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before Yam we try to give
there we have table talk
to talk about over the Yam so I would
like to talk a little bit about sukus
And the shouts that come up. We hear we
hear someone wants to go on a trip and
he wants to go to places there's no
suka. Is there a heard there's a happen
to eat out of the suka? Someone's flying
by plane on could he eat out of the
suka? And we have a new shila this year.
I mean recent years I should say where
there are so many sukas built on the
streets and a person has to walk to get
to his destination. Someone asked is you
allowed to walk through a suka? We know
you're not going to make a shortcut out
of a of a medishapa
does that apply to a
>> so
so the question is if there is such a
problem or not so as we always say if
you have one usually get the answer to
all the questions and this should not be
different we'll talk about a lot more
but it's all the question really of
boils down to what does it mean to
soon see limit or is it defines the
mitzvah does that mean that when you go
away you'll eat out of the
[clears throat] so we have to look at
the sources where we find this concept
theor
says
if they're traveling by day and night
by day and night if they travel by day
they're part by day now which means
someone's on traveling and it's not a
mitzvah because the mitzvah has a tour
of
it's different. This is a traveler
[clears throat]
and is allowed to eat no doubt about it
even a full bread meal. Why? So Rashi
says
and
[clears throat] just like the whole year
a person doesn't feel restricted and
he's willing to leave his house to go
In other words, there's a new expression
of containu. If you're allowed to leave
your house during the rest of the year,
you're not on the house arrest. You
could do what you want on you're allowed
to go on a trip and eat out of the
that's the [clears throat] pastas of
this. Now, Rashi chooses an interesting
word. You go. Now means business which
might be a mitzvah but has the same like
rashi you're allowed to leave your house
and leaves out the word. So in other
words the first expression of means
you're not under house arrest you're
allowed to go where you want if you end
up in a place where there's no eat
the second is also the same
speaking about a watchman who's watching
fields and orchards. So the says he's
allowed to eat out of the suka. Why? So
Abaya says came to Du because it's going
to be such a big schle to shle his bed
and everything and make a suka in the
fields. It's just too difficult to make
a suk in the field.
So, so does not like this this reason
says the reason is because
if you're going to sit in the so oh he's
sleeping now he's enclosed in a four
walls I get steel but is quick to point
out also holds
holds
from
but why does he say this new reason
that's because he felt The of making a
is not a but as we see from the gmorra
both and say a watchman is why
to do in fact the explains why is it
going to do according to ra also because
during the rest of the year you don't do
things that you lose money if he's going
to sit in the lose all the the the
fruits they're going to be stolen so we
have number one
number two watchmen then We have another
expression of this
and that is the
actually
as well and
says
now we know is a big it's more than a
share for itself but what do we see from
this
why but the cash is bigger because there
is no mitaya by other mitzvah. Okay, a
person has
why is there
because is not when you're sitting in
your dining room and you're
uncomfortable it's raining in you don't
stay there you you call a and you go to
a different room so says
because it's also a form of
[clears throat] and this is in in all
the say besides
in fact there are more and tough
takes it a step further. Let's say
someone's sitting in the suk and it's
pouring and he's but he decides I'm
going to stay in the anyhow
if you're
and you don't go out.
Now the big question is we learned in
why is he a terror is different when
there's no
is the duru. So if there's no and you're
sitting in the suk and you're being on
being agonized and
so what are you gaining? You see the
mitzvah of suk is going to do if it's
mit there's no mitzvah. So if you're
sitting anyhow it's called the and we'll
soon see why sat on when it was raining
but we definitely see
and now we see the fourth is in it's a
actually the says how many sudas do you
have to eat on suk is suk is not pes 14
no you don't have to eat any sudas
except for the first night
so the question is what's the what's the
hold and 14 to eat in the on you know
why to do on a regular day you have two
meals a day do it on as well so you have
the to sit in the 14 times twice a day
say just the opposite
right but what does that mean that means
during the rest of the year you could do
what you want you could eat one suda or
two sudas or no sudas you can fast. So
why is suk is different? So in other
words both and hold and the duru
dominates.
The question is which way do you go? But
here we see something interesting that
ones
all agree there's no to have a suda.
We'll soon see about but there's no of
sudis
is a
we like so there's no per se to sit in
the because you don't have to have a
suda it's came to do you could have um
fish and chicken and fruit and not have
to eat in the we'll soon see but let's
let's go but no doubt about it
we like
to is a. So if you noticed all of the
case that we mentioned the four goras
are all
the fifth gum is
where the gmorra says make the suk your
and this is ara make the suk your house
for the seven days and therefore why
and therefore bring out the nice and the
nice bedspreads and you should also So
strange word means go for a stroll in a
small suk. How do you go for a stroll?
