Rabbi Fishel Schachter: Sensitivity

like to welcome everyone to tonight's year all the people who are my tree have to come in person and everyone joining in through the phone and through the stream bro directly to supporters of tonight's year mrs truskowitz the foreign family supposedly eight five one eight six five one on email ist at yeshivanet.com tonight we have the covetables once again official notre the topic of sensitivity it's my cover to call another chef stuff for tonight's structure everybody say how are you how was your year anything okay you believe it's a year ready wow wow time flies and i'll tell you a secret i think nobody's going to disagree with me the older you get the quicker it goes it doesn't slow down yeah yeah yeah the older you get to quit no quicker how many years ago did you start irrigating 26 hashema valley right did you imagine in the wildest of your dreams where it would wind up you probably is so i always say when you get to do something once a year what's your thriller should exactly do it next year also and if you keep giving this feel of 120 times it's a pretty it's a it's a pretty good mahalo the stypler used to say he was very very careful with things that he did once a year except uh shaved it even when he wasn't feeling well because he said mitsuo guerrero smithson and if you do something once a year and it's a guerrero smithsonian so like you know guarantees you the next year put everything else aside mitzva guerrero smith so it's uh it's a mathias that doesn't mean you should only learn once a year that's not what i'm saying i'm saying is that you you understand what i'm saying so another school for that is to think when you do something once a year is to be my kabul upon yourself a kabbalah bully nether of course nothing major no gilgal shell like no rolling around mountains or walking barefoot on red ants i'm talking about you know little things and uh to circulate when from now till next year i'm gonna try to hold on to it and and all of these things are a schooler for rehashim says okay let's give him a chance let's see and i think that uh davis will help so i'll give you now 20 minutes you could all reflect on what you want to do tuvan no okay you can do it on your own time but an idea of what uh i had some ideas last year i'm not going to tell you whether i kept them but at least it's something it gives you uh gives you a point from bracha to bracha so shkaya thank you everyone for for being here um i want to tell you that this is the best time for this year this is the best possible time for this year and that's on both ends it is the best possible time for me to say this year it is the best possible time for you to listen to the sheer or relax or sleep or whatever else you're doing it's fine it's good you know the person that was sleeping during this year and the rough set and what are you going to do tonight if you slept he told the rev khazar is a good thing you know it's uh it's wrong okay so i'm telling you that this is the best time this is the best time for this year for me to say this year for you to listen to this year for you to be here how do i know that how do i know that and the answer is because we're here because i'm here and you're here as a simmons the best time for it used to say used to say that ibu this man is when a person doesn't have a schedule to his life when a person allows time just to get wasted you know what what is time time is life all the billions in the world cannot buy an extra split second of life that that's what time is we understand the appreciation of man so the truth is when you drive on the bqe you see the appreciation of man you see the appreciation of the man heaven forbid you wait more than the tafka day shalom after a light turns green you hear it kia godila because i guess people are very makshev's man that's how it is you're trying to get onto the highway you're almost getting on or someone behind you like scoops you know scoops ahead of you to get onto the highway ahead of you all these things so people have a special appreciation as much but all these people that are beeping the kia godiva because you're a bit too slow for them okay and it goes kia get out of my way true uh right and as they pass you another kia just to let you know so i want to know if you're if you're so worried about the time it's taking you an extra second because someone's a little bit slow ahead of you i i i want to know what do you do when you get home what do you do with your time when you get home on the highway losing in and out of lanes you know what i mean that kennedy is this and he's speeding he's looking he's checking so what is the time is so important what are you doing with that time when you get home every night is to sit down and make a denver henchman what he did with every single minute of the day and once the khabib was crying his heart out crying his heart out i didn't know what he lost they could not believe what he lost he was inconsolable and he said he lost 15 minutes there are 15 minutes during the day he doesn't have a judgment of uh of what he did with those 15 minutes so i want to try to put time into perspective as a man into perspective when we get up there after 120 we're going to have a lot of surprises whole lot of surprises you know the story that uh the idola he gets up there gave a tremendous amount of tzedakah during his lifetime and he comes up they bring him to this gorgeous villa ocean front palm trees all over the place birds flying around fountains they said what's this this is this is the zedaka the mice and typhoon you did in your lifetime then his wife comes by she starts screaming at he said if he wouldn't hack me a cup of our cholesterol and blood pressure he could have had this 15 years ago but it's not true it's not true because what we have in the eyelid ms means that we maximized every moment that we have down here and we took care of ourselves and so on but what's going to be the biggest surprise when we get up to to shania so the mabit says the down here in this world we view tvla as a way of getting out of the tsara comes time to dive and you know it's an ace sorrow or geyser tightness and there's unfortunately plenty of things to be guys retiredness for and he didn't get together young kipper cut and the l is coming and we cry we cry out to hashem you want to come to answer us yeah the rambam says if you don't scream they cry you're an answer when we get up