How Do We Find Inner Simcha? - Rabbi Aharon Pessin

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I said and what are you done what are you talking about yeah no sense I don't know but they're giving you another 30 days to learn 30 how are you not gonna be the same huh year round let's go back in The Time Tunnel all the way back to pasha's an amazing test a test of the Acadia what was the Nissan can we be are we allowed to be provocative Shayla now what you say what's the big deal it seems like the Pinnacle the top of the line the tenth test the hardest test of all seemingly it's not hard at all mavinu is the biggest believer in Cloudy soul in the world entire he taught the whole world there is such a thing called wants your son he can't take him what are you gonna do you're gonna hide him in the basement you're going to put him in the Attic you can run but you can't hide what are you gonna do with your truck and you're going to say no I'm not in this game is going to be powerless he knows his passport number he even knows his shoe size so what's the test is the biggest smiling but he doesn't believe that he just spoke to ibane a father is going to do it he taught the whole world you have to do what Hashem says so what's the test it sounds like a provocative Shayla everybody has this the malbeam it's Hashem is the son of the Avenue he says if a form is going to do it or not I thought he's gonna do it's a form of Eno the test was I know you're going to do it but how will you do it with what emotions will you display will you have a big smile from ear to here or will you go around checking him with a tissue about face all about simcha did a foreign did he pass the test I'm sorry this one goes to shach this one goes to be simha but who told you how she brings it from the medish who says the medicine is right no so who says the test says the Chevy took the knife he picks it up as a belt to slaughter yet suddenly a basket comes out from Heavenly voice emanates and says don't do it don't do it wait a second how can everyone hear their voice is [Music] shrina can't reside on a person you can't have communication with above Allah so it must be the reform of you who passed the test because otherwise he wouldn't be able to hear the bascal from Sherman you know what it means just imagine if you know is going to do the test he's going to do it no matter what says but it's kind of hard so he's not going to be sad but it's not going to be the same if you're not the SIM card you don't hear the past gold from him and if you don't hear the basketball from that comes out and says but you didn't hear it guess what you're doing you're taking the mahales you're taking the knife and you know what that means why are we all here today because thousands of years ago our Collective grandfather did one Mitzvah because if he wouldn't be it's like if there was behind there wouldn't be any Yakov there's no Yakov there's no 12 shift and if there's no worship they come there isn't any of us tonight sitting here so while you were here because grandfather of mavino did one Mitzvah one mitzvah foreign and that is just remarkable base said to Ula when you're going up there you're going to meet my brother Robina is an Autumn godoil this is sending my best regards what does it mean he said so he explained once he was able to be soyman and he didn't stop smiling the entire day you know what that means just imagine you're walking in the street you meet a friend and he's just glowing he's ready and he's so happy so he said to him tonight no mitzvah no your grandson's priest opinion no no why are you so smelly why are you so happy today after shakers I said my two chapters of the healing he went well Hashem you would think the guy's nuts that smile is more appropriate for winning the lottery but that's how we should feel when the two people that you said in the morning went well he was once and he didn't stop smiling the entire day that provided him calls him is an Adam this is do Mitzvahs bring us simra riddle two-point question you know what three points who was the happiest yid in Claudia soil the happiest seed ever what do you say about my son and who told you this secret did you meet him who told you he was the happiest I need a source was happy who told you so much all the time I need a resource a position I'm looking back a little before him oh is love there was no one happier than them that's what the mother says suspected of being with their wives say s suspected Claudia soil suspected that he stole the money that they donated to building the Mishka the language of the meddish is that they would walk behind moisture abeno and they would say why is his neck so big and wide what do you mean why because every night he goes to a different restaurant eating on our account he's using our money what is there to be so happy about when that's what they suspect of you and if that's not enough say went to depart up there in the mountain came back alone and cloudy so I looked at him and said excuse me you went together with someone where's your brother because I'll say that cloudy soil told him you are cruel maybe you were jealous of Owen and you killed him not to be believed was the happiest of all men what do you have to be so happy about foreign he was murdered by his own grandson King menashe while he was hiding in a cedar tree so there's really something to be happy about huh you know they're just traveling here you know this journey that whatever gives us is a tremendous opportunity for kilova sashem and when you have an opportunity it's for kirivas Hashem you have to be elated and therefore it's not a Wonder that is some say you'll be able to tell you'll be able to leave to get out to get rid of all your problems all your Towers the key is foreign but with a big smile on your face and then you get a nice title at Sadiq the government in history says the advantage of men over animals is with his ok his laughter and wisdom I think I think it's implied says that if one doesn't use it and laughter he resembles more an animal than a human being yes he may have two legs and two ears