Situations Where a Bracha Can't be Said - Rav Zev Smith

like to welcome everyone to today's from on situations when Camp said the great sponsoring call at 718 851 8651 or email is.com Smith we had a sh recently someone who was woke up mid night he wanted to uh drink something and it's very difficult for him to uh to wash neas so was told that he doesn't he doesn't have to wash because once he wash he's not going to fall asleep again but he can't make a because his hands are not clean so he heard that you could be by relying on Herer thinking the and then he could drink and that was aish to me but I want to look into it and then we heard another sh I guess is uh much more challenging where someone is a and he's not clean he's not clean what do do about we had a sh a visitor that's with the in the room so he can't make a and while soon see besides the fact that it touches upon the but it's also very various type of questions regarding situations when a can't be said so what's the procedure so to tr this to us it's Unthinkable to eat without a besides that of making a we ow remember that is and quote unquote throws the book at you and also worst of all he becomes a so you're talking about but he had an interesting T and he said I'm an the person felt he was an and now once you're saying you might as well be a more more aggressive don't forget the the source of is talking about the most serious a person that's compelled to do something is not held accountable so that's our our starting point can we apply the concept of oess when a person in in a situation that he can't make a br and the truth of that was surprised I thought I would find much moreish about this so I felt that as a voted confidence that's me and you my wonderful Partners to learn the sug and to try to find a source one way or the other is there a tour is there a het to eat without a br in a situation of so let's start to think we'll do this together we have wonderful Partners do we know any situation that a person is allowed to eat without a comes to mind yes before the is allowed to eat without a so the question is do we is can that that apply to our case as well but one second what's the the reasoning what's the logic behind an O being allowed to eat without a we do know that an is but he can't do he can't eat so even though he's not making but how could he eat without what about the obviously there's some type of of and there's no but it's not really a because here we come to one beautiful that really as I saw very briefly all say the same that there is no of eating without a it's no such to and a person doesn't make then it's like eating before daving if then you can't eat before ding but that since not to make's in other words the ISA of Gaz is a product of the so once is there's no after the anas he doesn't have to make up the D he missed what about when but he didn't do it he's anus an is in fact I saw theab in in who said says that he believes that an could even smell although the one of the authorities is right he shouldn't smell better enough he has to eat without to what's wrong if he's he's in fact soon the is not to find someone to make a be him foret he's part but we can't compare that to a case of an where he is but he's an so let's think again where do we find something a situation where a person eats without a so I'll tell you and that's the famous which is in sixth place hear it regarding says clearly the the end of regarding and regarding six Place says that means someone's at work and he forgot if he made a he wants to drink a coffe drink without a where does it come from so there are two the famous sitting in the make up your mind if you convince sitting in you got to make a so we have one second is the if you recall the says have a kishma repeat the kishma but you don't repeat because [Applause] regarding regarding so we have a pretty good case two six places says not you don't have to don't bother but if you want to is is is a it's to make so now the question is can we apply that to our case a person just like maybe a person that's middle night he can't make a maybe he's allow to eat without a and here we come to one of the biggest in and that is Sabah like we call it is not as ped as we would like it to be the whole premise ofal of is not even so p and let me explain in we find a very in when you started making a thinking it's wine and it was really and you change the whole suff if you go BS to the beginning of the the end of the so says doesn't tell us what to do what what do he do with what do you mean what do he do the H assume you and don't make [Applause] a the re obviously held that it's not just a suff it's a suff and being a part of them you can't take that lightly so the the does that mean we learned don't make a but the re says what do you mean you can't eat without a and what do you do means you're allowed to make a because don't forget making a when you might not be you're risking the awesome a of so thebody the question is which way and this is basically the way the explains because here we we we're in a no win situation to make a if you don't need it he doesn't need me no words the LA of he so therefore how do you take a chance making a br and that's why the way we understand this what means eat without a but you have a one of the that you have to make a is worse but there's another and that's the regarding I'm not getting into so says let's Flex our muscle let's let's show what does it mean if you have a what's ask what do that mean the big would be to say you allow to make a that's but what do we do we're not such when you have a what do you do don't make a quotes the and up what do you mean is to tell a ye you're allowed to eat without a br is the