there to shamayim there's going to be a little bit of a reverse okay we'll like spin it a little bit we're going to see the reality and the reality is that we down here think that that sarah creates a platform for tv it's just the opposite because the world needs filler because i need trilla and you need feeler to connect to hashem so mamela there are curveballs in life it's exactly the other way around and understands that from the history of shaitis and abyresius there never were two schmoneseries that were alike that means if you take every single yid and every single shmonis not only in your personal life there never were two shimon series that are the same why we do say the same words and the answer is because you're not the same person at any given moment in your life besides the fact that you biologically you're constantly changing there are blood tests and dna tests that can pinpoint your how old you are exactly to the exactly to the to the second because you're you're seeing us you're biologically constantly changing you know the kid that got onto the bus until six you pay half fear he tells he looks like a big kid he tells the driver driver says him how old are you he says he's six you're six yeah you're six yeah when are you turning seven as soon as i get off the bus right but there's there's a time frame we are a different person every second of our life you can feel the difference when you're 80 to when you're 20 try to run up the mountain depending on how much exercise you do but the endless we're a different person which means that every shmona estre that we have and it's a different person this person never died in this monastery yet this person never died this morning who you are but besides for that our emotional dna all the things that make up the mix of who we are and every single person sitting here every single person watching including this person standing behind the standard right we all have our share of anxieties and and concerns and things that we hope for and frustrations and whatever it is there's a certain mix that mix is never the same and that means that schmonastery that shema tefila that you're crying out you're reaching out to the others help me who's me me is constantly changing time is extremely precious because it's not repeated but a vanishing doesn't keep us here extra we have only one moment which is a perfect harmony of nephesh of the people that are around you the mood of the people that are around you the situation in life where you are who you are how old you are how old the people around you are that mathias happens only once in a lifetime it's constantly changing so the narrative that was here before the sheer was one of the marv that is after this year is a different marathon hopefully after this you'll be much more rested and so so i saw a pellet story crime koniewski when he was preparing for his uh the show quote-unquote date meeting with his basherta so it appears the way i understood the story that it was was it was the shia right coming into shavasana towns and he was in the middle of taking a haircut and he probably pushed it off until the last minute and halfway through the haircut he looks at his watch and he tells and he tells the person giving the haircut stop three weeks can't cut your hair he says you you can't go see your person that could have been your wife with half a haircut i'm not sure if the back if you already caught the back of me it could be the front of the hair in the back was still i i don't know maybe there's a difference but especially if uh like you can't okay what do you mean i should stop he says stop this a nights of ain't food and i got hashem it's this man what do you mean it's this man i mean it's this man well what could i finish in three weeks in there so they ran to astor khazanesh does he have to go see his possible wife with a half a haircut and the khazan ish said if you started this that's what it says if you started in this man then you could finish the haircut i have to wonder did his smile when he got this island but i think there's so much to learn from this like most of us would say of course you can finish i mean i can't go to a date with a half a haircut a one pile of shoe or whatever guess what this man is this man it stops and i think what it shows of refrain even as a booker there's no there's no playing around with this man that every moment in life is precious and a moment that passes that you didn't use is lost here's who you are so it says that there were 10 things that akash baku created one of them was shaded spooks and shade them the thing your little ankle or a child screams and you come running in the middle of the night and you tell them there's no such a thing as a ghost that's what you say you try to convince yourself and your child you know what i mean and the drapes like you know slap back and forth in the wind there's an image of something in the moon and you say telling you there's no such a thing as a ghost no thing has a shade they're all gone they're gone they're gone they're not here anymore so why are there shade them so it says the avista created the ruach and the cottage barker was going to create the golf bring bring shabbos alarm you can't be stuck with a rock without a goof you'll have a ghost too bad but it comes back who's a bakla yucca and it doesn't take it cut this barclay time so why didn't the kadzbarku start the process and we knew he can't finish it and the answer is to teach us because imbued finish this kayak time is over it's over gang invite life is up last words that the hadous said to his enocle this was like what does that mean what does it mean it means an understanding of listen i'm i know where i'm going now you have to take over and appreciate life for what it is because it won't last forever for you also the cassava sofa was crying it was a young man he was crying his head off his father was the cypher was very sick except seifer was relatively young he was 24 years old he took over as a rover of pressure some people in presbyter 24 year old i don't know if he could be rough i know he's underage well i said it was pushed through but when he saw it alex of cypher was crying except for when he was very young he looked like it looked like it was all over i think that i think it was he was like five years old the doctor said it's all over the little act some cypher took his till him stood there by the corner cried his heart out the entire