he looks like one of us but if the advantage of us over animals is one doesn't use it so what's the difference between him and the animals it was an old man in Maybach his name is and he told a remarkable story when he was 16 years old he entered hell that we call the Holocaust there were three thousand guys in the camp they used to sleep 10 guys in a wooden plank life was hell so one day he's 16 years old and this guy grabs him in the middle of the camp and starts beating him up breaking him to pieces and he's bleeding and he looks at this guy says what do you want from me he doesn't even know the guy what did I do to you he says what do you do to me what did you do to me and he keeps beating him up he says stop what did I do to you why are you doing this says you're going to find out why come with me to Barracks number 10. Barracks number 10 there was an older guy in the camp he was served as the arbitrary of the camp if the udines is at a fight they would go to him he was like a judge of the camp so they go in front of him and this judge says what's going on he says look at me look what he did to me I don't know this guy and I don't know why he did it I didn't do anything to him so the judge asks the guy who did it why'd you hit this young mind 16 year old schleiber says what do you mean why because I saw a slow man smiling twice today and the judge looks at him says so you're not allowed to smile here anymore so what do you mean we are starving to death when one is starving he doesn't have questions to smile so if shloime is smiling that means he's not starving to death but how can that be the Nazis didn't give you one ounce one one crumb extra so how is it that he is not starving obviously he's cooperating with the Nazis and therefore they're giving him more food he is correct a smile and if one is cooperating with the Nazis I have to beat him up so the judge says to slame has a good time on you listen I'll tell you the truth a few months ago I was able together with a bunch of guys to smuggle into the camp appeared feeling and since that day not even one day passed by the ball Hashem I missed feeling every single day I put my parents feeling and every so often when I'm walking in the middle of the day I think about it it gives me such it gives me such that I put my parrot fit in and I show to myself my loyalty my dedication my commitment and it gives me such simcha that I'm able to beat the subtle in his own house no I don't try to cooperate with the Nazis I try to cooperate with the kodesh gives me simran therefore I smile what do we smile from it is famous but the God my villain said we have a lot of mixes what's the hardest mitzvah hardest Mitzvah of them all to be happy straight eight days during circus not so passionate you know what it means to be happy not when you're sitting in the Suka and it's beautiful weather and the food is delicious it's even when the schwiger is driving you nuts when the food didn't come out so well and the kids don't listen eight days straight not to wipe off that smile if we're talking about simcha there's another mitzvah simran his wife's heart how long do you have to make your wife happy let's read a password together foreign English how long does one need to make his wife happy one year you sure and and after 355 days what are you supposed to do let's read the password again try to look at it with the eyes hadow below says we don't know how to read look what the person says there's all kinds of directors here foreign now comes another directive system no expiration date if they wanted us to only glad her for one year this should have been at the beginning of the Apostle in the middle of the passage is the teacher said the first three are termed for one year thereafter our new directive it's called apparently you gotta do that as long as you are alive married to that wife have an observation so how do you achieve that simra four days ago in partials by Sun and we read this voice says to him look I I heard that you guys are The Originators of this old business called religion maybe you can share something with me I'm not too good with that so yeah yeah you know we have the Ten Commandments and the guy says oh yeah yeah I heard about that but but I don't know what it means can you share with me what it means so sure do you know we have what do you mean he says or commandment says don't murder so the guy looks at him says what do you mean they had to tell you don't murder in order for you to stop murdering that's not impressive at all anything else it says yeah we have low signal no Steel what do you mean so until they told you you used to go around taking other people's belongings that's what it meant not impressed at all do you have another one before I leave so sure we have Lois enough don't commit adultery he says what type of people are you they had to tell you to stop and the guy starts walking away the heat grabs his arm and says listen buddy you understood nothing you think you understood you think they have to tell us not to murder means you embarrass someone publicly it's as if you spill blood test if you don't go to visit the sick it's like you spilling blood by us that's going to kill him if you don't escort your guest that's as if you killed him you know what Lois signal to us means you borrow something from your friend but without his knowledge without his permission only for two minutes I didn't break it didn't damage it at all you put it right back where you took it from to us that's called stealing don't commit adultery sanhedron small town you have a grocery store somebody comes and opens up another store right next to you the camera downstairs he defiled his friend's wife that by us committing a lottery and so it is with all other Commandments don't make yourself a statue and start bowing down says that you did that go you think anyone is in his right mind will fashion a statue five minutes ago and will start bowing to it down to it now when it can break in two minutes who would do that you know what it means to us don't make yourself a pestle stay away from becoming arrogant is respect your