"It's Not My Fault!" - When is it a good excuse? - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

[Music] foreign it's not my fault when is it an exemption that was a sponsoring a share called eating sugar Tyra 718-851-8651.com a number of years ago I heard a very amusing statement someone who did not wake up for chakras and Yeshiva he was known and he gets left through the Waker tribe no one helped once he came with a title floating the floor and he said listen you're waking me up I go back to sleep then I'm becoming obesia amazing if you leave me alone and I sleep to chakras I'm annoying this is so that certainly caught my attention and I wanted to one day look into the studio what it means and then we heard the three shylists over the years that really gave me enough of a start someone whose father elderly father needed immediate care so he took him into the emergency room the kids say he left during the winter he took his father in 12 o'clock early afternoon he sat with him for many hours until he was treated he didn't have him in couldn't leave your father alone he's an oyenas does that mean he's not even the Avenue and therefore we heard Never Cry saw heard a few years ago when people ate tarfus for many months maybe many years unknowingly do they need a caporum someone that would fill in for many years and he checked it and found it puzzle it was puzzle for many years so the Crux of the issue is when someone feels very strongly it's not my fault or is how did that apply itself and it's not just a question of Islam and Scarborough do you have to wake up someone that's sleeping that's missing chakras is he annoying this do you make touch Lumen when a person was an ironist does a person do chuva when he's annoying his in other words if someone doesn't have era gig that's certainly a maisa Vega the Turismo high for carbon the question is is less accountability less of a myself and maybe he doesn't have to do chuva maybe he's out of my stuff era maybe it's more similar to someone that runs on a solo call and he has to be Mahalo Shabbos so not only it's not enough but he's doing a mitzvah but then again just he couldn't do it so the question is how do we look at the concept of so the truth is the source is describes two situations that people did the terrible area of Snooze so don't forget but then the tire is a third scenario if the girl was forced into the aveira she was coerced Lanai really sasted me sir because she was forced and this is the famous yes although it's a very serious Avera but the Torah says when I release acidoph and what's interesting the money admits is the rambam and say if amidst Islam lawyers who says both say that this is one of the taryak mixes let's say a girl was forced to do an Avera and Ben says you know Okay We're Not Gonna Give You Misa but you should you should we have to do something to you this is no good Ness they're even one of the tayak mits it's one of the Thai AG mitzvahs gravity is the second source of oiliness and that's we just lay in the parisim but the the horrible Issa of noises a doctor is and the modern caduce and them gimbal points this out that we see a second source for the concept of oinesis Rahman Apache if you notice it's a plea because in both contexts we're talking about of the game is and yet pumped by those of era is we learn Apache now I'll just give you an amazing illustration and that brings out the point let's say someone is approached by two Guardian by gunpoint you better dinar by desire or else you're not going to be here and they're very they're tough and even throughout the Diaries rise to the occasion and made the ultimate sacrifice but he's a weakling and he can't and he they bowserve I desire and punk they were two eight in that saw this and they converted the best and we saw Yonkers foreign [Music] foreign he's playing the game he's the one about dessert but he's really airlock is his if you could trust him beside nemanis the the the reverse emphatically whoever is so he's movable so now the big question is how to apply this will soon see so I think it's kadai to look at the gamaras there are three gamers that mentioned and we'll get a better picture of how to apply it the first gemara which is a big head is to anybody who knows talking about someone that was magic answers you're right oinus is high by naziken but oin is gamor is Potter an extreme extraordinary honesty spot so we will soon see how to how to apply the LA maisa but no doubt about it that if someone did damage or in his Gummer like to Isis he's Pata benaziken the naira okay I'll give you a second Marshall avoidality the more speaking about an animal that a person bows down to it it's called The nevad with an eye and of course so that's puzzle for carbon so the Morris says but if I bow down to your animals so how is it so tomorrow says if if let's say forced the Yi to bow down to his own animal so that's an effort what do you mean if if they forced them to bow down foreign let's say the goyam took him and physically bowed him down I don't know how to say a better law said they mom has forced them to to do the mice bowing that's not even about dessert they did it not him I will soon see that's a very important form of anonymous and the third example of oines is describes a person