We'll soon seem and learn in the so here
we see the real t of means make the suk
your house for those seven days. But
here it's more of a makay don't be cheap
bring out the nice stuff even go for
teal and learning in the suk the the
this the next kimra is all
and that is about keeping pots or plates
that are used in the suka we'll soon see
the details but what's wrong with put
bringing a pot into the suka what's
wrong with leaving dirty plates in the
suka so the garra says and they're
trying to explain
This is a concern of
[clears throat] another gimra and that's
the famous of eating.
You're not allowed to eat a meal out of
the but you could have a snack meat.
In fact
tells a story about they gave him less
than a to eat and he ate it in the
house. I wisely run out to the suka. So
if you're
so here we see the concept of
is
because of
there is one more and you look it up in
says are also because
so that's what we have basically we have
seven
most of them are kus
But we also see the like the says you
should live in the all seven days like
you live in your house but more than
that emotionally psychologically say
goodbye to the house make it a and the
is the in fact the and others suggest I
know it's not done but they suggest that
you should not cover the dining room
table with a regular shabas or yumptive
tablecloth to show I'm not living here
now. No one will do that. No one will
get away with that. Especially if the
eat in the house. So be covered. I'll
cover. But the point is to make the that
is the objective of our
so now let's apply bashem to all the
various shas. I'll go again we'll go a
lot more than just the question of
capandria or a vacation or a trip.
First question I want to ask a question
that's much more challenging than it
sounds. If someone eats matzah the first
day of pes okay let's remind night night
we have the matzah by day you eat matzah
no of matzah that's p right only the
nights of pes but if someone has a
breakfast he just washes and benches he
has to make
question
we just learned that there's no to to
eat in the suka
because to do so why do all of a sudden
if you do it in the suk you make a and
if there is a reason why don't make a
eat matzah on the first day or any other
day so for us the terrorist is so posh
it's not a kasha because there's no
mitzvah of eating matzah except for the
first night you want to eat matzah the
first day but there's no the mitzvah of
suk is not eating a suda the mitzvah of
suk is going to the mitzah of suk is
learning and teal and bottling. It means
living in the suka. So you could go
seven days without eating a suda. You
could eat vegetables and meat if
especially if a person is allergic to to
wheat products. He goes seven days
without eating wheat. No problem. But
you can't go seven days without living.
Living means learning and and sch
smoozing and and sleeping.
So the only thing the is saying is
there's no if to have a suda. You can
eat other foods, but there's a mitzvah
of
so if you decide to eat a suda, you make
a because that's the mitzvah.
So it's misleading to think there's no
that we don't need aud
But if you do have a suda of any time
now the truth is I said because
the the meaning always was to make on
anything you do in the go into the to
learn to sleep
was and
say that's
we only
But it's
so that's why if you do decide to go
into the and make a aud
next question also I'm sure you're
wondering we said that we pass like
there's no in the
because you don't have to eat a suda
question mark what happened to sudas
what happened to suda shabas don't you
have to have a suda because of suda
shabas and yamt So what do you mean you
have to go into only the first night? So
in a few words and that's an hour
you've cut your test and he continues on
to
as well and he says a beautiful to the
let's say someone is pretty allergic to
wheat products. He has a problem. He's
gluten-free but he'll eat just the
minimum. And he asks you tell me what's
the minimum
shabas and so we all say a but that's
not true is a is a to you all you need
is a kazayas
good so on the first day of sukus this
this person is allergic will eat a
kazayas of bread does he have to eat in
the suka absolutely not how do I know is
less than a you can eat
so now we have an interesting scenario
of
requires a
is only
that in
you have to have a suda of and that
could be eaten theoretically out of the
pill. Now Mr. does say that we always
try to have a on every and even the
first night
that it's akish
that we have a kaz even if you're not
hungry you have to go in the suka and
eat a kaz even they're supposed to have
a kaya but the bottom line is there's no
of having a amount of a that's what mean
so theoretically a person could go
without sitting in the suka except for
the first night, first second night that
is
with the
next question is an incredible insight
into maybe it's but is quoted in a
reliable
someone asked a very important question
that people are very makid that they
don't leave the suka for anything they
try to stay in the suka some people even
learn and d in the suka so Someone asked
them is that getting to Duru you're
forcing yourself to be in the it sounds
like you're under house arrest it's the
opposite so man said yeah there's
something called
which will soon see but this this is his
decision he enjoys it what's wrong but
then he says something I'm going to
quote because it's so incredible there
was a that did everything in the suka
pardon me including going to the
bathroom he doesn't say the details but
the he redeemed himself in the bath in
the suk as well. Okay, I'm not getting
into perspective of that, but
I think he missed the boat. He missed
the point because even when he if he
would decide to go out of the to go to
the bathroom, he still has a mitzvah of
I what do you mean he left the whatever?
