Shidduchim Q&A - Rabbi Zev Smith

both are 86. and everything else the person is there but it looks like they're you don't see the arashem but you should do him you see the unmistakable Yad Hashem that is as clear as day that the person that is still doing it protest foreign [Music] if the person doesn't want this [ __ ] to forget about it it's not going to go and the other series then leave the MS a person doesn't really established but you have to calm your nurse you have to do something but that was the real Sita the Starbucks in time but that's gracious look just come out the same luster the same Musa that basically just to relax you we do we do what you have to do we really basically answered all of our questions because what are you being nervous why are you making me stop this what are you pushing advice that will take care of it but I must say that your boy is saying because it seems that there are sources and value that the person does have to make you stop because then the truth even the best drug was made and we'll see first of all from the first [ __ ] in history you look hallelu yes made such a status [Music] a certain sense of attention so obviously you can't just sit back and let things happen you have to do things and what time is always amazing the Lord is the Shabbos if the person lives his years he basically asked the answer to a four question for her assure and also there are two others which are part of it but the obvious question is no I understand Tyra is a person's life Yeshua that's up to him but how did it how could that be one of the questions is Assassin appearing some people never can have children how can you blame them how could you ask that question like to look at them I saw them means but you're always sick and ready should be okay one of the four big questions that we have to answer is were you concerned about the thousands upon thousands of singles but the question is if they punish the fear to belt and the person asked the Shopkin why do I have directions the guardianship is doing that since you'll know throughout history if you enjoy the oiler how busy the daily was very busy but tremendous amounts of calculus ready to do him foreign [Music] what's your problem evidently a person could lose so how do you reconcile these systems yeah so one parrots we have these parrots is so you look at these xiaomis the fairies and that is Nothing Stops but the other says it's more than just and here we come to I think is the biggest history today but you have an agenda I'm going to tell you the kids are what I think is the posture child in this studio we all also have a moon that Panasonic don't forget Hashem but a person like a fish oils and if someone just sits back and waits for the version to send them onto his door he might stop it but even though it is how much every penny is going to make you have to make it another person could could lose his but shared um rabbit it's his bags now I'm not worried about shared unless he's a ramban that says he might die from from this this wrong the talking because if after the birthstone is the right behind Israel but a person has to make normalish this I think is also regarded by this week and about the 40 days before the basket goes out but a person has to do his status but to the rest of us we have to realize that a person doesn't do which tacos all right Dr found the rambam and the tubus and equivalent in Grace the persons that care for Duty has to do so now that we have hopefully a better picture of what the search means in the shadows will try to apply this for myself to the many Shivers but I want to be magnitude two very important decide this and again to the whole ship the first one is a yesterday [Music] rule for this question because yeah the grass the cloud service in at the docker cloud the best clouds of no Cloud let me tell you that's rule number one and Elkins there is no clown I'm gonna try to give you clothing but there's no cloud sometimes it's just an exception so rule number one is that there's no cloud the rule number two I want to spoken to Obama about a certain size up and he said you know the Christians he says he was a place to the client so and very often he writes Allah is Island well that's rule number two I'm gonna try to give clothing I'm gonna try to give the details but sometimes the only cloud is yasu shayla's father so if you ever heard it hear something go see something it's definitely what I said I'm not surprised I'm gonna give you the basic column but sometimes there's no clown and sometimes you have to say let's [ __ ] but one thing I think is the cloud the most important established about himself or his children of his grandchildren is what he hasn't did as his first established and that is filled up Hashem of the Catania from hacking another funny the first and most important lawyers Isha a person has to constantly dive in person what age it's never too early in her mouth she says you should gather now for later he says a girl when she's of age she knows how to write or read she should write and she should be the right to her or she's right Elusive and she should dive in her sugar not when she's in her teens when she knows how to read so basically it's never too early to die for a [ __ ] it's a wonderful to tell your child when they get close to age you know him is coming and we know that Hashem and Tilda is a crucial role in God's happening what should they diving wants to know stuff it's a rather there is a notice of their many use but it's not Africa has an issue a person can make in any language whatever he wants and that's what a person to do in English a person understands that the most important is Fila so hopefully for that that needs what you might ask if I have to happen if it's my share this 40 days already so for us today it's Washington because a person needs a status this is and also maybe I have to water off don't forget to summon out that also the kayaka Phillip who might