night i remember the exact story and afterwards he turned around and he said to his wife i got another 50 years for it whatever that means so cypher was nifty when he was 50 and he was 55 years old and every single year he i think i'm kipper he lit one of those neighbors to drop the nervous that the thing but here he's he's losing his father's some cypher wasn't horrific horrific pain terrible terrible pain and he saw the cypher crying and he called him over he said why are you crying so he said what's what's going to be now some cypher said what's going to be he said i'm going to give you a break and he said he picked up his two hands and he put him on his head and the cypher later said that my father's hands were like burning coals and he said to me on your right side will be your zeda rebecca vega on your left side will be your other zeida the kaiser shoes on the top of you he said will be said the name of a certain alec sorry don't remember the name and he said i'll be behind you don't worry about it don't worry about it relax he uh after some cypher passed away the south cypher became rav and it was chavez and he sat down to try to prepare at russia and he drew a blank from the pakhan you know standing up to preschburg these were lions and his teeth coming into his father's shoes instead of russia they if you had they had they had a kasha they let you know they like you know he was steamrolled and he couldn't come up with anything he learned to learn he was so broken that imam is out of tsar he he dozed off and his father said what's with you what's with you what you learned right what's your problem he says that i i don't have russia say he says that some soy forgave him what to say i got it to and russia and everything else he said it's yours it's yours and he said it's russia the 24 year old said russia the people couldn't believe it they felt it was mamashaka's father's russia they could not believe it and they say after the russia someone told them that says he says it's mama told her of your father he said actually this russia wasn't he said he didn't explain what he meant until later he said that his father gave him the drash i think there was an understanding listen this is your role up until this point and it goes further why should many wanted to come in terrence israel david just said no he said can i can i be a a shar no can i be a bird no mashem who said at least the bird has has time that he could use time is up we have to use our time down here at this world we want to put time into context how precious time is in april 2018. the canadian research ship the ss keroulis um trav went on a mission up and down a thousand miles along the east coast of nova scotia and its job was to scan where the best place would be to put in a new transatlantic optic line between new york and london and the purpose of it was that if i'm in london and i say i want to buy that stock i want to buy that stock now i want that trade to go through as quickly as possible and with this new transatlantic line it would take 59.6 milliseconds for the trade to go through from london to new york or from new york to london and before they put in this new transatlantic line took forever a trade between new york and london took 64.8 milliseconds you know how much this line is projected to cost a mere 300 and milli 300 million dollars 300 million dollars could almost buy a house in borrowport 300 million dollars to lay this line at the bottom of the atlantic to gain 5.2 milliseconds what is 5.2 milliseconds right because you know if you get you got to get the trade before the other guy gets it you're talking about billions of trillions do we understand the value of time can we possibly understand the value of time the value of oman yahish may rab at a given moment the older you get the more likely it's going to happen you got washed someone took you apart piece by piece you were so hurt you did someone a favor you really did someone a favor and now you needed a favor back and the guy said excuse me who are you and and you you feel like a shmata grind it up and you say banish them okay everything is in your hands whatever's supposed to be that that that that millisecond that you say i'm a kabul everything but if it wasn't for sure to me to happen it wouldn't happen and and that's the way it is gangan is gangan somebody told me he came home one night and years ago i always remember this is his wife with him above russian she wasn't even like it she was upset about something which even makes sense it wasn't his fault it was one of those days she took him apart from the room all the things he did wrong for the last 20 years and she had perfect memory she forgot nothing i felt like you know what hit him and he wanted to explode he just said okay it's per shared okay it's my shirt said he came into office the next day and whatever one of his partners was was arrested a whole garacha he found that afterwards that it could have been him or it could have been his partner so you know the partners after only you know who knows how many millions of legal fees so he said it was very clear that akash baraku said okay i can give you this instead of that don't don't argue with hashem don't argue with him just take it take it for what it is we're coming into shemitah right so i remember i was making an appeal for keri nashviles uh years ago and they gave me a bunch of farmers to talk to an artist's role and what happens to farmers right they told the mice him that he was shyamushriyas and at the end his cinnamon started to grow and everyone eated cinnamon oregano started to grow and i don't know some kingdom in serbia needed a oregano old nissan of the floyds right the little famous story with the grasshoppers that didn't eat up the locusts that what went around camis and they telling me they're my fist and writing it down for the appeal and they leave the best one for last and i speak to this guy a real farmer farmer on the phone i didn't need a picture to see what he's like he's munching in his cigar he goes um no it's going to be a great conversation here i see you ready i said they told me to call you hey mom hebrew my hebrew hebrew um well you speak english better than you speak hebrew okay um you you you're you're showing what she is no what do you want um they gave me your number so um so so what happened on your field when you were saying what do you think happened nothing grew up no pronouncer oh yeah and then