So he says
because the mitzvah is
when you're in your house, you leave
your house occasionally, right? You
leave your dining go to the bathroom. So
living in the suk dictates sit in the
suk like your house and there are two
parts this and so says if it's
legitimate reason to leave you get the
mitzvah anyhow and is there's a key
when he leaves the
now this is a new ramification of
is saying that you have to go to davin
or you have to go to shopping the
mitzvah continues that's part of the
mitzvah
came to but the main point is you're not
under house arrest. I mean a person
lives on on on 48th Street, right? And
he goes to sh on 53rd Street. So he's
saying he he moved. He didn't move. Just
he's still home but he's just going
someplace. Dad came to Duru. He's
anchored in the suka. The mitzvah
continues. Now uses a pretty strong lion
that you're a mitzvah. Now I would hear
maybe it's not a spirit to a mitzvah.
And that I saw in another beautiful
chuva the sea the glo in
it's really a different focus but he
points to a question that bothered him
we know that if you leave a place a
location is a but when someone's in the
middle of a suda in he has to go to so
he has no time to bench he goes to the
sud goes to comes back you don't make an
so why not why
So he says the same the same is the
mitzvah of is not just sitting in the
it's
part of is leaving when you have to so
he says it's not a sick in the mitzvah
now he doesn't say you get for the
mitzvah but it's part of the mitzvah is
living for seven days in the which means
going to shul going to the bathroom
going to where you have to go but it's
not a break it's not a heik in the
mitzvah
Why? It's pain to do. So here he says
something a little milder. He's saying
that the mitzvah that the that it's not
a his
mitzvah but then he adds similar
and he says I saw I guess in the
you get a mitzvah when you go out of the
and into the okay going I understand why
going out so he says
that there is a kitzvah
when you leave legitimately. So here we
see a very new application of gain to do
which is important to mention because
people are a little nervous and they
feel guilty they're leaving the suk and
they worry relax the mitzvah is to live
normally you're not the whole rashi says
of the der means you're not in the house
arrest I had the sh once a bak said his
parents ask him to go go out go to the
house and pick up some get some from the
house but I'm afraid I'm leaving the
suka maybe I should tell my parents that
day I should ask my sister to go cuz
she's
But more than that, it's not a steer to
the mitzvah. When you're going out of
the as part of the use of the suka,
that's not a steer to the mitzvah.
Now, this leads us to the next question
and that basically is
all mitzvah
is not
is a virtue.
There was one of the that had a that if
someone's from
he's from eating it on why
and all the later jumped on this go it
can't be it's not true it's a in only
now what oh that we understand very well
because the mitzv
when you're there's no mitzvah but
there's no for in fact who doesn't know
the quoting both and
in the the famous story of whoever it
may be who was someone that was very
sensitive to wine he drank wine by the
night had a headache that's
only
to
Now this led me to the next question and
someone once asked I thought he was
joking but I looked into it and I found
it's not so off track let's say it's
raining on sukas now ka there was some
that stayed in the suka anyhow and they
said that leaving the suka so some of
them are fine but he had a better he
says I have a big umbrella you know the
the big umbrellas you know the bell
calls it a g umbrella I call it a
umbrella you're walking you could take
people with you but anyhow a big
umbrella
I'll hold it and that is of course and
I'll eat and I don't get a drop wet
because it's a really does a good job is
that for rain so
I say you have an oil so this is
discusses he says there's no problem of
oil that's oil because the oil suspended
by your hand is not an oil and I saw
goes back 100 plus years ago
And then
also says an umbrella that's held up by
a human being is not an oil enough to
the oil. So I believe it's a good idea.
But
he says that that's not going to do.
When you have a leak in your dining
room, you don't sit with your umbrella.
It's all modern. Now to me because
typically was very close to and he
quotes I did see the
he said he heard that the that the
briskov when it was raining would hold
umbrella and sit in the suka.
So I don't know you know he doesn't
bring that but the truth is there are
two issues number one you have to
clarify if the oil of the of the
umbrella is which is not of course we
don't use an umbrella but it makes sense
if that if you hold that is not this
would be a very good now last year if
you recall sukas came out very late in
the season and that's why it was cold
cold to the extent that people could not
sleep in the suka This year it's I don't
know about today but this year it's
early in the season
and it still might be hot but both of
these are a good example of kadu. No
doubt about it. If someone is very very
sensitive to heat and he can't bear the
heat his house he has an air
conditioning. The suk is nothing.
If it's very cold and he can't bear the
cold, he'll get sick.
But here you see the give a clause. It's
not an exemption and you know goodbye.
Try to avoid the problem or try to
relieve the problem.