have my viceratinum but I think it's multiplied most positive is yes your [ __ ] that is there but how long will it take to find those and I've experienced above him sometimes the first time and some is 21st time 20 times so I hope that's not by all of you but basically this is something that we have to realize now that's number one but also we just learned and we just saw the the effectiveness of its feeling Leia was destined to marry ASAP she was supposed to have foreign was to marry hey stuff morale says to change Mazel is harder than changing Kevin I had a leg a change of being anxious ASA after being the the Revenant of of of Jaco levino and one of the the mountains of claw you throw the answer is because Leia cried her eyes out and feel them that this is a lesson of the kayak's Villa that can even change one and they get a good person the better my character but certainly it has to be there to get out by shelter but here like in all of trila we will run to the Brokers and the schoolers which is okay but I think Amara says regarding the most important feeling is of the person themselves attacking the border the girl should know that that we have to die it's a good idea of parents and even grandparents and they say proceed in the growth of Rights is foreign and this is not my [ __ ] this is a Pharisee tomorrow the same game that speaks about the mother said brother saw someone that was happening that Bishop to work out she said is that a good idea because if this is your bicerta you'll get it don't worry and if it's not you don't want to get it so don't dog over this one they couldn't it was unbearable sometimes I told you we are very near side we're very much pleased to go in and we don't see what's the best for us so what should you dive in that your this is that I should get my by Sherita my Civic as quick as possible in the easiest way possible if this is my you I tell people dominate this if I should look let it work out well if it's not let it fall apart right away because it is but it's succinctly did not apprecially share my mouth you leave out the name and don't don't mention all the you know the graphics Davenport the [ __ ] should work out but what's what's interesting yes because if you're down for this one it won't work out because it's not too bad [ __ ] and you're gonna Wonder can't give me that that [ __ ] so they ain't not really I saw the round says this but why can't it be that even if it's not my best character the worship could change it because they are wrong says the same thing who said not getting this [ __ ] is there wrong maybe you're destined to get a better [ __ ] what do you mean this is very rough you don't get this [ __ ] though how do you know do you know what's going to be tomorrow so the right approach to David or the Daven I should get my assertive my my my zebok as quick and easy as possible the next question is what exactly established what does establish mean so obviously and that's push it doesn't leave mention a person has to do status I get stories over the years that are the heartbranding people have dude very crooked things try to get a sugar out of stories true stories people try to stop I should have been progress because they felt they wanted that sugar and we wonder what are you thinking because I'll tell us in no uncertain terms May Hashem is is evolved Hands-On without estepona and you're gonna do an apple to get a sugar it's just it you know you know the thinking they're not thinking but if they understand that we are just doing going through the motions then we do only our language to others people say I'm gonna I'm gonna promise the world and then after she goes I'm just gonna say I can't I can't give it and that's it why you know because someone should go to Bronco and that's you're gonna get [ __ ] that by lying is hey a girl did not beautify herself before she went out so they said what's gonna be okay I'm not worried that'll give me the right sugar and shut up she made a wonderful sugar so from the first to explain I've had the person asked the people look presentable but she was afraid that someone will come to have her room Roy by seeing her looking pretty so she gave up that extra Milo because she believed in practice and how the person has to dress up properly and look the best they can the person that's thinking of doing things foreign to go on a place that's inappropriate I can see us so of course they shouldn't have to be done it's an incredible cup of Italian it's very Odom Sim and Olive and the whole savior baptism is very much for growing beards and he says someone came to once and said you know you have to cut off his beard because the birds have feared The Bell the verse maybe and you have to do something wrong in his eyes to get a [ __ ] my beard my beard is my shirt it's so so emotionally to think by doing the wrong thing you're going to get it the person needs your help it's a famous Marshall but it said in this context he says 100 cars attached one to the other and he wants the help to conducted against the following because so when the last car he's pushing the wall he's pushing pushing it he can help him wasting your time is pulling the strings you have to help by doing something that's wrong so again I'm not talking about that specifically but to do something wrong and the sugar is a spirit and we have to do everything that has always count 100 but everybody say now we also understand s foreign but their butter slime is demanding of us a sack that appearance really you have to get about they're just like the doctor can say someone has a heart attack he'll be okay I'll say you'll tell him and you know he'll be okay do you understand us and just like in Pagosa you have to help someone get a job but don't say don't worry version of health and their Baseline needs our help would you like to say that for the person wants our health and the bonus one says that no one certain terms if we don't reach your dog will not happen [Music] president in the last day of his life whom he was going he told the book I'm gonna read a sitter but I'm not going to talk to you about it again so please look into it because this is not going to bother him he was going his last moments you know the point is the Vegas in that moment because the person he was ready to sit there you think about you know the the need today you know they talk about ten thousand singular herds even more than that but there are ten thousand virus films believed to Canada don't have opinion either yet you know we should never know the pain of the parent that's waiting as a single child if an older girl with other mindless and they put so much into them and days go by weeks go by months ago by years go by and this the air is getting more gray and more gray to never know the pain of how it destroys a family structure the younger children are waiting the grandparents are nervous and you know you could hear the person what's going to do with my child and but he say this carry all a thousand times that's the sharp in a sack to the period of Arabia the bright side is crying out after 10 000 singles and I told you it's not going to go if you don't do anything why am I getting evolved I told you that this has to have a style Einstein's the final graphically tells your Shiva goes to sang [Music] if this has been he did something that weapons they will never forget and I got someone sent me a transcript to have right in front of me what he said he said Tire yourself don't forget your mother don't forget your daughter once again [Music] and three times he repeated in my mind's eyes reverse them is saying that there are so many boys and girls that need to talk and it's not going to happen the concept that was so good at kavate you have to be because this is really this is part of my shirt the same that says demands of us Assateague the next question is also a difficult question can a person misses by Sherita so again this is out of my range but it's a bit there she come on the concept is the gomor of but a different way of losing the shield listen with a quote for me the Skype went clear he said Miss amazing that this better says that 40 days before a child is born the vasel goes out that this is it's not Xavier that has to be it's probable it's the right one but a person with his foolishness could miss it by Sharita [Music] I'm nothing and they will lose the machete and he writes this very clearly I'm not going to say exactly how he says it is too painful but he says people come to me they're 24 25 26 27 28 where's my bicerata and I tell them you handed my character but you threw it away if you want this something you didn't deserve now what the hell how to apply that I'll give that to you but this is the point that the concept of is there for you but a person has to live with declares all this cloud he said it's a person has to be realistic when the classics [Music] to go down a level y EP this is a budget a person thinks he's 20 levels above what he really is he thinks he's one one and only so you go down a little bit you might get to the real you so it's a good idea to go down but the point is that this is important that a person has to be realistic and I tell people many times I think the most important thing to move avatar on is yeah he has a certain name once you give up Miami breeders you'll find the right sugar it's always great on people saying it is bombers after a while explode don't forget but but the problem is he's been looking for it was not his by Sharita so my plus he overlooked it by Sheriff I must apologize I wanted to talk more specifically about what to look for but I see it was too much so we'll leave that for a difference here I think we'll call that the perfect [ __ ] there for the imperfect person which is really the challenge but basically it has to be a person has to be realistic you see one cloud is when a person is Shiloh should I give it up because we have the keys okay a person has his his face write a letter to what he calls I don't have to read the whole letter but he says while you keep on rejecting your daughter should do her because you're thinking about yourself you're worrying about your own cupboard and he's saying yeah yeah yeah but why are you sure if the blood of your own daughter this is something that we know what's going on there's a problem the Miami Bridge is the dominant Factor and that has to change because a person who could model this one throw away is my shelter a difference now that's the good news is the magician Mr Hoff test test [Music] now this is a startling accusation a person is and and his cause of foreign when they were still 40 days before they were born the buddhista made that Sugar you're saying you made that [ __ ] up you can't even say I made a sugar okay what's up he said tonight right I lost it oh I didn't sound a person is this person now if you know anything about limitations when there's a dysfunctional family and there's no parents see right however there's plenty I've been climbing I'm the father Hassan because Builder once said because after all your status and you finally got your daughter engaged all you're going is and don't make Italians foreign to see that but the message is that the sugar is there and that gives us tremendous because even and out with times it has to decide is it is my job is [Music] foreign you know after a while you get a little frustrated because you know they don't know how to drive and you do you're driving then and then I hope they make everybody nervous if you tell them nicely why don't you sit back and enjoy the ride because again I'm driving and you're not there I know what I'm doing and you know what you're doing you're getting nervous and getting me nervous no one's gaining who are losing why don't you sit back and enjoy the rides this man is just telling us why don't you sit back and enjoy the ride the device done is pulling strings and making everything work