that made a condition he said he was in bed then he said I have I have a really strong case to argue if I don't get back in 30 days then I'll pay but otherwise I want to still want to fight the case but give me 30 days and it got delayed stuck in traffic whatever there's no flights and he missed the 30-day deadline says too bad you lost you have to pay foreign and this is the concept that even regarding this works you can probably remember that's why it makes it evanesa also in super staff gimmel the famous beginning he made it tonight and tomorrow says but my point I want to bring out here is that it even implies when you didn't keep your tonight now but you have to realize and we'll soon use this in a very big way the way the shark uses the Lawson is means we don't hold it against you to prove your case and you have more time but let's say someone made it tonight I if I do something you have to pay me and he couldn't keep the tonight because he was an anus you can't make the other person pay or in his life commander of it honest just means that we give you an extra time but you can't make high of someone because you're annoying is we'll soon see how important that really is now to apply this Lamesa so let's start with the most most obvious form of anus and that is if someone was forced they Mama bowed him not on myself I deserve they took a big heat a heavy heat and they threw him on a child and son he killed the child he's not an oiliness it's even less he didn't do it they did it to him so that's Valdez from an Apache plus but let me share with you a beautiful tweet and it also brings out the point let's say a guy more in a bad mood but not in a wicked mood they want to show a year that we're running the show so they take him and say listen we want you to listen to us we're gonna We want you to we're gonna Force this fool down your throat but don't worry it's kosher it's your son don't worry but if you're gonna I want to show you I'm the boss in fact it's so nice you listen Rabbi you want to make the bracha first we're giving you 30 seconds then it's going down and he has 30 seconds to decide does he make a brush on that food this kosher and he enjoys it so this is a rama enraged salad quoting the Base According it doesn't make a broken because this is a real lioness they he didn't eat it they're forcing down his throat and in fact just like the naira is not held accountable for that action here there's no broker anonymous now now I'm going to ask another question let's say someone is deathly ill and he has to eat tarfus before he eats that tarfism so we know you don't make a block on tarfest but it's Hashem but if a person is eating it Hashem but my question is different here is only eating this ham because of her food if not he would never eat him do you make a book or maybe this is an ironis and there's no bruh so will compare to the first case but it's not true because the very next Thief has this case and says that if he eats typhus foreign that's why he did it but he ate it willingly this is if you look closely this very so this is the first category of oiliness when the first when a person is literally they forced him to do a miser that's an extreme harness another form of iron is not as extreme a person is sick in the hospital and he missed parishes so no one forced it he didn't do the midst right but the mice is annoying us okay that's even though it's not the conventional oil is a forcing but it's not my fault I guess a little more of an issue when someone was forced to eat typhus or eat any they're ready it's not just he didn't do an assay they already he did an Issa but when I release acid of in fact Mr Brewer in shinlabs says when someone is it is and they feel guilty said Do you ever hear a person that makes a Shabbos Mila and thus then that does tuva okay now the biggest issue is when we have situations where it might be avoidable for example a person uh just was two who's too busy he was involved in his own business how do we look at that type of oiliness that maybe was avoidable so one thing we know this is amazed it's not anonymous you should have been more controlled something that's avoidable and if that's avoidable we also say la maisa it's not really annoying this is at the beginning he was a pushaya and Lady oyas are my fault that is and indeed it's not a real lioness that's why I should mention relative very differentiate because there's many cases but if someone puts himself into a massive of inis a common example he goes on a vacation someplace that there's no minion within a dollar Mill it goes what should I do there's no minion most places because why did you put yourself in the nightness now don't forget oingis live commander of it in the oven so basically we have the following that an ironus is when a person could legitimately say it's not my fault certainly when he's forced to do a mice now I'm going to try to apply this and we'll see how much we could have from a simple yes site a person was walking in the mountains or any place that's not a it was just around the rice caramelis and he's walking out of the Earth and suddenly he feels upset pull on his sisters he's in trouble his sister got caught onto a bush and one of the four cities were torn off so now he has Dallas Cowboys but