it doesn't help I'm not saying after the people but after the S the second night people drank four Co of wine and many people count sphere then that's P because that's only and is to make question it's it's almost don't forget we to say before so he have a person who is sh not but sh almost and he knows enough to ask what to do can he now absolutely not have to no no difference but kishma what would you tell him so we know this is and there was no left so says don't forget kishma has is a and needs a lot of kav so it's more comparable to ding the M quotes that you could be more M by kishma because it's not like daving is and basically he adds that also is very so he says the following if there's no choice it's almost say kishma after when he soes up sayma again with of course so so therefore you have what the best you could do but kishma is more is more of a sopic than benching and BR ding as we said there's very little leeway if any not drink at all before not even any beverage but not even not even even a little bit of wine but what would you say to the following you're it's a regular shabas during the winter and says I have to have soon and I can't I feel very I have to make no one else is making Kish not like someone else and there's no Kish Club in the it's only him and he has to make kdes what should he do he learn you learned this year advise me what to do so I'll give you three choic tell me what you think best option number one is make KES on wine and drink the problem is but you safe option number two make on grape juice sounds like the best wrong not so P listen to he says since the of is like like then nearly it's to drink even even grape juice CU is also to drink with the rice of grape juice so and gra in fact I don't want to tell you but holds that if he drinks schnaps even if he's a sh because he didn't violate is not okay most you don't yeah yeah but what he says was that that there's no problem of stops so grape juice is says that and the third choice is maybe now schaps is less of a than a of grape juice but many people don't make Anns if you have wine you have to use fine I'm not getting into that now but if someone's men is not to use snaps for KES so then this situation is not different the only a he has is grape juice but what's interesting is the poim say that schnaps is not a problem for a c a little bit of course just like you know I once saw that someone came to to stening during the nine days and they had yard they brought and someone said yell what are you doing it's the nine days did you forget so did you forget the the is n days only not so it's interesting for we have this suff which is the lesser of the problems if you have a minion but you want short can you count a sh into the minion so this is he doesn't count a regular Bas this make now others hold that maybe we treat listen to this like he's not by his and is you could count him to a minion and so that might be the reason not to count the sh but if he's not a we have at least he's allowed to be counted into a question made KES on a regular shabas he drank a of wine and the knock on the door I ask the what should the r do so you might know better than I do but if he drank wine a of wine so it's so there are that say it's diluted he drinks it in two sips not one time so it doesn't have the effect but no doubt about it there is very warns us not the even have to rub if you're not a p not a rub same thing and there are certain like I told you drink a a little bit slowly add water but p and p is a much bigger problem if person has a sh you has to call R from a different time zone that's either you know after for before but that Dr would make a very early S as early as possible P By Night a very quick s go to sleep wake up and he's available for all the shus because brother drank foures can't P so said we have have to know that this is this is probably the most and are the most it's it's the the is the doesn't it depend how much alcohol the wine has no notab because it's a once it's not no one get CH okay now question a shika did damage not onur I don't know why somebody get sh the rest of the year it shouldn't happen but let's say he did does he have to pay so the answer's every last penny because but I'll tell you that the r says it and all the agree let's say he's a he's a and he did damage that he why he's not the ter is what gives you the right to become quotes that even because you this not a he you got to be responsible the responsibility is the trademark of get to soon now now going to learn in all the so basically doesn't change in fact P likees writes you could see the pain in his words say I see people doing a on they they don't D him properly they don't bench properly on this day how could you be C that don't it's a day of not a b How could a person do have so the D has has to be a daving then and the benching has to be a benching if a person does even one even misses one benching I'm sorry know to drink so basically PM is not much different but there are certain differences p in the logistics let me explain a person drank he's very high and what he do about some people have the already so basically if he any day and him included then he you can't answer if he's just very high so the here we have the wait take a sleep go sleep a while but let's say he's he's afraid that if he sleeps it's not going to be till tomorrow he might missing entirely or he might miss this man and could be a gay right before what should he do if he can't this the latest minion so we have that if he's a not a he in this case is so if he's going to have any situation he's going to miss daving all this man we rely on that he could as a of course of course use a s to make sure the daving is proper the real problem is if he's a shik so if it's close to again say kishma waited out and then a whole night you could dve in there and say kishma over and you have the kishma on both ends the question of course is how does some person know a person know if he's a how do I know so is quoted as saying that if he asked the can I then he's probably which is long enough unless the question is asked in such a comical way then you know then he might be a sh but typically a person knows enough to ask now this I want to say you know the half hour before the is one of a kind I mean The Crying by even cry a lot so we have to use the the the poor is once a year okay a little more leic than usual a little more vocal but I'm sure the has a special some people that what are they're crying about you know I saw they as about ding on with a costume they said if it's an appropriate you know if it's whatever he dresses up like you know he says is it's not the Mal there's a little not a head little of understand