biggest coola on the side of the page apparently the holds that when you have a what does it mean you make allow him to make a but don't play around with eating without a so the Mas and that's understood that the bigger is to eat without so the h means when you come to work and you're not made a sh the coffee make the but don't you dare take a chance of eating and points to one of the regarding when he left he skipped the word and skipped the word so it's so the EV printed in the back of the says and you better make another we allow to make and points to another so now we see all agree but in which way in which direction are we LED don't make but we have in two places now let me ask you a simple question some it seems to be astonishing because t is as great as he was doesn't have the license to argue on on a gamar but it's two garas the gamar in in Suka regarding regarding kishma both say that you don't make a so how does argue on two goras the is not a at all because when to is hold you have to make a it's because of the ISA of eating Bel the two are sitting in the circle without andma not saying they're both that we have no problem with there's no if you do a so now we have a a very firmly established what to do by RA in the he says I found another re that you better make a and that's the famous sh about the second let's rewind a few months by night the first we make a second is the what to do we make a don't he quotes that since and you better make a he's explaining the meaning of to make a because you can't risk eating Bel so here we have a real what to do by but let's not be flustered and in four actually six places but I have to be honest the the last two place we're talking about and so that's not really but the first four plays that I mentioned four places regarding eating and the is very clear means you eat and don't make a so although it's not as simple as we would like it to be but weule and don't make a but I think more importantly he explains even though we saw hold you can't take a chance to eat but he says very simply that the whole and the whole is at most So He suggests that that requir the and creat they said that's only when you if if it's a suff approach cautiously and don't make a and I think we could even add more than that because let's assume there what's the extent of the what's the general cloud with so I think we should put it very clearly all agree of the of the of eating that's AAR but all agree to the of making a that's unnecessary so to put it bluntly it's a question what's the lesser of two evils so that explains Sab but now the question is does that apply to your case waking up middle of the night you're not torn by eating without a or you know it's simple so maybe taka you have maybe taka you have to make a even though it's difficult do we find yet an O situation not yet but if you're sh you probably remember this and that's the the Mish and a in those days the B was to make he eats with a M but he has to bench now what kind of compromises you eat without a and you bench so Rashi explains benching Thea you can't Overlook but is that already is a real less because he can't make a br so what do we tell him we don't tell him St or fast we tell him without gimel and entally I didn't find before maybe I couldn't find it but this what he says from the case of b car we have a r to our question of an oess because aary is not a suff that's dealing with the he's not an that's he's a problem and he and he wants to say that this is a r that an O has a of of eating it has to be a real o because a is a real o he can't correct it at this point but we could do a little better then we'll apply this in the back of the he has a and is cust for us someone and he if someone has to make a but he's in an unclean situation what should he do can't make a let him be mAh I but the he'll get the of one thing to make that's very funny he's not but do the best you can and this is quoted in the if someone's in a place he can't make a don't make a making so just think and you get for trying now that's you know sort of a a but it's not more than you not Yu with the he but you try m in fact points out wait a second if it indeed is a a real full-fledged don't forget the one place that is us even here is an unclean place don't a place that's not that's not sne but the real is a unclean place so Mr explains we're talking about an in between situation you can't make a but here is M so here we see our situation the in fact points out you think ofish you allow to even think the and that would suffice so this is what we're looking for the if he can't make a if the place allows hearer think the and go V and eat now that person that ask me the sh must have heard the based on this but we'll soon see if he's entirely correct but apply all agree the of eating without we can't overstate that besides but all agree that is unwarranted that's that's is not just an O is not allowed to in fact B is is an and the that we we we we establish right now based on the r a is an and allowed to eat relying on her okay now let's apply this and we go in order someone asked me should be but he's he was an and he knew you allow to eat without a but he's very uncomfortable eating without a so he asked is there an inion is there a Hider of not eating at all in know words you're allowed to eat but why why rely onus he didn't want to eat so I looked it up I could not find any M that there's there's an in to not to eat I will soon see by there is an inion to avoid the suff and not to eat but we understand the is a don't know what to do so the best a is don't do anything so we'll soon see s BRS don't eat but an he's it's like an not to eat not not to eat I mean you could eat but it's an