only three sisters so he had two issues first of all he's walking he's living dollar his dollar can't face without census but the last day even if he doesn't walk number two problem if he's walking out of the area if it's carrying on the other three senses so here we could say that the carrying problem is not such an issue because even those in Israel abundantly carrying the caramel is but the famous gamoran Shabbos God will provide that breeze Hazard were extremely sensitive to Breeze he's a lot of doing this and it's embarrassing to pull off the sitsis publicly but the problem is he's what he's he's wearing down campus without cities so the mahab and see if you had gimbal see if gimbal quotes that even though wearing Dolly confidence without citizens is a Bittle mitsarisa but here at Shabbos and you can't make citizenships so if you can't make sixties maybe there's no issue of wearing down confidence without citizes question what did that mean you can't make this so you can't but there's there's no there's no myths of senses cloudy with gimmel apparently the Mordecai held an ointis is not just so maybe this person since he's honest to put on cities he's not high even citizens not just he can't do it he's excused so there we see could be it's not just he's not uh he's not doesn't get an oil a very painful question someone bought children and it's soybean chapter before he gave it to his child or grandchild and the child checked it six years later and he found the soul that was there from day one he asked me how this happens it happens you know but knob sad it it deteriorated then it cracked off it the the word A7 spells that without an without it without an iron so so here we have two problems first of all the fill in okay let's feel I say one of them Apostle so every day he was don't forget to fill in our two separate mitzvism animated every single day so there's no question about it if he bought cheap thrilling so that already the tour and similar base in the base if quotes it he tries about the terrible onus that is awaiting the decipherim of the cyphram that sell apostolate fill in or cheap thrill and who knows if they cost him so that's that's those that buy cheap fill in also it's an Avalon for themselves so the clothing they buy the best until they buy the cheapest and what happens if it's possible that is it's it's off impossible but we're talking about he bought the most beautiful Pirates villain it happens so one thing I want to tell you the Panama era is incredible Simon test as an interesting shot I don't know with the case exactly but someone that for the longest time wore chilling on his forehead he was an um so he thought you know like you're wearing your forehead it was way below the hairline and that he says there's no excuse because there's no excuse for ignorance there's no the zero tolerance for ignorance that is the famous clown half of a little moyed and and she goes in but that's not our taka there's no excuse for ignorance that's not that's not a lioness this a person bought the best Phil and I was found to be possible so one thing I think is positive and that is regarding the broadcast of the battle that he said every day what should he do he bought good Phil and he checked them before he wore it that's push it the question is villain I'll say oingis but do we apply the shakshi soy which is really you shall me of all in his life commander of it so much he quotes is still foreign is possible but it's still good for everybody else so tooth film so I saw the prayers who discussed this very question says the Demian is very hard to understand what does a Korean have to do with totalin but he mentions a gamara in three places it's in brachis kadushan and Shabbos is fully awesome a person that bought the best villain had them checked but what should he do is possible the problem is love commander of it he didn't wear children so the embassies we could say on a simple level foreign and take the markzia of Roman Simmons and others say it's not the full scar he didn't do the Mitzvah but it's a some hold it literally because that's the greatest that's the Hashem that regarding because he did it so I can't say all agree he has askara Mitzvah we definitely could say he doesn't get an audience for the Barack Obama it's not a Bittle I say that's for sure does he get that's questionable again there is many troubles about this but many players can do suggest that he makes some type of Kabbalah maybe should buy beautiful it's villain again give sadoka some says he should put it on extra early and learn to make up for the time there are different tikkun him to do because we really it's not clear that we could say that he gets this car wearing film hidden we're filming even says next question someone is sleeping through chakras is missing the the Thriller and he's saying I'm annoying this a person that's asleep you know I always say in Allah he becomes he's motionless and he's you know you know aimless so his time is I'm anus but it can't be because it's a Pharisee mind this does like in braces when it comes this man Krishna Saron wake me up be Messiah me I'll also do the same it Israel and that's why they say that when someone's asleep should I let him sleep or wake him up because he's missing the Avenue says that