and then no buenos air oh yeah and then and then monopoly narcer i know it was a good conversation it's gonna be a rough appeal i'll tell you one thing guys and i'm like that for your reason they told me to call you and i need to pay mortgage payment on bank and bank take away farm and then and then i don't have farm like what's with what are you slowing the pickup okay really really was a it was uh it was i was gonna say it was a pleasure speaking to you but i didn't want to lie i said it was interesting experience speaking to you and it's about to hang up and he says khabib he says i married 20 years didn't have a baby had a baby this year he says a fool tells hashem pay me back huh he says as if to say it was very clear what he was saying yeah yeah like the representation says you're going to ask hashem says you want the brock on the field i'll give it to you you want to just take the punch hashem says i know better than you now when you need the brah see there's a famous story a lot of such stories you know common such stories this this this buckler is a little bit of a i should say in a nice way expansion now let's say to the overweight expansion um first right the other side a little bit he went up a ladder the ladder was not reinforced enough and he came zets him down with all of the sword and he was like packing the swarm away the oil and burst into laughter so baker went over to me said please please can you give a bracha for my for my son to my brother become a hussein and take those business and give it away i said okay no problem no problem that's a human moment right it's very embarrassing i'm crashing down the ladder hashem says that you stay out of it because you don't understand what it means if you're overweight and you come crashing on a ladder people are laughing at you you don't get them let me tell you something you can give yourself a bracha also you're embarrassed you're hurt you're frustrated it's one of those days you can say okay reminisce help me it's good to give other people but you have a kayak to give yourself a bracha also use that moment because agma snapfish is very unique and the exact amount of agmus nephesh exactly how it plays itself out will never repeat itself twice and every atmos nephesh is is a kayak for a different brotherhood ran away from bells in world war one as most sadiq did then he ran to vienna he wound up in hungary in hungary he heard a russia russian he heard a a rav giving it russia meant to say russia not russia and he was screaming he was saying didn't you see what's going on let's hate the tudors do you want from the children he knew was the bells of so he spoke to him he said so what what should i talk about he says tell jiden to ask for sheikh is going to come then you're going to see will do true we have to go it's not working the other way dude true but the truth we're not doing it tell the damage to bring mashiach we'll do he says what do i do to tell the people to bring he says talk about that's great what happens after you leave camp on the other team wins color war not so much actus right what does actus really mean actus means mine is saiyan my now with whom where i am my age my spouse my wife my husband shop is not going the city shop is not going to country whatever it's going to be lost opportunities children this year nice and people have so many nasiangas it's it's who i am for this matter but it's only after the shabbos let me make it work let me not blame the focus on my scorecard this is where i am once we had a story of two people that they were part of a military intelligence unit in world war ii they parachuted out they were supposed to land some place place in the german city and someone mixed up the maps and they landed in like a swamp or in a mud and they were like sinking in the mud and they're like struggling with the parachute to get out and one of them said they messed up it's not the first time they messed up i'm writing up a report against him he said any any minute the germans are going to be here he says you want to write up a reporter you want to die he says you want to live we got to move on you're in the mud move on i'm afraid if there's a boy we call i mean that knows if you're in the mud you're supposed to be so there's a gedalia moisture of zavil you know i've said this story before but every once in a while i like repeating it the vidalia of zavil was the son of the helicopter of the ville and it is 1948 and yerushalayim is being shelled and there's death and destruction and all corners and nobody knows what the next split second is going to be nobody knows what's happening it's it's sarah shane come on so let me back pair a little bit with this story there's a yiddin years in the mattress and he had from the sounding of guidance she was the son of slumped he had a briefcase with private things that was arusha nobody was supposed to look into it and once his ain't nicole's grandchild was there and he said to the rabbi zadie you have a briefcase from gedalia mush of seville he said yes i do no one is supposed to look inside of course okay i'm going to the sadr kedoshan okay are you okay here alone yes remember don't look into the briefcase you never tell a kid don't look into a briefcase you know never tell you don't hang upside down from the fire escape because so the kid says no i'm gonna be a good kid my zadie said not to look in the briefcase i'm not looking in the briefcase no way and he went he has it over the gemara he learned the whole week has it over the tysons he did all the kids he did all the mashinayas he did his homework he said it's still him he was navra sedra and he looked at his watch all of 30 seconds passed why does he do it the rest of the time pretty boring and that briefcase looked so geshmach he says that saddik said and he promises zayd not to look in the briefcase but if he opens up the briefcase and he takes the contents of the briefcase out and puts it aside that's not cool looking in the briefcase so pop-pop he opens up the briefcase grabbed it was locked but that wasn't much of a problem for him and he closes his eyes for sure not supposed to look in the briefcase he takes everything out puts it on the paper and he starts looking and sees different things one of the things he sees is an old crumply yellow paper and on this yellow paper are 50 signatures 50 signatures it looks like they're signed like in here there here there and all the way on the bottom