Summary: The Sandek In Halacha - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

yeah no that's not him he's much bigger all right says the reason my dream in the midst is seek him on bismillah there's no doubt about it there's a lot more to a santa cruz than a regular keyboard there's definitely there's a future of the child there's a kapoor of the the san diego so there's a myla for the sound examiner for the child he's a messiah for the mitzvah he's a balbaris he's a also a mizbaya in a certain sense even bigger than than the moyo but basically as we saw that the main minig of the greatness of the sandvik is highlighted by the urbano parrots that says you only give one the sandex only to be one child per family and that was further mentioned by buddha khasid in his salvo and that's why many people would never give the same sandik to be a second time for a second child those that are not mahmeer they hold that it wasn't even brings it is something only for his children but some make the the compromise that for atomic so basically there are some that are not mahmoud at all some that are even by rav and russia and some make a difference the rava shiva would be different than a regular person but one thing is clear that it's only a din in the keyboard of santa claus you could have the same oil and if it's nageya the same coin for both pidgin abends and the same sarcadusion it's a special din regarding a sandik what seems also that the main iss is on the aviya ben not on the sandvik the ikea is as we say there are so many we live in a world of schoolness and people are busy with schoolists but the best school is adam shamely um and all these childhoods we have seen but the main thing is you do the rats and hashem whether it's keep it up whether it's quite autumn whether it's the heroes in quite odd or whether it's shabbos like we said but you don't lose by doing the right thing the main apple is choosing a standard just for personal gain that's something that's really inappropriate if the first child dies me it's out of luck he'll allow to give the second child to the same sandik twins seems to be a little more of a kapeda unless you have a special hajj and do both as we saw but he's supposed to choose a yehudi kosher as primary the basic mini swirl is to give the aviha band gives his father first then the schwer and if this is ada so it's possible the zeta goes before the schwere some have dominic the rub always goes first and takes every santa claus but if they don't have that minute it's the father and then the swear and if this is ada so the father goes after the the father should give it to his father to be santik if he's a father the there is an ash that is decided by shasta mila that's why you're supposed to choose a slot niched up as we said the future depends on the santa claus but the kavanaugh that you do the mitzvah to give it to the right person is definitely a schooler that at least equals that of giving another mahashiv the kavana that we should have is that the child should be at saddek or shame i hope it's possible that these are not kavanaugh's only for sadiq every soundic it could be a pasha they had a simple year whatever it is but every sanity has to have kavanaugh this is really what the job of the sanding is to be mashpia and this conducive opportune time for the child when should you have cabanas as they're appearing for the bridge during the breasts and afterwards and for all of us even if you're not a sandik when the baby cries there's a special ace rot sign to ask for any trilos the aviya ben can take it for himself some say look he should take it for himself okay i don't know if he takes it he shouldn't take before he gives to his father or but if there's an opportunity the avia ben is definitely a right candidate for this special skus if the father is not from it's a sensitive issue yes that's terra but if you can't avoid it give it to him and if it won't be detected you'll have someone step in at the right moment and take away some of the santa claus if the father is a guy that's a non-negotiable question a guy can be a sandik there as we saw the moyal and ascended in one even though the premier garden frowned upon that practice but the wealth is makel the sandic could be the more you know he's sitting the ikea is for the sandic to make it easier for the moil what the moist tells you to do you listen to him it's his yomtiva whole day it's definitely kadai that the sound should go to the mikveh big day shabbat should be worn past is a whole day the siber only patis tachnon went before the milan the sounding should be a talis and preferably at fill and unless he has a mini contrary to that he some draped the talus over the baby's head you know leah the leah goes to the sound deck before the model unless it's a different meaning but mizamen is the the the demoio there's an interesting history that the sondik paid for the actual expenses of the bris and the later and that's why he used nice money for that and he was the balabris and he would get ashirus today there's no longer the school of ashiris for the sandik that's probably why the islamic doesn't give a gift even though some still do but the sounding doesn't have to give a gift because he doesn't get the ashirus a person can be a sound victor an availus but it's best to avoid it during an adult meal that the person that wants to that's the sonic should help the encourage and coax and the nimo and zwiesen or the krushev it's probably better to go with his reason magdema not to delay them the mila especially if involved and discuss of doing the right thing of reason will supplement the lack of the shift that's in