if he's gonna miss Phila wake him up and he mentioned this kimaran brochus foreign if you want to see it but he has a problem he explains why taka don't we say Inus so one problem he has is or in his life commander of it you know just like we tell the book If you don't die if I'm being annoying this right and you don't have a davening from sleeping a bed laugh command of it I what about uh if he's laying in bed you're not thinking about anything but your sleep you know I think of the Avenue that's not he brings many riots that if someone misses the Avenue just for the record in the end of the safe ant feel amidstin and he seems to hold a sleeping person is considered an oiliness which that's a different share but even he admits that if someone's sleeping you have to wake him up because he didn't happen you know someone that doesn't eat breakfast one morning gets annoyingus but he's still hungry and the nisham is hungry because we have three tillers and we have three meals and we can't live without davening so it seems all agreeing that you wake up someone he shouldn't Miss shock us the question is is he an oil you wake up someone because he's gonna miss chakras now I heard this I mean Yeshiva don't forget so I heard this child comes up all the time but someone they quote Roberto labels and said you don't wake up for anything I don't know maybe but I learned to sing it this time I found the shave at a car seat I love shinpayal he's the bells of die in her to throw his Zaid heard some of the Bells so it's true but it was only when he won't miss this man don't wake up me I'll make the next minion but if he misses his man then above you have to wake him up so let's put that called my plastic to an end if someone's gonna miss davening and then even battle the bells just wake him up I mean he's acting with him it's don't forget that besides and it's you know fight so that is something that we have a gemara and a shakhnar now if a person went to sleep late at night or early in the morning or both like when you see them and he has no plan of waking up so then he's a classic there's no sad to say that he's annoying this next group of questions is when someone missed davening let's talk about the child began with he went with his father to an emergency room and you know it's a long wait the kids don't leave his father alone and run to catch a minion and leave the father worried he felt this in his place he didn't have a menstrual so you're wondering what's the problem what's this you know maybe we'll even say but don't cry over spills milk and don't forget it might be Mr says the more explains but he was annoying us yet we know this is a big sugya it's a gamara in bracus it's and that's the concept of Tash lumen if someone missed the davening it's not all lost he has a chance to make it up of course make up want Fila but the question is when does a person have this option this privilege of Tash Lumen don't forget it's past this man is it any time even amazed even Carvel amazed so here we'll see an important you saw it not all oinstim were created equal to put it bluntly there are some oriented only and oinies and some are just the opposite only amazed is exempt anything else is included and as we'll see regarding Tash Lumin hazawa very generous because so if he's amazed at Mr Avenue there's no testimony you don't want to dive in too bad that's moving but if there's anything less than a mazid then based on they would be Tash Lumen and this is time and he pushed it off and then he got too busy and he forgot or he was at Sawyer because as Mr Burris spells it out in gimmel [Music] because regarding carbonis is not here he's saying regarding is and that's very relieving because sometimes a person was delayed then but he should have been a little more focused now I did see the care and the Dove and that's you that I mentioned and the genre of and simikov has both say if it's a closet maybe it is because there it flies upstairs but anything less than a sharpness or amazed does in fact have Tash lumen now the next question I think you might find this absolutely fascinating because it's Imam is brought out to real life let's talk about our sailor someone that went with his father or an idiot that needs help to the emergency room he was I used to commit to the entire demand feeling a solar member who does his job and he's busy and he's running with the Highland stays with the kailan the kid said during the winter he left before this man mind and got back after this does he have to make this lumen so the clown is that if someone was an onion the father passed away at night and the crew is finished at two o'clock he was an honest the entire time of sakris not only he doesn't dive in but there's no test Lumen why because an ironing is not an oil is he didn't have the makeup Mali is him expresses total disbelief if the if that's such a such a suck foreign what does that mean the same third that says and there's no doubt about it that's why the Mr Brewer inside the gimbal zip code is and if you missed the the davening he does not make this woman the start seeing quotes the mother of now you'll ask me what is the tassels the task was the tasks apparently held like the first sad that we mentioned and oint and an ointis is no of us he can't do it