there's a signature from the rebbe and the rebel writes the gum annie or rave badam i'm also a guaranteer for them he recognizes some of his names it's fascinating he wants to know what these signatures are he doesn't know all of a sudden he hears his grandfather coming and he's worried his grandfather may not have to lump this they never really looked into the suitcase he quickly rolls it up quickly puts the position quickly closes this runs up the ladder puts it back where he came jumps back down opens his camaro his grandfather walks in you okay you look out of breath toughness tough tesis i've been working on it it's like i'm hard really hard and it goes zaydia can i ask you what oh can't ask him right he can't ask him because he wasn't supposed to look in the briefcase but he was dying of curiosity many many years later someone he goes teaser he's a rosh yeshiva and he goes to be menachem oval the year in euros was the ishkada she was a biannu his name was if you know it was the issue of scholars he was rasha shiva square for a while and go online about rehabilitation for hours so he came to him and ahmad then and he's sitting there and he hears them talking about 50 signatures a medallion moisture of seville a paper this kid that didn't look into the suitcase is now a big rosh yeshiva he was this guy who's right and he was like he said what was that about 50 signatures because no one ever saw the paper um you have a cold he tells them can i talk to you for a minute they walk out to the next room he says i i saw the paper what is it you saw it how did you see it it's a long story but no one was supposed to look in the briefcase i didn't but just tell me tell me what i'm i'm dying of curiosity they told the story crime brimstone a man he just gets married his wife is very very sick she's dying it's the middle of the war you can't get a doctor he tries to run to the hospitals they're busy you know getting running out of morphine running back and forth injured burning he isn't going to look i don't know what to do so he runs to rav dzinski the rubbish line he bangs on the door he says my wife is dying what should i do he tells him he says he's not here anymore quarter of he used to go to the midfield himself he would come up with a yeshua go to his son of god so he ran to his son of god your motion opens the door he says a curfew bombs are falling what are you doing all night what are you doing out because my wife is like i can't help you i'm not my father gone he comes home and he sees the massive sure color is changing and he's losing her so he runs back to the love of your shallow and he says what should i do go back to the daring he says but he threw me out he says tell him that i as the rov of yerushalayim and geyser on him he should do something for your wife he wants back he bangs on the door darling much tells him again what are you doing out he says the rover of your shalom was going on you should do something for my wife he says okay take 50 people and get them to sign that they give away a year of their life for your wife he said rabbit there's a war outside people are dying buildings are caving in no one knows that we're going to be alive the next second like how in the world am i supposed to go knock on the door i'm not going for an adult can you just give me a year of your life it's not going to work tax deductible it won't work have a credit card machine no no it won't work it won't work chase quick pay no no it's not going to work so the rebel said okay tell them to anyone that's willing to sign that paper that they're willing to give away a year of their life for your wife that i am i guarantee them to live through the war now he's running and the jordanian artillery doesn't stop a bunch of people running into whatever the bomb shelter was in those days the mclart and he runs down he runs down he's inside and these people are screaming and it's hard and they're yelling at each other and nerves are a wits end and he goes right over the blind side they're going no no appeal now because i anyone can i please have 50 people to sign that they're willing to give away a year for my a year of their lives for my wife looking at them what any second this building is caving in that's what stood up from zinnians so he says of gedalia marcia of seville said that anyone that's going to sign this paper he's going to promise them to live through the war there was a mad dash to sign that paper people had to get to sign the paper he couldn't even grab it he brought it back to up the dahlia militia and that was them go home and it's his wife lived another 50 years afterwards 51 years 51 years afterwards and now he understood what it meant that if gedalia moisha also signed the bottom of the paper and he said the gamuni are rev i am a guaranteer for them think about this for the moment do we have an appreciation for life you have to stop and rush it says you wake up in the morning and you say that you know what that means you woke up that you're alive no but what my wife did to me what my mother-in-law said to me well my husband nobody in the world was ever as frustrated as i was really let's not get into the suffering of the hidden in world war ii because it's can't even go there i want to say a very interesting fact russian soldiers that became prisoners of war to germany they were in german prisoner of war camps they were not exactly at first class hotels they were tortured they were beaten they were starving less than 20 percent survived less than twenty percent of the russian soldiers that were taken as those that they wrote that they took prisoners somebody just killed him less than twenty percent survived you can imagine what they went through the war is over they're back home to mother russia and father stalin was not very interested and then he said off to the gulag siberia for you sent them all to siberia i mean prisoners of war come home like that you run out to greet them right you embrace them that's like that touches on the heart of the of the country and it's sacrificed huh stalin had two problems one is what do you mean you've taken prisoner you should have fought to the death that alone is a marie de bomacas that you had taken prisoner and number two he was very concerned that if they were in german prisoner of war camps what if they became sympathetic to germany you never know after starving to death and being beaten and tortured could you become sympathetic to germany