parents they have to tell us to honor our parents the only reason we're here is because of them you know what it means to us sometimes calls and sometimes calls the srinage has to do with the Middle East have strict judgment no that he said both came together from the same place there's no two entities up there there's only one and that is why when you read the passion you get ready to get ready every week every week it works well but why say what twice a year completely throws you off you come to show you think you know it you know it cold and the balcony is waiting in a totally different way because the time the sign under the words telling us how to sing it a little bit um with the time with the sign above the words and it's totally different the tune is different and you connect and separate different words why is that because when you read the Ten Commandments is an individual you got to take it to face value shut up you see enough calls this beloved children he says come come come to my house because I'll say the basic necess is calls us and he says I want to talk to you as a nation he talks to us time is not just a sign that allows us to sing the words of the time is also a flavor a reason speaks to his children in a different sphere so the guy can only understand the shot but we understand we are unique if something says you know what the definition of the word kadosh is separated and elevated and when agoi looks at us he's supposed to say wow these people are special yes they look like me but they're separated and they're elevated and we have to feel that we are special that we are unique you know what it means that we are unique a young man once again I said can I asked the question says yes when you put your shoes on you have to put the right shoe on first then the lift you tie your left shoe then you tie the right says this young man tell me who really care how I put my shoes on he has economies to run he has Wars to conduct he has 10 billion people to sustain he cares about how much his shoes on what's up with it system before we answer the brilliant answer episode the same question was asked to the Steinman and left Steinman said where does this stem from where does this Allah come from it's two opinions how you should put your shoes on right foot first maybe the left the game over says we'll do both and that's what we have this compromise this combination writes you on first then the left you tie the left you tie the right ask Diamond what's the connection to your mind if I put my right shoe on them the left I tie the left and the right so I'm God fearing individual mime what did I do what's the connection explained every single day we make multiple choices from the time we wake up to the time we go to sleep how should we get dressed what should we get dressed with what should we eat how should we eat what should we look at what should we not look at what should we listen to what should we not listen to what should we say what should we not say and it goes on and on and on and on and has to stop every single sentence wait a second wait a second foreign so does it make a difference are you gonna tie your shoe maybe not but it makes a difference to you because you have to bring a college boho into the picture throughout the day no matter what you do answered he looked at that young man and he said to him tell me what's the difference between you and a guy you get up in the morning do you wash your face do you brush your teeth I said yeah eat breakfast says yeah it does the same you guys rest yeah the boy does the same you go to work yep the boy does the same he comes back from work he eats you eat you go to sleepy he goes to sleep so what's the difference you know why the guy washes his face you know why he brushes his teeth because he's afraid he's going to go to work and everybody's going to run away if he doesn't you know what he gets dressed because he's going to be embarrassed to leave the house otherwise because he wants to look why does he eat I mean why because he is hungry why don't you go to sleep this is tired why do we brush our teeth in the morning yes it'll be nice to take care of the people around me but you're about to use your mouth to praise to pray to him you can't come with a dirty vessel why do we eat you're allowed to be hungry but we eat in order to have koi after surgery why do we get dressed because you're a prince you're a son of a king and you need to represent the king in the most honorable way why do you go to sleep yes you're allowed to be tired but when you go to sleep because you want to have tomorrow to save them that that eating and that sleeping is called Toyota it's part of your learning Toya says after we finish what do we say Israel therefore increased so many 30 minutes as you know why because the college bro who loves us so he says listen anyways you're going to put your shoes on in the morning along the way anyways you're gonna eat before after two minutes is right there you're going to sleep don't be like the guy is so he threw us so many diamonds along the way throughout today so whenever you do something you have another opportunity ah you're saying sometimes the mittens are hard but if a Mitzvah is a diamond so the harder it is the bigger the diamond is the more valuable it is so bend there I want to pick it up with two hands so you're asking me does it make a difference I put my shoes on I don't know but it makes a difference to you you're becoming a millionaire another Mitzvah another Mitzvah another another today can't tell you how many times before that with rebellious that's all almost every morning and it's so inspiring to govern with another the language of the police came is like counting money every single word counts the prime always will lose a finger watching The Sitter word for word not only in his private one so also in the Hassan's repetition so it's very very inspiring so there was aid about 350 years ago that wanted to have that same experience and he went to daVinci's foreign so he comes to his town and he stands right behind the bjones this morning and I be honest and says