the asunder Isa also says that so if you hold that then ionis is high if you can do it then this is held that the oiliness of of oyster Mitzvah is not a regular ointment he's an oyster commitsu and therefore he's put them in a Mitzvah if he's partner there was no it is if they were talking is the entire man of davening from until then there's a tour even by oi Sigma the Michigan highlights this in see if I endowed if someone became an ionis at eight o'clock in the morning his father passed away eight o'clock he could have Daven from the beginning of this man whatever this man is if there was in the beginning of the day Benny's Taco maker has to make the slumen what's the shot and that's why it's it's pretty rare for a solo member not to not to be because typically they were in the beginning of this month but if someone was here from beginning but someone was in or is man until the end Isaac it's not just stamina and there would not be any test lumen I heard interesting Shiloh parents maybe grandparents one so much children to eat that they forced the children to eat so let's say the child is so the answer is probably he's enough of a good of a child and Allah so probably he will eat taka to make his parents happy but the truth is it's not a good thing if taka the parents forced to food down to Charles mouth he's not my favorite but I hope it's not to that extent no parent does that you know that you know determined so typically the child does on his own Watson and that attack would be Hive in a book a very difficult situation is when Anisha forgot to like Neighbors and there as we know the Ramon in the beginning of race time or gimbal quotes a Mario in the manhog that that did not like like an extra one call your mail now if you know this is a very traumatic sack for Anisha that's kind of why hazal made it so this should happen again but it's very very challenging the question is when does this apply let's say they were traveling they were stuck in traffic let's say there was the wrong time you know all these stories that it was an onion is not my fault so here's we see that not all ointum are created equal because you look into my real we discuss this is there are five gear size what the story was and I'll read it Isha the mystery Mr la um now you're talking about a very you know wide spectrum of cases because but also that sounds like a you know pretty serious so that's why it's not there's not one clown the police came the magnav does say if she was nensa she was in jail that's a pretty extreme minus the Mr Brewer quotes this as well and that's why this child has to be yes to Australia because if someone leaves late and they get stuck in traffic that's carlosiah whatever it is forgetting is definitely not an excuse the question is if it was an eye in his grandmother the clock stopped him and she should have thought of checking the clock I bet a different clock no a Rob might say that's considered on his grammar but here we see this is very different than Tash Lumen anything less than Meijer and here it's almost five carat anything less than a oinus would be Hive in the Canasta grabbing a police can say if you have a suffix so maybe you could lie in suffer Suffolk but again we can't compare to any uh lion Sim this is the very opposite of Tash lumen happened a few times over covid where people lost their sense of smell see he had a rice misspark making Abdullah and he can't he can't smell them so the question is not for himself we might see the family he'll make a break they might see his wife or children foreign he can't smell Italian so I saw them says he says that apparently the Mahaba held the summer that can't smell is he is but he can't do it oh if he could if he is someone else can do it he's not his brother and if he's not about he can't be married to his family for a different reason that's probably what you're thinking and that is even though I can make a brother just for you that's only I can make just for you and Besame is really in because so that's why it should not be done but at least we see a new angle to our hakira that is it that is or maybe he's an audience that can't do it but he is a frightening silence is foreign process he has to fast 40 days you shouldn't drink wine or eat meat the night of the Dead even though it's not fasting that's I would say 100 is not enough sensitivity to an Aveda now agav the Mr Brewer says that's not like the famous of the naseebus in Rage La medality of cotton gimmel Lucifer says that there's no capora from Israel because foreign like that but more than that I hope that someone will say that today these things are different even though Gimbal and his two of us seems and I now seem say the same thing applies today but one thing I think we could say comfortably talking about there is accountability is driving a carbon if someone did an average that indeed there is no accountability right very strongly be careful not to do any available that's true but again that's only by his is not a held accountable an airless acid though we have the Shiloh during the summer I'm all the area breaks and people don't know you have to stop them so the truth is that's not a shy gig but that's probably a mustache he doesn't know that is that the air is broken is famous you saw it and Simon