Now see today it's very easy. You get a
heater. Hopefully it makes you get a a
safe heater. Keep it all night. But
today a heater will soon see is an easy
option. In those days it meant building
a heating system. There was no electric
heating system. It means a furnace a
fire which is dangerous. But he says
does it
let's say it's cold European could be
cold. So the food is congealing and then
when the food congeals the soup is
getting a jelly. He says, "You know what
a would be? Get a bowl of hot water and
put it under the soup. You'll make a a
sukaso."
We would say, "What? I got to do that. I
don't have to do that, but it's an at
you'll keep the soup warm." The mur
discusses when you want to learn the
suka, but it's a big schle taking this
farm to the house and back goes have a
good find a place to keep it in the
suka. Of course, if it rains, make sure
you remove them. But the place can say
instead of pinging find an back
which is important to mention. Let's say
it's chilly outside. So you say okay now
I'm going to eat quickly. I'll run into
the house afterwards. Why do that? Put
on a sweater if need be a coat and be
comfortable. You don't have to run out.
But why eat in a safety? You could avoid
the issue. The point is mitay is a when
it's unavoidable. If you could make it
work, make it work. Back to Mr. in a
different place also says if it's cold,
so get blankets, extra blankets. The
point is when there's a so when you
could relieve the relieve the mit that
is recommendable. Now when talking about
heat, so there we the those days they
didn't have an for excessive heat. It
was hot. It was hot. Today we still have
some people still have a fan which is
not bad. If it's very hot a fan probably
doesn't work. So again there areas I'm
not saying to do it but there's an
invest in a portable AC that they have
or something a cooling system. [music]
Some people actually they have a suka
that they build with an air conditioner
installed in it because every other
summer every other suk is warm. The
point is if you could do it, do it. And
again, I'm not saying it's a but
definitely a fan or a safe heater when
it's cold. Again, a safe heater means
there's no
a safe heater is a small investment and
it does a good job and it's safe that
should be done. The next question is
what can't be done in a suka? So that we
saw earlier and I'll just read because
it's a whatever you you cups you're
using to drink from you to keep in the
why even though you're finished
officially but a person might drink more
plates after they are finished you
finish the first course don't need the
plates lying around the suka. It's not
going to do. You finish the first cause,
take away the plates, bring in the next
cause. And that's why this is as a treat
the house with the dignity and respect
like your house. Treat the suk like your
house. I should say now to rush hurry up
quickly up eat normally. You're
finished. Clean up like you do in the
house. Rather I must mention there's
mash of the that the of keeping used
dishes in the suk is only at the end of
the meal from from first cause to second
there's no to remove the plates which is
like why not in in a normal house you
don't leave the soup plates during the
main course but will say the following a
person has to have a little bit don't
make people nervous oh let me take your
plate people let people finish you
finished take in the take in the extra
plates and start the next course what
is
spells out that initially the minute was
you're allowed to bring a pot into the
sukum if there's food in the pot. You
bring it in to serve. But since people
were sensitive to that, the minute
became we don't bring a pot in the suk.
Which means even though really bringing
a pot of soup is something that's done.
But then again by the shabas table you
don't plunk down a pot a pot pot of ch
on the table. You put it in a serving
bowl, a nice serving bowl. So that's why
the meaning has become that we don't
bring a pot even with food. A father an
empty pot must be removed. But even a
pot with food we put it into a serving
bowl outside of the suka. Some people
that especially they have they live on
the second floor and the suka is on the
in the ground level in the backyard. So
to have to make it a better plan. I
think the at bring the pot down to the
suka have a little table outside of the
suka. You could put the the pot there
outside of the suka and from there you
could serve. This way you have the best
of both worlds. But the point is here we
find being a sort of ara because you
have to keep the suka like your house
with the same elegance and with the same
[clears throat] so this is why it's
important to keep together. It's more
the attitude that makes the more. Now I
must mention another important factor
and that is
the says that has like a carbon
just like
on the
so the is
so besides the duru there's an is of we
don't have enough that that's not within
the context of the mitzvah suka has an
inherent kadusha that has to be
maintained at all times.