such beauty but this guy noticed that the unison skipped over one blocker Hashem he didn't say it's a penny in his eyes he said I barely just missed it I'll come back tomorrow he comes back the following morning and he stands right behind him and lebunes and says again the same bahras with such beautiful cavana but he doesn't say so he goes over to the guys in the show and says do you know that the the rabbit here doesn't say ah are you talking about Canby so he says to him come tomorrow morning the following morning six guys stand behind the building snapshots trying to listen and take he doesn't say it he says all the others beautifully he doesn't say what do you do with it so they went to the local basin and they said to the base then it seems that the bianism doesn't say this but if you understand is greater than the Basin so the base didn't couldn't call him over they went to him and they told them yeah you don't say go in the shoes every morning and they'll be honest and smiles and says no so they asked him how come he says he'll tell you it's very pleasured I get up in the morning I open my eyes I see whoa there are nine billion people on this planet and for whatever reason chose me to be part of his elite team the select group called Claudia soil this is no one luckier than me I say my mother I wash my hands and then I think to myself well not only to select me also gave me and he expects me to learn this Divine letter and I get Eternal reward for it I just won the lottery and I get up in my room and I start dancing and I say so to answer your question why come back to show them can't say it again already said it in the morning that is supposed to give us a um once came in the morning today and he asked the boys last night was the elections in the United States who was elected for office and they look at him and say you you aren't the politics you weren't the news and before they couldn't believe it but they answered him after he said you never care about the news but now before you need to know and he says I'm sure I was about to say that what do you think I have a kavana for a homeless guy in the subway in New York everybody is Happy enough to be him even the president of the United States the most honorable person the most powerful person in the entire world Hashem I am not him I wanted to have the more Covenant than I can in saying this you know what it means they have simcha doing mitzvahs gear was once in in the shoe and a young man comes in average so he's about to put his feelings over to him he says to him can I offer you something he says what do you mean I'll give you fifty dollars don't put your tooling today just today come back tomorrow and put him on what do you mean heavy it must be a joke right no no I'm serious Hospital it's just him I'm going to give you a hundred dollars cash just don't put your feeling on today what are you saying system oh it's not enough is it fine fine fine fine St number you need the money I'm gonna give you a thousand dollars cash don't put on food in today but tomorrow you can come back put your Twitter how's that deal system what are you saying why are you doing this he says I'm gonna offer you fifty thousand dollars cash I have here cash don't put your children on today only one day you're willing to do this so he told them fails I'm gonna give you one million dollars foreign cash just for one day don't put your children and he says even if you give me 20 million dollars I'm gonna put my filling on what are you saying looks at him and says to him did you hear what you just said now you just said that the midst of that feeling is worth you at least there's got to be more than 20 million because for 20 million dollars you're not willing to separate your mutually so it must be worth more than 20 million dollars to tell me how is it possible that you come in here this morning and I saw you yesterday and two days ago and you're not smiling how's it possible if you want today 20 million dollars in the lottery you think I would be able to erase the smile off your face how about they not the entire day but you're saying you just want to have more than 20 million because the fitting is worth more so how come you have a tissue my face that feeling is supposed to make us elated but not just that feeling any of them is this is foreign he would be embarrassed whenever he talked to people because he was short and fat and that's what the mother says that's why it's called he was heavy and he was small you know how small he was outside it was kind of short made him a king over the entire world so what are you missing what else do you need to have simcha a few more inches in a few less inches in the belly area and that's what's going to make you happy you see a person can have everything in this world but if his focus is wrong and what I don't have he is not going to be simra why can't we be happy with what we have focus on what you do heaven Hashem we have so much of his time about 400 years ago he brings some reason he writes a remarkable thing before a person is born says to the Angel takes take this drop take tipazoo and take it to the storage house where I keep all the bodies and the angels shows each person all the different bodies on the shelf and he asks him what would you like choose whatever you want and a person chooses his own body says you see from here no one should khalilah get any tightness any complaints why am I not this why am I to this continues and says that the angel says to the person after he selects his body some selects beautiful bodies tall handsome and the angel says this is what you chose for the this world and the next you're going to be the opposite and if one chooses not so elegant body the angel says to him but in the next you will have the most amazing amazing and body whatever that means because obviously it's spiritual and therefore says how can you ever complain you chose your own body and if you don't feel happy with it in this world that means you're going to be very happy with it in the next to be like to be like Haman that the whole world bows down to him but there's one