when you're not when someone this and again to my knowledge there's no such an is a in fact I told you mentioned earlier he says there's no for the to go get someone to make so that's not what the wants you know there are two in either can't make he's too busy or more logically even if he's not busy he's not an Undertaker but it's a B for the ma now think about the ma don't worry about mitz so to my knowledge an on has no reason to avoid eating but let's talk about a situation with the says you're a you're allowed to eat in four places that we understand that there is a because he's not a Potter he's a o o is best to avoid the situation Nowa I should mention I found this the it says this that if an a suff br would be want to do the extra H donate or better yet much better yet get a br from someone else here or cre if you made so go to come back this he says says like pretty pretty clearly to be is wrong you want to don't eat that's that's a so the between that and is unmistakable has a and he says now don't forget is a bigger bigger God than aad how do I know that says that the that cuts his finger s buries it but Burns it obviously is bigger than aad so what's what makes someone he keeps I think the is that when he has a he doesn't rely on and he goes the extra mile and he gives a bunch of Michelle pretty disappointed he gives a mus suff a or Adama or another suff if if he in a case situation we doesn't know IFA he he he could which to make could rely on a but he doesn't do all that but all he doesn't give a msh of our case that you have a suff made a Shak so get a or don't eat but I think it's p that's what he meant to say maybe it's so P he didn't mention it but no doubt about it when someone has a suff situation I'm not you don't have to guil trip anybody you allow to eat but the will avoid eating a b when someone makes a the wrong in certain situations when allowed to eat it means eat just to make the but don't eat more sobal is not a perfect it's a to eat if you want that's a painful question I heard this unfortunately three different situations where someone cannot talk can't say krishma can't bench can't make BR once one question I heard sh was someone at palps and the doc says if you don't talk for a few weeks you w need surgery otherwise he's going to need surgery and the third question I'm not clear with the details but someone who had a very severe stutter and there's a new type of therapy if he doesn't talk for a few weeks at all so then he sort of starts to talk it's like he's starting talk for the first time and somehow he could avoid the stutter again I can't tell you if it worked or but this what someone was asked he wanted to undergo certain therapy not to talk for a few weeks and then he'll train him to talk again hopefully he will not you know not implement the the stuttering so the question is what does he do about Mitzvah about ding soing there a simple he I knew someone who had this this child and he's a I asked what you do about no problem I ran to a a sh that's DAV with the latest man and I DAV I he so I said did you tell about so he says not really he's afraid to someone say kishma for what could you do but the question is that BR is typically during the day he has family to Mid night what does he do with so this is the question can it be with here again middle of night not waking up his wife he wants to drink what should he do so again that's but the ple is the next valid the says he he said kishma not only now the next SE if you change your mind what's going on him but the later also says if he can DAV he should at least be Mah and he quotes the obviously a form of now what's going on here the ter is as most say thata unfortunately we but we do find in the that means is a currency so the say this is that ques them all that facts remain facts you're not with not but if there's no other choice do the best you can and you get for trying but here now what does that mean I'll tell you what it means let's say someone cannot talk and he's not he can't find the minion to be he's home alone so let him be Mahar the but let's say he's was so powerful he had immediate and now we could talk should he D over absolutely because what he said with h it's a a consolation prize it's it's a so what do we see but it's better than nothing so our situation of can't make a if there's no other choice will apply the same let let him be Mah and the gives him credit and he was asked M question but he had the was a big and he wanted to know could he undergo this this therapy which hopefully will will will heal his voice but it means submitting himself to weeks of being unable to DAV and and bench and make bras and do mitzvah kishma what's he going to do had a beautiful is a person not give more than but the ability to talk is more than not just so what what is he doing he's giving up mitz to hopefully regain the ability to talk that's fine buta what does he do be so here we have a situation you know even though we'll tell the person that but between me and you he's not making a and allow that so this is a good of eating without a someone who cannot talk and there's no one around to be we'll tell he wasn't and the fact that you're allowed to do that indicates that when there's no other no other alternative here is enough just to make him feel better but if comes to it you allow to eat without a now he should avoid this but let's say he feels he needs it this is Aon that you allowed to eat without a and rely on here why not because of here because that's what we have to say like ra said now the next question is a situation where it's a let's talk buta it could be in many situations a person could be in a hospital and there's a there's a bed pen and and