What I think is kad mentioned and that
is to make this part of is make the suka
as comfortable as possible. You know
there was I still remember like used to
be like the mainstream in it. You you
you took a a a extension cord and you
got a light bulb and with a a socket and
you you hang you hung a a light a bulb
into the suk very inefficient very weak
lighting and then a person finds it dim
and depressing today it's an inexpensive
investment they have these lights strip
lights and they have these um LED lights
you want to learn the suka you have
enough lighting this is a simple example
of getting the dur make it comfortable
make user friendly. Of course, get a
comfortable bed. You know, people I
can't sleep in the suk. Of course, you
got a bed like a cat, but get a a more
comfortable bed. It's to get a
comfortable chair. You know, there was
an old mini. You brought all the old
stuff to the suka because there was no
schllock in the olden days and it rained
in. So, you have a rickety table and a
rickety chair. Today we went up a little
bit in in the in the making the suk duru
to make it as comfortable as possible
because then a person enjoys it when
it's not comfortable when he feels arroy
when he feels it's you know barely you
know the table when you sneeze the whole
table shakes he doesn't enjoy being in
the suka so again good lighting and and
all these things enhance the enjoyment
of the suk I remember like yesterday I
went to visit bank of kamkis in his
house in my
incidentally it was a pretty cold Today
there was snow out and he was sitting
with his coat and we were talking and he
I I I saw that by him. I didn't see it
anybody else at the time. He had a a
phone installed in a suka. Now today we
know what the word installed means cuz
everything is wireless and and cordless.
But then he had to run a phone wire into
a suka. I guess he realized that he was
a a clament. He was a he was a manic and
he got phone calls throughout the day to
keep running into the house would make
the suka sort of a a strain and a
stress. Running in running out. So he
had a suk he had a phone in his house.
Okay, today rather bringing the phones
to the suk is no big uh no good idea.
Sometimes it distracts us further. But
the point is whatever you know will make
you more enjoyable in the suka. That is
definitely part of the of
now a sticky question is people asking
says no you bring the dish to China to
the table. Can we use disposable plates?
Now
if you use China nice dishes on chabas
so that would be ideal in the suk as
well and that's t way to do it. However,
the oldest cla
some people have again the suka on
ground level in the backyard. They're in
the second floor. They have canar a very
big family, extended family over and
it's a big job bringing out the plates
and usually children break a few of
them. Number two, washing all those
plates is no easy feat and it makes a
strain on the balis. They're working
hard enough juggling sudis and family.
So again, if you could do it, wonderful.
But I think a and
you know, I saw somebody asked me so
his wife wants to use disposable on
Shabas, but he has a problem because
disposal doesn't have kay and for you
have to have chabas. So he didn't say
these words but he said like in that
tone
your wife is juggling multiple
responsibilities raising your family and
getting a job and doing everything and
shabas she's falling apart as it is she
has to wash all the dishes he says the
is he said the tastes good the jaw is
good
so on and you know when you could manage
do with China fine but if it causes a
stress on the that are working hard
enough again it's a little bit It's not
God they make a little nicer plastic but
again a in is definitely within the
context of
because in one's house he also have good
meas so should not be different. Next
question is also an important question
is what what else should be done in the
so the says clearly
bas the word typically is translated as
a stroll a walk try to go for a walk in
a today but is bigger because the
doesn't have to be bigger than zion
that's 2 and 1/2 ft square try to go for
a walk in
in sim struggles. How do you sleep in a
suka? Zion al you have to crumble up he
says but you can't go for a walk. So the
em is that the word teal usually means
going for a walk. You have a big suka
fine we'll soon see I I found two good
examples of teal but really what the is
and that's the all the p say this teal
means re recreation relaxation ground
synonymous with relaxing is strolling
but it means for example all the p I
found three the the
all say if you're playing a game of of
course a kosher game play it in the suk
I'm not saying it's a mitzvah of of
limit playing a game but of sitting in
the suka that's m the police can discuss
if you have to you want to smoo with
someone things that appropriate of
course that's called teal reading kosher
literature or playing a chess game if
you want to play all those things are
part of teal again teal literally means
walk but in this context it means
recreation or maybe seems to say there's
a sha and teal what does teal include
anything
any other time you're spending quality
time with family that's all the teal in
the in fact he puts it very nicely
he says that
be careful what you what you do on onl
but if you have to do it do it in the I
use this someone asked me he has a
whatever the reason is to do some of his
work his paperwork on he must do it
whatever the case is should he do it in
the suka he's find like a stickle
steerup he sitting in the suka and
writing. But if it's mut then why not
doing the suk? The question you have to
be careful is with they're going to see
their father sitting in the working. So
if they understand or maybe then you
know maybe should wait till they're not
there that you have to that's your your
discretion. But the point like the Mr.
says
and keep it. But once the person decides
that this is appropriate for the then
that's part of that should be done in
the
smooing current events again when it's
not bordering on that should be done in
the suka.
Someone asked me he has to go at least a
half every day on a treadmill. If you
know what that mean, treadmill is
exercise. I says,
"I finally figured out a teal in the
sukum. If you could bring that treadmill
in the suka, you have a half hour of
teal." And the truth is that's that that
makes sense. Again, it's appropriate.
It's health. It's something he need. Why
not do it in the silk? Now, if it's a if
it's very heavy, he can't shle it. No.