guy really old long white beard I eat and he doesn't bow hold so the whole thing is not worth it it's a big Market in Maybach he just passed away five or six years ago Bianca legalinski once came home and he gave his kids a litter he folded up and he said don't look at it don't look at it but please make sure when I die make sure that I'm buried holding this letter and they said Tati what's shot what does that mean can we look at the letter and he says absolutely not don't look at it but make sure I'm buried with it and it became a thing in their house for years every so often they would say can we look at that letter and he said no no no no but don't forget bury me with that letter for years and one day he came back from chakrish and he says to his children remember that letter that I once gave you to be yeah sure sure you don't need to bury me with holding me this holding this letter anymore really what happened no no don't worry about it so can we look at Adele so yeah if you want to I don't understand what's going on they take the letter they open it up it was the letter from the khazonish foreign to my dear friend galinsky anyway similar so they read the letter and they said that we don't understand what what's the connection why did you want us to bury you with this letter this letter has nothing to do with your burial and why now suddenly you decided you don't care about it anymore he says I'll tell you I always thought when I go upstairs after 120 I may have some serious problems so I figured if I have any issues up there in based inshallah I'm going to say look I have a very good friend here his name is look he wrote me a letter and he calls me his friend please call me call him over he's going to take care of me so they said okay we're here we're here so how come you decided you don't need it anymore he says what do you mean how welcome because today says Dad you go to Daven Shockers every day what's today different than yesterday says yeah but today I actually looked at what I was saying foreign we say every single day you took your friends and you allowed them to cross the sea accordingly his friend the person says your friend and your father's friend don't leave Rashi explains who is your friend is called our friend so after I saw this this morning you are my friends I figured is a great friend there but I have a better and stronger friend up there foreign yes he's the king yes he's a father but it's also he is your friend how can you not be happy imagine you have connections and you can somehow get to see the mayor not talking about the president the mayor you're going to be kind of Happy and if you establish a nice strong relationship with the mayor with the governor how much more so the president you are so happy but here we have a friend who is not a mayor not a boss of Adam after four years leaves the office and he calls us our friends and there's no intermediary there's no broker between us to use those connections himself how can we not be happy I but every so often khalilah there are challenges Apostle came to heal him tests what does that mean the sound of your thunder is in the wheel literally translated foreign sometimes you hear a thunder a little kid dies a young man has cancer the list goes on you know it very well just have to read the news I'm not advocating to read the news but I'm saying if one happened to listen to every single day is something else and you don't understand why is it is it the language of the benef you have to understand it also has to do with gilgulim with previous rounds we are coming in into the movie after it started thousands of years ago five thousand hundred five thousand seven hundred eighty two years 11 months and a half and we think we have to understand everything now you just came into the scene if you don't understand certain this join us says the benesh you can hang them it may have to do with previous and that removes a lot of the challenges that we have you know the government a few days before his daughter was supposed to get married she died and a week later the government Villa's mother came to him in a dream and she said to him if you knew your reward for accepting because you accepted this strict judgment with love you would have danced in her funeral more so than you would have danced in her khupa only one well for that double triple wow foreign this idea fell into my head and I started playing with those letters and I said wow this is too good wait a second I'm the highway I just parked on the side and I had to write it down to see if it really works it works minamitza hamita is trouble suffering challenges challenges difficulties all those uncomfortable things that we want to avoid in life isn't there a Superfluous letter here we can do it shorter how would we do it shorter what do you have to write would you gain I think minamitza indicates the torch the panemius the kishkes the inside of the Maidstone so let's look into the mates of what's inside that meter Hamilton is spelled into helium hey mem Sadi Resh in Hebrew every letter has a revealed part and a concealed one for example alef we see the alif part but it has a lamid and a failure inside aleph is built alif love mid Faith so let's look what's inside the Mata hey you spelled hey hey so we have the outside part the revealed part is the hey and the concealed part is another hey let's put that hey aside ma'am is spelled mem so we have another mem inside that's the conceal let's put it together with the hay from before Sadi is spelled Sadi dalid so we have that Sadi is the revealed part we have the dalid in you then we throw it together with the hay and the meme so we have a shin let's put it along with those hidden letters you know what the inside of the major spells the words Yad Hashim so if you're realizing that Sarah himself and you call unto him he makes it real wide and you're able to pass but to know that it comes once said over that he remembers that he was in the Yeshiva of Lublin with shapira founder of the darfurumi and they once went together to visit one of the bahrim who was very very sick his bedridden he