there's you know a a stool sample you know in a hospital by some the person P has no control and he's never clean so let's let's use the Lo of I don't mean you know physically clean I mean he is either a place or a person that's in the beginning of puts it clearly there are sometimes a person makes where and he wasn't so we're talking a situation that he is unclean also to make a but what does he do he's going to fast the rest of his life so here this is a real technically we could say it's not a real o because let him get clean and that's true if he anticipates being clean in the near future then they'll make a wait but let's say a situation again that is an AI and it's indefinite so here he has another problem because if he's an ani he can't even make her but it makes no if he's an we're allowing him to eat without a this is the points to the and that I mentioned earlier if someone's in he's he's in a place that it's not clean he just makes her her is M and so although hearer is sometimes not the option but then again it's it's never an option it's basically so if you add up the facts we have a situation of an that's but we have a b that's an O and all without a and now the joins that club of that eats without a if he could beah a little better but not much but if you can't be Mah makes no again was discussed this very sh and he says that even though there's an of eating they said that if you can make a and you don't but if he can't does not allow him to so and therefore he would have to he's allowed to eat without a he says although as we'll soon see the and says it's wrong people drink in America without a they think well can't make a let me drink without a he said that's not an get dressed and go out of the but our case he has no choice this is his Perpetual problem so he says that if it's a real oess he's allowed to eat without a br now this is interesting where with his tremendous he says but I'll tell you something else if he's just a mild and he could wait better to wait but let's say he's a again someone's in a hospital and part of the problems is he has no bodily functions no control of bodily functions so he has a problem and also he's not clean ever so says I believe he says he he Compares it to a famous brings it in I think it's yes says when someone has a stat and I want a newspaper so he say you going to die without it no but I want lose paper so says once he has the status even for nonessential needs because is okay we don't pass like that but that's says we don't passing like that regarding which is which is but regarding eating without a at most we do pass like that is at any time toat without a that's the way he understood it because he is a he doesn't have to wait a few hours he could eat right away in other words the a should wait the has his his of now this is all regarding the actual now very often we have a question about he has a visitor so the you know he feels he can't make a maybe he has to visit him visitor get a get a food make a and be him but that has two problems number one if the can't make a because it's so what's the he for the visitor but a more serious problem which is brings another big let's say the let's say the visitor will stand outside of the room so he's not in he'll make the and the inside will hear the is that going to be an an effective way of giving the a proper why not right oh but here's the problem if it's a legitimate Cy that then should be to make is not a joke it's real if you can't if the person can't say it then he can't listen and you look regarding regarding here again the situation of a person that's not dressed properly and regarding a about that's Ding and in the back this he says stop daving because the people in the back can't be I you could say it but they can't be so three places is not when the can't be said but raise in the end of on with says that if someone's he can't say but he could listen to the ah if you can't say it why listen so maybe that would work the same in a different scenario maybe that would work regarding a Baler or the like who can't make a br he can't say it okay but maybe someone can be him and leaves it as a suff now it's a because in three other places says it's not a suff is so some say maybe but I think we should leave that as a suff we don't know what he means but three places we see from the that if you a person can make a doesn't make it any better how could is it's a it's not a Cas all HEI is totally in a physical debore if a person says is regarding but it's not regarding you didn't he didn't talk so that's why whenever there's no to make a there's no to okay now let's talk a little bit about a visitor now let's assume the is allowed to make because he's a again I didn't find it earlier but so the could eat without a what does the visitor do he's a perfectly healthy person so before goes out or he before he comes into the room he makes the outside it's not a sh to to be worried about the but it's a valid that he could take with him but let's say it's a parent in ICU and the parent doesn't want the child to leave and the child has enough to know don't leave you know don't leave but he has to eat after a while so here we come to what's definitely the last piece of this beautiful puzzle and that is a Taz on which that someone who that has no control can't make a but should think the with a very broad since says sometimes you could rely on hearer when a can't be said because you talk our case not a sick person talking about a regular person he wakes in middle of the night and he's very thirsty but he knows his his problem that if he washes neasa till he washes he won't fall asleep again or he it's hard for him to go to the to the sink if he doesn't have by the