So, you have to get involved with the
the which might be a that's a different
sug. But here's a perfect example of a
teal in the suk. Now the big question is
learning in the versus in the so we know
that says that was given
is even on
but this
seems to make it very simple all this
quotes this
is but
extended it to
in the why why not because you you you
have a mitzvah of
but
when he can't concentrate he's he does a
better job learning in the sh's base
medish then he could learn out of the in
other words the top first priority is
learning
or like would the sma from kite is first
and foremost you have to do your best
your learning question is where do you
do better so that's very subjective some
people could only learn when they have
the noise of of the cult and the energy
they that learning in the house they
fall asleep no and if during the year
never to learn at home you always go to
I saw the says then you put them
learning in the house because If you
always go to the place where there's a a
roar of a cold tyra suk is no different
because top priority is learning. If
someone enjoys the quiet oh so then you
have to know is the suka comfortable is
there good lighting is there the proper
heating heating or air conditioning
whatever it may be. So then the person
has to then he has to know if he's going
to learn good
the mur in fact says if someone the a
the air in the suk is not as healthy
like like it is in his house. So I don't
know exactly what [music] the problem is
because then you learn the house. So the
basic is like
so basically it's the same thing but I I
saw the lion of the
of the yank is when someone could make
it work that he be able to learn in the
If you can make it work, that's but also
remember what says a physical
that he's not learning well is also
part.
So can't fool yourself. If you're
learning top with with with a with a top
eon and involvement at home fine in the
fine if not go to shul and learn with
the ganske. So again basically it is
definitely sort of a subjective call.
Another question is where to light the
shabas.
So this
says
the light is in the
others say out of the in the house.
What's the difference? So says of course
the most train him a small suka there's
a that will catch fire. That's no good.
Then you have light in the house. But a
bigger suka which you're comfortable lie
in the suka fine light in the suka.
Now I do I do believe our sukas today
are probably never that suka katana. We
have nice size sukis. If you keep the
nis in the middle of the table in the
middle of the table it doesn't catch
onto the walls. The you should light in
the suk. However, and here's important
to mention. People that are getting
older and their kids are children are
either married or learning and they have
no young children. So, they have a
pretty safe environment at home and le
Shabas the isa lights and takes a
well-deserved nap and goes to sleep. But
comes and we have to be we have to
change gears. We have to be in the child
safety mode. young come and if the woman
goes to sleep and leaves the neighbors
unattended any place whether it's in the
dining room or in the suka children are
attracted to fire I know why they like
playing with fire and that's a very
dangerous situation it could be a big
house or a big
my point only is from from experience
you have to know that when we change
gear from adults to young children
things have to change of course leave a
window open without a window bar even a
So some people have a you know a weak uh
screen that's not doesn't do the trick.
You have to be careful to change your
attitude and make it young child safety
and one of the expressions is the people
are in the suka children running in the
backyard. Why not? It's back your
backyard. They walk into the suka and
they see fire or even if they don't
mischievous like that but they bang the
table and the candles fall down. So you
have to make sure that it's completely
safe even with children around. Then
light in the suka and typically our suk
is our now if someone is afraid light in
the suk. So the so the say the second
best place lighted if the eat in the
house light on that table. If you could
light a place that you could see the
narrows from the from the is even
better. But one thing in
don't light in in the don't light in the
suka and bring it to the house of vice
versa. Apparently the went on the
nearest in the house and bring it to the
suka of vice versa is sort of a shin mo
but no doubt about it. Find the best
place, the safest place and make sure
it's safe taka and light there. The new
sha that we have in recent years when
many many blocks are blocked by sukas
and you have to walk either walk through
the suka or walk around. So the question
is says in both
and
you're now going to make a shul into a
shortcut. For example, you want to go
through the shul to get to the other
side quicker than going around the shul.
So that's an isidon of making a shul
like a pa. It's based on a Mishnam. It's
a terrible disrespect for the shul. The
question is, does this apply to a suk?
For example, instead of walking all
around, you walk through the suk. So
you're wondering why should it apply to
the suk? Maybe
has relevance here because we learned
that is
like the is maybe there's a cap
like it is by
more than that.