couldn't do anything and they were sure that they were going to come in they have to get him and he's probably going to be very sad and who knows so they got ready what are they going to say to him they go inside and the guy is so cheerful he's really happy he's not faking it he's smiling and he's happy and remember Shapiro says to him tell me I must ask you how can you be so happy why are you so happy this guy says something that we must carve on our hearts he says you know I found myself in bed and I can't move it's already months and I started thinking what is my avoida everybody has an avoided in this world what is my favorite what is the one for me and I remember there's a chameleon based on with base srina the shrina is found by a person's bed by the Sick person's bed so I figured I know what my avoida is my avoida is to bring the shrina down for whatever reason selected me that I should bring the shrina down to this world but then I remembered another giveaway which we mentioned before shop is based the shrina cannot reside not if you said that if you were do you using or involved in Carlos Das only if you're involved in Sim so I figured I must be to do my avoidance my avoid is to bring the China down to make sure that it stays here mayor Shapiro said that it was so powerful and we must say it over to Future Generations so what are the switch simpler switch that we need to press in order to make him happy I think there are three switches that we can press in order to become happy the first one what does that mean to be happy with your lot what does that means it may have a few interpretations first of Allah no matter what you have whatever who gave you that means that's exactly what you need for your avoid decision which is different than somebody else's avoid decision and if you sh would need something else you would have it so why would we ever be envious of anyone else you have exactly what you need you're allowed to ask for more if you want to but who says no that means you don't need it that's probably the deepest meaning is exactly what I'm ever going to need other way otherwise they would have a different Relic foreign we actually all have a spark from the Heavenly Throne that's my Helix who gave me of his how can you not be happy there was about nine billion people in this planet made me his Relic he made me a part of his elite team how can I not be happy foreign that you have focus on that and that's going to give you tremendous simcha switch number two tough question how many minutes do we have in the Toyota be careful before you answer 6 13. did you count them Brave individual did you count them who told you the 630 misses who told you monuments seemed to be saying that the smug and the smug they all count 613. I'm sorry cities this is 6 13. that's true but they all stop at 6 13. is numerical value 611 and two more we heard from moisha 6 13. great the stapler zatal ibrahimski's father said we do not have 613 Mitzvahs anymore we used to have tayak mitzvahs Unfortunately today we do not have diagnosis you know what we have today problems the stapler that's all we have obstacles restrictions and we somehow want to get through the day avoiding the obstacles somehow getting above over those humps on the road to be able to do what we really want to do to be able to go where we really want to go we should view them it's this is problems the Mitzvah shall be viewed as opportunities we have 613 opportunities from the Twitter and we have thousands that are born on each opportunity we said before is an actual diamond and if the diamond is really really big I mean it's really really more valuable than a regular diamond so the switch for simcha is if you realize every Mitzvah along the way is another chance to become a millionaire another diamond in the pocket how will you not be happy says Alma Laker you don't get reward for the Mitchells you perform in this world in the next one you'll get plenty reward but says that's true for the actual Mitzvah but where for the display when doing the Mitzvah you get rewarded in this world so it's a worthwhile investment and switch the third switch the button that we have to press you know Hashem I'm frequent to their homes are always happy what is that what is there in their homes for example talk about there was nothing in that else there was for him there was some story there was also some spelling but otherwise it was nothing oh there were also some spelling but there was nothing else he didn't even have a phone he never spoke of him over the phone 94 years not even somebody else's phone are always happy and seemingly it doesn't make sense did you ever lose your cell phone your car keys when a person loses something he looks bothered he's not happy you're driving somewhere your ways doesn't work and you open the windows where is it where is it I'm late for my meeting when one is searching he is not happy there is only one type of search that you've engaged in that activity you're happy and that's Apostle we say every single day the healing Hashem your heart is going to be so glad and that's right they're always in search they don't understand the sugar but they're looking for they don't need the big expensive furniture the big homes the cars they need kill for like him and when you seek for a kodashburger that's going to provide simcha yes who's going to be happy Hashem if we are true Seekers we will be happy as I said before I was talking to myself you happening to be listening to a private conversation you decided to I didn't ask you session we should in fact be able to press on all those three different buttons to be true Hashem and then we will have everlasting simcha [Music] shame here because you're tired as much as possible character a person with a very inspiring Joshua a bus I take the opportunity and sponsor is annual dinner on next Wednesday August 24th and our boss is retired throughout the year worldwide called English retire at 718-851-8651.com you're concerned I would like to dedicate and be dedicated tonight's year with the nishma old friend and supporter of moisture capital is all right