bed but whatever the case is if he can't wash properly now what does he do his hands are unclean this he slept so far what does he do rely on here and he sends you to B that here is M unless it's very very dirty here in bed he's not dirty just his hands are so the T so what this person told me he heard that you to be in bed instead of washing the is not just the ra this is what we're looking for now don't forget this person is not a b he's not an he's not even he's a perfectly healthy person and evidently if it's h to wash drink apparently the the Taz is using the concept of even in this seemingly possible situation of of getting up any but if it's hard it's hard I hear but it's something however the Taz is strongly people other take strong exception as early as the quotes him I don't understand you're not an oest get up and was it's so remember [Applause] the in other words you're not an you're not an you're a healthy person try harder and the embes will soon see what what the says like the in the you can't make a so you're technically an but get dressed and go out but we're not finished I have a different you know wash it's too hard okay why you be rub your hands with out water a cloth is like like washing and then make a why rely on heer when you could make a br now you're not going to get the real way of doing things washing but meet the and M says this if you can't wash at least use me and sends us to that even though you're supposed to wash your hands but me the manaki works they take a tissue a blanket just rub your hands get off any dirt now there is a he's not doing it perfectly because Still Remains but it's better than better than eating without drinking without a br so we see it's better to make a partial and make than rely on her and we find this in earlier sources the when he wakes the mid of night and whatever the case was he couldn't wash he would clean his hands with me the man and he would drink now you have to realize in the olden days especially in the cold countries there was no steam at night waking up midle of night means freezing some theas was frozen so you couldn't walk but the end of the day ready another also he says were very worried about a person's it's always a plea I learned the Mish if someone started really know to eat before daving but if you started you allow to finish and then DAV what's considered starting daving we think probably starting eating he's in middle of middle of main course right no he took off his belt so you took put it back no you don't not like that so he uses that in our case if it's so not drink without a and rely on her meet and make a it's so convincing so what did the Taz hold Taz was the Taz so by me the Taz did not hold its mut on a regular difficulty because difficulty is a virtue and I'll show what I mean no problem rely on her there are people that drink in the without a and they Point their finger to that they are Mis understanding did not say that if right now you can't make a a drink and rely on her he was was talking about it's an and he has no choice he can't wait whatever the case is a person middle of the night that's you know people are human beings you know he he wakes up if he's going to start washing neas he won't fall sleep again the next morning he's going to be he's going to be irritable and you know like like says taking a sleepy pill maybe he's no now because he's not a but if he doesn't take it he's going to be a so tossing turning a whole night he's is going to become very uh very not well go to sleep without falling sleep without drinking he won't fall asleep either he's still thirsty so that it's an no in situation that's an O but that's not a so my point only is the Taz did not say if you can't wash so here the Taz is talking about a situation of a real oess now even you could do better so you have to know what the is but it's not just just rely in here and I think the biggest is the he says the says you make a on and you go it can't be it's can I get a mishna now listen to his the famous mishna it's in all over a person that's not dressed can't take off Trum why not what's wrong can't make a so FR what me can't make a let him be like says no no the t is not is not saying if you can't do it then just do without it the t is saying if there's no other choice like a middle of night and for some reason you're an then drink without a br her but the arm has an get dressed and like a men so even in the T we see is not a free for all and this the again in the end of in he says even the the did not give a blanket you can't make so is that's a wrong approach so here we have both the and I believe the Taz there is a now again someone you know each person has to apply it in his own life some people could fall asleep right away so and do it right and don't rely me man if someone knows he won't fall asleep and it's a big it's a it's a big hassle hassle I don't know how to T hassle but if hassle is no it's worth it the if it's impossible or difficult even though it's not a then you have I hope it's clear eating without a is a big problem but her isn't the solution if there's no other choice heer we rely on heer being something now this to apply this specifically I give you a simple muscle there's an older person whe living in home or hospital but he can't manage on his own now children have to be understanding if he wakes mid night he needs a drink so but the night before you put water by his bedside but for him to wash neas on his own is difficult or maybe impossible so that's a case of anus the water is right there but the washing it just if if it can't be done in an easy way so we have this Taz the Taz was the Taz so prepare the water and tell the father if you could rub your