that wasn't stalin's mind he wasn't taking any chances they had already too much you know the west connections to the west you know they say power corrupts absolute power is absolute corruption and he sent him off to he sent him off to the gulak to siberia it's almost impossible it's mind-boggling so if they survived the german prisoner of war camps they were sent over to siberia because stalin didn't want to see that now i want to tell you something the first of all i read once read in a book by the yiddish a prisoner of war who said he was watching that with these these russian soldiers that risked their lives in the country and i don't want to say what they did to themselves we said the ones that said that the ones that like ate themselves up in frustration we risked their lives for our country this is what you do to us they didn't survive they were dead they were supper for the polar bears the next day the ones that said it is what it is we've got to learn how to survive here figure out how we get out of here they're the ones that survived so what stalin mean i think he killed more people than anyone else in the last century and he haven't been ashamed haven't been ever have a minute that somebody you know made fun of the shabbos the goddess russia he killed an entire town but if you think we can't all in a certain way adapt stalin's mentality we can't there's no tire there's no midnight so we sink we sink so a lot of times somebody tells me what what what i went through with my spouse nobody was ever as betrayed nobody was ever as betrayed about these russian soldiers were betrayed more stop measuring who was betrayed more deal with the situation reverend wines has a beautiful story it says he was robbed in florida and there was a year the teacher of grundworld niffler and he came to florida to rest up a little bit and he was there for a while in the winters anyway and they made a khabusa shaft and he got very close to him and he once asked him rav grundwell how did you survive the war you know they're sitting in there and between the avocado trees and the mangoes and how did you survive the war so he said he was in the moonka it was the monket with the hungarian work battalions what they did in hungary in romania they took the yidden they were drafted they were soldiers right they were jewish soldiers no arms no way to protect themselves but they were human mind sweepers you know the person that came to travel to one of those countries and i don't know one of the stands the zika something stan and he said i see that uh you accomplished something you many years ago you used to beat your wives now i see your wives are walking in front of you it's unbelievable they said their mind's over here that's that this is the reason we're doing that they were mine sweepers they were human mind sweepers they were put as buffers between between the two shooting armies that should be killed and protected with human shields and most of the hidden in these uh hungarian and romanian work battalions did not survive as a matter of fact 80 or 90 were killed um he said i survived a year and a half i said somehow survived a year and a half we were digging trenches under live fire and all of a sudden the russians came and what the russians do to us enemy soldiers we were arrested and sent off to siberia he says i was four months i was in siberia he says people fell like flies between the cold and the malnutrition i said at least when we were in the labor battalions we were hoping the walker come to an end now there was nothing to hope for what was there to hope for we were at subrahe and i knew it was only a matter of time and i can't survive i'm not going to survive this and the nkvd officer was a yadily called him in he said to him look he says green world really don't belong here it's not like you're an enemy soldier you you're a sh you know you you were sent into a nightmare of a gandhim called the work battalion now you're the russians treated like an enemy soldier he said write a note write a note to laser keganovich was a brother-in-law of stalin i don't know if he was i wouldn't give him exactly siddhar kadusan or adekidoshin or itunes but he was a brother-in-law stalin he says and tell him you don't belong here he's like what what i'll write a note to take another she says you write the note i'll get it to him so he felt it was a just a trap it was a trap there was no point in doing it but after a while he said it's his only hope he's not going to survive this so he wrote the note and he wrote you know that he was he prayed every single day the russians should win the war you know the germans are they put him in there they dig the trenches now you're treating me as an enemy like i'm your most loyal person and one day many months later a fancy car pulled up four flags and out comes some fancy person he goes who wrote the note to kaganovich he they said says him you don't belong here you're out the only thing is i need you to tell me who wrote the note who gave over the note who'd you give the note to how did the note get to keganovich so he says you know the rule in the gulag was you survive and you let somebody else die i said lamaisa i don't know what this guy did i don't know if the whole thing is just a ruse but he said i'm not going to betray him even though it meant he's going to die and if we understand that we in seriousness he says i don't know from any note i didn't write any note the question is he says i'm giving you a week and that i'm leaving you're not going to survive who wrote the note he continued to deny that he wrote the note doesn't know of any note it doesn't know who told it he didn't want to betray this nkvd officer the end he said they put him on a train brought him back to romania and a true russian style with a very very moving goodbye they pushed him off the moving train the nest he survived but he made it back to his people you know came to canada where he was afterwards and i'm thinking about you know like after what double cross betray betray and you're loyal you're a little you don't want to say who wrote the note say wrote the no what's our excuse i've had it i've had it with being nice to people i've had it with being sensitive to people well who are you one of the brothers we say by hope is barak hashem he says they should just recreated you you're not you become a husson again and the abilities michael you again and again you ain't sir adam you're