has you have to stop a massage someone that's carrying should be told now the belt says it kilo came from Sinai don't tell people they are broke doesn't make any sense when did that said only when they won't listen to you but if people will listen about to tell them now if you see someone wielding a carriage don't sit until they get back home because otherwise they're gonna be stuck anyhow if let's say it's a place that they can't stay where they are but basically tell someone to prevent them from doing a massage where it seems one month the entire month was cloudy and it was literally unable to kill this one at any night and one you have passed gonna have to because the Tinus as a Kapoor so he writes I don't understand that he says maybe his Macar was the famous that if it rains on circus it's a cinnamon clola so maybe what then if there's no kitty Savannah because the rain is similar he says who told you that's only by rain and you know it's a whole Suge by rain it's only narut Israel it's only the first night many differences but his point is that it's if a person can't it's an Hyannis don't don't guilt trip and don't make him feel guilty and he brings a Marvel Dicker my real lend him and hug him the gamara says in Russia if if it calls Shawna that they don't blow shoifer Marian law it's very bad signal but that's only when there's a when there was amazing if there's an oil don't worry that's only obviously Bye Bye Bye Bye by soccer there's such a problem of of similar a very important attitude when someone is Apache we had the child of some made a very thorough Boutique for hours the rav says it in tough Lama gimbals is also says so that's a good case we have a few weeks going into Shabbos so after shield and people forget and then they have a problem because if but you don't make any of the shield you can't who but I haven't had to rely on the roof when could someone rely on the roof so here this is because that includes anybody that did make an arith unless he's a poise and basically based on the Morgan of Rome and Steve caught involved you'll look quote in the amster Slimer it seems that anything less than an amazed is included in the revs Arab and you see it's interesting because the the the the concept of Shield is not as strict as La Marshall's by forgetting their Shabbos because you'll if I get once your ladder line the rub a second time that the children says today in our times even if you get many times we are so you know busy if you forget your latter line on the roof like overrides some say only two yum to even consecutively then you can't rely on the road but there's no doubt about it it's clear that this is only amazed or a paise rather I should mention the police can say if someone didn't know the and made Apostle Arab he cannot rely on the roof because that's a javel alone but again the zero tolerance for ignorance that's Taco Bell but basically we're going to say that Earth of shielding is something similar would be included what I found a little challenging I mentioned earlier days why because if you didn't blow sofa you didn't confuse the Sutton the tour quotes the bahag that says not the shot like that if if a son of wars and Shabbos we're in trouble no that not but if someone was an ironist then Maria Mariah but let's say Anonymous happened Frank the Tas and toughkeep at the end foreign if it's a bad sign or not how do you understand this so the emesis could be that just like a person that's dying and he has a life-saving medicine and he takes it he's guaranteed to live but he was and he couldn't take it so I don't want to say what happens to him right or in his life commander of it the gamara here says that if we don't have the ear of Satan we don't stand a chance so in this live Commander obviously what do you mean is that your fault I know but the mice you don't have that life-saving therapy that's called chaifa that's on a simple level the back learns even more simple and he says there's no machlaikis my real and and and the bahag he's talking about anus that's careful amazed and that's taka no good but a real oint is at the back all agree no problem so there's no shot in the first place but basically it's very relieving to see that hazal took this very literally take a beautiful horror the more above the Testament base says that people those that he didn't like should they should give Sudoku to make others who got him hey why aren't they eins him he says that was curve and amazing you have to you have to first check who he gives to DACA to and he gave its time randomly so that's not credited that he should have been more careful moving on to another everyday question a tragic child unfortunately people who ate typhus for weeks or months and it was the best section but something when Sarah waslam the question is is there any children necessary for people that were ointment regarding tarfus so this is quite clear the eponymous has even a bigger someone that found one of the Utica strafe was to be a problem after he ate foreign [Music] rice so how could this be worse he did what he's supposed to it was the best haircut but he trusted it the second God I saw with the exact same child also someone that was a fraud he was like a picture but he was feeding tarafes it's an ionis and he also says