just follow the rules sit back and enjoy the ride because after the [ __ ] that is made when you realize all you did was an argumentative Hospital you can say wow I couldn't do this that's perfect [Music] just sit back and enjoy the ride and about the same as Chevy is [Music] but there's more to this because igmara says Tabasco goes out 40 days before a child was born the obvious cash questions if we don't hear it anyhow it's on a simple level you're starting with the given that the sugar is there follow the rules and you're guaranteed only the silly things you lose like you know sometimes I tell people it doesn't scare me what you're doing my [ __ ] isn't there I'm not worried about that you have to make it go you have to Darvin but this is the reality it's it's heavily and because of to say we made the [ __ ] yeah take it easy okay it looks good how when do I know I'm ready so obviously when someone's emotionally involved and you know he hears the bells and they see the fireworks so he doesn't ask questions but I'm talking about any other footballer that's working out please it seems to make sense it has all the Mindless sounds if you're willing to make the decision yes you don't have to air for the bells and see the fireworks and that's midnight if you make sense part of me Hashem easterly is you're going to get the feeling when you're ready it doesn't have to be he's just overtaken by emotions and he's out of control that's a dangerous approach because they're not thinking approaches it makes sense and he's ready and maybe that's not the basket will be still here that he gets the feeling that I'm ready now laid garbage and finally Rock I still listen [Music] the first one is when the foreign [Music] so approach this question the second one he says when the person is turned off he doesn't know why I just I can't figure this in my Center that's just that's the basketball that's not for you that's the Harry base was not for you unless of course you make me a mistake but then is the third situation and that is when he's not he's not been pushing him off nothing attractive him but it makes sense so that's a bra because now he's working only with disabled he's not being you know distracted by anything but is this going to be my partner for life don't forget you know they're always Wows and the international best around a few hours but then you stuck with that person you know 50 60 70 years so he says if a person's working with Seiko and making this management it's wonderful now this is a beautiful approach you know if someone feels it's he can't make a commitment that's a symbol that it's not for him I asked him about to tell you right now if you would get a message that she said no would you be happy or I'll be so happy that's not for you you can marry someone now the Hope says no it's not judge so you're getting a similar maybe that's also part of the basketball but you know the the remember the happiness in marriage does not have to be when we're done eating yeah because it says he married up and then by yourself the brother of marriage comes afterwards it's something that the American fantasy has different ideas as we swept off his feet but that's dangerous but this approach you make the decision you make the right decision but say who and then desires not to do my sherata foreign [Music] a few more times listen I'm out of citizenship but I'm out of going he said I'm about to see you with me once but I might be good I have a little bit darker than one also I met enough times I kind he's living he's sitting back and enjoying the ride and the truth is no one knows man how many times you go out we live in a world that people negot they meet for months and months and the divorce right the divorce rate today was unprecedented replace that was asked a bizarre question and evanese we saw the one that apparently make sure this is by Sharita so he wanted to rent what is that the children one room in an apartment children a different room will be available and to live together without your hood for a few weeks and how he leaves his socks under the bed you know they want to see each other in their best and the worst no no you don't do that if you find Kane and you did Miss bakersen and everything fixed good and nobody knows even by going out against it of no one knows remember when I got engaged somebody told me is one surprise I hope you'll have pleasant surprises that's it you know that's the inside of it we have to dive in that we should have surprise pleasant surprises but this is our greatest Manuka nephesh you know I don't know where this is coming from of faith and that's a Yiddish concept because after you make your rational sensible responsible decision then it's a Mona it's a Mona mashem and this is maybe the hergation that you feel that I want to go on that's the basketball that's still resonating today I don't know but definitely this is the way to do things is there for you sometimes it the child the maduba just feels it's not right he doesn't feel you know the deity ready to make it a commitment parents have to be very careful not to force them that's not that's not the right thing because you know I would say Mr Peanut just like some good Island would not advise someone to give a name because they said the name that the father has to give the name the child the boy the girl have that her gation if they're willing to commit or not if they're not it's not their [ __ ] now sometimes the child has cold feet is afraid so then you can push him a little bit but to make a decision for the child I could tell you stories that is not the right thing especially parents have their new gears don't forget so basically the children involved have to do an elderly and making and the verse number now the next question is when it doesn't go that smoothly and if there's a problem or two or three should I take that as a sign that is not but shared because if it should go smoothly so that can't be because the