constantly being created right it says the closing garage you know what david says because that's the moment that everyone like appreciates the moment of the moment of your hope that you appreciate are there exceptions to the rule yeah i once saw a hustle like blow up at his brother where are my cufflinks marriage didn't last very long huh they say arya levine say this a lot he came into the room he had no present to give to his wife so he told her he gave her a present he said whenever we have an argument you're right i'm telling you right now so i told the story somewhere i didn't mean for the hustle to repeat it he said he said it to his wife in the room whenever we have an argument you're right she said you're starting up already over here so i guess it depends how you say it i guess it depends how you say it but the the everyday ups and downs the closing mcgraw says good varth again the everyday ups and downs in marriage and you appreciate someone else's sensitivity and you really should say oh i should appreciate sensitivity right i shouldn't say who wrote the note after i was double crossed and double crossed forget it i do mine it says abhishek you're a hustler you're recreated yo is not a one-time bracha it's something that keeps on happening so there's a gillian protest and it's sort of a beautiful story there this person writes that he was in miron for chavez he lives in beijing she's driving out and as they're leaving a lot of traffic and he's working his way down the hill over there so his wife's phone rings their next-door neighbor and they chammish yeah our hussein was also me wrong for shabbos oh very nice and so on yeah nice for you um he left his cell phone in the deera are you stealing me wrong can you go back and get it his wife says go back that he's like no people do that to him you know you know what it's like on a friday afternoon to get from bar park to the bqe are you still in brooklyn could you go back so that means to go back and his wife said come back and he's like i'm sick and tired of him goes back as he goes back his wife says you know the family that we stayed by they have a farm nearby oh no now you want me to fertilize something no no they have a box of fresh fruit and vegetables they gave us mom is so fresh and almost forgot it can we go pick it up tell you what there's so much fruit we got from the fish house packages we are drowning in fruit okay i'll give you we'll have plenty of fruit no but that fruit was like really fresh can you please go back sure and he says he goes back for it and he can't he can't drive up he says okay you know i'm just gonna i'm just gonna i'm not walking in there he says okay i'll bring it because can you drop back the car all the way up i can't back the car up the hill you could but so no problem as he's backing the car up the hill and he goes out and he's about to schlep the box so his wife wants to call him and tell him that the the there's another box there of fruits and vegetables and he hears his phone ringing and it sounds like it's ringing in the garbage can he goes what he tells us why he goes where's my phone he tells his wife because of this entire conversation she never called him because can you call again it's calling in the garbage can so he says somehow he was by these guests and his phone must have stayed on the table and wound up in this big garbage can and now he heard it he said it was a brand new phone and he managed to get it out so he writes something i know it's not like you know this and because of that there was a shidduch and because he went back he saved crowley's throne he found the terrorists and saved the whole thing nothing dramatic he just found his phone but it was like a kadashbacho letting him know you broke your actions i said don't worry about it you were sensitive to someone else's feelings you didn't stop making kashminus take it easy relax you know there was a certain russia shiva claim very uncharacteristically would not talk to him would not talk to him he once asked him he said you had a tight you had a talented label so label was a yosem and did not want to take him into the yeshiva they pushed him in manage that soros that he made me film it only after you know what he did you feel mad okay we walk in one day and the whole barn collector is shaking back and forth and shaking back and forth we don't know what it is somebody's saying rather big madrega i go i open it up and this huge goat comes crashing out on top of me probably the ones that the city brought in to either prospect park or something one of them wound up in the ironclad dish and label is laughing and i said label pack your bags and he said you know this label later became it became leon trotsky he led the red army eventually uh interesting eventually on him and because he was like sending in his people to he knew he knew all the insiders it was like right afterwards he got into a little disagreement with stalin which meant he had to run for his life he wound up mexico someplace and even then he has visitors that was in mexico that he assassinated him yesterday right mexico city so as i said you would have not thrown him out he was a young you've had it who says you know he says well it was a part of the frustration that's how it is they push these kids into yeshiva then there's nothing to talk to then it's your fault you know there's a lot of frustration you're right so deal with it deal with it we're not going to live in the world of where you are sir vaisay don't write yourself off even if you're the one that put the goat into the arkansas you see we learned from here it's my fault i'm the one that put the guard in the archives i did things i shouldn't have done in my marriage i did things i shouldn't have done in my neighbors okay don't throw yourself out of the yeshiva either be sensitive to yourself you know there was a scary story came out in the press this week that one of the iron domes in the last war i bring the ghoulish lama almost almost misidentified an israeli f-15 and shot it down you read did you read that jeff david and it seems it was a very close call and never shot that iron dome missile realized the last second that it was that it was going after an f-15 it's going after it it was gonna shoot was gonna take down a plane he detonated it the he detonated the the missile prematurely even then it did damage to the plane but the plane survived it was it was a quick risky decision but he had no other