there is no true Vanessa he does suggest maybe a chicken or two and don't forget I don't know how to deal with the the the Tim to malade problem because that really we said their mother says even a person eats typhus the shamitzla if ever before so that's something that's out of my range but at least we could say this is on a very weird way considering Exile a coin is asleep and doesn't know someone just died in other words he went to sleep ahead there's no there's no because of Shia and someone died you have to wake up the clay he's in oil and mace foreign because he's doing um quotes this ahead the question is so the embassy is that here we could say I knew you saw it which I think is posted even if that means what you did the 8th office forget about it but if the is ongoing why not stop aid from doing the notice you could stop him you have a choice just like Vegas says that you see something being massaging you have to stop it even though there's no carbon for that so I know Ain is a little less venomous acid but why not stop someone and again another Brewer but it's a thing to think about if you see someone who is a classic Bonafide tinikshan isba his mom is why not stop eating Epstein is that same stickle heat alcohols is no Maisie Issa because a sleeping person is not doing my system but he's being over on the ratsun Hashem that a coins being with Tamela Mason he makes up a new spout that even though he's not accountable for it but that's connected should be in the same oil with the mace whatever the case is that seems to be mascara no one argues Under Armor a coin is asleep wake him up probably more of the story is stop an oiliness Don't Let anointings Go On this will give us guidance to the next Shiloh it's always a player because this is a gemara it's a Mahaba tough Bay Seafood base near there and people are totally oblivious of it the kimara says based on apostic Mighty diba hooksil person that spreads bad news is foolish and that's time it's a issue the Mahaba says if a person dies don't tell his relatives because you know I say bad news I Avail us if they don't know they're Einstein if he has Sons tell them because of kadish the obvious question is but they're going to be over there is Zion obviously if from here we see if someone's doing a variables you don't have to stop him otherwise have to let them go on living happily merrily if they're they're available now Libya Emily it's not Araya because here there's until this is something could be this is less could be this is but at least the point that he seems to say is maybe if you see someone doing an ironus you have to stop him the feet where you understood that this it's not Araya so back that we said earlier if you see someone doing highness you should stop him now the next question moving on so to make a long story short everybody knows the mission spells it out even oinus and no doubt about it why he's gonna say you should be more careful be more careful it's something simple maybe to a child is but one two thing I could say if someone went to sleep and did damage that's a gamara bain air Ben yasu says xiaomi says it's that his father says no if he goes to sleep and he checks there's nothing near him and someone put down something after he went to sleep then he's possible it's not his fault but a regular you are saying is in his damage walks around doing damage in the sleeve am I kidding I could make up the story this is to be careful go in a room and lock the door but you can't be magic other move the island has a question with someone with shika colloid and did damage so Chicago he says the point of tonight is the remind you the shark and Simmons if cotton Bays brings out that even though there's an oil is but a person can get credit for he didn't do why not because he didn't keep the tonight so tonight that he makes with someone else he has to keep it if he doesn't keep it he has a chance to do it again but you don't get credit kill who he did it there's a very big nakama I should mention this is not forget he's talking about someone that has to have a fire for you this kite and he has to have a love for Mitzvahs and such a person with noise and he says just like the scar for moist and small were the same even though they live different amounts of time but he says this is the person can tell us this is someone that the person took him there was absolutely no Shia whatsoever this is in classic and here we apply the Gamora Smith that we have to answer is we kept on saying there's no accountability for anus and that's good until you'll come to Yom Kippur and the very first Apel the very first foreign so because there are many to roots in first of all could be ironus carved lamazid could be a real einfeld someone that was supposed to yarg vayava by desire and didn't because it could be we need a purity a complete purity maybe if he was not careful enough maybe he caused it writes a person has to Daven that he shouldn't calmly day just like now that's probably only I am massive then we do even for that lack of zahiris but again I saw the the points out if someone by Apostles fill in he says you want to do caparus is one thing but if it brings you to atspace that's no good because the person feels geological fact the person doesn't like me that has very bad