Summary: Children On Yom Kippur - Rabbi Zev Smith

[Music] do you think [Music] uh [Applause] just the review we learned about hashem we see the interesting question of a kotlin kippah is pastor is not like a khoila he has different allah cause he must eat there's no pakistakis but we do see certain hummus that is in shoyas now basically leather is more hammer because for leather he could let you manage without and that's why we saw that some place can feel that even a young child should not be put on leather because kenner of course applies a young age he doesn't need it but the parent should not be putting on a child with leather shoes but food eating and drinking is something that would be say you he needs it and the murray says we basically aim a cotton and that's why until nine years old there's no nine or ten depending on the strength of the child but till nine years old there's no china for a child other mitzvah four or five or six depending on the mitzva but but eating a child must have until nine there's no fasting whatsoever some allow the child to fast a little short amount of time under nine many players can frown that minig but certainly if the child wants to eat there's no heter to make them fast even a little bit undeniable tiny not even tina's choice some allowed the child to fast until the next morning until he wakes up that's not a dinner tiny choice that just they felt that there's no inui but once he wakes up the holiday is undeniable he could eat right away and some said not even to not in the fest till the next morning let him he could eat at night if he goes to sleep but basically on the nine there's no not even on choice if he wants to eat or drink the holidays he must be allowed to eat and drink what complicates the sugar there's an issue of sofia even by a newborn you know how to give a child tarfis or a baby coin to bring him in oil hamas and that applies at the youngest age but on yam kippah that generally does not apply because there are two at least two factors number one it's heinrich bisay he needs the food he doesn't need tarfa secretly managed with castris but he needs the food and also it's not an issa of chefs it's an issa on this man it's only because now it's yom kippur so the fact that it's kosher food and it's not an issa on basically only more than this man so there would be no dinner of safino on a regular basis what's unique to tainis yum kipper that there is a tiny choice it's a practice to fasting when he becomes a goddamn and basically we don't find that by any other fast because it's really not fasting the stifle explains that yom kippur is in of inui and every hour every moment is more inui but it doesn't apply to other taneos because if if you didn't face you're not fasting but this is unique to yom kippur there's an indian of tainus le choice the minig today i think in most places that a child has never mashed them he doesn't complete the tightness some would allow a child at 12 years old if they know he's strong and they watch and make sure he doesn't get weak but you don't have to feel guilty if the child does not confess until his bar mitzvah because we don't fast complete the tightness because of the weakness of our children there's an interesting that is you know how to give him to eat more than he needs for his health but it's not accepted about eating tanoogam candies that don't help his growth don't help his development we would say it's best to avoid it a young child takes it he could take it but it's best not to give a child this extra madanim let him better feel a little bit of the innuen kip of the kadusha zyan kippa nash pretzels cookie that's okay we're talking about madonna that are really not necessary the basic philip of a of this thinner subpoena applies giving a child to eat out of the sukkah you're giving him heta it's just that this is money there's no dinosaur leather shoes a child should avoid wearing it or a parent should not put on their child at any age basically because this is not the messiah of the child and there might be a den of safina at a very young age certainly the age of two or three a child should be wearing appropriate shoes for young kipper if a child or any oil has to eat him kippah there's no lachemist unless it's available already available but there's no dinner of him there's no kiddish even on him he washes regularly in other words with the regular the teal of the entire hand we don't rely on just the fingers if he eats a kebaya so he washes regularly and makes a break if he eats a gaza no brook and probably it's better to wash just the fingers you do wash my machine i should have mentioned there's no din of semen even if three will meet together because absalom is almond says today of eating not a day of eating together that shows us that this is a special uniqueness of the day you do adjavia would say to benching but if you forget it you don't have to repeat it and in fact if you left it out you don't add the special bracha that's inserted between brachas because it's not a full of alveolar or a child eats cake enough to make talamiki you do add the m kipper and the shabbos insertion the special hamura food is not considered muktsa onyam kippa even though on pasta we don't touch food you might come to eat up yum kippah aima sadin would certainly not allow someone to eat it and we said an injury a child who fasted a whole day 12 years old and he feels he could do it it might be muth of him to drink water or eat before abdullah because now it's rib usayu because he's fasting he's hungry maybe there's no issue of eating or drinking before half dollar