So too in this other context you have to
realize that a bid we don't use a house
for a capri. So I saw the
in
says bas should not walk through the to
make it a capandria. Now it's
interesting he he he he mentioned
but the original
writes
it's not like aes
so one of the writes that there's no
by it's only by a basis the probably is
that even though suk as kadusha but it's
still not a bas so all the can point to
this is that there's no isra by now
there's another because if you had your
road and used to walk through and then
they built the shul on your road so the
says if you were there first you'll
continue using kapandria no all of us
walked on the streets of borak and
flapush
recent until recent years walked in like
the rest of the year. So we were there
first. So no doubt about it you can walk
through a shul a a a suka no problem of
capria. What I was thinking is maybe we
could find another case of of mat before
you walk into the I have a mind I want
to be the mitzvah of b then once you
have a mitzvah of suk there's no of
kapandria the only issue is writes in
one place that if someone it happens to
be in the suka he wants to pay up a debt
so he goes to goes to his malva and he
gives him money who and the malva is in
the suka there's no mitzvah there's no k
mitzvah there because it's mikma
he's not
suk that I understand but I'm telling
you if you decide I'm going to the suk
to give it a mitzvah of yeshiva
so this might be our second expression
besides the the other case of the
treadmill it might be a walking through
a and now we we have two more questions
I guess we can say
but definitely very challenging and the
first one simply as we mentioned earlier
someone wants to take his family on a
trip he never has a chance to go with
family. He's working. They're in yeshiva
and they're in school. They live in
Lakewood. They live in Muny, but the
whole family's together. He wants to go
on trip. To his dismay, the place he
wants to go has no suka. I mean, many
many recreation areas have plenty of
sukis. But let's say he wants to go to a
place there's no suk. Can he eat and
drink a bread meal out of the suk? How
about if he's on a plane? if he's
driving. So the MS is
it makes sense to say you are
it doesn't mean
because that's
a different it doesn't mean only eating
fruit and and and snacks because
and the
and others say
is a perfect example of
add I found it funny he says but don't
say since you're going
in the midst of by running around to all
these places because sitting in is also
does not mean running around it means
being there so doesn't like the of
mitzvah but definitely
however there is one word in rashi that
might change the picture rashi says says
just like the rest of the year you don't
refrain from going out
so too on
someone asked this question can I go on
a trip and eat out of the says it's the
only is going to
which is not a mitzvah but it's a
mitzvah doesn't say but it's we find
some for
Right? Because
so felt to go on a on a trip just for
the fun of it. Who said it's Rashi chose
the words
then adds
now? Think consider this.
Someone decides I want to go on an
overnight hike. I'm going to have a eat
by by by campfire. I'm going to sleep in
a in a a little of outdoors. I won't
even take a tent because it's nice
weather. I'll sleep me and I'm out in
the in the the big outdoors
allowed to eat and sleep out of the suk.
It can't be. So [clears throat]
emphatically says the the is only for
something similar to
and then he said beside that you're
going you put himself in a that's a
question of
has the same exact approach if you have
a reason to go
but you can't go just for a trip and
then he adds also he quotes but if you
could do it before left the Yam then you
can't go on Yamo and he bring he brings
from from
now the big with this is that in doesn't
make sense because the whole
says just like the rest of the year
you're not under house arrest you're
allowed to go where you want so too on
so why do you say it's only
Rashi says that's true but says the same
and leaves the word. So Rashi says maybe
just because that makes sense the person
leaves the house with but who said it's
limited to that
and more than that if it would be that's
considered mitzvah so maybe it's already
mitzvah. So how do we get to this
conclusion that we're limiting him to
go? The whole dua means you're not
limited to go. You're not under house
arrest. So why do we say all of a sudden
that you can't go unless you have a good
reason. And this is why I did see a
number of that Rabbi Yash officially is
quoted as saying you could could go that
adds another he says with family perhaps
could be considered.
What's the mitzvah?
You enjoy the being with your family the
it's enjoying the so if you enjoy going
with your family that you don't see a
whole year why isn't that also of
so this is why this question I wish it
would be more it's interesting Mr. Bur
says
we once explained the of
he says just like the rest of the
so too on so one of the oh you see it
has to be like but it can't be just a
trip and I would say why can a mean trip
you you don't see your family a whole
year do you live in different states
finally you're all together.
But I want to add to that himself
he revisits the question and he says if
you he says don't go a trip but let's
say you flew to Israel and you're only
there for you're coming right coming
right back home you're allowed to go on
sightseeing
because no other time then he adds
if you go to a different country but
you're only
you're allowed to go sightseeing
even though you're going to have to eat
out of the why because it's
so I want to say if if the sightseeing
in France allows you to eat how about
spending time with quality time with
family there's no other time again you
go after after who has time to go you
can make it work but if you can't make
it work
maybe this would be the
going to France why can you allow go
with your family now you want to say I
I'll go I'll I'll only eat snack fine
that's a good it's a good approach had
that approach but to say it's when
there's no other opportunity and there's
also a real
I saw a very nice I think it puts it in
perspective
it's
he says there's certainly there's No
haba to wait. Why you allowed to leave
your house? You're allowed to leave your
house on circus. That's game to do but
it's a to leave your house to go on a
teal.
It's but you're not you're not
calculating correctly. So that's true.