repercussions I believe you with a a special treat that happens to be in yandereem it's this week's pay Rick but something I always wondered about the mishna in peregdales yes now bitter is very bad why do I have extra kindness but this part two in the amount of material yesterday Sky Harbor has plenty is hard to give you it's like a double to nothing if you battle double if you learn double let's try and miss them so our palms once said based on our mission but he's a bombish welcome and we pass the microphone he has to go to work and every minute of his work but the question is does he is there something wrong he's not learning the whole day depends if he learns when he's not working he learns Sunday and then alongside buses and and along with sorry Shabbos so then we see that taka he was an ironist the rest of the the rest of the year variety whenever he has a moment he uses it but let's say he doesn't and even he has a Sunday off he has a long Shabbos he wastes time so then even though he was an ironist during the week but Dr Flor the famous Athlon the beginning of souvis but let's say yeah he made up the 30 days to fulfill it tonight and the the la Miser he didn't feel the tonight but he wasn't planning on filming it tonight but he's an highness so if therefore if he was attacked even though he's an ironist if he wasn't planning on doing it he gets no scar as an oiliness and it's like amazed so our Palm said that's the shot in the mission when he learned when he battles when he's not there's no excuse then he has to yeah but even when he was working because your anus is not valid because you like that flaw says that La maisa we see that it wasn't dude even if without the highness for all the working time because then I couldn't talk to you um after after his second of this year thank you come on um [Applause] [Music] all right everyone who's staying for the second and not claiming Holiness to leave [Music] is a very real concept based on top soccer mandatory it's very different than a psychic that there is accountability it's a carbon the tire package as we said even if he did the gimbal Kamura is but if he's an ironist the third was so that really gives meaning to the word very literally now a Carvel amazed or ignorance or someone that brings upon himself an onion as he goes away to a place that he can't do a Mitzvah that's a problem but a real oil there is no accountability we did say in some instances are in his life commander of it it doesn't get credit for what he did sometimes we say gets the credit but no doubt about it the avarium either it's Avera or at least this accountability and foreign and only three of the four have cities and it's for convise so we saw that the quotes the sheet of the Mordechai that since he's an ointist he can't put on citizens he's allowed to continue wearing that on Shabbos if the film I found to be puzzled but he bought good quality it was real oiliness so then this is and some suggest any form of tickling a person should be you should wake a person up to do a Mitzvah davening or whatever it is but Friday went to sleep without a husband but even if he won't sleep with husband the police came saying based on the camera that is not enough of an anus just to leave him be mazaki with the mitzvah is a very generous attitude that as long as you're not a shot nephesh alongside amazed there is a testumen even if he forgot even if he was busy because here the ick is it shouldn't be amazed Mitzvah of any form are really Potter if he was an iron and significantly the entire man of the Fila there's no teslumen if there was even beginning then there's a big silica they force someone's it's a fool down someone's throat there's no broker or he ate willingly against his will because of reform in the in the first case there's no broker said in the second case abraca is said if a person forgot the light near Shabbos it's more common than any than a typical case it's very different than Tash Lumen and unless it's a real highness there should be an extra class to light the action there a person has no sense of smell should not make a block of summon for others definitely needs to um doesn't when someone sees an a broke you should tell people not to carry unless it's an it's a motivation situation if it's even missed kid is Livonia there's no children necessary that's their brainstorms rocks and Earth of ceiling can you could rely on the rub unless there's a Poise twice should investigate to shouldn't be uh because then there's no scar for that if people ate a person or people ate typhus and they would attack an oyenas there is no sugar necessary of either symptom but there's no chuva a coin is asleep should be you should wake him up because the the maiserver is taking place tell someone about the Patera Dominic today as we do but it seems that if he's not no does not know of the Tira then there's no Bittle of the sieve of Avalos but typically one should stop and only some continue to another that seems to be the right thing to do magic is Hive unless it's gone depends if you want to sleep ahead because that's the real oil has many different meanings but again a regular a real onus is tuckered there's no ornish at all and those that use that time have the great offer of yeshuys Harvey connect them