gamara says in two places cautious and taka disciple in a letter and crying obeys with Zion and lock safe Cloud don't even think that if it's good to me it wouldn't it would be I would it would go smoothly because that can't be because it says nigamara it's creation and that's part of the essence of a that how it comes it goes through many different ups and downs and bumps but the fact that it doesn't go smoothly is not Araya that is not Bashar that's part of the Korea's yamsuf he says and taco anybody who knows sometimes they go smooth and sometimes there's a lot of excitement you have to sit back and enjoy the ride remember but don't forget some people focus too much on the bases hayam and that confusing that's nicely some moment you have to be just remember that it's crazy answer but the next question is a lot more challenging and let's say it goes from bad to worse and you get a no either before they even meet they say we're not interested or they go out or go in go out whatever it is and they say it's a wonderful you know but you know I always say that's yes that butt is like you know devastating now what do you do should I say cautious should I try and push so this her voice side is this is the terrorist time that we just we're just laying not long ago elieza started with its film the water jumped up to her he saw everything on the test she passed with flying colors and then he gives love at him Soul the ultimatum Imlay if you're not interested if you don't want like say in America I'm out of here what are you doing my sim the Bells Are Ringing the same name all the bells are ringing since his his feet how do you give up such a shadow you know the answer is the starting point is foreign he quotes this particles [Applause] it's not just for elieza it's for us in Thompson pay gimmel if you get a flat no is no now this is not all the spirit What disciple said this type was talking about that there's difficulties that's crazy answer but a flat known emphatic no is no and I'll prove it it's not a sphere because the same Stipe on Orchestra magdalid he says it's quoted that if they say no don't push now Lamesa this is not only if they say no before they met because in in the story of love and absulin the parents said they mean the two sides met and this type of attack is at the fairies if they couldn't if they got a flat no after they met a few times then go elsewhere bumps is one thing but a no is a no now but I must tell you also which is not which is part of the cloud Rabbi yase if they say no does that mean it's over she says you know something and that's very practical he says you know today the word no has a different meaning I'm all no meant no today no means we want more money three says or we have to find out something so he says then if they want more money you have to decide you know are you giving it to the highest bidder you know those type of questions but no means we want something else okay so you negotiate so everybody actually was a very practical person and it's not a spirit you know if the no means that this is not albashar that it's over if the no means let's talk business so it's up to you with its own business what's the same approach if you know why they're saying no they know because they heard that this is about the boy and it's not true um how many times we have misunderstandings misinformation so again you have to have the clown number one there's no clown but if the no means they know the real picture is not for them then go elsewhere what sometimes much more challenging is when you get that no that boys and you reject it and you feel invalidated you know a person you know they didn't even meet the way did they say no you know a person feels like two cents it's devastating you know your whole self-worth goes down the drain how does a person deal with the rejection or perhaps more painful if they met then somebody's met a few times already and then comes the yes so tired eating the answer to these very painful questions is the same answer to all of our problems and that's the rain Hashem is and you found out now and not later that this is n't that the way elieza made that very bold decision to go elsewhere I'm happy I found out now we don't know if they've saying no is devastating or like we saw from the round it's a devotion saved us from Xavier because there was this [ __ ] if the person wants him to say yes to the person will tell to say yes but a monument isn't destroyed by the answer no he's just getting the you know I I told him you're getting a Gmail Jeep I'm g-o-d male this is not you about Sherita imagine a person who's devastated and he gets a basketball Hashem they said no maybe that's the basket that we all hear when they say no the same Gamora in the beginning of Satan I saw an incredible story oh and a wonderful safe I'm going to say come up with the details a girl was depressed from being rejected so she came to the casino says listen I need to pay from you I want you to bring this letter to the Sparkles number two will you bring it for me he said of course now what happened to yesterday number two and it's not a one-family house it's a big department building because this is Muslim telling you it's four stories and there's a bunch of different families on and there's no directory of who lives where what would you do so she was flustered how am I gonna find because like tens of families I said I want you to think what would you do so she was a slow cover girl I was Ring the first doorbell and say uh they would say no right well you do that oh great so tell me if let's say you rang the bell and it goes is this call no this is haki would you start yelling why are you not crying why are you not crying of course not because you need Kai this is what do you want from them so you gotta try and try until you find Miss Baker's client he says remember he said when they say no then they are not mishbach's coin is there for you what a powerful muscle with a Muna