choice i think to myself if only we could do this you shot a missile it's going in the wrong direction it's going after your wife it's going after your husband it's going after only we could detonate it right we could blow it up before it hits just just stop where you are it says trust me there's a certain amount of agma snafes a person has in his life it's measured to the milli millisecond you won't have a drop more agmas never sends bashar but what you can do with it you can do so much with it ultimately you'll reach manuka and if a person is he feels that uh and i'm collecting for the hidden in pleasing you know very hungry there okay here you are all right it's not the way you're supposed to give unless you give you give you nidava goes on your menuhan shabbat says i i i'm not in the mood of having manuka okay i cannot tell you i cannot tell you what's waiting for me after showers i can't tell you what's waiting for me after charlotte said i can't i can't you know what i'm donating manuka i'm donating it it's not mine i'm donating it and if you do menu you'll be saying you'll eventually get there you'll see you're going to get there said don't come in don't worry about it i know i've said this story maybe one too many times but every once in a while when i'm in a crisis i like repeating the story because it's a good story so if you've heard it i guess that's a good time to stop being mad cedra or something or whatever this man he has 13 daughters he loves them he's such a happy guy parkour is whatever shem gives me is good ask him for a bracha for a ben zakhar because he says the rabbi have 13 daughters i love them very much you know maybe 13 items that's right that's right but maybe maybe you know maybe i should have bought those aspirin boxes wholesale right maybe the menorah you know it goes with those minorities there anything i'm in there buying a manure for my cousin well what are people buying i want to look well the average one does this if you want to show he's special you do this right then the next year the average one does this you want to show your special you get up on the ladder okay whatever the case may be so he tells the rebel you know it's not i'm not the biggest rahman is here and i love my daughters ben zucker is a good thing you know so the rebel looks and every kind looks at him he says i can give you a bracha for ben zakhar but you may not understand it never i don't have to understand things you may get frustrated i don't get frustrated so easy that's why i trust you with the brah you're going to have a ben zucker therish walks out and they say his name is marriage he walks out he's jumping for joy they're ever said i'm gonna have a benzalke calm down calm down he's ordering the bundle for it's a done deal he's gonna permit film already at penn soccer you weren't even home yet he comes home he's so excited he runs to the polish office with a birth certificate they put out birth certificates he bangs on the window he wakes up this old polish clerk huh birth certificate to my son my son was born but whatever who he stamps the child was on so he's like that was his way of anyway everyone's like calm down calm down anyway sure enough his wife is expecting hashem nine months come go by very very fast and mazel tov bearish had a girl number fourteen ah they thought bearish is gonna like ha ha ha there is huh talking about someone's gonna be a little bit nervous over there gonna come out smoking chain smoking he is to go back to the rabbit something's wrong nothing is wrong everything is good nothing is wrong i don't have to understand everything he gives a kid it's like this town never saw such a gimmick okay that was in the science see the sign wasn't he has one more daughter he won't complain so the next year there's the shamis barack masala marvel bears has a daughter number 15. various go back to the river something's wrong you know what i mean there's a glitch in the computer system of the bra no he's so happy he gives the kidneys like he never had next year another daughter go back to the rabbi nothing doing next year another daughter that's how it was in this town there was rosh hashanah yum has a daughter it was on the calendar all the calendars that when they printed the count as the beginning of the year they already had they had the thing it was pre-printed finally finally finally mastered and bearish has twin girls go back and look at eight or nine years later he has a son and they thought he's going to go through the roof and he goes well of course the rebel promised anyway fast forward 10 years later the russian commissar and zhevra surround the town they're looking for draft evaders in the russian army and says saurus we are back they're dragging everybody and they go over to the russian guy and they're saying you know yidden in the army they're not going to survive they'll get stabbed from the front get stabbed from the back he says nothing doing and they tell hasso we would never bribe you how would you like to play cards and you'll uh win 500 rubble you know like it's not a bribe then cash with some here so he says i need another excuse they'll kill me and all of a sudden they see from the distance they're grabbing this 10 year old kid she's kicking and screaming and he goes what you doing he says he's 18 years old we find birth certificate in office he says out of your mind his little kid of course his birth certificate said he was 18 because the burst of a kid was given eight years before he was born he says you're drunk operation canceled that was already his excuse and then he won his 500 ruble in the card game if you understand and listen my issues they went back to the different they said wow what a mephis that the rabbit sent another eight girls so it wasn't my life it wasn't my wife as he says if you if you are on that moment that you want to explode and you say kirby you just know better than i am you're not going to get me to explode you're not going to get me you're not going to rob me of myself and there's no end to the process of life the yeshua and for sure the good givenchy are the best [Music] to the needs of claudius uh for the limitation with these gevaligaram by sponsoring a shirt called ignore tara 718-851-8651 or email ist yeshivanet.com for this great opportunity i'd like to give shaka to the supporters of tonight's share joshua's family the foreign miriam and the 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