If you could avoid it, avoid it. But if
someone has no other choice, no other
time to go. We have this especially when
he's in a car or a plane. That's a a
real
which is is really in quoted by
says Huna was going for
and
he wouldn't even drink water out of the
even though he was terribly thirsty. He
had three major.
So everybody wonders what's what's the
iss
but if someone is more and doesn't and
goes and only eats just snack
and last but not least I want to mention
the the
in the beginning of
he starts off with a strong not appeal a
strong condemnation he says to be in the
eat and sleep and teal
And a person should not leave. If he
does, he's
and he says if you have to go into the
house to get something, send someone
else to get it or go and come back
quickly because when any moment you're
out of the suka, you're losing it's a
mitzvah.
Now this at first glance is a this is
the opposite almost of rashi andisuru.
They both say can't do means you're not
in the house to rest. The
quotes
who needed an hour walk a few times a
day. So he took an hour he on if need be
he would take three strolls out of the
suk. Of course 3 hours of walking out of
the suka. Why? He needed it. So how do
you say that if he stays in his house an
extra
mitz? to you're not you're not under
house arrest. So in
he says the beer in is if I would pay
you $100 per hour just stay in your
house stay in your dining I want to
observe you would you run out to trip
you go tomorrow right suk has a
tremendous so
even in the house you live with you
wouldn't give him $100 an hour stop to
go on a trip so why is different in the
He has a different quote but the same
idea. If you would have a house that has
every tin under the sun would you leave
it to go
the suka has a tin that's called say
loosa the suk they leave the suk.
So he's trying to get from different
angles to give it a perspective that if
you enjoy the suka so much
like you enjoy your house so much you
wouldn't leave your house in that
context. So why in the in other words
even to you live with do that by also I
this very sh says
in other words take things in account
but after all this beautiful
said that we don't like
a person that feels stressed out and
strained oh I got to get back to the
defeating the purpose of getting to in
other words there is
to go on a trip is a to go into your
house. If a person feels that he can't
leave, he has or whatever or he's so
tense about leaving the house, he's
missed the point. The point is to make
the suka enjoyable. If you want to go
into the suka and enjoy it, good sadikim
that sat in the suka when it was
raining, they enjoyed the suka. No, they
enjoyed the suka more than than going
into the house. That was their
a little bit that has to do here as
well. The point is we have to make the
suka the place of great pleasure. And
basically the the point has to be I saw
this takadas. The aderas writes about
himself. He had a tremendous love for
the suka. Nothing got him out of the
suka even if it was cold even if it was
windy and I never left the suka. And
then he writes I started thinking I
might be guilty of not make kaduru.
You hear what he says because I I feel
like I'm I'm I'm stuck in the suka. But
he says, "I enjoyed it so much it didn't
bother me." So I think the right
approach is we should learn to
appreciate the suka enjoy the suka. But
if someone feels he can't be in the suka
that long that's the going to do but we
should have the
we should have
to all of you.
Smith
the next sh from Smith will be Monday
first at 12:00 12:00
seeum seeum
Okay, let's just
keep up the good work.
Okay, let me just go go around please
go. Let's just quickly learn today.
First of all, the mitzvah we saw seven
different
the
but the basic is to make the enjoyable
that's why really
less than a
that's why could be out of a suk if you
have a kazay but we do with the in the
suk of course
precious that even if you leave the suka
that's part of the mitzuk came to Duru.
So don't feel strained when you have to
go into the house to help the wife, help
parents. There also said it's not a
heftick in the mitzvah. There's
the is to realize that the that that's
one package and that's why so many are
based on this. For example, the is only
by because it's not going to duru the
sitting with an umbrella. Some did it
and some didn't. If you feel mitz then
don't do it. Obviously if you feel that
it's a great idea wonderful because it's
not a problem
of course if it can't be done make it as
comfortable as possible of heating fan
air conditioner
get the right furniture a good bed a
good table a good chair. It makes a suka
pit a real tank like it's supposed to
be. Cups can be left in the suka. Plates
that are used and pots certainly should
not be in the suka. disposable plates
when you need a little you have to have
also if it's too hot to use China that
is to have a pleasant and a stressfree
another point I wanted to mention is
games or literature smoozing if it's
acceptable for
it's acceptable for the as well that
would be teal make if you can make
learning workable in in the
if a person and function learning well
in a little small suka go to BME
still dominates lighting in a suka
should be done if it's 100% safe and
keep in mind the children roaming around
they shouldn't make any s it's to walk
through a suka the eight would be if you
want to make a teal by having three in
the mitzvah
try to find a place for a trip that you
could eat so the family sees that you're
but If a person has no other choice,
it's no other time. There is to have a
full meal out of the in a pler
and
is to make the suk enjoyable. So you see
and of course we see the great mitzvah.