regarding you with and you but it shouldn't be so that's the special of theing if it is done within the context of now of course of course if it can't be done then it shouldn't be done the writes in his times in our times and we can't get because we can't have a the light what should we say you see what goes on they have so if a person can't do it he's part tell the you know some people you know why because their brothers died and if someone last he was he did wrong things so he to get everybody quotes but learn says that they but all agree mean from top to bottom he does any even he's not to get drunk I'll read you there are many people think that the two days of P it's a time of prus O he says and a person that's called a Israel can't think that perm is a time of PR the perm needs it needs a little of a ticken but especially if it's the thenes not to get drunk what should we say today but the the unfortunately the the driving by these eyes were by on somebody that that drove drunk On's no longer here it has to be said because it gets out of hand but no doubt about it that the today is not it's more the person should follow in fact if someone drank knowing that he's going to miss then maybe has tomorrow morning because he amaz it so there has to be a you know people said let me tell you what did no the he drank a whole day and he was M when it came to my I don't know how he did it but he was a was a they say I saw the he was he dranks he was Stone drunk and he was saying he one Chu I saw the my own eyes in his in his CH he wrote when he was okay so you want to look it up you can see I can tell you which Tru it is so if you could do that then you could you know you know of course know he got CH but you know were on the floor with him writing every word that he said the to that he said when he was sh was was the best do this so if you can make that no if not approach with CAU now the EM is there is an and that based on I found this as early as the goes back a few years ago that a person should have a sud drink a little bit bench like a mench like a mench and then you can have sud did this after the sud it's never o remember says there's no on for a reason because never ends plus the says you may m is both nights says if someone he does he both nights so you don't lose from the if you do things so a person could bench have a the embes that brings even after you if you didn't get bench when you bench could be could say there two days there I'm not saying it's POS but two days it would be better to and then you go to the dance whatever and then before if you're holding cup continuously eating bread every few minutes what every hour or so then you could bench with Al and go to that's an if you could cuz you're going from the sud you have to constantly be nibbling a little bench without and but there's no option to do the wrong things next question we had an interesting that where someone was maik on so once no PO more than the rest of the year oh so here we do find a particular and that is the ra the and the end of T he says that a person that's maic or takes things on is not accountable why so you look in the source and others it seems to be there's a certain he that on people are a little morein and you have to have allowances a person does damage he's dancing he jumps up and he breaks someone's glasses so either the is that there's a special the Ma has to be you can't tell a person to tie his hands or the Nik who comes to the festivities comes to the Yeshiva knows that you know things might happen you want to have a perfect suit stay home but you come so maybe the of the or there's a tour on the but twice says there's a special on both nights of PM t now of course of course the of the says someone he has to pay there are in two places both places and this doesn't apply because we're not we're not being M sometimes a little bit of mik in us that's they seem to say now the EMB is when a person's jumping and dancing and he's ma totally inadvertently then we have the of but you have to realize it has to be plus the says no one's so yeah before you make sure you ask if someone pledged a big amount of money for the next morning he woke up and called to I know I pledge yesterday but I was sh I'm telling you I'm not paying you're my a is he right wrong he forgot and he's to pay let's say he wakes up the next morning he has no recollection his children say you promised half million dollars that's we're not letting it then he I saw that the explains the whole this is Sim he explains the concept of a sh he doesn't know the next morning what he did and he has this very story someone made a pledge Al and he now have old minut we have a minut before we like to give some food for thought I'm going to give you my version of the fear with a question connected as well question number one someone was sh good sh sh not sh sh and fell asleep and he woke up per afternoon whatever evening and once does he have to make a new what's the maybe he was not about to learn so maybe it's not just the sleeping sleeping most people don't make a but maybe the fact that he was a he would be Mak so it doesn't sound reasonable what about would he have to make so I didn't find this exact but I did see he has a sh about an he woke up in the morning he was okay he said then he became quick does he have to after the after all he wasz in between because he wasn't he has to keep but he cles does he have to make after now he doesn't speak about but this is what he says so he says he quotes from an early why because this is out of my range but there's a real significant disconnect between the and the go but that's only by doesn't have the disconnect so therefore even when he when he becomes again normal at least I could say certainly what is not worse than e and there's no now don't get but that is the information that we need but we see again that a is not Aid is question number two someone approaches you he wants to make a br he can't make it his help me make the BR he wants to say but he's not going to make it should you help him or that you help so the answer is very simple if he don't help him but typically most people that want to make a so then you have a mitvah because don't forget and is a good but a better is safe him word for word and this way he'll say it properly and these things come up at least where I am people may help me make a that would be a mitzah third question someone is sh and he fell asleep he's on someone's couch and the house is empty except for the woman in the house is there with a but a also so this is if we could assume somehow that is a you have to look at which is not so P but yeah that is a start but 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