what a simple master with amuna this is your Gmail it's not your best now a person gets the answer no he has to dig into his emuna and live with it may Hashem is she was saved from a calamity but I must say at a different point you know because the truth is that that's good for parents he feels you know he feels a absolute God from you know he feels invalidated he's rejected but even for that there's a rain ahead of you the shimuna and that wonderful safe very very close to him he heard this from crimes and he had two ages about this very story was the um I quote when I was 17 years old the fact of the hazinish and his parents the stipula were ready Mr Durham I first got married he was 23 years old he waits spent six years in the Parish of him now he did not say how many times how many people he met but he spent six years in and listen then he added he said did not materialize I met Harvard nobody wanted Marlon Robinson Israel imagine now I'm sure there anyways why not say explained because mitzvah so how could I marry a girl that's 11 years old so the birthstone kept me busy for six years till she becomes of age they read this and the rest is history look at the Exquisite protest the burnstone put into Abrahim obviously sat back and enjoyed the ride but at the time do you think he felt shattered do you think he felt destroyed then let's see how many times he met but then he added and I quote again you have to know meet killer when you started that if it's the right one it's gonna happen if it's the wrong one be happy it doesn't happen and therefore he says whether he went out we met one girl or a hundred girls there's nothing to feel bad about a knee he said I saw many other toys [Music] that's guidance you know I'm thinking maybe I shouldn't think like this but I do those girls I said no to him the time they felt you know pretty above him and he might have felt you know a little and they gave up Rob until you throw but but if they had a moon they would have looking back at mattress back there was never a shelter but imagine that six years you know he says Allah shall have a hundred I don't know if that was him but it gets that much so whether it's one or a hundred there's a Barbie Island and probably I think the most important part of our sugar today which is the really the icker of me Hashem is because the truth is the real necessamona begins after the hasana because as we know we live in a world and no one's perfect and everybody has mindless and the way to have a show and buy is is to live with that Reina Haley is that this is my bachelor I got the the message the Gmail I got the irrigation that this is I followed the rules I got Tabasco and this is my bachelor and instead of spending a life finding his rightness I'm gonna spend the life making it work because this is my bacherita my other half my better half however Nursery like but 40 days before I was even born this is my bachelor now it might say in in Doris Meister in the past he asked the question is why do we have to know about the Basco that we don't hear any or anything is talking not about this question particularly it's a person has to live with a moon and a toy is real and he says the bus go is real and then this is [Applause] the greatest impact on Shalom bias and simcha sahayam is when a person says this was the burnished just for me custom-made just for me you know people double parking a Friday a short Friday afternoon get a ticket say oh I share it that's negligence when someone gets married he has to say every day of his life this is and that's the ultimate by shirt I'm always amazed you're learning public that RAV had a wife Hamid Salo de vissu that he said is his wife him how did these people live through the gehennim of Miami Marvis gift wrapped like tomorrow says you know the answer is it's the rain hello if you realize that I made the right decision because I did I followed the rules then you don't lose and then if this is problem that this is part of my you know didn't have a panosa didn't have health didn't have uh children so what's the Kasha you know that was their sleepers that was that that was their tacos in life to live a life with this problem no this was there from the same way sometimes that's a difficult that's part of his public not in spite of his wife but because of his wife Matthews and he told me I spoke to him a while ago a push of the year he said he got divorced there was a pretty messy divorce but he's my bullish line but that was his by Sheraton he did nothing wrong he would do it again if he had to he had six wonderful children and this he felt this is my charity to go through this parisha now I don't know you know the the work is the Bible but this truth to that but no doubt about it when a person has a difficulty and he lives with this physical is all about having a Muna that this is my partners in life you know we say it by the Chevrolet blockers for his and the question is obvious no one lives forever but I heard something recently and sometimes this you know the details but Yasha was a Ben yacht as you know but he left this world I think 103 years old he had over a thousand descendants don't forget he has his Angel head or any one person left a thousand descendants that's we have to think about when we look for a sugar not about the glamor and the beers but there's a potential of nitrus and that makes it all worthwhile device into health and Tackle we should be excited to make many Smith wonderful sheer everybody has to hear the [ __ ] again and again this is such an important 718-851-8651.com we're making the second of this year now Rabbi said everybody could get to buy the news safer what's that Allah Smith in the back of this medish twenty dollars is wholesale price you can take it after the second foreign in advance not just the night before but this is not the only establish a person has to be focusing on what's important but shared 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