hands clean a little bit and then they and then make a if that doesn't work if even that he can't do it it's Millan he's not he's not fully Loos it whatever it is then drink without a and that's the in the beginning of quotes the and Mar Bruna and he says but Al it's not a good idea to rely on me why listen where he's coming from because don't forget you're M night midaki works for nus it takes away any dirt that might have accumulated on your hands but what's going to be with r the the nightly r that visits a person says in shabas that's like a a Bas that doesn't go away unless you have water three times with a K so his again the tell what he says he said it's so much a problem of making without it's better to make a br beer and rely on the r the and are so against the that it's better to r on Herer and and this is quoted by some that because of the issue now for us that's a because we find this all over the already the so again someone that's very much has this but we don't rely on her and is not don't forget in page one L the first page discuss the someone woke up early morning and there's no NE bed in fact the only water is his friend's water so he says to steal the water that's what do you do so go learn in other words is the most difficult to get rid of but it's the least it's not so for the rest of us although the end of does mention this but it's an honorable mention what it means to say is is not a perfect either because you have what's the best to strain yourself and and wash cui is not either good but a real o like I told you an older person or a poor sleeper I could just tell you there are those that are make to rely on this hero even though it's laugh a common question a woman that's nursing a child middle of the night it's difficult enough she wakes a middle of the night you have to and she wants to drink which is important for her but neasa is a big is a big procedure so again if she could wash neasa a she should wash if that's difficult she's been told me the man but I have a stickle of a to make it a little more user friendly the in beginning of sim quotes he doesn't say this be fair I think that's what he means he says that according to the Zoya who's very about walking belas that's only in the morning but if someone wakes up middle of the night and he going back to sleep the is not applicable because when you're waking up to go back to sleep there's no problem of walking without and he says that you could rely on that rely on that in other words and he said you could even touch a that you're not supposed to touch before because just you're woke up and going back to sleep and he doesn't spell it out but I think what he means to say is that apparently the real comes in the morning in fact it's so much comes in the morning that those that that wake up early in the morning when you wake up early in the morning watch when it comes wash again so he seems to be using that as a that the intense first comes in the morning waking up at night I shouldn't say that the real int when you wake up in mid wake up to wake up for the night when you wake up and you're going back to sleep that's really what he's saying he doesn't say the night and you're going back to sleep maybe there's no so that might be a little more again makes it user friendly let the the ISA or an older person we could rely on that that you're going back to sleep there is no as of yet now a visitor in a room where which is not which is again is not like a he should try to slip out as we said that was really the best a now I saw someone has an interesting not someone the theot I don't have but theim quotes this with an interesting he says before you go to sleep at night before you make app make a sh and drink less than Ras then go to sleep if you wake up mid night the the original shakle is still in effect now that's a double let me explain the first is right is goes indefinitely holds is ineffective after just like you can make but most strongly reject that because it's illogical when it comes to making a it has to be within otherwise you're not Mak make it's it's it's already fully digested or start to digest but is is a m so even though a long time has elapsed but it's still good so he's right that goes you know if you if you come to work and you make a shackle on a candy and don't leave and that the candy BR and the candy goes a whole day the only problem is oh but that's the problem the problem is sleep and that's why says it's doesn't work you want a better the next tickle he quotes from the other end of the world he was a in Turkey the brother said this is this is not a human being he went to sleep at night every night with gloves why because when he woke up he could learn right away now he says now that's a good but it's not going to work for but he does say I I can't explain it but he's he was a m he does say say that sleeping with gloves I guess he's a expert everything else but somehow that prevents the intense from setting so but you want to sleep at night with gloves I think you're better off you know making a with withi but just a a few quick points merat of yesterday of kaz's times was very unclean they they showered very 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night depending on the situation usually it's not an O but sometimes it could be we have to be understanding mentioned people that have to go to the bathroom frequently during the night because of various problems that might be a situation of oess at least regarding the the washing wearing gloves would avoid the problem of washing hands but and maybe minimize the but basically is not it is as we said the pool is not a place of lacking and basically we avoid because we don't know it's not really a